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ADVICETheShiningSun/r/RedPillWives15/08/21 02:03 PM
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Here's my take: I don't mind doing the majority of the homemaking, but there's no way I'm going to work full time, do the bulk of the child nurturing, and be an unstressed feminine lover while simultaneously doing the majority of the homemaking. This is why I find it essential to choose generous men (with a strong moral compass), who are financially stable enough to provide for a family on their own, and desire a stay-at-home wife.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/22 10:08 PM
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Evie magazine is excellent, they also have a nice Instagram page. I find the content very refreshing!
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/22 04:19 PM
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Unfortunately yes, you are a plate. If he wanted an exclusive, established relationship with you, he would have asked. This guy doesn't want a relationship you, but he finds the sex very convienient. You're better off finding a guy who pursues a relationship with you from the start rather than trying to change a man who doesn't want a relationship with you. Now I know this is counter cultural advice, but to weed out the majority of men who want to spin plates you're going to have to have firm bo…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 05:13 AM
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Correct. Red pill isn't necessarily trad con, that I understand. I felt that the comment I replied to was encouraging her to treat the situation as she would a platonic friendship when that may not the best move for OP considering what we know about male-female polarity. I also agree that provisioning is not the only mark of masculinity, but I fail to see how a lack of provisioning early on in dating would not be considered a red flag. I'd rather see evidence that a man is generous and can provi…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 04:00 AM
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It's interesting indeed! It's becoming clear that many folks in the comments listen to manosphere-like, "what does she bring to the table" content. Showing a man you can financially provide for him isn't a flex unless he's looking for an alpha female "girl boss" type of woman.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/22 06:30 AM
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I thought that being red pilled meant that we had a shared understanding that male and female polarity in a relationship is essential. Traditional masculine men generously provide for their woman, especially if he sees that she is feminine, pleasant, grateful and respectful. In this case, I wonder if the OP told her man that she wanted a provider early in the relationship and he sent his "representative" out instead of his true self. It's usually around the 6-month mark when guys start to "let t…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/22 05:55 AM
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Men are capable of self-discipline. Any man of decent character who cherishes his woman will attempt to figure out what is the root of the issue and solve it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/22 12:13 PM
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This is exactly why you don't build men. Get a man who's already established so that he doesn't see you as the come up woman and leave you when he feels that he has better options than you. Either that, or you need to increase your SMV/RMV while building with him (which I don't recommend but I find it understandable if you and your SO are both young college undergrads.)
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/21 11:57 AM
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Act the same and do NOT tell him a thing. You want him to marry you because he genuinely loves you, and not because his free and undeserved supply of wife benefits is coming to a swift end. It is difficult, but you need to emotionally prepare for the worst. Steel yourself from feeling bad about his reaction if the date comes -- he may feel blindsided, but remember that he sure as heck doesn't mind wasting 4 valuable years of your life (and God knows how much more if you allow him to.)
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/21 01:54 AM
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Do you know a good place to buy some of those? I'm currently on the hunt.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/21 01:36 AM
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I'm going to be blunt, (please ignore if that's not the type of advice you want) You've decided on this man when he hasn't decided on you. He does have good reasons to drag his feet due to the cons you've listed, however he's also wasting your time while doing so. You're with a grown man in his 30s. Generally, when a man that age loves you and knows without a doubt that he wants you to be his wife you will know within the first 2 years because he'd have proposed. Now, you're in a tough spot beca…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/21 10:37 PM
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You're literally living my dream, please enjoy it for the both of us!
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/21 03:00 AM
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Ma'am!? I have many questions. 1.Are you married? 2. Do you and your SO have matched libidos? If not, how do you manage that? 3. How do you find the time to do it so often?
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/21 04:12 PM
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I used to use the excuse that I had "strict parents" so I had to dress modestly even though I love dressing more conservative. I'll leave a link to a dress that you might like but as others have said, ultimately you should strive to go against the grain and stand up for what you like. Prom dress on Amazon
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/21 03:58 PM
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Just to add to this, do your own color analysis to figure out what colors are flattering based on your features. Here's a site that I found beneficial: https://theconceptwardrobe.com/colour-analysis-comprehensive-guides/colour-analysis
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/21 02:48 PM
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This is so helpful! I'll definitely try speaking to him with results and information next time. I've been using my own childhood experiences and the desire to give my kids a better life. I think he'll really appreciate the hard facts.
/r/RedPillWives15/08/21 11:12 PM
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I completely understand and agree with this. Maybe I could do a better job at explaining this stance. Thanks for articulating it so well.
/r/RedPillWives15/08/21 03:30 PM
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Unless the supply of programming teachers dramatically increases, I feel confident that I'd be able to return to the workforce.
/r/RedPillWives15/08/21 03:17 PM
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Thank you, these are excellent questions and just what I needed in this moment. I'll sort out my thoughts and answers to these before bringing up to him.
/r/RedPillWives15/08/21 03:02 PM
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You could get a prenup with a cheating clause.
/r/RPChristians27/07/21 04:05 AM
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Let him pay. Men that are providers do not mind in the slightest. You dont need to keep offering to look polite. Once you've made it clear that you want a traditional relationship and are very appreciative of his efforts, he shouldn't mind.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 03:48 PM
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I was banned from r/offmychest for commenting here. Apparently this is a "hate group" or something like that.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 02:33 PM
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Thanks for the clarification, I take back what I wrote earlier.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/21 05:50 PM
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I may be misunderstanding. When we say "RP men", are we talking about men who are aware of the red pill? Or just masculine men?
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/21 12:25 PM
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I don't have time to respond as in depth to this post as I'd like but, for starters, RP women seek high value men, not men without character, sexual discipline. Many men like this exist, but they choose to marry feminine women who take care of themselves. As for your thoughts on appearances, looking attractive is a skill (to an extent.) In my opinion only about 5% of women are naturally hot without makeup, exercise, good fashion, good hygiene, and/or hair extensions. This means that so long as y…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/21 12:23 PM
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YES. So long as he's a masculine provider who wants marriage and is of good character a BP man is fine.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/21 11:35 AM
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Long time lurker in this sub and I'm not going to sugarcoat anything so if you want a gentle answer stop reading this comment asap. Look, he's clearly trying to use you and you know it. Either you're going to make the smart decision and leave him, or you're going to get recorded putting your tongue on his nasty derriére and when you finally realize he's abusive and want to leave him for good he'll most likely retaliate by threatening to use the video against you because he doesn't love you, just…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/21 09:22 PM
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I feel you. Sometimes my gut reaction is to say something I'll regret in the heat of the moment, so I'm currently working on this. I'm no expert, but there's this book that I think would really help you out. It's called "Nonviolent Communication" by Marshall Rosenberg, and it helps with communicating your needs/requests to others in a way that inspires them to respond with compassion.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/21 05:27 AM
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Girl, I'm about to change your life. I'll list a few musicians immediately followed by some of their songs that you may appreciate. Janelle Monae (Stick to her old music): Tightrope, Giving Em' What they Love, Without a Fight Kimbra: Sweet Relief, Miracle, Madhouse, Design Laura Mvula: Got Me, Green Garden Hope this helps, good luck finding new music to love!
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/21 09:34 PM
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There's a youtuber called Chloe_ who has great videos on this topic, check some out her videos on femininity.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/20 12:01 AM
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Such a discouraging read. How do you all not feel set up for failure? As christians we know we're not supposed to engage in premarital sex but like it's literally a battle on two fronts; against yourself and the other person. How can one really discern whether your date is a practicing christian who doesn't engage or push for premarital sex? I know the bible says you "will know them by their fruit"...but can someone give advice on what "the fruit" looks like in this context?
/r/RPChristians11/11/20 07:37 PM
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Yeah, I'm into chill open world games like No Man's Sky and Skyrim, but I'm always down to play retro N64 games (for the nostalgia.)
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/20 04:36 PM
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It's about the history of the Equal rights Amendment (ERA). Actress Cate Blanchett leads as Phyllis Schlafly, a prominent conservative who opposed the ERA, and predicted that the ERA would hurt women in the long run. I know that might sound dry, but they make the story interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 02:45 AM
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Correct me if i'n wrong, but I think OP is referring to the series on Hulu called "Mrs. America", not the national beauty pageant.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/20 11:19 PM
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Girl, do we have the same parents!? Anyways, I'm struggling with parents who want me to live with them until marriage. I moved out and I live with extended family and I don't regret it. As for your finances: Here's a link that'll help you do your own taxes for free. https://www.irs.gov/filing/free-file-do-your-federal-taxes-for-free
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/20 10:29 PM
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I found a site that answers this question thoughtfully. I really don't want this to be a sin, but I think it is... https://kevincarson.com/2019/03/09/what-does-the-bible-say-about-anal-sex/?amp=1
/r/RPChristians20/09/20 03:56 PM
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Can you explain what cues that you two have used on each other? I'm not married but curious to know what the cues look like from each side.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 12:15 PM
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Exactly. Glean the good from the bad. I'd advise folks to understand the faults in both forums and keep them in mind while perusing through.
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