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| 1 | What I learned about approaching after being oggled by gay men for a weekI don't look at this sub for advice, so I definitely have a different perspective than you or most of the other men here, I apologize if that made my original post sound like seduction advice. Agreed - white knighting won't get you laid nearly as much as improving social status, fitness, conversation skills, all that. What I'm trying to say I guess is that catcalling without first considering the situation could easily result in the girl being terrified and calling the cops, especially since rec… | /r/seduction | 08/06/16 06:01 PM |
| – | What I learned about approaching after being oggled by gay men for a weekI'd like to politely correct you - a guy I met three years ago told some of his friends to stop catcalling me in the middle of the night because he thought it would make me feel unsafe. I ended up talking to him, gave him my number, and a few nights later we boned. We ended up being fwb for a few months then drifted apart. I don't mind someone wanting to bone me, like op said it's a great self esteem booster, but I do mind someone disrespecting my justified fears. But yep, would absolutely be di… | /r/seduction | 06/06/16 08:00 PM |
| 11 | What I learned about approaching after being oggled by gay men for a weekThis post is great, but just wanted to sneak in a little female perspective about the op's last point. I'm okay with and even enjoy being catcalled - in the daytime, when there are tons of people around, when I'm with my friends, when I'm sober. Catcall away. But you start doing that shit at night when I'm walking alone? I will not care how flattering or attractive you are, I will get immediately scared and I most definitely will not respond positively to you. Context is everything. And frankly,… | /r/seduction | 06/06/16 12:20 PM |
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