| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | I want to use Dating Apps for HOOK UPS rather than dating/relationships - how to go about this?Wonderful advice, thank you. You're absolutely right. I can do me, chat as normal as I regularly would until the first meeting... broach the topic of what we want out of this then, and see where that takes us. That seems a lot more fair, less creepy and 'alpha' and just plain honest. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 05:06 PM |
| 1 | I want to use Dating Apps for HOOK UPS rather than dating/relationships - how to go about this?Yeah this is solid advice, or maybe invite them to somewhere close to me and suggest "drinks and then maybe back to my place to for pizza and bad reality TV" or something? | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 11:46 AM |
| 2 | I want to use Dating Apps for HOOK UPS rather than dating/relationships - how to go about this?This is good advice, if my frame out the gate is more openly flirty and physical they might figure out what I'm after themselves, then it's up to them to decide if they want that or not I guess | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 11:43 AM |
| 1 | I want to use Dating Apps for HOOK UPS rather than dating/relationships - how to go about this?I actively don't try to close quickly, in the past, because I don't want to come off as a guy who's only after one thing... But now I AM a guy who's only after one thing and I'm struggling to change my game accordingly 😂 | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Roses on Hinge NEVER hit?These are dreadful. | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 08:13 AM |
| 4 | Roses on Hinge NEVER hit?Agreed! But the hot women are locked behind that rose wall - it's such a stupid system | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Girl with boyfriend has finally told me "it's probably best we don't talk anymore"...She actually brought up the feelings thing. Saying she feels inappropriate thinking about me the way she is when she has a boyfriend. Until then it was an unspoken bond that we could just both intuitively feel. Looks that linger a bit too long, super amounts of kino etc. I'm not new at this, learning PU about 8 years ago has served me incredibly well, I've just never had an experience similar to this before now. Always room to learn! | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Girl with boyfriend has finally told me "it's probably best we don't talk anymore"...I challenge her intellectually, we're both into art and philosophy, whereas the bf is a pro-sports player, apparently super nice and chill... but not a lot going on behind the eyes. | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Girl with boyfriend has finally told me "it's probably best we don't talk anymore"...Thank you for the measured response, I decided to do just that. Said I completely understand, if that's her decision I respect it 100% I will now go no contact unless she instigates something. Even so, showing the willingness to walk away and be "cool" about it makes me feel good about the sitch. Strong frame and all that. | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 01:33 PM |
| 1 | The best response to "I thought you were gay?"I see your above point, and mostly agree. Although, I think lots of those traits are only perceivable to women after a certain amount of time in their company. Upon first glance, I could be Chad McBigDick, 6ft 5 football player... but if I'm wearing jewelry, and a waistcoat and compliment a women's hair or shoes... her gaydar will ping and you can't blame her for that. And I think you've read into my question a little too deeply as well, I have absolutely no problem in closing, even when present… | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 09:02 PM |
| 16 | The best response to "I thought you were gay?"You outdated sense of polarity with gender probably hinders you more than my meterosexuality hinders me dude. | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 04:37 PM |
| 1 | The best response to "I thought you were gay?"Hahaaa I love that! | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Tips on not getting too attached...I'd love to hear more about your story if you'd be willing to share?? Did you know early on that your girl had BPD? It was literally the first thing my one told me on the very first date, which I found quite strange, but thought was refreshingly honest! | /r/seduction | 18/07/17 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Tips on not getting too attached...Hahaaa this made me laugh! I am gonna cut her out. I'm listening to the general consensus here. | /r/seduction | 18/07/17 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Tips on not getting too attached...I'm actually taking this on board. Nice to hear from someone with a similar experience! She's actually disappeared off the face of the earth for a few weeks now anyway, but apparently "she does this sometimes when she needs to reset" I can literally hear warning sirens when I see her name now hahaaa | /r/seduction | 18/07/17 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Tips on not getting too attached...Right. Every part of my brain says STAY AWAY. But I am drawn to her like a moth to a flame, maybe it's just my dick though and once I've slept with her a couple of times I'll feel less into it. But you just KNOW she's gonna be crazy in the sack. | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Tips on not getting too attached...I suppose she would offer me a desirable lifestyle, and one hell of a piece of arm candy... she also challenges me intellectually where not a lot of other women I meet, do. So I think I can learn from her all sorts of things. | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 03:16 PM |
| 4 | Tips on not getting too attached...Actually she has a borderline personality disorder and is completely disengaged from her emotional spectrum. Meaning she can fall in and out of love with the click of a finger if she so desires. Feeling guilty that she fucked another dude? Finger click, she's over it. I can't imagine being with someone so robotic. She excites me because of her value, and by proxy, makes me feel valuable. Slippery slope indeed. | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 03:14 PM |
| 19 | Tips on not getting too attached...It's not that I want to save them or anything like that, it actually has nothing to do with making them feel better come to think about it. It makes me feel like a better human being. There are plenty of guys out there who, once they've fucked a girl enough times, are more than happy to ghost them. I think those people are scum personally and I don't want to be included among them. Someone else made a good point too, that the women I sleep with are generally super cool people so it's nice to hav… | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 10:36 AM |
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