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“In a democracy, the people get the government they deserve…” ~ Joseph de Maistre But don’t feel bad, you could be an American (like me)…
/r/MensRights03/07/22 12:57 AM
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Good times breed weak men. Hard times make strong men, strong men make good times; it is the cycle of human civilization. And we’ve had good times for much too long. Well, you’ll be glad to know that we seem to have put the good times behind us…
/r/MensRights03/07/22 12:21 AM
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I’ve been to war (was conscripted) & you aren’t even a little bit off base…
/r/MensRights03/07/22 12:16 AM
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Injustice anywhere is an excuse for injustice everywhere?
/r/MensRights28/06/22 06:25 AM
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Nobody wants to clean up your mess or pay your bills isn’t a good enough argument for you? Merely repeating the same tired & ineffectual claims doesn’t an argument make. It is not my responsibility merely because you want it to be. An intelligent person would recognize that a discussion of whether person is or is not accountable for an action requires a discussion with the context of choice, consent, agency & equity. The immorality of pushing your responsibilities onto other people doesn’t seem …
/r/MensRights27/06/22 01:52 AM
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Whereas you’ve just replied with different version of “nuh uh because responsibility”. You have utterly failed to recognize that in order to “be responsible” for anything you have to have consented & had agency in the process of getting there. You have completely ignored the fact that the resulting child is a direct result of someone else’s choices, not mine. Repeating the same mantra of “it’s your responsibility” fails to address the inherent (& more importantly resolvable) inequity of your pos…
/r/MensRights26/06/22 06:17 PM
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Oh I wasn’t trying to convince you, I recognized you were hopelessly mired in argument by assertion rather than having any facility with reason & logic. I was arguing for everyone else who may pass by this thread so that they see the many flaws in this argument that you & many people put forward. Bottom line, the moment anyone has a choice not to have a child; everyone should get the same or an equivalent choice. That’s just logic & equity - your continuously unsupported assertions not withstand…
/r/MensRights26/06/22 05:54 PM
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You slept with the woman in question. Sex has risks. Pregnancy is one of those risks. Again you’re conveniently ignoring that two decisions were made, not one. Conception is a risk of sex, pregnancy is not. Pregnancy is what happens when after conception occurs, you make the choice to gestate a fertilized embryo into a child. My decision to have sex with her did not result in a child; her decision to gestate that pregnancy did. Whatever her reasons it’s her choice to make… That is the entire poi…
/r/MensRights26/06/22 02:33 PM
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Why should I be held responsible for a decision that I had no part in making? Period. but that kid is your and your baby mamma’s responsibility No, it was her sole decision so the kid is her sole responsibility. The inability or unwillingness to contribute financially to that child’s upbring CREATES an unfair financial burden for other people And I had zero part in creating that situation; again, the entire decision to gestate the child was made by the woman, so only she should be responsible fo…
/r/MensRights26/06/22 02:01 PM
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It is my belief that nobody has the “right” to tell another person what they can or cannot do with their own body. Your dodging the issue. Nothing in my comment required or even suggested telling someone else what to do with thei body. A woman has a choice after conception to become a parent or not. Nothing I’ve said impacts that choice. However, there is zero rational reason that a man cannot be offered the same choice. A man choosing not to become a parent doesn’t prevent a woman from doing wh…
/r/MensRights26/06/22 01:45 PM
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Sorry, but I support the idea that a man must bear the responsibility of his own voluntary actions. So why doesn’t the same apply to women. Equity would dictate that if a woman is given a choice (& they should have that choice) of whether they want to be a parent after conception occurs that men should be able to make that same choice.
/r/MensRights26/06/22 12:46 PM
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The bouncer at a night club I used to frequent always wore a kilt, that was his look. One day he just wasn’t wearing it any more and I asked him why, and he said he was sick of women constantly “checking” to see if he was wearing underwear. I have a full formal kilt that I no longer wear unless I am escorted by a woman, otherwise the amount of harassment is absurd.
/r/MensRights23/06/22 02:11 AM
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You have to register for the draft as a male to get certain government benefits in the US benefits like not spending five years in prison …
/r/MensRights23/06/22 01:47 AM
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She just can’t stop shitting the bed, can she?
/r/MensRights16/06/22 04:47 AM
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She had a relationship when she said “yes” to everything & that didn’t make her feel good so her solution to this is to look for a guy who will only say yes to her. Not one ounce of reflection…
/r/PussyPassDenied12/06/22 11:19 PM
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making Adele look worse She tried to hide her assets to avoid having them considered in the divorce; she doesn’t need any help looking “worse”
/r/PussyPassDenied11/06/22 04:46 PM
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I was silent in an abusive marriage for five years & I ended up having to give her an entirely undeserved financial settlement to get myself out of that abusive marriage. Even when I told my friends & family, their response was minimal; my sense of it was that while they were sympathetic they didn’t really know how to even process it.
/r/MensRights30/04/22 07:25 PM
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My thoughts exactly “No, I won’t send you nudes… Thank god for small mercies…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/22 06:47 PM
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Well aren’t you special? My momma always said so.. I smash and pass If that works for you; more power to you. found a great one Congrats, that’s the important thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/22 06:59 AM
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They want a part, just sex No, not really. I don’t sleep with women that I’m not willing to date.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 07:08 PM
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I don’t know how to safely get married these days. It is a real concern because the system has become twisted in a fashion that incentivizes the wrong things. The current working of family court provides women with more incentive (in the form of financial payments) to end a marriage than to actually do the work of making a marriage work. Obviously, we do not want to trap people in bad marriages (those that are toxic or abusive) but at the same time we do not want to encourage divorces resulting …
/r/MensRights23/04/22 08:49 AM
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I just keep moving one step at a time, day after day, eventually you’ll end up in a better place than you started…
/r/MensRights22/04/22 12:32 PM
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That was my rule for decades; then after spending five years in Iraq & Syria I came home & met my (erstwhile) wife. I was struggling with major PTSD & trying to get the therapeutic help that I needed & she seemed like an angel to not only put up with my brokenness but to see in me the potential dream for a future & a family that I was desperate to believe in. I excused her abuse by thinking that I was far from perfect & framing it is we were both people with brokenness & trying to focus on suppo…
/r/MensRights22/04/22 04:33 AM
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Wrong, thats an authoritarian government’s biggest asset. How do you think they enforce the authoritarianism? Through weak, insecure men who need to bully others in order to make themselves feel big.
/r/MensRights19/04/22 09:10 PM
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Hmm, are gay marriages happier? Given that the M-M gendered dyad has the lowest incidence rate of intimate partner violence of all gendered dyads (interestingly the F-F dyad has the highest incidence rate), I think one could make that argument.
/r/MensRights19/04/22 04:42 AM
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The truly hilarious part of this story; is that when US soccer got sick of the bullshit & decided to offer a single gender neutral contract to apply to all players - the women lost their shit because they actually ended up getting paid less under the new parity contract. Why? Because previous contracts for the women’s team had negotiated terms that were important to them. For example; men’s team players only got paid for game where they played, whereas as women’s team players got paid for every …
/r/MensRights18/04/22 09:54 PM
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You don’t really know what goes on behind closed doors. Yup, my erstwhile wife was physically, verbally & emotionally abusive towards me & because I don’t believe in broadcasting my dirty laundry, no one knew about it until she decided that she was going to quit therapy & as a result I served her with papers.
/r/MensRights18/04/22 09:33 PM
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gay men are often shown as the better men. I dont know about better; but after my recent divorce, I can definitely say that they seem smarter…
/r/MensRights18/04/22 09:17 PM
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Yup. I was married to an abusive woman for five years, & getting a divorce was expensive but so worth it. That said, it took me longer than it should have to realize & act on that reality so I know how hard it can be to escape an abusive relationship.
/r/MensRights29/03/22 04:03 AM
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Fortunately she’s probably not bright enough to realize the difference
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 03:48 PM
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“We need to clean the house before the cleaner comes in” So my family had a maid growing up & this is one of those things that makes sense initially but has been spread without appropriate context too often. What it means is “Pick up your stuff & put it away so the maid can clean the surfaces instead of wasting time picking up after you” When I was a kid, I didn’t have to sweep my floor or wipe things down but there were few ways to raise my mother’s ire as quickly as if my toys, clothes & stuff…
/r/MensRights18/03/22 08:51 AM
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Because what they want is to be treated like equals; not actually to have to put in the effort of becoming an equal.
/r/MensRights18/03/22 05:05 AM
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It is the age old question of: If a man washes a dish, & a woman is not there to see it; did it happen?
/r/MensRights18/03/22 05:04 AM
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Hell my wife would call me into the kitchen from the other side of our house to get something off of a high place (despite the fact that we had a step ladder) because I am taller than her but the one time I asked her to grab something from the bottom drawer because she is shorter than me; suddenly I’m the asshole…
/r/MensRights18/03/22 05:02 AM
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The other thing that never gets mentioned is the amount of housework that women create for themselves. For example: Prior to my marriage, I had reasonable standards, dishes had to be done within 24 hours, cleaned the house & changed the sheets once a week. I sent all of my work clothes (suits, slacks & dress shirts) out to the cleaners, & ran two loads of laundry a week - one of things like socks & tshirts, & another of linens & towels. In contrast, my wife did 5-6 loads of laundry a week, duste…
/r/MensRights18/03/22 04:56 AM
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If the victims are all men, headlines always say “people”. Of course it does, because even though they were all men; the women were most effected…
/r/MensRights14/03/22 06:12 AM
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Dating someone significantly less mature and developed The problem with that is the age != maturity & in my experience, most of the women arguing against age gaps in a relationship tend to have a significant lack of maturity, despite their years. I got married when I was 39 (to someone a decade younger than me) & the woman I dated before that was 20. As a rule, I do not hit on women & I do not date women that I do not know; not to mention that while physical attraction is necessary, it in & of i…
/r/MensRights03/02/22 01:30 PM
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“Happy Spouse, Happy House” is more appropriate. Yeah but I live in reality; not some magical world where platitudes are meaningful.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:35 AM
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The husband’s sexual desire was irrelevant to anybody’s marital happiness. In my experience being a husband is about the fastest path to becoming entirely irrelevant.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:30 AM
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Isn’t eating it the entire point of having cake?
/r/MensRights11/01/22 12:52 PM
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In my experience, a disproportionate number of the women who claim to have the most difficulty dating after 30 are those who have the most going for them. They must not have much experience on the subject then; in my experience, women who have what it takes to make good partners are very rarely single & not for long. They are smart, fun, kind, and attractive. Sure, they can seem that way until you try to date them…
/r/MensRights11/01/22 11:05 AM
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might almost
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 06:59 PM
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But I believe the children come first in a second marriage. See, I can agree with you about casual dating that the kids have to come first. I can even understand a bit of “kids come first” sticking around after the relationship becomes a serious committed relationship. But I can’t agree when the relationship has progressed to marriage; at that point you’ve re-established a (hopefully) lasting partnership & it is in the kids best interest for that relationship to take primacy as it dramatically i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 03:37 PM
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I find tattoos to be one of the most helpful changes in dating culture that has occurred in my lifetime. Now you can just look at a chick (or a guy I suppose) & see the quality of (or usually lack thereof) their judgment. I have no tattoos myself for family / religious reasons & I’m not categorically against someone having a tattoo but so many of them are just fucking awful. Which I’m thankful for, because when I see someone with multiple terrible tattoos I know their judgement & taste aren’t co…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 01:25 PM
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The type of guys who WOULD be ok with being a stepdad likely aren’t on her radar. Such as a guy who also has a kid. I don’t have any kids & I am not categorically against being a step-dad (as long as we can have more kids together) but in my experience single moms are so damn full of “Oprah” entitlement that they are unbearable to spend time with, let alone consider for a serious relationship. Not to mention, I’m not going into a relationship agreeing to have my needs come third (after the kids …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 12:21 PM
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now believes she can do “better”. Hey, I have empathy for her, she bought into a whole pack of lies & bullshit which convinced her of that & now she is finding out that ain’t the case. Too bad she doesn’t have the self-awareness to recognize it, if she had, she might almost be dateable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 11:59 AM
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You are the one is saying your trauma is worse than mine I'm not sure whether you are delusional or illiterate (or both) but either way there seems little point in continuing to go in circles with you over a point which you are clearly either unable or unwilling to grasp. Either way, unlike a child on winter vacation; people actually expect me to provide value to the society around me so I'm going to refrain from wasting any more of my time with you & go relax before bed instead. Have a good nig…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/21 07:05 AM
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The fact you are advocating that Young girls do that shit is disgusting this the problem with you guys. I never advocated anything of the sort - seriously, if you want to engage in serious discussion, you need to at least take the time to actually & honestly comprehend what other people write. What I said was that it was not an uncommon behavior for the age, I made no statement in support of it. You sexualize the shit out of literal kids Where I have sexualized anyone? I'm not the one who create…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/21 06:32 AM
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This is my point it doesn’t consume your life Honestly, I never had much opportunity to let it; when I was 18 I was conscripted into the army & spent the next five years collecting far more severe & debilitating traumas to deal with. Did it consume my life? Who knows what impacts it has actually had; the point of the comment you are misunderstanding is that I've never been able to fully consider the impact it had - both because of the systemic & societal biases which not only gave tacit approval…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/21 06:23 AM
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I just hope you can find a place where you're load is a little lighter and you don't feel it haunting you anymore. Honestly, these days I don't really know "how" to think about those events. I've come to recognize that those events were not "ok" & that how I perceived them (both at the time & afterwards) were skewed by a societal set of norms that were anything but healthy. But as to how I feel about them now? I guess I generally don't feel much about them at all; they just got added to a long l…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/21 03:53 AM
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It's the Internet so I inherently don't believe anyone but for anyone that had too it can't be easy. Fair enough. Oddly for me, it was less traumatic in direct terms, than it was in second order effects. At the time & for years later, I viewed it as "no big deal", something that I "chose" to do & enjoyed. So all the guys used to think he was an absolute legend. While I never accustomed myself to that sort of machismo & indiscretion; that was the same sort of culture in which my experiences took …
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/21 03:09 AM
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every time my username gets brought up I loathe it. So either change it or own it. because this account was sexual in a nature when it was created. You wonder why you only encounter men who sexualize you but created a reddit account for purposes which were "sexual in nature" at age 13. The latter isn't remotely unusual, women of that age are often first encountering the power & privilege that their sexuality can bring them & often seeks safe (or safer) avenues to explore that; an anonymous reddi…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/21 03:01 AM
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I made this account when I was 13 every time my username gets brought up I loathe it. If you really disliked it even half as much as you claim, you would have created a new account. They are free & take only moments to create. You just can't stand the idea that someone on the internet might not know that you are a "beauty" & accord you pretty privilege as a result.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/21 02:46 AM
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Perhaps they were genuinely attracted to the benefits they believed sleeping with him would bring them…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/21 02:06 AM
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Yes, that is very likely.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/21 01:49 AM
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You are so dishonest Wishing it to be so, doesn't make it so. did women sexually abusing you make you feel all women were pedophiles? No, because it was worse than that; because back then society didn't even recognize it as "abuse" (& still only does so barely, female teachers who rape their students are routinely described as "having sex with" in the media) instead the abuse was normalized - I was told that "I was getting lucky & should be grateful". Did every single male in a position of autho…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/21 01:48 AM
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Eh, I think she is less of an intentional troll & more of a psychologically imbalanced person who is unable to separate “what reality is” from “what she feels reality is”
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/21 01:17 AM
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Leading off with an ad hominem attack is a really great way to demonstrate that you do not have the intellectual capacity to be taken seriously.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/21 12:53 AM
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Ahh yes “ women expire after 25” type of comment. Actually, I find women in late 30s more attractive than their younger counterparts; although those women tend to be the exception to the rule. You guys don’t get to tell women how to feel about shit. I am not telling anyone how to feel; I am simply pointing out that a lot of women end up feeling that way. Not to mention the women who aren’t sexualized even when they are young. Look at the absurdity around obese women being called “Big Beautiful W…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/21 12:51 AM
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As most women discover later in life; the only thing worse than being treated like a sex object; is not.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/21 12:31 AM
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Women actually are just as likely as men to initiate intimate partner violence; & of all the gender dyads, F-F dyads have the highest incidence of IPV. But good luck convincing anyone else to give a damn when you’re not only a man but a rather large one. I was literally twice the size of my erstwhile wife so it wasn’t likely that she’d inflict serious injury; which made it hard even for me to realize that any IPV isn’t ever ok. Live & learn I guess.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/12/21 08:20 AM
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Do you know why divorces are so expensive? Because they are fucking worth it.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/12/21 04:19 AM
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i met this 38 yr old woman once and she told me she wanted to settle down and have kids one day. Clearly you’ve forgotten that they cancelled biology for being sexist…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/21 04:17 AM
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It is… not true. Shh, who cares if it’s true; someone has to take the blame for dumbass children & the husbands take the blame for everything else so it’s only fair…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/21 02:03 AM
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The rule of thumb for women seems to be demand twice as much & offer half as much as their last relationship…
/r/PussyPassDenied25/12/21 01:45 AM
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Actually that isn’t quite correct; almost all diamonds these days are sold on a commission basis, so the store doesn’t actually pay for the Diamond until it sells. This gives them even less incentive to pay a reasonable price for a used Diamond because unlike the rest of their inventory they have to pay for it upfront.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/12/21 01:43 AM
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1) Why do these chicks always post from alt accounts? I mean, if they are going to whinge paragraph after paragraph; the least they can do is show us their tits for our trouble. 2) Why is that so many people have such difficulty accepting the obvious & foreseeable consequences of their choices? 3) I love how her solution to her problem is to try to hide the evidence so she can lie & deceive some poor sap into giving her the perfect relationship which she feels that she is entitled to. Building a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/21 12:19 AM
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That is why you do not demand it when the child is born. Instead you should make it very clear at the beginning of the relationship that you will insist on a paternity test for any & every child that results from the relationship. Many women try to frame it as an accusation of infidelity but a man has the same right to absolute certainty of his paternity that a woman gets by default. I have told every women that I’ve dated over the past 20 years that a paternity test is something I will insist o…
/r/MensRights02/12/21 05:05 AM
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it's PRESUMED to be yours but you can get that changed. You’re trying to use the conversational English meaning in a legal context, that just doesn’t work. A “Legal Presumption” is something that it considered a “fact” by the court without requiring it to be proven with evidence. In many states, there is a process for rebutting the presumption of paternity but that’s ranged from being difficult to impossible for that motion to prevail in court. In a number of states, a DNA test is not admissible…
/r/MensRights02/12/21 04:54 AM
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Talking them into it? Why? Isn’t loudly spitting in your hand good enough?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 10:30 PM
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complaining endlessly is their superpower. When you aren’t accountable for your actions, complaining is your only option; being accountable is the only thing that gives you the necessary agency to make changes in your life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 10:28 PM
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Rule 1: Be Attractive Rule 2: Don’t be unattractive
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 10:24 PM
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Is there some kind of conspiracy over there in the colonies that prevents women finding out about fertility rates and how they're affected by age? Not a conspiracy as much as the fact that they cancelled biology for being misogynistic…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 08:57 AM
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Nah, that isn’t a case of “beta can wait” that is a case of she was planning on fucking him (which is why she took the gummy) but he failed at following rule #2 so goddamn spectacularly that she couldn’t bring herself to go through with it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 06:21 AM
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If you are OK with it, this should be expanded and posted to the child sub I’m not opposed to the idea but I’m also not entirely sure what you’re looking for / asking of me 😁
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/11/21 11:34 PM
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Agreed. What is divorced from her mindset is any sort of idea of obligation. I’m not talking about old school patriarchal obligation but rather the basic & fundamental obligations to oneself & others not to engage in predatory behaviors. She met a man who was “good for her” & she states that she would love to keep the marriage if it was platonic (i.e. it is still good for her) as she is getting her needs met; but she resents feeling any obligation on herself to be “good for him” (i.e. meeting hi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 06:51 PM
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Adding class as a level of nuance is fair, but to call me disingenuous for not doing so isn’t. I was refuting the claim “because men died Call “class” a nuance when it is the only factor that matters is exactly why your argument is disingenuous. Class had not yet become relevant Class has always been the most relevant factor when it comes to human & civil rights since human civilization & society began. You then bring up the question “historically, did men and women of the same class have the sa…
/r/MensRights06/11/21 06:27 PM
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This seems to me like a permanent solution to a temporary problem. One of the countries in which I have citizenship has a mandatory conscription period of 3 years (2 for women) & I ended up serving for 5 years. Even if it is shitty situation, time will pass & you can put it behind you. I’m not saying that it is fair, or that it is right; just that it isn’t something worth killing yourself over.
/r/MensRights06/11/21 11:40 AM
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There are reasons that we die so early sadly. & here I always thought it was because god is merciful….
/r/MensRights06/11/21 02:58 AM
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This is a weird claim. Historically the vast amount of power, be that social, political, or capital, was held by men This is true, however it is a false comparison. As all of that wealth & power was held by a very small percentage of men, the vast majority of men, not only did not have access to that privilege but was subject to oppression which equaled if not exceeded that which women experienced. The attempt to mischaracterize a class distinction as a gender issue is disingenuous at best & bla…
/r/MensRights06/11/21 02:56 AM
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Why—because you can’t be trusted? I was raised to not give temptation an opportunity nor to accept interactions with others which might give them the wrong idea. Lastly, I make a point not to allow even the appearance of impropriety. I want everyone in my life to understand the importance of my relationship & to preclude idle musings & gossip by being exceedingly clear & consistent with my boundaries & priorities. Does that mean that I exclude some potentially valid interactions? Perhaps, but fo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/21 02:17 AM
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which is a way for women to shift accountability to the men for “pressuring” them into doing what they wanted to do but didn’t want to own. Seriously - I’ve got a sordid past of my own, & I’m not a hypocrite but if you aren’t willing to own your shit - the good, bad & ugly - you aren’t a person I can trust, let alone have a serious relationship with. to accepting the invitation to go somewhere private I dated a girl who when I was out of town, accepted an invitation from a male acquaintance to h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 08:50 PM
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It is not nearly the boast she seems to think it is - when I was 14; two guys in my class took turns fucking the same hole in a couch…
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/21 04:33 AM
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On the verge? Dude, “stick it in her pooper” has been around for millennia…
/r/MensRights29/10/21 04:25 AM
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The biggest lesson I hope you learn from this is to recognize their use of “shaming” as a manipulative tactic. The moment you see them pull that out it means they know they are wrong but hope to use shame to get their way. In future relationships, call it out & if they don’t change, walk. You can’t have a healthy relationship with someone who uses shame as a weapon against you.
/r/MensRights24/10/21 02:49 PM
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I’m more offended by calling this humor, than I ever could be by the blatant misandry.
/r/MensRights17/10/21 06:03 AM
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Except that his children are young, he isn’t married & there was paternity fraud. While it is true that courts don’t give a shit about what is right, they do give a shit about the legal fictions they pretend justify screwing people over; & in this case (specifically, in most cases you are correct that he’d be fucked) he has a decent shot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/21 06:12 AM
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A prenup only deals with property - children & child support is an entirely different matter. Although, I’ve been looking into the question of whether a prenup could include a presumption of 50/50 custody but so far I haven’t been able to find any case law along those lines so who knows how a judge would look at it. The problem is that divorce is between you & your spouse, so y’all can sign a contract between you - but child custody & support are between each of you & the child. A child (especia…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/21 11:07 PM
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Well, if you choose to have kids (or get married ever - even if y’all don’t want kids)- it can be avoided if you do your due diligence & plan accordingly. To start with you need to check the law for “presumption of paternity” in your state. If you live in one of those states where a DNA test is not allowed to rebut that presumption; move. Next, find out if you live in a common law marriage state & under what conditions a court can rule that a common law marriage existed. Talk with all of your pr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/21 10:58 PM
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While I appreciate the link, I was looking more for a couple of examples of how they claim that men benefit while women suffer from the impacts of climate change. Something that wasn’t addressed by the wiki page
/r/MensRights15/10/21 10:39 PM
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If he signed the birth certificate as the father, he would have to pay child support until it is removed With an attorney & DNA confirmation; he should be able to avoid even that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/21 10:23 PM
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Don't ever think that your girlfriend or fiancee or wife hasn't gotten fucked like this before just because you haven't seen photos or video. I’ve dated women who had this sort of past sexual activity (& I’ve done far more sordid shit myself) & I’ve dated women who have never even had a single casual hookup - each of their sexual partners was in the context of a serious, committed, long term relationship. How do I know this? Because I have open & honest discussions with women (before I sleep wit…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/21 07:27 PM
1

Makes me wonder if all the girls that I’ve ever gone out with has been fucked by two guys at the same time. The answer to this is complicated without knowing your standards & screening practices. Assuming what seems to be most guys screening practices, I suspect a lot more of them than you’d like to think & I’d recommend doing your best to put it out of your mind. Not only can you not change the past; those women aren’t in your life anymore - so dredging up that old shit when all it can do is hu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/21 07:08 PM
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Sure, he will have to continue to pay for the kids but cut the check from a distance. Actually, if the kids turn out not to be his; in these specific circumstances, a decent lawyer should be able to get him out of having to pay child support. They were not married so the presumption of paternity would not apply. They were publicly “engaged” so a common law marriage argument won’t fly & her paternity fraud should get him out of the “accepted a fatherly role” argument. but only if he gets a lawyer…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/21 06:25 PM
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According to the law he is the ‘father’ If they were legally married, in most states that would be the case. As they were publicly engaged, the presumption of paternity would not apply (nor would the be considered “common law” spouses). Some (few) states allow the rebuttal of presumed paternity within the first X years of a child’s life (with a DNA test) & IIRC two states allow the rebuttal within a short window after paternity fraud is discovered. In either case, because he isn’t her legal husb…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/21 06:21 PM
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Common law marriage is a thing. While common law marriage is indeed a thing; it would not apply in this case. Especially as they were publicly considered engaged not married. In every state that I am aware of; common law marriage requires presenting yourself as married (or some equivalent) a public engagement would be prima facie evidence that neither members of the couple considered each other a “spouse”. He will absolutely need an attorney however, but if the DNA test comes back & the children…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/21 06:15 PM
2

So I have not encountered this climate change focused form of feminism - are you able to briefly summarize the claims they are making about how men are advantaged vs females by climate change?
/r/MensRights14/10/21 03:58 PM
7

thats why God invented alcohol & why I day drink…
/r/MensRights13/10/21 06:14 AM
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MOST people are not self aware. In a (half-hearted) defense of “most people”. Being self-aware is a pain in the ass, takes effort & most importantly means you have to be accountable for 90% of the shit in your life., instead of blaming other people. I mean, I probably wish I could just be blissfully ignorant about everything at least once a day; my brain is just an asshole & won’t let me.
/r/MensRights12/10/21 11:36 PM
3

All those rules, standards & expectations are designed to tell you who you should be, instead of how to be the best version of yourself. Stop chasing other people’s dreams, expectations & validation. Instead, figure out who you are & what you value; then stop wasting time on people & activities that aren’t moving you in that direction. doomed to approach women continually and largely fail in their approaches Most guys waste their time & energy trying to approach women before they know anything a…
/r/MensRights10/10/21 04:11 AM
20

Oddly, this whole dynamic is something that I’ve only ever seen second hand. I don’t try to pick up (let alone hookup with) women (while I enjoy flirting, I only do so socially rather than sexually) nor am I remotely interested in overtly democratic women (not a political reference). As a rule, I don’t pursue women until I’ve gotten to know them socially & have learned enough about their values & character that I feel reasonably confident that there is relationship potential worth exploring betw…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/21 05:01 AM
1

Wait you mean, media, politicians & the Twitterverse have taken something out of context in order to craft a misleading sound bite & score cheap points? Say it isn’t so…
/r/MensRights06/10/21 11:29 PM
6

If you download the app, you’ll find a lot of guys willing to help you in the future, should you need to be filled in again…
/r/MensRights06/10/21 11:28 PM
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Her excuse was she had poor self esteem and body image issues so being with them made her feel good… I can’t even imagine an attorney even allowing a male defendant to present that as “potentially exculpatory” information. The idea that a court would even consider, let alone care about your feelings after you raped three minors under your authority demonstrates an extreme sense of female privilege.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/10/21 12:31 AM
1

pay for someone else's child is not going to be a solution that will be supported. Quite frankly, these days it actually makes more sense that the government pick up the cost of raising all children seeing as the benefits of said children skews disproportionately towards government & society as a whole in the form of lifetime tax revenue than it accrues to the parents. It was one thing when having children & investing in their future was essentially an insurance policy against destitution in old…
/r/MensRights30/09/21 01:53 AM
5

Agency, like truth, is a rare substance in that however much people extoll its value, the supply will always exceed the demand.
/r/MensRights29/09/21 06:45 PM
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that men paying taxes don't want to pay for some other man's child? Actually that has little to nothing to do with it. The state is perfectly happy to force a man to pay child support for a child that isn’t his (biologically) in some cases. Look up “presumed paternity” - there are plenty of men paying child support for children which were fathered as a result of their wife’s extramarital affair. The specifics of how it works vary from state to state but in some states, the court will not even co…
/r/MensRights29/09/21 05:03 PM
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The problem here is that people misunderstand the purpose of the law. Laws in our society are not designed to accomplish fairness or equity but rather to enforce the agenda & promote the interests of those who write them. The current state of the law in this area is a feature, not a bug. Men will always be forced to pay child support because the alternative is that the state would have to pay to support the child, which means that taxes would have to go up.
/r/MensRights29/09/21 03:56 PM
4

If I'm 33 I don't wanna be trying to date an 18 year old. the maturity just wouldn't be there. I’ve never really let age be a determining factor as long as they aren’t of an age which has legal consequences (statutory) or inconveniences (below drinking age). As a rule, I never hit on or try to seduce anyone, rather as I meet & interact with people in my life, I seek to learn about them, their values & priorities. If I feel there is a spark there & if I have gotten to know them well enough to ens…
/r/MensRights23/09/21 05:30 AM
11

It was always her who couldn't let it go and wanted to sleep separately My rule has always been that no person ever gets to tell another person that they can’t sleep in their own damn bed. If someone doesn’t want to sleep next to their partner, than they can go sleep on the couch, they can’t make their partner do so.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/09/21 07:11 PM
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Nevermind that I worked more hours, made twice her income and paid all the bills. This is why I realized that setting the bar at an equal share of tasks is not equitable - what you have to do instead is aim for each party to have an equitable amount of free & personal time. I work 60-70 hours a week & my erstwhile wife worked closer to 30-35 (well in the 11 months out of our five year marriage that she actually worked) & while I significantly out earned her over the course of our marriage (by mo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 06:45 PM
8

When measured with enough precision all salaries are six figure salaries.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/21 01:17 AM
2

Many actors don't choose their profession for fame and fortune. Fame and fortune finds them. What is the difference practically? If I do not want to have my life exposed to fame & publicity, dating a person who is making choices which very well may bring those things into my life - is simply not a good fit. He's beneath you? It isn't about being "better" than them, it is just about what I want my life to include & what I do not what my life to include. I wouldn't date an executive who travels al…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 03:39 PM
5

You're an abnormally rigid person. Perhaps, however, I do not see anything wrong with having identified my moral & ethical standards & looking for a partner who shares those values (when it comes to how I want to live my life & the sorts of intimate relationships I want to have). I do not need a malleable partner, I just need a partner who agrees with my values & is willing to put upholding certain moral/ethical values above any financial incentive to violate those values. I am not willing to en…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 07:34 AM
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Not only would I not date a sex worker (which is what OF is) I also wouldn’t date anyone in any of the following professions: Police officers Lawyers (a few limited exemptions) Actors Models / Influencers Realtors Collections MLMs Wall Street Sales (excluding retail) Human Resources Politicians Public Relations I’m sure there are some that I have slipped my mind & within each category there may be room for an individual exemption but as a rule I am going to be skeptical until proven otherwise. E…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 03:28 AM
4

Same as married men living longer. That is actually a relativistic cognitive bias. They don’t actually live longer, it just feels longer…
/r/MensRights01/09/21 10:33 AM
8

The oppressed love their oppressors & seek nothing more than to become them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/21 02:25 AM
1

You think this is good but if you go back a few decades most scientists agreed that white and black people were inherently "different" because of things like skull shape. Except that those "scientific facts" only were accepted because of prejudicial narratives & had the evidence behind the claims been held up to the rigors of the scientific method, it wouldn't have measured up, even by the standards of those days. However, because people are vulnerable to confirmation bias, they tend not to hold…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 11:14 PM
3

All that’s missing is the sense of humiliation and listlessness of the populace but automation and outsourcing is putting us one economic crash away from that too. Don't worry, I'm sure the millions of Americans who are currently facing the prospect of being evicted from their homes will fill that gap soon enough. If you look at predictive models that have been very reliable at predicting the sort of crisises which can lead to civil wars, failed states or governments toppling (mostly peacefully)…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 09:06 PM
4

However, to think that the US can’t succumb to a dictator / single party authoritarian is foolish. We’re veering close to that every election cycle. Indeed, although as someone who has spent most of my adult life in conflict areas, & failing or failed states, I'm far more concerned with internecine political combativeness shifting into actual physical violence in the streets - it is a pattern I've seen more than a few times & while we can change course any time we like, we sure seem to be having…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 08:13 PM
5

As someone with a degree in political science (not claiming expert status, only mentioning it to signal that the subject interests me greatly) there are times that I think that the only saving grace of our democracy is the profoundly reliable compulsion that both the right & the left have when it comes to shooting themselves in the foot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 07:56 PM
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The fuck is up with people having to hang this on “the left” at every turn? Two reasons: 1) They confuse leftist with progressive. 2) Most of “this” shit came from people who held left of center beliefs. I always considered myself a moderate until about 5 years ago when I realize that the only way to protect my “moderate” beliefs from being corrupted by the corporate kleptocracy was to utilize leftist socio-economic policies to preserve the political power of the citizens above that of the elite…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 12:05 PM
2

The only truly safe sex is wrong name & address…
/r/PussyPassDenied02/08/21 04:26 AM
4

I’m 45, white-passing, not married & 6’ Which puts me at 3.1% regardless of my weight & even if I had zero income. So clearly, I’m putting in way too much effort. Form an orderly line ladies…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 11:31 PM
3

always say they "swear too much?" In my view, it is an act of false modesty. Far too many people think that swearing makes them look (or feel) tough or that they won’t put up with other peoples shit. Now that isn’t to say that swearing doesn’t have its place & especially when used sparingly it can be very effective. The problem is that most people over do it & rely on both swearing & hostility more generally far more than they should. While I use profanity on occasion, I do so with careful inten…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 04:24 AM
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Who among us is so enlightened that we can’t enjoy a little schadenfreude from time to time. However, there is a line where it becomes unhealthy for you to revel in the misery of others. It is one thing to enjoy a little chuckle when seeing someone getting their just desserts & an entirely different than to gleefully be a spectator of human misery. Lastly, while I would never suggest that you coddle, excuse or accept the entitled & unreasonable behavior of others - I do feel it is important (for…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 04:03 AM
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Tell me your GF has a triple digit body count without telling me she has a triple digit body count…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/21 08:07 AM
2

If she really wants bio-kids, & if she’s lucky* she’ll be able to have one or maybe two children. However the only criteria she can reasonably have for a potential husband is the following: Fertile Male Platinum Heath Insurance Plan ~$100k in liquid or near-liquid assets to spend on fertility treatments once they max out their health insurance plan benefit. Not a drug addict Does not engage in abusive behaviors (the last two are included because Id never advise or expect anyone to try to start a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 06:49 PM
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wants marriage and kids now It’s almost like she knows nothing about biology. The odds of a 37 year old woman successfully carrying a first pregnancy to term is very low. Even with expensive & invasive medical intervention, it is going to be a rough road for her to get pregnant as she is at very high risk of miscarriage (& other complications) as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 01:09 PM
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I believe in gender equality. Which is why I am not a feminist.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/07/21 03:44 AM
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& biology is sexist…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/21 02:13 AM
1

I can afford that bill but it doesn’t take a man to pay a bill like that, it takes a moron…
/r/PussyPassDenied14/07/21 11:11 PM
7

Some women want it from an honest perspective of self-development, unfortunately too many women make the mistake of thinking it improves their value in the marketplace & allows them to "expect" more. Which doesn't have to be entirely false, if it wasn't for the far too frequent likelihood that their expectations are completely out of whack. I dated a brilliant 26 year old in my 30s who had two masters degrees & was working on her PhD (with zero student debt because she was talented enough that h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 05:47 AM
5

"Oh, yeah, I'm new here, just looking for mr. right! I've only had two boyfriends, I'm really inexperienced-" In my experience, it is pretty easy to tell when a woman is playing inexperienced as opposed to actually being inexperienced & one of the first signs is the extent they use sex as a lure. It isn't enough to be an absolute answer but whenever I've seen a supposedly inexperienced woman using sex (competently) as a lure, it's always been a cue for me to pay more attention & usually once I a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 05:38 AM
8

That sounds like something increasingly rare in our society (& in both genders) - self-accountability... kudos
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 05:20 AM
6

It's the old adage "actions speak louder than words". Listen to a person's actions & not their words is good advice when dealing with anyone. Look at the type of men they sleep with. This is important, I also care a lot more about why they choose to sleep with someone than any arbitrary statistic. I've got a high body count, not because I'm some pickup artist but rather because I've traveled & moved a lot in my life - but I've never slummed nor have I engaged in a lot of casual sex. The women I'…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 04:57 AM
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they would never get rid of a cat to have a long term relationship with a guy that was allergic Eh, I don’t agree, pets aren’t disposable things that you should get rid of when they become inconvenient. When you get a cat, it is potentially a 20 year commitment & I’ve only had four relationships that lasted longer than a year (all of which lasted 4-5 years) so no, I’m not getting rid of my cats for a potential relationship.
/r/MensRights24/06/21 06:21 PM
5

Welcome to the “InSpin” generation…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 02:09 AM
2

It’s like they all live in some bizarro world that doesn’t have stairs…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 07:28 AM
6

She could commit suicide by jumping from her ego to her IQ - I mean she couldn’t even spell “height” correctly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 03:21 AM
3

I’m glad to be of service - given how many epic fuckups I’ve made in my life, it’s be a shame if someone else didn’t get a chance to learn from (or be amused by) them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/21 05:39 AM
4

Yeah I rode that ride for a while - but then I realized that it was just another circlejerk & however fun, ultimately a waste of my time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/21 02:39 PM
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Be 6ft13 Seriously, I’m only two & a half feet long & this makes me very self conscious…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 02:01 AM
12

When a woman rapes, it gets called as 'having sex'. “Getting lucky” ftfy
/r/MensRights23/05/21 10:55 PM
1

Well stop, decide to be kind instead.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 07:08 AM
3

Yeah I just wanted to avoid giving off the impression that I was bragging about all the hot chicks I’ve banged. & unfortunately in far too many cases you are absolutely right - a lot of it also comes from toxic aspects of feminine culture but nobody can talk about it without being called a misogynist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 04:28 AM
9

That is absolutely true & my choice as well. Similarly, with ultimatums, I always choose the “or else”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 10:59 PM
3

That was exactly my thought
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 10:56 PM
4

I’m not a bad boy but I’m also not a nice guy either. I am a real human being with my own set of likes, dislikes, wants, needs & desires & I’m not going to pretend to like things I don’t in order to get someone to like me & I’m definitely not going to accept not getting my needs met in a relationship in order to continue the relationship. In most of my dating history - my expectation that my needs & wants be considered on as being just as important as their needs & wants - apparently makes me an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 07:52 PM
3

Man, I have to say, while I don’t feel sorry for those women, I do have empathy for how much it must suck to have put yourself in & continue a situation like that. I mean, I imagine it would really suck not only to be kept as a side piece but especially when they don’t even have a main piece. I’ve never allowed myself to be friendzoned - not because women haven’t told me that they “they just want to be friends” but rather because I do not build friendships with people unless both people are on t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 07:43 PM
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If you're not getting what you want, move on. Don't stay in that situation and whine about it This is so important & universally applies to almost everything in your life. If what you are doing does not inspire someone to meet your needs - you need to have a conversation about how to get your needs met. The answer may include you doing something differently or them doing more but as long as it is equitable the situation should be easily addressed. If after that (especially if you address any def…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 07:35 PM
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Yup, I’ve had plenty of women that I was interested in romantically tell me that they were only interested in being friends & I’ve never accepted those friendships. Similarly, if a woman is interested in me romantically & I don’t reciprocate those feelings, I will not purse a friendship with them as a consolation prize & if they happen to be in my life for some other reason(like they are friends of my friends) I am very careful not to accept attention, favors or gifts from them that aren’t appro…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 07:22 PM
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I’ve been fortunate to date a lot of very beautiful women (I am not a hot guy but because I actually am interested in who they are as a person, instead of just wanting a trophy or bragging rights, they tend to find me appealing - I am also not a nice guy - I try to be a kind & genuine person but I have the confidence & character to stand my ground & expect that they meet me halfway in a relationship - besides nice guys are honestly creepy because they are dishonest about what they want & who the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 06:38 PM
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Shit - I once dated a girl who asked me which of her friends I would be interested in having a threesome with. My answer caused her to completely lose her shit - apparently I wasn’t supposed to pick two of them…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 06:25 PM
12

We generally enjoy competition. It isn’t even just that - I enjoy being challenged by the competition & I don’t (have to take it personally). It’s like when you’re a kid & you get into a fight with another guy & then afterwards you’ve worked out the aggression & you become friends. If I’m playing a sport & someone beats me - I really appreciate both the challenge & the skill/effort they used to win. While I’ll admit that I do see women generally exhibit good sportsmanship in actual sports/games …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 06:22 PM
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The problem I had with my erstwhile wife (& many previous dating partners) was her confusing “her emotions” with her “beliefs/thoughts/desires”. Not to mention that while all of your feelings are valid, you don’t get to put them on someone else unless there is a valid reason in reality for them to be responsible. For example (& this applies to both men & women): If you feel insecure about something your partner does but that behavior doesn’t violate the norms & agreements of the relationship - t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 06:12 PM
2

Well, if she isn’t good enough for her own family…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 11:57 PM
12

Yes "never" generally includes all cases...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 07:05 PM
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I never once had cause to question my (erstwhile) wife’s fidelity during our marriage (& I wouldn’t have married her if that was not the case) - even now, it remains an area where she has my absolute trust. That said, long before I got married - I decided that I would get a paternity test for every child that I may have regardless of that trust as it is my practice in any matter that is important to me to “trust but verify”. It wasn’t an issue for us because I brought it up when we were still da…
/r/MensRights05/05/21 03:23 PM
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Never assume exclusivity. I only date exclusively (meaning that if I go on a date with one person, I do not date anyone else until I decide that I am not going to date them further) & I expect anyone that I date to do that same. As such, I communicate this expectation clearly & early to avoid exactly these sorts of questions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 02:37 PM
7

I’ve spent about half of my adult life in combat / conflict zones & I can not tell you how relieved I am that I did not get killed or maimed & thereby inadvertently contribute to the oppression of my mother & sisters. Fortunately, I managed to return home with only the trivial sort of psychological scarring which comes from spending a decade watching the worst of humanity in action. I am deeply grateful that the PTSD, GAD & MDD which makes each & every day of my current existence a Sisyphean str…
/r/MensRights04/05/21 07:38 PM
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I resigned voluntarily, so no dice. Yup, what you should have done (for the future or in case anyone else finds themselves in a similar situation) is the following: Document everything, record every conversation that you can, print out every email & keep a written daily record (get a journal with number pages that can’t be removed & each day write the date & list every event which happened that day - it is actually admissible in court as supporting evidence). At least once a week, but preferably…
/r/MensRights29/04/21 12:19 AM
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I’ve lived in a country which had similar laws & it was a shitshow... I’m particularly curious about the “concealment” aspect as that’s a new wrinkle - I mean, if you refuse to answer a question that is legally speaking “concealing” the answer.
/r/MensRights14/04/21 03:08 AM
2

I’ve never wanted to bang someone every day unless I was in love with them (without love, sex with the same person - for me - gets boring fast). As the former (for me) requires the latter, there is no conflict Then again, seeing as you provided “because I don’t believe in sex before marriage” as the sole answer to the question “Why would a guy want to get married?” - I suspect you are conflating the two far more than I.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/04/21 04:41 AM
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I wasn't actually arguing against (or for) your position. Marriage should be done because you love someone, not because you only want to bang them every day. Why not both? I mean, if you want to get technical (& religious for that matter) marriage should be done as a matter of contract - I'm not aware of any religion on the planet where "love" has played a predominantly role in marriage (or even pretended to) until very very recently in human history.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/04/21 04:26 AM
5

Boy are you going to be disappointed when you find out how little sex there is after marriage...
/r/PussyPassDenied05/04/21 01:50 AM
1

Because each crime has a list of acts that it covers. For example - 2nd degree murder is still murder in that you intended to kill a person but in order for it to be 1st degree murder you have to have planned to do so in advance. Every crime has “elements” which determine what the specific charge & punishment will be: So stealing a parked car & car jacking are both types of Grand Theft Auto but the statute which someone would be convicted of would be different in order to account for the differe…
/r/MensRights30/03/21 11:30 AM
1

No it doesn’t. The prosecutor, the defendant & this court ruling all agree that he is guilty of committing sexual assault. The problem is that the prosecutor & the original judge misunderstood the law & convicted him of “sexual assault 3” when his actions (as both the perpetrator & the victim described) were violations of “sexual assault 5”. The ruling did not say that it wasnt rape because she voluntarily got drunk. It said that he was convicted of the wrong type of rape charge.
/r/MensRights30/03/21 05:22 AM
1

The problem here is the use of the imprecise word “rape. He wasn’t convicted of “rape” he was convicted of “sexual assault 3” when he committed, confessed to & should have been convicted of “sexual assault 5”.
/r/MensRights30/03/21 05:15 AM
1

Exactly, he is still guilty of sexual assault, he is just not guilty of that category of sexual assault because that charge is specifically for people who roofie their victims in order to have sex with them.
/r/MensRights30/03/21 05:11 AM
2

Y’all are misreading the ruling. MN has 5 different classifications of sexual assault. This case was not saying that what he did wasnt sexual assault it was saying that it was “Type 5” instead of “Type 3”. The court incorrectly instructed the jury as to what type 3 was defined as so they convicted him of type 3 instead of type 5.
/r/MensRights30/03/21 05:04 AM
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Both parties (the state & the defendent) agreed that the facts of the cause constituted sexual assault. The only question was “In what degree?*”. Minnesota lists 5 different degrees of sexual assault, each receiving a different punishment. In this case, the law as written defined it as “Sexual Assault in the 5th degree” which unlike the other four degrees (which are all felonies) - it is a gross misdemeanor for the first offense & a felony for any subsequent offenses. The MN legislature made the…
/r/MensRights30/03/21 04:56 AM
11

I prefer Involuntary Spinsters or “InSpin”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 06:27 PM
19

Women control access to sex, men control access to relationships.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 06:25 PM
13

Seriously. I’d be surprised if she has the intellectual capacity to consent...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 03:46 AM
10

When my erstwhile wife & I separated our finances, my monthly expenditures dropped from ~11k per month to < 3k per month. So around 70% of our spending was to her benefit. Not to mention that of that roughly 8k a month she spent, she only brought in about 6k of income. Of course, she only worked for the last year of our marriage so while that year only cost me 24k, the other four years cost me ~96k per year. For that, I got to do half of the household chores, nearly 100% of the financial, legal,…
/r/MensRights27/03/21 01:21 AM
7

Not even then. My erstwhile wife was pissed at me our entire marriage for fucking a 20 year old model the weekend before we met. She claimed that it demonstrated a critical lack of good character (as I was 39 at the time) despite the fact that (while I didn’t disclose the fact on our first date), she was aware of it before we ever slept together let alone before we got married. Not that it stopped her from marrying me. I honestly thought she was joking for the first year or two of our marriage.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 07:31 PM
92

I’m not hot but for some reason women find me attractive from time to time. In my experience, if a woman is attracted to you, you can say & do almost anything - it isn’t so much that they lower their standards because they find you attractive as much as once they decide you are attractive, they simply do not apply their standards at all. Instead they’ll look for any reason or excuse to justify or disregard any action or statement which is inconsistent with how they want to see you. To be fair, I…
/r/MensRights25/03/21 03:15 AM
11

and even when businesses break up, partners are still entitled to future earnings Except no they aren’t. Paul Allen didn’t “get money” from MSFT after he left the company. He owned stock that he purchased during his employment.
/r/MensRights16/03/21 03:28 AM
10

He has a beautifully fucked up sense of humor which thankfully I inherited. When I was 12, he sat me down in the living room for a talk. Son, your mother & I always wanted to have three kids... (I was the youngest of three & gave him a look of yeah so where are you going with this) ... but the way things are going, we have come to the realization that we may just have to kill one of you so we decided that we should have a spare... This was how I found out that I was going to have a little sister…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/21 09:27 PM
54

This is what you get when you have boys raised by single mothers. My father sat me down at 13 & said: “Most of your fuckups in life are fixable as long as you don’t end up in prison or knock a girl up.” I nodded & he continued: “As you get older & start getting with women, aim for quality women over available women but accept that you are going to make some mistakes, & I could tell you “don’t stick your dick in crazy” which is great advice but I couldn’t follow it when I was coming up so I don’t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/21 11:12 AM
1

Further down the thread I provide links with more information, it is unfortunately quite true - although to be fair - I could have been more clearer about one thing. Her husband found out she was pregnant three months after the divorce, the actual date of conception was not provided, I realized later that what I wrote was not as clear on that as it should have been.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/01/21 08:40 AM
1

Hell, while I technically have all of those things (except harps), really only my education is broadly considered a positive & while I'm funny as hell, my sense of humor usually just gets me in trouble... Yet, I've never had any trouble dating & generally am considered by those who know me to date women who are way out of my league (to be fair, those who know me have the advantage of well, knowing me)...
/r/PussyPassDenied14/01/21 08:37 AM
22

Yeah seriously, that’s why you do it on the way home... duh...
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/21 11:40 PM
51

Dude you really should blur out her face or something - it’s not cool go out people like that...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 06:13 AM
17

Yeah I wasn’t actually being serious...
/r/MensRights10/01/21 07:18 AM
4

Honestly for me, it also isn’t just limited to prurient subjects, there are a number of careers someone could choose which to me would establish a significant disconnect between our values & rule them out as a potential partner.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/21 07:17 AM
22

Well for one thing, they can’t pee standing up...
/r/MensRights10/01/21 07:04 AM
4

There ain’t a woman on the planet hot enough to get me to eat a fucking happy meal. I don’t take a woman to a nice restaurant to impress her - If I’m taking a woman out, I go someplace I enjoy eating - that way I’m at least guaranteed to enjoy the food.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/21 03:41 AM
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I do. It isn’t because I’m jealous or insecure & I expect the women I dare to be comfortable with their sexuality (just as I am comfortable with my own). I don’t judge people who decide that commercializing their sexuality works for them, if that makes them happy then more power to them. However my values & my perspectives in life are different & a personal who commercializes their sexuality simply has a different set of values & priorities than I do. Similarly, there are a number of nonsexual c…
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/21 03:38 AM
5

While the points you make are likely true, for me it is something else. My set of values requires me to contribute to the world in more substantial ways & there are any number of careers which while legal would signal to me that someone has a different set of values than I have. If I’m going to date someone seriously, let alone get married & have a family - shared values are the most important thing. Quite frankly if the idea of profiting off of the fact that people want to fuck you is something…
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/21 03:32 AM
1

I wouldn’t date anyone who sells their sexuality. From a crackwhore to a model or an actress. If commercializing the fact that people want to fuck you is how you want to live your life - more power to you but we clearly have an incompatible set of values.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/21 03:26 AM
2

I spend that much going out alone. Hell half the time I go out with friends I end up picking up the tab (usually more than half of the bill is mine anyway). I don’t care if it a woman or a friend, if I’m paying I’m going to go to the places I enjoy. With a friend, I know I’ll enjoy their company, with a woman, she’d better measure up. I’m not going to eat at a fucking Outback because the chick might be a slag.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/21 03:24 AM
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Seriously, god didn’t invent chicks with ducks for nothing...
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/21 03:20 AM
8

If you actually have a personality, that’s all it takes.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/21 03:18 AM
4

I disagree. If a woman’s body is her best asset, then all she has to offer is an enhanced form of masturbation. For me, a mind that turns me on is one of the few things that makes the hassle worth it.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/21 03:17 AM
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I have to say (while I ain’t paying for it) I can admire the ingenuity that was involved in figuring out how to make money as a whore without having to actually do the whoring.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/21 03:14 AM
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Honestly, I take the opposite tack. I told my erstwhile wife every goddamn disgusting & sordid thing I’ve ever done before we got married. She never had a problem with any of it until I filed for separation.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/21 03:08 AM
23

I just wish i got paid £7 for every wank i've had Bill Gates here I come...
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/21 03:06 AM
1

Nah, I think he knew exactly what he was doing...
/r/AntiFeminists09/01/21 06:07 AM
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I don’t hate Trump - I find him to be a person lacking integrity & moral character. He is narcissistic He cheats people in business (he is famous for hiring contractors & then refusing to pay them the amount promised - he’s been sued over 3000 times as a result) He cheats on his wives He is a terrible businessman & he lost so much money running casinos that his investors chose to pay him off to get him out of the company faster in the hope of salvaging what was left He has admitted to sexually a…
/r/MGTOW07/01/21 08:45 PM
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My god man, I can understand where your disillusionment came from but how the fuck did you end up looking at a lying narcissistic fuck like Trump & finding hope. I can’t say I agree with everything you said, but I can at least understand how someone could feel that way - but I’m sorry, you seem to be way off base when it comes how you process events. Trump wasn’t a sign of hope, he was the recourse left to those who had given up all hope. I’ve always found myself torn between agreeing with the r…
/r/MGTOW07/01/21 07:11 AM
2

Eh, I tend to redirect it rather than suppress it, I like helping people I care about & I’ve always made more money than I care to spend so I figure why not. I mean shit, my erstwhile wife used to drop almost 10k a month, it ain’t like I’ve got habits or desires that need that kind of money.
/r/MGTOW06/01/21 07:55 AM
1

Well I guess technically it is, considering I wrote it ~2 hours ago...
/r/PussyPassDenied06/01/21 05:16 AM
1

That's sort of impressive. I'm almost offended, do you really think after 24 years of fucking around (& I even had a boat for a lot of that time) I'd ever settle for anything less than goddamn impressive? She was (& is) a force to be reckoned with - brilliant, & gorgeous, funny & cheesy - her crazy matched my crazy & sometimes too well - I mean her anger issues weren't a stranger to me, at one point in my life, I had damn near identical anger issues - but I came to a point where I either had to …
/r/PussyPassDenied06/01/21 03:06 AM
1

Yeah, & I posted them in a subsequent comment in this very thread.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/21 09:35 PM
23

I've been divorced too, never again am I getting married. Honestly, I have a hard time being bitter about it - but I'm also not going to back to a game of poker with a rigged deck. The first thought I had when I first laid eyes on my wife (from the other side of a large room) was "Damn, now that's the kind of woman I'd like to marry". Then I went back to the in depth discussion I was having & explaining to the host of the party how certain investment banks arbitraged CDO tranches & then insured …
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/21 08:32 AM
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The only safe sex is wrong name & address - although, sticking it in her pooper is probably the most fun form...
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/21 07:39 AM
1

To be fair, I did acknowledge that I wasn't as clear as I should have been on the timing in my original comment (sue me, I'm drinking, its been one of those years) I meant to say that he found out she was pregnant 3 months after the divorce was finalized. Neither he nor I know when the conception actually occurred (& if his ex-wife knows, she ain't saying, although she has admitted that the child isn't his, that just isn't sufficient for the court to disestablish paternity under state law)
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/21 07:04 AM
4

Presumptive paternity is only for a child conceived in wedlock: a child conceived three months after the divorce was finalised would in no way be presumed to belong to the ex-husband; I apologize, I realized what I said was phrased in an unclear manner. I was not meaning to say that the child was conceived 3 months after the divorce was finalized - rather it was 3 months after the divorce was finalized that he found out she was pregnant. I should have stated that more clearly. That said, in Wash…
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/21 07:00 AM
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That's why I was hoping for some kind of news article about it. Why would the news write an article about the law functioning as it was intended? I mean, they might as well write an article every time the sun rises... This is the part I agree with. It does create some injustices and situations that are "unfair" but we should strive to minimize those. I agree with that in principle, at least in all cases where both partners were involved in the act of procreation. Presumptions of paternity were n…
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/21 06:34 AM
5

or a period of time to pass. The time period is usually a year or so. In my state it is 300 days. If you don’t have kids & aren’t having major fights over property, you can get your divorce finalized in 90 days. That leaves another 7 months where your ex-wife can get laid & you can still get fucked.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/21 04:23 AM
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We weren’t close enough that I was going to recommend anything which could have been perceived as illegal but I sure would have understood if he had done so. Although for myself, the idea of running away just doesn’t sit well with me - because then they win the narrative & you just get labeled another jerk trying escape your obligations. If I was in his shoes, I’d be sorely tempted to walk into that judges courtroom, douse myself in gasoline & give him a very warm hug. That level of dedication &…
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/21 04:19 AM
14

Source? I saw the guy go through the whole mess - but I’m never one to speak about things I do not know for a fact, so I’ll humor you... Well, humor isn’t really the right word for something that’s going to just ruin your day but it’ll have to do... As for the question of legalities: 1) Google “presumed paternity” many if not most states have some statute along those lines. 2) Child support in many states have conditions where the obligation can extend past 18 & in certain limited cases (for exa…
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/21 03:29 AM
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Except that in many states, a man is liable to support a child if it is conceived during a marriage (& can be for as much as a year after the divorce is finalized) regardless of paternity. I worked with a guy who was dead set against having kids, as was his wife - they both loved to talk about how great the “dink” life was. Well, turns out after being married five years or so, the wife decided she wanted kids after all. The guy wasn’t interested so they filed for divorce. Three months after the …
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/21 02:04 AM
9

I’ll take things that will never happen for $1000 Alex...
/r/MensRights04/01/21 04:41 PM
11

My erstwhile wife used to yell at me for “letting her” eat too much chocolate (because she would get sick from it) but if I said anything about it at the time she’d freak out & tell me to mind my own business.
/r/MensRights04/01/21 04:40 PM
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I have to agree with the person you responded to, you have no reason to be ashamed because of sharing the same gender as her. There are entitled shits in both genders, the only obligation we have is to not allow ourselves to fall for their bullshit. If you have the spoons, calling them out on it is nice & helpful as well; but even that isn’t an obligation because if it was, none of us would have time to do anything else.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 03:59 AM
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Why I’m glad that I didn’t get my ass blown off in any of the ten or so years I worked in combat zones - I would hate to have oppressed my mother & sisters with my death or dismemberment. Fortunately I only suffered nearly debilitating psychological trauma from repeated cases of PTSD compounding on top each other over the years - so much so that it’s taken five years & ~20 pills a day for me to function at a basic level since I came home. Fortunately, they can just ignore those impacts & struggl…
/r/MensRights29/12/20 03:52 AM
1

Wow, you get a whole hour?
/r/MensRights25/12/20 06:42 AM
1

It is worse than that. The price to rent the cow for a night (or several) is $0 The price to buy that same exact cow is half of everything you have now & will ever make I mean, I’m a romantic so I’d prefer a relationship to casual sex but honestly I’m not interested in acquiring that product at either price. A woman who can’t understand the difference between being sexually liberated & sexually liberal - isn’t one I want to fuck, let alone date.
/r/MensRights25/12/20 06:34 AM
1

Hey man, If I could look at my buddy’s hairy ass & find love...
/r/MensRights25/12/20 06:26 AM
2

So, I can't have female friends, because I might sleep with them Not true in my case, as I’ve pretty much already slept with &/or dated all of my close female friends & if I had any interest in doing so again, I wouldn’t be single. Then again, my erstwhile wife (for the duration of our relationship & may still to this day for all I know) held the fact that I slept with a 20 year old hottie the week before we met against me & as proof that of my untrustworthiness.
/r/MensRights25/12/20 06:24 AM
2

they might have to, GASP, actually put time, energy, and effort into building those relationships?!? You are seriously discounting the significant time, energy & effort that women already have to invest in tolerating the fact that men might have different options, views or desire. Having to consider someone as an actual human being with agency, let alone sovereignty is more than we can reasonably expect apparently. Perhaps I’m entirely off base, but in my definition, Love starts when you stop tr…
/r/MensRights25/12/20 06:13 AM
2

Meh, the problem with that - is that when you view women through a lens where all you desire from them is sex; it rapidly becomes harder to justify putting up with them for what is (let’s be honest increasingly mediocre) sex. The best sex of my life hasn’t necessarily been with the hottest or sluttiest women - but with the ones who were most engaged & where we had a strong connection that turned good sex into mind blowing sex. For me, sex without the mental & emotional connection (& the passion …
/r/MensRights25/12/20 03:38 AM
3

Oh, I was actually born in the US (although I have spent about as much time in my life living outside the US as within it) & while I’d been out of the US for nearly a decade when I met my wife - it never occurred to me that she would change so drastically as a result of the move. My wife was vocal & independent prior to the move, a woman & a force to be reckoned with - but also someone who was committed to partnership & teamwork. We both wanted a partnership of equals, or at least that was my un…
/r/MensRights25/12/20 02:57 AM
5

It was interesting to me - none of those behaviors existed in my marriage (except for checking in & that was something we both appreciated) prior to us moving to the states. Once we had lived in the US for a while, She tried to institute a number of them at the advice of her friends (I assume) but I wasn’t having it. I am an adult, fully capable of making my own decisions. I do not tolerate anyone else dictating to me, nor do I desire to dictate to anyone else. My erstwhile wife, quit drinking b…
/r/MensRights24/12/20 11:58 PM
3

Because that would require them to be accountable for their actions & responsible for the outcomes. I honestly do not blame women (individually) for this, the allure is too strong & the messages too reinforced in American (& to a lesser extent Western) culture. I met & married my erstwhile wife in Brazil, & the amount of entitlement which she gained when we moved to the US was obscene. She wasn’t some poor oppressed third world country girl - her family was well off & she grew up with household …
/r/MensRights24/12/20 11:39 PM
1

It would help if women didn't push you to "open up" and then belittle you when you do. In my experience, when women say they want you to open up - they have a preconceived notion of what that will look like & generally have a difficult time processing things when what they get doesn’t conform to those expectations. Such expectations are entirely impossible for a man to meet because the woman (I believe unknowingly) is seeking a figment of her imagination - some idealized sense of openness & conn…
/r/MensRights24/12/20 11:18 PM
3

What most of us want is a social floor so NO ONE can be oppressed, and equality of opportunity. That is a statement often said but rarely demonstrated. Words are only meaningful when you actions are in accordance with them. I’m a humanist, a deep believer in social justice & an increasingly radical leftist but I take great exception with the current body of thought & action which seem to be coming from the intersection of 3rd (4th? Post-truth? I can’t keep track of the labels these days) wave fe…
/r/MensRights16/12/20 02:05 PM
26

The oppressed love their oppressors & seek nothing more than to become them...
/r/MensRights16/12/20 05:18 AM
14

Yeah honestly the slap seemed more like a surprised reaction than an intentional smack. That said, as soon as she made physical contact without his consent, she opened herself up to physical correction for that behavior. Had it gone further than it did, that would be different but in this case I think she received a response proportionate to her offense.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/12/20 03:47 AM
2

I do not support censorship (or banning) of any thought, speech or written work. But the protections of our rights are against government infringement not private persons or businesses. However, we are now seeing tech companies profit from an increasing monopolization of the internet space within the public sphere, it seems to me that perhaps we should expect them to uphold the same protections if not in full than at least in part or to some degree. It is going to be interesting to see if this c…
/r/MensRights11/12/20 12:20 AM
1

Shit my erstwhile wife tried to get me to console her over our separation - yeah, considering I filed for the separation because she quit therapy (to work on her toxic & abusive behaviors) - that dog wasn’t going to hunt. Not that she didn’t get pissed at me for refusing to play her game...
/r/MensRights09/12/20 07:53 AM
1

ahh thank you - for some reason it didn't work on my phone but does from my pc.
/r/MensRights07/12/20 09:07 AM
1

Meh paywall - can you post the text?
/r/MensRights06/12/20 11:22 AM
1

You could also buy them to use only one time. That one could, but that would further reduce rather than improve the overall TCoO ratio between the two products. It may still cost you less than sex with a woman In my observation, the price of sex has never been lower, in fact if you go into any public area in our society you will literally be surrounded by people trying desperately to give it away. The problem is not with the price of sex, the problem is with the terms which many vendor wish to a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 12:03 AM
0

Actually, "Opportunity Cost" is one of the many factors which are included in the TCoO process & by itself, OC is a fairly weak process by which to make an optimized economic decision. When calculating the complete TCoO for any purchase, you must not only consider the opportunity cost, but also the acquisition cost, the depreciation cost, the maintenance costs, to just name a few of the factors necessary to determine what the "True Price" is & therefore not only what you should pay for it but al…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/20 11:37 PM
1

Again, this is a failure to understand the lessons of TCoO & as a result, a failure to choose or apply best practices. When you correctly understand the various economic functions which impact the actual cost of obtaining the desired function. When you can correctly evaluate TCoO, it allows you to understand the full price & cost structure of obtaining & maintaining the desired functionality. Specifically in this case, the common misunderstanding of the difference between an asset & a liability.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/20 06:38 PM
1

The only time Golf makes any sense to me or that I wouldn’t enjoy my time more if I left the left clubs behind & just strolled the length of the course is when I’m drunk. Not tipsy, not a little buzzed but drunk - I mean 4th day of an insomniatic bourbon fueled bender of the sort that history has shown to be absolute proof that the “post hoc ergo propter hoc” fallacy simply does not apply to legislation. In that state: *Golf is the best thing ever...” It is literally the best way to spend a few …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/20 06:36 AM
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a fleshlight would work out way less expensive in the long run. Clearly you’re not well versed in economics & TCoO (total cost of ownership) modeling best practices... The fleshlight intially appears cheaper because it subsidizes it apparent cost & disguises its TCoO by offloading costs on to the user. Since the user subsequently devalues their labor & so doesn’t include a market valuation of the added unpaid labor which it requires. As you may be aware, a woman usually has a self-cleaning featu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/20 11:34 PM
2

Yeah polygraphs are entirely unreliable - at most they show that a person was made anxious or nervous by a question. In a former life, I worked for a national security service (not as anything exciting however, sorry to disappoint) & unlike the US, the nation I worked for had entirely rejected the process except as a psychological tactic on hostile interogatorees . I received specific training on how to “beat” a polygraph & it essentially boiled down to “they are bullshit, don’t worry about them…
/r/PussyPassDenied27/11/20 03:58 AM
8

That’s why I won’t date any women under 5’8”...
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/20 11:59 PM
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I’m sure the drug store has something that can help with that...
/r/PussyPassDenied08/11/20 07:37 PM
1

What part of “continue this conversation with your therapist” did you fail to understand? Unfortunately for you, I do not owe you either the mental or the emotional labor to explain to you the extent of your failings. Particularly, when you’ve already demonstrated yourself to be unwilling or incapable of hearing anything beyond what you want to hear. I’ve been polite to this point, so how about you go call someone who cares.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/10/20 05:11 AM
1

The assumptions & projections you make are your responsibility to reconcile, rather than mine to correct so I'll let you continue this conversation with your therapist.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/10/20 02:09 AM
1

I don’t know about that, it didn’t work when your mom tried it...
/r/PussyPassDenied04/10/20 08:02 PM
1

Yeah, I was not remotely being serious...
/r/PussyPassDenied04/10/20 07:57 PM
1

Except not at all. I’m vehemently pro-choice & deeply humanistic. I just have a dark sense of humor.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/10/20 07:56 PM
50

My hangers are all wooden, why would I want to risk getting a splinter?
/r/PussyPassDenied04/10/20 09:13 AM
219

Nah, my hangers are too nice to ruin one like that...
/r/PussyPassDenied04/10/20 08:56 AM
1

I’ve never understood the controversy about abortions... Do most people not have stairs or something,
/r/PussyPassDenied04/10/20 08:50 AM
4

To paraphrase Jack Nicholson’s character in “As good as it gets” “It’s easy, just think of a woman, then add in reason, consequence & accountability...”
/r/MensRights10/09/20 02:45 AM
-4

Simp
/r/PussyPassDenied26/08/20 07:07 AM
5

Well it is patriotic to defend the president...
/r/PussyPassDenied26/08/20 07:07 AM
3

Come on now - if she’s good enough for his dad, his brother, his best friend and his work colleagues- he’d be a fool to let her slip away...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/20 08:52 AM
0

His acquaintances and family are victims of her. No, they were additional (indirect) casualties of his behavior. He acted massively inappropriately, the is literally no older form of justice in human society than shaming his family for his misbehavior.
/r/PussyPass15/03/20 02:12 AM
0

I directly addressed and refute the key part of your argument - specifically that: If what he did is wrong, then her doing the same thing is also wrong. The problem with that argument is that the two actions are not equivalent - they are meaningfully and importantly distinguished both by motivation and the desired result. Your retarded attempt to continually reduce the scenario to an absurd degree to find commonality where there is none. stay stupid and ignorant then. Sonny boy, I could double y…
/r/PussyPass15/03/20 01:13 AM
0

It's completely stupid and missing the point. If it's wrong for him to send unsollicited pictures to her, it's also wrong for her to send unsollicited pictures to them. You are incorrectly conflating the two as being the same action when they are not. He sent her that photo of his junk because it got him stimulated and excited and forced someone else to view his genitals. For her to do the same thing, she'd have to send a photo of her junk to his family because it turned her on to make them look…
/r/PussyPass15/03/20 12:46 AM
-1

You could have just said "Yes"... I'll send someone over with some french fries and you have yourself a happy feet kind of day...
/r/PussyPass14/03/20 11:35 PM
2

Are you literally retarded? I'm asking this seriously because I don't believe in making fun of the mentally disabled. And nobody fucking rapes anyone because of an outfit she is wearing, or because she was leading them on - they rape people because they are piece of shit rapists... I've had lots of women lead me on in skimpy outfits in the last 30 years, I have somehow managed not to rape a single one of them...
/r/PussyPass14/03/20 10:38 PM
1

How are they the victims? If they hadn't raised an entitled self-indulgent little shit head who thought that his sort of behavior was acceptable - they would have never been involved. Douche bag behaviors don't come out of thing air - shitty kids turn into shitty adults - it all starts at home. If they hadn't put up with his crap and taught him that he could get away with being a creepy asshole - more than likely he wouldn't have become one.
/r/PussyPass14/03/20 10:02 PM
1

No - and the idea that some guy sending unwanted dick pics is the victim is something you should really bring up with your therapist cause you're whack...
/r/PussyPass14/03/20 09:42 PM
1

The first half is logically sound - the second half was speculative amusement.
/r/PussyPass14/03/20 09:04 PM
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Well clearly they failed to instill some basic fucking human decency in him as a child - maybe the shock of this will get them to schedule his ass for some remedial classes.
/r/PussyPass14/03/20 07:26 AM
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I completely condone her actions - it isn't a pussy pass it is a douche bag being served just desserts.
/r/PussyPass14/03/20 07:25 AM
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The pics weren't necessary. Sure it was buddy, and I'm sorry that your family was faced with actual evidence of your douchebaggery but you got what was coming to you. I had a buddy way back in the days before selfies who had a nasty breakup with the girl he was seeing in highschool just before they left for college. Three weeks into the first semester he gets a card from her - inside the card was written "FUCK YOU" and enclosed was a photograph of her mouth open tongue stuck out - one hand makin…
/r/PussyPass14/03/20 07:24 AM
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that SHE harasses people with said pictures ? She didn't harass people with said picture - she exposed his behavior to his family and embarrassed him. Lets be honest - it isn't like his parents, aunts and probably even uncles haven't see his dick before - hell I bet he has already pulled this type of crap even with his cousins...
/r/PussyPass14/03/20 07:19 AM
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Except that is in the Emirates so she should have known better...
/r/PussyPassDenied27/09/19 07:56 AM
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Wow, I bet I atleast have more friends than that guy...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/19 06:28 PM
1

Somehow I think she was giving that ass away for free long before she had an Instagram account...
/r/MGTOW15/09/19 08:03 PM
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Please do elaborate further... I mean, you are tasked with designing the most efficient method for warehousing, executing and incinerating human bodies by the thousands. Which architectural elements and design features would you include to make the place seem more welcoming and homey?
/r/MGTOW15/09/19 08:02 PM
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For example..why is Auschwitz (clearly german name) being called a "polish" death camp on occasion? It isn't, except by those who are ignorant.
/r/MGTOW15/09/19 07:57 PM
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Unfortunately, he is spewing half truths and distortions to create the appearance discrepancies. 1) Auschwitz is and has always been considered a German Death Camp - the fact that it was built on land that is today considered part of Poland does not make it a Polish Death Camp. 2) In typical German efficiency, the Nazis recorded every person entering the death camps and every death which occurred (whether intentional, incidental or accidental) so there is no dispute or debate about who died ther…
/r/MGTOW15/09/19 07:57 PM
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that jews are trying to twist history to their agenda: First off Auschwitz was a German deathcamp, since there was no Poland at the time 1) Anyone who knows anything about the Holocaust knows that it was perpetrated by the Nazi German Regime - only an idiot would call Auschwitz a Polish deathcamp, it was a German deathcamp built on Polish land. Starting your diatribe with that information makes it seem like someone is trying to make a false claim, when in fact, it is manufactured to attempt to c…
/r/MGTOW15/09/19 07:43 PM
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Look on the bright side - the woman in the background is her mother...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/19 09:27 PM
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Just mentioned that in case she was vegan. That seems unnecessary, I mean if she was vegan, she would have told you three or four times by that point in the conversation...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/19 09:25 PM
2

Now Karen if you're gonna be a whore I'm fairly certain her father would be safe assuming that part...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/19 11:47 AM
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Well technically, I think it would be more accurately described as "raw and unfiltered"...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/19 10:44 AM
2

I thought he meant "anal sex"...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/19 10:26 AM
6

yes
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/19 10:24 AM
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Did she skip Sex ed? You really can't blame her, these days there are so many young women who tragically grow up without a father to teach them about anal sex...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/19 10:24 AM
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and dried up baby formula stuck to them That isn't baby formula...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/19 10:23 AM
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As my father would say - she is the reason god invented anal sex...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/19 10:22 AM
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Say what you want about her behavior but you have to admire her commitment to the brand image...
/r/PussyPassDenied25/06/19 05:46 AM
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Oh I doubt it, I can't imagine you be finished with your intake paperwork before the end of the century, you know how bureaucracies can drag on...
/r/MensRights22/06/19 08:09 AM
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Yeah well people don't tend to like others spotlighting their crappy behavior.
/r/MensRights22/06/19 07:46 AM
2

Yes because mother's day only celebrates mother's who are either married or raising furbabies...
/r/MensRights22/06/19 12:54 AM
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Fortunately for you, there are only 27 days until you will find out...
/r/MensRights22/06/19 12:51 AM
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The only proper time for a man to wear his boxers in the wild is if he has the full kit (bathrobe and slippers) and is at least two days into a particularly extravagant bender. Anything else would simply be boorish.
/r/MensRights22/06/19 12:16 AM
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I still wear it to private functions if it would be appropriate as my cousin's drunken step-mother is probably going to get handsy regardless but in her defense, when it comes to sexual harassment she's quite the democrat.
/r/MensRights21/06/19 11:53 PM
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I am of Scottish decent on my mother's side and growing up I always had a formal kilt (still do in fact) as my grandmother held a courtesy title and growing up we often returned to the family estate(s) for functions. I have only worn my formal kilt outside of family functions one three occasions. The second of those was to dine with the Lt Governor of Nova Scotia, and the other two to black tie events celebrating Scottish heritage in the states. In both of the latter cases, despite the formality…
/r/MensRights20/06/19 11:07 PM
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Nah, they had to stop wearing kilts because of sexual harassment by drunk women
/r/MensRights20/06/19 10:25 PM
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and I've yet to meet any woman who exclusively takes it up the ass. In that case, I am totally serious when I recommend you investigate stair technology... Do you actually think that's a viable form of birth control for people? Define viable? Both anal and stairs are perfectly viable for the purposes of birth control - obviously no birth control method is perfect but you have to look at which advantages and disadvantages work best for you.
/r/MensRights15/06/19 01:26 AM
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Actually that isn't quite what happens. In many states (and some countries like France) they have a presumptive paternity law which says that if you are married and your wife has a child during the marriage or within a certain period of time after the marriage (in my state it is 300 days) - you are presumed to be the father and cannot challenge paternity. In such states you also cannot demand a paternity test because it is irrelevant. You could perform a private DNA test but that isn't admissibl…
/r/MensRights15/06/19 12:46 AM
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Can't someone sign away all of their parental rights to a child and not be held responsible for it in any way? Including financially? A woman can, a man cannot. the only thing I can really say is use protection and even better, get a vasectomy Have they not invented anal sex where you live?
/r/MensRights15/06/19 12:32 AM
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Would women also have this right? They already have this right in all 50 states. Would a woman be able to unilaterally say “I also do not want to consent to supporting a child for 18 years but will not/cannot have an abortion, I forfeit all parental rights and am free of responsibility” A woman can do that today - all she has to do is take the child to a safe surrender location and her parental rights and responsibilities for that child are legally and unilaterally terminated. She can even do it…
/r/MensRights15/06/19 12:18 AM
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No - I simply responded to one statement which was incorrect. It was incorrect regardless of the context and it is not a strawman fallacy as you actually made the statement which I was correcting - you really should have someone explain the fallacies to you again because it seems clear you misunderstood how they work. I am not obligated to engage on all your premises or even more broadly than I have. It is amply sufficient for me to simply point out that you were incorrect about X and carry on w…
/r/MensRights10/06/19 10:33 AM
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Yeah you're being a bit pedantic and not quite realizing how budgets work. that money could be handed out by the federal government to the states to address any number of issues that are underfunded by states. I am talking generally and doesn't have to be for public defenders - it can be for almost anything as that would allow states to take money they are spending in one place and reallocated it if they so choose. So if state currently spends X dollars on A, and then they get money from the fed…
/r/MensRights10/06/19 09:20 AM
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Given the increase in the funds that the feds pass through to the states in the last few decades - I am curious what history you are pointing to?
/r/MensRights10/06/19 08:08 AM
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Yes and not really. The military's budget comes from the Federal Budget and sure that is a different budget than state budgets but the federal government provides a huge amount of money to the states already, so it isn't like money saved in military spending couldn't easily be redirected to justice reform on the state level. If we reduced the money the military is forced to waste on things like tanks it doesn't need or want (hundreds of millions of dollars just on unwanted tanks) that money coul…
/r/MensRights10/06/19 05:59 AM
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cause a greater strain on local budgets because the local police would not get free gear from the military No it wouldn't - cops just wouldn't buy warfighting gear for civilian police work. LEOs love to pretend that being sworn makes them not civilians, but they are exactly that - they have no business using military gear or tactics.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 05:45 AM
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Yeah the apples to oranges problem is a major issue with feminism. Throughout history 98% of people have been subject to horrible oppression. 2% of people had it pretty damn good. 80% of the 2% who had it good were men. 49% of the people who were horribly oppressed were men. So while it is true that men were much more likely to be the oppressor than a woman was - they were not any less likely to be oppressed than a woman was. Sure there was a fair amount of shit rolling down hill, but lets be ho…
/r/MensRights05/06/19 01:26 AM
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