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| 61 | Case Study: When she says she likes nerdy guys/nice guys, this is who she means. | Red Pill Theory | TheRedChemist | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 02:09 PM |
| 11 | [FR] NOBODY can negotiate their attraction. | Field Report | TheRedChemist | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/16 02:03 AM |
| 10 | STATION: Status, Value, Power, Environment. Your social positioning | Meta | TheRedChemist | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/16 09:11 AM |
| 8 | "Cheating", a.k.a. circumventing limitations: Put yourself in a situation where failure is almost impossible. | Red Pill Theory | TheRedChemist | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/16 06:54 PM |
| 6 | Text game: one shit test that I keep struggling with | Red Pill Theory | TheRedChemist | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 10:59 PM |
| 5 | How should I dress for my reverse divorce rape court hearing? | TheRedChemist | /r/askTRP | 12/05/16 07:43 AM |
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| 8 | Merely wondering why you're not having sex and seeking advice is considered 'Misogyny'. Men are not allowed to rise from their station. You do not matter.Excellent post and something you should expand on in its own thread sometime. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/17 09:23 AM |
| 1 | The Power of Momentum and the Fibonacci Sequence: there's hope yetOkay, but what does this post achieve? What does it recommend? "If you're not succeeding yet keep going until you do"? "Once you are succeeding you'll succeed more"? This doesn't help the guy who's struggling, he already knows he needs to keep working or fail. Nor does it teach anything new to the guy who's already winning. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/17 06:00 PM |
| 3 | Compliment a girl after few seconds of conversation - yes / no?Why? Compliments are worthless unless you're someone of value to her. If you're physically attractive enough that she already sees your value within 3 seconds, then you could say pretty much anything and get a positive response. But if that was the case you wouldn't be asking this question. So assuming you're Average Joe, you gain nothing from complimenting her because she doesn't care about your opinion yet. And you're one of 50 other nobodies who's complimented her this week, each hoping to ge… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/17 07:17 AM |
| 30 | If You Take The Lead You Can Have Your Cake And Eat It TooShe's not attracted to you enough (yet). Make a judgement call on whether she's worth putting a bit more work into, or whether you've given it your all and it's time to cut your losses. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/17 07:29 AM |
| 0 | Learning to Love & Accept Yourself in the NOWWe're not talking about those guys who are already working and on the right path. We're talking about the total rookies and recent bluepils who have realised they're unhappy with their life but have yet to start work to improve things - which is most guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/17 04:07 AM |
| 3 | Learning to Love & Accept Yourself in the NOWIt's a valid point BUT the majority of guys reading this are going to be losers who HAVE to change to get to where they want to be, not guys who are crushing it but still beating themselves up. The majority of guys need to acknowledge that they suck, NOT coach themselves to accept themselves more. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/17 03:49 PM |
| 1 | The most bitter pill to swallow is widely neglected on here and I understand why. Looks > everything else. Confessions of a manlet with an attractive face.It's true, but what is the point? It's not actionable. The 99% of guys who don't have that magic facial structure can't DO anything about that short of radical surgery. Better to focus on things you CAN improve such as low body fat (also maximises your facial aesthetics), musculature and game. No point dwelling on what can't be changed. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Can't find your "mission"? Your "purpose?"I don't think I've ever called for sidebarring before but I would echo this sentiment. This is a succinct summation of how to start figuring out what the fuck you want with your life and how to plan to get there. That drive makes everything work. Just as important as the other fundamental theories underpinning RP. Without purpose you'll always struggle. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/17 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Can't find your "mission"? Your "purpose?"This is an excellent, excellent post. Bravo. Mission is something I've struggled with a lot. I know first hand how brutally effective and productive I can be when I have a mission, how focused and driven, and not to mention fundamentally HAPPY with life. But those are often short term projects and eventually they're done. I've found it very tough to find a broader direction in life, because it's hard to visualise exactly what you want to achieve when the furthest you can think is "better than I … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/17 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Nobody talks to hot womenShe's lying here, but it's important to realise that she is not consciously lying. "Inaccurate" might be a better word. She honestly believes that she never gets hit on - because her psyche prevents her from seeing shitty guys as even realistic prospects. The same way a lonely loser might complain that nobody ever wants to hang out with them - there's no point in mentioning that their dog loves them, that doesn't count because it's not the kind of attention that they're looking for. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/17 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Picking out a carI have a Jaguar F-Type coupe. I bought it because I love it. It's gorgeous and hilarious to drive and loud and obnoxious and looks expensive. Girls love it too - but it's EXTREMELY hard to use to get new leads. Girls that ride in it get wet - but I was already going to be fucking them. Pussy magnet? Sort of, but not in the way guys expect a car like that to be. How often does a girl get in your car who is potentially interested in you, but doesn't ALREADY want to fuck you? It's not often. With s… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/17 07:57 AM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread May 10She's not interested in you. You're wasting your time. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/17 05:46 PM |
| 2 | You are your mission. Period.Before you have the luxury of being the selector, you have to yourself be selected. Your post is absolutely right but it doesn't oppose the OP at all. You're just playing the level after the one he's talking about. The starving man's first concern is finding FOOD, only once his basic needs are sated can he start concerning himself with the quality. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/17 02:49 PM |
| 1 | The other side of the 'red pill'; why don't we talk about male evo-psych?Why don't we talk about male evo psych? Do we need to? This sub is specifically about optimising male sexual strategy; discussing female behaviour through the lens of evo psych helps men learn to understand it, but we don't particularly need to understand the mechanisms behind our own sexual behaviours in order to maximise our success. Either we feel in our gut that we have succeeded and achieved our goals, or not. It's true that Red Pill represents a broader world view of what IS vs what SHOULD… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/17 08:07 AM |
| 21 | Women are petrified of failure. Use that.This is where the modern trend to proclaim "men and women are exactly the same" is incredibly damaging to the mental health of all people. During a breakup and in the aftermath, you wind up with men introspecting heavily and expecting women to be the same. When he finally admits to himself that she simply can't, all he can conclude is that that one girl was a bad one - but the next one will be fine. Surely. Meanwhile women don't introspect at all and are instead reinforced in externalising all b… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/17 07:04 AM |
| 3 | You're not the one she wants. You're the one she's using.A lot of guys wouldn't have made that apology, good man. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/17 07:23 PM |
| 3 | You're not the one she wants. You're the one she's using.The point is that marriage stands you literally nothing to gain and exposes you to sizeable risk. It's not about trust, or people. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/17 03:06 PM |
| 2 | You're not the one she wants. You're the one she's using.His post made perfect sense, take your own advice instead. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/17 02:57 PM |
| 10 | Double book your dates: Be the man that flakesI purposely withhold one detail about the date until a few hours before. Give a general area but not a specific venue, or give a general time but not a specific time. Ideally she reaches out for the info by herself on the day of the date when she realises she doesn't know the full plan, from that I know she's somewhat invested; if she doesn't ask she's probably a flake, but I'll still text her with the info a few hours before on the off-chance - if she doesn't reply I know she wasn't invested en… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/17 07:17 AM |
| 3 | 3 + 3: The syndromes and principles of femalesHis point was that we want "scientists" and the gender is irrelevant. "Scientists" though happen to be mostly male, and there's nothing wrong with that. He's striking out against the common implication that everything would be better if there was also a woman involved, ie purely because of her gender. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/17 11:18 AM |
| 1 | American Psychological Association confirms AF/BB and a host of other RP truthsBecause once she's successfully bred with one male and reared the offspring to the age where they are self-sufficient (maybe with beta dad's help if needed depending on environment), it's a better use of her fertility to breed with a different male next time, giving offspring with still half her own genes but now a new combination in the mix compared to her first child - a better chance of both surviving long enough to breed themselves and preserve her lineage. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/17 10:03 PM |
| 4 | American Psychological Association confirms AF/BB and a host of other RP truthsWomen are pretty simple, but if one of you is playing chess and the other is playing checkers, you're both going to think the other is fucking wacko. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/17 09:58 PM |
| 1 | I've been slowly losing my alpha nature with my fiancé.Girl sounds like a real catch. You feel amazing with her! After maybe 7 years sexually active I think we both know there is zero chance any other girl in the world could ever make you feel good at any time in the next 30+ years. You should stop worrying and go knock back a couple oxys together. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/17 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Rant: Steroids - No bullshit anecdotal truth of effects on performance and lifestyleMy mistake, I just checked my results again, it was 550. I'm 28. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/17 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Rant: Steroids - No bullshit anecdotal truth of effects on performance and lifestyleWhat dosage did you feel these psychological effects on? I did an initial cycle of 500/week test-e for 12 weeks and felt no different psychologically. Maybe a little better, but no more than any normal good week, not enough to attribute it to the test and definitely did not get like an animal as you describe. Which is kinda what I want. My natural levels were about 550ng/dl which is on the low end but well within normal range. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/17 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Fat? You either lazy, a liar, or mentally weak. (Unless you can show me the sonogram of a 40 pound tumor.)Okay, so, mentally weak. Anyone who has tried to diet or exercise and failed knows in their bones it's because they're weak. The question is, where do they go from there? When they're not mentally strong enough to see it through, but also unwilling to accept that they're doomed? That's a post that would be productive. Personally the only success I've found is with workarounds. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/17 08:26 AM |
| 0 | askTRP Megathread April 12I'm about to take a short solo roadtrip to a far away country. How best to leverage this opportunity for social proof on social media? I'm not worried about actually in-person socialising, that comes naturally to me now; asking for input on how people would use this for passive social proof because there's lots of opportunities for photos but being solo might look desperate. Social media isnt really my bag but I figure I might as well make the most of the trip for minimal investment. I'm taking … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/17 12:19 PM |
| 7 | The most important part of game is not being emotionally investedI'm impressed at the grace with which both of you handled that. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/17 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Girls Love Sex (A Reminder)Fake it til you make it Only play games on your own terms The universe is amoral so you might as well do whatever you need to do to succeed You've got a purely psychological issue. Does viagra etc not work for you? Have you tried? Having a couple bouts of successful and enjoyable sex will break down that mental stumbling block you currently have. Do whatever it takes to get to that point. If it's chemical assistance short term, so be it. You're a man: solve problems, achieve your goals, use tool… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/17 07:41 PM |
| 21 | FR: Plate saw me out with a Tinder hottieThey're completely logical though, it's just they have a different set of internal rules to men. Understand the rules they're playing by and you're there. Evo psych helped me a lot with that because everything makes total sense in that context. As someone once said, up till you found the Red Pill you were playing checkers in a game of chess. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/17 05:41 PM |
| 2 | It's American Equal Pay Day.They try to spin it as the extra days that women have to work to earn the same as men from last year - but amusingly it also represents effectively the first day they show up to work this year compared to men. Today is the annual-scale version of when she moseys into the office of her secretarial job holding a Starbucks at 11am having had an extra hour or two in bed, taken the kids to school and gone for brunch with a girlfriend; while her husband has been out at the office hustling his big corp… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/17 07:29 AM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread April 05Patience, friend. It works for now because she sees you as some awesome person way above her league, who's blessing her with your willingness to make those sacrifices for her. In time the novelty will wear off and all she'll see is some guy who's willing to bend over backward for her, just like 30 other guys in her instagram comments. It's kind of like if you met some 10/10 A-lister celebrity chick, for some reason she really dug you and she called you to see if you'll take her out for a drink a… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Why you have to learn to be a, "maybe," when girls want to use your time [Dopamine]. Science posts [1/3]I wonder if you can exploit this technique on yourself - say flipping a coin after doing something you don't want to do, to determine whether you will give yourself a reward after. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 06:03 AM |
| 42 | The Final Lesson of TRP is the Hardest to Swallow.Fully internalise the true nature of male-female relations, accept it, embody it. Then and only then does "just be yourself" work and you don't need to "keep up frame" - because "yourself" is exactly what she's attracted to and your frame IS your reality. There is no longer any illusion or trick or act. Not sure I'll ever get there myself, but I can hope. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/17 10:16 PM |
| 6 | Don't Waste Your Time On Tinder In 2017Aren't you stuck in a marriage you hate? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/17 08:32 PM |
| 5 | Is it possible to be in happy in a relationship after swallowing the pill?The anger and hatred is an important stage of the long term growth, which is often forgotten. It's the wildfire that burns away all the dead wood & allows new life to eventually flourish. Some guys take longer to progress through than others. Demonising them helps nobody. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/17 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to be in happy in a relationship after swallowing the pill?Nobody truly respects a man who simply does what he's told to. Just mull over my question a while, and think about things. How well does it go when you feel obligated into doing things you don't want to do? When you first paired up with your wife - when you picked her and she allowed herself to be picked by you - do you think it was mostly because you just did exactly as you were told? Or was there a flame of rebellion, of independence, a man who made his own world, who had a spine? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/17 08:17 PM |
| 57 | Is it possible to be in happy in a relationship after swallowing the pill?Why are you doing things you don't want to do? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/17 03:23 PM |
| 5 | There's more to SMV than height (looks/race/hair). Learning to build a captive audience.I like your thinking but that's a strategy that's only really useful in one situation - when out walking the dog and doing it somewhere that your preferred kind of women will be hanging out. Perhaps a slight reflection bonus in situations where you can mention your dog in conversations, and dogs are a proven bonus point for Tinder, but that's it. No use talking about the obvious fact that a dog is a huge commitment too, personally it's not for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/17 07:02 PM |
| 53 | There's more to SMV than height (looks/race/hair). Learning to build a captive audience.It's funny you mention the bouncer example. After contemplation recently I've started the process to become a bouncer on weekend nights. Why? Experiences with women over the last 18 months have shown me that my advertising sucks but my product is great. If I get a foot in the door then the chick rapidly becomes almost literally addicted to me, but it's really tough to cross that first hurdle with strangers, my daily life does not routinely encounter many women, and my normal environments for mee… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/17 07:01 PM |
| 1 | White Knight Mangina post that went viral Facebook that shamed men for not committing.Pity this guy, but don't hate him. He's advocating what seems to him to be the winning strategy - after all he's snagged a wife and managed to breed - and he's being praised for his outlook by everyone he comes across. There is ONLY positive reinforcement for him. Only when his wife mysteriously starts cheating on him with an alcoholic ex-con that beats her will he even begin to question it. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/16 07:51 AM |
| 4 | The most important thing to remember is that as a man your entire life is determined by your valueIt is already transactional and always has been. Sometimes we just prefer not to think so. Ultimately that belief is self limiting. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/16 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Question regarding the "Wage Gap"It is already illegal in most countries to pay someone differently purely because of their gender. If the wage gap was true: there would be many successful discrimination lawsuits all companies would preferentially hire women since they do the same work for less pay | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/16 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Sir Cliff standing up false abuse claimsI hope this comes about but for the reasons stated in your quotes I doubt it will. I wonder whether something like a "soft accusation" could be introduced (or publicised if such a thing already exists), where someone who has been assaulted can lodge a complaint at the time it happened but specifically ask for it not to be pursued - "I didn't want to go through the mill, I just wanted to move on" is the normal argument given as to why they couldn't possibly report it at the time but now 38 years … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/16 08:22 AM |
| 3 | They are starting to see it too: 30 Is the New 50: "Old Age" is Killing My Dating Life (Most of my 30-something guy friends are dating girls fresh out of college)Alex sees his stock rising. For a man, age brings success, wisdom, and the Hollywood-approved wrinkles of Robert Redford. And, while I too find that my career is on the up, it doesn’t matter, because time, for a woman, is hardly as kind as it is to a man. Notice how all she sees is the injustice of his rising stock in the face of hers falling. Never mind the fact that he likely spent the previous 40 years of his life on the bottom looking up, fighting for scraps, while she enjoyed the perks of h… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/16 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Field Report - Getting my firing pin removed (Vasctomy)I had the snip around that age, just went direct private, didn't bother with GP as it was only a few hundred pounds. Had a consultation first where they make sure you understand the permanence of it. I still have a letter saying the surgeon was slightly uncomfortable operating on someone so young but as I understood the risks he proceeded anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/16 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Only 5/33 Dates Ended in Sex. What am I Doing Wrong?I've been contemplating the kiss open for my last few dates but frankly haven't had the balls. Perhaps it's time to grow a pair. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/16 12:13 AM |
| 3 | A Woman's PrerogativeI genuinely can't tell whether this is incredibly dry sarcastic trolling (in which case bravo!) or a cringeworthy pathetic mess. I'm leaning toward the latter. Signal that virtue! Signaaaaal! | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/16 07:28 AM |
| 7 | Feminism was (and is) mainly for ugly girlsA point often missed. This sub is for men and the pursuit of men's goals; fair representation of other groups is as irrelevant as imploring feminists to be fairer toward men. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/16 06:31 PM |
| 3 | A Woman's PrerogativeYeah, I'm talking about 20 years down the line when the market starts to self correct. The young girls know they don't want children right now, but they all have their beta backup plan in mind for when they're "ready to settle down" and a reasonable expectation of being able to pull it off. Years down the line into vasalgel being a common thing, they'll become aware (or be made aware by the lonely failures of their aunts) that CC behaviour means there's a strong chance they end up with no kids a… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/16 12:06 PM |
| 2 | A Woman's PrerogativeI don't think it'll be quite that simple: all the tropes of feminism give an immediate benefit to women with a long term negative knock on effect. Vasalgel gives no immediate benefit, or even a sacrifice (since they aren't solely in control of conception anymore). | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/16 11:24 AM |
| 4 | A Woman's PrerogativeIt's not really equivalent to condom use at all. Condoms require you to be prepared well in advance, to not get carried away in the heat of the moment, to stomp down any objections by women that secretly want to be impregnated, and so on. A one-time minor surgery like this means that all that stuff goes out the window and puts your contraceptive decision in the cold light of day making for a logical and rational choice, rather than in a dark bedroom with a girl desperate for your dick and a bell… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/16 11:18 AM |
| 3 | Be the patriarchYou're looking at it way too simplistically and literally. The top 20% thing is not based purely on one category like looks or strength. In the desert island example, the top 20% are the guys with the social skills to command the respect and following of the rest of the community, probably backed up with enough physical ability to look after himself in any confrontations and lead by example at the physical tasks. He's the top 20%, and he effectively enslaves the lower 80% - he directs the future… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/16 09:56 AM |
| 40 | The real gender gap: the tax gapThe normal argument I've heard with that is that women have a higher number of accidents on average but they're inconsequential light fender benders, whereas guys have fewer accidents but the ones they have tend to be the huge ones where the car ends up sliding through a bus stop upside down and on fire in a 30mph zone. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/16 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Wouldn't a better way be...The active users don't represent the concept of the sub, they're just users. To get the real idea behind it you have to do a lot of reading, of the endorsed material and the day to day commenters and responders and kind of absorb the vibe and come to your own understanding of things. It's a locker room - there's plenty of talk, sometimes game tactics, sometimes serious personal talk, sometimes just banter, but the locker room ISN'T the same thing as the sports team. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 08:12 AM |
| 2 | The only way you'll ever get rich.I think I get what you're saying. As everyone knows money makes money. But you have to take some risks. Without even getting into investing in stocks or progressing away from your core skill: Use your $100 from shining shoes by hand, and instead of blowing it on coke and hookers invest a shoe shining machine so you can have a machine service and a hand service in the same time. Then when you make a bit more, invest in a guy to operate the whole shoe shine stand on your behalf so you can start sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/16 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Wouldn't a better way be...What you have just proposed is exactly what TRP is. Kudos. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/16 11:04 AM |
| 12 | The Trojan Horse to CuckoldryNeo, I don't often agree with you, but in this case you nailed it. The woman in this example has demonstrated that either she doesn't respect you at all (so you should demote or ditch her), or that she has no idea of appropriate conduct toward "her" man (so you should demote or ditch her). There's no way to win, there's no way to repair or improve the situation, she's simply revealed herself as a low quality woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/16 03:16 PM |
| 3 | I don't know how many girls I've slept with, and I don't care.Consciously she thinks she wants you to have a low count (or maybe 0!) because it makes her feel like a special snowflake. A special snowflake who will rapidly lose attraction and respect for you. Subconsciously she wants to hear a decently high number to demonstrate your SMV as an attractive, capable man - but not so high as to make her feel like she's just another notch. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/16 06:04 AM |
| 3 | "Why don't you have a girlfriend?"That's because for most guys it is an achievement. Two groups with histories of different success levels with women. You've got the unsuccessful guys, for whom LTR/marriage means they have FINALLY locked down a consistent and unlimited source of sex (or so they think). And you've got the guys who used to be successful, but didn't understand why or how they were, and they're following the social narrative that LTR/girlfriend is just what you're supposed to do, it's the "right thing", it's growing… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/16 07:05 AM |
| 5 | "never ask me about my business"You're getting a lot of negative responses out here but I do a similar thing and it works quite well. Posters are saying it sounds try-hard, but it's all in the delivery and your frame in the interaction. She might not like it for the reason you think, the dangerous maybe-gangster vibe, but there's other reasons it appeals. Most guys are desperate to show off their beta provider traits and try to big up their job, which is almost always something boring, and they're eager for her approval. By si… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/16 09:02 AM |
| -1 | The case for "deadbeat dads."This is how I looked at it. It was just going to be the beginning of another 18+ years of her game. Likewise. I realised that because she had custody the game would forever be played under her rules. No matter how good you are, the house always wins. The only way to win is not to play. I'd love to have a relationship with the kids when they're old enough to do it totally independent of their mother. Until then, I'm staying out. If they consider me an asshole and want nothing to do with me, I com… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/16 08:52 AM |
| 1 | How to not have to go down on a girlIf that's not acceptable to him then he should leave and replace her with someone he prefers. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/16 09:32 AM |
| 1 | I went to a high-class escort and thought I'd share some details with you.This is because your natural style of conducting yourself probably includes subtle negs and all the other PUA techniques but organically, without realising it. This stuff isn't new, it's just putting a name to certain things that women respond to. And it's only outlined and named because it's to help guys who don't have it come naturally to them. An NBA player's advice is useless to someone who barely knows how to throw a ball because the NBA player has never had to think about throwing the ball… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 07:26 AM |
| 12 | Game Lessons: If she wants to please you, let her.You can do that but if you're doing it hoping to draw attention to the illogical nature of their behaviour (covert contract) you'll fail - remember how she feels IS reality for her. Recently had a plate get offended when I let her blow me one morning and totally unrelated to it decided later that day it was time to stop seeing each other (clinginess had gotten too strong). Even though from day 1 I had always told her never to do anything she doesn't WANT to do, in her reality that spontaneous mo… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Disclosing your troubled past, how toIt all comes down to how the information comes out. If you sit her down one day, say "sweetie I have something important to tell you" and act kind of ashamed about the entire thing, it's presented as something that's a big deal and maybe she should be ashamed about. It paints you negatively and because you brought it up, you also look more invested in the relationship than she is, which is always unattractive. If she knows you have secrets but it's established you won't discuss them, and she fin… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Are Women boring as hell or is it me?I had a plate pushing me for LTR recently and in her negotiations she brought up some fun times we had and interesting experiences we'd shared. All I could think was how the things she mentioned were all things that I CONSCIOUSLY MADE HAPPEN. There was nothing in there that I couldn't have experienced with any other girl on the planet. She just happened to be the one I picked for those particular events. Quite good for the ego and growing to accept that actually, you know what, I'm pretty great.… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 04:05 PM |
| 3 | The ultimate shit test a man can doThis is like a woman shaving her head and then saying "A-HA! You never really loved me!" | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/16 07:46 PM |
| 4 | TRP Real Time Exercise - Plate ManagementI think this is the correct assessment. She feeeeels the present situation isn't all she wants it to be and is pushing to polarise it one way or the other. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/16 05:57 AM |
| 2 | Go Your Own Way Elsewhere: Why TRP Isn't MGTOW and We're Not MonksThis is actually one thing I really like about the sub. It's a series of opinions and an ongoing discussion about philosophies and practicalities. You have to go between the lines and read the pulse of the place to really get the feel for what it's about. The impenetrability is a good thing and ensures that only those who are ready for then knowledge and willing to put in the work will actually stay. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/16 04:21 PM |
| 22 | "My Girlfriend just discovered what Cuckolding is"I find cuckoldry disgusting, but it turns out I actually know a cuckolding couple in real life. Strange thing is, BOTH of them are outgoing, confident, attractive people - centre of attention in any social setting and the dude seems to hold a good RP esque masculine/feminine polarised relationship with his girlfriend. Behind closed doors though, he gets off on sitting in the corner while she gets railed by guys he's sourced for her. I wonder if it's a sort of power trip thing for him - rumour ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/16 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Off to the right start - A First Date Guide for DummiesMost people also have boring jobs. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/16 10:25 AM |
| 3 | On ConsumptionA useful mantra about buying Stuff: Do I still want this thing if nobody else could ever know I had it? You'll notice that when you apply it, many things immediately lose a lot of their appeal. Projections of status is part of society, there's nothing inherently wrong with it, but it's something we're often not conscious of. Become aware that you are essentially this guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/16 08:18 AM |
| 2 | Beta males make me Sick. You don't need to be a rich, machiavellian plate-spinner to be a respectable man. We need a mass loser extinctionI think there's merit to that theory. It's a reversion to a simpler, more primal existence; where the world is full of peril again. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/16 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else notice sort of a catch-22 within the TRP community?The sub is specifically about sexual strategy - of course sex is at the forefront. Alpha-beta applies to all human interactions not just male/female - notice how you said you're not friends with your buddies because they're alphas, then immediately say you're friends with them because they handle their shit and don't pedestalise women - which are alpha traits. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/16 04:48 PM |
| 2 | STATION: Status, Value, Power, Environment. Your social positioningDirectly I would suggest entertainment (the funny guy), emotional support, camaraderie, and to a lesser extent useful services - but that's not enough on its own. It's useful if one of your buddies has a truck if you occasionally need to move shit, but he's never going to be your buddy just BECAUSE he has the truck. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/16 09:21 PM |
| 5 | Quentin Tarantino tells how fame affected his SMVYou're missing a few key points. All guys already know that guys can be spineless personality-less bastards - just (pre RP) it's common to think of women as wonderful unique creatures with incredible personalities. This sort of raging isn't a double standard - it's pointing out that actually CURRENTLY we have the illusion of a double standard (men can be amorphous saps but women never are) and they've only just realised it. Second point, the purpose of the TRP Reddit isn't to be a flawless encyc… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/16 06:33 PM |
| 2 | I've slept with over 100 women and I'm over it.It's a heirarchy of needs thing. You've had your sexual needs fulfilled but realised that there's still higher level needs beyond that. The starving man can't think about anything else until he's been fed... He can't turn his attention to philosophising on the nature of fulfilment when he's not eaten for four days. Sexual needs are just a layer above that. I'm surprised that we ever think otherwise. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/16 03:22 PM |
| 6 | I Hope you guys are rightThe hardest thing about accepting the red pill is that you can't go back to ignorance. No matter how much you LONG for things to be the way you wish they were, no matter how much there's a part of you that thinks maybe just maybe... You also know from the behaviour you see around you every day that you just can't go back. It doesn't work. It's painful as fuck. The blue pill world around us points to that pain as proof that the red pill is wrong - I say if you're in pain because you've just had y… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/16 04:52 PM |
| 3 | How to get my life together? (yes another one of those)Ever had your testosterone levels checked? There's a few symptoms of low T in what you describe here. If you are low, then getting that taken care of will make a hell of a difference (so I've read - I'm only just investigating myself). On a psychological level, you need to figure out what you WANT. You're coasting. So am I right now, and it frustrates me, I just don't WANT anything enough to strive for it. In theory, we figure out what we want, then we figure out a plan to get it, then we set ab… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/16 10:56 AM |
| 1 | In order to defeat Feminism, women must be underemployed/volunteering and live at home until they are marriedPersonally I don't think it'll be stopped. "First world" society will beta its way to the grave and then in the face of collapse, double down on the beta behaviour and scoop the dirt onto its own face - tolerance-ing and diversity-ing itself until it's actually been wholly consumed by another more traditional society. However for the sake of discussion, two sticking points for me. One: you're never going to get anywhere by taking shit AWAY, because anything like that is a step backwards on an in… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/16 09:51 PM |
| 9 | Thinking of marriage? Don’tIf it's what you want then it's what you want but the key is to do it with your eyes OPEN to the risks it exposes you to. You are financially and to a degree emotionally tied to a potentially crazy bitch for 18 years minimum. The child can be taken away from you at any time and for essentially no reason and you'll still have to pay to support them (read: mommy). If you're going to do it then VET, VET, VET like your life depends on it because in a sense it does. Losing your children is like mourn… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/16 03:39 PM |
| 3 | How does your SO support YOU during tough times?Holy shit! Look at how much virtue this guy has! Just overflowing with virtue. I hope enough people have seen the signal of your boundless virtue. Yes they are, and people are creatures, biological organisms like any other biological organism, driven by instincts and impulses that are often beyond our conscious understanding or control. Men are exactly the same. Our consciousness is just a detail layer running over the top of everything else. It is the program running on an operating system whic… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 08:49 PM |
| 26 | How does your SO support YOU during tough times?When we want stuff like that from women, it's an unreasonable expectation. It's something that a mother would provide, not a sexual partner. Think about it. Your masculinity is what's attractive to her, it's what she gets out of your relationship. Your masculine resolve, your emotional strength - your frame. As an emotional being she needs to lean on you for support. So when you're down and out of action and are trying to lean on HER for support - what are you offering her? On a fundamental leve… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Some style shit.This is the most "red pill-esque" fashion advice I've come across because it drills down to the psychology behind styles instead of just saying "wear this particular item". | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/16 08:22 AM |
| 2 | Alpha Male Husband cheats on wife for 35 years. She is happy she stuck around. RedPill theory from a woman POVI outlasted any woman foolish enough to think the affair would lead to something and, in the end, it was worth it. Holy shit. The good girl won in the end. You know all the girls that tell their orbiters the nice guys win in the end? Pure projection of this specific state. Mind blown. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/16 07:51 AM |
| 1 | They Will Abandon Everything Should You Do It RightIt's the true workings of the world and by luck or self-delusion you've just not been forced to deal with it yet. In a sense I envy you. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/16 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Is it just me, or has Game of Thrones (season 6) gone full feminism?I found the Sansa/Jon pre-battle exchange irritating bullshit but then the late-game deployment of the Vale army changed things. It's not clear at this point, but if she knew they were there and deliberately held them back rather than giving them to Jon's command (where they would inevitably have been wasted when he lost his shit and the plan fell apart at the beginning) then that is some dark manipulative shit which I have no problem with in her character considering her recent history. I don't… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/16 08:42 AM |
| 7 | So she's talking about meeting her ex "for drinks"What would you say it is? Bearing in mind, this is someone she's already had sex with, is established to have been attracted to in the past, and she's meeting him alone in a scenario where it's not unheard of for people to end up having sex. A purely platonic friendship in that scenario is very very rare. If she wanted to ditch her BF and go with the ex, she wouldn't tell BF - She'd just go. If she wanted nothing to do with the ex, she'd have shut him down out of fear of losing her BF. It's the … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/16 10:46 PM |
| 0 | So she's talking about meeting her ex "for drinks"That's incredible. I love it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/16 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Paternity Fraud is a heinous, HEINOUS crime. It deserves its own one syllable word: SLAPEI wish you the best of luck. Something like this that goes so directly against the grain needs a Trump figure to lead it. You think that's you? I don't mean that sarcastically - this is something I firmly believe in, but I don't think it can happen without a figurehead with absolutely iron will to push it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/16 05:29 AM |
| 20 | Live Within Your MeansOn a related note, a mental process I've been putting myself through recently for those things that I want : Would I still want this thing if nobody else could ever know I had it? Those things that lose their lustre after that thought, are things that you want for social status. There's nothing inherently wrong with that - status is part of life - but I find often you're not very aware of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/16 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Paternity Fraud is a heinous, HEINOUS crime. It deserves its own one syllable word: SLAPEI'm fully on board with you but. Problems: Women are wonderful, and would never deliberately do anything manipulative like that. How could you even say that? This will result in lots of children without a man on the hook to pay for them. A) won't somebody please think of the children, b) it means the government has to pay for them. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/16 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Texas to Tie Car Registration Renewal to Child SupportI thought about it once, back before I decided to cut ties and move on. I figured that a life spent looking over my shoulder for the inevitable court case/arrest for kidnapping/whatever other nightmare scenario you come up with, wasn't worth it. My life isnt ruined, in fact, it's better than ever having grown a spine and discovered red pill. I have off grid income to sustain me so it's not the end of the world, but it is damn inconvenient. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/16 02:23 PM |
| 6 | Women need us more than we need themIt's more like ASCII. Which is... a more complex manifestation of binary. /nerd mode | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/16 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Texas to Tie Car Registration Renewal to Child SupportLuckily I have some off-grid income streams so I'll manage to stay afloat. Heh. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/16 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Texas to Tie Car Registration Renewal to Child SupportYeah but good luck selling that to a mostly female democracy plus white knights. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/16 02:11 PM |
| 3 | Texas to Tie Car Registration Renewal to Child SupportIt's fair, but will never happen because: It is a step down from women's current position and this is unacceptable oppression. The children. Won't somebody please think of the children. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/16 06:56 AM |
| 2 | Texas to Tie Car Registration Renewal to Child SupportThis shit boils my blood. I have child support payments to my ex. Somehow they have determined my income is about 8x higher than it actually is, and have gleefully and swiftly adjusted my payments to suit. I immediately spoke to them and sent them payslips to demonstrate otherwise. They inform me that the appeal process will take up to 2 months and in that period I am still required to make the higher payment or face legal action. The monthly payment they have determined as a fair and just amoun… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/16 06:51 AM |
| 5 | Everything in moderationShe wasn't attracted to you enough & your behaviour was incongruous with the beta box she had previously put you in (when things became stagnant). Remember women will literally invent explanations for why it's her own fault that her boyfriend knocked two of her teeth out. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/16 06:21 AM |
| 16 | Observations of 'Inter-Action' between Juvenile Parolees and Female Parole OfficersSo what can we pull from this, and this ties in to some musing I've been doing on my own life lately: This guy has retained that 5 year old's IDGAF attitude and iron-clad invincibility feeling. We all had that once. He's been exposed to many girls in his past, enough to generate that charm. His natural IDGAF attitude makes him magnetic and gives him enough initial success to learn the finer points of game through trial and error. he's probably never felt the need to seek out women. He's busy wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Lots of opportunities to have sex, but too afraid to try anything.You're building it up way too much in your head - which I understand completely - but the crucial thing is to not give a fuck. Frame is the key here. Personally I often have issues the first time with a new girl, must be an anxiety thing, but it's gotten to the point where I find it about 90% amusing and only 10% embarrassing. The girls generally find it frustrating, or take it personally like they're not hot enough (possibly true to be honest), both of which you can play off of with an amused m… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Anti-Male Media Continues War on Men: Milo Yiannopoulos Suspended From TwitterYes, I agree in principle - the issue with it is that a private company has become a significant part of the social landscape and as such operates a kind of feedback loop. If it was run by a wise and benevolent dictator it could keep things on the straight and narrow. Unfortunately it's run by (at best) beta nerds who bow to the slightest pressure from SJWs, and Twitter's huge popularity nowadays gives the SJW cause more apparent credibility than it would have gained on its own merit. It's like … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/16 07:33 PM |
| 1 | TRP and jealousyOf course they will tell you they love jealousy. It validates them that they must be an amazing catch if you're protective of her since you probably can't do any better. Fish also prefer fishermen to use hooks where it's easy to get the bait off without being caught - but that doesn't help the fisherman any. Your example of not letting LTRs go out to clubs is more of a dominance/control thing. He sets a rule, he expects her to obey, if she doesn't there are consequences. "Jealousy" screams whiny… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/16 03:10 PM |
| 11 | London Mayor cracks down on ads featuring fit womenWhy am I not surprised by this new clown. Still at least people's feelings won't get hurt and they can go back to being overweight and unattractive guilt-free. edit to add more ranting This kind of indoctrination shit really pisses me off. It's this kind of thing that ends up giving younger people huge issues later on in life. Sure it helps them HERE AND NOW to say "hey, everything's okay, you're fine as you are!" Nobody has hurt feelings. All is well. But eventually you have to join the real wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/16 09:09 PM |
| 3 | [Advice] Caught my GF speaking with her ex who is still in love with her - also lied about itThe blue pill programming is strong. I took the pill about a year ago now and really wrapped my head around understanding the thing but just this weekend I've caught myself developing oneitis for a chick - rationalising and making excuses for her behaviour and believing her words not her actions. The programming runs so deep, and the beta inside is resilient as fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/16 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Who killed Marriage 1.0? (Trigger warning: dry theory)Your theory hinges on the economics of when people can afford to financially support a family, and I think this is a factor, but I think the salient point is the addition of the female vote in democracy. Whether that overrides the economic argument or is a symptom of it, I couldn't say at this stage. It is letting the children of the family decide the house rules, and without the guiding hand of an adult they will vote for things that benefit them short term whilst harming them long term. Due to… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/16 08:04 AM |
| 4 | The impact of "The Wall"Why would you ask for more money right as your stock price starts plummeting? They've realised that the girls that men DO want for LTRs behave in a certain way (more effort required to lay them) and mistakenly believe that those girls are desirable purely because of those behaviours, when actually it is because they are identifiers of a girl that might be worthy of LTR. They are used car dealers that have seen guys lusting after Ferraris and assume it must be because of the six figure sticker pr… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/16 09:43 PM |
| 8 | There's a new gender gap that's building in America: women have surged ahead of men in obesity.Countdown to BMI classifications being shifted upwards for women only to become "more realistic" aka hurt less feelings. Just watch. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/16 07:15 AM |
| 3 | The Red Pill is a SHOCK to the systemIt is exactly that. Once you've awoken to reality, everywhere you look you see things that simply and blatantly reinforce the fact that Santa isn't real... Meanwhile the whole world keeps ticking with everyone you speak to being fervently pro-Santa, every form of media, everything. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/16 05:57 PM |
| 1 | From No Sex To Hurry Lets Fuck In One Shit TestI'm not disagreeing - I think most guys would enjoy the same - I'm saying that what you're asking for is a VERY rare trait, so you have to come to terms with ONE of the following: accepting you'll be dissatisfied with the majority of women in which case stop whining about it; accepting that the majority of women just aren't like that and learning to enjoy them for what they are, compromise your behavioural standards to cast a wider net; compromising your standards in other areas ie physical appe… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 08:04 AM |
| 1 | From No Sex To Hurry Lets Fuck In One Shit TestYou miss the point. You're welcome to have your standards - but if you have unrealistic standards and then feel exasperated that nobody meets them, then the problem is you. A fat neckbeard can refuse to sleep with anything below a 9, but when he's raging about being involuntarily celibate, he needs to accept that his standards are unrealistic. Either lower them to meet him, or raise himself up to meet them. In this case I don't think there is an equivalent to the low SMV/high standards example; … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 07:28 AM |
| 1 | From No Sex To Hurry Lets Fuck In One Shit TestYes. Welcome to the red pill. You can expect whatever you like, more power to you; but if it doesn't align with reality, you'll be disappointed. Red pill is about learning to accept the reality of society, rather than be frustrated that reality doesn't line up with your internal hopes. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 07:02 AM |
| 2 | Rage clouds the judgement, but strengthens a man more than any other immaterial forcePhew, I almost thought we'd have a thread without conspiracy theories for a second there! Shine on you crazy diamond. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/16 03:47 PM |
| 5 | Learn To Enjoy Being A ManI used to be this guy. It's so sad that most of them will never wake up like I had the fortune to. You can't even blame them that much - we are conditioned from birth that this is how you're supposed to behave, that this is what a Good Man looks like. It's tragic. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/16 09:09 AM |
| 2 | 3 stories, 3 women, 1 mistake, same reaction: Don't show needines, not even a little!The question is whether the 10 point scale includes literally all women including the fat ugly quadriplegics with Downs, or whether it starts with 1 as the absolute bare minimum fuckable quality. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/16 08:55 AM |
| 3 | Stay-at-home Mom vs. Career Woman: What the Catch-22 of Marriage Actually IsReally? It's not? Because I just dodged a bullet last month in my divorce case and narrowly got off without having to pay alimony to my ex wife - despite her living rent-free and mortgage-free in our house that I 50% own, and being financially supported by her new man that she moved into my house three weeks after I left. This happened purely through careful structuring of my finances almost a year ago so my on-paper income was minimal, and a fucking grade-A self-represented courtroom defence (m… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/16 07:29 AM |
| 8 | Stay-at-home Mom vs. Career Woman: What the Catch-22 of Marriage Actually IsIt's a real possibility, though, and seeing as marriage offers a man literally nothing he can't obtain while remaining unmarried, then what's the point? You're saying "I don't know why people are so scared of Russian Roulette, I mean, only ONE barrel is loaded!" | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/16 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Women in relationships telling girl to lie to her stepfather so that he can continue to pay for her education.I came in here to shit on you, but thinking rationally about it, I agree. Flipping the genders, I would encourage the guy to fuck around and try to keep it quiet from stepmom too. But actually when you think about it that's part of the problem - the entitlement we naturally feel when someone offers us a generous gift but then attaches a condition. You think, "fuck you, who are you to tell me what I can do with my life? Gimme" When really the rational, civilised response would be weighing up the … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/16 12:30 PM |
| 31 | Dear Abby: I love my man but might like a hookupWhat's most disturbing about this is that it's perfectly plausible and given the current trajectory of society, almost inevitable. This isn't pie in the sky exaggerated sarcastic stuff. This is a very likely future. Of course there's little problem for men who wake up, but... There's still that little speck of blue inside that's hoping against hope to find a good girl worthy of settling down with one day. Even though I know consciously it's effectively impossible. The indoctrination is strong. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/16 03:52 PM |
| 17 | I wonder how much of modern women's r-selected strategy is because the general breakdown of community and social trustWhen you think about it, actually, she's making them useless - to men who want a good partner for raising his offspring. Arguably the male sexual strategy (second only to cuckolding another male). She's actually breeding kids who optimise the female sexual strategy in a kind of reinforcement loop - females who crave alpha cock and can't pair bond, males who are either firmly alpha fuckers or firmly beta orbiters with little crossover or blend between the two. I wonder if this is actually an evol… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/16 11:41 AM |
| 6 | My take on "fat acceptance"Nice analysis. To me, it's an entitlement issue and a lack of agency, unwilling to accept consequences. People see other people eating tasty junk food and feel they are entitled to do the same. Then, 200lbs later, they see attractive healthy people receiving positive attention that they themselves don't experience, and they feel it's unfair that they don't. The cognitive dissonance comes in where they can't make the link that the attractive people are not the same people who were in KFC and they… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/16 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Cosby to go to trial for "rape" that was not reported for 10 yearsNobody's saying that the victim is entirely at fault for putting themselves in a situation where a bad outcome is extremely possible or even probable and the perpetrator is therefore blame-free. However, it's also not great to run a society on the principle that everybody should be able to do whatever they want no matter how risky and if any negative consequences occur as a result, it's somebody else's fault. The grey area between is where we have to live because of course neither extreme is the… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/16 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Cosby to go to trial for "rape" that was not reported for 10 yearsI get where you're coming from entirely, but "food that secretly contains poison" is a pretty different scenario to "mysterious substance that clearly may or may not be harmful". It's more like someone passing you a gun and telling you it's cool to play Russian Roulette with it, and it's totally fine because it's not a real gun. Yeah the guy who passed you the gun should obviously be tried with something (what exactly he should be tried with is a matter of individual countries' laws) but there m… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/16 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Cosby to go to trial for "rape" that was not reported for 10 yearsHis point is, it doesn't matter what the pills were. Choosing to take a pill or not is YOUR responsibility. Choosing whether to trust the person giving it to you is telling the truth, is your responsibility. Unless he was forcing it in their mouths, or slipping it in a drink without their knowledge, then the decision to take what he was offering was THEIR decision. He's not a licensed physician or anything in a position of responsibility and trust giving them something where they can reasonably … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/16 08:13 AM |
| 3 | Become Obsessed With Your GoalsI don't remember what I was doing on May 22nd, 2006, but I'm damn glad that child put the effort forth he had to at that time so I could reap the rewards I do today. That's a really useful and productive perspective. I've never looked at life that way before. Always been so absorbed in the present, unless working on something I really truly loved. Definitely hitting the weights tonight. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/16 07:57 AM |
| 3 | Third of married women keep their maiden namesIt's more of a yardstick of the power dynamic in the relationship than something you should insist on, IMO. Knowing the female nature of wanting to latch on to a strong man and enjoy the fruits of his success, if she's not jumping for joy at the prospect of being publicly known as YOURS then she probably doesn't deeply respect you as a man and look up at you in awe, which is the strongest dynamic. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/16 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Has TRP made anyone else become atheist?Why does life have to have a meaning? The sky is blue. It simply is. It's a quirk of physics and evolution. There is no grand reason behind its colouring, nor does there need to be. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/16 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Has TRP made anyone else become atheist?I've been a staunch atheist since I was old enough to understand the concept of religion, I was always logical and gods and monsters just didn't make any sense to me. I sneered at religion and thought of the religious as delusional fools. TRP has actually given me a solid respect for religion, having discussed and thought on its role in shaping and maintaining a society - taming the baser instincts of homo sapiens sapiens and turning them towards building something greater than we ever could oth… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/16 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Hi the redpill, I'm deeply depressed and I can't change what makes me depressed and can't talk about it IRL. So vent.Hardly. Can/will you DO anything to change the events that you read in the news? Probably not. Does it affect your daily life? Probably not. So why even bother? It's not adding anything to your life. Besides a general awareness of any significant changes in the legal system - something that might affect you one day out of the blue - you're not gaining anything by keeping your finger on the pulse of politics or the news because it just doesn't affect you, by and large. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/16 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Hi the redpill, I'm deeply depressed and I can't change what makes me depressed and can't talk about it IRL. So vent.You're advocating playing save-a-ho on a societal level. You're free to do that if you wish, putting your energy into wifing up a country that openly doesn't like you but can't live without you. You're coming from a position of scarcity, that maybe you can't do any better than what you already have. Abundance mentality! It's a big world out there, much of it equally shitty as where you started out, but some of it potentially not; there's a great deal of potential to carve out your own empire whe… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/16 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Hi the redpill, I'm deeply depressed and I can't change what makes me depressed and can't talk about it IRL. So vent.Really "alpha" to run away with tail between your legs. Shaming tactics. Real men do XYZ thing that is not in any way in their self interest! Fuck that. You cannot change the society you live in, so if you're not happy with it, just fuck off to somewhere else that you are happier with. The world is a big place. Build your home wherever you want. Probably stop listening to politics. You gain nothing from it except stress and frustration. The system is not your friend. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/16 10:28 AM |
| 4 | Going on a date in a wheelchair. The Ultimate Test.I'd say as long as you're visibly in command of the situation it'll work. Nobody thinks twice about Hodor. Definitely try for the double date angle - that also gives you a chance to lay on the charm with Hodor's LTR in front of your date. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 08:31 PM |
| 22 | Going on a date in a wheelchair. The Ultimate Test.In my opinion your situation requires massive expression of alpha behavioural qualities to override what frankly is going to be a negative against you. Take all the standard TRP advice and amp it up to 11. You need absolutely impenetrable, rock solid frame. Amused mastery bleeding out your ears. Comfortable control and leading of the interactions. I'd also suggest that you do a lot of pre planning to work around any situations where your wheelchair status is going to make you look inferior or we… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 06:57 AM |
| 1 | How should I dress for my reverse divorce rape court hearing?I have nothing to lose. Currently I have standard 50% on-paper ownership of of our joint assets, but no access to them, nor have I had access for several years. I've built my life up again from scratch. My salary is already kept extremely low for tax purposes, so any alimony award is unlikely as the vast majority of the financial situation is regarding the assets - but even if there was one, it will be pitiful. Then on top of all that I've been drawing up plans to leave the country next year any… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/16 04:55 PM |
| 1 | How should I dress for my reverse divorce rape court hearing?Thanks, I'm not in the US anyway. I was looking for universal, human-to-human perception type stuff. I've got the legal side of things pretty tight. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/16 09:24 AM |
| 2 | How should I dress for my reverse divorce rape court hearing?Exactly the advice I was looking for, thank you. We have significant joint assets but via unusual circumstances that mean there isn't a cut and dried precedent and it could flip either way depending on the mood of the judge. Happy to discuss over PM if you want to know more. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/16 09:00 AM |
| 33 | Girl doesn't understand why her b/f is mad she let her big dicked ex have anal with her but not himBillions of people with different upbringing and ancestry... But all fundamentally homo sapiens sapiens. We've evolved with certain traits that are pretty much ubiquitous across the population. Yes all "people" are like that, but we're not here to talk about guys, not really. AWALT is never meant to be literally absolutely 100% true, but it's so close to 100% accurate that it's safer to assume it is. "All guns are loaded." Obviously, they're not, but if you work on the assumption that they're no… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 07:19 AM |
| 4 | Tinder: a dating app for women.Fake it till you make it. If it works, I don't give a fuck. I've been using a photoshopped pic with a gorgeous girl on my arm for months now and the increase in responses was immediate. I hunted through photos from some club's Facebook page for a guy of similar build with a 9 draped around his neck and pretty much edited my face on. The edit is even laughably obvious to me, but I've had dates looking at my profile sat next to me and commenting on the clothes "I'm" wearing in it. Until I get roun… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/16 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Tinder: a dating app for women.It's worth noting that the shotgun strategy of tinder is dead - everyone has a hidden hotness ranking and the hottest girls don't get shown to the ugliest guys. If you swipe right on everybody, you'll get ranked as ugly and only shown other uglies, because hot people have standards and are picky. I've observed that my main factor is a good rack, so I won't swipe yes unless I've seen a good face, proof of tits AND evidence of not-fat status. That does a lot of filtering work. PRESERVE YOUR VALUE,… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/16 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Man Affections vs Boy AffectionsThis is a great insight, I don't know why I've never seen it this way before. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/16 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Why most of today's women aren't worthy of your commitment.That attitude will ensure that you die alone. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/16 09:50 AM |
| 0 | The Weakness: Day 2 - MindfulnessThe argument is that he showed disrespect to the members of the community by posting (what came across as) long rambling pointless posts that contributed little direct value, when the sub is supposed to be about value-creation and the EC tag marks him out as someone who's worth listening to. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/16 07:15 AM |
| 1 | The Weakness: Day 2 - MindfulnessWe teach guys to go out and start approaching. In the beginning you fuck up a lot and every one is a failure. but eventually you adapt and learn and start succeeding My gut instinct says that at the moment the parallel here is you're approaching but with low SMV. I'm not interested in your product and the presentation though theoretically good actually just makes me resent it more. Rather than agonising over the presentation, your time would be better spent on improving the product to the point … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/16 07:12 AM |
| 2 | The WeaknessThat true rejection article is a huge wall of pointless rambling getting so close but missing the point at the last second as so many in the plugged-in world do. For those who can't be bothered to read, it discusses (using flowery academic language) why when people refuse to do what you want them to, the reason they state for not following is likely not the true reason, a reason which they may not even be consciously aware of. This is true, but then it takes a swerve into over-analysis territory… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/16 06:16 PM |
| 6 | The WeaknessI'm guessing this is an experiment to test something to do with compliance and readers self-perceived position in the social hierarchy. Will you comply with a seemingly random order from a total stranger, involving work and suffering on your part, with no direct benefit to you? Do you subjugate yourself before the throne of a perceived superior because obviously he knows best? Or will you subconsciously choose to comply while consciously feeling like you're NOT complying, by choosing "option 2"?… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/16 02:26 PM |
| 5 | Teen gets $4k in tax returns cause she popped out a babyThis is the second post of yours today where you've explained you're new and haven't done the homework but if some nice TRPer could quickly summarise some complex issues for you that'd be great. Don't be lazy - go away and read the sidebar threads, spend some time observing and trying to understand the knowledge shared here before hopping in making requests. You're asking things that you'd already know the answer to if you'd done the background work rather than trying to skim along the surface. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 05:07 PM |
| 2 | I am starting to think red pill love is about remaining in control and logical while the blue pill is about needing someone because of the fear of being alone, despair.I'd argue it's more like long running infatuation than love in the context that we use it with regards to a mother. It's conditional and transactional and based entirely on her attraction to you. As soon as you stop providing her value, it withers and dies. By contrast I suppose you could argue that motherly love keeps burning because you constantly provide value to her; by your mere continued existence you provide her a base level satisfaction as proof of having fulfilled her prime directive to… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Is Chad from the movies and TV series really alpha?Chad isn't a character to be idolised, he's just an example of the guy who gets exactly what he wants, particularly from women. He isn't the gold standard. I think most would agree that the standard to strive for (and something pretty rare in society) is a more rounded "benevolent alpha" figure, who still gets what he wants - but makes everyone feel great about doing it for him. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Online dating FR: Hamster is strong with this one..Wasted effort. There is a 99% chance she is unattractive. I catch myself falling into this trap often, because I seem to have a thing for the "diamond in the rough" - I love the hot girl who's modest about it, and I've had a few girlfriends along those lines, who had minimal social media presence and definitely don't show off their bodies but once I got their clothes off... Holy shit. However, these are statistical outliers. I've had too many girls from online dating show up and it turn out ther… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 06:06 AM |
| 5 | FR: Keeping in touch with old Tinder #'sI'm envisioning that the same general photo ideas apply as everywhere - demonstrate you have an interesting life, are popular, and of high value - but if you have any pro tips of how to go about that when you're balls deep in the "fake it" phase of "fake it til you make it" that'd be interesting. I already find it tough to get good enough pictures for Tinder etc without the added pressure of having to come up with something that looks spontaneous too. Daily life involves work, gym, sometimes a m… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/16 07:39 AM |
| 4 | Could Anybody Imagine A Woman Doing This?I'm currently in the process of divorce raping my ex wife. Rossdale is a fool not to. There are no points awarded for being a nice guy. Nobody gives a fuck that you "did the right thing". I ignored the option for a long time after the actual split because I didn't want to be a dick. Fortunately for me, she pushed too hard taking too many liberties with my nice-guy self until I snapped and decided to go scorched-earth. It's not 50 million at stake, but if I got awarded 50% it'd be about 2.5 years… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/16 07:28 AM |
| 2 | Don't believe the Red Pill? Read any popular romance novel.Time to close the sub, guys. devilabit just shut down the whole of TRP theory. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/16 01:49 PM |
| 2 | On the flavors of bitternessSeven billion. That's how many other women there are out there in the world today. You don't want to hear it, and trust me I empathise, but you're being a pussy. You're scared of being alone. "The potential negatives of being single"? Seriously. You've become dependant on this chick, like a drug addict who's so far down the rabbit hole that even when you do get a hit, it's not actually a high anymore. Cut the cord, bail out, go and live your own life. No, you won't be drowning in women on day 1.… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/16 06:17 AM |
| 1 | [FR] NOBODY can negotiate their attraction.You misunderstand. I've had no problems like this in the past, but all my previous women (no matter how promiscuous they were) have been more coy and less direct on the subject. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/16 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Don't know about you but I came here to do something about my lackluster situation with women.That's what brought him here. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/16 08:34 AM |
| 1 | I have a sudden development and need adviceMy understanding of your situation and the mechanics of this: SHE sought out YOUR number. She absolutely definitely wants to fuck. It's very difficult (not categorically impossible) to build attraction through text. Half your arsenal is stripped away - you can't kino, you can't use body language or tone, you can't escalate physically. It is VERY easy to slip up and kill attraction by text, though. It's also a time suck, and of course, a masculine man is too busy pursuing his mission in life and/… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/16 09:32 PM |
| 11 | We need more Strong Father Figures in our livesHe literally meant every single woman on the planet without exception. Including your mom. Especially your mom. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/16 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Are there potential benefits of choosing to be just a friend with a HB7 or higher?I think that's a pretty sketchy example, but sure. The general principle is to use them as a social key, but it only works if she thinks you're the shit. Beta Bob might still get the invites, but his reputation will precede him and he's already positioned as a guy that nobody wants to do anything for. If you're spinning plenty of plates, enough to keep you satisfied without pursuing new leads (personally I feel you should always pursue new leads), you could game a girl specifically with the inte… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/16 02:19 PM |
| 10 | Are there potential benefits of choosing to be just a friend with a HB7 or higher?Yes absolutely. If for some reason the bang is off the table (whether it's your decision or hers) but she also hasn't filed you away as an icky creepy unattractive beta, then leveraging her for access to her friends is a great strategy. Tougher if she has you down as a beta, because even if you get into the social circle, any alpha behaviour towards others is incongruous and she'll want to shame you back into your beta box. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/16 01:08 PM |
| 0 | Female Orgasms: Do they matter?Why? Sounds like OP is having a fucking great time getting exactly what he wants for the minimum possible effort, and his plates are enjoying it enough to come back for more. What does he stand to gain here by changing the formula? Nothing. I counter that you're the one approaching it all wrong. You can daydream about how things "should" be all you like but the reality of the matter is that things are going exactly how OP wants without any of the things you feel he "should" be doing. The actions… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/16 11:17 AM |
| 7 | Pictures make the (online dating) manThe difference it makes is just ridiculous. As an extension of this, as a stopgap until a pro shoot, use the timer function (so it's not an arm length or mirror selfie) combined with apps like Airbrush and Big Lens which fake some of the features of a pro photo - touching up blemishes but also throwing backgrounds out of focus and so on. One of the big advantages of having a pro shoot though is that you'll get away from the 35mm lens of most phone cameras - which is OK for selfies but doesn't lo… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/16 02:58 PM |
| 8 | Single Mothers Are CancerHi single mom/bluepill knight! You absolutely can and should generalise people and make assumptions. A significant proportion of the time, they're right. There's 7.4 billion people on the planet. By and large, they're all incredibly similar. Interchangeable, almost. There are no special snowflakes. Sure, that particular single mom you quickly dismissed might have turned out to be a hidden treasure - but all signs pointed to NO, and you're a busy guy with plenty of much more straightforward optio… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/16 02:23 PM |
| 2 | How I Did It (Consulting and Investments)Thanks for this. I'm interested mainly in your property dealings. You bought every place outright? Obviously you're now experienced and pulling in a chunky income in addition to your rental and stock cash flow, but how do you get started from day 1? I earn what most would consider a fairly comfortable hourly rate - circa $40/hr though I don't live in the US - but even bringing my outgoings down to bare minimum (I'm talking shared apartment, no car, the works) it would take me two years to save a… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/16 10:11 PM |
| 7 | "7 reasons to marry an Engineer" - Read "Beta"It's a mechanism fairly tied in to the laws in my country and my specific sphere of work, so it probably wouldn't be much use to you. Take away from my post the broad concept, not the specifics. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/16 05:47 PM |
| 9 | How To Make Sure She Won't CheatI'd personally be very interested in hearing more on your trusts/property/rental/owning situation, if you'd care to make a post outlining your setup in greater detail. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/16 05:39 PM |
| 19 | Listen to her actions, not her wordsYou're too close to see it. Take a step back. There's no actual incongruence here. Although it seems to you that sometimes she wants a scenario and other times doesn't, look at your examples again. She doesn't respond well when YOU are the actor in the situation not her. She likes physical affection,but strictly on her terms. If you've already fucked this girl, I'd say she was lining you up as BB and probably subconsciously looking for a branch to swing to. If you haven't, then congratulations, … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/16 05:34 PM |
| 23 | "7 reasons to marry an Engineer" - Read "Beta"I'm an engineer and I resemble(d) that remark. Unfortunately my ex bucked against the reins too hard, broke me, and started me on a journey down the rabbit hole. Now my logical and calculating engineer's mind is turned to comprehensively minimising my on-paper income so as to limit what I have to pay her, while taking more than ever before under the table (legally), and reverse divorce raping her. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/16 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Enough About Women. Let's talks money... the TRP way. If you have alternative revenue streams, are in an unconventional occupation, or live an unconventional life style... SHARE IT! [Discussion]I learned CAD in my degree, when I left university I did an engineering apprenticeship type scheme at a small automotive OEM where the first year was a low paid internship type deal. After the first year it bumped up to a normal engineer position, with a salary escalator for the subsequent 2-3 years. I bailed out at the end and switched to contract work - which in this industry in this country as I said is basically indistinguishable from actual employment in terms of day to day life. CAD is a t… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/02/16 07:22 AM |
| 10 | Enough About Women. Let's talks money... the TRP way. If you have alternative revenue streams, are in an unconventional occupation, or live an unconventional life style... SHARE IT! [Discussion]I'm going to have to be pretty vague here but hopefully it will still be some use. I live in an industrial warehouse. I work as a CAD engineer in the automotive sector. I recently switched from permanent staff to working on a contract basis - it's more lucrative. In my industry contract roles have basically the same job security as permanent but none of the benefits. However, they are paid more to compensate, and enjoy some financial perks because they pay themselves through their own small comp… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/16 09:35 AM |
| 11 | Young Men are Denied Any Sense of Context in this Society. Alienation and Atomization Ensues. Let's Unify.I particularly like your summary here, an issue I'd never considered in this way before and a proposal as to its origins that seems logical. I'd never noticed it before but that need to be vulnerable (and the desire for that vulnerability to be shared with a woman) was definitely a driver in my blue pill past, and still simmers beneath the surface even as a growing red pill man, knowing it's simply not possible but still wishing it was. Disney. However in the second linked video, SixSenses' view… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/16 09:02 PM |
| 6 | Field Report: On Escalating Sexually via TextInitially I scoffed at this - such painfully beta behaviour. But you know what, actually, on reconsideration it has merit. Consider - the lead is already dead. She barely remembered you, if at all - or pretended she did. That's a pretty tough position to come back from considering any alpha behaviour is only attractive if she's already interested in you, in the here and now. At the moment it's stone cold. You're digging yourself out of a grave. Ok it's pretty supplicating pedestalising behaviour… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/16 11:30 AM |
| 1 | The future aint going to be pretty (Automation)I'd say it was a pretty universal human trait. We're emotional beings, anything that was machine-made - even if technically superior - "feels" cold and false and wrong. This doesn't apply to donkey-work done by humans. Nobody cares about that. We're talking about fields where skill and experience and flair come into it, or are perceived to. Given the choice between a hand-made leather wallet crafted by a experienced leatherworker in your own country (NOT an 8 year old girl in a Filipino sweatsho… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/16 03:28 PM |
| 1 | The future aint going to be pretty (Automation)Cross posting a point I made in another thread recently: The need for brute force labour may be diminishing, but that means the opportunities for intelligent, creative-minded men are increasing. Robots can't design themselves yet. In addition, demand for artisanal products only increases as the human touch vanishes from the mainstream. Pursue a career where your abilities as a sentient creature are valued - don't just be the cheapest way of getting the job done, because eventually there'll alway… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/16 09:11 AM |
| 2 | THE RISE OF gender illusionI've seen your posts around a lot, and although they're intelligently written and formatted, they always feel like randomly selected copy-paste excerpts from some longer essay you've got typed up somewhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/16 05:40 PM |
| 1 | How women destroy the WestWell laid out, an interesting and convincing read. The question, then, is what can we do about it today to ensure we as individuals are as well placed as possible when things peak? As of right now we have 10-25 years before shit really bottoms out and we're living in a culture of directionless, angry young men who don't know how to be men. The increased numbers of dissatisfied women WILL have an impact on legal matters too. All I can think is either work now to become as financially independent … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/16 12:42 PM |
| 1 | What Sexual Revolution Meant For MenFuck a man, give him children, loyalty and respect and he will work himself to death with a smile on his face. Fuck a man over, take away his children, remove all of his rights to be a father and make them contingent on the whim of the mother, take away conjugal rights and tell women to play the sexual denial game and this is why men are abandoning traditional gender roles. Painfully accurate. To be honest, the requirements are even lower than that. Women wouldn't even have to feign "love" with … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/16 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Calling your wife/girlfriend fat, now officially domestic abuse in the UK. Punishable by 5 years in prison.Hilarious that all of this stems from a reduction in adversity faced on a day to day basis. As creatures we're evolved to cope with a daily struggle for survival, and we developed social structures and sexual strategies to best enable that survival. Now, survival is taken for granted and there's no true struggle in daily life - so we end up seeing something where there isn't anything, just so that there's something to struggle against. It's like our entire species has PTSD. We've returned from t… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/16 10:39 AM |
| 63 | Calling your wife/girlfriend fat, now officially domestic abuse in the UK. Punishable by 5 years in prison.It occurred to me that a simple solution to all of the legal gender bias issues would be to simply require any reference to gender be strictly withheld from all court documents relating to divorce etc. The final documents to be sanitised down to "Applicant" and "Respondant" and expressly using gender-neutral pronouns. As a result, both parties are judged purely on the material facts and their recorded actions. Judges are forced to be more considerate and careful - even though in most cases gende… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/16 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Don't Mate Guard but refuse to be disrespectedI see the angle you're playing, but... This is still mate guarding. The end goal: A good mate guards herself - if she thinks you're the shit she won't give him any ground whatsoever, and when he steps in and tries to take some, she'll forcibly shut him down because she knows she'll lose you if she doesn't show that loyalty. If she's not taking those steps on her own initiative, she's not that into you and is open to branch swinging. Of course, there'll always be a higher status male eventually, … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/16 01:16 PM |
| 9 | A theory on why women say they want the Nice GuyIt's even simpler than that. The female conscious mind is not linked to the part of the mind that deals with attraction. It's literally not wired up, and it's been scientifically proven. She chooses the asshole and she - in a very real sense - doesn't know why. Simply not consciously aware of it. This is incredibly confusing to men, since our attraction is mostly physical and thus, we are fairly conscious of what we do and do not find attractive. Meanwhile women, of course they say they want a n… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 08:03 AM |
| 2 | Never Ask a Woman “Why”When I realised this it was one of the major lightbulb moments that brought me into RP. They don't know why. Even if they did they probably don't want to tell you. Even if they did want to tell you, they probably can't even express it logically in the way you want them to. They're wired different on a fundamental level and that's actually fine. We're playing two entirely different games. They're both called "football", and involve getting a ball from one end of a field to another, but the rules … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/16 12:58 PM |
| 39 | "Patriarchy" is requiring evidence to believe a claim.To me, this is a mere symptom of the overall disease. This is what happens when society denies there are any differences between men and women. We are not the same. Pretending we are just hurts everyone. That's how we end up with situations like this, where men think women are lunatics for not listening to logic, and women think men are lunatics for being brutally logical and totally dismissing feelings. Ultimately women seem to win the day, because as we all know Women are Wonderful; but ultima… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/16 07:20 PM |
| 1 | you are the new generation and it's not over for you yetThe need for brute force labour may be diminishing, but that means the opportunities for intelligent, creative-minded men are increasing. Robots can't design themselves yet. In addition, demand for artisanal products only increases as the human touch vanishes from the mainstream. Pursue a career where your abilities as a sentient creature are valued - don't just be the cheapest way of getting the job done, because eventually there'll always be something to undercut you. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/16 05:08 PM |
| 2 | [LTR] Women would rather share alpha than be with a faithful loserI agree. I think by not directly addressing it you've given her the impression that you've picked her. In an alpha, unapologetic way at least, but - it's not been addressed. She thinks she's won. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/16 08:48 AM |
| 13 | Perfect example of post wall woman changing the script to suit fem centric realityThis is beautifully put. Bravo. I think it also highlights the fundamental difference in how the genders perceive the world. Men are aware, on a base level, that you need to fight to succeed. Competition is REQUIRED in order to achieve. Performance is - generally - rewarded. The constant fighting isn't a childish distraction from the game - it IS the game. Meanwhile women, due to their biology, struggle to see the game without viewing it through a feminine lens. They're used to being helped out … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/16 08:37 AM |
| 3 | Dominance, Compliance, Submission, Reward: A Frame StudyPlease elaborate as to how this post demonstrates a hatred of women. If you can bring yourself to approach it from a rational and logical perspective, you'll deduce that he very much enjoys women and their company, but on his terms. He enjoys giving them what they seek, so long as they also give him what he seeks. Which is entirely within his rights as a sentient being with free will; likewise if the women he deals with would prefer to seek attention elsewhere from a man who doles it out freely,… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/16 05:06 PM |
| 4 | I don't know what to do, this isn't about pussy, it's much more important.My opinion: Some people are beyond your capacity to help purely due to circumstance. Although the boy himself could be helped, and you as a man are in a position to do so, the wider social situation surrounding him means you'll never be able to share your knowledge and help him in the way you'd like. I've made sacrifices like this and it's fucking painful. Is there a better way? I don't know, but it was beyond my ability if there was. I would suggest the best you can do is continue living an RP … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/16 07:25 AM |
| 50 | [LTR]When you think you cannot live without her anymore, you have to leave her.Even though I know this and have proven it directly many times, sometimes the stuff they come out with is so retarded and predictable by RP theory that I feel pretty much obliged to point it out... I'll keep working on it... | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 11:36 PM |
| 2 | (FR) I took full control of my reproductive rights and got a vasectomyWhen I got snipped I found that there was a huge psychological element to it that I wasn't expecting. There was no pain, and you could feel the tugging which was a little unpleasant (like having a tooth removed at the dentist for example); but the whole time it was like my lizard brain was screaming out in horror at what was happening. I was wilfully doing something to myself that goes against my base level instincts and the instincts actually fought back, mentally speaking. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/16 05:49 AM |
| 2 | Flashback Post #4: SHIT TESTSI have grown to fucking love shit tests. I'm pretty sure I failed every shit test I'd ever been given up until about 6 months ago. How I ever got laid I don't know. I've been through a phase of understanding the shit test but not having the quick wit and presence to consistently defeat them. Sometimes stressful, but I'm almost out of that phase now. I've reached a point of amused self confidence that clearly shows in my body language and I'm now happy to just sit there with a shit eating grin on… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 07:40 AM |
| 57 | To enjoy the decline, or to start a family, that is the questionIt seems to me just impossibly sad that our society has unwittingly evolved to thoroughly discourage its members from indulging their biological urge to pair-bond, mate, perpetuate the species and raise offspring in a secure family unit - something that both genders deeply want. It's rarely discussed, and in my opinion, tragic. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Shit Testing and Masculinity (TLDR: Masculinity as Unapologetic Ownership)You understand correctly. I agree that I think alpha provider is the recipe for ultimate happiness. AF/BB lets her satisfy her breeding urges, which is kind of a base level happiness, but I think that actual happiness and feeling of fulfilment is another layer on top of that and it's just not provided by AF or BB or even playing them off against each other. Only AB can do it. That's my theory. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Shit Testing and Masculinity (TLDR: Masculinity as Unapologetic Ownership)Again I'm spitballing here: I think it's been amplified by things like birth control. In the wild, she shit tests males to find the most alpha, but she also won't breed unless she is fairly sure she'll be provided for in some way. A pregnant woman is incredibly vulnerable. I propose that - ignoring the situation where a society is developed enough to care for their vulnerable collectively - she wouldn't fuck at all unless it was with an alpha provider. Although he gives her the tingles, she woul… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 12:22 PM |
| 3 | Shit Testing and Masculinity (TLDR: Masculinity as Unapologetic Ownership)And this shit testing is what I believe has destroyed inter-gender relations entirely. The Alpha Provider- the true top male- will not want to commit to a woman bent on his destruction, the Alpha Male will pass her shit tests then pump/dump, and the beta-male will think he won the lottery at first, be entirely clueless as to what's happening, and have no idea wtf hit him when he gets destroyed by it. This is powerful stuff, thank you for your insight. Although women are theoretically happier in … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/16 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Text game: one shit test that I keep struggling withNice. Hadn't thought of that. Still give her a command like she wants to hear, but totally flipped from what she expects. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Text game: one shit test that I keep struggling withInteresting point about failing the test before. In my opinion given the context of the rest of the conversation and the way I'd been talking previously, she knew to take the gentleman comment semi-sarcastically (I slapped her ass after saying goodbye last time I saw her...) I'm conscious I rely too much on script flipping (implying she's the horny one) at the moment and need to mix it up a bit more so I don't get repetitive and come across as arrogant rather than confident - I think I'm probabl… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Text game: one shit test that I keep struggling withI've used this in a pinch before, but in my opinion it's not ideal. It feels a bit "canned" - she's probably heard it before, I think it comes across as trying to dodge the question, and it leaves the door open for her to double down and say something like "I've no idea... Why don't you suggest something?" Which leaves you worse off than you were before. It's an ok emergency tool but I think it has a 50/50 split between defusing the situation and making it worse. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Text game: one shit test that I keep struggling withExcellent response, just what I was hoping for, thank you. Given me a few ideas. In terms of her noticing me ghosting, I generally keep up a fairly random reply time schedule (sometimes 5 minutes, sometimes hours) which has come in handy giving me breathing space on occasions like this without being obvious. If you were curious, the subsequent exchange went like this: Her - All tucked up in bed, shorts and a vest top rather than a nightie though Me - There's a good girl. (I know this was weak) H… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 11:42 PM |
| 2 | 12 Reasons You Should Date a Retired Party Girl... and other fantastic adviceTheorising here: It's because for women sex is a means to obtain commitment. She already has commitment and in her experience the guys she fucked the most (Chad) always left. She doesn't want BB to leave so she doesn't fuck him too much so he isn't driven away as she sees it. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 07:39 PM |
| 9 | Instruction For A Polite FeministYou underestimate them at the risk of a lifetime of dry dick. Regardless of the science behind it, the results are what counts. In 6 months of Red Pill I've gotten more action and interest from women than I have in the rest of my entire adult life combined. Red pill is a far, far more accurate assessment of gender dynamics and the female psyche than anything I was ever raised with or taught by society at large. Denying its existence will only prolong your own suffering. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 11:55 AM |
| 9 | Instruction For A Polite FeministBack in tribal times (and unspoken today), there is a deal that is made between the leaders and the followers. The leaders get first pick of meat and mate. If there isn't enough food, only the leader eats. The followers aren't stupid, they aren't giving this respect for free. When danger is near, the leader is the one in the front. It is the leader who is better fed and is more confident who is expected to charge into danger. This is the trade. This is excellently put. I've been struggling for a… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 11:40 AM |
| 1 | I knew that beautiful women are incapable of true love, but this thought has recently sunken in me...You can trust her, trust that she will act like a woman. Indeed. Once you come to terms with this, it's actually quite liberating. You now know exactly what to expect and exactly how the mechanisms work. You can never feel let down by a woman's behaviour again because you knew all along. Personally, I'm not completely there yet and I still get moments of being angry that it's like this, or lamenting the "loss" of that true love ideal that we've been sold. But that doesn't change reality. Ultimat… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Number One Limiting Belief When It Comes To Meeting And Attracting Women.Fundamentally you're talking about day game vs night game here. You're right, totally different strategies are required. Read "Day Bang" by Roosh V. I'm only halfway through, but it's already very logical. In broad strokes, during the day you need to be opening with something very innocent and situational - Roosh calls it "elderly opener", imagine the kind of conversation an old person might start with you - and then you pretty much just keep on talking, even if they seem uninterested; casually … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 10:05 AM |
| 3 | Read how a mother "trains" her 6yr old son how to treat women. 1.000.000 FB Users liked it...After 6 months of this where he's actually grown to quite like it, all of a sudden mommy starts spending more time trying to help his classmate Brett who punched her for telling him not to cuss when she was picking them up after soccer practice. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 12:19 AM |
| 4 | Read how a mother "trains" her 6yr old son how to treat women. 1.000.000 FB Users liked it...These behaviours are beta male and just fundamentally unsexy. When you initially start behaving this way, it's a thrill for her - she's tamed you. Women (think they) want the bad boy that's nice only to them - just like men want a girl who's a lady to everyone else and a freaky slut just for them. Over time as your alpha qualities slowly get replaced by the beta ones, she's not having to win you over anymore. Now you're just a beta. What are betas? Unsexy. If you can play it right and remain alp… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Read how a mother "trains" her 6yr old son how to treat women. 1.000.000 FB Users liked it...I didn't even think of it that way. Incredible. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 12:04 AM |
| 16 | Read how a mother "trains" her 6yr old son how to treat women. 1.000.000 FB Users liked it...No. I think all of us, even in our deepest blue pill days, felt that something was wrong with the status quo. We can feel it. In our blood, in our bones. And it literally is - because our masculinity, that special Y chromosome, pervades every cell in our entire bodies. We try to play along, play by the rules and guidelines that society sets out telling us how to court women. But it doesn't work. And, because we are creatures of logic and action, we strive to understand why, and to implement a so… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/16 06:06 PM |
| 4 | Number One Limiting Belief When It Comes To Meeting And Attracting Women.Yes, but unless your physical SMV is through the roof she'll never approach and so you're gonna have a pretty boring time. Our job is to invest by approaching but attempt to do it in such a way that we're not over -invested immediately. That's part of the social game and is, in its own way, another fitness test. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/16 11:37 AM |
| 7 | Number One Limiting Belief When It Comes To Meeting And Attracting Women.Best analogy for the situation. Imagine if McDonald's manager guy is even putting down your PhD (negging), and acting as if he's doing you a huge favour by giving you the opportunity (trying to demonstrate his SMV is above yours). I get irritated just thinking about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/16 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Struggling to swallow The PillDefinitely keep reading. Read, read, read. But what makes it hit home is seeing it play out in reality. Experiment with changing your behaviour and observing the result. For me, one of the turning points was when one night I decided to just be a total and unapologetic, verbally abusive asshole to this one girl. Still playful, but... Constantly putting her down and insulting her (getting her to qualify herself to me). My BP self was sure she'd be disgusted and bail at some point but she just KEPT… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/16 11:16 AM |
| 3 | My 2015 debtYou're welcome. I'm still on the path myself, and a long way from where I want to be, but the changes that have become evident in my mindset and the knock-on effect that has on social interactions is noticeable. Although I'm not seeing huge success yet, it's becoming fun playing with the concepts - noticing shit tests and batting them away; practicing holding frame and observing the positive effects that has; and seeing how well pretty much EVERYBODY responds when you're honest with people about… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/16 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Los Angeles Men's Club (Meetup Group)I would love to attend a group like this, but nothing exists in my area and I'm not cut out to lead such a thing (yet). It seems to me that leading a group like this requires you to take on a mentor-like role which seems inappropriate when I have so much learning left to do myself. Does anyone have any thoughts on the matter? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/16 12:39 AM |
| 2 | My 2015 debtGo see a doctor and try to start on some antidepressants to stabilise you while you get your shit together. Keep reading and processing TRP. Improvements will come in time. Your anger is a natural and healthy reaction to finally noticing the decades of misinformation you've been fed about how the world works. The injustice. You don't hate women. In time, the picture will clear, and that clarity will let you enjoy them for what they are. If anything, you'll love them more than before - because th… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/16 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Going forward, happy new yearTRP has turned my life completely around and I'm only a few months in. Understanding the true wheels turning behind the scenes of human social interactions, after so long spent confused and angry, is like seeing through the Matrix. If you'll excuse the reference. Finally knowing how people work & getting the motivation to improve my body has made the tail end of 2015 the best year of my life. I can't wait to see where I'll be this time next year. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 11:58 PM |
| 5 | What a rape fantasy looks like: Woman writes about intentionally getting raped 28 times.He meant in his own comment I think. IE, he's asking should: Male-on-female rape is usually portrayed as always being incredibly traumatic for the woman. actually be Male-on-female rape is usually portrayed as sometimes being incredibly traumatic for the woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 12:44 AM |
| 3 | “The Red Piller’s Guide to Online Dating: Over-Investment”Another quality OmLaLa post. Thank you. Only thing is, while your advice is solid, I think a lot of it only applies if your SMV is extremely high already (admittedly I think you did say something along those lines, credit where credit's due). I tried out your recommendations from your previous Online Dating post and my SMV is clearly low enough that it just comes across as incongruous (I'd estimate myself at a high 5 right now). In fact I'd go so far as to suggest your current methods are at lea… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 01:04 AM |
| 4 | Dumbshit Gamehaving a highly marketable archetypical persona that can be easily digested I don't know why this never occurred to me before. I've been bumbling along building my own brand of alpha, but it can't be easily put into a pot so I think people have been confused about what exactly I stand for. I'll work on trying to define for myself a one-word summary of my brand, and hopefully that will naturally have me align my behaviours under one coherent banner. Thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 12:39 PM |
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