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I felt pretty masculine wearing these really gay rainbow knitted socks. They were comfy and styling because I made them cool ;)
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 03:36 AM
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Thanks for taking the time to help me out! I woke up this morning thinking the same thing... "what am I, a fucking girl??" Getting worked up over this girl that I'm not even fucking hahaha. That's not how this works! As one guy mentioned below, I need to sort this out for myself, and I see this as a very important step in learning and growing and moving forward. I can still be best buds with the dude and I can work on rebuilding the trust. I believe the reason this is such a sticking point for m…
/r/askTRP28/02/20 05:48 PM
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Thanks for the words man, much appreciated!
/r/askTRP28/02/20 05:47 PM
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That's a really good point and I would agree that it has a purpose. Perhaps it's safer to say that this way of thinking is for people that have more difficulty dealing with their emotions and controlling them. I feel that I have a better grasp on reality and my interaction with it after reading this type of material. A general acceptance of the way of the world, which hopefully allows people to have an easier time swallowing the pill. But maybe you don't want them to have an easy time, because i…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 05:44 PM
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Lots of interesting discussion in the comments. To try and keep it on topic of sexual strategy... One thing I want to say about this, is that I feel the Buddhist (and Stoic) way of thinking can help guys skip the anger phase. I read a book called Happiness by Mattieu Ricard and I would recommend it if you have difficulty accepting things in your daily life. My major takeaway from reading it and other similar material is that there is no right or wrong. The reason people do what they do (eg. hype…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 05:11 PM
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Re-read your last sentence again to get the answer you seek ;) Reading your comments makes it seem like you're too focused. Outcome dependence perhaps? They also say not to shit where you eat, but I am not 100% sure what the rules are when it comes to your classmates. It is just school and not your job on the line. The thread is about having fun. So try to have fun at school and don't take everything too seriously. If you can hook up outside of school then what's the problem. Get that abundance …
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 10:35 PM
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I'm not doing much in terms of reading these days. I have lurked on this subreddit for 1.5 years and consumed a lot of information. I do have 1 book to recommend called Happiness by Mattieu Ricard. This is not related to pickup but is a buddhist book that talks about emotional control and appears to be similar to stoicism. I think this is key to getting over the anger phase (want to make a future post about it as well). You really do just have to pick up the info that's here and apply it to your…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 10:32 PM
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This is a really fantastic and timely post for me. Last night I had a 1 hour journal entry and it really was an introspective experience. I might make a few posts because I think it might help a lot of guys that are on the journey like myself. Back to the point (hoping to add some value here with stories), my LTR mentioned that she is jealous of the time I've been spending with my roommate which is apparently "more time than with her." The tough thing about taking the pill while already in a rel…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 05:17 PM
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Man how freaky, a post to solve my immediate LTR conundrum! Literally just had my girlfriend tell me she had a business lunch. This is new to me as she is a temp manager so I probe casually (ie. all the managers got to go? are they bribing?). Business lunches usually are on the company trying to sell you something. All of a sudden she is at my work (we work a few blocks a part) with cookies! Reminded me of those times where a girl will cheat on her boy, then post how much she loves him on social…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 10:11 PM
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Was playing darts with a buddy on the weekend. 2 young (~21) and attractive girls come over and want to play so I say we can do doubles once our game is done. 5 dudes next to us are hounding them to play and looking desperate. The girl complains that she "is not used to waiting," and I told her she can sit and wait her turn. I guess setting the boundaries and not caring worked as they ended up playing with us and rotating in. Tried to teach her how to keep score after a bit, but she couldn't pic…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 07:47 PM
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A different perspective... every guy DOES want sex immediately haha. We're guys, that's what we want. The problem she and her college are having is that a bunch of young boys just want to fuck and don't have TRP awareness (or just a good role model or whatever). So they are focusing on sex as their main pursuit/mission. She is observing that "all" boys (ie the alphas she wants) are like this and even her female friends confirm this with their own stories. It's not wrong, it just is what it is. I…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 08:54 PM
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I wanted to throw out a question/comment that I didn't see touched on... You had a group of guy friends that are basically blue pilled. What are the odds that you could have convinced them to go with you to Club A? It sounds like any attention they got, would've activated their penis brain and that dictated where they go. In this case, you don't really have a choice (I mean you do, you could go lone wolf the night away). But you're in a foreign land with your bros and just having a good time. I'…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 07:22 PM
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I like this response a lot. I just posted a cheesy response of my own above and stumbled on this after.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 04:07 PM
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A little late to the party, but I liked that you guys were able to have a civilized discussion about both sides of the coin here. Both ways are viable for their own reasons and there is no real winner/loser. It's just a thing that happened. ​ I'm way far behind compared to the two of you, but an amusing line that popped in my head reading this after the fact... "I usually save the bottle of Rose for after sex, I've got a bottle back at my place if you want some" Said with confidence/arrogance in…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 04:03 PM
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You're definitely one of my favourite folks around here. Great point! Nothing matters because anything can work. And if it doesn't work, we don't give a fuck and keep on keep truckin' I just felt like generating some discussion today before my trip. If everyone was level 99 DGAF, there would never be a need for new posts on either forum.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 05:57 PM
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Thanks bae! That's a great response, much appreciated. But I'll counter with it's easy to say shitty vetting skills without knowing the full story. People change over time and things don't always work out, depending on age and events that happen in people's lives. Would be tough to perfectly vet a girl and guarantee she'll be your perfect LTR/wife forever but I suppose it can be done.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 05:38 PM
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I read that one over on the main sub haha. This is for a girl you've just met and she asks if you have a girlfriend. You could think of it as one of those quick witted responses. But it sort of falls on the dark side of manipulation (if it's not true, not that there's anything wrong with that). Behind the scenes, yes I have an LTR and I've been on the fence about ending it. I'm about to go away for a weekend to the mountains and will probably meet many women. Just pondering what I'll be telling …
/r/askTRP28/02/19 05:30 PM
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I didn't mean that line literally, just giving a little context. Something more along the line of "I have a girlfriend but.... I've been thinking about breaking up with her"
/r/askTRP28/02/19 05:11 PM
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I just used it as an example as someone posted it once. Instead of GTFO, throw in something constructive for other guys to learn and use.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 05:11 PM
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Here is my current favourite line: "Between 25 and 45" Obviously change the age range to be suitable to you, like 18 to 35. Every girl I've said this to seems to be intrigued. The fact that they don't know makes them want to know (hamster feed I guess). It's taboo to ask a girls age so I decided why not just fuck with people and lie to them about meaningless things just for my own amusement. It's not lying, it's flirting.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 04:06 PM
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If it makes you feel better, you'll see her on facebook or something in 5 years (or however many years post-wall) and she'll be marrying some fat chump and she will have let herself go. You'll get the "I dodged a bullet" feeling. I unfollowed a girlfriend on facebook so I wasn't seeing updates. Cousin texted me recently to say "damn look she just got married... really let herself go"
/r/askTRP11/02/19 07:48 PM
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This sounds like the problem to me. You're secure and happy with all aspects of life. Sounds like you're smart and disciplined to stick to the plan... yet you can't discipline yourself enough to not look at her public social media? Fix this and you can actually begin to heal. Out of site, out of mind! Find a way to prevent yourself from even looking, by either doing something else (anything), or find a way to block it out.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 07:39 PM
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I went over to MGTOW and saw that it's basically a place to post feminist meme's. They have a MGTOW2 now where there is some decent discussion. There's even a thread called "What is MGTOW," that has some great discussion in the comments. After reading that, I basically see a Venn Diagram. On one side you have MGTOW, the large circle representing the majority of guys employing the defensive tactics to protect themselves. On the TRP side, the large circle is "I want to learn game to fuck chicks" (…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 06:48 PM
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No matter how many times I glossed over the comment "TRP is a toolbox," it hasn't started clicking until just recently. When you make a post on askTRP but realize you didn't really need to make that post because you're a man and you're free to make decisions as you see fit. Now the true internalizing of concepts can begin I feel. We all need reminders now and then though.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 11:38 PM
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I feel like you and I are similar in a sense (and probably a ton of guys on here). I would think about something, go over it in my head... come here and read and maybe make a post about it. But really the answer lies within. We haven't fully internalized TRP yet but we're getting there! This became more aware as I made silly posts on askTRP. Someone pointed this out to me painfully in a reply. I think realizing that coming here is what traps you and keeps you here. We are trying to follow the bi…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 11:25 PM
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My thoughts are do it! Have fun, enjoy going on a date. I had sex with 2 or 3 (getting too old to remember) girls last year that didn't speak any English. They were both older, here to visit their sons in university. One I met at her place while the son was out. I remember this was just after I started studying here on reddit. Gentle escalation at first (you don't need to fuck the first date). She came over to hang out at my place one day and then I escalated further (second date making out seem…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 11:20 PM
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Loving this thread enough that I'll try and add. I've been wanting to write a sort of field report/lessons learned post on the main sub but don't feel I'm qualified yet so here goes! Current status - LTR Stats of LTR: 25 year old Chinese girl, been here a few years. I call her an 8.5/10 because I have yet to define 9 and 10 for me but she is easily the prettiest girl I've ever been with. Stats of Other Plate: 30 year old Chinese girl, a 7 or 8/10. Husband is over in China while she gets citizens…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 09:44 PM
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I believe "don't shit where you eat" is in the sidebar somewhere...
/r/askTRP25/01/19 04:40 PM
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I've been thinking this over recently and wanting to make my own post about it. I was going to call it "Just Getting It" It is along the lines of what you're saying. About just getting TRP with examples of where I fuck up but how I can improve. Sort of my first post/story telling and maybe a little helpful for newer people like me.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/19 06:44 PM
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I appreciate your time. Thanks
/r/askTRP09/01/19 11:21 PM
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Really like this post. I was thinking of posting about my own red pill experience. Long story short is that I'm 6 months into an LTR and she is getting pushed for marriage and kids. Something I've been more inclined to consider, but not for another 2-5 years (I'm 33 and on a mission). She doesn't want me to waste her time and I'm weighing my options more closely now. I was never one for marriage or kids but I wonder what my next mission will be once this one is a success or failure. What's next …
/r/TheRedPill21/12/18 06:19 PM
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Posted this as a reply to someone but interested to discuss further if anyone wants: My LTR has recently discussed abandonment issues with me. Basically her parents left for work to a different city for some number of years and she was with grandma. Then a younger brother was born when she was 10 and started to get all the attention I guess. She has expressed that if I punish her and don't talk to her for a day or two that she will probably freak out because it will trigger the abandonment. She …
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 10:30 PM
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If you actually read this subreddit, you could see the sarcasm in his reply...
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 10:24 PM
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Came here to discuss a similar concept. My LTR has recently discussed abandonment issues with me. Basically her parents left for work to a different city for some number of years and she was with grandma. Then a younger brother was born when she was 10 and started to get all the attention I guess. She has expressed that if I punish her and don't talk to her for a day or two that she will probably freak out because it will trigger the abandonment. She is otherwise a typical girl and is submissive…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 09:51 PM
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This is my favorite comment here on a subject that I think about. How to help a blue pilled person like a best friend (from the blue pill days). I notice that as time goes on and I look to work towards business and stop playing videogames, who I want to hang out with changes. But there's one dude that was lost to oneitis long ago. I was partially blamed and therefore ex-communicated. Recently reconnected after a few years of silence and hoping to spread my red pill seed. One day it would be nice…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/18 07:11 PM
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This is something I've been thinking over a lot. I'm relatively new here and in the first few months you think "omg everyone needs to learn this" and you talk to your friends about it. You might get a 10% chance of someone actually listening. Most likely if they are single and/or have had some scarring situation in the past. I know a guy that could really use the advice and wondering how I should ease him into it. There's the good comment below about dropping subtle truths to obvious situations.…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/18 07:07 PM
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Ok so then you already know how to improve yourself. Improving yourself isn't JUST physical, it's mental. Above, you make it sound like it's only a physical thing I am having a similar feeling, I used to be more confident and cocky and more exciting. Just doing whatever I wanted and making her come with me. I have noticed less of that and looking to bring it back. I'm by no means ripped and need a lot of physical improvement, but I would say mental game/improvement is vital for an LTR as opposed…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/18 07:16 PM
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I guess I should clarify, I'm not expecting to go into the whole femcentric discussion haha. I guess after the comment above, I was thinking it's a lot easier to ease a guy into this when it comes to the PUA side of things. Commenting on frame and outcome independence. What I find with rich business guys is that they like to get into a pissing contest. They are better than you until you prove them otherwise. They want to know who you are and who you know. It will be a fun experiment to test my f…
/r/askTRP27/11/18 08:10 PM
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There was a good post or blog out there somewhere talking about how a female subconscious can pick up on sexual queues through eye contact. When you're giving off the vibe through eye contact and your thoughts, it will supposedly trigger the same thoughts in them. So this seems like a good example of that happening.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 07:54 PM
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I wanted to chime in as I never do and seem to only date Chinese girls. A few things I wanted to discuss because you mention that you've been around the red pill for a while, but you sound young and naive (not to be rude or anything). As mentioned, you think she has low SMV so keep her as a plate. I highly doubt a virgin will fuck you on the second date or just because there was a cockroach. Not saying there is anything wrong with marriage as long as you filter your relationships. Also why did y…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 05:47 PM
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Really enjoying your guys' discussion here. I didn't think I was one for a relationship but as I was in plate mode, I found myself gravitating towards one that is LTR material. As mentioned, there is no right or wrong way to do things and TRP is all about achieving success in whatever matters to us. I don't feel like I'm in some BP loop and I'm trying to be the man (still learning and only been lurking here a few months). But it's nice to see comments like this as it reminds me and makes me more…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 07:38 PM
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