| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 19 | Is this cougar hitting on me? | Conversation | TheSummerViking | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 04:39 AM |
| 2 | I think this super hot older woman is flirting with me. How to pursue? | Conversation | TheSummerViking | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 04:45 AM |
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| 1 | My breakdown Tinder v Bumble v Hinge in a major US city (Miami) ...You're more than welcome to disagree. But stop telling people they are objectively wrong just because you don't want to agree with them. I have Facebook (made it in 2010 and stopped using it in 2013). To this day it still exists but I don't use it (and have never used it for dating). Facebook is no longer in vogue for the youth of today. Most of us have one but don't use it. Back in 2010 (Facebook's heyday) it was an entirely different social media app than the one it is today. And back then it … | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 10:24 PM |
| 2 | My breakdown Tinder v Bumble v Hinge in a major US city (Miami) ...It sounds like you're struggling with coming to terms with reality. I'm not trying to convince you (believe what you want). But high-quality women don't use dating apps. Instead of being open-minded to considering this you tried to look for a gotcha instead. Nobody uses Facebook nowadays. Most accounts are inactive. It's mostly old ladies and middle-aged parents who still use this. It's not used for dating... And as for Instagram... You mention the one app responsible for directly lowering the s… | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 10:03 PM |
| 1 | My breakdown Tinder v Bumble v Hinge in a major US city (Miami) ...Not necessarily. I do just mean extraordinarily good looking (as this is the only superficial metric men take into consideration when hitting on a woman in general). It is the first thing you see before you know anything else about them. Which is precisely how dating apps work too ironically enough. These are the women who get hit on constantly every day and get tired of it. These are the women who don't need a dating app. This is a high-quality woman. And this kind of woman doesn't use dating a… | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | My breakdown Tinder v Bumble v Hinge in a major US city (Miami) ...Not necessarily. I do just mean extraordinarily good looking (as this is the only superficial metric men take into consideration when hitting on a woman in general). It is the first thing you see before you know anything else about them. Which is precisely how dating apps work too ironically enough. These are the women who get hit on constantly every day and get tired of it. These are the women who don't need a dating app. This is a high-quality woman. And this kind of woman doesn't use dating a… | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | My breakdown Tinder v Bumble v Hinge in a major US city (Miami) ...That's the problem: A lot of guys don't know what hot is. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 12:48 AM |
| 1 | My breakdown Tinder v Bumble v Hinge in a major US city (Miami) ...You're proving his point... Genuinely high-quality women don't need validation (they get it daily in their life). They don't need to increase their options (they're hot af so attractive men will approach them regardless). I know the reality here is glib and people won't like it, but women on dating apps are not high-quality because high-quality do not need the help of a dating app. The only time I can see a dating app maybe making sense for high-quality people is when they're travelling countrie… | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 12:44 AM |
| 1 | She texted “wanna cum join me for a naked yoga session later on today?”No, but I'm doing naked yoga class at my house tonight at 6 (alone) if you'd like to join. Bring a spare birthday suit in case yours gets wet. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 12:21 AM |
| 2 | She texted “wanna cum join me for a naked yoga session later on today?”To be fair, women struggle profoundly with saying what they mean in lieu of being cryptically obtuse. So there is that. Guys are like wtf when an outlier arises. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 12:18 AM |
| 2 | She texted “wanna cum join me for a naked yoga session later on today?”Sexologist by profession, naked yoga instructor on the side. Can confirm. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | honestly speaking, how is anyone supposed to be confident in this day and age?Life can be both easier and harder for attractive people (numerous studies are coming out in support of this). However, that being said, I do agree that life is mostly easier the more attractive you are. Which is why the obvious cheat for this game is to elevate your own attractiveness to the best of your ability. Go to the gym, exercise, gain hobbies, buy a nice wardrobe. To men who are terminally unattractive, I'd recommend establishing themselves first in a career until they're set up financi… | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 02:21 AM |
| 1 | How conventionally attractive are you?I only superficially visit this subreddit so I don't know what the demographic is like. But I used to do modelling. The funny thing is older women frequently come up to me and are like, "Hey... You should be a model" Me: Yup... (I don't like saying I was to them because it feels kinda narcissistic and arrogant when someone is trying to be complimentary). If it's not that then it's women constantly approaching me just to ask me what country I'm from. For reference, I'm a white Australian man livi… | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:28 AM |
| 3 | I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself?I think you made the right move, OP. It was arrogant of her to say and you followed your gut. However, in future, this is a great excuse to get away with something outrageous such as kissing her on the mouth or grabbing her ass. It's an excuse for you to be as equally as arrogant. If she acts shocked you can just roll with it. "What, you did say for me to prove myself..." Because whether she meant to or not she gave you verbal permission with next to no instructions. In short: she is asking to b… | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 01:34 PM |
| 4 | I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself?It's certainly possible. Many things in life are possible... So let's not deal with vague what-if situations. What we can say for certain is that it was an obnoxious thing of the woman to say to a complete stranger with zero context. She knew this. And still chose to say it... That's the risk she chose to take in saying that. OP is not the only person who would have taken that the wrong way (and that was the risk she chose to take in saying that to a stranger). Such is life. Don't say stupid thi… | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Would redditors benefit from a 15 minute conversation with an actual woman?Not really. Unless I mistook this community and it's really just a bunch of socially inept men who don't know any women. In which case, yes, they probably would benefit from talking to a woman. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Is this cougar hitting on me?Yeah, there are a lot cougars in this world. Not surprised you keep hearing about these things happening to other guys. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Is this cougar hitting on me?Only once, why? | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Is this cougar hitting on me?She said she wanted some Italian sausage. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Is this cougar hitting on me?It's funny because it's true. 😂 | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Black women aren't really perceived as women so what options do I have?What do you mean when you say men don't like you exactly?... | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Black women aren't really perceived as women so what options do I have?Ma'am, with respect, you are lying. I'm a white Australian male model (my standards are high) and I am telling you that you are gorgeous. If you were in Australia I'd totally date you. You probably have resting bitch face or an unpleasant personality if men are avoiding you... That or your photos are fake. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 05:58 AM |
| 1 | 10 things I've learned after being with over 100 women as a shy dudeYour insecurity is showing, bruh. If you got a lot of attention from women (I'd actually be happy for you). That's the difference here. No need to get angry over other people's success. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 11:09 AM |
| 1 | 10 things I've learned after being with over 100 women as a shy dudeSorry bro. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 10:45 AM |
| 2 | 10 things I've learned after being with over 100 women as a shy dudeAs an attractive man who drowns in attention, I laughed at 9. You absolutely should be holding people accountable for their own shitty behavior. Letting women be bad people so you can have sex with them reeks of incel energy to me. Be a man. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 08:20 PM |
| 9 | Do you guys think women value looks or money more?As a guy who is 'attractive but poor'... I would say they value money. But I also say that as someone who fears getting into long-term relationships with women because I'm afraid they'll dump me for being poor. While women throw themselves at me for short-term liaisons like sex. I could definitely be biased though, but that's what it feels like. I had a mother of three just the other night try to seduce me and have sex with her. Her words, ''I ended my life at 19.'' As in, she had a kid at 19 an… | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 02:53 AM |
| 4 | do girls know they're being approached?Chill the fuck out please. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 12:51 PM |
| 1 | (f47) is being "vanilla" a dealbreaker in todays dating world?When you really truly like someone you want to explore them anyway. In that aspect, sex is an exploration of the body. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 12:45 AM |
| 1 | How to stop middle-aged co-worker from cockblocking me?Mhm, I just playfully accused her of telling the girl that I liked her. And she insisted she didn't and kept laughing (although I still think she did). And I still think she would again if given the chance because she is one of those traditional Asian mothers that thinks she is playing matchmaker. Lol. Had she come clean, for example, and said something to the effect of: ''Haha, yes, I did tell her that you like her!! But it's only because she asked ME about YOU before I told her. SHE LIKES YOU,… | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 09:41 AM |
| 1 | How to stop middle-aged co-worker from cockblocking me?Gotcha. I'll re-word it and make it less on-the-nose.😉 | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 01:18 AM |
| 1 | How to stop middle-aged co-worker from cockblocking me?That is definitely true and I cannot argue that at all. I think my reluctance comes from the fact that the last girl and I never actually ended up together. Somehow, me knowing she liked me, made it worse. So it ended with the girl being told by Natalie that I liked her, the girl suddenly coming onto me like a rash, and me acting weird and disinterested from the intense pressure of feeling the need to ask her out. Also Natalie knows a lot about me (I don't have a car for example). She actually i… | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 01:16 AM |
| 0 | Is this a sign of interest?No need to be a wanker, mate. Learn to take a little constructive criticism. You were asked a question and couldn't even do that. And it was pointed out to you politely. Big yikes. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 03:48 AM |
| 0 | Is this a sign of interest?With respect, most people who come here already know what they neeed to do and that they will do it (that's not what they're asking). Nobody is asking you to know. They are asking for your opinion. Your opinion can be wrong or right. But it helps people get a gauge of the room and know they're not being biased. Learn to answer questions as they are asked in future. 🙏 | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Is this guy making a move on my girlfriend?I'm not worried at all. Lol. He seems like a nice guy (hence why I didn't disclose his name). I have no issue with him whatsoever. That wasn't the question being asked. | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Is this guy making a move on my girlfriend?Possible, but it also seems like the perfect pretense to break the ice with someone you find attractive. And if they're not interested you can always act like you were just being professional. | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Is this guy making a move on my girlfriend?Perhaps... She's unsure if she should be cordial and give him an honest response or just ignore him entirely. We kind or want to use Twitter ourselves to leverage our networks with the right people (we're both into fitness). So ignoring someone potentially just being friendly could also be shooting ourselves in the foot. | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Is this guy making a move on my girlfriend?Jesus, that's peanuts. Still... His account is about 100k. I don't get the impression he is employing people to handle his account (and if he were) I'd suspect I'd have indiscriminantly received one of these messages too. I've been following him for two years now and my girlfriend only recently started following him a month or two ago. | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Is this guy making a move on my girlfriend?I have had girls do this to me IRL. I agree, he could very well have innocent intentions and be like wtf. | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Is this guy making a move on my girlfriend?He's one of those micro celebrities on Twitter. Big enough that he is successful but not big enough that he would have his own team. He has a podcast which I follow and I am fairly confident he manages his own Twitter. | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Is this guy making a move on my girlfriend?As a guy, I understand that mentality. But despite our urges and inclinations we can also ignore them. In his case, he is married with a baby. So I guess what I am asking more specifically is... Despite the obviously attraction he would have towards my girlfriend... Are his motives sinister? Is he messaging her with an agenda in your opinion? | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Is this guy making a move on my girlfriend?Yeah, she is. Although Twitter is great for networking, so we were unsure if she should at least respons politely or just outright ignore it. | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Is this guy making a move on my girlfriend?While this isn't unheard of... This guy is pretty successful and always has a full schedule with high-paying clients, so it is odd that that he messaged her over a like on his tweet. She's also not his target demographic. It would have made more sense for him to slide into my DMs for example. But I can't imagine that happening. He also has his own podcast. | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 05:03 AM |
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