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TheRedApprentice/r/askTRP18/10/20 05:42 PM
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It's just a shit test.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:34 PM
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Yeah I realized shortly after I posted this that just saying "fuck it" and going anyway will give me the answers I'm looking for.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:32 PM
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This pleases me.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:31 PM
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Idk how to fix it as she blocked my number. RIP.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:30 PM
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What's your view on this? Meh. Her cheating was some other guy's problem, not mine. Fuck it. Would you ever take that girl seriously? No, and it's not for the reason that she's a cheater. It's for the reason that she was dumb enough to tell me that she's a cheater.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 05:56 PM
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Yeah. I get that a lot with my ink, too. I used to explain them but I got tired having to do it all the time so now I always just tell them "I felt like getting a tattoo, so I got one."
/r/askTRP01/07/20 11:22 PM
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I try to avoid contact with my mother and her whole side of my family whenever possible. I had drawn that line when she refused to apologize or even listen when I described how a lifetime of abuse (negatively) affected my adult life. Instead she became angrier and said some pretty fucked up stuff. A couple of days later she tried to kick it under the rug like nothing happened. Nope. Hell, no. I've no room for this behavior from anyone in my life, no matter who they are.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:30 AM
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Yup. We do. Funny thing is, I don't even know what the fuck flex means and that's what they write on my schedule. I'm four shifts in (including my ONE day of training) and I've considered peacing out twice, already.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 09:58 PM
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I just started my new job at a department store last week. I work in the fulfillment department, at which I first thought, "great! no customers!" Then I realized that I often have to be on the sales floor to pick up the items required for all the orders before I can hide in the basement to prep them for shipping. I spend more time doing that than anything else. I haven't had any bad customer experiences, yet, but it's only a matter of time. You know how AWALT works, right? No exceptions? Yeah? T…
/r/askTRP18/06/20 01:40 PM
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Absolutely not.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 02:13 PM
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A lot, but not enough to make me worry about it. I've been through wicked dry spells before, much longer than the one I'm in now. It'll pass, dude, sometimes you're just unlucky.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 12:45 AM
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If they like you enough, they won't give a shit. I'm 5'6" as well and while I would love to be at least a few inches taller, my short stature isn't even close to my biggest SMV problem. You can't do anything about it so it's not worth thinking about. Plus, I find that most girls generally don't care about height as long as they're shorter than you. The average height for women is 5'3"-5'5" so you're good.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 12:40 AM
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getting there. relax.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 07:56 PM
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My summers used to be packed. Road trips, beach days, concerts, festivals, house parties (I still remember the banger I hosted last summer as if it was just last week), day-drinking and aimless wandering around wherever-the-fuck my friends and I wound up, and unfortunately lots of wage-slaving as well. Things are different now. I don't know yet if this is a good or bad thing. Most of my old friends that I did all that fun shit with are long gone. I don't drink anymore. I'm not working as much as…
/r/askTRP14/06/20 05:23 PM
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man, chill. it's a steep learning curve for some people.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 04:55 PM
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Crabs. Your friends are actual crabs.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 12:22 AM
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Everything I had to know is in the title. She's gone cold People don't "go cold" when there's nothing wrong, or even when it's something fixable. No contact for 7 days now For an LTR? Yeah, that's weird. It's over, man.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 04:41 PM
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Antidepressants are notorious for decreased sex drive. Talk to the doctor who prescribed it and see if there are any alternatives if the problem becomes too much of a nuisance.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 03:34 PM
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It's just oneitis, man, you're gonna be okay. This is something that happens regardless of the woman's value. Just let it run its course and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 12:23 PM
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If you have to ask for nudes you've already shot yourself in the foot.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 12:21 PM
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I'm thinking of making her mine Just as a plate, I hope, because if she's going to do this to her current boyfriend she'll do it to you too.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 12:20 PM
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You handled this well. You didn't force yourself to do something you were uncomfortable with, and you were honest. These things combined made for a significantly less difficult situation than it could have been. I've bowed out of sex due to stank puss before. Only one time has it ever been that bad. I don't blame you, dude.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 01:22 AM
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Does anyone else feel really scared to voice your opinion on [...] Nope. I feel like if you don't agree with the masses, then you will be ridiculed [...] Who fuckin' cares?
/r/askTRP06/06/20 02:27 PM
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Oneitis recovery happens that way. You feel like it's starting to get better. Then it gets incredibly worse. Then it slowly starts to actually get better. Just keep doing what you're doing and let it burn until it doesn't. Learn from this pain.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 11:46 PM
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It's strange how this works. People respect people who don't give a fuck about being respected by other people. If you fearlessly express yourself and refuse to give a damn about what others think of you, they're going to like that and in turn, you... but if you truly don't care, this popularity will be meaningless. But, if you try too hard to make yourself likable (you can do this by feigning apathy as well), it is very easy to notice and you're not going to get the results you want. You're act…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 04:12 PM
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Have you given up on yourself before? Yes. I spent the majority of my adult life not giving a shit about myself and destroying my body. What did it take to turn things around? Absolute fuckery and the realization that I didn't have to live like that. Most of my problems are fixable.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:29 AM
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Sterling Archer.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:19 AM
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This is a thing that happens when you get Oneitis. Learn from this. Stop getting Oneitis.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:18 AM
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I don't drink either. I only go on dates with women who don't care that I don't drink. Easiest way to handle it.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 11:29 PM
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You're... 17, my guy. In ten years from now, possibly even less, you won't even remember her name. Also, I'm not sure what you're looking for by posting your diary entry, here. You've explained your situation, but how do you feel about it? Why did you feel it was important enough to bring here? What the problem is?
/r/askTRP29/05/20 03:22 PM
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Foreplay is good for that. Find out where her erogenous zones are (sensitive areas of her body that turn her on when touched/manipulated) and take advantage. They don't necessarily have to be genitalia. Ears, neck, and collarbone are common. YMMV depending on the girl and what she likes. Watch and listen. Is she dynamic (moving around) or static (holding still)? If she's just laying there in a starfish position that means she's bored as hell, dawg. Switch it up. Are you hearing heavy breathing? …
/r/askTRP28/05/20 10:21 PM
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It's easy for us to tell you not to entertain it, but when it happens to us we sometimes find ourselves questioning our own judgment, and that is because we are still hanging onto that little shred of hope that maybe this time it will be different... ...except we know that it won't be. Oneitis is a very special little hell-hole that you don't want to fall into. If you already have oneitis or are at risk for developing oneitis, you should cease contact immediately, no matter how hard it is. Don't…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 10:03 PM
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You're doing your laundry regularly, right? If your clothes smell like shit, you will also smell like shit. If you sweat a lot that could also contribute to your problem. No one likes swamp ass.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 07:48 PM
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Flirting, touching, straight up grabbing me by my hair or clothing and kissing me, shit like that.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 04:32 PM
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If you're talking about an in-person cold approach: 100% failure, save one because everyone in that warehouse was on drugs and just didn't give a shit. I've been approached by women before, but was always too pussy to get a number. OLD (online dating) approach: I can't give an exact W:L ratio for this one because I think I have more L's than I can count. Deleted and remade profiles a bunch of times. I've got a few wins, about 5, not including the ones who HMU first. If we include friends, acquai…
/r/askTRP26/05/20 04:23 PM
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I told her I stopped selling but I could find some for her if she gave me a hand job. You took it from 0 to 100 for no discernible reason. Deadass, just stop doing that and you'll be fine. What I said was "ask her why you won't give me a hand job? Why?" You made it worse for, again, no discernible reason. She was probably already shook by your audacity and I have no doubt that this put the nail in the coffin. Just chill the fuck out. Loosen yourself up. That's it. That's all you have to do. That…
/r/askTRP26/05/20 01:34 AM
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Yes! This is exactly the kind of thing I'm talking about.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 07:23 PM
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155 now, started at nearly 200 (upper 190's). Doesn't sound like it's a lot to weigh (I'm sure this is normal for most guys with a solid amount of muscle and taller stature) but for a guy who stands at 5'6" on a good day, it's on the heavy side. If you're short like me, get yourself under 200 and you'll see a difference.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 07:22 PM
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red pill glossary in side bar. tried to link it but forgot that's not permissible
/r/askTRP23/05/20 05:09 PM
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I feel like you're going to get a lot of different answers for this. Personally, if I were you I would peace, hard. I love my mother dearly, but if she did some shit like that to me after I protected her (potentially saving her life), I would view that as a colossal "fuck you" to my face. Understand that you did the right thing by protecting your mother when you could. If she threw you under after that, then it's no longer up to you. I would exit the situation, no matter how much it hurts, to pr…
/r/askTRP23/05/20 04:14 PM
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History can and usually does repeat itself. She may have taken the picture(s) with her ex off social media but could still be saved elsewhere (screenshot, save to camera roll). Expect future shit tests. You're an LTR monogamy (sometimes I forget it's not necessarily the same thing) oriented person so I can understand why plate promotion is an attractive idea to you, but understand that no matter how great the girl appears to be, promotion is never without risk. Also, your hesitation should be a …
/r/askTRP23/05/20 04:08 PM
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That's a shitty situation, man, and I'm sorry to hear about all of that... But I think this is the wrong sub for your diary entry. This is asktrp. What are you asking? What advice or clarification are you looking for? Edit: original post was edited to fit required format
/r/askTRP23/05/20 03:57 PM
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and i zoom
/r/askTRP23/05/20 03:39 PM
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I think I was a little too young for texting when it was a pay per message system. I was about 14 when going on and on back and forth became a thing (13 years ago). Right before QWERTY keyboards were featured on phones (good fucking riddance T9 and abc format). At that time IIRC, depending on what plan you had with your carrier, you were only allowed a certain amount of messages per billing period. If you went over that amount there would be an extra charge of I don't even know how much because …
/r/askTRP23/05/20 03:22 PM
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Whats your trick to bang her in her house? I hate to disappoint you, but I don't even have one. That's just how it goes down sometimes. Truthfully, I never cared where it happened and still don't. One lived alone in a campus studio apartment, one had her own house, one lived with her mom and just didn't give a fuck about the noise. All others were either at my place or somewhere public (ish, public area with no one around). So, if it matters that much to you, I'd suggest looking for women who ei…
/r/askTRP23/05/20 03:06 PM
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I couldn't give two fucks less about the other guys in the dms of the girls I want to fuck. My problem with text message based communication is that it leaves a lot of room for miscommunication, which makes it very easy to fuck up unknowingly. I'm pretty sure the text message system wasn't designed for long back and forth conversations on a daily basis. It's for when you need to get a quick message across that's not worth a whole damned phone call. Maybe a short exchange. That's it. If a girl wa…
/r/askTRP23/05/20 02:54 PM
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Some, but not as much as you'd imagine. I think it's mostly the lack of fatness combined with my tattoos, long (well-groomed) hair, and lucky genetics.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 04:30 AM
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You gotta let him figure it out for himself, man. Unless he approaches you on his own accord and says something along the lines of "I'm tired of living like this, can you help me?" don't bring him here (in any TRP space, not specifically this sub). TRP isn't just for increasing success with women. It's for increasing success with life. If he's just after some pussy, then there's not much he can do with the plethora of tools and information that TRP has to offer. If he wants to turn his life arou…
/r/askTRP23/05/20 04:27 AM
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I'm definitely getting more female attention now, which means that's only going to improve from here since I've still got some more fat to kill. I'm approached more often. Smiled at. Treated with respect rather than just being ignored or blown off (speaking of IRL interactions, not online or via text). That's not to say that these things didn't happen when I was still a hamplanet, but significantly less often than now. Although, to be fair, I think at least some of that can be attributed to the …
/r/askTRP23/05/20 04:20 AM
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If she asked you that after you told her you wanted to be exclusive then I'm getting the vibe that she doesn't trust you. Are you sure you want to promote this plate to LTR? Lack of trust this soon can create some big issues later on. Alternatively, it's possible that she's seeing other people right now as well, and is asking you whether you are so she wouldn't feel like an asshole if you were.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 03:20 AM
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I avoid the question entirely by telling them from the jump that I don't want to be exclusive.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 03:03 AM
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[...] I didn't respond to some texts because the conversations were boring Yeah, I ghosted some post-coronapocalypse plates too for the same reason: I got bored. I didn't want to orbit or friendzone myself by having useless text conversations. Understandable, and a smart move. For me, I just didn't feel like wasting my time on a dying conversation in which I had no interest. Maybe they'll be mad af I didn't orbit them all this time? And? Who cares? Find some new girls.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 01:54 AM
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i will feel a little shame afterwards It'll pass. Fat girl regret is common, but you'll get over it and you'll be glad you let it happen. im about to be 21 and still a virgin. Don't stress about it. I was 20 when I lost my virginity and I know people who were older than that when they lost it. I get that there's a certain stigma tied to men who haven't lost their virginity in their teens but if you think about it, no one actually cares. It ultimately doesn't matter as long as it happens at all. …
/r/askTRP23/05/20 12:49 AM
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This looks like a win-win situation for you, bud. You get head and if she wants to tell her friends that you have a huge cock, even better (if they know you too, that is, otherwise it doesn't matter). I fail to see any negative consequence.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 12:32 AM
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the difference between a 22 year old and an 18 can be shocking. Absolutely. We do a lot of growing up during that time, both men and women. its men with none to little sexual experience that are normally the ones who like very young women because they aren't as sexually intimidating to them. I can definitely understand how they might think that way. Before I dated my ex (she was 50, I was 25) I always thought that older women would be better in bed because they were (usually) more experienced. T…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 11:49 PM
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This is exactly why, as of this year, I won't date anyone under 22. I allow an age-gap of 5 years max if I'm the older party. Edit: Before I catch any shit for that, I should clarify: I started that when I was 25.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 11:37 PM
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Why not just enjoy your time on your trip and deal with it when you get home?
/r/askTRP22/05/20 11:28 PM
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I said lmaoooo as like a one word answer Reply that could show her like okay your loss Re: meaningless filler. What part of "lmaooo" is supposed to make her think she's lost anything of value? The reply where you said I sent a follow up text it’s cause I sent them all at once just broken in different texts. Which still gives the illusion of blowing up her phone. Regardless of how you did it, it's still messy. Try to gather your thoughts completely before you send a message. If you spent more tim…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 05:22 PM
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Your first fuck up was when you complained about her only calling you when she wants attention. It's a widely known fact that women love attention and that, in extreme cases, it's pretty much required to maintain their existence. If there was no response thereafter, your second fuck up was the followup text. Your third fuck up was the second followup text, alone. The fact that it's full of cringe is your fourth fuck up. "Call me daddy [...]" Seriously? I was about to say you can do better than t…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:10 PM
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Sounds like a fake, stupid, bullshit reason to exclude you. I think your "friends" are just trying to cover everyone else's ass. If you were truly "over it," this thread wouldn't exist. Sack up and get a new circle of people who actually want you around- and I've seen your post history. Stop going full retard at raves and you might be able to keep some of them.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 01:38 AM
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Stop using twitch. I'd actually recommend reducing your internet usage altogether. Find other ways to occupy your time without attaching your personal desires and fantasies to them.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 01:07 AM
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Nothing notable to report. I've dropped subtle hints pointing to it here and there, but I've never blatantly discussed it with anyone outside of reddit's TRP circle and that goes especially for use of TRP terminology. I don't even need to experience it to know that it is a social death sentence.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 04:06 PM
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You've probably shit tested people before without realizing it. Start paying closer attention to your daily conversations.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 03:48 AM
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anyone else on a dry spell? how do you handle it? Yeah. My last lay was a couple of months ago, but I have a couple of potential post-coronapocalypse plates that I communicate with on a regular (almost daily) basis. Even if I didn't, I could do without them. I'm indifferent to my temporary celibacy. Sex is fun but it's not something for which I feel a burning need all the time. I have plenty of other things to occupy my time with. I think your problem is overexposure. You're used to having sex s…
/r/askTRP16/05/20 01:03 AM
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My immediate reaction to that behavior is "heavy shit test," and it's not one that I see too often. If your sister does this frequently, I think this would be a one-off situation. AFAIK, most women don't behave that way on a regular basis.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 12:26 AM
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This post is a mess. Hypergamy in layman's terms is "dating up." What does that have to do with the use of onlyfans, tiktok, and validation attempts?
/r/askTRP15/05/20 07:56 PM
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Nothing special compared to the younger ones. No better or worse. I was fucking a 50 year old regularly a couple of summers ago (I was 25 at the time) and the only real difference was the amount of lube required.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 08:30 PM
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Good read. Nicely done, OP.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/20 05:12 PM
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Have you LJBF'd a girl? Rarely but, yes, it's happened a couple of times. How she reacted? The first one took it well. Zero problems. The second one was noticeably hurt, and I think a little shocked. HB8's aren't used to getting LJBF'd so I think this was a new experience for her. Do they even give a fuck about it like we do? Some of them do. Some of them don't. The first one was on to the next within weeks. The second one went on a boo-hooey attention-seeking social media spree that is still on…
/r/askTRP14/05/20 04:52 PM
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Because you'd be putting to rest any frame you'd built while you were pursuing and subsequently maintaining a relationship with this woman. Whatever you tell her can and likely will be used to her advantage (and your expense) in the future.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 04:41 AM
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Have you considered not doing that?
/r/askTRP11/05/20 04:27 AM
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It just looks like she wants to do some mental gymnastics with you.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 04:24 AM
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Honestly if I were you, I would just dip out at this point.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 04:01 AM
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That sounds like depression, boss. I would strongly recommend therapy if it's something you're capable of doing at this time, but that depends on you and how far you're willing to go to make a change. It's still worth a shot, even if you end up deciding that it's not for you. Therapy can help you deep-dive into your head and pull up some stuff you may not have otherwise recognized. You might learn some things about yourself that you weren't aware of before. If you have a hard time describing you…
/r/askTRP11/05/20 01:07 AM
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You don't. /thread
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:57 AM
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I mean, it definitely makes people enjoy your company, so I would say that having a solid sense of humor and expressing it fearlessly is a step in the right direction.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:56 AM
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If your height ever comes up in a conversation for whatever reason (don't force it), make it clear that you have not one single fuck to give about it, even if you do. I know a dude about your height that's a colossal piece of shit, generally a low value person, and he has no problem attracting women (obviously of equal or lesser value but that's not the point). I'm not that much taller than you. I don't have the greatest SMV in the world (steadily improving). I don't have a spectacularly high bo…
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:51 AM
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Ride it out, OP. Your dry spell will end. And for fuck's sake, man, stay away from incel spaces. There is absolutely nothing there for you that will improve your situation and before you know it you're going to find yourself trapped in their echo chamber of despair and self-loathing. We. Don't. Do. That. Here. Flush that fucking pill.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 04:03 AM
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That depends on a lot of things: The woman. The shit test(s). What she considers failure. Method of failure. Failure hierarchy (which tests are worse to fail). How many failures she allows prior to judgment. There are just too many variables to know the answer to your question.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:55 AM
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That's... one hell of a reach, there, sir.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:44 AM
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Why?
/r/askTRP08/05/20 11:32 PM
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You develop an abundance mindset by being in abundance. /thread
/r/askTRP08/05/20 10:48 PM
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So... you're looking for instructional sex videos... not porn. lolwut? You have two realistic options, boss. Actually do the thing. Practice makes improvement. If you suck at it that much, she might physically guide your hand or straight up tell you what to do with it. Bite the bullet and watch solo-female porn. Obviously look for the clitoral stimulation ones without the use of toys. If you have personal issues with porn (not gonna ask, none of my business), see option 1.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 04:50 PM
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I'm going to echo some of the other responses here: channeling your anger through physical activity will benefit you both mentally and physically. The more time spent seething in your rage is just more time wasted that would be better spent doing, deadass, anything else. Men have a tendency to convert emotional distress (pain, stress, anxiety, etc.) into anger as a means of mitigating it (edit: used a word wrong and replaced it with a better one). Searing pain becomes boiling rage. So, less pers…
/r/askTRP08/05/20 03:53 PM
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You can't. Once a woman sees you as an inferior male, it's almost impossible to change her mind. Anything you do to improve your status at that point will just have her skeptical of you and your motives- she may even find it comical. Oneitis sucks, man, I'm dealing with it too. Best thing to do in this scenario is move onto the next one and fuck up a little less until we get it.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 03:34 PM
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The only real problem I've encountered post-TRP exposure is allowing myself to rapidly develop a case of oneitis, which I will admit is still lingering. That shit's gotta go, yesterday. I'm trying to fight this with abundance (talking to more women) and finding more things to spend time on.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 11:17 PM
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You always assume the risk of bullshit when dealing with taken women. If that's something you're okay with then I would hope that you're prepared to defend yourself if the boyfriend is a mouth-breathing ape with no other solution than brute violence. Otherwise, it should be a nonissue, especially if she approached you first and you don't know the guy personally. This all boils down to AWALT, as well, and it is not your fault that this man chose a woman who would so easily branch-swing. I know pe…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:02 PM
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Cringe response in my opinion, but I'm just one guy on the internet. I would handle this one of two ways. I would either say something like "how kind of you" or I would just leave it alone at that point.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:48 PM
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Depression and anxiety on their own aren't necessarily red flags, but they can contribute to certain behaviors that are definitely red flags. If, for example, I have a plate who is actively treating her depression and/or anxiety (these disorders tend to be comorbid) then I would have absolutely no issue maintaining that plate. Alternatively, if she is aware of these issues and has not one single fuck to give if they are hurting herself and others, that is a colossal waste of time and energy and …
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:18 PM
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I see this post at least once a day, and whenever I feel the urge to reply I say (generally) the same thing: Your past ain't shit. It's gone. You'll never get it back, which is good, because it sounds like you don't want that shit back. What you did yesterday, a week ago, a month ago, a year ago, etc. does not matter because it is gone. Shift your frame of mind into focusing on the future. What can you do today that will benefit you tomorrow?
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:04 PM
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No problem. Though, in that particular event, I still think the agree and amplify strategy could have served you well. Alternatively, you could have just ignored the shit out of it and carried on. Business as usual, 'n' shit. I used to work in a fast food restaurant and the majority of our low-level crew (which I was a part of because I fucked up a management opportunity- blessing in disguise) saw upper management as incompetent mouth-breathers. They were plenty aware of this and they thought it…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 05:22 PM
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Thanks brotha. Still working on it but I'm in better shape than I've ever been since I was an athlete in high school (almost 30 now). Yeah, intuitive eating works for healthy people, but not for the morbidly obese, especially those who have binge-eating disorders.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 05:12 PM
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That depends on the tone of the insult, since they're more commonly coming from your social circle. Where I come from, roasting your friends is a sign of endearment. My friends and I make fun of each other all the time, which often includes name-calling. If that's what it looks like, then don't take it personally. You can either agree and amplify (similar to the way you could handle a shit test from a woman), or you can throw a jab right back in their face. If it's legitimate insults intended to…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 05:07 PM
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I’ve been suffering from depression for a long time now and sadly it just seems to have amplified over the years. I see that you've been in therapy based on what I've read thereafter. If you're still in it, stay there. If not, I suggest going back. I know there's a lot of mixed opinions about the effectiveness of therapy, but it has helped me identify the source(s) of most of my personal mental health issues (surprise: childhood trauma!) and use that knowledge to work through them in healthy, co…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 07:01 PM
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I think red flags will vary depending on the person and what they can/will tolerate. For instance, I find OCD (legit, severe OCD) to be a red flag and many disagree. Some more on my list are excessive attention-seeking behavior, complacent self-destructive behavior, and frequent alcohol abuse.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 06:46 PM
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Ik this sounds dumb Because it is. Read the sidebar. /thread
/r/askTRP04/05/20 06:39 PM
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If her weight gain and refusal to put legitimate effort into getting rid of it is unacceptable, you gotta next her, man. I had a LTR who behaved in the same way a few years back. She was already obese when the relationship began (I've set a personal boundary since then- no more fat women) but I felt as though I deserved no better because I was still overweight, myself. She expressed a half-assed desire to lose weight for the health benefit. She got "inspired" to do so when she noticed that I beg…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 06:21 PM
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No. Feigning innocence and sweetness is a common tactic to manipulate men into LTR. AWALT.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 04:08 AM
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The past is nothing but time you'll never get back so does it really matter at this point? You didn't do what you didn't do and that shouldn't stop you from changing your lifestyle so that you don't have the same kind of future. You said it yourself, i know exactly what to do and what i'm capable of Cool. Now, go forth and do the damn thing.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 04:42 AM
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Doesn't work that way for everybody.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:06 PM
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Yes. Pre-selection is very real.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 10:51 PM
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BB is generally short for "baby" in my experience. That's a good sign, OP. Also, the number vs snapchat comment was an obvious shit test. She's comparing you to the other guys. Proceed with your favorite shit test defense. Edit: If you haven't read the sidebar, then I would suggest you make the time to at least read the shit test section.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 10:45 PM
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Big red flag. Next.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 10:35 PM
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Nope. Anyone who says some shit like a HaPpY WiFe iS a HaPpY LiFe unironically is a cuck in denial of reality. I'd sooner lop off my left one than "obey" anyone who isn't paying me.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 10:33 PM
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Someone stole me lolwut If I don't do something I'll look like a punk Who fuckin' cares? I have to do something Says who? Should I fight anyway even though I'll lose? Do you really need to pick a fight with someone who could easily drop you to prove your manliness? If they were to hit me first and I used mace would that make me look worse? Yes, but again, who fuckin' cares?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 10:28 PM
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Incel ideology and subscription to the black pill phenomenon is self-destructive, defeatist, and laughable. We don't do that here.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 10:08 PM
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I'm sure you were already planning on doing so, but I'll say this just in case: Check with your doctor first. They're going to want to do some blood work first to make sure it's safe. Don't fuck with that black market shit.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 06:37 PM
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Okay, gotcha. Now it makes sense (edit: to be clear, your theory makes sense, not the actions of simps that produced your theory). So it sounds like they're ignoring the reality of what they're doing in order to feed their fantasies of having a personal connection with a woman.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 06:12 PM
1

Right, and I was asking you to explain your theory.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 06:04 PM
2

But how personal is it if it's a paid service available to anyone?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 05:56 PM
3

Are stoic women a rarity? No, but it is uncommon from my experience. I've dealt with a few women who weren't nearly as sensitive or otherwise emotional as the others. I would try to avoid labeling (or even considering) any of her traits as a "rarity," especially if you consider them to be positive traits. This could contribute to a scarcity mentality, which is something you want to avoid. Do you want oneitis? Because that's how you get oneitis.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 05:41 PM
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These are all fixable or at the very least, treatable issues though. So, now I'm starting to wonder if they would prefer the ease of instant gratification over reaping the rewards of the hard work they put into improving the issues in their lives that are holding them down? It just doesn't make sense to me... who would want to live this way?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 05:16 PM
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That depends. Do you value your friends or your girlfriend more?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 05:09 PM
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It's not even when they get angry. Masculine women are insensitive to men, period. I've received more shit-tests from women who are built like fucking tanks than any other. Of course they would have disdain for a man who they suspect could be mentally or physically weaker, especially if she towers over him. That, or, they think it might actually make them more appealing to men if they appear to behave like "one of the guys." Yikes.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 05:03 PM
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That foid Smells like incel in here. But, real shit, can someone explain to me why simps constantly pump out money to these e-thots when there is a plethora of free and easily accessible nudes all over the internet?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 04:57 PM
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