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$2600 isn't insanely expensive for a ring. She even went for a more affordable, synthetic option! I hope she dumps him for trying to be deceitful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:19 AM
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Remember, wherever he is, he probably isn't thinking about you or he would let you know. Don't dig yourself deeper by being invested in a fantasy. Judge the person that exists in real life, not your head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:34 AM
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Read *Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving." It helped me so much with my childhood issues!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:27 PM
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We're constantly having our boundaries and standards pushed and violated. They want us to date to trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:48 PM
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It's provided post-pain because it's trauma bonding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:16 PM
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When men and pickmes say "feminism is for everyone" what they really mean is "Stop patriarchy from backfiring on men!" LVM especially love to talk about how hard it is for guys but this never leads to them having sympathy for anyone else. It's just a learned helplessness to make excuses. Scrotes can stay mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:13 PM
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Exactly this. Having sex with real women might require them to see past their own selfishness and actually needing to learn how to interact with people. Scrotes are fucking lazy and would rather take the path of least resistance to satisfy their dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 07:37 AM
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I'm was born in the USA and English is my first language. I took Spanish in high school like everyone else (I'm second gen; my parents didn't want to teach me when I was kid because "we're American now") so it was especially dumb. He only ever asked about it when it came to sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:43 AM
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Being mixed, I get a lot of weird shit from men. They really expect me to be whatever caricature they've seen in porn. It's disgusting. I'm sure other women have gone through the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:59 PM
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Yeeeep... And then they start moralizing about "ethical non-monogamy" and polyamory. Hell no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:56 PM
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Oh god, don't remind me. I'm mixed latina and one asshole asked me to speak Spanish in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:51 PM
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Yet they joke about it like it's completely to watch porn when you're depressed like it isn't the most pathetic thing in the world, and they'll have a meltdown if you suggest it's not a healthy coping mechanism. Also it fucks up your ability to make decisions!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:48 PM
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LVM really resent fatherhood because they feel entitled. Being a parent means being emotionally present for someone else and putting their well-being first. When he gets old and decrepit, he's gonna wonder why his daughter hangs up on him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:44 PM
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People are always looking to excuse men's behavior. That's why you can't trust them unless they've earned it. It was too early for him to have earned for trust and people were already looking to give it to him and make excuses on his behalf. Don't fall for it ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:58 PM
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When I was making the mistake of OLD, I had to take being bisexual off of my profiles because I kept getting hit up by scrotes trying to spice up their marriage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:39 AM
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I've even seen charts sorting video game characters by bust size and relationships posts like "I'm not attracted to my wife after she survived breast cancer and got a mastectomy." Scrotes can't understand that a penis's size and shape effects the mechanics of sex but breast size doesn't. But it's not about mutual pleasure to them, just objectification.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:04 AM
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They aren't shy about talking about their boob preferences so I'm not going to apologize for mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:28 PM
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It does crush my spirit and make me bitter, but I try to put that energy towards change and uplifting women. I try not to just focus exclusively bad. Make time to commiserate and celebrate with women. Make a playlist of your favorite woman singers. Put more value on your friendships with women than your romantic relationships with men. I also find not having male friends has helped me a lot, because I was tired of LVM treating me like a sexual option or complaining about how a relationship will …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:51 AM
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I always compared it to water torture personally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:17 AM
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The mods do a really great job keeping the subreddit true to its values and making it a female only space. I know what you mean about FDS and borderline traits. This subreddit is really helping me form a more secure attachment style, helping me understand what that means, and seeing through trauma bonds. I don't name drop the community, but I talk FDS ideas in therapy and my therapist tells me I'm getting better at healthy boundaries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 07:52 AM
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My life started to make sense since I started reading this sub and it's been really helpful in my recovery from the PTSD my last abusive relationship left me. I always felt pressure to be a pickme before that even and talked myself out of my own boundaries and feelings constantly. It's so affirming to read this sub and realize my feelings are grounded in reality. The women here are very compassionate and supportive too and it goes a long way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:32 AM
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I wish I had a good answer to your question, but this really makes me think I should hype myself and the people around me more. Starting a degree program, quitting cigarettes, starting your own business, leaving an abusive ex, moving to a new city are all meaningful milestones too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:29 AM
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I'm using this strategy. I got PTSD from my last relationship and I still get flashbacks because I'm processing it still. I'll suddenly remember the implications of something he/said did and it will cause me great distress. Every time it happens, I've started writing it down. It's helping me get over that trauma bond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:47 PM
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I caught my ex cheating and he made it about how I was invading his privacy. The audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 06:11 AM
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They really just want us to teach our male partners. They're grown ass adults. And if their EQ is that low, having a conversation isn't going to help. Don't fucking baby men and let them take responsibility for their own shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:51 AM
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Thank you for putting this into words. I was bothered by men trying to shoehorn their way into it but I couldn't articulate like this. Women aren't even allowed to age, something we have no control over. It's like for they try to push past women to say "feminism is for everybody" when patriarchy backfires on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:04 PM
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Thank you for all your hard work in keeping the sub a space FOR WOMEN. I just wish scrotes and pickmes weren't wasting your time with this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:51 PM
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I've been posting comments for awhile and I'm still not flaired. I could really use the help though so I'm just going to repeat my question from last week. I've really picked up a lot of bad messages from "sex positivity" and I want to detox myself from kink and BDSM culture. Does anyone have advice on this? Any time I look on Google and the articles just say "learn to accept it and be open minded" but I don't want to accept a relationship dynamic where I'm hit for some scrotes sexual satisfacti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:47 PM
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Sperm is never going to be valuable or rare since men's bodies are constantly producing it and they can always jack off into a cup. Women are born with a finite amount of eggs, which can only be harvested for donation under certain conditions. Look at how much women get paid to be surrogate mothers. Or how much egg donors get paid vs sperm donors. This is just an LVM delusion. They want to believe their precious cummies are worth something but they never will be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:15 AM
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Lol we're on the "controversial reddit communities" wikipedia page, alongside the jailbait, "fappening" and redpill subs. Just... the irony. They really want us to be on their level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:32 AM
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Ain't that the truth. Allowing yourself to feel uncomfortable, degraded or going back just so a scrote can get off? Fuck that. Have some self-respect. Also fuck anyone who says you just need to be "open minded" about porn use or disgusting fetishes. I don't like porn use. If you do, we aren't compatible. Bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:10 AM
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We're always told to tiptoe around men's feelings. To "give him a chance," to "forgive," to "stop being so bitchy" at the expense of ourselves, for the sake of men's feelings. Nobody tells men to put our feelings first. Give an inch and they will take a mile. Don't make yourself smaller to fit into a man's idea of what you should be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:59 AM
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