TheSovereign2181 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	[Inner Game] 10 personal core beliefs I read everyday. You are not being yourself if you are pretending to be someone else and hiding your real you.	/r/seduction	02/12/17 05:03 PM
2	React to a subtle rejection Considering my past experiences, every time a girl used this ''I'm too busy for this entire week and the next one!'' it was a rejection. Just say ''Ok, no problem'' and never, NEVER text her again. Proceed to the next girl.	/r/seduction	21/04/17 09:56 PM
2	Going to bar to see this girl I just met. Neep tips for tonight! Well, you are in for a karaoke night so you both can have some fun with that, dare her to go there and sing and then show that you don't give a fuck about going there and singing as well, even if you can't sing for shit, just do it for the laugh of it and show her that you are confident in public. Be confident and calm, don't show that you are insecure or have low-self esteem, have a good posture all the time, have a drink to relax, but don't get drunk. Show your interest in her, listen to her a…	/r/seduction	20/04/17 11:12 PM
3	Where's the line of being too nice? What about the line of being too douchey? Too nice: doing things she can easily do herself just to impress her. Like ''Oh, you let your pen fall, let me walk to the other side of the classroom just to bring it back!'' or ''Let me help you with all your work!''. Complimenting her all the time, always agreeing even if you really don't. Too douchey: Not giving a shit when she really needs help, treating other people badly when she is around you just to feel like ''UUUR ALPHA MALE!''.	/r/seduction	11/03/17 09:37 PM
2	What to do when a girl is receptive but isnt putting in effort to actually meet Happened to me. I hooked up with this girl in a party, got her number and texted her, but she took ages to answer me and never initiated any conversation, then she wanted to meet at a bar right next to our college campus, so after our date she would go straight to class, which I found odd.	/r/seduction	11/03/17 09:23 PM
1	Everyone seems against a lot of texting on here, but what if you can't meet up with a girl for like a week? It depends, I prefer to text the girl just to set up the date, know the basics, then confirm the date one or two days before it happens. More than one week I lose interest in the girl, since I hate flirting through text.	/r/seduction	01/03/17 12:17 AM
1	Dressing sharp backfiring. I live in Brazil, so dressing nicely usually makes people think you are stupid for dressing so nice in a hot weather. I feel way more confortable wearing skinny jeans and a nice T-shirt.	/r/seduction	27/02/17 05:19 PM
1	This is gonna sound really pathetic, but I learned something about approach anxiety One important thing to do it's to improve where you got wrong so next time you get better. When I started going infield I noticed how I lacked with physical contact and was approaching more like a kind friendly guy rather than a confident man and my opening weren't the best either.	/r/seduction	27/02/17 12:33 AM
31	How to be more confident around girls One thing I might add it's that the longer you wait, the worse it gets your anxiety. If you are in a party, you see this girl that caught your attention, don't wait forever to approach her, instead of doing the ''What if she doesn't like me?'' route, just do it the second after you think ''Wow, that girl is pretty''. The longer you wait, the more excuses your mind will find.	/r/seduction	25/02/17 11:31 PM
2	What are some good conversations openers to show clear interest in a girl that you've only met for the first time that day? Class is easy, you can always approach by asking something related to your school/college, then make a funny comment about some teacher that do something weird that everyone notices or ask something about her like where did she study before, etc. Gym you have to be careful, I don't like talking to girls there unless she seems fine with it or give me a sign of interest. Most women like to do their training and that's it, they probably are tired of men staring her body and interrupting them. If yo…	/r/seduction	04/02/17 10:50 PM
0	What are some good conversations openers to show clear interest in a girl that you've only met for the first time that day? Introduce yourself with ''Hey my name is X'', wait for her to answer back and continue the conversation from there. If it's a party I don't even talk to her, I just say my name, ask if she is enjoying the place/music, then go for the kiss. If it's bar, make an observation about the place, ask is she likes there, start with the flirtation.	/r/seduction	04/02/17 09:40 PM
1	Game-Related Question: Is it possible to "fuck up" with a woman who is already attracted to you? Taking too long to do anything, a girl is not gonna wait for you to take action, you want something, do it or say what you want, but don't keep a girl waiting.	/r/seduction	28/01/17 06:09 PM
1	What are different ways to pull girls in class? So, are you in high school or college? In college, at least for me, parties pop up all the time and almost every week me and my friends go to the bar that it's right next to the campus. So my strategy is like: -Is the girl in my class? If so, try to sit right next to her or wait for the break between classes to go talk to her, do some small talk and then use a upcoming party or the bar to ask her out. If you want just a hookup, get her number, flirt with her and when the party comes just approac…	/r/seduction	22/01/17 12:57 PM
1	Hey r/sedution, I have failed. Please give me the courage to beat approach anxiety. This. Way better to compliment those little details than just go ''Oh your hair is so amazing! Your eyes are gorgeous!'' she heard that a thousand times from all sorts of guys, so if you approach and say something about what she is dressing is more impressive.	/r/seduction	22/01/17 02:45 AM
1	Which do you think is better? Dating girls you aren't attracted to? Or being a loner? Why would you date someone you are not attracted? It's just waste of time, money and energy. I prefer doing something alone that I enjoy than having to tolerate people I don't like.	/r/seduction	02/01/17 01:50 PM
1	When is too slow too slow, when is too fast too fast? First of all, it's your profile on Tinder good enough? It's your pictures ok, not shady or something? It's your description good? Without ''full of himself'' or creepy stuff? You should check those things. About the phone number, start the conversation well before asking for it. Go for ''Hey, how are you?'', do a little small talk then ask for phone number, if she ask why or say that she doesn't know you well enough, just say that you think Tinder is too slow to load and sometimes you don't get …	/r/seduction	31/12/16 03:45 PM
3	When is too slow too slow, when is too fast too fast? Dude, taking almost a week to ask for her phone number is VERY slow. The right thing to do is ask for her phone number right away when you get a match a Tinder, then you ask her out in the first conversation. If you talk too much by text, when you two finally meet there will be no conversation left, you already know everything about her because you wasted 7 days with talk without getting somewhere. Why you want to get married before 30? Why have this weight on your shoulders? The more pressure y…	/r/seduction	31/12/16 02:39 PM
1	I just had my first make-out session with a sober girl in a club. If it wasn't for you guys, I would still be a socially awkward nerd. Thank you guys so much. Well, usually the tips we learn from this subrreddit is for when we do the approach, when women approach us we can't afford to waste time honestly. During a party when a girl approaches me I instantly go ''Nice to meet you, wanna kiss?'' and BAM.	/r/seduction	29/12/16 01:36 AM
1	If the girl is always surrounded by more female friends, do you prefer singling her out or dealing with the group? Approach the group with a small talk regarding something about college like ''Hey, have any of you started studying for that X test coming up next week?'' from there you start focusing on the girl you want, pay more attention to her and slowly talk your way so it turns into a 1v1, ask for her number, start texting her and ask her out.	/r/seduction	22/12/16 02:21 AM
3	[FR] I learned a very valuable lesson today. 3 seconds does matter. When I don't think it's the appropriate place to cold approach a woman but we had an intense eye contact, I always smile and say ''hey'' like I just saw someone I knew. It doesn't really help my game, but it makes me feel better than ''Wow, I failed. I should've done something.''	/r/seduction	18/12/16 06:54 PM
2	How do i great girls when on a party? It depends, if I know the girl I go for a kiss on cheek. If I don't I say ''hey'' then ask her name and go for small talk.	/r/seduction	15/12/16 09:39 PM
1	What are IOI's during the day? She looks at you more than once, she smiles when you look back. When I notice a girl staring at me, I look back and if she keeps looking I give her a smile like ''hey'' and continue on my way. Unless it is a bar or a party, if I smile and she smiles back I go talk to her	/r/seduction	12/12/16 10:41 PM
1	realized my social anxiety is all in my head o I realized that recently as well. Before going to a party I was always ''Oh my god, there will be so many girl at this party, if I don't approach and kiss at least one girl there everyone will think I'm a loser and a failure to humanity, omg.'' and during the parties I would always get so anxious that I had to run to the bathroom to throw up or my heart would start beating so fast I couldn't even move to go talk to a girl. I was always worried about what people were going to say about my hair, m…	/r/seduction	11/12/16 11:04 PM
3	How does being good looking effect game? It causes a good first impression, but what you say and how you say it matters as well. If you are good looking, yet you are socially awkward people will have no interest in you.	/r/seduction	02/12/16 10:39 PM