TheScanlon Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	What’s the chance of getting laid on the first date 50/50	/r/seduction	14/07/22 12:54 AM
2	I don’t know where I’m going with my “friend” It doesn't really sound like it's going anywhere. Maybe try turning up the heat during the next makout session to see how he responds.	/r/seduction	11/07/22 02:47 AM
1	Have you ever rejected someone you liked/were attracted to? Maybe. Or that I was worried about letting her down. I was pretty poor and had a tough/weird upbringing.	/r/seduction	09/06/22 11:36 PM
1	Have you ever rejected someone you liked/were attracted to? I have. It's always bothered me. I don't know why I did it and I did it more than once	/r/seduction	09/06/22 11:32 PM
94	I did it! I asked a random girl out in a bar with her friends present Nice job. Leveled up!	/r/seduction	07/06/22 11:42 PM
1	Just went out and did about 15-20 approaches I can confirm this. I had two friends that always got the girl and I never related it to boxing until I just read this.	/r/seduction	15/05/22 01:56 PM
1	How to act after a rejection? Say "Can't blame me for trying.", And continue the conversation. If she stays engaged, you're still in it. Keep the Convo going, she might throw you a number at the end. Or maybe a friend. Otherwise, your a stud, chatting up women. That's what the other women see. You'll increase your odds with them Maybe you just took your shot too early. Classic mistake.	/r/seduction	14/05/22 04:23 PM
2	Life is heading in the right direction but at 26 I have no car and don’t have my own place still. Should I still try? I think that is how most people feel at your age. We were lucky that we didn't have the internet constantly plugged into our heads telling us the things that we didn't have. In many ways it was a lot tougher back then. Bosses could be complete assholes and there was nothing anyone could do about it. No work from home. Two weeks of vacation. Mandatory working unpaid weekends. You just worked constantly and always kept your eyes out for something better. The one thing most of us had was really lar…	/r/seduction	27/02/22 03:07 PM
5	Life is heading in the right direction but at 26 I have no car and don’t have my own place still. Should I still try? Concentrate on work and getting that car. Everything will fall into place. I didn't get my own place until I was almost 29. And it was small and far from the city. That was 25 years ago. And I had a master's in IT. Life is hard. It always has been. Just keep working hard and you will get there.	/r/seduction	27/02/22 02:41 PM
2	What do you usually say to a girl at the end of the date when you part way? If you enjoyed your date and want another just say. "I had a really nice time.". If she moves close to you then you can move closer to her and maybe there is going to be some physical contact. If not, back away and say " Maybe we can do this again sometime.". Listen very closely to that response because it will tell you everything you need to know about whether or not you've earned the second date.	/r/seduction	07/02/22 08:13 PM
1	[deleted by user] If you aren't exclusive, she can talk and date anyone she wants. I think she is letting you know what she wants. Eventually she will move on to someone else I think it's your move boss. The timer has started ticking.	/r/seduction	30/01/22 04:12 PM
1	[deleted by user] It sounds like she is pulling away to keep from being hurt. It sounds as if she isn't down with the status quo. If being exclusive might work for you then go for that otherwise you need to let her go.	/r/seduction	30/01/22 03:48 PM
15	Which type of girls are easy to approach? Happy friendly ones.	/r/seduction	16/01/22 03:05 PM
5	I dmed a girl, she agreed to go on a study date type thing and then later said it was her only day to study so she won’t have time I don't think you will wear her down. Leave it be and see if she DMs you eventually.	/r/seduction	12/12/21 05:35 AM
53	I woke up today and i saw a message from a girl who broke my heart 3 years before. I second this. This is the true answer. Block her and move on.	/r/seduction	22/10/21 09:29 AM
12	[deleted by user] This is all very true. 53 and gone through it all.	/r/seduction	04/10/21 07:49 PM
2	Picking Up Girls At Bars Success Yup. This is the way. Always works. It's hard to find a good wingman though.	/r/seduction	13/09/21 11:31 PM
1	Will vaginas ever be appreciated as much as boobs, butts and penises are? You have a problem.	/r/seduction	05/05/21 12:22 AM
1	Will vaginas ever be appreciated as much as boobs, butts and penises are? A hole is a hole.	/r/seduction	04/05/21 11:41 PM
1	A girl caught my eye at the gym. You need to be patient and wait for an opening. Make sure that your eyes are aren't looking anywhere inappropriate. Eye contact only. And be ready if she says anything friendly to you. I have a friend who was able to catch the eye of a super hot girl at the gym. One day she says 'Nice pants' and all he could think of was 'uuuuh, thanks?' They are married now.	/r/seduction	04/05/21 05:26 PM
1	Drink Date First Date: Can someone walk me through this? Yes. You pay for drinks. Also see previous answer about finding a good vibe.	/r/seduction	03/05/21 01:28 AM