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| 77 | In MemoriamR.I.P. Roe v. Wade. I decided I'm going to start a sex strike if Roe v. Wade gets overturned. No more sex with men. Isn't that the conservative talking point? "If you don't want to get pregnant, don't have sex"? Ok, fine. We won't. Maybe men will advocate for us more once it starts affecting their dicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:57 AM |
| 78 | In MemoriamI am devastated. I want to be around other women and mourn so bad right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:28 AM |
| 9 | Don't worry, he's very attentive, buys her gifts and is not all abusive. The woman is risking her health, going through all the pain, but "oh no, what about my dick? :(("This made my blood absolutely boil. She's growing and pushing a HUMAN out of her BODY but this POS once masturbated so much his dick bled and thinks that's reason enough to subject his wife to sex after childbirth? Boo fucking hoo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:44 PM |
| 7 | Has to get to know me over coffee and THEN we can go on “real” dates 🙄I can see where she's coming from, but in my experience: I went on roughly 45 first dates when I was using OLD, and I only accepted dinner invitations. There's only 2 that stand out as having been truly bad dates. Otherwise, even if I wasn't romantically interested in him, I at least usually enjoyed the conversation and got to try a new restaurant, which I found to be worth the investment of my time. I might have just been lucky, but I do think I got good at screening for duds in the bio/chattin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:06 PM |
| 14 | Has anyone actually had success in advising their pickmeisha friends not to be pickmes?Well to me, it means she's not talking to or going on dates with other men so he doesn't have to worry about competition. And while he's not actively perusing other women, he's free of "boyfriend" responsibilities and can more easily cut ties when something he perceives as better comes along. He's essentially got her as a guaranteed placeholder. It's so dumb. I don't get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 04:08 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020Welcome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 04:25 PM |
| 1 | How long can a man go without contacting you?When my BF and I were dating, as long as we had our next date set up (and we always did) I really didn't care if he contacted me between dates. He usually did at least once just to say he was thinking of me or something. Now that we're in a committed relationship, I'd probably get concerned if I didn't hear from him for more than a day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 02:32 PM |
| 35 | Stop mistreating you female friends, especially over a fuckboyThis. The only point of contention I have with my female friends is that they keep dating fuckboys, ask me for advice, don't take it, and then want to spend hours analyzing his 2am "u up?" text or whatever. I can't handle it anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 02:25 PM |
| 38 | Things seem to be taking a negative turn here. Please, let's focus our energies on building each other up and IGNORING trash men.Exactly! A HVW pays these men no mind, IMO. Not devote an entire sub to them. I do think there's value in showing and discussing their common tactics, but I think it could be contained in a single thread. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 07:06 PM |
| 3 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?For me personally, texting is not very important to me. When my partner first started courting me he would text me almost constantly throughout the day, and I told him that was unnecessary and I'd prefer to get to know each other in person. He said he's not a big texter either and he was relieved. He said he knows most women are and he was trying to meet me at my (assumed) expectation level. We've now been dating for about 10 months. On average we have a brief text conversation once a day, but w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 01:59 PM |
| 22 | The comments were like “he did what she asked, what’s the problem?” 🙄🙄🙄Oh yeah, definitely. I know better now. If you get to that level of contempt in a relationship, it's time to leave. I would never speak to my current boyfriend like that because my last relationship taught me to only accept someone I trust to be a full, equal, competent partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 04:24 PM |
| 30 | Men want virgins, but who will sleep with them on the first datelmao imagine being so entitled that you "expect" sex after spending what, maybe 4 hours total with me? I remember going on a 3rd date with a guy, gave him a peck on the cheek as he dropped me off. The next evening he made a "joke" about how we could have done "more than just kiss." I ignored the comment. Then he asked me to his place for the fourth date, to which I told him I'm not comfortable going to his place yet. He locked down a day and told me he'd think of something for us to do, and then… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Female PhD candidate is a club dancer at night because she does not get paid enough as a graduate student, another woman calls this empowering...Sooo I have an advanced degree and working on my second, and I have also worked at a strip club as a cocktail waitress. Yes, the money is good and sometimes it can feel good in the sense that men make gross comments to me all the time, at least at the club they're also giving me money while they're doing it... but it's also incredibly exploitative and virtually no woman truly wants to be there. They like the money and freedom, not the job itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 12:35 AM |
| 11 | Confront men about your standards vs. just leave. Where’s the line?It depends on the context. I do think a lot of the time it's more important how someone reacts to you establishing a boundary or how you'd like to be treated than that they do everything perfectly all the time. So, he gets one "This is what I expect" and if he doesn't meet that after being told, he's out. But it depends on the severity of the offense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 09:14 PM |
| 9 | Guys don't approach me nowYep, I got approached less frequently after I lost weight. Men often see overweight women as low-hanging fruit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 03:23 PM |
| 22 | Do HVM even exist?They're rare, but they exist! Mine took me 2.5 years of dating and 40+ first dates to find, but it was worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 10:43 PM |
| 33 | Don’t be a fanYou used to be able to directly click through to someone's IG account if they had it linked on Tinder, I think they removed that feature, but I used to get DM's from people who found me on Tinder ALLLL the time. I don't know why I thought it was a good idea to keep it linked looking back, that was a huge safety concern. I went on a backpacking trip through Europe and within an hour of landing in a new country, I would have 50+ DMs and for some reason I kept that public despite traveling alone???… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 03:21 PM |
| 13 | Can we cool it with the male depravity posts?I agree. While we're at it, I don't think we should do the Incel-style meme cartoons. I understand it's satirical, but I don't think we should borrow anything from them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 05:56 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020I have screenshots of every text and a log of attempts he's made to contact me. I also have access to a lot of victim advocacy resources through my job, and they're working with me right now. I'm trying :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 01:53 PM |
| 10 | I was beaten for having confidence last night.There is a Chrome extension called Nuke Reddit History that will automatically do what /u/bellamocha suggested, overwrite your comment history with nonsense and then delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 03:43 PM |
| 35 | Men who expect you to "prove" that you are not a gold-digger"If I were a gold digger, I would not be wasting my time on you." Hit them right in the ego. But then also block them, because you don't have time for someone who worries about that in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 07:07 PM |
| 17 | How FDS has changed my lifeI had lots of experience with #1 when I was dating and unlearning some of my Pick Me tendencies. It's absolutely true that if they ghost once, they'll ghost again. Unghosting isn't flattering, if they valued you they would never have done it in the first place. It just means they were bored and lonely and thought they could come to you for temporary relief. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 02:40 PM |
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