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I won't argue about finding/maintaining plates taking up more time than I'm willing to put in, because I know if I cared enough it wouldn't be an issue. I'm completely on board (no pun intended) with your port analogy. No interest in becoming a part-time meteorologist while I'm away. Just trying to enjoy the last few months without her ruining it.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 05:18 PM
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Different priorities, different amounts of free time, yadda yadda.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 04:31 PM
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Pretty sure he's referencing law enforcement.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 05:41 PM
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Motorcycles, lifting, hiking/backpacking, firearms, archery, tennis, harmonica, Jiu Jitsu, creative writing, learning/practicing wilderness survival skills (just for fun), shibari, cooking, etc. Motorcycling and firearms are reasonably expensive but don't have to be. All of my hobbies provide stress relief for me. I don't have enough time to do them all consistently but usually every month or so I'll push some to the background and get really into ones I haven't don't for a while. It keeps thing…
/r/askTRP27/06/16 02:54 AM
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Give her a chance to meet up. If she declines stop wasting energy on her, she just wants attention. Either way you can let her keep sending the pics of that's your thing.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 06:52 PM
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Look into financial subreddits they'll be of more use. Consider buying a two unit building. Live in one side and rent the other. If you do it right (or get a bigger building and rent two units) the rent you collect will pay for your living expenses/mortgage. Free living and in 10 years you'll own the building. Rinse and repeat until you can quit your day job and travel.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 01:09 PM
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For some of that stuff (construction, plumbing, etc.) one of the best ways is to help with a project. Trade your time and work for the knowledge. This works well with friends and family who have the skills (not so much with professionals who will feel like you're trying to take their job). For example, we were having the bathroom in my house re-tiled when I was younger. My uncle came to do it for us and only asked two things. 1: we feed him 2: I work with him. Now I know how to tile. Another way…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 07:58 PM
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What you have is too wordy. Why the "promise this is my real number" bit? I like the suggestion of just throwing her an invite when you go out some night. Just a simple "Hey Kiara, it's Jim. Meet me at The Irish pub down town, 8p." If she doesn't remember who you are or she's busy you can handle that later. Don't be overwhelming or it'll seem like you tried to fit it all in one text because you were afraid you wouldn't get to send a second one.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 03:49 PM
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No. If you were to do that I would definitely recommend tackling porn first then once you're solid on that goal move on to reducing/eliminating masturbation. I've yet to see scientific proof of any compelling advantages and as far as I can tell am experiencing no downsides with my current habits. Some people have had success quitting cold turkey on both fronts. I'm no psychoanalyst/psychologist but It seems like the cold turkey method exposes the subject to harsher relapses. If you build a stron…
/r/askTRP02/10/15 09:50 PM
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Some others have linked you source material on why you might want to quit. Not sure if they mentioned it but for me it was a youtube documentary on how porn rewires your brain that did the trick This is it Understanding the effects and believing the validity of your choice is the most important part. If you don't believe quitting will help you, you'll rationalize yourself into watching it time and time again. As far as actually quitting here was what I did: Transitioned out of any "weird" /out o…
/r/askTRP02/10/15 02:39 PM
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I was thinking about doing it but learned that a product called vasagel is on track to come out in 2018. They inject some stuff into your tubes that block it so it's just as effective but safer and completely reversible. Decided I'm just going to wait it out until then.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 11:55 AM
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Look into the benefits of not watching porn. I've seen some pretty compelling videos/studies that suggested cut out porn all together. It's not the answer for everyone and I'm no expert but it seems to have enhanced sexual experiences for me.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 07:23 PM
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Most people will explain to you that texting is for logistics not conversation. Just be forward and keep the momentum up. The only thing you'll do via phone is text her panties back on. Women communicate with feelings and emotions so texts have very little effect. You can't escalate or give them tingles vie text either. To answer your question, yes there are a number of good posts about texting. The search function is your friend.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 12:19 PM
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I've made it a point to find something new in every person I meet. So when I'm getting to know someone (generally guys but this works with females some times) I ask them what they like to do. When they mention something, some hobby or activity they enjoy that I haven't done before, I ask if they will do it sometime with me or invite me along. If it's more of a personal activity I ask them how they got into it or if there's a group that can help me get into it. Doing this for a year I've done ton…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 11:13 PM
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It comes off as simplistic because it's a simple thing man. You don't have to care what other people like, you're just stealing their ideas to try it yourself. You don't give a shit about life because you're not living you're just existing. You say you don't want anything but if you were fine with your life as is you wouldn't be asking Reddit for help. You want a good life. You want to enjoy every day. You know it's possible. Maybe it's been so long that you forgot what it's like to be excited t…
/r/askTRP16/06/15 06:01 PM
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I fell into depression a few years ago. I sounded a lot like you. I was apathetic. I saw no point in anything. It got to the point where the only reason I would get out of bed in the morning was for food. One morning while having my frosted mini wheats and a glass of orange juice I had a brief moment of enlightenment. I realized there was no "point" to life. I realized nothing I did would matter once I was dead. And I realized that was awesome. So while I finished that bowl of mini wheats I form…
/r/askTRP14/06/15 03:49 PM
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The problem with that is if I'm getting up early enough to do something before their work I'm getting an unsustainable amount of sleep.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 02:15 PM
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Good book and a good point. Thanks.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 02:11 PM
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Law enforcement. Not really. Officers with rank and families get preferred shifts. Yes I like this line of work. I'm home at 12:30 at the earliest. If I have reports or a late call it's usually 2 or so but I see your point.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 02:05 PM
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I remember reading a post on here discussing different levels assigned to women you see. It was something like level 0 is a one night stand, 1 is FWB, 2 is plate, and 3 is LTR. The point was that you spin plates as a vetting process. If you're searching for an LTR you'd simply adjust your grading criteria and eventually promote one to level 3 while simultaneously dropping your other plates. Kind of a "not all your eggs in one basket" approach to searching for an acceptable woman. As for how to s…
/r/askTRP09/05/15 08:41 PM
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Like you said it's a generalization , not a fact. It's definitely accurate if you're talking in terms of more often than not.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 12:49 PM
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Sounds like you're searching for validation from others. If what you say is true than the problem isn't with your appearance, it's with your head. There are better sources on this than me so I'll just suggest you work on changing your source of validation to something you control. You'd do well to search out some related posts on TRP. I recommend you start here Congrats on the move, it's a beautiful place.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 09:27 PM
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Also im kinda worried about going to parties and seeing like I dont know anyone If you have good social skills a party where no one knows you is a perfect opportunity to meet new people and expand your social circle. If you don't have social skills, it's the perfect opportunity to start building them. Who gives a fuck, no one there knows who you are right? If you're looking to make friends the best way is to do things you like and meet people doing those things. They might not develop into your …
/r/askTRP05/05/15 12:32 AM
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First, nobody is your friend. That's awful pessimistic. There are a number of guys I'd consider friends. While 95% or so of the people I know are acquaintances there's definitely ways to develop friendships as an adult.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 12:22 AM
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Thank you. It was a smaller point but I, and I'm sure many others on this sub, appreciate people who make the distinction between attitude in the wild and attitude on this sub. It's no use to anyone when people come on here like king TRP. Leading by example has it's place but don't try to AMOG the sub.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 07:09 PM
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Always good to refresh my memory of those. Thanks. I'm not too concerned with a hidden obligation. I know what she wants and I don't feel bad withholding. I've been pretty straightforward with her.
/r/askTRP28/04/15 05:01 PM
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I've done my part to make it clear noting will happen between us again. If she chooses to pretend I'm not serious, in my eyes, that's on her. I'm not concerned with her going crazy but I'll keep an eye out for it. This won't be long term. Thanks
/r/askTRP28/04/15 04:55 PM
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Wake up at 0630, eat breakfast, meditate for a half hour, lift, cold shower, brush/floss/mouthwash. Do some classwork then go to work or class depending on the day. Get out of class/work at 1700, eat, martial arts, leisure/hobby time, bed at 2300. Now that it's nice out my leisure time on the weekends is dominated by motorcycling solo or with he guys. Not much for healthcare routines besides keeping myself clean and cut.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 11:59 AM
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Keep doing what you're doing. It'll help with your night-game if nothing else. It's important to keep in mind the nature of day game when quantifying your results. On top of the increased difficulty of it (both your nerves and theirs) you have to fight the logistics. If they're on a lunch break from work/class or have plans later that day they're most likely not going to do anything on the spot. I see day-game as a way to get numbers to set things up later. It's not all that often that I'll star…
/r/askTRP21/04/15 03:54 PM
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The other comments pretty much covered it but I'll add in, check out /r/thexeffect. I found it really helpful when trying to make/break habits.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 02:57 PM
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If I'm getting this right it seems like there are three problems here. 1. When you plate women you go BP. 2. Women are your top goal/you rely on women for you're sense of accomplishment. 3. You're not actively pursuing other tangible goals in life. (4. You're feeling pressure to find a stable relationship because of your age). First I would suggest finding those "so you're a boring fuck, how to become interesting in 3 steps" posts that came up recently. I'll get a link when I'm off mobile. While…
/r/askTRP19/04/15 12:46 PM
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I'm no expert so I'm not sure what you need. Personally I like polarizing woman quickly (so I don't waste time with situations that aren't going anywhere). If I get a negative response and am pretty sure it's over with a particular girl I'll occasionally throw something out like "it's a shame the good times we miss out on because of first impressions." Then I give them a second to reconsider and stop me from walking away. Things like that are kind of a last resort/hope when you're already about …
/r/askTRP19/04/15 04:05 AM
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Sounds like a shit test. Seeing as it happens often you have a perfect opportunity to master countering it.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 12:27 AM
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Can you substantiate that claim? I'd enjoy reading your source material.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 12:40 AM
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Don't do it for them. Ignore what they say. You lift for you. You want to look the way you think looks best so you have true confidence. Also if you want the "cut" lean but toned look you still have to do a considerable amount of bulking first.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 07:41 PM
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Learning about cars (mechanically) could save you money. Learning web development could make you money. The tools for web development are cheaper.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 01:50 PM
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I had a similar realization. I did two things: I viewed the list of all subreddits and spent some time scrolling and opening a new tab for any that caught my eye (hobby type subreddits not the bullshit ones). That got me into archery, harmonica, fixedgear biking, etc. As I met new people I asked about their passions/hobbies. It made for good conversation. If I had no experience doing what they mentioned I asked if they could introduce me to it/other people who do it. That got me into firearms, m…
/r/askTRP12/03/15 04:02 AM
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The ability to carry a concealed firearm/defend myself.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 08:33 PM
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Ride and maintain my motorcycle. Also some firearms, archery, backpacking, and bicycling.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 05:33 PM
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I can't speak for anyone else but the way I see it gear is for when you reach your natural potential (given your life circumstances) and want to go further. You want to hold off as long as possible so that you see the success you made happen and don't feel like you only have the T cycle to thank. It also depends on your goals and age. /r/bodybuilding has many discussions on this. As far as TRP views I'd say do whatever you want and stop asking for permission. Personally I feel like if you're usi…
/r/askTRP03/03/15 03:59 AM
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I have. It didn't seem all that different from the movie. The description is better and narration goes a bit deeper into the character's mind but that's all I noticed.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 03:10 PM
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"The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi could do the trick.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 02:39 PM
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This. What you're trying to do is learn to play football by watching it on TV. You have to do it to learn. As with anything else you might suck at first but if you read the book you already have a sizable headstart. If you're focused on what you saw in a video you'll be too much in your head to have a good time anyway.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 01:58 AM
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I picked up the harmonica. YouTube and subreddits can teach pretty much all you'll need and harmonicas are cheap.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 01:03 PM
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Not to be the clueless caterpillar, but can you elaborate? You turn her hand but do you still shake? I've seen some "m'lady" types turn the hand and kiss it but they don't shake.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:28 PM
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Is there a reason you're going online instead of out? It can have it's advantages especially if you live somewhere were there aren't bars or social areas but they can also be a crutch. If you're good in person and live in an area where you can go out I'd say go out. In my experience with dating sites the girls I met were either A non desirable (crazy, have children, ugly) or B just there for an ego boost and didn't intend to date anyone. I had a few fun dates and a number of hookups but in gener…
/r/askTRP16/02/15 04:06 PM
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Give it a go and find out. I think women on sites experience a lot of betas who talk the talk from the safety of their computer then are sniveling children in person. You'll be different. Just move quickly to setting up a date and don't spend too much time online.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 01:43 PM
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It's imperative. If you don't have the discipline to read something that can directly help you with your mission you have deeper problems than TRP can help you with. Break it up into sections. This isn't an instant process. Also, until you understand the fundamentals reading posts can be detrimental. Posts are by members who are here because they are learning. That means that what they have to say should be taken with a grain of salt until they're endorsed.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 04:46 PM
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A mod just made a post that sums it up pretty well. Basically people are worried we'll lose the community and wealth of information. We won't. People have it backed up and we have contingencies in place. People are afraid we'll get shut down because we're controversial but that probably won't happen. The mods discourage and stop anything that breaks reddit's rules. As long as we aren't going around trying to force the redpill into other subs we'll be fine.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 08:31 PM
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I know a good writeup came out recently for lifting. Maybe you could link to that it copypasta to save time with that section. Edit: Here it is
/r/askTRP03/02/15 02:16 PM
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Newbie chiming in. I'm 20 Meet girls on the bus, in class, cold approach all over campus. Also hanging out with other people's friend groups I don't know seems to work well. I recently decided to 'next' two plates so I just have two other girls who are strong prospects now. Three plates is my happy point. I'm a college student so that's most of my life. I live off campus which affords me a lot more time to myself and I love that. Been working on improving and enjoying my life a lot since the beg…
/r/askTRP31/01/15 02:36 AM
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How long have you been dating? Are you exclusive? General consensus I see here on obligatory gift giving is don't, or give something that benefits you like lingerie.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 08:23 PM
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while this is good for most cases and drives women away with the haste of a sailfish, I'd avoid it for this case. It's clear she doesn't have options. It may eventually work but in the meantime you're just feeding her the attention she wants. Could become a potential condom sabotage situation as well if you resume your distant behavior later on.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 06:38 PM
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That's beautiful. I had a dream a while ago where I experienced what that metaphor talks about, sinking in the ocean and all. Woke up with some feelings. I get it now.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 03:26 AM
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No idea. Not much of an anime guy, I just found it around here somewhere.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 07:05 PM
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You don't have the luxury of giving up. No one is going to do shit for you. Find something unattractive about your self and fix it. One thing at a time. If there's something you can't fix distract from it with a story of something awesome you've done.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 04:13 PM
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First off you should have standards. Strict ones. Second, all the women on online dating sites are there for a reason. They're probably ugly as shit, crazy, or have children and can't find a man in real life. Either that or they're just there to use it for validation and have no interest talking to or meeting guys. Think of it from their prospective. They probably get a hundred messages a day from guys, many if which have been doing it longer and their profiles are fine tuned. Your best bet is s…
/r/askTRP26/01/15 04:09 PM
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This came to mind http://i.imgur.com/BcnBRsx.jpg But seriously. All preference. I had five when I was on holiday because it was just me and my hobbies besides them. Now that I'm back three is good.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 02:18 PM
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This post deserves more insight than I can provide. Hopefully more experienced people will see it. First: Know that in your position (age, income, etc.) you have options (good ones). If you decide to leave your marriage it sounds like you're in a good place. A part of me would be nervous about letting that deal sit on the table and not taking it. At some point she will realize her future options are diminishing and may revoke the clean getaway offer. Second: You took a huge step in the right dir…
/r/askTRP25/01/15 06:48 PM
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Sounds like you're looking for justification. If you're already embarrassed your friends will know, it's clear you have some idea of your own standards and she does not meet them. Have some patience and self discipline. Go find someone you deserve.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 06:11 PM
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One month? I hope you're joking. If you're feeling generous take her out, fuck her well, and say happy birthday. Order irrelevant.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 04:38 PM
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Stood out how? Easy target for what? Without more info I can only suggest picking up a martial art. It has the potential to help in a lot of ways (make you more interesting/attractive, physical conditioning, confidence, and obviously ability to fight)
/r/askTRP21/01/15 04:01 AM
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