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| 11 | Most men won't succeed on dating appsWomen had these freedoms 60+ years ago, it’s only recently that they’ve become so unhinged in relation to men so clearly that not the cause. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 05:47 PM |
| 6 | Most men won't succeed on dating appsWhen are we going to come to the correct conclusion? I know it’s not politically correct to say, but women are just broken these days. Like all of these men are sitting around thinking “what’s wrong with me”, because that’s the narrative women want you to believe. But in 2025, women are triggered by you just existing as a man, long before you ever walked in the door. Like bro, it’s just not your fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 04:54 PM |
| -1 | Women should stop having sex for freeI’m down for this. I mean as a man I’m pretty much expected to pay for everything anyway, so I should now be able to expect sex without argument when I do. Went on a date? I payed so you owe me sex. Rent? You owe me sex. A trip? Oh that gonna be a lot of sex you owe me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 04:58 PM |
| 4 | When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys.Ya, most men aren’t complaining about the woman who were truly deceived. We’re complain about the women who ALREADY KNEW he didn’t have a job, had a criminal record, had 8 baby moma’s, and still decided to fuck with him because she though he was cute. Like ya’ll are constantly trying to claim you don’t behave like we’ve literally watched you behave our entire lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of you say, it’s easy for men to get a date nowadays when it really isn’t?How can you say you wouldn’t date men you know nothing about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of you say, it’s easy for men to get a date nowadays when it really isn’t?Op posted about how dating is obviously easier for women. Don’t you see how all that attention makes things easier? Vs a man who gets no attention? Also, I don’t know how men being thirsty and seeing you as a human being is mutually exclusive. If I’m a man, trying to find a woman, sex needs to be on the table or why would I continue to put energy into her? If sex isn’t on the table, it isn’t that I don’t see her as a human being, she’s just has zero value to me. (Not as a human being, but as a p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of you say, it’s easy for men to get a date nowadays when it really isn’t?Of course, 100% agree. But unattractive / poorly socialized women still have an order of magnitude easier time than similar men. Go to any of the “find some to chat with” subs and look over the posts. Be a woman and make a post there and your inbox is overflowing within hours. Be a man and make a post, and receive nothing in reply even weeks later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of you say, it’s easy for men to get a date nowadays when it really isn’t?They’re not getting dates when they are men. If you’re a woman, being unattractive or poorly socialized isn’t even a hindrance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Why are Men's Troubles with Dating Invalidated by Women?I don’t know about all of that. I feel like a man these days is expected to be hyper aware of all the issues women face while women still maintain a child like understanding of what men’s issues are, if they’re acknowledged at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 02:01 PM |
| 6 | Why do women say they want nice guys but there are subreddits making fun of nice guys.Issue is, be “authentic” is not actionable advice. It’s a platitude. Be a normal, average guy, attempt to be your honest, authentic self, and you’ll quickly find out it doesn’t work. A woman wants that fantasy man in her head to be authentic. Real men that actually exist in real life, na, they don’t want those guys being authentic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 03:44 PM |
| – | Men should generally never take dating advice from women.I’ve come to the realization that for many women, the words that come out of their mouths don’t seem to be designed to convey factual, meaningful information but instead are designed to make them feel a certain way. You see it all the time in subs like this. The old trope of “a woman can do anything a man does” is a great example. I’m sure it gives them all the good feels to say, but completely detached from the real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 01:33 PM |
| 4 | Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women.How dare you argue with my perception of reality using facts! The abuse! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women.Your rantings read like a public service announcement for the red flags a man should look for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women.Sure, there are issues about why this doesn’t happen more, but I don’t think they imply men wouldn’t want this. There was a post about this only a few days ago talking about male SAH parents and tons of men where like “sign me up” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women.We’re childless so it’s not an issue for us, however I suspect most men would prefer to be the SAH parent, they just aren’t given the choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 02:58 PM |
| 9 | Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women.I didn’t ask about any of that. Just pointing out how your child like opinions are completely inaccurate. Very poor reading comprehension for someone who’s supposed to be making “half a million in gross”. Theoretically. Sometime in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 02:54 PM |
| 7 | Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women.Both married for 10+ years and making 100k+ a year. But please keep telling me about how you know nothing of the real world, Ms 20 something that doesn’t pay any bills and is “objectively exceptional”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 02:42 PM |
| 4 | Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women.I’m sure. The fact that you can even say this with a straight face tells me all I need to know. I wish I could bottle and sell your hubris. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 02:05 PM |
| 11 | Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women.Every modern woman on the planet: “I’m objectively exceptional” Basically sums up the entire dating market. Are you sure this isn’t just your massive ego? Certainly sounds like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 02:01 PM |
| 4 | Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women.A lot don’t. It’s a fairly simple equation: Working = a soul crushing pursuit of money SAHM = a lot of work, but it’s fulfilling, or at least it should be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 01:55 PM |
| 8 | Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women.I read that as “I hate men that don’t have value to me. Which is basically going to be all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 01:51 PM |
| 1 | I need a trad husbandI get what you’re saying, but I also get what they’re saying. I feel like raising a child is not necessarily easier than working, but it’s a lot more rewarding than working for most people. Working on the other hand is just soul crushing with little meaning. So it’s not necessarily easier in the amount of work, but much better in overall enjoyment and outcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 05:30 PM |
| 1 | The Dating Curve With All Things Equal is Just Harder for Men1944 woman != 2024 woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 04:05 PM |
| 4 | “I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiativeWomen will say things like “read the room” when they’ve just gone into great detail about all the hoops they’ve jumped through to specifically be not transparent. Like, do you hear the words coming out of your mouth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 03:45 PM |
| 6 | CMV: More women should join the 4B movement in the USSo women, who couldn’t even be relied on to show up and vote in their own best interest are going to do anything en mass? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 03:25 PM |
| 8 | CMV: More women should join the 4B movement in the USThose top 20% of dudes are already fucking multiple women. When the top 20% are getting like 80% of all female attention, they’re not worried about the 1% of women that would actually stand by their convictions and not get laid. Like duh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 03:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: More women should join the 4B movement in the USIt’s funny because men are doing the same thing. A lot of them simply won’t admit to it publicly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 03:11 PM |
| 8 | CMV: More women should join the 4B movement in the USYep, the same top 20% of dudes that are getting laid will continue to get laid. But the normal guys, they’re used to being invisible at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 03:04 PM |
| 7 | CMV: More women should join the 4B movement in the USI don’t think women have any dry powder in the no sex department. Sex is already at a 30 year low. Most average guys are going to see this and be like “Im already not getting any so this doesn’t affect me” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Misandry hurts women.Seems to still apply too me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 02:16 PM |
| – | Misandry hurts women.Women used to be what tempered a man. Not anymore. We’re raising entire generations of men that get to middle age and haven’t had a girlfriend, gotten laid, or really gotten anything worthwhile from a woman. And you expect those men to care about women’s issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 01:01 PM |
| – | As a woman I feel really bad for orbiters. I admit there are certain types of unscrupulous women who won't hesitate to maintain plausible deniability as long as she can and use him for funds/networks/emotional validationYa, I don’t think that communication would happen effectively by most women. Like I think it’s hyperbolic to call women liars buuuuut…. They’re about that farthest thing from transparent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 06:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men should stop initiating DatesLet’s not debase ourselves by thinking they’ll ever be a dearth of simps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 06:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV - these are reasonable requirements for dating a single momThis is the problem. She’s assuming she’s the prize. And frankly she might be, like she could be an amazing woman. But not on a first date and definitely not with that attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many guys have a seething hatred for single moms?No hatred, but a kid is a massive boat anchor around the neck of any new relationship. Your kid may be the best thing that ever happened to you. But not to a third party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 04:33 PM |
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