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It’s crazy how much of a big deal my virginity was to me and just like that - it’s gone! Really happy it was with a guy I like & we were both virgins too. Gonna learn the ropes together
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:04 AM
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We met in person, we’re dating exclusively so not a hookup. He was a virgin too. Not gonna lie, first time was awkward and a little difficult since we were both nervous. But by the third time, it was amazing :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:03 AM
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No longer a virgin, AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:45 PM
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Same girl😎 I really like the current guy I am seeing and he’s a virgin too, so I’ve been nervous to think how two inexperienced people will have sex that’s not painful
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:13 PM
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Sorry, what’s vagismasus and how did you get over it? Never heard of it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:11 PM
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Aww🥹 goals. Thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:02 PM
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What made it so bad? So I can avoid it✍️…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:02 PM
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Q4W: What was your first time like and how long did you know/date the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:52 PM
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I am 18 and he’s 21, so I guess that’s really young
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:03 PM
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I have been testing his last name with my first name and it’s 🔥 let a girl dream lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:32 PM
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We got early breakfast today but we met last night. He’s my dream guy basically on paper, and he told me he’s dating to find an ltr🥹 goals
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:29 PM
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Pretty sure I met The One just a couple days after my horrible date. He’s like a unicorn: attractive smart super respectful virgin I had given up on finding a guy that’s a virgin and attractive, but I guess they exist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:15 PM
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Lol only white guys seem interested in me so never gonna find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:32 AM
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White
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:36 PM
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Thanks for the pep talk, you’re right. Just gotta keep showing up, and it’ll be worth it someday :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:27 AM
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Sure, but I am dating for a bf that’ll turn into a husband someday. Every bad date just feels discouraging and like I am wasting my time. But yes ofc there are more men out there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:17 AM
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Would have been better than what he did
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:59 AM
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I just want 1 guy, and he doesn’t even have to be hot😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:56 AM
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I told another commenter under this. Look, I am not repeating. I am over your gender
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:55 AM
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He changed the restaurant to a bar even though I am under 21 and don’t drink anyways so I sat awkwardly while he got drunk, told me he’s only interested in sex and my phone died. Since I am super new, I use GPS to get home but he lives in the same building so I asked if he could walk me home. Nope, HE LITERALLY TOLD ME HE WAS GOING TO HIS FWB’s PLACE OMG So disgusting, I had to stop by a Starbucks and thankfully the barista let me use one of their charges so I could get home. I am shook, it’s li…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:54 AM
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Hot guy was the worst date of my life. Jesus Christ, men are awful. I need FDS, I have terrible luck
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:44 AM
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I asked the hot guy in my brother’s building out😇 omg I was so smooth. Who knew I had it in me, I am hyped
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:14 AM
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Really tall, he looked taller than my brother and he’s 6’2, dark curly hair, dimples, grey eyes, fit in a suit really well🥲 literally perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:46 PM
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We broke up because I felt like he was fetishizing me (called me exotic, talked about skin color contrast as something he likes). The issue with dating someone else is I gotta fill them in on my inexperience. Kinda dreading it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:53 PM
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Met the hottest guy ever today. We locked eyes and I wanted to faint, but my brother was next to me and I am certain he thought we were together😭 But he lives in our building so I’ll just go to the gym daily until I run into him again
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:42 PM
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I am, so technically I am not even interracial dating when I date white guys. Regardless, I hope next guy is better
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:06 PM
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Only guys who approach me are white & not really sure whether either race (black/white) is mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:03 AM
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I don’t have dark skin, darker than white people sure, but most black people would freak out if I said the n word in their presence. But I get I look hispanic/latina often so that’s why😂 I’ve only dated white guys up to now, I don’t really get approached by other races
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:53 AM
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It’ll be hard since my type is only one race, I gotta branch out. Good learning experience, and glad I found out before I lost my v card to him
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:18 AM
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Not really since we haven’t had sex and he’s been very patient, I am a virgin. But exotic to me is a red flag simply because people call you that if you’re racially ambiguous + it makes me feel fetishized, look a zoo animal that’s rare in the region.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:16 AM
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I guess it’s a fine preference but I really don’t want any reason a man is attracted to me to involve my skin color.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:15 AM
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So hispanic men it is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:13 AM
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Think my boyfriend and I are over. He made a comment about liking our skin contrast & coupled with him calling me exotic today, I officially feel weird about him. Maybe I shouldn’t date outside my race in the future but I am confused which race is even mine since I am half white + half black
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:06 AM
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I am moving in with my brother for the next few months this weekend and I am a little scared of all the girls. Every time I call him he’s with a new girl, and it’ll be so awkward living with him while girls come in and out everyday. He’s a pilot and said he won’t be home much, but he has a girl that has the keys to his apartment to do his laundry…🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:50 PM
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He’s the first real guy I’ve dated long term so I am not sure if my expectations are normal or straight out of the movies. It is what it is I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:21 AM
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He said he doesn’t use his phone much throughout the day and because he works night shift, he wakes up too late to send me a good morning text
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:10 AM
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He’s supposedly a bad texter too but I chatted with my more experienced friends and they said every guy would become a good texter for their ideal girl so
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:09 AM
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He was drunk and I told him how happy I was this week getting multiple texts, and he laughed and showed me the iPhone shortcut he made for the good morning ones😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:58 PM
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Okay am I crazy?? A week or so ago, I told my boyfriend I wanted more texts from him. Good morning ones namely, but also goodnight ones So I’ve been getting them everyday since and it’s been amazing until he told me last night he just has it automated, which explains why I get a good morning text same hour, with same emoji everyday. Am I being petty or is that deceitful🙁 ETA: at least I learned you can automate texts on iPhone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:40 PM
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I wish Reddit counted. I think in general, people mean Facebook/IG/Tiktok/Twitter/Snap
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:19 PM
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Nope didn’t wince at all and finished maybe in 3-4mins, but my second try that same night it took him close to 10mins (does that mean second attempt was worse than first)? I wanna ask for feedback but I don’t wanna come off as a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:03 PM
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Damn it😭 I was so proud, I guess I have to find a different metric. He won’t tell me I am bad even if I was anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:52 PM
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As a woman with no social media, I am pretty sure men think I am weirdo for it. It’s a very normie thing and people tend to assume you’re neruodivergent if you don’t have it, especially as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:48 PM
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NSFW question: gave head for the first time last night, and he did finish, is that indication of being good at it? I read so many articles about it, so I am hoping I am not bad at it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:47 PM
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I am just young and idk how to approach a conversation like that without coming off as needy, I assumed it was the bare minimum to text your partner those things. I might have a conversation first if I can figure out how to approach it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:04 PM
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How do you approach the convo? I don’t wanna come off needy, I always assumed those type of texts were the bare minimum, he’s not “older” but he’d older than me (he’s 22).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:03 PM
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I am about to stop seeing the current guy I am with because of his texting habits. He works nights so his schedule is already weird but he will always hit me up 2-3hrs before we hangout or to ask me about future date plans. I want good morning texts, good night texts, and I was just thinking of you texts. He’s super engaged in person but he’s awful over text😩. ETA: he literally just messaged me as I posted this💀👀 my first good morning text from him. Sus
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:30 AM
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Q4M: Would you slap a girl’s butt at the end of a first date after making out?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:26 PM
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You seem like a pro. Can I ask a few follow ups?😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:03 PM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:02 PM
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I am pretty sure I am gonna have my first kiss ever tomorrow and I am so scared. I don’t wanna bite him accidentally or be awkward, I’ve read a few articles. How did y’all’s first kiss go? Did you practice somehow beforehand? Tips? Also it’ll probably be after we drink a little and I don’t want to taste like alcohol😩
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:48 PM
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Yes he does!! He wants to start dating exclusively, but yeah the friends part threw me off. He seems to think I am easily influenced by my peer group and he doesn’t like them beyond the advice (they drink/party/club etc while in relationships).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:05 PM
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I told the guy I liked the truth about everything and he was surprisingly understanding but wants me to cut off my friends that told me to make him jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:52 PM
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You’re a guy, if a girl told you all of that, you’d think she’s crazy and bad news no? I do think it’s the only way to fix this but I’ll sound so crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:16 PM
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I think so too. Might go over idk
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:15 PM
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The other guy doesn’t even exist😭 he’s like the only guy I think about. Ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:52 PM
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Well tbh I’ve turned other guys down for dating/sex etc because I am a virgin and wanted him to be my first. But yeah looks like I messed it up by listening to the wrong people now ig
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:43 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:42 PM
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Well, I can’t really because I am too nervous/neurotic and I feel like guys usually tell you if they like you. So imagine I say something and he says no I am not into you like that..and subsequently stops being my friend. I made up the other guy because when I asked my friends how I could know for sure if he liked me, they said if I said there was another man in the picture, he’d get jealous, and boom I’d know he likes me. Well he didn’t seem jealous when I told him. He told me he’s happy for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:41 PM
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The other guy was FAKE omg😭😭 I fucked up so bad. I wish I had a reset button on my life rn
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:39 PM
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Terrible suggestion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:08 PM
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He’s driven that much for the past few months with no indication of sex. We’re friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:07 PM
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Under the logic of you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take and lots of PPD support from yesterday, I decided to message the guy I liked and invite him for dinner tonight. Then I would call him handsome and hope he gets the major hint I like him. But because I listened to my friends and talked to him about a fictional another guy, now every invite will be passed along to him. This sucks, I want a life restart😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:56 PM
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I wish he’d discouraged me from seeing the “other guy.” Probe about him and find flaws maybe? Idk, something other than being happy for me!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:50 PM
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Should I just come out and say something about how things with the “other guy” didn’t work at all or pretend I never said anything? He’s also 21 so a little older but still maybe too young to pick up on it. I’ll try that though. I say some of that already and he says it back. That’s indirect enough that I am comfortable with doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:41 PM
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The risk of him saying no sorry you imagined everything and losing him as a friend is too much. I’d rather have him as a friend and not date other guys tbh😵‍💫 he’s that good of a friend & person
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:35 PM
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The advice to make him jealous was from my fellow 18-20yr old friends irl lol might be better asking my local nursing home residents
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:33 PM
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Yeah this was on one of the 1000 lists online I read on how to figure out if a guy likes you, he always seems engaged. And how much he travels just to hangout makes me think so, but I am too neurotic and awkward to ask him directly. The worst case scenario of him saying no and our friendship ending is too awful of a consequence Also, I listened to my friends because they’re more experienced so naturally I assumed they knew what they were talking about. I wouldn’t want him to date another girl bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:19 PM
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I don’t want the first move to be sex??? I am a virgin. Like I want him to ask me out on a date or something, he never stays over so not sure how I would get him to a bedroom. Last night, he left my place at 2am even though I asked him to stay over
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:14 PM
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This is confusing. The guy I want has made no moves at all indicating clearly he likes me ; other men have (asked me on dates, told me they like me, asked to be my bf). I don’t want them because I want him. I am not really sure where the misunderstanding is here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:12 PM
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There were no moves for me to shutdown😔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:07 PM
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I am too socially awkward, neurotic, and I get really nervous around him. I also think like most men around me make the first move, why won’t him? Maybe because he doesn’t like me enough😭 or at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:06 PM
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Sorry? I mean other men have made a move, but the guy I want hasn’t. So I’ve been turning them down in anticipation of him making move…still waiting🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:02 PM
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How am I suppose to know he’s interested for sure if he never makes a move😭. I wish I said nothing but I was becoming impatient, it’s taking him too long to make a move and now he might never
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:59 PM
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Maybe, they’re more experienced. I’ve turned down other guys because I’ve been waiting for him to make a move..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:41 PM
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I wish it were that easy but glad some men just aren’t jealous and he could still be interested
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:40 PM
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So there is a guy I really like and I think he likes me too because he touches me a lot and travels 45mins-1hr every Friday, Saturday, and Sunday to see me. He tells me I am great and always gives me compliments. I googled how to know if a guy likes you and he did most of the things in the list (especially remembering small details about me even I forget sometimes). My friends told me to see if he really likes me to consider talking about other men with him. So I did, I told him I was talking to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:29 PM
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I don’t trust the inc*ls in ppd not to do something weird and mass report me or something. I have a separate Reddit to advertise, could probably find me since it’s new
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:45 AM
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I can’t get private loans since my credit is too new and I am young. No family I am close enough to co-sign to, I got on a payment plan and narrowly avoided 13% student loan interest from a startup lender (Funding U). As for partners, no since my face isn’t displayed but I don’t date guys bothered by that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:44 AM
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I made an OnlyFans to pay for my college, an associated Tiktok account, and Twitter. Already got some subs and it’s only been 24hrs. Someone needs to lower the cost of tuition so I don’t have to do this just to get an education
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:06 AM
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