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Either way it's all about letting go and just enjoying yourself. You've got to allow yourself to just get comfortable, if you can't then fake it until you make it. Another thing, don't put a girl on a pedestal and freak yourself out. You are equals and she is probably as nervous as you.
/r/seduction15/03/17 07:23 PM
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First off, performance anxiety isn't a mental illness and it's also not uncommon. It all comes down to you allowing yourself to relax and enjoy the moment. I know that sounds dumb but it is absolutely true. I went soft the first COUPLE of times with my girlfriend so I know how you feel. It's a hit to your ego and you think to yourself "wtf is my issue?". Don't get worked up over it. When you get the chance again just relax and enjoy HER. Stop worrying about yourself. When I finally quit worrying…
/r/seduction15/03/17 07:08 PM
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Most people won't even notice and those who do will probably just think "wow, this guy has the balls to approach this girl in front of everyone". I wouldn't worry about people seeing you talk to a bunch of girls either. Unless they are all up in your business and hear you talk to her they'll just think you are friends anyway. One last thing, just like the other guy who replied, even if things go south and everyone sees you bomb it out with some random girl, they won't remember anything besides p…
/r/seduction01/02/17 06:05 AM
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It's really on you and what you want. For myself I was looking just to date, luckily I found an awesome girl but it took some time and I had to weed through a few first. My personal thought though, especially with the field I'm going into when I graduate and the fact that I'm not one to go to bars and parties a lot, I wouldn't have a lot of options when I got out. I also don't want to end up with someone who's got kids or whatever else comes along with age. You've got a crazy selection of girls …
/r/seduction01/02/17 02:23 AM
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I would drop it. Plenty of single girls out there. Even if she wants to, I still think it's fucked up. If the moral aspect doesn't deter you, I would consider that you could end up on her husbands shit list if he finds out and he might come after your ass. Not worth it.
/r/seduction19/01/17 01:26 AM
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That is actually kind of amazing haha. As far as having sex, don't build it up to be more than it actually is. It's fun and a great time but if you put a lot of pressure on yourself you won't enjoy it and it just makes things difficult. Just relax and let things happen. Your first time you are probably gonna finish super fast, won't be able to find the hole, and things will be a little awkward. Let her guide you in, laugh mistakes off and enjoy the ride. Also, WEAR PROTECTION!
/r/seduction29/11/16 01:56 PM
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Being honest with your intentions. After an acceptable amount of time where you won't completely kill everything in the conversation, just casually say something like "Hey, I think you are really pretty/cute/smart/cool etc. Let's go out sometime." If you do something like that it becomes abundantly clear that you are interested in her and her answer to your question will clue you in to how she feels. Also, no, don't just talk to a single girl. I was talking to 3 different girls (including anothe…
/r/seduction29/11/16 11:33 AM
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Are you just having casual conversations or are you actively trying to get dates? I kinda had this issue for a while when I first joined this sub. I would talk to a lot of girls but not really be forward with my intentions and nothing would come out of it. Things changed for me when I decided to be more forward. I talked to my current girlfriend a handful of times over the span of a week or two (we were in the same classes) so she would get comfortable with me and I got her number. I texted a li…
/r/seduction29/11/16 06:37 AM
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If a teacher lets things even escalate to that point in the first place then they should be fired.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/08/16 12:33 PM
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I always keep everything sort of funny and light. I'll say something like "Hey, can you hold this for me?" And then just stick out my hand. It typically makes them laugh and they'll hold your hand. I'm not really one to just beat around the bush by just ever so slightly working my way up to doing it. So this way makes it funny and casual while getting straight to the point. When putting my arm around a girl, I just do it. If you are sitting close enough that you two are touching then she probabl…
/r/seduction20/03/16 02:53 PM
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That's a good example, thanks! My situation with this girl has changed however. I got her number 3 days ago, the first and second day she was responding immediately, however the conversations were rather short. No texting yesterday, and when I texted her this morning she read it but won't answer. It's kind of funny. I was going to see if I could call her to meet up tomorrow but if she won't respond today I'll just drop the issue. There is another girl I've been talking to in class that I know li…
/r/seduction13/02/16 03:38 PM
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I hate reading about shit like this. What kind of bullshit laws are absolutely fucking this guys life up? It is completely unfair to him.
/r/MensRights31/01/15 03:44 PM
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I was in the exact same position when I started last semester. I used to be super anti-social, but it is honestly super easy to break that at college. You will notice in classes, especially the first few days, nobody wants to talk. Use this as a chance to just break the silence and make some friends. You will look confident for talking first even though you are just breaking the silence. So just go for it, talk to everyone and make friends!
/r/seduction20/01/15 09:48 AM
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I need to get that feeling. I think I have a problem with being apathetic. Sometimes I feel like if I died right now I wouldn't even give a fuck, it's not like I'm suicidal, it's just a lack of giving a shit. I need to consider this more though. On a brighter note I'm making more progress with my game :D
/r/seduction14/01/15 03:37 PM
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What I do is try to look my best before going out. I may not look like a perfect model or anything close, but it's my best. Then for the approaching I go into an almost autopilot like mind frame. I'm nervous as hell, I want to back out, but my legs keep going. The scariest part is the initial conversation, but just keep talking. Then you realize, this isn't all that bad. She's not immediately putting you down for talking to her, and if she does who gives a shit. She's just a random person so who…
/r/seduction15/11/14 05:28 PM
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I'm new to this sub, and had no clue what oneitis is even though it is tossed around a lot. I just realized I have it sooo bad.
/r/seduction24/04/14 04:55 PM
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You are absolutely right, thanks man!
/r/seduction24/04/14 03:24 PM
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Thanks for the reply man! I made this post thinking of one girl I like in particular, I only see her at school and I've known her for a while but we aren't close, which makes it hard for me to escalate, or at least it makes me more nervous. I find it hard to strike up a conversation and move it forward away from school.
/r/seduction24/04/14 10:58 AM
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Thank you for your advice
/r/seduction23/04/14 02:57 PM
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I guess so, I'm also just really not sure how to bring it up or approach this type of situation, what do you even say in the middle of a typical conversation to change it to be more intimate?
/r/seduction23/04/14 03:57 AM
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