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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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9	If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it? I do agree that the key is to not really care. Few things intrigues a woman more.	/r/seduction	31/10/22 10:48 PM
4	If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it? I always had great success announcing that I don’t put out on the first date early and often.	/r/seduction	31/10/22 10:40 PM
2	Unpopular opinion: The only reason to learn music is to seduce people. Well you seem like a peach.	/r/seduction	31/10/22 09:02 PM
3	Unpopular opinion: The only reason to learn music is to seduce people. You can disagree but you would be incorrect about what the purpose of a university education is. It’s not shop class.	/r/seduction	31/10/22 08:58 PM
2	Unpopular opinion: The only reason to learn music is to seduce people. Chicks dig artistic types.	/r/seduction	31/10/22 08:56 PM
0	Unpopular opinion: The only reason to learn music is to seduce people. No, university education is not supposed to be a vocational program, actually. You’re supposed to receive a well-rounded liberal education.	/r/seduction	31/10/22 08:56 PM
142	If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it? Say you don’t care if they do or not because you really like them. That’s it.	/r/seduction	31/10/22 01:38 PM
2	If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it? Sir have you ever met Catholic girls.	/r/seduction	31/10/22 01:22 PM
363	If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it? Women often say I’m not going to have sex with you right before they have sex with you, just to see how you react.	/r/seduction	31/10/22 01:21 PM
1	What to do after maximizing SMV & lifestyle? Literally just talk to women. All advice beyond the basics is half a scam. You ever see a dog do a really wild trick? And you’re like wow how did they learn to do that? They didn’t. They already did something close to it and they were trained to do it on command.	/r/seduction	29/10/22 05:53 PM
1	Why are men so obsessed with women? You’re letting on more than you realize, champ.	/r/seduction	29/10/22 05:49 PM
5	Hit list There are so many reasons not to do this: it’s creepy, the law of attraction isn’t real, a girl you’re with could find it and, last but not least, never sleep with your neighbors. Ever. Imagine walking your dog with the girl who ghosted you staring at you from the porch.	/r/seduction	29/10/22 05:46 PM
1	Please help me stop seeking validation from women Never get paper to turn plastic, bottle your actions and stop chasing your satisfaction through bitches’ reactions.	/r/seduction	29/10/22 02:09 PM
3	No bs, are my standards delusional? Is this. . .is this a joke? Romance doesn’t work like this.	/r/seduction	29/10/22 02:01 PM
1	Tom Brady discussion: Limits of status—when women fall out of love there’s no turning back Or, y’know, he agreed to retire, retired (apparently at her request over injury fears and so forth) and then lasted like three months before he un-retired. That’s a big thing to immediately backtrack on in a marriage.	/r/seduction	29/10/22 06:10 AM
5	Did I misinterpret my co-worker's behavior? Don’t fuck your coworkers. Don’t even try to fuck them. Your life will be better for it.	/r/seduction	27/10/22 12:49 AM
0	Dealing with a girl who is a little too cocky at times? I like self confident women, personally.	/r/seduction	27/10/22 12:48 AM
13	Women are more superficial than men. Key learning: if a girl ghosts, it's probably because she didn't physically find you attractive My guy, you made a post about how a “kiss really meant something way back in the 2000s. . .when the dominant women’s fashion was somewhere between upscale street walker and escort who strips on weekdays.	/r/seduction	26/10/22 05:46 PM
5	Women are more superficial than men. Key learning: if a girl ghosts, it's probably because she didn't physically find you attractive Yeah, the 2000s when most girls were running around in Paris Hilton miniskirts so short that their bare ass was constantly hanging out, that was a real chaste time.	/r/seduction	26/10/22 05:43 PM
23	Women are more superficial than men. Key learning: if a girl ghosts, it's probably because she didn't physically find you attractive Just so I’m clear, you consider yourself a student of game and you’ve reached the conclusion that women-women-are more superficial about looks than dudes?	/r/seduction	26/10/22 05:40 PM
6	Why am I cute and not hot? You’re generally either one or the other and stuck with it. It seems to be mostly about your facial shape and features. Cute works just as well though so who cares.	/r/seduction	15/10/22 10:35 PM
8	what cold approach lines work well in galleries? I’m going to tell you exactly what to do: find this old multi-part PBS documentary called The History of Western Art or somesuch at the library, take the DVD out, watch it (it’s not super exciting). Thus armed with knowledge, when you want to hit on bougie chicks at art galleries or museums or whatever, you will be able to approach them while they’re looking at a piece and talk about it. With practice you can even bluff your way through complex convos.	/r/seduction	13/10/22 04:00 PM
4	"Men fall in love with what they see and women fall in love with what they hear. That's why men lie and women use makeup". How true is that? And, in that case, what are the right words to make that happen? A good rap with women can overcome literally almost any other disadvantage. Being funny also a big plus.	/r/seduction	11/10/22 02:15 PM
3	Quite a few girls have thought that I was gay when they first met me? Allow me to introduce the concept of the dandy to y’all.	/r/seduction	10/10/22 01:51 PM
1	"Work on yourself bro" is actually bad advice for young dudes It’s absolutely terrible advice. This stuff is all an experiential skill. You can’t learn not doing it.	/r/seduction	10/10/22 01:49 PM
2	The game the game the game To paraphrase an extremely old movie, nothing’s any good unless you have someone to turn to and say, “Nice sunset, huh?” It pays to keep that in mind. Women can make your life better but you gotta be doing something else too. Also doesn’t hurt that being really into something is attractive to women.	/r/seduction	24/09/22 03:29 PM
2	Don't women get bored of the same questions. I used to not entirely jokingly say throughout my single years, thank God men are so unbelievably inept at talking to women or I’d have to work a lot harder than just treating them like an actual person who has value outside sex.	/r/seduction	24/09/22 03:23 PM
19	Don't women get bored of the same questions. I discovered this accidentally and it’s absolutely true. I ended up with a girl enormously out of my league when I was young because I was the only one with the balls to just be like, what’s up. What dudes say they do approaching women and what they actually do are two completely different things.	/r/seduction	24/09/22 01:37 PM
12	Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high value Let me stop you at “girls aren’t complicated.”	/r/seduction	22/09/22 10:36 PM
1	What should you do, if your personality doesn't really work? The biggest red flag for me when I was dating was a girl who would say, “This is who I am and I can’t change.” Ma’am, human beings are supposed to evolve as they get older.	/r/seduction	17/09/22 04:13 PM
1	What should you do, if your personality doesn't really work? Who told you you can’t change your personality? I was very serious and angry and to be honest genuinely frightening to people until I was like 23, when I made the choice to try something different and it worked, like, pretty easily and within a couple years it was who I was. Changed it again in the last few years now that I’m retired from the game. You can stay the same, not a big deal, but if you want to spit G, be a player, fun and light-hearted is where you have to be.	/r/seduction	17/09/22 04:11 PM
2	Would European women find a 5'10 1/2" (179cm) American man wearing elevator shoes that bring him up to 6'1" (185cm) more attractive? You don’t need those shoes. You gonna be a Latin dude in Europe, that’s already putting you ahead of the game, and an exotic Latin dude at that since you aren’t from Spain or Portugal. You good my guy.	/r/seduction	16/09/22 07:14 PM
17	How to not make my virginity a negative? Something along the lines of “I’m super picky.” Girls understand being super picky. Don’t take it into “I’ve been waiting for the one” territory. Just I’m picky.	/r/seduction	16/09/22 07:09 PM
5	7 tips on how you can confidently approach group of girls! Six and seven are the problem. Again, if you’re going the Patrick Bateman route I’m sure you can achieve middling success with it. Women are wise to this shit. If you ignore the girl for awhile and then talk to her, she’s almost certainly going to think you hit on her friends and now you’re down to her. If you try to break her off from the group, one of her friends will come after her. You really want to get a girl wondering, talk to her, find a shared internet or something and then studiously d…	/r/seduction	16/09/22 07:06 PM
1	Conflict : The game and internal This prepackaged game stuff doesn’t work. Game is about improv. Even if you don’t have comic timing, you can blatantly steal lines you hear irl or fictionally that sound good and remember them so you always have a snappy comeback with the right setup.	/r/seduction	16/09/22 06:36 PM
17	7 tips on how you can confidently approach group of girls! These dudes have to overcomplicate this shit to sell their product. This is the easiest thing in the world as long as you don’t get all upset over being shot down and practice. Rule number one is stop being like “I have to get this specific girl,” “I have to get laid tonight,” and the like, you will be miserable.	/r/seduction	16/09/22 06:29 PM
13	7 tips on how you can confidently approach group of girls! I honestly don’t get this, do you want to be happy doing this shit or do you want to bang chicks like Christian Bale in American Psycho flexing in the mirror? Because this is how you do the latter.	/r/seduction	16/09/22 06:25 PM
1	Why do women have little to no respect for men that are unable to attract a woman? Tricking yourself into believing that trickle-down economics has literally anything to do with sleeping with women is you fucking yourself over.	/r/seduction	16/09/22 03:20 PM
80	getting the number.. No no no. This will not work. You are only attracted to her because she’s one of the only women not taking her clothes off in the room. The waitresses and bartenders get hit on more than the strippers. It is folly.	/r/seduction	16/09/22 03:16 PM
2	Why do women have little to no respect for men that are unable to attract a woman? And that’s why they fall for artistic types and street dudes constantly, because of their great economic prospects. Never seen people that talk themselves out of even the chance of getting laid like this. Shit is a sickness the last decade.	/r/seduction	16/09/22 02:50 PM
3	Why do women have little to no respect for men that are unable to attract a woman? OP is leaving out something huge here. At first I thought maybe it was a “you’re too good for where you came from” deal, which I went through myself, but come the fuck on. I’m on the fence whether any of this is true.	/r/seduction	16/09/22 02:49 PM
4	Why do women have little to no respect for men that are unable to attract a woman? Bro. This is not how any of this works.	/r/seduction	16/09/22 02:46 PM
1	What’s the difference between ‘telling the girl what she wants to hear’ vs being a “nice guy”? Women can sense desperation.	/r/seduction	11/09/22 01:19 PM
1	Why do people say a girls body count isn't a red flag for an LTR Yeah I loved dudes like this when I was single. Come tell you, oh I was gonna mess with her but it turns out she’s worldly and sexually experienced! That’s a real shame, says I, now excuse me as I step right past you to see what she’s up to.	/r/seduction	11/09/22 01:16 PM
15	Why do people say a girls body count isn't a red flag for an LTR Because the older you get in a world where people don’t get married until their thirties, the more ridiculous you realize the societal standard is. It’s a social standard designed for a world where twenty years old was the average marriage age.	/r/seduction	11/09/22 06:29 AM
2	Advice on age gap I didn’t ask if you drank. I said, only date girls who can legally buy alcohol. That is the hard line societally once you’re like 25. Anyone will assume that if you date 18, 19 year olds it’s either because you’re psychotically controlling or can’t get a girl your own age.	/r/seduction	07/09/22 04:34 PM
27	Advice on age gap You can’t move them off of this belief no matter how hard you try. All that stupid alpha/beta stuff has permeated American society down to the bedrock.	/r/seduction	07/09/22 04:32 PM
4	Advice on age gap Only mess with girls who can legally buy alcohol. That’s it. That’s the rule.	/r/seduction	07/09/22 04:28 PM
2	What does it mean when she comes to your place in obv baggy, non-racy clothes No, no one gets mad at you for watching a movie quietly when you’re watching a movie. Homeboy did something to make her pull the parachute cord.	/r/seduction	02/09/22 02:10 PM
5	What does it mean when she comes to your place in obv baggy, non-racy clothes Nah, like literally anyone will stay until the end of a movie out of common politeness unless you actively do something that makes them leave. No one comes over to watch a flick and bails after an hour for no reason.	/r/seduction	02/09/22 02:02 PM
75	What does it mean when she comes to your place in obv baggy, non-racy clothes Probably should be more concerned about why she left halfway through the movie.	/r/seduction	02/09/22 09:31 AM
8	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt... Fifty six? Nah son.	/r/seduction	28/08/22 06:04 PM
1	What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”? Every girl in the universe instantly knows this is a trick. Act like you did something wrong and they’ll assume it’s much worse than whatever you’re telling them.	/r/seduction	28/08/22 11:28 AM
33	What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”? Where you guys are going wrong here is that most girls aren’t turned off by the fact that other women like you. I was the “I’ll bet you do this with all the girls” guy in my twenties and they would never believe I wasn’t even if they really were the only one. Will they get into a long term relationship with you? Answer unclear. But they will sleep with you.	/r/seduction	28/08/22 11:26 AM
428	What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”? Full stop. If you try to swerve the question or minimize it, that’s what will make her bail. I would always shrug and say I’ve always gotten along with women better than men and leave it at that. If she’s asking she already knows it’s not a low number. The mistake is lying about it or acting guilty.	/r/seduction	28/08/22 02:23 AM
0	How has woke culture made it more difficult for men and seduction? I’m not sure it’s ever been easier to get laid than it is now. Maybe the 80s pre-AIDS.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 06:14 PM
1	If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ? No, I definitely am not and never was, you just used to be forced to socialize or stare at the wall before high speed internet ruined the world. It’s an experiential skill and everyone’s got a million excuses now why they don’t have to try and fail and feel embarrassed. ‘Cause some other dudes who aren’t trying either agree with them on the net.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 05:12 PM
2	If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ? Uh huh.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 05:06 PM
5	If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ? Stop telling yourself this fucking nonsense. It’s not true. It’s literally eugenics. Bro, I am a painfully average looking dude, it took me awhile to grow into that, grew up in the ghetto and have a fucking stutter and all you have to do is have a set of balls, learn how to be mildly charming and not come off as an abusive creep. But to do that you have to go out and fail a bunch of times. It’s the only way you’ll learn. Stopping at nothing and staying there because someone used sketchy ass OLD …	/r/seduction	20/08/22 05:05 PM
1	If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ? There’s no way dude doesn’t spit G though. No one who’s not model hot racks up big numbers like that without personality.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 05:00 PM
3	If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ? Try asking a woman.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 04:58 PM
1	If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ? Ehhhhhh, hundreds of women is a fucking stretch. I spent a good chunk of my twenties as a nightclub bartender, serially single, women paying you to get them drunk is like chicken paying you to eat it, and I don’t think my lifetime body count cracks a hundred.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 04:57 PM
3	If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ? Basically you start by stealing lines from standups or shows/movies that fit common situations. Go obscure though. Then you start to improv and expand from there. It is a fair bit of work, and extremely literal minded people simply don’t have senses of humor, but women are not lying when they literally all rank sense of humor in their most desirable male traits. Laugh the panties right off.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 04:52 PM
1	If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ? And if they’re hitting anywhere close to that number, if you saw the girls they were sleeping with, you wouldn’t be impressed at all.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 03:32 PM
6	If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ? That is why you fail.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 03:31 PM
26	If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ? “Ninety eight percent of the population is undateable!” “So how are all these people getting together?” “Alcohol.”	/r/seduction	20/08/22 03:00 PM
16	If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ? I’m usually not big on this kind of advice, but you will find that most women-most people-have an accessory that they wear that feels sets them apart from everyone. Figure out what that is and compliment it. The real secret is that if you actually listen, when you talk to other girls you’ll know about stuff they’re interested in and want to talk about.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 01:38 PM
109	If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ? Don’t listen to most of these jokers, the easiest way to get laid is to forget about all this dumb shit and try to have a good conversation where you talk about yourself and also genuinely listen. The only cheat code except for being drop dead gorgeous is to be funny. Which is something you can learn.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 01:33 PM
31	If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ? I am a man and you should never, ever believe the numbers other men are telling you they’re pulling.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 01:30 PM
-2	If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ? Dude. You asked what the step by step process was to make a woman emotionally attached to you. It’s what started this exchange. We can all see it.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 02:45 AM
-5	If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ? I didn’t imply it, I outright said it. And if you’re asking how you can fake an emotional attachment, you don’t just like being around women. They can sense it, y’know. The desperation. When you act like that.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 02:40 AM
3	If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ? There is a pattern, the easiest way to sleep with women is to actually enjoy being around women and talking to them.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 02:36 AM
11	If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ? There’s no cheat code, no matter what people tell you. You have to learn to talk to women and not come off as a creep, period. It’s an experiential skill.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 02:31 AM
5	If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ? What is this edgelord nonsense.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 02:28 AM
4	if i know almost for certain that i'm attractive and still don't get play, does this mean i lack inner game? Hard truth is if you can’t get laid in those situations, you’re doing something seriously wrong that scares them off.	/r/seduction	15/08/22 02:09 PM
17	Went from incel to 2 lays in under a month but still have a lot left to learn Just so I’m clear on this, you want women to have sex with you in booty call type hookups and see you less and you don’t want to spend any cash on dating and you don’t understand why this is not working?	/r/seduction	15/08/22 01:54 AM
1	How to initiate a sexual interaction with a woman (Need advice) Uh, I think it’s because you’re not trying to have casual sex, casual sex is dating, you want a booty call. Not the same thing. Please tell me you’re not telling the girls this up front.	/r/seduction	15/08/22 01:50 AM
33	Getting girls is easy Twenty percent actually wanting to go out with you is a respectable batting average. You need to look at it like this: how many people out of a hundred do you really think are physically attracted to you or your personality wins then over immediately and why do you think it would be more than twenty?	/r/seduction	15/08/22 01:45 AM
2	Stop telling guys to get abs and build muscle If people worked as hard at having presence as they do trying to get ripped, you’d only really need to eat moderately healthy and do just enough exercise to stay in okay shape.	/r/seduction	20/02/22 02:27 AM
1	Cold Approach Or? Yes.	/r/seduction	19/02/22 02:36 PM
3	My conversations always start well and end poorly. If you stop caring-not look like you stop caring, actually stop caring-after a half hour of talking, of course they’re going to lose interest.	/r/seduction	19/02/22 02:34 PM
7	The gym is not the end all be all solution to get you laid Damn, that seems like a lot of work just for sex. All I’ve ever had to do is take a shower, wear decent clothes and have a good rap and I’m painfully average looking. When I went through phases of lifting seriously, it made things like twenty percent easier at best.	/r/seduction	19/02/22 02:30 PM