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You misunderstood almost every point of mine that you challenged. First off I specifically said being able to fuck a guy won't at all cure loneliness. I specifically said she can just choose to date her level and then have an actual relationship. On your second point I never said it was going to be an amazing fulfilling relationship. Even dating your equals they can still be complete assholes, abusive, aloof, etc. Everyone's capable of being an asshole, handsome or ugly. Your third point I do ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:56 PM
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I don't know what you mean. Simping to me is usually guys raining praise upon a woman they have zero chance of getting and would never give them the time of day but will allow them to cash app her some money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:07 PM
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Yeah but in most cases that's their choice. They would rather fuck a dude who's a little or a lot out of their league and will never commit to them because of it than have a relationship with a guy on their level. Men straight up do not have that option. We can't just "well in the meantime I will just fuck this chick who's too hot to commit to me because she has better options until my equal pops up one day". Those kind of guys just have to sit there and be truly and fully alone while their own …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:54 PM
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The only part I disagreed with was it them saying men hold a disproportionate amount of the power in dating. It kind of lends validity to the whole "too many women any man but Chad is invisible". Like yes when 80% of men just straight up don't exist to you then yes that small sliver of men hold a lot of power but that other 80% or more have zero hour. Blah blah blah men thirsty in a desert women drowning in an ocean etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:19 PM
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Oh you're 100% right. Most people aren't doing the math on what comes with dating a guy of this level or dating a guy of that level. I'm a bit of a sperg so I definitely tend to quantify things. I understand when I'm dating a particularly attractive woman that a little bit more stress and responsibility comes with that. If I recognize she's beautiful then so does the rest of the world and I have to worry more often about guys shooting their shots at her. Just like I think a hot guy is more likel…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:39 PM
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I appreciate that you're the first person to acknowledge the Halo effect. You're not totally delusional. But I do disagree that ugly or unattractive men cheat or are just as misogynist as handsome rich guys. Like I get the argument you're making If you're going to get cheated on anyway might as well go for the hot rich guy. But logic would dictate a guy who gets women like it's nothing would be more likely to start thinking of women as nothing. Very replaceable. A man who gets a date every once …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:12 PM
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I'm not sure what your saying? I'm guessing your saying NSA sex came easy so if you were willing to date the woman or not wasn't a factor. I don't know how else to put it. There's been a thousand threads on this sub about exactly what I'm saying. That's why the say girls who are 5's get to fuck a dude who's a 9 and are "stuck on her highest setting". She thinks because a hot dude out of her league is willing to come dick her down that she pretty much is capable of getting a man of his level to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:08 PM
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Okay I get what you're saying now. So are you telling me you've never slept with a woman that you had no intention of dating because of her looks? I think most men have. I would say just ballpark over half the women I slept with I wouldn't actually date and most of them were no frills just come directly to their house and have sex, watch a movie and then leave. I'm not a complete asshole, I'll stick around to cuddle but I know a lot of guys are even colder than that. Not always but in general a …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:48 PM
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I don't know if you mean six as in her looks on a scale of 1 to 10 or if you were living in a fucking polygamist house or something I don't get what you're saying lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:16 PM
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You're saying there's no such thing as hot dudes who go fuck women that are below their level just because it's easier? Because literally every man I know even average dudes will go fuck well below average women just because she will let you slide through at midnight and not expect you to take her on a date. A hotter girl will make you work, spend money, build rapport, etc. You sound like you have very little experience in the dating world if you're not aware of these dynamics. I myself have pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:05 PM
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The Halo effect is a real scientific researched thing. A recent study even demonstrated it affected grades teachers give to students. And I even more recent study demonstrated how it's affect was substantially quelled when students had to do zoom classes. Suddenly attractive students grades were going down. It's not porn. Nothing I said was porn related. I've watched porn probably twice in the last 9 months. I'm not some porn sick zoomer. It's disturbed to think guys who blow through women by th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:57 PM
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Are you talking about the women who guys too hot for them are willing to fuck them but not date them? Their orbiters because they're trying to land a guy who's too hot to keep but he's willing to slide through at midnight to get his dick sucked?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:56 PM
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What are you talking about? I'm not one of these ignored average dudes. I know it sounds like bullshit But I'm actually pretty handsome and have a hot girlfriend and do pretty well dating. I'm speaking for people like some of my friends. I got two guys in mind specifically. They're incredibly sweet and much nicer men than me and neither of them have had a girlfriend in the last 4 years. They just don't get any matches or women receptive to their approaches. One has a girl he talks to but she's u…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:52 PM
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Nope. I even said there are hot charming nice guys. As there should be. If you're hot as fuck and you have the halo effect and everyone's treating you great because of it you have no reason to be a rotten piece of shit. Everyone kisses your ass including other men. Even with that I would say 70% of really good looking ripped tall dudes are at least moderately to severely misogynistic. If You are a guy who gets a date or girlfriend every once in a great while women are going to be more precious t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:48 PM
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That's fucking rich. So what you think the 6'4 tall hot guy who fucks 5 women a week somehow thinks women are more precious and special and doesn't just think they're disposable fuck toys? Yes there are handsome charming good dudes and misogynistic ugly fat nerds but by and large those super hot desireable guys see women as being disposable cum dumpsters because they come so easy and they can have anyone. A lot of you ladies like to justify ignoring the actual good guys back in your friend zone …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:32 PM
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Yeah I consider six slightly above average. But based on my dating history I know I'm capable of dating girls significantly prettier than that. Typically when I'm single like my last stretch of 8 months being single for every eight or nine I managed to sleep with I'll sleep with five 5's and 6's. During that 8 months single I probably slept with five legitimately pretty girls but many of them slipped away until the girl I'm currently dating. When I start talking to an especially pretty girl I ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:45 PM
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Yes. Most men would like sex at least daily and if your standard is only 9s than for many men you may only get laid once a month but we will still mostly fuck the 4's 5's and 6's in the mean time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:24 PM
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Yes or her body is pretty solid but her face ain't pretty or a bigger girl with a pretty face. We can narrow in on at least 1 or 2 aspects of her that we find attractive enough to sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:22 PM
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Those prestigious jobs are for like 5% of the population. Maybe even less so cut that in half if presumably half went to women. Maybe there's a little truth to what you're saying but it just seems silly to worry about having access to a position almost none of them are in the running for in the first place. I think the desire for trad lifestyle legitimately comes from not liking the state of our society and the slow collapse. Even before the SAHM 50s where women did their work at home women have…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:12 PM
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Good work brother, and smart to try to wrap up the medicine in that bacon that is known as DEI/woke nomenclature. That's the only way you can get through to these people. You have to disguise the truth with a little bit of their bullshit.
/r/MensRights19/05/24 08:32 PM
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At least you admit it here. You're arguing with the top commenter otherwise further up the thread. Then on the way down I see a whole bunch of dumbass comments from you. I actually agree with your study but you come across as completely unlikable. Calling women "alpha male posers". You don't have to be so damn sensitive and high strung.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:39 PM
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Oh yeah I think that played a big role don't get me wrong. I think the state of our modern culture, career prospects, student debt, inflation, etc has had a profound impact on both genders amongst the youth. I like to think I'm not that old but damn I was taken a back when I found out how many young men still live at home up until 30. I think it was around 50%. It just seems like a lot of young dudes are suffering from arrested development and I can understand why a young woman wouldn't be attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:48 PM
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Both. I say this as a man in his late 30s. I was recently single for 8 months and just trying to have some fun and yes a lot of the shit young men say about girls on dating apps is true. But it also seems like young men are weaker and have less to offer than ever. I couldn't believe how many girls were impressed with me just having my own place or the fact that it wasn't trashed. Like I'm supposed to have that much going for me at least. They told me a lot about the kind of guys they run into in…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:25 PM
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I mean sure that's on social media but obviously people are also thinking this IRL. Not all people probably not even most people but there's definitely people who you know personally who would secretly judge you. If how attractive she is and how great she treats you outweighs that then fuck them. But there will be a not insignificant amount of people who will think a little less of you over it. Also I think the situation is different if you're older people in a relationship and her children are …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:22 AM
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I mean based on the video I saw of him he's definitely a creep I just don't know the legal status anymore. Like most people I just saw the headline yesterday I didn't read anything about it. Yeah though I can put myself in your shoes. Obviously I'm a pretty MRA guy but I still have empathy and I wouldn't want any woman in my life that I care for to feel uncomfortable just trying to do her job. I don't think you were offended because he was just fat and bald, Even if he was a handsome Adonis that…
/r/MensRights26/04/24 10:40 AM
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Well that's fucked up and I'm sorry you had to deal with that just because he's a big fucking spender. I was just watching a video yesterday of one of Weinstein's incidents and it was just so weird watching this woman have to do this dance of accepting flirting from him and inappropriate touching because she doesn't want to blow a deal for whatever company she represented and he's powerful and could have thrown a lot of salt on her company. I know realistically she would be considered difficult …
/r/MensRights25/04/24 10:12 PM
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What sane person is pushing back against that? I know there's people who do shit like that, I've been around them but I think almost no one would protest you being offended and not want have to deal with that person ever again.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 12:42 PM
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They sure try.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 09:38 PM
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No doubt, there are other sources but like I said I was going to sleep and thought that one got straight to the meat of what I was saying when the other ones were using synonyms for leadership qualities and I know the person I was talking to would pretend that's not accurate. I'm sure they have studies that demonstrate women put a lot of stock in men having leadership qualities. Apparently if you put words like "leadership", "men" and "women" in Google all's that it wants to show you is that wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:42 AM
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I'm sure you feel that way but I don't believe most women do. https://indepthwoman.wordpress.com/2016/03/25/do-women-really-want-men-to-lead/ There's a bunch of other writings about this. They definitely want to look to you as being the stronger of the two. When the going gets tough her man can handle it. Yeah we should definitely delegate responsibilities to each other's strengths but strength in men is an expectation, in women it's a big bonus. I looked to my woman for tenderness, nurturing, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:11 AM
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Yeah that's fucking unhinged lol. I do agree with life 60% of what he said but the rest just sounds like he's really young and unexperienced. In general women do want solid men that can lead them but also take their input into consideration and make adjustments based on that. Almost no woman wants to be just straight up controlled as he kept putting it. I have had very good conversations with girls I've dated or friends and most of them agree they want a man They can look up to who makes good de…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:00 PM
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Yes yes! Now you're getting it!
/r/MensRights18/04/24 06:16 PM
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I think the problem is we don't pay teachers enough! Everyone knows about the wage gap so they pay women teachers even less! If women teachers were paid more they would actually have something to lose! It's not their fault! We should blame their husbands for not showing them enough attention and love!
/r/MensRights18/04/24 01:20 PM
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I'm not sure what you're getting at? Are you like saying they would pump and dump? Because I know plenty of dudes to would be willing to keep them even with a shady past if they're hot enough. Including myself despite my supposed standards 😂. I think all these dudes you see online are just blowing hot fucking air. Yes obviously we want a girl with a low body count, no children, and all that other stuff that indicates she's unencumbered by her past but when push comes to shove if a very pretty gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:21 PM
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This is my little apartment setup: https://preview.redd.it/yabsiiob5iuc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5cd9e8903f373d9fe32a6d9a9b3a5c331b46d786 You can sometimes find crazy good deals on marketplace. I got all that weight and all the bars for about 150 bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:09 PM
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I am. I was a gaunt pathetic mess when I went into prison. I was hooked on opioid pills whichever I could get my hands on. Got to the point where it was going to start being heroin so I started taking xannies instead and then I caught my case. Came home two months before COVID, did shitty jobs like janitor, landscaping, painting for cash, odd jobs on NextDoor app. I even bought returnable bottles from people during COVID and saved them up in my dad's garage and returned them all when they allowe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:07 PM
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I don't know. I just know dudes are willing to overlook and actually date girls who are very pretty even if they have a shady past. I think the standards are way lower in looks, usefulness, compatibility, etc for what a man is willing to just fuck and use as a sex doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:42 PM
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Holy shit bro You completely misread what I said. I said 90% of men would be thrilled to have her and keep her. And I was just mentioning my own fucking desires to have a woman who's actually useful and not just a pretty face. I wasn't saying she's fat and somehow that's related to cooking. I was taking your side completely in that that guy is a lunatic and he's speaking on shit he can't have, obviously she's very attractive Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:38 PM
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Yeah she looks damn good honestly. There's just dudes out here who like their girl to have an ass like a shovel and want to be able to play the xylophone on her rib cage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:31 PM
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That's an isolated incident though. I think pretty much all men would be willing to fuck her and 90% of men would be willing to keep her. That dude just was justifying why he doesn't actually want what he isn't capable of getting anyway. I and pretty much everyone else I know have done worse than her and would be thrilled to have her. In my case as long as she's not a complete lunatic and she brings something else to the table besides looks. I would be willing to turn the dial down slightly on h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:25 PM
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I was in prison for 7 years. Only worked out the last four. I lifted 4 days a week for about 75 to 90 minutes. I didn't have access to creatine or whey protein in there. Just a shit ton of milk and pouches of mackerel with a ramen noodle. I would have a honey bun or something like once a month. I spent all my money on mackerel and buying milks from people. Down to my last year and a half I started doing two and sometimes three a days. 5 days a week and worked out six days a week total for 10 to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:36 PM
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I'm not claiming to be a giga Chad I'm not even a damn Brad. Giga Chad you have to be at least 6 ft. A Brad has to be at least 5'9 and up. I think I have the looks and physique of a Chad-lite I just don't have the height. Also I have a lot of intangibles that I think most men do not have. Despite me ranking myself as attractive I'm actually a pretty humble dude and very well read having read somewhere from 400 to 500 books in prison mostly nonfiction like sociology, anthropology, political scien…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:12 PM
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I did a home invasion. First degree. I didn't hurt anyone but I did get stomped the fuck out by the police in their house and it made a bloody mess. It's definitely considered a violent crime it's a 20-year felony. I'm not a violent guy though, I'm much more formidable these days from lifting in prison but I walked around like 5'7 125 to 135 most of my adult life before prison so it's hard to throw your weight around built like that so you operate within what you can get away with. I was mostly …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:00 PM
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Relatable. I'm not autistic but I was definitely scared of girls in my early years. My first serious girlfriend was 16 to 19 but she went to a different school like the old joke. She was far enough away that she didn't hear about how unpopular and uncool I was at my own high school. Also she wasn't like very pretty or anything. Her mom took a liking to me and helped me get my GED and tried to get me into the Air Force. My girl ended up going to Princeton. I tried to track her down since just to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:50 PM
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Nope, Metro Detroit area.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:42 PM
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I agree for the most part. I think most attractive guys are not all around dick heads or bullies. And why should they be, It's life on easy Street if you're 6'2 with low body fat, a nice physique and everyone treats you well. They do develop sharper better personalities because they get positive reinforcement from girls and get plenty of practice. But there is a significant fraction of dudes who are attractive and like emasculating other men in front of girls. I for the most part have dated attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:00 PM
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I got a girlfriend I've been seeing for 6 months. And I'm not a Chad dude I'm 5'7 lol. I don't even think I qualify as a Brad. Chad's and Brad's used to shove me against lockers to impress Stacy's. I grew up poor as fuck. I had a few girls who liked me in high school but only because they were new and didn't know I was a poor kid yet. Don't worry all the Stacy's pulled them aside and told them they can't be seen with me. It got a lot better when I became an adult and I could work and buy nice cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:46 PM
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Why? Did you mean leave this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:38 PM
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I think the way it works with women is men are maybe more willing to overlook a woman being slutty or having absolutely zero to offer besides their looks. Which is true. Also prettier girls get graded on a curve. What's really annoying when an overweight girl does it is actually perceived as being cute when a pretty girl does it. I've caught myself feeling that way but I have enough awareness to curtail that and not treat a girl meanly just because she's not pretty or she's chunky. Most dudes do…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:36 PM
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I agree with you. Not every hot popular dude is a dick head and guys who aren't blessed with looks can sometimes perceive guys who are as just being cocky assholes. With that said for the most part I think a lot of women are willing to overlook dick head energy if the guy is hot enough. Matter of fact the dick head energy is partly what attracts them to the men. He gets his way, he makes shit happen even at other men's expense, he can make them bend to his will and maybe he can use those powers …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:31 PM
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I agree wholeheartedly with you. https://imgur.com/gallery/mvR8TLc https://imgur.com/gallery/XjIonnZ I'll let you guys decide if I'm attractive or not but I'm told I am by most girls I've dealt with. I am right of center politically but by today's standards I'm a straight up fucking Nazi and in the 8-month stretch I was single I dated a bunch of girls many of which were very progressive. They pretty much put up with whatever the hell I wanted to say that they completely disagreed with but would …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:13 PM
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I do agree young boys and teens do this. I was like this with Barry Sanders and Allen Iverson. I stopped being like that in my late teens and I think with some teens it leads into 20 or so but then you snap out of it and realize you're a grown man yourself and it's silly to idolize other grown men. I personally don't know any dudes past say 20 years old who are obsessed with any celebrities or athletes. A fair amount of girls i know seem to maintain that obsession deep into their 20s and 30s wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:36 PM
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Yes incredibly rich and famous Bald men do very well. Average bald men do face struggles. It's significant enough that I've seen plenty of girls just like when they put in their profile "Don't even bother swiping Right if you're under 6 ft tall" I've seen more than my fair share of girls saying the same thing about bald men which tells me it's a pretty common thing most women just don't think to put it in their profile. Men wouldn't be so stressed out about losing their hair if it didn't impact …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:27 AM
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They just throw it around because they think it hurts the most. They throw it at dudes who are like 45 with a wife and four kids. It doesn't even mean anything anymore. Like being called a Nazi or a racist. It's been so watered down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:04 AM
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