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They made men think that women were princesses (the pedestal) They made men think women were in any way moral. They made men think that they were either loving or strong or loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 02:13 AM
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Most divorces are begun by the woman, and despite all the bluster it is because they are selfish women that lack commitment to their husbands and children. I had a single mother mom, the faults that made her a trash mom made her a trash wife and a garage human being. Whenever I know a single mother personally I see she dies the same two faced charades my mom did to get friends and co-worker. The reason single mothers are despised today is too many of us had them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 04:01 AM
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Women generally have a lower moral reasoning than men, so they are quite comfortable with being flagrant hypocrites. Usually they lack the insight to see how that backfires on them long term ( why don't men want to hire women, why don't men trust/ respect women, why can't I find a good man?)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 09:18 PM
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Just keep this in your back pocket for later if you change your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 08:52 PM
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The best way to make sure you don't get a woman that is checking boxes is to get one that is a virgin and don't co-habitate with her before marriage. Keep control of the finances when you get married but be generous with gifts and allowances, and never take on a woman with debt. Really, it is monk mode until you find a woman like that. Lord help you if you are not religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 08:48 PM
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Certainly I wouldn't want to do it now that I have kids, but the fact of it existing in the world isn't an anathema to family necessarily. Ma'am, you have a masters, it doesn't seem to be in a "real" degree so I don't know how much you know about statistics and sampling, but you must be aware of the Red Pill arguments against high partner counts. What happens to the average relationships? What happens to most relationships when the woman has a high partner count? And what are the co-morbid issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 03:53 PM
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Most men are hesitant to start a family with women because your average woman gets worse when you marry her. The old saying should come to mind "When a man gets married he hopes she never changes, and when a woman marries she hopes to change her husband, both are disappointed" You don't need to see too many relationships go through the same pattern. Woman acts lovely to get a man, as the relationship progresses ever time she wants the relationship "taken to the next level" it is her having more …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 03:45 PM
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You seem to have to misplaced the order of events. Women start being party girls for vapid attention and start having a whole bunch of partners while slutting about. Men are revolted by sluts, especially when it comes to being parents, as they should be. A woman chances of divorcing you goes up with every sexual partner she has as the more partners she has the more disposable relationships are to her, and the more pretentious she becomes in her own head. Question, would you marry someone that ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 03:37 PM
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Augustus Caesar did a pretty good job of whipping Rome into shape and the Empire continued after him for a long time. Here is the extent of the empire under Augustus. The fall of constantiniple was some 1400 year after that, and don't give me any bullshit about the Byzantine Empire, that is literally people re-writing history. That would be like if the United States lasted 1400 years after losing the Eastern Seaboard and people saying the rest of the Continental United States were not really Ame…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 03:32 PM
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I am not some black pilled loser. I am pro-family and I think whoring around is bad for both men and women, and for the institution of the family. We should do everything we can to end the thotification of women and restore virtue, and the whole "enjoy the decline" and "no moralfagging" isn't red pilled, it is black pilled. A woman that can't be a good mother is trash, and a man that isn't a good father is trash. Prostitution messes with everything and reduces moral conduct to bitches in heat(gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 07:03 AM
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REview the literature on Moral Reasoning. Even feminist like Carol Gilligan admit women cap out genreally at level 3 https://www.rcgates.com/psyc/c13_add.html People enter level 3 fully around middle-school. Ever hear women complain about the burdens of being a good daughter, or a good wife, etc? That means they are in stage two, they havne't even matured out of grade school.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 09:15 PM
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The average woman stops maturing morally in Jr. High. The only development about 80% of them experience is becoming high functioning hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 05:39 AM
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But why is it that women hide a large part of who they really are to the guy she cares about? You are just lucky some women tell the truth anomalously on the internet. Hypocrisy is bread and butter for women. Everything is political and the terms of the game are short term and even to the dude she is hooking up with there is some deception ("Ive never done this before")
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 05:02 AM
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Just a form of prostitution. More Sluttery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 01:46 PM
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You need to understand what Stoicism actually is. One key aspect of stoicism is to accept what is natural and not strive against that. That means admitting their are gender roles, accepting them, and doing your best to be a virtuous man, and not a virtuous woman. Accept AWALT. Accept that the stronger you are the more social and personal benefits you receive from that. Accept that weakness is repulsive to both men and women. Accept that your wife can never be your friend in the same way that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:57 AM
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inB4 not a slut Societies with harems do a lot better, historically, than those with a preponderance of sluttery. The female apathy to the results of sluttery is grounded in their apathy for their peers and progeny and their own culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:36 AM
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You have to recall that the sub is highly moderated and that creates a very small overton window where shit doens't really get called out. You are way more likely to get one sided stories swallowed without doubt over there, and those responses are going to float to the top. Lots of people seek out their own deception. And after a few generations of deception a lot of them have plastered over their self-deception something fierce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 01:46 AM
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You forget about children and custody. according to the adverse children's experience and survey The chronic trauma of being raised by single or divorced parents is roughly equivalent to having a mentally ill parent a parent in prison their parent died or being sexually abused. letting a no-fault divorce go on means that so many children are in the long-term experiencing a chronic stress that is as detrimental as neq event, sexual assault. If we have no fault divorce, the people applying for thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 02:52 PM
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Chemistry leads to simpification, simpification leads to letting your guard down, which leads to being taken advantage of, which leads to sadness. Which leads to the Red Pill, which leads to AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 01:11 AM
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Review Lawrence Kohlberg's Theory of Moral Development, it is on wikipedia and a lot is availible for free on Google Books and Scholar. There are stages of Moral Development. Women genereally top out at level 3 (caring about relationships) , and only about 20% of all people get to level 4 (law and order applies to everyone equally), and almost none of them are women, so about 40% of men get to level 4. People enter level three as a teenager. So most adult women have the moral reasoning of a jr h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 01:54 AM
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You have it backwards. Rich men marry trophy wives and then have a side pieces that compete for the position of full wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 07:55 PM
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The sad thing is how many questions are co-morbid with single motherhood. Income insecurity leads to food insecurity and one of the highest populations for verbal and physical abuse is a single working mother. They also have a high rate of substance abuse. ACES is the best argument against single motherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 03:47 AM
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I have been having a fact based conversation and shared my knowledge with citations. She and you can decide to follow, up vote or down vote or whatever. and fuck statistics You and many women want to be wilfully ignorant on what people's issues really are. You cannot overcome personal issues with your head in the sand. Understanding statistics on sex makes one red pilled and willfully ignorance makes you blue pulled. /u/Verticordia post to RPW. I assume she is looking for honesty and knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 07:37 PM
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Op has over a 50% chance for divorce due to partner count. How is she mentally healthy when she admits to being neurotic? You kinda seem to be anti science.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:24 PM
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Hi female partner cont is correlated with an an increased rate of divorce. That's also correlated with their children having a higher trauma score as defined by the adverse childhood experiences survey. Minimizing women partners affect on society is deeply immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 12:36 PM
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Op had 5 partners,vshe already has an above median partner count. She basically needs to be abstaining until she finds the man she is going to be monogamous with or she will be the worse off. And her ACES is 4, she like most of us is showing how here stats catch up with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 12:27 PM
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https://www.centerforchildcounseling.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/score-of-four.jpg I don't think you understand how bad a score of 4 really is, because a lot of the things on the checksheet have been normalized. With co-morbid occurrences if you had a single parent you probably got to 2 or 3 with just that. why would I want someone else to handle my shit? Think about many workplaces, where a boss catches shit and deals with shit so his guys can focus on the key mission and not deal with stupi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 05:18 AM
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I didn't ask if you were stoic, I ask if you are capable of Stocism, that capital letter and the -ism takes things to a whole new level. On the Shortness of Life Stoicism 101 I want a lot of kids, and I'm having trouble with the whole first mate shit. "women want love and stability, men want sex and respect" I never had love a day in my life, so idk what it's like. You got a bagful of issues. Review your ACES score and tell me where you are at. Be honest. And for number seven that counts for any…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:44 AM
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Actions speak louder than words, and then the words justifying those actions reveal moral development. Go and read In a different voice by Gilligan. The mental gymnastics she uses to make this adulterous abortionist moral is astounding the first time you realize for all her education and her PhD she is just a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:17 AM
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I hate the most "Do you want to be happy, or do you want to be right?" Is there a better definition of evil than someone that would make you unhappy for being right? And a lot of it comes down to perception. You can be happier than your wife, you just can't let her know, otherwise her feminine programing will cause her to destroy the relationship. And it doesn't matter that a lot of happiness is generated from within, from virtue, if you let your woman know how happy you are her parasitic lust f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:49 AM
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Review the literature on moral reasoning and moral development and realize you have to strip away the lies and hypocrisy and also get into regret and repentance. If you commit a moral act or transgression at what level to you admit it was moral or imoral? Women have a stronger in-group bias than men. That means women are more hypocritical than men, on average. A man cheats on a woman, and a woman cheats on a man, which is worse and why? The reasoning you use to answer that question will show you…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:41 AM
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Then why don't relationships where the woman is pursuing work out? Most women have't practiced how to peruse a man. When you peruse you have to strike a balance between coming on to strong and coming off too weak or tepid. Men start learining how to do that as soon as they muster up the courage for their first date or first kiss. Women are not so much in that position, the don't hear the lockerroom conversations from their bros about what worked with what girl and what didn't. Most girls are hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:32 AM
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How can we not figure out how to peacefully fuck and love each other and sustain society? That's so crazy. You sound like a hedonistic and promiscuous woman with that statement. How do you respond to the male red pill orientation towards partner counts? What is your partner count? I checked out your history, you post in RPW. What is your opinion/desire on having kids? Could you be a first mate with 3-4 kids, lives, to develop? And are you capable of Stocism?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:29 AM
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Read the following article as background You can’t be happier than your wife. Happiness gaps and divorce You are close but you haven't quite hit the point. Women destroy relationships where they don't perceive themselves as the primary beneficiary, or at least equal beneficiaries. This does not mean they are equals in the relationship, just their gut tells them they are recieving more than the other person. Womens desire for power over a relationship causes them to destroy any relationship they …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:17 AM
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You left out good mother. if this woman wanted to be a good mother, was willing to patiently teach my kids everything, and continue to develop herself in some way 20-30 hours of charity/hobbies/fitness/learning) a week, I'd value her above gold. And I would trust her more than I would trust a working woman. You know they're materialistic. My trust is always relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:08 AM
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The question is about femininity. Fertile women are femine. Good mother's, at any age, even grand mother's, are femine. Pleasant women that get what they want through pleasant relationships and not nagging are more feminine ( and happier) than nagging head butting make imitators.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:04 AM
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Femininity is inked to apparent fertility and the apparent ability to be a good mother and pleasant partner. Two out of three are related to being young but are not the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 03:03 PM
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Until society puts women who are false accusers on registries and makes them felons I don't care. I have seen to many women and spoken to too many women that are fucking lunatics when it comes to not punishing false claimers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 04:42 AM
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Feels good man. My first wife had zero before I met her and so did my second. I have a serious no sluts policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 03:47 AM
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Women are repulsed by how basic they are. When women find out what really works on them their repulsion turns into anger. All the talk of Women Being Wonderful and how awesome and difficult motherhood deluded the average woman to thinking that she isn't average.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 07:35 AM
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Adultery breaks the concept of "pairing up" and serial monogamy stretches the definition of "paring up" to its limits. Incels and adultery proves that "paring up" is not a reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 12:21 AM
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"Modern" women are mentally ill. No wonder they fuck up what should be a no brainer, letting boys be boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 05:03 AM
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When a woman loves a man she expects him to die for her. When a man loves a woman he is willing to die for her. This is why The Red Pill says women don't love men. They are not willing to sacrafice anything to the same degree that a man in love would. Relationships don't end if a man earns more than an woman, but one of the best predictors of a relationship ending is a woman making more than 20% of the man. Once again, women don't love men. They mistake the feeling of being supported for love. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 05:02 AM
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Traditional 88 Lib 55 All the rest 8ish
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 05:44 AM
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Realizing women really want you for money does lead to crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 05:50 AM
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Men with enough money can get a woman 10-15 years younger than them no problem. In fact, with a decent income getting women isn't the problem, its keeping your money. There will be the basic thresholds of social skills and the like, but the wall for men is low status and poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 03:48 AM
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Men with enough money can get a woman 10-15 years younger than them no problem. In fact, with a decent income getting women isn't the problem, its keeping your money. There will be the basic thresholds of social skills and the like, but the wall for men is low status and poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 03:48 AM
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Men with enough money can get a woman 10-15 years younger than them no problem. In fact, with a decent income getting women isn't the problem, its keeping your money. There will be the basic thresholds of social skills and the like, but the wall for men is low status and poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 03:48 AM
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Men with enough money can get a woman 10-15 years younger than them no problem. In fact, with a decent income getting women isn't the problem, its keeping your money. There will be the basic thresholds of social skills and the like, but the wall for men is low status and poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 03:47 AM
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I cannot speak for them. But the core of the sidebar is the same. Schopenhauer or some other historical figure compared and contrasted to a modern writer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 07:20 PM
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I read most of it when I was checking it out about 2 years ago. I don't keep up, I barely go to Rp except to read top of the month every 4 months or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 06:59 PM
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Or they are innately deceitful. I mean it is 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 04:19 AM
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Key thing about trp is seeing the world for what it is and seeing what people do, not what they say. AF/BB and hypergamy are looked down upon for the lack of honesty. A woman who is settling does does not love you, she cannot. She loves the stability you bring and will leave when bored or she can take enough from you through the legal system. The N count issue also comes with denial. Women with high n counts are not happy in relationships, generally. They cause drama and are not marriage materia…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 04:26 AM
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So, you think women don't like men that look passive? Sounds like you are pretty RP to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 11:13 PM
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That was not part of your question. If the almost nude wssbat the end of a series of the photo of a man undressing I believe it would be better received.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 10:24 PM
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Women posted pictures of in shape men with full heads of hair and were stylishly dressed. Why no barely clothed Men? Because you cannot infer wealth and status as much without clothes. And take a look at the comments. So much of the support for the pics was not about appearances, which was the point of the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 06:45 PM
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Even someone of low or modest intellect can have an interest in philosophy or political history.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 06:22 PM
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You attitude isn't sunshine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:38 PM
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Askwomen is about 50% female and had 300,000 subscribers. The blue pill has 30,000 subs. And AW is pretty representative of most of the college educated women I meet in the real world. I think you are in willful denial about how much willful denial is out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:26 PM
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You will get a hail of downvotes in askwomen for saying there are brain difference, or if you pin anything on biology and nurture. You are downplaying how far gone the average woman is when it comes to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:20 PM
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You can tel a male brain from a female brain 9 out of 10 times on brain scan alone. http://m.pnas.org/content/113/14/E1968.full Other researchers have not been able to do this not for technical reasons, but ideological reasons. Whenever you hear a woman say she cannot believe people believe weird stuff like anti vaxxers or climate denies you now have a source to really mess with her, because she probably is having the same denial of her own female dimorphism.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:18 PM
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Most of the cuties over at /r/theratio. The sub is nsfw but the following are bikini pics. http://i.imgur.com/gJjnncw.jpg http://i.imgur.com/5Iprlqx.jpg https://imgur.com/3prSgR1 https://gfycat.com/ZanyGoodEnglishpointer http://imgur.com/Atrz77R
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 07:20 PM
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You have a girl at your place. Or your are at hers. You make a move but she demurs. So you move to break off the whole engagement. You say you must have had different assumption of what the relation ship was, you thought it was romantic and not platonic. If it is her place you say you will leave. If it is your place you tell her she should leave. If she changes her position and becomes amorous you broke through LMR in a way that is clearly not rape. If she does not become amorous you leave and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 05:29 AM
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You can have nice things. Look at what you can make in your home for $30 versus what you can get at a restaurant. You can have a full turkey dinner for $30 if you cook it yourself but cannot have an appetizer and drinks if you go out. I teach my daughters more in the hour-ish I spend having them help me cook dinner and clean up afterwards than I do almost any other part of the day. It is one of the most rewarding part of my days. Not going over reports, not bullshitting with my co-workers, not e…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 02:33 AM
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Who said I said I don't want a woman earning money? Here is what is going on: Scenario One: Woman wants a lot of expensive stuff that does not really make her happy in the long run or make the family stronger. she needs a job to pay for that needless shit Scenario 2: A woman does not want a lot of expensive stuff or stuff that does not really benefit the family. Instead, she will work in the home to provide her family. Her husband should be willing to break his back working for his wife and fami…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 02:16 AM
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Oh, men are frivolous with money as well. I mean, just look how much we spend on women. But we mostly earn our money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 02:08 AM
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It would be nice but women want to spend so much these days it is not feasible. Expensive clothes, cars, vacations, women want a lot of frivolous stuff that doesn't makes them happy and really, need to have their own jobs to pay for their overpriced lattes and lululemon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 04:01 PM
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Imbedded deep in what you wrote is the notion that you should not be improving yourself. Most people that don't do well have neglected themselves physically, socially or intellectually. Those that improve themselves don't have the same problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 05:17 PM
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Show me a smear campaign women don't partake in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 05:14 PM
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You should be careful. You have missed your period way to many times in this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:02 AM
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You must spend a lot of time over on RPW. Once you take care of that snark will make a good first mate for some lucky guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:59 PM
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And people say negging doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:53 PM
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You can do a lot of sexual stuff and not get someone pregnant. You gotta be pretty dumb to have an unwanted pregnancy these days. These are the kind of people that can't keep a job at Wal Mart.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:53 PM
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I see projection is still a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:50 PM
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Where does all your anger come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:47 PM
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Called me a dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:46 PM
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You came at me like I would trust a woman with the birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:42 PM
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Men need to learn that you cannot trust a woman with the birth control. Women need to be honest with one another how much they intentionally will mess up the birth control. Read In a different voice by Gilligan, basically the feminist ethicist of our day. The vast majority of women she interviewed for the book intentionally sabotage their own birth control. And Gilligan said they were moral to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:35 PM
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What is the level of analysis? In the immediate and short term what she is going through, if true, sucks. But what happens to society when we don't have chid support reform? We have more pain as people are irresponsible and point the finger elsewhere. We have more single parents who were not even capable of having sex now in charge of a human life. If she was more disciplined she would not have this problem, no matter how much you like that, it is a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:14 PM
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She is a warning story. Do things in the right order. Education -> job-> Marriage -> Kids. Life is hard, it is harder when you are undisciplined and she was sloppy when she got with a shitbag.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:03 PM
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Just imagine the gut concern that down the line you need to go away on business and are worried she won't be faithful. The concern is there for both men and women that their partners won't settle down, especially when u are away.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 05:02 PM
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Yrs, but more. As you she your value on honesty may change how you use it. If you are always honest and up front and you see people use that against you then you may start prioritizing privacy over honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 04:59 PM
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Just described my bros ex wife perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 04:56 PM
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The lack of honesty with what people really want. The idea that she will feel she settled for her husband, and the possibility of impending divorce rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 04:53 PM
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You can try and refute what is written with your own. I have learned to not put in more effort than those I debater here on PPD because even with an exquisitely sighted post we are prone to dismiss stuff with "lol whatever".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 12:28 AM
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If women have higher EQ why are they so poor at conflict resolution with other women? Conflict resolution is a positive social skill but you don't have to go far to hear a woman bragging over how vindictive women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 12:01 AM
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Women have a stronger in group preference than men but think men are sexist. Women ignore the number of homeless men when they look the number of successful men. Women are risk averse and play it safe but want the successes of men without the losses. Women have blind spots to how hypocritical they can be, and the hypocrisy is maintained by selective reading of facts and hampstering.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 11:59 PM
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But it is not consequenced the same by society. Women don't want to admit how many Mommie Dearest are out there. They are ripping up the lie of the noble single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 02:59 PM
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The Duluth model ignores all the children beaten by their mothers. Because of feminism these kids suffer more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 02:44 PM
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Large portions of the Red Pill are focused on self improvement. Your physical condition, your professional abilities, your social skills, you mind, etc. If you are actually improving yourself for your own self you should find it rewarding. For fitness you could start lifting, get bored and take a martial art, take up skiing for the winter running for the summer, etc. For your mind it could be reading books that expand your mind and get you out of your comfort zone, you could start journalism and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:14 AM
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There is a video on youtube of a woman accused of stealing credit card information at a police station cutting a police officer's throat. Unless you know what you are doing it can be rather hard to kill someone like this as the trachea is rather tough and most people don't know where the carotid artery is. It is clear to most people watching the video that this was attempted murder and attempted escape from a secure facility. Standards search procedure did not turn up the knife because searches …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 04:25 AM
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One key concern about feminist is they often have higher standards for everyone else. You can go to feminist blogs and see them talk about their guilty pleasures that would make them a bad feminist if they indulged too much in it. But heaven forbid they see a non-feminist engage in a guilty pleasure. Feminist criticize unrealistic expectations of femininity but still lust after expectations of masculinity. Feminist will take an issue that affects both men and women equally and find a way to say …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 04:19 AM
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I thought hate-fucking was an emotional intensity thing. Rather than intense attraction you substitute intense hate. Both people can do that. Harvesting negative emotions for pleasure is not male nor female.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 11:01 PM
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Why can't women hatefuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 10:15 AM
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Most of men's privileges are not the pure privileges women think they are. Men that are not strong are treated with contempt by both men and women. So society obligates men to be strong and then women get up set when men are more socialized to ask for raises or run for office. When a couple is expecting a child the woman often obligates the man to go out and make more money to improve the family financial situation. And then they complain the average man makes more than the average woman. I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 06:41 PM
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Hard to say. If you are working on getting established you will have a various plans and opportunities you are working towards. If you tell a potential partner these plans she will most likely latch on to the one that she sees as benefiting her the most. If you update your plans or your assessment of what you want and move on to something else and she does not see better than what she chose for you she may not be able to see it from your point of view. So she will think you are "settling" when y…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 12:04 AM
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Females use vibrators with all sorts of features and then say they wouldn't have sex with a robot and men fucking a flesh light is pathetic. We have women that would mount a sybian but "never fuck a robot." They are in denial like anti-vaxxers or climate change deniers. And it isn't necessarily women getting replaced. Women in relationships are getting replaced bit by bit as women turn themselves into a net negative with their denial, nagging and greed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 07:01 PM
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Because they probably got burned once before.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 11:07 PM
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Fine. Just ignore condom usage is generally is below 50%.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 07:38 PM
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They are top men. I trust them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 07:32 PM
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Yeah no. Damn near all the guys I know in the game love hitting it raw. And therefor the women they are fucking are getting hit up raw. They are disease vectors. The both the dudes and the chicks are not really not screening their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 07:16 PM
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Half the parenting and life lessons. Less control to keep them away dangerous situations. Increased desire for male approval means the girls can be manipulated by bad men. Abusive step fathers are not as big a problem as society asumes but they are still a contributing factor. Also being raised by single parent increases chances of drug use and a lot of girls get abused thinking the cool guys offering her drugs are suckers when they are maneuvering the girls into a vulnerable position.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 04:31 PM
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More people contributing directly to charities and non profits that test rape kits. Imagine if people gave to a cause like that rather than to organizations that lie about the wage gap or NOW which is more concerned with giving awards to Matresss Girl and other false claimers than actuallly taking positive steps to end rape. And also a campagn to shame single mothers, of course. Having a single mother grealty increases the probability a girl will be raped. The rape conviction rate will not go do…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 03:03 PM
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The promiscuous are literal disease vectors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 02:54 PM
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Chad is a guy who isn't very insightful, has activities that keep him in shape without him thinking about it, and and is generally good natured without being a pushover. If he stops almost any of those things he isn't a Chad. If he becomes a push over then he becomes a beta. If he gets out of shape he will wonder where all the women that use to like his personality went. If he gets insightful good time women will want someone less serious. Chad is real. He isn't even really that bad of a guy. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 02:58 AM
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Chad is a guy who isn't very insightful, has activities that keep him in shape without him thinking about it, and and is generally good natured without being a pushover. If he stops almost any of those things he isn't a Chad. If he becomes a push over then he becomes a beta. If he gets out of shape he will wonder where all the women that use to like his personality went. If he gets insightful good time women will want someone less serious. Chad is real. He isn't necessarily some bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 02:58 AM
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Here is a link on different conceptualizations of alpha With some searching you can find iterations on the idea with some changes here and there. Is your husband a wolf?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 02:53 AM
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Considering agriculture predates the pyramids I don't see your point. Considering agriculture predates damn near all alphabets I don't see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 02:50 AM
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You could look this up rather than speculating. But you would see I was right, and you wouldn't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 07:51 PM
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Oh, i wasnt like this 3 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 07:41 PM
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It would require goung over 2 accounts and 3 years of comments. Either trust me or dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 07:25 PM
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One exception is women's hair does grow faster when women are pregnant. Considering how much time women use to spend pregannt in ye olden days it was generally true that women's hair grew faster than mens. I was on ancestry.com a while back and a lot of my female relatives had kids every two years for almost 20 years. That is a lot of extra hair growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 05:34 PM
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I have been downvoted severely for saying boys and girls naturally play different on playgrounds over in AW. Same with pointing out men and women's brains respond differenlty to addiction. I even posted an article on neuroscience and still got hammered. I pointed out that women have a harder time recovering from alcoholism (their livers are not as hardy) and again was punished with downvotes. I have pointed out that young boys and girls train their parents with positive and negative motivation a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 05:27 PM
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Not normal is the new normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 06:00 AM
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Argument 1 is refuted with the idea that actions speak louder than words. If women's behavior change then RP Will will change it's predictive models. Most of the other arguments could easily fall into the alphafux/betabucks dichotomy. We can't know for certain until the couple gets married. If she starts nagging and sex falls off then she was just getting him in a legal trap. Argument 8... Domestic violence usually leads to difficulties operationalization issues. Women bit more often, but men do…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 06:05 AM
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One result is that while 42% of mothers with some work experience reported in 2013 that they had reduced their work hours in order to care for a child or other family member at some point in their career, only 28% of fathers said the same. This is because women want to work less after kids come. Women want to take care of family. And they want their husbands to work longer hours so that can happen. Ideally, a good man will support his wife by doing so and, also ideally, a good woman will appreci…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 03:01 AM
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Why? Do you know them personally or professionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 04:11 AM
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There is a key concern among men and women if they "settled" because they could not get anything better. There is a concern that you only like one kind of woman because that was the only women you could pull. Having the ability (game) to pull damn near any kind of woman is a double edged sword. One one hand you know that you you have expanded your options so you don't have to settle. On the other hand, you despair because you realize AWALT is more true than you ever wanted it to be. And as far a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 03:09 AM
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I encourage you to look into the Adverse Childhood Experiences Survey. It details many adverse experiences children experience generally and among them is having parents at are seperated or divorced. The survey places having parents that are separated or divorced as being equally as bad as physical abuse, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, going without food, or being raised by a parent with mental illness, or seeing domestic violence against your mother. That gives a new meaning to divorce rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 03:00 AM
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Then for my own edification please answer my closing questions: So, we are in this weird place where feminist admit the rule of men (a form of superiority) but deny men moral purity (another form of superiority). Given this schism in order to change your view I need to ask you more precisely, what is the superiority women want? And, only being able to choose one at the expense of the other, what would they choose? And I would add, what would they chose pragmatically, and what would they choose i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 02:54 AM
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Feminist best fall into a Slave Morality within the Master-Slave morality of Nietzsche. To briefly summarize a quite extensive philosphy, Masters value the things that keep them in power. Strength, decisiveness, etc. Slaves, with all the powerful traits taken, value things like caring and kindness. This caring is in part a reaction to justify their servitude. "I could be a ruler, if I wasn't an absolute bastard" the slave thinks. Femininity is often cast as the nurturing and loving force in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 02:30 AM
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You may be confusing a positions status with it's income, or even more importantly, it's net income (after they pay for all of their educational debt). I was looking at going to lawyer school. I even took the LSAT and scored pretty decently considering I took no formal prep work. But I knew at the time the median income for attorneys was some $60,000. I could get that with no education and no debt in some career fields. So I went into those career fields. My wife bitches that I don't have the st…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 02:23 AM
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Shit test determine who has power, in what proportion, and under what circumstances. And remember, the more insecure the person is, the more they will feel driven to test you (which is why you should avoid people with traumatic upbringings when choosing your relationships, both romantic and platonic). The more selfish someone is, the more they will test you. The weaker you show yourself to be, the more you will be tested. If you are hansom and weak you will still be walked all over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 10:16 PM
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Perhaps. But if the guy is still having a laugh then in his head, he is still winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 12:58 AM
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I'll just create an alt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 12:51 AM
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How do you define break?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 12:50 AM
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trolling. stop feeding me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 12:18 AM
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So long as he kept his own mouth shut he would have been fine. "Can you imagine what LeaneEnova is trying to do to get discovery sooner? Absolutely appalling. We are taking every deadline to the max." This would not work, of course, if he already had a reputation as a dog. But a lot of people might have been able to get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 11:49 PM
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He must be a shit lawyer if he couldn't just impugn your honesty to his own managing partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 11:40 PM
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I saw Hank McCoy having drinks all the time with apposing counsel. I know Law and Order is just TV but it didn't seem like he was sexually harassing those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 11:38 PM
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Free food and quicker discovery? What did you have for dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 11:34 PM
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No, the ordinary rules apply to stop people from creating extraordinary situations. This situation is entirely manufactured to be extraordinary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 10:58 PM
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The actions around the Duluth Model justify women's violence. Both physical and emotional. Even a woman thrashing her kids is because of the patriarchy. We have not done enough to limit women's emotional violence to men and children. Single motherhood is social cancer. Contraception has eroded normal moral functioning leading to more single motherhood and social cancer. Women with higher educations does not necessarily mean society is better off. By that measure we could just give all women rigo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 10:54 PM
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government groups I didn't read all that, but for government groups perhaps they were referring to NGOs. There are a slew of NGOs that are focused on womens/feminist issues and they can be pretty misandrist, or if not outright hateful, apathetic to men. Think of all the NGOs that try and educate only the young girls in Africa. The misery of the uneducated men means nothing to these NGOs. There is no equality in their action (revealing that feminist really are not about equality) as they cannot d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 10:49 PM
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You can do things on principle though. You could improve yourself on principle, because of dedication to family or because you only have one lift and going through it a fuck up sounds painful. I would rather be around someone principled than someone loving but fickle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 10:45 PM
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My career is my first love. Don't get married and don't have kids. You are not fit for it. You are like the guy from Hurt Locker, not able to handle the lower wattage. And curious, how much family were you raised around?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 10:41 PM
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You are being too glib. Imagine a movie where the woman laughed she should have married the rich guy and just seen her husband on the side. That is RP as fuck. Or, like Inside Out when the woman gets angry with her husband she starts fantasizing about a life with the hansom Brazilian helicopter pilot. Hell, the whole movie of "Think like a Man" was Red pill and everyone laughed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 10:35 PM
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acting professionally This is about dating. Unless you are hooking what you wrote doesn't follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 10:29 PM
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The main reason SMP and sexual attraction is called unfair is deception. A woman living alphafux and betabux is most likely lying about what she really wants to the beta. It is this dishonesty to the beta that causes the anger phases. And when you see women give pragmatic advice to other women but idealistic be a beta in love advise to men you stop trusting women. Look at your example. Joe is open and honest about what he wants. Your example woman just wants more than she has. You did not even s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 10:01 PM
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Women bond by complaining among themselves. A bunch of women get together and complain about their husband or whatever and they feel good. They actually release oxytocin. Often when women complain they should not be taken seriously. They are just bonding and it is like the shit talk guys do when they get together. It is nothing we really need to change policy over.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 09:18 PM
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There are places that are dominated by men and fulfilling for men. Go Bowling, take up organized chess, take almost any martial art and you are predominately in the company of men. Go to the gym and lift shit up just to put it down and you are predominately in the company of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/16 10:12 AM
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Men don't have more serious societal issues than women. Men's main source of adversity is women, not society. Almost everything you mention is not society as a whole, it is women. Maybe you think I am cutting hairs but you could arrange your life around avoiding women and be happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/16 10:00 AM
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Women don't want men per se, they want support. And when feminist erode the support of family structures as being oppressive they turn to the state to support them. But the state is generally made up of the surplus men create. So women want the support of men indirectly. Women, especially those that don't bear children, are a cost on society. One thing is certain, women do not want to be alone to the degree men want to be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 11:11 PM
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Sounds great, until the mother feels bored.in the relationship, starts hamstering her boredom into hatred of husband.because he is too stable and then divorced him. This leads all the attendant ills of divorce, such as the kid having increased chances of anxiety,depression, criminality (etc) because the woman was too selfish to appreciate stability for her kids. If you were raised by a single mother and have thrown off the brain washing you just hope the woman doesn't destroy another childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 09:21 AM
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TIL being a pussy is easy. TIL having the desire to win, to achieve, and to be self reliant is stressful and hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 03:39 AM
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William Muney.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 08:54 PM
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Women literally find sitting in traffic 4 times more stressful than men do. The average woman literally does not have the same resilience to sit in a car as the average man. Feminism has convinced women to take on the challenges of the world and they can't even drive to work as well as a man. Women can fuck up their lives if they want, but they really should stop lying to themselves about how strong they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/16 06:05 AM
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The left is filled with bigots. Trump said being rich means women let you grab their pussy. That is way worse to leftist chauvinist than H. Clinton getting a pedo off for sexual abuse and silencing the women that accuse your husband off sexually assaulting them. Trum didn't say he abused the women. He didn't say they didn't want it. He said they let you. H. Clinton clearly silences women that alleged they were raped, not that they "let" something happened. Partisan Chauvinist hate Bush for drone…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 08:37 AM
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You mean to say that being a moody bitch is an intolerable state of being for a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/16 05:45 AM
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Watch the Clone Wars. Anakin put his duty before Padome several times. Rather than one orbiting the other they orbited one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/16 04:28 AM
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Not a feminist, but I have read a variety of works (much like an atheist reads the Bible and Koran). A Return to Modesty by Schalit fit the bill when it came out some 15 years ago. Female Chauvinist Pigs by Levy is another good work. An recent work from an polarizing older feminist would be Woman's Inhumanity to Women by Phyllis Chesler.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/16 04:26 AM
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We don't criminalize women's intense emotional violence. We criminalize theft, we criminalize assault, we criminalize drug use, but we don't criminalize women that cheat to hurt or control men. We also don't criminalize women that lie about birth control to control men. Read Carol Gilligan's In a Different Voice.. Not only is does the mainstream feminist ethics test justify women cheating to hurt men, they justify it as an ethical form of retribution. One example was an aspiring doctoral student…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/16 04:18 AM
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No. Men complain because women want men to make our clubs co ed (and smash the old buys club) but at the same time want to keep their clubs all girls clubs. So then guys say "you fucked up our stuff and it is not fair, hold yourself to the standards you held us to." Female hypocrisy sets up this particular dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 06:43 AM
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But TRP and MGTOW are socially unacceptable to a wide audience. That is why so many subs autoban TRP commentators.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 06:15 AM
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To treat someone as a teenager is to mentor them until they are competent. And if they stop progressing then to accept them at the maturity level they have, to accept their limitations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 09:05 PM
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If they don't act like a child but according to TRP, their brain is like that of a child or that they are the oldest teen in the house, is that an excuse to treat them like children, despite not actually acting like children? The most formal statement from the Red Pill isn't Women are children, it is based of of the following The nobler and more perfect a thing is, the later and slower is it in reaching maturity. Man reaches the maturity of his reasoning and mental faculties scarcely before he i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 06:26 PM
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but should they really be treated like children? You keep on asking that question and I keep on saying yes. I have seen young teenagers meet the standard of acceptable behavior. But I have seen 30, 40, 50 year old people fail to act as adults. And they should be given the trust and respect level of how they act.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 05:29 PM
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However, does anybody truly deserve to be treated like a child? Would you appreciate being treated like a child if you accidentally acted out in public or got upset? Of course I would not like being treated like a child. Which is why I don't act like one. And don't say accidentally acted out in public. Acting out isn't an accident. If someone acts childish they should not have our pity because childish behavior is usually intentionally or selfish and should be consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 05:11 PM
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Taken to extremes many pieces of advice are emotional abuse. Standing up for for yourself could be taken to the point that you become the abusive one. Light dread sometimes is as simple as getting in shape and telling your partner random women are noticing you more. Light negging is basically friendly teasing and banter. Treating women like children comes from the fact many women avoid responsibility and direct agency. For men it is common for a woman to pick a fight because she wants you to do …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 04:26 AM
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I heard the girls talk about their older boyfriends but didn't really hang out with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 10:18 PM
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The thirsty will put up with a hot bitch. The women get enough validation off of this that they won't learn more fundamental social skills until they age to the point they are no longer valued for their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:10 PM
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Women's charisma with men fades as they age and their looks are no longer youthful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 11:25 PM
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The point you seem to miss is women's charisma fades with age. Especially with regards to romantic charisma. A woman could be post wall and graceful in conducting and many guys would see if they could find a younger version of that grace Perhaps, after exhausting other options they will settle for the older version.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 11:15 PM
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Getting drinks because some guy want to plate you is not the same as getting a relationship. That is the script flip. Guys find it easier to plate the girls they want and girls find it harder to get the relationship they want
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 11:08 PM
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So, in RP terminology you locked down a guy before you hit the wall and now you are saying the script doesn't flip, even though you played your part perfectly?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 11:01 PM
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Sometimes they overlap in the Venn diagram. So for this I feel it is generally true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 10:55 PM
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How long have you been married? Have you dated recently? Most women your age that are single tell me it is a lot harder now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 10:53 PM
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Girls do stuff guys don't notice and then get frustrated we don't notice or care. It is for you, not for us. Women will get fat but still wear makeup to be pretty. Pretty foolish if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 10:42 PM
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Women don't have to work that hard to be attractive to women. Just be at a healthy bmi, have a decent hair cut, shave legs and arms, and wear clean clothes. They don't even need a good personaliy. Jewelry, hair highlights, expensive clothes, all that is for their own self esteem and competition with other women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 10:39 PM
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Single parent out outcomes measure by a battery of achievements (child educational achievement, financial achievement, involvement with the criminal justice system ) shows these women generally fail their kids when compared to mother that stay married. So most single mothers generally suck and their children pay the price. You are displaying the bias you say you want changed. Which makes sense. But in my experience, most single mothers are losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 10:35 PM
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A few years ago I was going through ask women and they were moking men that lifted to get chicks. They should lift crushing weight because it is fun in itself, or just to improve themselves. Women are so divorced from the effort men make that rather than appreciate it they mock it. Also, they are so lacking interspection as a whole that they don't realize how shallow they are when it comes to attractions (and it really isn't the shallowness that is the problem, it is the lack of honesty). But ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 07:56 PM
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Under the TRP we expect women to be low achieving. They are the most mature child in the room. Women are not losers because the bar is so low for them. And because women don't have that much agency when we do see a woman who is a loser we blame the men in her life for not bailing her out. Homeless women should have someone in the family step up. If she has an abuse boyfriend her family should rescue her. If she is a bad mother the father should step in. Women prop up losers too. They praise sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 07:23 PM
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The girls that post get off by being attractive. They want to be tributes and upvoted and fap to by hundreds or thousands. It is validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 05:13 PM
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Life experience. Namely two deployments in the Marines and over 5 years as a youth counselor with gang bangers, prostitutes, sex offenders, drug dealers, all that. Pretty decent social skills in person. Got stories to tell but know when to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 11:11 PM
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Could and is. The difference could be huge. But when it only takes one event to throw your life off track every woman could be a false claimer and every man could be a rapist. Which is why building up trust and a more solid relationship is important to shift out the good from the bad. Realizing what are red flags and black flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 07:23 PM
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We all all start off as children unable to take care of our need. We have to cry, initially, for everything. As we get older we stand, walk, speak, and do more and more for ourselves. To do things for our self is to act directly for our own good. The more you do that, the more of an adult you are. The less you do so, the more childish you are. A common complaint among men is women complaining to get something done they could do themselves. In fact, they will spend more time nagging than it would…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 06:57 PM
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The important thing to realize about the Red Pill is the high regard they have for agency. She bears a significant responsibility for the rape because she put herself into that dangerous situation. You are the most important person to make sure you are strong. You are the most important person to make sure you are safe. You are the most important person to make sure you have the proper social skills. TRP does talk about how to engaging Last Minute Resistance. Some pragmatics say as soon as you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 06:43 PM
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You can be friendly to someone without being their friend. You can be respectful without respecting them. You can be respectful and friendly to someone while hating them. If you do that with coworkers it is being professional. Manners are not necessarily about who you are engaging with directly, but also everyone you deal with indirectly as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 07:42 AM
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So maybe make that point next time and he could say whether his statements are based on observations or stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 07:27 AM
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Absolutely not. You can show manners to someone you don't respect as a human being. Respect is earned. Sometimes begrudgingly so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 07:25 AM
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How does your comments honestly engage in a debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 07:18 AM
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Men and women generally use the word respect differently. Most men use respect as something that is earned. Either by being tough, capable, moral, reliable, etc. For many women, respect is the default setting. You respect someone until they give you cause to not. (Then you can treat them like shit.) For a guy, you dont respect someone as the default setting. You may be fair, or treat them with decency, but not respect. So in a very real way, women do expect respect without earning it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 07:18 AM
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Look at Maslow's Hierarchy of needs. Despite what many women want to believe, a man falls in love with a woman from from the bottom of the hierarchy on up. A woman that can help a man self actualize but won't make him a sandwich or have sex with him may make a great mentor, but not a romantic partner. Many high achieving women often feel above making a sandwich or giving a good blow job. That is why they don't do well in LTR. Their self actualization ( MBA, career as a doctor) does nothing for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 08:24 PM
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Dig deeper into Stoicism. Not the street or web understanding of Stoicism but actually philosophic texts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 03:18 AM
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I see the good and the bad. TBP seems to minimize the bad in women. But when I look back in life the most stressful people have been 1 dick boss, my mom, and my romantic partners. Look back at your life. Who gave you the most grief? In and outside of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 09:37 PM
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Take some survey. Most men will mention their romantic partner or their mom as the most stressful people in their lives. And when enough people have the same subjective beliefs you can make generalizations about those people. With the right research methods you now have empirical generalizations. And I tell you, the truth is painful for you, which is why you are attacking my "generalizations." How would you feel if a source you trusted came to affirm my thesis?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 08:21 PM
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I stand by woman being a source of stress and misery. What do you think most men would say the most stressful people in their life would be? Rather than somey shit on my statement provide a rival thesis. It will help the debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 08:04 PM
0

Lacking in quantitative skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 08:00 PM
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A partner needs to help you meet your basic needs before they help you with your self actualization. Getting the order of operations wrong is why so many relationships can be undermined by someone that will focus on the basics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 07:54 PM
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Or they get the test questions wrong because they over think the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 07:51 PM
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I take it this truth is painful for you. And to be clear, for many men (and people) much of their painful relationships are work related. But if you are a man, and you have a decent work situation the most stress you will experience comes from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 07:46 PM
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If you are a man with a decent job the main source of misery in your life is the women in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 05:48 PM
1

If she is giving the OUTWARD presentation of consenting to rape then she is not being raped. The men are not rapist, but she does need, at the minimum, counseling in effective strategies to stop having sex that is both outwardly consensual but inwardly unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 07:46 PM
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I typically piss them off so much I see their true colors before they get too close. I'm proud of that. You basically just shit test people until they get tired of your shit and tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 05:47 AM
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Naw fuck that. Lets shame everyone. Incels, single mothers (cancers of the world they are), deadbeat dads, basic bitches, nice guys, the fat, the dumb, the weak, the addicts of the world. Shame'em all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 05:45 AM
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Besides, as I said, the idea that TRP is stoic (particularly in the sense of Stoicist philosophy) is strange to me. Trust me, within TRP there is a huge debate about what TRP is about. And for about a third of them, TRP is about seeing the world as it really is, and accepting it, and coping with it through Stoicism. One third is PUA, and another third is MGTOW/MRA influenced. That is the big tent of TRP. You may be more familier with the noisier and, in my opinion, immature side of TRP in the PU…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 04:06 PM
3

You are under-informed. CBT is grounded in Stoicism. Check out the Wikipedia article on CBT. Under the history section we read Precursors of certain fundamental aspects of CBT have been identified in various ancient philosophical traditions, particularly Stoicism.[108] Stoic philosophers, particularly Epictetus, believed logic could be used to identify and discard false beliefs that lead to destructive emotions, which has influenced the way modern cognitive-behavioral therapists identify cogniti…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 03:06 PM
2

The dude was so wealthy and powerful that he did not need to concern himself with the wants of those beneath him. Also, if you concern yourself with real world examples you will get a better understanding of the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 08:34 AM
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There needs to be a distinction between direct and indirect agency. A women is physically weaker than a man. When she is pregnant this is even more so. This makes it obvious when it comes to direct agency she is behind a man. But what about indirect agency? Because she is weak so she can bear children she can use her femininity and weakness to indirectly achieve her goals. She can ask or nag men to get what she wants. Ever see a woman spend more time nagging to get whats than actual doing it? Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 08:26 AM
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So if you state a general trend, and I state my special snowflake experience, my experience outweighs your trend for me at least. Generally TRP is a forum for male improvement. Knowing what is generally true about men and women helps men (and women). Now on to the term special snowflakes. When TRP talks about things that are generally true they are not focused on things that are true 51% of the time. The margin of error is to narrow. TRP wants to focus on things that are true 66%, 75%, 90% of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 08:11 AM
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We just need a big war to change the gender ratios so men are relatively more scarce than women. Women would need to be the ones to go the extra distance relative to men because there will be a relative surplus of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 04:42 PM
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but if the woman gave up her own opportunities to be a SAHM.... People don't really give up opportunities. They select one opportunity over the other. And in many instances SAHM chose a lifestyle that is relatively low in stress but can be relatively monotonous in stead of a lifestyle that is higher in stress. People really misuse the term 'gave' when it comes to relationships. Like they 'gave him my youth' or 'gave him my best years' like they were running a charity and were not getting anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 06:14 PM
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Just because you think a lot of the pain of men is minimized or dismissed in the public sphere does not mean that you cannot admit a lot of damage is done against women. Men are more likely to kill women than women are to kill men. Females are more likely to be sexually abused than males, especially after puberty. It is pretty much well known and accepted. But the fact that 5/6 of the homeless are men, about 90 percent of workplace deaths are men, damn near 100 percent of combat deaths are men. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 08:25 AM
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I don't hate sluts. But how comfortable are you with your man hanging out with women you considers slutty? Especially if you are not there?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 06:52 PM
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How many sober sluts do you know? Look at Tove Lo in habits... that is how most of us view sluts, with perhaps Tove Lo being a little exaggerated for artistic clarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 06:46 PM
2

When determine custody the court should have no regard for who was primary care giver before the divorce. Someone could be a primary caregiver but incompetently so and that incompetence could have been a major driving force in the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 07:59 AM
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Is it something girls are doing? To what 'it' are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 07:33 AM
1

Men don't get intimacy through talking. We get it through physical activity, of which sex is particularly effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 08:06 PM
2

But you can do that physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 07:30 AM
2

And I don't understand why women want to talk so much. Much of it inconsequential.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 05:11 AM
6

Please address the advice that you get a "Soft no" and decide to just leave for the night. If you get called back into bed most reasonable people would take that as enthusiastic consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/16 10:00 PM
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I'm responding taking into consideration the actual TRP view of LMR, not just what you said or the rather unique view in the OP. Most TRP posts about LMR do not say that you should never push through it Cite your sources then. OP is is explicitly stating that the criticisms of pushing past LMR are unfounded because they are not based on what TRP actually says. And if you see opposing quotes, the winner goes to the most upvotes in the citation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/16 09:57 PM
2

If attraction is biology why do when have a Fat acceptances movement that enchorages people to overrule their biological motion?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 10:40 PM
2

This is PPD. The thing I am debating is basic nature, and the women that hate redpill ideas but fit the mold perhaps should evaluate what they believe vs what they want to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 10:07 PM
2

most are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 10:26 AM
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The moral aspect comes from honesty of intent. If I have a job, and I tell my employer I love my job but I need to think of supporting my family, especially my two children so I am negotiating pay or a move to another company that is honest. If I am with a partner and I make them complacent while bilking them of their money and bounce without warning for a better partner then i was not honest. How you make your goals is amoral. How you pursue them is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 10:01 AM
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Look, women can't much help what their stock model biology does So, once again women lack agency over their biology? Sounds pretty Red Pill to me. And it sounds like a rebuttal to OPs thesis regarding looks and personality. And shallow refers to going beyond the first glance. Going beyond the first glance takes us away from looks and deeper into personality. I really don't know what you are getting at. You are basically agreeing with me on every point without even knowing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 08:58 AM
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What if there are just less attractive men than there are women? A lower supply of attractive men doesn't mean women are more shallow. So, the median is the exact middle of a collection. If you had 100 men and you had them stand from most fugly to most hansom the the one in the middle is the median. Everyone more attractive than he is is above average, and everyone less attractive is below average. Women, shallow creachers they are, do not want above average. They want above average of above ave…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 08:37 AM
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Women are more shallow than men. When it comes to looking at dating sights women only think 1/4 of men are attractive, while men think about 1/2 are attractive. Women generally want a man starting at about 6ft tall. Most men are fine with 5'0 to about their own height. Women are a lot more shallow when it comes to their partners looks and stature. Also TRPillers (while they do say looks are important) emphasize wayyyy more on creating an attractive personality, making it seem like personality is…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 07:17 AM
0

Quiet, Orwell, there are 5 rapes.
/r/MensRights06/03/16 06:35 AM
-2

If you want a family then you want a partner who can cook and clean.
/r/askTRP14/02/16 12:57 AM
127

The severe brutality and inhumanity is stunning.
/r/MensRights01/02/16 09:38 AM
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because usually feminist believe that people who have been wronged are somehow good people, as if being wronged purifies them of their own sins. if the feminist talk about the sexual assaults then they will have to decide that the asylum seekers are both a wronged people and a shitty people at the same time. the idea that feminist can be shitty people does not compute to them, so they have to stay as far away of the notion that bad things can happen to bad people as they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 06:56 AM
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Seems we found an honest feminist.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/01/16 08:16 PM
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She basically said that until her death. Also read: http://everydayfeminism.com/2015/07/choices-not-always-feminist/ https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/594662850095755266 http://feministing.com/2015/05/07/choice-feminism-time-to-choose-another-argument/ If you are a feminist they don't want you to chose, they want you to follow their version of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 12:38 AM
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“No woman should be authorized to stay at home to raise her children. Society should be totally different. Women should not have that choice, precisely because if there is such a choice, too many women will make that one.” -Simone de Beauvoir, Author of The Second Sex one of the principle text of Feminism in the 1950s and is credited with starting the Second Wave of Feminism. Many of us anti-feminist know feminism better than feminist, much like many a atheist or agnostic knows the Bible or Kora…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 08:56 PM
5

A lot of athletes file for bankruptcy and lose everything, they blow through that money. The thing is we have an epidemic of gold-digging whores. They go after the guys because of the character flaws and weaknesses because they want to take advantage of those flaws and weaknesses. And then there is no more gold to dig up they move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 08:47 PM
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I'd actually be interested to hear the men's opinions on this If you are not paying then you give up where you are eating. I am not going to pay, then have a 20 minute conversation on where we are going. If I feel like Indian food or Greek or Steak we go where where I want. I don't mind paying in the beginning so long as I see sincere appreciation. If the sincere appreciation is not there then there will be no relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/15 10:07 PM
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Women equate love with support. Almost every time a woman wants to "take a relationship to the next level" they really mean "you need to support me more." Buying her stuff is support. Renting together is support. Buying a house together is support. Being on your insurance is support. The more you "love" a woman the more you give her stuff without question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 09:35 PM
1

Women want to be provided for. When they are single the best provider is the government. When they are married their best provider is their husband, and many Democratic policies are seen as taking away from their provider through higher taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 09:32 PM
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My brother's divorce is costing him 35k and that is before they figure how to split the house. 7k a year for 5 years. He could have banged whores like 10 times a month for that price and been happier.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 06:09 AM
3

The extreme female brain has boarderline personality disorder. Think about it, the extreme emotional variability and self destructive tendencies. About 3/4 of autism diagnosis go to men and about the same percentage go to women for BPD.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 06:27 AM
8

Most of women's emotional support is comforting lies and should be avoided or ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/15 02:01 AM
4

Feminist prop up the gender essentialism strawman and tip it over to deny the fact that men and women have generally different interest and motivations. I see men and women essentially different when it comes too biology, generally different when it comes to interest and motivations, and I don't believe you can truly "trans" because I call people him or her based on their sex, and if you are trans I call you buy your name because you do believe you should be able to pick a name that feels right …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 08:13 PM
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Gender essentialism is a straw man. You often hear the gender studies croud prop up the straw man just so they can tip it over. The sexes are generally, not essentially, different. We are a dimorphic species with generally differences in body composition and hormone levels, and so forth. Trans cannnot legitimize a straw man argument. But they can say "I dont generally feel like this, I generally feel like that."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 07:25 PM
4

Committing a crime and being charged for it or convicted of it are two very different things. Women and feminist don't want to admit that more women than men beat their kids. Strong, single mothers, able to thrash a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 06:40 AM
2

Yeah, I refuse to bow to emotional terrorism, regardless of pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 06:22 AM
8

Maybe he reads manga.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/05/15 01:46 AM
0

Here is a central strain in human nature. On one hand we are pattern recognizing machines. We like what we are familiar with and are repulsed by what we are not familiar with, unless we think it is unique but but safe. But on the other hand we value our own freedom and hate to conform to others expectations if conformation is hard. The same is true of feminist. They hate to conform to other people but value conformity or deviations they feel are safe. So they want safe male hotties but do not wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 06:47 AM
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. As far as I understand, a core concept of Red Pill is self-improvement, and that self-improvement should primarily be done for oneself, not for women. In a lot of ways Red Pill advice is hard for people to fully integrate, and especially this one in particular. A lot RPllers are so focused on the game of getting women that they don't see the benefit of having a discipline that you love so you don't need a woman, or don't feel let down without one. And then when you have something active that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 06:24 PM
1

You want him to Go His Own Way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 06:20 PM
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I'm sitting here still in my pajamas, reheated food from last night, and my hair in its wildest state thinking that's kinda hilarious. Are you saying you need someone to pay for nicer food and a make over?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 06:19 PM
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What makes you draw that conclusion? I am not a red piller, but I do engage in Purple Pill Debate. I came across this in my front page and decided to start where RP would start. And to be clear, shit test are not necessarily how they treat you, but how you treat them and they respond to that treatment. It may be you are testing them without knowing and they are failing. You have also set RPW up for can impossible task. You say you are not lookin for commitment, but want help because you pull awa…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 08:26 AM
2

Just wondering. For many Red Pillers, the more dysfunctional the father-daughter relationship the more shit test and adversity she will throw up. How often do you receive his praise?
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 07:45 AM
5

Tell us about your father.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 07:32 AM
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If a dude did that he would get sex offender treatment, or at least an eval for it.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/05/15 05:34 AM
16

Which is a key sign that he has not moved on.
/r/PussyPass28/04/15 10:38 PM
21

The husband should move on.
/r/PussyPass28/04/15 06:25 PM
1

First of all here is something you need to understand: it is much easier for a man to acquire sex that he enjoys than it is for a woman to acquire sex that she enjoys. The vast majority of sex is compromise sex. Both want something more from their partner, but in your view when the woman consents she is still the victim of enjoy less sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 05:21 PM
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Your average woman is not independent. Between not even being able to buy their own meals on dates, accept that they earn less because they work less, or care for themselves post marriage, or even go to long without being in a relationship you see women are not terribly independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 05:04 PM
2

Feminism is the advocacy of women without regard to justice or facts, with an emphasis on "rights" but not obligations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 04:53 PM
4

BP is not a philosophy, it is an anti-philosophy. There is no "BP would not do this" or "BP would do this" because BP lacks the framework to make any specific decision except to criticize RP. Someone can be BP and be a shitbag so long as they mock RP on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 07:09 AM
2

Paleo advocates believe they are making better dietary choices by focusing on foods that they believe are more harmonious with our bodies digestion. How is that macho just because it allows more animal meat and fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 06:54 AM
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That is not generally RP because RP is about mating strategy and self improvement. What you are doing is like associating a capital investor with a theif because they both deal with money. RP would be going to lawyer school because you presume a certain quality woman wants a lawyer. You would be motivated to continued success to ward off her hypergamous urges. You would use their toolkit to not be a lion at the office but a mouse at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 06:48 AM
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The red pill wants to accept people the way they are, without idealizations. We are omnivores. Meat and even insects are a part of our diet. Without meat it is very hard to get all our nutrients without supplements. And you cannot trust those fuckers to actually put all the nutrients into the pills. Also, eating meat feels good so let's do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 05:14 AM
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Yes. It begins and ends with the name, explicitly there is positive female ideation and an implicit negative male idealization.
/r/MensRights13/03/15 07:03 AM
11

Like critical theory? If you want to find something wrong, you can. If you preach to the chior the choir can find you eloquent no matter how wrong you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 04:51 AM
2

In the US, I find more MRAs are more well read in feminism than feminist just like more atheist are more read in Christianity than Christians.
/r/MensRights09/03/15 06:15 AM
0

I bases a lot of my opinion of women in a professional enviroment on my experiences, and the fact that it syncs up with In the Company of Women a book I bought to help me understand female-female conflict, and I think women do behave worse. When I was in the military, a male dominated environment, no one ever deleted something maliciously off of our shared drive, but it is common in my female dominated work to find your shit missing if you don't back it up. Likewise with getting blindsided with …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 05:42 AM
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The point is a lot of women's controlling or agressive behavior is normalized nor accepted in ways that the same behavior is not accepted with men. The Red Pill is opposed to this behavior and positive idealization more vigorously and clearly than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 07:29 PM
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It is an adjustment from the positive idealization of women in society. I was raised in schools where I was told girls were smarter than boys, better communicators, more caring. So you overlook a lot of faults until you cannot take it anymore. If you say you don't want to something you should not be nagged. If you are in a disagreement you should not be the calm one while the other screams and slams stuff. And you should not have to deal with all the excuses for women's lack of accountability fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 09:54 AM
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I don't know why the feminist on reddit think they are mischaracterized when they literally want women to have the ability to ruin a mans life with just a few words and no due process. Hell, they are even feminist that think a women can retroactively withdraw consent after sex has occured.
/r/MensRights03/03/15 10:16 AM
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I would include it as a lesser grade of sexual assault. There a lot of good reasons why the legal community has moved away from prosecuting people for "rape" and instead now use the term sexual assault. Obviously, for prostitute consent is conditional upon being paid. Therefore if you have sex with a prostitute and don't pay her you violated that conditional consent. This is the only time I would really think that someone could found out they been raped after had sex if they weren't affected by …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 02:13 AM
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I am going to cut into your conversation a bit higher than you left off. One aspect of rape that is not being discussed is its role in the standard cycle of physical abuse. Remember, not all rape is stranger raps. There is still the honeymoon period, then tension building, then the release of tension followed by shows of regret leading to another honeymoon period. Once you place in all the other manipulation it is not that women want to be raped, it is just that they cannot imagine not being in …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 10:14 PM
1

Many people don't like their limits pushed, and talking about BDSM pushes sexual limits so if you privately enjoy BDSM it is advisable to keep it private so the insecure do not slander you. And really, being PC is about not making anyone uncomfortable for any reason regardless of the truth of the topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 01:05 AM
-2

I think for many women the most desirable man is Alpha with everyone else but with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 12:45 AM
2

My understanding is privacy places a huge role in the pc-ness of BDSM. If you are really submissive in your sex life but not so anywhere else it is very improper for any confidant to violate your privacy. It should seem obvious but both sex and what is PC can be confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 12:12 AM
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Strictly defined, yes, sexual fetishisms is sexual attraction to an inanimate object, but colloquial it involves BD, D/s, and S&M.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 12:07 AM
2

Well said. I will attach my rebuttal to your comment as hers was deleted. The problem is not so simple, like many women that were raised with abusive fathers, men raised with manipulate mothers don't know, or believe that they can expect better. And let's not have it seem that men are the only ones who experience that anger. There are plenty of women that think men are dogs, or as a recent ask women thread revealed (the one where mothers that wanted daughters ended up with sons) that so many of …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 11:34 PM
1

There is a problem with both men and women when they grow up to learn how to be nice, or polite, and not taken advantage of. And there is a lot of that in dating, for both men and women. Just because someone gets angry when they realize they have been taken advantage of for a decade does not mean they thought they were entitled to sex. It just means that they realize they have been taken advantage of in many ways, and sex is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 11:09 PM
1

They follow what works. In their mind they are being scientific. Something is not working. Try a new method. Test and retest. Do I feel better on criteria X,Y & Z? If not try something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 12:26 AM
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In their eyes it is an improvement. Pragmatically they are manipulating to at least a standstill when theynwere losing.... Badly. Side question: why do you think so many post to /r/raisedbynarcissist are about mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 12:21 AM
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Characteristics of an UNhealthy relationship: emotional manipulation, cheating, screaming, ignoring your partner's feelings and/or concerns, refusing to communicate, thinking only your thoughts and feelings matter, forcing separation when you don't want to address problems, etc. The problem is, for men that have been raised to be doormats that is their experience with women, especially the ones related to communication. I have known too many women that will not talk when they are upset, mostly a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 12:09 AM
2

Many women are willing to date significant older partners than men are. They may say that the men are more mature, but in large it comes down to financial maturity and the ability to take them out and buy them things. Because when you boil it down, the complaints of "we never go out" is a financial complaint much of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 10:53 PM
1

The closest thing that could be interpreted as the advocation of rape is overcoming Last Minute Resistance for sex. Before I continue, let's go over a hypothetical situation that I think many men are familiar with. You are with a woman and are beginning to become intimate. She puts the breaks on it and you respect that. You see her later and she tells you you should have tried harder. That is a woman who wants to be persuaded and persued. This is a woman who would have been happier if you knew t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 10:46 PM
3

Believe me, I am one of the furthest things from a SJW (but I do know how to talk to them in their own language). Also, I am a youth counselor who was worked with girls who were prostituded and prostituded themselves and they are some of the most damaged people I have met. There is just something not right about a 30 or 50 year old fucking a 13 year old, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 08:59 PM
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MAny women i n mild porn are really in their late 20 and 30s and are age appropriate for the people wanking it. Also, variety is the spice of life and age is not the only criteria for good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 10:04 AM
3

You mistake manners and politeness for respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 04:19 AM
4

if you deserve respect, people will respect you automatically. That is clearly not the case. The selfish do not pass out respect. They may admire someone who has what they want, but that is not a mature respect. And please, don't try to mince words with being respected and being treated with respect. One without the other is so cheap it is worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 04:12 AM
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I think she is a female sex offender. I also don't think she resembles me in any way. I served in the Marines, graduate summa cum laud, and have worked in the justice field for about 7 years in various capacities (with sex offenders as well, so I really feel she groomed her sister for abuse). At 33 I have I already have 15 years of public service (13 if you don't count the time I was unemployed while getting my degree). I don't know what the hell other people who are on the cusp of the Gen X and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 03:59 AM
2

I want respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 12:17 AM
1

I don't have a pill, but improve yourself and don't put up with people who at games, and don't play games yourself works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 11:46 PM
4

I had a temp ban from /r/askwomen in a thread where I they were bashing man that took martial arts and I pointed out that sometimes as a man you need to defend yourself because sometimes there's no other place to run, & I use the example of when people actually try to invade my home. Are then accused him of being so privileged have never lived in a neighborhood that bad or be the man that had to defend his wife. I was not told how long I was banned, but when I swung back a few months later I saw…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 11:36 PM
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It does. If you ask for advice in /r/relationships and someone honestly thinks you are at fault they should be able to give feedback without being punished. Change is uncomfortable. Having your shortcomings pointed out hurt. If you make every place so "safe" that they cannot point out your mistakes in thought or action then you will not have the painful realization often needed to mature and grow as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 11:31 PM
2

Que the pity Olympics between Feminist and MRAs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 11:25 PM
0

There are limitations to any method of data collection. I get tired of people complaining about the shortcomings without actual addressing the results or implications. Just admit that you don't want to address then data because it does not fix your world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 11:33 AM
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I think fiction should not belong here because it could derail the whole subreddit.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/02/15 05:31 PM
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I think fiction should not belong here because it could derail the whole subreddits.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/02/15 05:29 PM
235

I need my own hype squad.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/02/15 05:03 PM
12

There was an article on feministing community blog years ago about a woman that hooked up at wedding, in a closet, and was upset that the guy finished quickly so they would not get caught, then felt raped when she found out he was married and asked "Was I grey raped?" (I cannot find the post right now) and the consensus from feministing was if she felt raped, she was raped. Even though she wanted more when she was in the closet with her hookup. So basically Greg rape is when it is not black and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 10:41 PM
6

This is a crap post because there is no explicitly asked question to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 08:34 PM
1

Feminism has become an enabling philosophy. You cannot just look at the the various one sentence definitions because they are too shallow. Look at how many feminist look at the definition of the patriarchy. Many of them say all the problems in the world happen because of the patriarchy. Women compete with other women because of the patriarchy. Men compete with men because the patriarchy. Men and women compete with one another because of the patriarchy. That is an enabling philosophy because it b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 10:55 PM
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Men are not more violent, they can just do more damage blow for blow. If a woman slaps a man and a man slaps her back really, the woman was more violent as the instigator.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 03:53 AM
5

Male problems lead to female problems which lead to male problems. It is a cycle, and when your only focus on female problems, or your attention on male problems is a a smoke screen, or lip service, or backhanded sympathy, then you cannot fix the whole problem and ultimately defeat yourself and your cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 10:09 AM
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There is a difference between direct power and indirect power and women have used a lot of indirect power to both get what they want while pretending to be powerless so they can ask for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/14 04:09 AM
1

It is usually the other way around.... Unhappy women seek escape through promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 12:00 AM
1

Maintain frame over shit test and continue to improve yourself. Applies any way you want to splice it. M-f, F-m, F-f or M-m.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/14 09:29 AM
1

Women want excitement. Dangerous men are exciting to immature women the same way crazy woman are exciting to young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/14 06:00 AM
1

Despite not really having a question to debate OP did provide points for us to accept or reject and I think the conversation turned out rather well. A lucky accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/14 05:35 AM
1

You might be able to not cure cancer if you raise all the money you say you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/14 05:25 AM
1

Beastiality is beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 09:04 PM
1

I believe quality over quantity and I distrust those that chose otherwise when it comes to parntners. This gets kinda complicated because you can be low quantity and low quality. But it is kinda hard to be both high quality and quantity because come on... Who walks away from high quality?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 10:34 AM
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This runs the risk of turning every divorcee into a rapist. Your marriage is on the rocks, go to counseling but also consult a lawyer. Use that as evidence that someome was just scamming the counseling to get laid. So you then raped your spouse because counseling did not work out and you got a divorce attorney to soon. Also, every cheater would also be a rapist. I am not condoning adultery, but come on, its not rape. Could you imagine the outrage if every adulterous person was thrown in jail? Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 08:46 AM
2

You just completely derailed the conversation by creating a straw man arguement and then tipping it over. I was talking about being able to get a date. Which there are many reasons to do. And you reduced that to "purely sexual reasons." I don't know if you derailed the conversation on purpose, a lack of focus, or your internalized sexism against men, terrible able to focus, but even for men there more to dating than just sex. The OP in the AW thread understands that first impressions count and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 08:37 AM
0

one key thing about the red pill is it sees itself as a rejection of third phase feminism. In part because third phase them and it's grant themselves liberties that they deny men. When a woman becomes a feminist and sees the world as unjust many feminists will defend her anger. If a man sees the world as unjust and becomes red pill then he's a misogynistic monster. many women also do not like the fact that girls are raised to play nice and when they do so they get taken advantage of by men becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 11:17 PM
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There was a post over on Askwomen where OP asked what AW thought about being men working out to be attractive so women would date them. The top response was that was pathetic as you should work out for yourself and the respondent nwould not date OP. Son getting in shape is pathetic. Learning to talk to women is too close to being a PUA and is pathetic. The fact there are shades of grey but less than most feminist think. Using a bunch of men sexually is ok for women but not a lot of feminist like…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 10:48 PM
1

I get deleted comments all the time over generalizing gender. Rather than have an honest and open conversation they take it off the table. I understand needing to ban statements like "all women suck" or "all men are dogs" but I did not get those kind of comments deleted. I got one deleted for saying conflict happens differently in male dominated versus female dominated workplaces, based on my own experiences. So deleting my comment was invalidating my personal experience. Which is against their …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/14 08:24 PM
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Askwomen is a place where many of the users, men and women, go to surround themselves with comfortable groupthink. They like to think that men and women are are not that different from each other but at the same time each individual is different. So they don't like the notion that they may all find someone generally attractive. Philosophically they thinks humans should be able to move past such shallowness by almost force of will. If they admit basic human attraction then they have to shift the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/14 07:47 PM
3

Simone de Beauvoir wrote in the Second Sex that after puberty girls stop being and start seeming. Basicialy pretending to be what they think a woman should be, Boys do the same thing as they turn into men. It takes time to adjust to the new situation. Men and women need to accept that both sides go through this grief and cut one another some slack and have some empathy and not take advantage. A dude stinking of Axe is just like some chick that coated on the make-up and sometimes they both dress …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 11:25 PM
1

The social system channels the cooperation and competition, to be sure, and then that interaction shapes the social system with feedback. But the innate drive to compete or cooperate is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/14 05:48 PM
1

We need to admit that generally speaking, men and women are generally different, and it goes beyond hight. We engage one another differently socially, whether it comes to aggression or showing support. We bond differently; and in a lot of ways we view the world differently. We also should admit that men and society are not the causes of female-female competition. Both men and women have a natural inclination to both compete with and collaborate with their own sex. Blaming female-female competiti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 09:55 PM
64

4chan has the best advise again.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 09:00 AM
1

Those that have the will to rise above such base equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 06:44 AM
4

It seems that sex was not discussed prior in the relationship and she froze, which is a normal response to something so unexpected to her. Consent was absent and so that was a sexual assault. In most states in the US it would be in the first or second degrees as many states have dropped the legal term of rape. The follow up question does the dude have a rapist mentality? Was he all about power and control? Did he intentionally pick an inexperienced, quiet (maybe shy) girl and take advantage of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 08:58 PM
1

When you look at generalizations, you have to, for yourself, determine how broad or narrow the definition is. So, if you have a generalization that only fits 51% of that population, do you go with it? How about 60%? 80?. Men are generally taller than women. They are generally stronger than women. 100% of birth mothers are biologically female. Without science women need men to reproduce. These conditions and differences cascade through society so the sexes are generally different. Men don't have …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 08:10 AM
0

Does the idea of anal sex not sit well with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/14 07:25 PM
4

If she is like 33 that is only two a year since 15. Not that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/14 07:24 PM
3

Improve yourself to make yourself more interesting. Maintain frame. No one should be punked around in a relationship. Move on if she is crazy or not up to standards. Better a clean break than a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 07:15 PM
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There is a lot if research about indirect versus direct communication, especially as a method of aggression and women are more indirectly aggressive than men. Buy almost any book managing women and it will address this indirect aggression. Aligning communication and aggression styles by gender is indicative of general patters of behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 07:40 PM
2

It is more "Why are you taking your shit out on me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 07:36 PM
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The OP was talking about women when they are in a power struggle and using silence as control. So yes. when someone is being negative... they are negative. But you did not give him a chance to say how often these struggles come along for him so you should ask that before painting his whole world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 07:34 PM
3

If she needs to relax after work and is being cryptic and not telling you she is immature and selfish. It is not hard to say "work sucked and I need a nap/jog/shower/backrub/alone time."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 07:31 PM
2

Men are better at regulating the emotions they feel. The social conditioning also improves this control.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 07:21 PM
3

The most mature 18 year olds in the room... I certainly do see some 50 or even 60 year old "mature 18 year old" women out there but TRP has to see that there are more "mature 18 year old" men out there than they want to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 10:53 AM
2

A key thing about the Red Pill is they don't believe in hedging their words with so many disclaimers that what they say loses some meaning. So they speak in clear unequivocally statements with the understanding that if what they say does not apply to you then you should not need a disclaimer. To a certain extent speaking clearly and directly has its benefits. If you think something applies to 90% of the population then you are on solid ground when you say "men this" or "women that." You get basi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 10:10 PM
5

It is not just being a parent, it is also my time as a youth counselor (both teenage boys and girls) and remembering my own childhood. My daughter is young but I cannot restate this enough. If the parents are responsive and paying attention then the kids will raise the parents as much as parents will raise the kids. Once you realize that then the whole nature versus nurture versus nature argument is even more tilted towards nature. The idea that kids raise their parents as much as their parents …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 07:02 AM
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I really don't like feminists that lean too much toward nurture and socialization as opposed to nature. Both men and women have an inborn drive to both compete and cooperate. This includes female to female emotional violence. But if I say that around /r/askwomen I will get severely downvoted. Boys and girls play differently on the playground. Once again, severely downvoted. Kids raise their parents as much as parents raise their kids. You do what makes them laugh and avoid what makes them cry. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 06:43 AM
15

Everyone needs to work, cook and clean. Even you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/14 07:57 AM
9

Are you saying satire isn't a valid way of communicating a message? Lets not say all forms of satire are equal. Much of satire is just pretentious immaturity. The true point of satire is to provoke communication leading to change, not grandstanding your own wit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/14 12:02 AM
7

Sure, you love him, but do you respect him? That is a very real question, because love without respect only goes so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 07:47 AM
1

Its more 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 08:38 PM
3

Right now my wife makes a higher base pay than I do. But I have union health insurance that pays 25k a year into my plan so I don't have to. My wife dropped her health care because it was not worth it. If you included my health care into my base pay I win. With my VA loan I am the reason we got a triple zero home mortgage, and the reason we refinanced with the Veterans Program at my local credit union, saving 200k over the life of the mortgage. She married up by marring me, even though she earns…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 08:12 PM
5

Apparently you are have a case of misandry. So you are empathetic too?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 08:06 PM
1

I clearly remember having female teachers say girls were smarter than boys. Either they believed it or were reacting to a percieved insecurity in the girls but it still pissed me off. Also hearing that girls are more mature and that is why they do better in school. I don't but that. I think many girls play the good girl role by getting grades, and that is not a real maturity. Otherwise so many of them would not let lose at college.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/14 02:30 AM
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