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| 14 | First thing to say when approaching girls?Im here just rolling on the floor laughing and remembering how my older cousin - a true master seducer - taught me 14, 15 yo boy how to approach girls IN EXACTLY THAT WAY HOW THE POST IS PHRASED 😂 He’s like: go to a girl and tell her „look can you help us settle an issue, my friend things A but I think B…“ Sparked good memories, OP. Anyways, about your question: I think tonality and body language matter much more. You’ll see, when you are confident in your game you can say the most ridiculous st… | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Gents, give me your best covert/subtle ways to make a woman hornyNice reply! Great job writing that out! | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Slept with girl talked for a few days then she just ghosts!?Brother, I sense that you’re feeling down a bit and are circling around in your head. I think that can happen when have the expectation that interactions with feminine energy are going to be purely recovering. But that’s not the case. Even in a deep and committed relationship you need to do handle the polarity and the volatility of the female energy. They are always doing to test you, over and over again. Between those battles you get to rest and they surrender, and that’s the most beautiful thi… | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 11:30 AM |
| 5 | Slept with girl talked for a few days then she just ghosts!?Read your update. It’s a rollercoaster. Nice message you sent her. Abundance mindset + being comfortable showing your interest one last time. (YEAH!) Spiteful thoughts about “showing her” by wanting to leave her on read. Are you a petty 13 y.o. teenager brother? (MEH) It’s not about her. It’s about your approach and mindset to life. Empathy, and think how you can be of service to others. Childish mindset: What do I get? Mature mindset: What can I provide and how can I do better? (Also: What do I… | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Not having anything to sayGreat! And you can always ask a person “What is something a beautiful person like you could speak about for hours?” (Practice it so often that it doesn’t feel weird to throw in a compliment into a question). | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 09:59 AM |
| 5 | Anyone here get good at game in their 30s?Brother, God bless you for taking time for this elaborate answer and providing this much value. | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 09:57 AM |
| 2 | Is being cubby/fat that much of a deal breaker?I think many replies here are not getting the point – even though their general insight is valuable and absolutely, OP, you should work out for your own health and well-being – this is not the point. You asked if it is a dealbreaker to be overweight when pursuing a relationship / seducing another person because you feel insecure about yourself. The dealbreaker is not your weight. The dealbraker is you not being confident and feeling good with yourself. And that kills any natural game you have. T… | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 09:30 AM |
| 4 | Anyone here get good at game in their 30s?That needs to be highlighted. Working with a mentor / coach is a fast track to success. And you pointed out the one way that has proven to be effective when choosing a coach. Trust. Your. Gut. (=work with someone that resonates with you). | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 11:48 PM |
| 11 | Anyone here get good at game in their 30s?Last sentence is peak enlightenment. Amen! ;) | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 11:28 PM |
| 10 | Anyone here get good at game in their 30s?Love the clear and concise language in your summary of OPs situation. I recognised it helps often to have someone tell you back what you told then and suddenly it’s like a switch get turned in the brain and Heureka! | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Not having anything to sayNice backstory! :D Yeah, there’s no need to invent the wheel… I struggle with that too but then I remember what my mentor told me when I was learning my trade in IB. Think of a 6 3 big blonde guy. 60% Patrick Bateman vibes. 39 yo, making tons of money, and having a new girl every time he goes out without even needing to have lots of conversations because he radiated energy. And ice cold at work. Definitely not a role model or someone I aspired to be but it was a great hate-love dynamic we had. W… | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Not having anything to sayI’ll add one more idea, and you’ll discern for yourself what is valuable for you and ignore the rest. A date is not an interview. Learn to feel confident with silence. Take a deep breath. Close your eyes. Just root yourself within yourself. Allow it to feel awkward. And then you realise it’s not. It’s not about speaking all time and good seduction doesn’t necessarily need to use many words. Smile. And then, if you sense it, just go ahead and show a sign on interest. Physical touch, but gently an… | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 10:57 PM |
| 0 | Not having anything to sayThis is an excellent advice and even as a senior in the game I regularly go back to these questions right before a date when I need some additional aces up my sleeve. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 10:45 PM |
| 1 | The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it?This is to the point. Excellent comment. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 10:39 PM |
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