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Alright bud, real talk. Because you sound exactly like 20 year old me. First off, and I mean this politely, fuck you. Seriously, you're a decent looking dude that looks better than most already. Secondly, get help. Not necessarily clinical (although it worked for me), but talk to someone tangible, don't whore out for internet points. Thirdly, figure out why you're asking. Are you being rejected? Do you just not like who you are? Do you just like that lil spike of dopamine every time someone upvo…
/r/seduction26/12/18 03:41 AM
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Nice teeth, good skin, symmetrical. Solid 7 maybe 8. Even more if you look after your body.
/r/seduction25/12/18 10:03 PM
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Thanks man, that's actually a interesting tip. I'll give it a crack.
/r/seduction06/12/18 07:24 AM
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Can't dutasteride cause impotence? Kind of defeats the purpose.
/r/seduction05/12/18 10:52 AM
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I wouldn't be that blunt IMO. Maybe just say hi, introduce yourself, chat a bit about the seminar and then try asking what she is up to later.
/r/seduction09/11/18 01:43 AM
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Questions like this indicate something you might not want to hear: you put women on a pedestal way too much. They aren't some all-knowing, ethereal being. They are human. It's far more likely they were either; not in the mood, too shallow, had something else brewing, bad timing, or whatever normal yet arbitrary reason. Stop thinking there is a checklist. Just improve yourself so you are content with who you are and the effort you put into you.
/r/seduction09/11/18 01:40 AM
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Here's the thing, she's very much so not that type of person and only wanted one thing from me at the time. Thoughts?
/r/seduction29/10/18 08:16 PM
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I'm not from North America so I can't really say. Just be human. Treat them well and the ones that should work out will.
/r/seduction24/10/18 02:52 AM
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Dude, come on, you're way over thinking this. Just treat her like anyone you have hooked up with. Also, 18 to 20 is absolutely nothing. You're fine.
/r/seduction24/10/18 02:36 AM
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Take it from someone who has experience in rejection: the amount of romance you're about to spiel is way more than she is prepared for, and not in a good way. Take about 20 steps back to when you first figured out you liked her and why and stick with that. You have probably let it boil for far too long now and letting it all out at once won't bode well. Keep to short, honest and simple. If you actually want to try something, just offer up an innocent idea like a coffee or drink. If it works, it …
/r/seduction24/10/18 02:19 AM
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Dude if they are dating you in the first place you don't have anything to worry about asthetically. Just focus on keeping your standard of conversation high and/or interesting and you'll be fine. Don't fuel something that doesn't deserve energy.
/r/seduction17/10/18 10:59 AM
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I found you don't really 'become' a fuckboy. I've been labelled one simply because I wasn't looking for something permanent and was also somewhat successful at pulling women. But i liked looking after myself, trying new things, and being confident in my individuality. I believe most fuckboys are just labelled as such because they are independent and don't want a relationship yet. Not necessarily because they play women to their whims or whatever.
/r/seduction16/10/18 10:52 AM
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Stronglifts 5x5 by any chance? I've been on that for a couple of months now and have seen huge improvements. Highly recommend.
/r/seduction12/10/18 10:49 PM
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5) This. Proper self reflection does wonders for your focus and structuring your goals.
/r/seduction12/10/18 08:05 AM
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Quick dot points: 1) Running and reading is great for self worth. Movies are fine to get some culture behind you. 2) If you play video games more than you run or read. Stop and reverse that habit. 3) If weight training makes you feel like shit emotionally, then you're not leaving your ego at the door. Failure is part of the game. 4) Matter of fact, failure is a part of learning. Go out and fail to get good at life.
/r/seduction12/10/18 08:04 AM
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Best advise I ever got was: Stop looking. Look at yourself and figure out how to enjoy your own company. Then they will come. Seriously works, I was like you, could not help but give off the desperate vibe no mattet what I did. Then I started looking after my wellbeing, physical (workout), mental (study/read) and emotional (see friends/do social things). Soon after I was way better with women, not because I was a player or anything and of course I still struck out, but my self image mattered way…
/r/seduction12/10/18 06:41 AM
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If I could tell my 20 year old self one thing it would be this: you have not peaked. True confidence, capability and social skills come with time. One day, you will love being older than you are now.
/r/seduction10/10/18 01:54 AM
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