TheSamurabbi Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Wife threatens divorce if I don’t agree to a second child. Agreeing might actually be cheaper than alimony. What would you do? This is outstanding advice and should be higher. You can be strategic without being underhanded and build a framework of action with mutually agreed timelines all while laying the groundwork for your own best interests in the background. Hope for better, plan for worse. Set clear, logical boundaries and stick to them without drama.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/08/26 06:38 PM
5	Friday night, what are we drinking? The tears of my enemies.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/03/26 03:23 PM
6	Rewriting the past You can’t possibly diagnose someone as having any type of addiction from the information presented here. Nor are you likely qualified to diagnose addiction either.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/10/24 07:15 PM
28	Endless projection and it’s all so clear “Earn my way out of the dead bedroom she created” Good fucking riddance, dude. Don’t look back	/r/Divorce_Men	15/09/24 11:36 AM
1	Ex is getting the gabb watch for my daughter Make sure the ex doesn’t try and slip an AirTag into something else: shoe, hat, wallet, toy, backpack, etc. If you rebuff one tracking device, she might get pissed and try and circumvent your decision	/r/Divorce_Men	19/08/24 07:42 PM
1	suggestions for best body cam. Does this apply to a conspicuously carried or worn camera while you’re in your own home? Or even in public if conspicuous?	/r/Divorce_Men	27/01/24 09:25 PM
1	Stopped our divorce, 3 months later my wife changed again. That sounds like what we need to do here. In some way it would take the financial issues out of the equation for us. If our relationship is to prosper it should be about our relationship. Not money. My wife has a solid career, makes good money, so it’s not like it’s unbalanced or whatever. I just don’t want to get screwed.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/01/24 02:50 PM
1	Stopped our divorce, 3 months later my wife changed again. Did she have her own attorney? Or you both used the same one?	/r/Divorce_Men	27/01/24 02:31 PM
1	Stopped our divorce, 3 months later my wife changed again. I’m in a similar situation now. We came to the brink of divorce, but have reconciled. But the divorce scared me regarding finances. I’m older than her and make more money, and would be looking at retirement sooner. I don’t want to end up working at a fast food restaurant until I’m 75. So how did the postnump go?	/r/Divorce_Men	27/01/24 02:26 PM
1	Is it selfish to want to be happy? Hm. Ok, that does clarify. So I guess I’ll say this: If the trajectory is moving you guys ahead in a good way, therapy is working, fewer and less dramatic fights, then imagine that continuing and ultimately settling into a good relationship. If that happens, do you still want to be in that good relationship WITH HER? If even after this improvement, you still prefer your imagined future in a different relationship, lifestyle or situation, then accept that and have the ‘we should split up’ convers…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/24 06:11 PM
12	Is it selfish to want to be happy? You said she’s a good woman. But this sounds like you actually think she’s a jerk. And you said therapy has allowed you two to live in relative harmony. But sounds like you’re both actually miserable. I’m confused.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/24 05:19 PM
2	Has anyone divorced due to lack of intimacy or sexual attraction? I mean, are we taking stale bruschetta here, or like fresh made avocado egg rolls?	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/24 01:39 AM
5	How much money did you lose in your divorce? Is that username an homage to your ex?! Lord… My condolences!	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/24 01:24 AM
2	What to do with old ring? Give it to a Hobbit with ambition.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/24 03:36 AM
2	Boob job You should put out a coffee table book of petty snark for those days we all need extra inspiration	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/24 02:57 PM
5	Scientific study on loss of love in marriage and women. “Divorce-Uncle-Tom” LMAO 🤣	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/24 03:46 AM
5	Scientific study on loss of love in marriage and women. Or just in love with themselves more	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/24 03:43 AM
2	Am I wrong for losing interest based on this? “Bunny boiler” LMAO 🤣	/r/Divorce_Men	08/12/23 10:48 PM
1	Post Divorce final update Didn’t know this was even possible	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/23 06:30 PM
12	Ex Called to Meet Up Amway 💰🤦🏻	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/23 02:11 AM
9	This sub is actually kind of cool and inspiring Damn right 👍😎	/r/Divorce_Men	03/12/23 08:55 PM
13	This sub is kind of depressing If you don’t like it here, just leave. Don’t have to be a cunt about it	/r/Divorce_Men	03/12/23 07:11 PM
7	Shitty mom as coparent If she’s violating the court agreement, take her back to court? As for her being a shit human, 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/Divorce_Men	01/12/23 06:56 PM
5	Any legal ways to earn money that ex can’t touch This is absolutely horse shit wrong. 🤦🏻	/r/Divorce_Men	29/11/23 05:35 PM
1	What would you demand from ex for extra kid time? Power over medical decisions unless you are unreachable or incapacitated	/r/Divorce_Men	07/11/23 06:21 PM