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That guy has some insightful things to tell. I immediately went through the full length version of the talk (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3xxqg4PHg3M) good stuff. Thank you for sharing the link
/r/askTRP22/04/17 06:31 AM
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Short answer: Yes TRP has made me happier and improved my life. Long answer: I can't tell you about the effect of plating since I have been in a LTR from before my TRP days and I have decided not to cheat. However flirting with others has been fun. Yes the BP part of me would get into overdrive sometimes and fall for the girl. It something you have to unlearn. About the lifting. It is great, not just to look better it makes you feel better and more confident as well. Besides that it is a point t…
/r/askTRP21/04/17 07:12 AM
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Personal goals: Get more comfortable in my skin. Relax. This seems the most important part of your post. I'd guess that being awkward and few friends is not your only issue. You are probably not where you want to be in a lot of areas in life. Improving in other areas in your life will help you socially as well because you'll get more confident and will not be needy. This is an important part why everyone on TRP tells you to lift, it's easy to start, improves a part of you, builds character (disc…
/r/askTRP21/04/17 06:50 AM
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For me, that information should be communicated before proceeding - that's my value system, it doesn't need to be anyone else's. There's so many ways of communicating - don't communicate dishonestly. It's not all about talking. I agree with you and I understand that communication does not always involve talking. However I can't see how you would communicate stepping away from monogamy without talking about it and without simply sneaking around and hiding it. Could you elaborate on this, or provi…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/17 07:20 PM
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Nicely put. But you could argue the community still is here in a way, in another form as well: feminists, SJWs, indy car fans, TRPers. What do you think? True, these are communities, just like the red pill is. However these are very loose communities. This means that there is not a lot of enforcement of shared values, especially if they are outside of the limited scope of the community. The strength of the community is dependent on the amount of time you share together. So a group of indy car fa…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 07:14 PM
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a strong set of community-enforced morals underpinning a common culture. Not religion itself. Though I won't deny that in practice, a state religion is the best answer to fulfill such need. These days a lot of states simply use ideology instead of religion for that (one might argue they are the same). The most prevalent ideology being the combination of liberalism and capitalism. It's just that these ideologies hold individuality, freedom and feelings so dear that it almost seems that there is n…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 04:12 PM
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That paradigm shift is the probably the best thing in the world. All of the sudden life is so different, so much better, and full of possibility. Whereas before it was just a mindless ride of which sometimes hoped it wouldn't take too long. I can truly say that taking the red pill has made me happier man, for a part because I don't focus on women any more.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 03:17 PM
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I would keep away from lifting at your age. Do body weight training, which will get you a long distance if done properly. The problem with lifting is that it puts a lot of stress on your body which is something a still developing body like yours can't really handle yet. Basically you risk at injury and maybe even growth defects. There is a reason why it often advised not to start lifting before you are 16-18. Maybe you can convince your parents to let you go to self defense training. This probab…
/r/askTRP17/11/16 07:04 PM
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Well at least hire women to do the work, they will do it unpaid or for only 70% of the cost of hiring a man. That will save some of the taxpayers money.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 11:23 AM
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Hopefully you have some security savvy guys on board. You'll probably need it someday.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 01:26 PM
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It is easier once you get past the first 7, even easier once you are past a month. Just keep yourself occupied and productive. It's out of your system before you know it. Also when you do get an urge, you'll realise that it doesn't help you achieve your goals in any way, so it's useless.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 12:54 PM
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In essence you are right, going to clubs can be a waste of time and money. If you feel this way then don't go. I generally don't like them so I don't go to clubs, with an exeption now and then. You seem to be generalising something that is just your opinion. You think it is a waste of time and money, but others in this thread don't because they have fun. This is probably because you don't have fun and only think it is about getting girls. If that is the goal and you don't score then your evening…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 10:38 AM
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how companies and government agencies are implementing gender based employment and promotion quotas I really hate this shit, it is just plain discrimination. People can call it positive discrimination all you want, but if you positively discriminate one you are negatively discriminating another. which usually means children are shoved into child care centres sooner and sooner Why do you think it is a bad thing that children put in day care at a young age? I think that a good day care can have a …
/r/askTRP02/03/16 09:32 AM
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I was (still am) in a LTR living together. At some point last year I realised I was getting unhappy, my life was heading in the wrong direction and my sex life was drying up. As the realisation and acceptance came slowly I didn't really go searching for anything but I guess I was primed or more open to relationship/game advice. At some point I stumbled on a reddit post or comment of an RP guy (maybe a mod) I don't remember who. He shared a story of him explaining the red pill to a female friend …
/r/askTRP02/03/16 09:12 AM
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I notice a lot people here say they are the one planning the vacation. For me the dynamic is very different, she spend a lot time looking things up on travel blogs, hotel sites and what not and then comes to me with ideas, then I decide whether I like them and if we'll execute them. It goes a bit like: She: look at this information on places X, Y and Z. Let's go there Me: X and Y seem nice but including Z is a bad idea because logistics. I do want to stay 2 days at different place P which is on …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/16 03:36 PM
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In your original comment you refer to document with the turtle trading rules, very interesting read by the way. You can read the original Turtle Trading Rules online, here: The document is found here: http://www.benvanvliet.net/Downloads/turtlerules.pdf My quote from page 15. Here the calculation for the amount of contracts is given. The granularity refers to the fact that you round the outcome down to the next whole number, so 16,3 becomes 16 and 1.6 becomes 1. Obviously when you turn 1.6 into …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 12:00 PM
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Good stuff, most of it common sense ideed but it is good to be confronted with it again to keep it on top of you mind. A talented coder for instance has his own value, when he “works” on an app, he has a lot of fun doing it despite the challenge it represents. Personally if find the challenge is part of the fun since the most rewarding part is mastering the challenge and moving on to the next (more diffucult) one. So for me, and I think many others, it is because of the challenge it is fun. Whet…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 11:09 AM
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What was the size and source of your starting funds? I ask this because the turtle trading rules document states "For smaller accounts, the granularity of adjustment is too large, and this greatly reduces the effectiveness of diversification." If you didn't start out with half a million dollars, how did you deal with this?
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 11:42 AM
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Can you recommend any further reading that delves into this subject?
/r/askMRP25/02/16 02:02 PM
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I think he means that men who are aware of the hypergamous & AF/BB dynamic would not choose the Beta Bucks even though he can't choose Alpha Fucks because he is low value. So the women ride the CC during their prime years just to find out at the end that they can't find a guy who wants to support them.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 01:22 PM
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SMV doesn't have long tails. Brad Pitt isn't 1000 times hotter than a local guy and he doesn't have 1000 girlfriends. Maybe he's 10 times hotter and has 10 girlfriends, but it's not such a large number that it skews the distribution. The SMV doesn't need to have a long tail to produce results that have. Look at this for example http://www.therichest.com/rich-list/most-shocking/10-famous-men-whove-had-sex-with-over-1000-partners/?view=all The numbers may be inaccurate but the notion that some top…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 01:16 PM
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Damn you are on fire! This really makes me think about how I'm handling my shit, thanks man.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 10:41 AM
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At least you are staying true to your username.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 08:16 AM
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This sounds like the four stages of competence, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Four_stages_of_competence The fourth stage Unconscious competence sounds like what you want to achieve. You want to do it right but not have to think about it all the time. You want to have internalised the red pill to such an extent that it has become a part of you. On the other hand if you do continue to analyse what you do you will again go through all the fases lifting you up to an even higher level of competence i…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 07:52 AM
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I think that what you are doing is called a freeze out. The girl says no, you withdraw your attention by leaving. She wants you to stay and your attention so she will work on making you stay. The other 2/10 apparently don't care enough about you staying to work for it. Why do you even think you should not be doing it if it works 8/10 times? You are doing a good job on those 8/10. It seems you should figure out how to make the other 2/10 times work. Edit: You are also demonstrating high value by …
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 02:23 PM
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What does your gay friend get out of it?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 01:35 PM
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Yes, I do. At least it is the case where I'm from. First of all I didn't try to tell him to do one minor in computer science. Instead spend some time everyday to gain relevant skills, for example learn to code, read up on what does and doesn't work in user experience, whatever you think you need. This way you have actual skills. Working on your skills outside of school is something you will need to anyway since in a lot cases the schools can't match the pace of the development with their teachin…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 12:36 PM
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Which is ironic, considering the reason so many of us came to TRP is because we were sick of being told a story by society, only to come here to be told a different story that we can all blindy follow as well. A lot of people just aren't able or ready to critically assess the world around them and create their own view of the world. It is just much easier to accept someone else's view of the world wholesale without thought, just as it happens for a lot of people with religion or political ideolo…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 08:38 AM
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In your case your girl wanted to break her part of the monogamous relationship, the relationship was already done at that point. The best thing you can do is end it, move on and make your life awesome just for you. Other situations that are less serious, say you guys are at a party and a guy is flirting with her, she want's to go partying with friends, she is texting with a male collegue. In these situations you don't respond or tell her to have fun. If show that you are worried by other guys th…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 03:04 PM
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Both you and storm_spirit right He did things wrong and he should learn from his mistakes. His girl is also a bad apple but wouldn't have been behaving this way if OP had his shit together. That or he would have nexted her sooner.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 02:19 PM
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Combine it with tech skills (programming, testing, design, architecture, etc) that way you can be the who works on the next generation of financial software that is going to put all you current classmates out of work. With something like this you will be on the forefront of the change.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 11:08 AM
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Disclaimer: this reply is going to feature a lot “I want…” which may seem egotistical, but the reply is to answer the question of ‘what I want’ so there is no avoiding that. OP isn't talking about what he wants, what hes currently getting, and those are really going to give the proper context. Indeed, I didn’t think about writing that down since it is all in my head when I write. Obviously anyone reading it doesn’t have that context. Here is a point of improvement for when write another OYS. You…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 04:59 PM
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Most of the things you discussed were somewhat familiar to me, but you bring a lot more clarity into them. Also you indeed show met the connection between some dots. For now this is something I will need to chew on and read again a few times. Thank you for taking the time and effort of writing such an extensive reply and helping me out.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 03:00 PM
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You offer me new perspective, which is helpful, thank you. I can see how trying to calm her down with a hug and tell not to worry is good for the short term. However I lose ground and incentivise her to using crying for manipulation, all bad for the long term. It is more beneficial in the long term not to pay attention to any crying. So I guess I could just ignore it, tell her about something unrelated or go do my own thing. I might even jokingly inquire whether she is going to do this everytime…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/16 08:37 AM
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Funny thing about it is that you can't be told what to look for, you have to see if in action. Once you do, you know exactly what they all do. That is kind of a catch-22. You can't see it, unless you have seen it before. Would you care to share your experience? It might help others.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 07:22 AM
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Last week was my first OYS and received a few helpful responses, thank you all very much. It also forced me to reflect, which is good, so I will make more. Good Dread This week I have been reading up on dread here on reddit and learned that my not talking to my GF for a few days quite active dread (right?). So now that has happened I’m trying more covert forms of dread, for one by staying occupied and limiting my time available to her. I timed going out for a walk so I would be gone for 10-15 mi…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/16 10:54 PM
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Improving sexual strategy is necessarily about self-improvement in at least one of these many different areas. I think you are right about this. If you aren't getting what you want now you need to improve yourself in order to get it. I mean, is there anyone here who's reading all this shit but doesn't think about it in terms of "how can I use this knowledge to improve myself?" Wouldn't we call those people keyboard jockeys? Yes, we (at least I) do want to hear from people who appear to be apply …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 03:57 PM
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Last spring I planted a twig (willow) and my girlfriend laughed and didn't believe it would amount to anything. By the summer the little twig had become an actual sapling with a few branches of it's own, she stopped laughing and became interested. In the fall saplings largest branches had grown above the wall that protected it from the wind and it was even strong enough to support a small bird, now my girlfriend was interested and actually saw potential. Now in the winter I realize the willow wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 02:08 PM
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Wikipedia is a great source of information where you can gain a lot of knowledge but I doubt you gain intelligence in the sense of being able to grasp ideas or concepts more quickly. I recommend that you read informative books about whatever topic you want to know more about, read few pages a day until you die. You can also try more formal education, be it attaining a useful degree, or doing MOOCs. The benefit of books and education is that is that it gives you a lot breadth and/or depth on a to…
/r/becomeaman22/01/16 03:01 PM
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You write a good post, you bring an important message, and you seem to be doing a good job in improving your life and SMV. The post is big wall of text though and it will be more attractive to read if you use paragraphs. So an actual clear line like this. I'd have skipped your post if it weren't for your title and me thinking "I need this kind of message". I'm not hating on you, just trying to help you improve.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 01:10 PM
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You don't mention what it is that you view as helping. Do you want Tom to next Kate? Do you want Kate to dump Tom? Do you secretly feed Tom the red pill so he will get a healthy relationship or next Kate while being aware of what is going on? Something else?
/r/askTRP22/01/16 12:48 PM
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Dude, /u/gg_s is right. You are comparing this to your brother or kid but your story makes it clear that you are doing this for strangers. If you are doing this for your friends or classmates it might be useful in order strengthen your top spot the hierachy (I doubt it will gain you one). That would be only situation I can think of where you gain something, besides beating people up for sport and feeling good about it. If you actually want to help someone who is being bullied then you would have…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 12:37 PM
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This remainds me of what Nassim Nicholas Taleb wrote in his book The Black Swan (interesting stuff btw). When people ask him what he does, he tells them he is a limo driver. Even though he is actually a professor, consultant, stock trader, writer, generally he is succesful and I reckon making good money. He does this because people who only care about money and status will then leave him alone. Your post shows that same dynamic
/r/askTRP22/01/16 08:34 AM
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I find it odd that you and your girlfriend were at the bar at the same time without interacting with one another at all. The natural thing for me to do would be to go over to you and say hi and probably also for us to introduce our friends and then all sit together. I found it a bit odd as well that she didn't just come over, she just waved and said something I couldn't hear from that distance. Later she offered an explanation, on her own initiative, that she didn't want to intrude. Maybe true, …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 08:39 AM
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Haha, good one. That's something I want to be able to do in the future. However my game isn't good enough for that (I think), right now I am focussing on my general social skills and challenging my comfort zone. When I have made some improvement there I want to move the focus to seduction and generating interest in women.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 08:28 AM
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First time in doing OYS, let me know if got idea wrong. Validation seeking. ;) Can you explain why you see this as validation seeking? Or did refer to something else in the post? You don't have to make your throat bleed this time, I am lifting and doing martial arts. It has become such a integrated part already that I don't even spend that much time thinking about it. They aren't heavy ass weights yet though, well for me they are.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 08:19 AM
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First time in doing OYS, let me know if got idea wrong. Went well Dread: Last week started out with putting a lot of dread on my girlfriend. I wasn't interested in spending time with her on Monday since she screwed me over with sex on Sunday (there's a post on /r/asktrp). Now I wasn't being nice or subtle about it, but she just went ape shit crazy on me. I didn't talk to her anymore while she tried desperately to get me to talk by crying, wailing, shouting, making demands, ultimatums, being nice…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 04:08 PM
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She can get all worked up early on, dripping wet for me and saying she can't wait until tonight, but if I assume victory and don't keep it up during the day or in the evening, I'll probably get a no. Why don't you just do earlier in the day when she is dripping wet? Logistics problem?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 01:51 PM
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I've read on this sub before that the opposite of love is indifference. From this I conclude it works like this: if you remain indifferent to the actions of a woman they don't feel loved or receive validation. If you become angry at them for things they did you are no longer indifferent and thus you show them that they matter to you which gives them the validation they need.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 09:45 AM
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He provides his own pot and syringe I read that as him having sex with them and him referring to his manparts as his pot and syringe as sort of joke.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 07:48 AM
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Some girls do get really sensitive from orgasming after you go down on them, so I can see her not wanting to fuck after that, it could be uncomfortable. This might be, but it wasn't a problem in the past. get out of bed, tell her you're going out. How does that work when I have to get up in 6 hours and have a job interview the following day? Do you just go to a hotel?
/r/askTRP12/01/16 11:55 AM
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I agree dread game is the answer, which is not something I have fully internalized obviously. However it is also always said that you don't go 100 to 0 over one rejection, especially because that makes you look like a butthurt little boy which does more bad than good. So how does that work? What is the proper balance?
/r/askTRP12/01/16 10:30 AM
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I know shacking up with her or even a LTR at this age might be (is?) a bad idea. This is a situation from before I knew of TRP. Now I'm working on improving myself and improving the relationship with it. If the relationship doesn't improve then I guess I'll a least be prepared for the dating game. I'm going to read the post again, thanks Edit: I don't think the roughness has anything to with it, in the earlier stages of our relationship this was never a problem. I already guessed it was her atti…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 07:05 PM
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I felt like doing it, she just asked as I was moving down. He saying that wasn't really a problem for me.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 06:58 PM
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No I'm not overweight and since I have been going to the gym she has been having a much harder time keeping her hands to herself. I don't think the problem is physical but more that I've been a beta for most of the relationship which I what I am now fixing, but I guess it takes time for her to see that if she if ever will. If she doesn't I can at least hit the ground running in the dating game.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 06:57 PM
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I think people tend to define their own name especially when it is an uncommon one. The reason why people go and think "he really isn't Dave, that name is totally wrong for him" is because they already know a Dave and have certain things associated with the name. So choosing a name doesn't work at all unless no one can have the exact same name, but then it starts to work like games with people being calles DaVe9575
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 08:34 AM
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The crazy thing is that once you've been here a while you will see that the improvements required of you will do far more for you than get you laid. Indeed TRP is so much more then just getting sex. It more about taking control of your own life and fulfill the destiny you set for yourself. It's about leveraging the knowledge about how the world really works in order to get ahead in anything in life. Sometimes I wonder if saying it is about sex is not just a way to make it more attractive to the …
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 07:33 AM
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Women prefer to communicate covertly. So they won't tell you directly what is going on and they expect you to get it. When you don't seem to get it she will eventually have no other choice than to communicate her message overtly. "I hope that doesn't mean you are going to be mean to me" This is her addressing the issue in an open and direct (overt) way. Edit: formatting
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 12:30 PM
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letting women in on the game changes the game Then what is the deal with /r/redpillwomen?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/15 11:10 AM
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Your writing is incohorent but I think the message is right. Bonus points for Disturbed, I never listend to the song that way.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/15 10:59 AM
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Crimson Pharmaceutical sounds so much better and sophisticated than Red Pill Women are already RP - they experience it from the inside I guess I lost sight of this.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/15 10:40 AM
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You want BJs but she doesn't give them, next. you want a home maker but she wants to work, next you want a submissive feminine woman, she wants to be a dominating she-male, next I can't really expect this to happen immediately when I still have plenty to learn and improve before fully being the dominant man in the house. Vary rarely do women constantly want to play the weak female all the time because there is a down side to it. What is the downside to it? It seems pretty handy for a woman to ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/15 10:37 AM
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I haven't watched but I think I get the analogy. It's a nice one.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/15 10:25 AM
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This is a good one. I noticed the effect on dread very clearly one one occasion. This worked quite well. The situation was that we were talking about having kids someday, we got on the subject somehow. In the past she had been positive towards this but for about half a year she was negative about it and didn't want kids. She was all full of ideas about traveling the world, moving to this country and that, having a career and a social life, basicaly a child would be a burden on that. I simply tol…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/15 10:22 AM
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colonoscopy tech Beautiful XD
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/15 06:03 PM
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Ultimately though, dumping her left me with no validation. Staying with her wouldn't have given you validation either since it comes from you as a man. Anyway it seems like you are on the right track, you have realised you problems and are tackling them. Get a little better everyday is the way to go. edit: formatting
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 09:03 AM
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Well if you know your anxiety or fear that you should face it head on right? At least according to No More Mister Nice Guy, which I have only recently read. So I guess you should date a few girls that you think are date worthy but think you'll be looked down upon for it. Take them to a public place and notice how no one really cares. This way you might teach yourself not to care about others opion as much either. Take the risk, face your fears. Just to be clear, I'm no expert or a master at game…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 02:20 PM
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Could you explain the concept of eternal en linear timea bit more? What are they and what is the difference? Right now it seems to me that eternal time is thinking about your lineage and linear time just your own existence. But that doesn't really seem to fit the story.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 09:43 AM
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Don't watch porn and don't fap are good ones. Go to /r/nofap for in depth info, good stuff in the side bar. In short it is like this, porn and fapping both produce dopamine (a chemical in your brain that rewards you for thing by making you feel good), porn gives more dopamine due to men being mostly visually oriented. The dopamine makes you feel good and you want more. However over time you get used to the dopamine and you need more for the same feeling. You will watch more porn, more extreme po…
/r/askTRP20/11/15 02:48 PM
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This may not be a popular opinion but I think that when someone is being bullied it is largely (not completely) their own fault. I'm not blaming you and you shouldn't blame yourself either. You have been bullied because you behaved like an omega (for comparison look a wolf packs). I have been there too and looking back I can now see how stupid I was getting all worked up over the most simple taunts and jokes. As many other here have said, leave it in the past. You can however use it as a motivat…
/r/askTRP20/11/15 02:19 PM
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I have been making my own assessment exactly with the points you now mention. However doing so led me to wonder if anyone 'formalized' that more into a single that allows the assessment itself to be more or less the same for various people and at various times, that way it is also more comparable. Anyway thank you for your reply
/r/askTRP20/11/15 01:38 PM
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What do you mean with the laws of sex? Is it something like the laws of power? Could you clarify this or provide a link to a page that a explains?
/r/askTRP12/11/15 10:49 AM
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