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"claiming men have nothing to offer women that they couldn't get from other women including sexual satisfaction" verbatim copy/paste, that comment is not edited. This is why part of the reason I called Lilith a bot. You're just making things up, English isn't your first language, you actually are a bot, or you can't read. I don't know what else to say
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:53 PM
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Saying men have nothing to give women sexually but other women do absolutely does advocate for lesbianism, is not equality, and absolutely isn't true at all for many women including myself. What are you even talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:30 PM
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I've had several arguments with this person and on her posts basically claiming men have nothing to offer women that they couldn't get from other women including sexual satisfaction (but other things too) Reddit history isn't really that consistent since she could just delete comments/posts or mods could remove them etc. up to you to believe me though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:33 AM
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Is this a bot account the mods run or something 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:18 AM
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I'm not quite sure what that has anything to do with what I said, but go off girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:08 AM
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The only Lilith post I'll ever kind of agree with and only because it's the only one I've seen she isn't just trying to convince women to be lesbian/asexual/not attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:55 AM
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It is so so fucking bizarre to me that when other women say most women are bisexual/don't like men that much sexually reddit loves that shit but now that men are doing it it's suddenly wrong? Whatever I'm glad we banned the subject regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:10 AM
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For the same reason women are so mean to other women. Women are not the more empathetic and caring gender, they were just better at hiding the negative parts of them and now a big portion of them feel they don't have to hide it anymore. It feels surprising to men because of the way the general public and media have been falsely portraying women for years. I'm a woman and men have never treated me as horribly and rudely as other women have through my life generally. Just to clarify, I'm not sayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:44 AM
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I definitely do not and find the female body kind of repulsive tbh since it just reminds me of babies and periods. If you want my opinion I think statistics on this are skewed because women are encouraged to give answers that other people like or praise. For example if you're a women who talks about finding other women sexy you get a lot of upvotes and positive attention, but if you give an answer like mine people just scream that you must be dumb and blind for finding men hot or a misogynist/pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:23 PM
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The real reason sex robots won't be mainstream is because most men claim to not like the feeling of fleshlights, and if they start becoming popular among women (which is far more likely) it will make people angry and uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:38 AM
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There is no black and white "baseline". I observe other women constantly saying things like "women don't care about looks. Women don't like hookups. Women don't find masculinity attractive, it's toxic. Women don't want men to approach. Women believe other women are aesthetically pleasing and men are ugly." Etc etc... I firmly believe this shit is not normal. You, if you are a straight woman, are supposed to find masculinity attractive. You're supposed to love muscles and body hair. You're suppos…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:32 AM
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I wasn't raised to be socially feminine and I have never been on birth control so I feel my experience is at least closer to baseline than most women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:22 AM
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I feel that it's more likely that most women have a low libido than it is that I'm hypersexual, usually I would argue the opposite, but it's impossible to determine because I have never been on birth control and I wasn't raised to be "feminine" The whole "it's not a need if you can live without it" argument becomes a huge gray area when you think about cases of social isolation in children. Sure, being loved and nurtured isn't something you die without, as can be seen in "feral" children, but I …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:03 AM
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Respectfully, I'm a child whose parents didn't have access to regular food, water, and shelter. I didn't come from the stork. At the very least my mother was homeless and having sex. I think my dad was too but who knows. With that out of the way, I didn't want to have to address these types of arguments because I think it's a bit off topic. But my theory/opinion is that biology is very efficient because it has to be. There's no point in worrying about your child's needs if you don't have a child…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:47 AM
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Whether it feels fulfilling or not is an entirely different debate. I think sex is a need just like eating and sleeping, but the concept of that is just a bit more complex for people to grasp I think. Sure YOU won't die if you don't have sex, but if the entire species doesn't have sex then the entire species dies. Again, the philosophy or morality of that is an entirely different can of worms. It's like, there are people who willingly starve themselves to death. To me that's a sad thing, denying…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:17 AM
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I genuinely feel so bad for you and for others who think sex isn't a need. This is exactly why I'm on this sub talking about how most women have an abnormally low libido due to birth control, hormones, social stigma etc. Your entire purpose for existing is to eat, sleep, poop, and have sex. Personally I would consider biological imperatives to be needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:53 PM
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That's literally the problem bro, you're not going to find a woman who likes masculine hobbies and media that looks super feminine outside of social media/porn where they're posing to get likes and money from you. Anyways maybe butch isn't the right term but I don't think there's a good word for it. No actual tomboy is going to have on a ton of makeup with a low cut top and a skirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:49 AM
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Well yeah the first two points is what I tried to say. People don't have to engage in things they don't want to anymore. Women are free to sit on tik Tok and create/consume make up tutorials and drama content all day long if they want to, and I don't know very many men who are interested in that. Just like I don't know very many women who would be too interested in philosophy discussion and literary analysis of games and other media when i can discuss that with my husband and his friends all day…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:25 AM
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Well for example in the case of what OP is describing, more women than men are extroverted so women tend to like extroverted activities like parties, gossiping, political activism, family events etc and they will be more attracted to the fewer extroverted men, and vice versa for men and introverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:04 AM
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Men and women are struggling with each other because the two genders' interests and goals are getting more and more different and further apart. I was originally just going to debate the fact that you have it backwards, as I personally find a majority of women a boring drag to talk to, if they even talk at all and actually aren't just scrolling their phone. While on the other hand so many men enjoy the same things that I do so I don't really have an issue talking to them. However after thinking …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:32 AM
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Women are condemned for those things, just not publicly in online discourse. Women hate women differently than men hate women. Women will say "wow you go girl you're so empowered" and then turn around in the dms or on an alt account calling her a whore or something else heinous, or just talk about it privately with their other friends. This is insanely common behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:06 AM
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Every single other thing I said is true. There are men who believe watching trans porn or hell even femboys isn't gay, because they have "girl dick" I'm a gamer dude I talk to people like this almost every day. Whether or not I believe the sentiment doesn't really matter at all to my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:16 PM
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This is the reason I did that yes. It's unfortunate but it's like I'm not a moderator. I wouldn't do that irl or somewhere I thought the conversation would be tolerated
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:08 PM
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I don't kiss/suck hookups and sex with a condom feels better anyways. I know love to say it's not 100% but the chances are low enough for me to feel safe, plus I actually use them correctly and never use old ones or ones I didn't provide
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 07:48 AM
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Listen I'm just trying to not piss off reddit with wrongthink tonight and if people want me to say trans women are women it's really not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 07:42 AM
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I didn't think of that and you're right that's probably another reason for it. Although I do think it's becoming a bit more acceptable or at least talked about way more these days for men to be submissive. At least it feels like that to me because I'm sub only and it seems there are no dominant men anymore 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 07:19 AM
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Im not into trans porn but I will say I would rather watch trans porn than most other categories because I'm just not into women or vaginas and I'm assuming a lot of them still have a dick. I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of guys watch it for that reason too, because trans women are real women so watching them isn't gay and a huge portion of men still have a homophobia problem. So really I'm doubtful that porn categories are at all indicative of a cultural change, it's just trendy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 07:13 AM
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I hate to break it to you bud but slutty women don't like sex more, they like the wallet that comes with it. They also likely aren't going to be faithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:17 AM
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So I'll get a lot of hate but I do feel bad for men dating overall. As a woman I feel that most other women in day to day life are not honest about sexuality (for any reason it could be social shame, religious influence, blatant lies for attention, etc), but also most women online are advertising a product. This is what leaves men so confused about what women actually do want. No one is honest, women irl don't want to be mean and women online want to make money/likes/upvotes. This type of enviro…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:22 PM
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Women aren't supposed to love men, they're icky and whatever else we're allowed to say. The same reason why most women hold similar opinions on every topic, because if we say something different, uncommon, and/or weird we get downvoted to hell and harassed by other women for being a "quirky not like the other girls pick me"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:35 AM
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You described the reason people do think in leagues in your last few paragraphs though. Everyone knows that a fat, bald, and broke man in his 40s isn't going to find and date a hot young blonde. I mean as you said, accept that you can't attract who you want and stay single or settle. But having to settle and recognizing that some people are attractive and some people aren't is automatically a tiered system, or "leagues" of people, hot and not, whatever you want to call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:28 AM
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For me it is sex. I have no idea why other women seem to like married men or men with experience. I always preferred virgins because the thought of something inside me that's been inside someone else is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:11 AM
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I'm in an open relationship and probably the straightest woman on reddit. The idea of being with a woman is disgusting, I don't even like there to be women in my porn. That being said I would prefer it if my husband would hook up with other men, maybe we could just have more threesomes if he did. I think a lot of people have negative ideas about open relationships because of all the idiots trying to open up their long term relationship after months or years when they start feeling unsatisfied. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:39 PM
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Lmao I have no idea what it was I don't remember. I'm not THAT old like I'm right on the border between millennial and Gen z, so when I learned they were hosting one I was pretty surprised and weirded out already because at the time I thought that was only something old ladies did. It did remind me a lot of Mary Kay beauty products my grandmother sold when she was young, or essential oils a lot of the Facebook moms sell. So yeah it probably was a giant pyramid scheme
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:30 AM
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I elaborated a bit on what I think because I didn't like the wording of it, but I'll say this isn't exclusively a reddit problem or even an online problem. When I was young a bunch of my friends hosted one of those vibrator parties where a salesperson comes and talks about different products, and I remember commenting on how I thought a bunch of women getting together and talking about sex toys was weird and that I'd be way more likely to buy a toy that was being sold to me by cowboy strippers, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:53 PM
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I change my answer on this like every day. I think to myself, I can't be the only straight woman right? However reddit and other online spaces make me feel pretty isolated at times. The thing is, women are generally received more positively when you tell people you love Yuri and how hot other women are, so often I feel women are encouraged to lie about it for the positive attention and just not having to deal with all negative reactions I tend to get when I tell people how much I love men and ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:22 PM
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The same way I approve of men being adult children who can't cook or clean after themselves baby. Taking care of yourself is a cultural lesson, being sexually attracted to something/someone isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:56 PM
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The only valid point is "have sexual desire for him" I have said here time and time again, to the purple pill, to the blue pill, to the red pill, to the black pill, if you as a woman do not have any sexual desire you are sick hormonally. You as a woman are supposed to find masculinity sexually desirable, if you don't then you are not straight. If you don't and you're claiming to be straight, you are wrong and there is something hormonally wrong with you. This doesn't have to do with any pill opi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:24 PM
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I'm a woman and this hasn't been my experience with men. I will say though, I have seen some of my friends do this when they are talking to a woman who is being difficult/bitchy or is an idiot. Make of that what you will.
/r/MensRights22/01/26 03:12 AM
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Proud of you, now use that same brain when people claim to have an illness they seemingly know nothing about. It's like if someone is saying they are permanently paralyzed from the waste down and then you watch them walk to their car I don't think you need to be a doctor to know that isn't permanent paralysis but maybe that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:27 AM
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You're right, I apologize. You should just believe everything everyone says on the internet. Being skeptical is bad. Nevermind the fact that three of them I followed actually had drama about it and had to come forward with an apology video about how they were never diagnosed. They were probably just pressured into saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:16 AM
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Autistic females are treated just as badly as autistic males if they actually have autism. The main difference is most "autistic" women are self diagnosed and probably don't have autism. I would say 9/10 of the women I meet/watch online talking about their autism are not actually autistic. The ones that clearly are autistic have a lot of the same complaints and problems as autistic men, and the way I see people treating them are just as bad. Mental disorders are an easy way to bait for attention…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:50 AM
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No because I'm a housewife and a relationship wouldn't work if my partner makes less than 0$ a month
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:55 PM
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Not sure how one can have high libido and not care about sex at all. I hook up sometimes to spice things up and bring interest back to my partner because I'm in an open relationship. Must have different definition of high I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:10 PM
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I'm not upset, I'm just saying women are supposed to want sex. If you feel nothing even when you're ovulating, there is something wrong with you. Women have been so hormonally messed up with diet, birth control, and constant negative thoughts about men from fear mongering on the internet that a large portion, possibly even the majority, are not experiencing libido like they're supposed to. I don't think I'm a rare scenario or not like the other girls, I think it's safe to think that I'm average.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:38 PM
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Girl just because YOU don't enjoy sex and hookups that much doesn't mean other women don't. Also just so you know, birth control kills your libido and makes you view sex differently. Use condoms and plan b if you need, I just have a hunch it's affecting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:29 PM
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Most people just flat out accuse me of lying or say it's no big deal but women seriously have a problem with consent and what is and isn't appropriate around other women (or men and children too for that matter) This is actually a pretty serious problem and I was sexually assaulted on two different occasions by unrelated women. Like one time when I was in highschool I stayed the night over at my friends house, I took a shower there and one of the other girls that was there with us straight up ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:32 AM
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I am child free and depending on your definition I'm not that young, guess I'm not old either though. I've been with my partner for I think 6 years now. I realize that my comment sounds like it's implying men and women should cheat (I'm running on insomnia) but really I was implying open relationships or sex positive relationships are better for both genders. Cheating is a horrible thing to do to someone However I will say, downplaying the work that men do during their shifts isn't fair and is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:53 PM
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I get it and I hate to generalize or speak for others, but honestly so many women say things like "oh we don't cuddle enough we don't go on dates enough etc" and I'm left here like girl do you even like sex in the first place I don't think I'm an insane outlier really I'd like to believe my libido is mostly normal and never once have I thought "yeah I need to have some slow burn romance and wait for my man to do the dishes to make me actually horny" To be clear though, I'm sure some women are ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:19 PM
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Every single time I give my opinion on the subject people hate it but honestly I'm going to do it anyways. The real reason is because human beings, men and women, were not made for strict monogamy. Monogamous animals "cheat" all the time. It's not because they don't and never have found their partners attractive, it's because they're bored and need to feel something fresh even if a lot of women don't know it. Do men that cheat even when they're having sex with their wife just not find her attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:10 PM
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I completely agree with you on the stance that 50/50 with children makes no sense, but I really don't understand your points at all when it comes to without children. How is it different than a roommate you have sex with? It's not, but some women actually enjoy having sex with men. Why not get a female roommate to split bills and housework with?? Because why would I do that with her when I could do that with a man and also get enjoyable sex? Having a girl roommate doesn't provide anything that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:10 PM
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I mean assuming the first paragraph is actually true then yeah I don't see what the problem is. But to be real, I'm extremely tomboyish and could not find common ground with a vast majority of women. Like going out shopping or to a coffee shop with the girls does not sound like a fun time to me. I don't see a reality where an escort has much in common with me, unless she was a butch lesbian escort or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:17 AM
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I just like sociological discussion in general which a lot of topics here fall in that category. This sub is also one of the few that allow a wide variety of opinions and seems to have some intelligence on both sides which is pretty rare for reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 12:38 AM
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We aren't? It's disingenuous to claim every woman makes the best decision in every situation. The fact is, it's online claims so you don't know either. I already said that but I guess you just didn't see.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:14 AM
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"Trp is didn't say its about that".... Huh? How are people even deciphering this post? How do you know members of the red pill don't know anything about paternity, child support, family court, and step families?? Why do you think that you know more about paternity than a father does? The entire first half of this post is incoherent. The second half I get, but what does any of that have to do with the lack of knowledge of the red pill? I don't think you know more about another person's relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:35 PM
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I'm not sure if I follow your reasoning on why humans couldn't have been domesticated by themselves. Firstly I don't think domestication necessarily implies that the domesticated doesn't have control of their instincts, but even if it did I actually don't think most people do have control over that so. Both men and women know when they meet a person with a ton of red flags that they probably shouldn't sleep with them, yet a lot of us do it anyway because it feels good. This is why I made the exa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:26 AM
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Neither men nor women have a preference for who will produce the healthiest offspring. Attractiveness does not equal health, and yes that goes for women as well. Humans are domesticated animals and domestication does weird things to sexuality, we already know this from observing farm animals and pets. Hell, tons of sheep herds won't even mate naturally anymore because most of the rams are gay. They weren't always like that, domestication did that. I mean it's the same reason why candy tastes gre…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:43 AM
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If you had read the entire conversation, you would see I already asked if it was okay for young girls to be around topless adult strangers. He didn't answer that one either.
/r/MensRights05/07/25 12:12 AM
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There's more than a few as well as some other creatures that need one gender to provide. I'm just saying, the statement "every animal should be able to provide for itself" is incorrect and that's what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:20 AM
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I agree with basically this entire post but there are actually plenty of birds where the female does rely on the male to provide for her and will not take care of her chicks without him. Just thought I'd mention since the animal kingdom is super diverse and claiming it's not a thing is just incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:02 AM
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First of all, I will fully admit I am a tomboy that has had mostly male friends and it's difficult for me to fit in with and befriend other women. That being said I think the penis shaming comes equally from all groups, straight men, gay men, straight women, gay women. Everyone seems to want to be a part of the "penis shaming" Overall body discussion online seems to favor feminine features over masculine ones, whether this be discussion among men or women or somewhere in between it doesn't matte…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:59 AM
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People do agree with me, that's why no one would say it's okay for teenage girls to be topless around adult men. Because they are nude. You won't say it's fine because that would look very bad for you, and you won't agree with me because then you'll be wrong. You really should take the loss, because if you don't then it implies you think it's okay for other teenage girls to be topless around you tbh.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 02:47 AM
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You won't answer the question because you know that a teenage girl should not be topless in front of adult men, because topless women are nude. You know it.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 02:31 AM
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Answer the question. Did you let your daughters walk around topless in front of you?
/r/MensRights02/07/25 02:20 AM
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Stop telling me to not do things and then turn around and do it yourself, do you know what a double standard is? If bottomless men are fine, then topless women are fine too. If bottomless men aren't fine, then topless women aren't fine either. Because topless women are nude bro. Would you allow your daughter to spend time with a topless woman who's a stranger, not her mom or family or a friend??? Better yet would you let your teenage daughter walk around the house with no shirt on?? I sincerely …
/r/MensRights02/07/25 02:12 AM
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Men and women are different. I get that this is reddit so most people want to act like we're not, but we are. The double standard is exactly what I'm complaining about. If you have no problem with nude women ( topless women are nude), then you shouldn't have a problem with nude men either. It's really that simple. If you're a man and you're here chiming in on mens rights, it's really bizarre of you to try and shame men's bodies and make the problem worse by trying to claim male nudity is somehow…
/r/MensRights02/07/25 01:56 AM
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Breasts are sexual, and topless women are nude. Nothing anyone does or says is going to change that. It is different for men because men do not have breasts. You're telling me not to foist my preferences on everyone else, but that's what you're doing when you try to claim that "big round titties" are just a beautiful normal not sexualized part of the body. That's bullshit and you know it. A man that has gyno or got breast implants shouldn't be topless either. It's not a gender thing anymore, it'…
/r/MensRights02/07/25 01:38 AM
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Both men and women do this. I have conversations more often about it with men though. I don't know why people are so disgusted by the male body but it's sad. It's especially apparent when I complain about how breasts are not censored in media and communities if penises are not allowed and are censored. I don't want to live in a world where women prance around topless but God forbid there's a penis in something I post. And yes, topless women are different than penises, because breasts are sexuali…
/r/MensRights02/07/25 12:18 AM
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Yeah like I said they try to talk you out of it because they think you will like it more, or that they should like it more. I never said it's men convincing them of this but it's overall online social dynamics by men, women, and media that convince them of this. I've also never talked to another woman, or seen another woman talk about fun condoms (like flavored or vibrating) even though they exist. Woman are just not as honest about sex in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:06 AM
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There's pressure for women to say condoms make sex worse, because that sounds appealing to men and gets them sexual attention. Also women see other women saying things like that so they think they should as well. There's just this stigma that condoms are a mans responsibility so a lot of women don't carry them in their purse when they should. Whenever a question comes up about condoms I like to hype them up because I feel bad for women who think they make sex worse, for men I guess it makes sens…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:05 AM
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If you want my honest opinion, the irony is that they blame the patriarchy for women being mean to each other because women would be mean to them if they said otherwise. The pick me insult is so so damaging to women. If you try to discuss how the patriarchy isn't really a thing anymore or isn't actually the problem, you will 100% get called a pick me and get bullied out of the discussion. I don't even think it's a sexual competition thing, because that doesn't make sense. Why would women bully o…
/r/MensRights23/06/25 08:35 PM
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Yeah I realized that after I typed it but the rest of those dangers still apply
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:37 AM
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It is your business who your partner has sex with, regardless of the status of your relationship. No one wants to get an STI or find out they have a step kid without even knowing there was a risk of that. Not to mention some people are fucking insane and there's always a possibility of your mistress coming to your partners house or just doing something erratic. I'm in an open relationship and I think sex is extremely important, so I do agree that people with partners who don't want to have sex s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:29 AM
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I think it's probably the case that someone who makes porn would be more willing to also date someone that makes porn, and there are far more lesbians making porn than straight men. On ask reddit pretty much all of the people who say dating someone with only fans isn't a problem are women who make OF content.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 10:21 PM
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I think I misunderstood you when you said makeup is for women and not for men, I thought you were implying that looking nice is only for women. But yeah you were probably saying that women do makeup on themselves to please other women. I still disagree with that but my bad. Women are not very truthful when it comes to a lot of things they do for their appearance. Makeup is culture is extremely stigmatized and I have a feeling the reason so many women would say that they find men who do makeup "i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:02 AM
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4 in your counter arguments is the reason. Every single time I criticize other women for anything you better believe I get a ton of girls calling me a pick me, a misogynist, or some other ad hominem. I will say that femcels at least in my opinion generally come off as way more sad and loathsome where as incels generally come off as way more angry and aggressive, and as such femcels don't get the same visceral reaction because a lot of people don't like to kick a horse when it's down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:42 AM
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Idk if you guys are purposefully misreading what I'm saying or what. If you are a 5 as a man it's entirely possible to make yourself look like a 6 or 7, the same way that women do this. A vast majority of men wake up, wash their face/hair, put a t-shirt on and that's it. That's all the grooming they do. If more men learned how to use beauty industry tools they could just as easily boost themselves as women do. That is the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:27 AM
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It's subjective so I'm not going to argue but Kim k and Billie eilish are not at all attractive without filters and idk who the others are. Foundation should be normalized for men to use. It would significantly help a lot of men. There are ways to do makeup that are masculine instead of feminine, the same way there's clothes that look better on men than on women. Claiming there's nothing men can do to make themselves look better is the reason for the disparity, but you're free to continue not be…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:37 PM
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Beauty is not luck. Instagram vs reality was a trend for a reason. Go look at some of the actresses you think are hot without the makeup, surgery, and lighting/camera tricks. Many if not most of them are ugly. The point I am making is that women are trained to make themselves attractive, men are not. This is the entire problem. Normally I hate out of 10 ratings but it's the easiest way to explain the issue. Most people want to be with someone who matches their attractiveness level. So if a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:20 PM
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I'm saying that all of the women were likely wearing makeup and clothing which hides how ugly they actually might be, and makes them all closer to at or above average. Men do not do this. If a vast majority of men went to the gym and looked at pictures of hot guys to try to emulate what they wear and what they do with their appearance the way that women do then there wouldn't be such a huge discrepancy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:25 PM
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It would be a lot easier to comment on this if we could see a picture of the 25 women vs the 25 men. I've said this time and time again but the problem really is the makeup/beauty industry and men not being open to working on their appearance more. Because what I'm imagining is 25 normal looking women with kempt/dyed hair and a full face of makeup, 2 normal looking average men, and 23 fat bald guys. No shit average looking women want to be with average looking men. Of course it's impossible to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:19 PM
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I get upset over others standards because it sort of affects me personally. I'm a super tall woman (6ft) and Iove men that are taller than me. Saying I want men over 6ft makes me look bad, because so many women demand a man towering over them which is a weird and creepy standard. It becomes less weird when "over 6ft" means 1in taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:03 AM
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This will get off topic very quickly if I elaborate too much and I don't want to start arguments here, but I will say despite women saying constantly they are not a monolith they're very cliquey and have strict rules amongst different groups. This is normal mean girl behavior and it's a huge problem for women amongst themselves not just with men. As an example Im a tomboy and I have arguments all the time with women attacking me for my critiques of the beauty industry, trying to police the way t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:13 PM
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Yeah and I mean some opinions are just more varied than others. If you asked a group of men if they like boobs almost all of them would say yes. If you asked a group of men if they like glasses, you'd likely get a wider variety of responses and thoughts on that. Fact is women are more picky than men so answers are going to be more varied when it comes to opinions about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:51 PM
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Your first paragraph answers the title question. Men and women give significantly different advice for single men, and if you're a man you should be taking advice from other men, not from women.The same goes for women by the way, take advice from other women not from men. It might seem obvious but most women don't date or approach other women to flirt. I get that it seems it makes sense, who knows women best if not a woman herself? But it isn't like that, women treat other women differently than…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:31 PM
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I'll be honest I don't talk to many people outside of the Internet these days haha. But it was always sort of a problem for me, people just don't like masculinity or are very harsh on men in general, and that extends to less feminine women. However the term "pick me" is an online insult at least I think, I have never been called that anywhere else. That doesn't mean people aren't rude as fuck to me at times, just never use that term
/r/MensRights12/02/25 08:53 AM
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Yes, quite often. I get called a pickme every single time I express any tomboyish opinion, any attraction towards men, any defending of men/masculinity, and any criticism of women/femininity. Okay maybe every single time is a bit of an exaggeration but it may as well be. Tbh I think this just might be an issue of people hate the tomboy personality more than anything because people are a little bit more accepting of defending men (although it depends on the subreddit) Where people are way more ag…
/r/MensRights12/02/25 08:25 AM
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While it's true that women take on far more risks and responsibilities from pregnancy, it's also true that women control whether or not they get pregnant or have children at all in the first place, not men. If a man doesn't want to pay for his children with child support, a woman can just get an abortion. People also fail to recognize that not all men are the same and they don't show their emotions the same as women do. If a man genuinely loves and wants to take on solo responsibility for his ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:58 PM
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Paying for hentai is a weird one, I'm not sure. Honestly that's a huge can of worms that's off topic because I am pro ai art and you shouldn't have to pay for that. I think all art should be free and that includes hentai. I'll say that I don't think it's the same thing as paying for porn and probably not cheating, but also I look down upon anyone that still pays for art in general. Oh and just by the way that men say out loud that they hate it constantly and the way I get shamed by both men and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:33 PM
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Frankly I just think masturbating feels better than sex and I think most people probably do too if they learn to explore themselves properly. Toys probably help and I think they should be normalized for men to use too, not only is it fun to watch them use a clear fleshlight, but also I've heard they feel incredible when you get a good one. Also I'm not attractive, I'm a fat tomboy, but I love muscular tall men. My partner looks great, way too good looking for me, but he's not jacked and 6ft. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:00 PM
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First I should state that I think paying for porn is most certainly cheating. Supporting a woman who is not your wife/gf to give you sexual gratification is cheating. Free porn on the other hand, I don't think I would define necessarily as "cheating" but. I think it's important to keep in mind how insanely one sided sex in media is, and why exactly it's a problem for a lot of women. From my perspective, half or more of the reddit posts, yt thumbnails, advertisements and most other media is essen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:05 PM
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Hey I didn't mention this because it's off topic but I'm a 6ft tall woman. I'm in a very odd position. I do think most women prefer a partner that is taller, unfortunately for me taller means above 6ft. I hate that it's an arbitrary number for most. I'd kill to be 4ft tall the same way men would to be 6ft. It just sucks for everyone man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:25 AM
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Does every man find their wife physically attractive?? I don't think its wrong to hold other value in a partner. I can't relate I think my man is sexy. I do find him hot but no one is perfect. I'd love it if he were taller, but I'm sure he'd love it if I were thinner. That doesn't mean we don't find each other attractive. I'm sure a lot of awful people feel trapped to their ugly wife because of children or whatever reason, and a lot of women feel a similar way. That's what happens when you make …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:19 AM
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I say this Everytime this debate comes up, this is solely due to the makeup/plastic surgery industries. Average women without the facade are on the same level as average men. This is also why I advocate for more men to work out, and grow a bit of manly stubble. If you want to be on the same level as women, you have to put in the same level of effort. Because most men don't do anything to enhance their looks compared to most women is the only reason we see a discrepancy, and is also the reason "w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:16 PM
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There is no helping the pronatalist movement because the reality of being intelligent mammals is cruel. I honestly think men should have as many children as possible and women should try to not have them at all. This ideology obviously causes huge problems for me that I'm trying to work out. I'm not a fan of true antinatalism, but I follow and support the movement because the views are closest to mine. Id rather be an antinatalist then otherwise because they actually care about children. Talking…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:04 AM
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Women sexually harass other women more often more often than men do. At least that's been my experience. I can't even count how many times women are being creepy towards me, making me uncomfortable, or straight up flashing me. It's gross and something needs to be said. Meanwhile men have been creepy and said inappropriate things to me like once or twice irl. It happens more often in video games but to me that's not as bad or the same as people doing it in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:44 AM
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My mother in law tried to do basically the same exact thing to partner and I. Partner has an adopted brother that is mentally disabled and so is his wife, both very low IQ. They have several children that they don't want to take care of and mil said that I should adopt them. I straight up asked her if she was fucking stupid and to never say shit like that to me again because she should know I'm child free, and I tried to convince his family they should get an abortion both times in last two year…
/r/MensRights30/05/24 05:39 PM
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I have no idea what the people of east Germany are actually like so it's impossible for me to tell physically and politically speaking. However I'm pretty sure women had better sex in a vast majority of countries before 1989 because micro plastics have feminized men significantly since then, as well as sexuality wasn't as one sided as it is now.
/r/MensRights30/05/24 12:33 AM
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Shaving makes you smell worse btw
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:32 AM
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Shaving is disgusting in my opinion. Your skin scrapes together causing more sweat and irritation and therefore makes you smell worse, even if you don't have an infection which you'll likely get one from the ingrown hairs and irritation. And honestly I hate the feeling of pee sticking to my lips which doesn't happen when I have hair. Also it just kind of looks really gross like I feel as if I'm looking at someone underage when they're shaven smooth. Weird as fuck in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:17 AM
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I'm of the opinion that women would want sex as much as men if sexual content in media was equal. I know a lot of women claim to like lesbian content and self insertion but part of me thinks many are pressured into saying that or they feel like they don't have any other options. I'm not in any way disregarding lesbians or bisexual women, I'm simply saying I don't think that's the majority. Women, breasts and vaginas, and feminine moaning really REALLY turns me off and dries me up. These things a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:18 AM
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too find the fact that people refusing to admit that humans are animals to be a cause of so so many problems. On the abandoning children example, females also abandon their children quite frequently in the wild. They also will kill other females children, and have their own infighting that you would never hear about in a science or nature documentary for some reason. I think in general society favorites women to the point of even other animals being anthropomorphized to fit this view that female…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:28 AM
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I never said what people like can't be analyzed I'm saying that "because I like masculinity" is an obvious answer most people should be able to figure out without asking. Sex should be enjoyed by both parties by give and take. So we do something you really like, then we do something I really like. Also you realize sex can last for more than 5mins in more than one position correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:31 AM
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I'm explaining why it's a dumb question and how it goes both ways. What is sexy about women? What is sexy about anything? No one can describe to me why women are sexy because I just don't think they're sexy. Nothing you say can really make me think otherwise. If you don't like choking, then you don't like choking. No one can make you think otherwise. I don't really choose what turns me on I just do what feels good. I like dominant men but isn't that an obvious answer? I think that's the reason m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:13 AM
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I ask to be choked because it turns me on. It doesn't really have anything to do with what men enjoy. It isn't helpful to shame other men who are okay with giving me what I find sexy. If you don't like it, or don't understand it, that's fine. But it's not fine saying things like "there's something mentally wrong with men who do things that women enjoy" It's like this, I don't understand why men expect women to shave. I think it's infantilizing and kind of disgusting. Not to mention it's unhygien…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:19 AM
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I personally think opinions like this are what is making sex worse overall for women in general. Every guy I've been with always thinks slow romance and touching and "am I hurting you" questions frequently are important and what women want during sex. Also most people I'm intimate with seem to think all women like lesbian content or other women... Honestly I just want to be thrown around and penetrated by a man. I don't want to watch lesbian or add another girl, I don't want to be treated like I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:54 AM
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Attractiveness is the same as interests in women, because of the makeup industry. I've been a natural tomboy my whole life and I just can't make friends with women because they care too much about their appearance and makeup and other peoples appearances and things like that. I don't really like most other women and they don't really like me either, because I can't be bothered to care about those things. So of course I look "less attractive" than someone who waxes, tans, and slathers on make up,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:52 AM
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That's why I joined here because it seems to be either equal stupidity from both sides or at the very least more coherent discussion usually. Lmao it's so much worse on the one side subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:21 AM
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I don't know why you sound upset I was just further explaining my worldview since you seemed interested in your reply. Have you consider that maybe I do also think there is justification to murdering people, including pregnant women, as well as cannibalism and all that? I'm claiming that IF someone wants to go with a biology route, then precisely so go all the way. I'm in agreement with you man, chill out. Anyways I did also say that it's never morally justifiable already. These are two differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:03 AM
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I agree with both sides and it depends on what we are justifying and how. It is never socially morally justified to cheat. I'm in an open relationship and both me and my man have sex with whoever, but we don't cheat. Theres no real reason someone who needs a lot of sex can't just do that. But is it biologically justified to cheat? Probably so, for both genders. if people want to be all logic and argue for nature I can agree with that, but they should go all the way and be accurate about it rathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:47 AM
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Something people always get wrong about this is that in nature it is the females job to keep the genes varied, meaning females cheat more often then males in animals that are mostly monogamous. Basically two children that have two different mothers but the same father are genetically more closely related than two children who have different fathers but the same mother are. More variation leads to stronger offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:24 AM
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I am a woman and I feel like many of the women here aren't telling the truth... I just found this place and subbed here recently and there's a lot of interesting discussions from both sides, but I feel like the women here speak for all women just as much as the men try to speak for women. I'm a bit afraid to get engaged in conversation because women often attack me for trying to say what I've experienced as well. For example "Women complain about men being flat out creepy, but it rarely happens …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:00 PM
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I will freely admit I am a masochist so this sort of thing interests me anyways, but I have to add that porn for women really isn't that good. Everyone expects women to "self insert" or watch lesbian porn or the bottoms always get all of the attention. The only category of porn I can think of that shows off a masculine men besides solo jerking off stuff, is CNC or other similar categories. Gay porn focuses a lot on twinks or bottoms. So am I interested in CNC because of innate desires, or is it …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:28 AM
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Many women, mostly feminists, find it empowering or as if it somehow makes them more righteous to defend things they perceive as being weaker than they are. Since a lot of women today feel strong and independent, and they see gay men as being timid and fragile, that's why you see they don't think you can stand up for yourself. Furthermore the idea of a man who would gladly be with you AND another man is an extremely alluring thought, much like how lesbian porn is popular among men. The stigma th…
/r/MensRights16/05/23 12:07 AM
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I will agree that standards for a lot of women are too high, and that most are not that good at communicating what they need and like. But I'll have to say that on things like social media women should be allowed to have standards that are too high that's part of the point of social media, to look at sexy people. Also to remind you that standards for women are the same, the difference is there is a much smaller amount of women who don't wear make up or otherwise artificially boost attractiveness…
/r/MensRights18/03/23 03:34 PM
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I don't comment here often I prefer not to as I'm not a man and I'm not here to start arguments or anything, just someone who is a bit of an antifeminist. I decided to give my thoughts on this because this topic is extremely important to me personally, as heterophobia is the very thing that drove me to antifeminism in the first place. Heterophobia is very much a real thing and is one of the main things that drives women into submission to some insane feminist ideas. It's a very common belief tha…
/r/MensRights18/03/23 02:44 PM
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That's funny because I'm a woman and I don't often see sexist things here, just frustrations about very real problems
/r/MensRights02/12/22 02:51 PM
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Yeah you right haha oops. I don't really browse around feminist communities but I will say the opposite of those don't have many women in them. But really what I meant was the pick me insult is common for both feminists and men's rights. Polar opposite people that cling to the same insult
/r/AntiFeminists08/01/22 05:14 PM
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As a tomboy the pick me insult is driving me literally insane. Apparently just being myself is some sort of horrific crime. Not even just feminists that do it, a lot of men do it too.
/r/AntiFeminists08/01/22 03:15 AM
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It's true antinatalism is full of misguided extremists but so is mgtow in my honest opinion, that's just a problem with reddit and loud minorities I think. I think most competent people on antinatalism would agree with me that having babies isn't a cause of the problem,, but not having babies IS a solution to a lot of problems, big difference there. And to clarify, I don't think every single living being should stop breeding I just think that bringing life into the world should be taken more ser…
/r/MGTOW09/07/21 11:26 PM
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You can't teach bad mothers to not be bad mothers, you can only convince them to not be mothers in the first place. It surprises me how many men here hate the antinatalism community because I enjoy scrolling through mgtow and antinatalism for the same reason, these are both a couple of the only communities that allow and accept criticism of women. Antinatalism is one of the only subreddits I've critiqued the parenting of women on and not gotten voted down to hell or scorned because "women do no …
/r/MGTOW09/07/21 10:44 PM
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I already said why, people who are supposed to understand the law agreed with me on two separate ocassions in two different states, and a third time which I saw someone else say the same thing and the police agreed with him as well. I assume the police know more about the law than I do, so I wrongfully assumed it were true. That's what I get for trusting people with more experience than me? Why do you post questions that were obviously already answered so confidently?
/r/MGTOW15/06/21 02:44 PM
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Well I guess police don't know as much as lawyers then, worked for me twice after I saw someone say that to police in a video.
/r/MGTOW15/06/21 01:26 PM
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That looks like a lake. in the united states all natural bodies of water including lakes, bays, ponds, creeks, and tidal zones are always public property in the united states even if they flow through your land. If you are fishing in a natural lake in someone's property the police cannot kick you out unless youre catching protected species or somethin like that. Not saying the woman isn't a psychotic cunt, but that isn't the woman filming's property.
/r/MGTOW14/06/21 11:31 PM
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