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| 4 | Fantastic cognitive dissonance - "Owen from RSD destroys a chode" - (4 mins)I've always loved this video. He shut him down through fucking education and personal reflection. It's just the ultimate badass way. | /r/seduction | 08/11/14 09:52 AM |
| 48 | How? Step-by-step. How To Be More Confident Quickly?Grow hair between them to make them one. It's always super sexy. | /r/seduction | 29/10/14 05:42 PM |
| 3 | hi im new a this community and i need your help :C badlyWhether or not the spelling of "lenguaje" there was intentional or not, that gave me a nice laugh. It's juxtaposed so nicely | /r/seduction | 22/10/14 03:58 PM |
| 2 | [Question] What are some simple body language tips/hacks/habits you've developed for flirting and dating?It's one of those things where people who are aware that this is so powerful tend to find it off putting. Most people don't explicitly know this, so you're fine. It also takes determination to dislike someone for doing so, and people won't put in the effort for that. | /r/seduction | 22/10/14 03:48 PM |
| 5 | Snapchat - what is/isn't it good for? [College]Oh God yes. 40 duckfaces later... | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 06:18 PM |
| 8 | What's your routine once you brought the girl home?You really shouldn't be making it through the movie man. | /r/seduction | 25/09/13 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Calling chicks "dude".I say dude/bro all the time to women. Recently I got a "you're brozoning me and I'm not okay with it," which I found kind of humorous, but I guess it takes away any ideas they have of possibly being the one to start a "pure friendship" | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 03:22 PM |
| 2 | When going for a #-close, how do you phrase it?If I'm initiating, I take their's. | /r/seduction | 28/08/13 07:41 AM |
| 14 | This Will Change Your Life."Don't worry about how you're going to achieve your goal, let a higher power take care of that." It's really, really bad advice. The rest is okay, but the religion and responsibility-loss is strong with this one. | /r/seduction | 28/08/13 02:54 AM |
| 6 | Maslow's ParadoxMaslow's hierarchy has been proven to be complete bullshit over and over again. | /r/seduction | 26/08/13 03:21 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/19/13Not weird to go alone. You'll meet people at bars/work/elsewhere. Try fucking women and not your video games. Women feel so much better. | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 09:43 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/19/13"Hey! You're cute!" Just stroke the ego a bit and you're good to go. | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 09:42 AM |
| 1 | [Question] Is it a good idea to ask a girl I've been acquainted with for a while to hang out? (Details in text)Do it. No excuses. | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 01:59 AM |
| 5 | Seddit, how do you respond to a bitchy insult?"Thanks" I've got a big forehead too bud. I can't see it as an insult though, considering we're in a small minority of awesome foreheads. | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 01:57 AM |
| 15 | Going to my second year of university, didn't socialize in the firstUhh.. Thousands of freshmen bro. Go get 'em. | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Maintain your composure!!I smoothly spilled my drink all over her. Go look up the Pratfall Effect buddy. You only made yourself look even better. | /r/seduction | 22/08/13 11:08 PM |
| 1 | "The man of many skills and studies will always have spectacular advantages" [NSFW-ish]The NSFW-ish was a nice touch to get some of us to read it. It's 150% SFW | /r/seduction | 22/08/13 01:10 AM |
| 3 | How can I go about enlarging my social circle, when I have very few and polarized people currently in it.People have cliques in college/Uni? | /r/seduction | 21/08/13 02:55 AM |
| 1 | I can't approach girls, and thats my problem...Go read up on inner game. You need to learn to build confidence, or at least fake it. | /r/seduction | 21/08/13 02:53 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with "Am I Fat" etc. questions?Ignore it. "You look fine." That's just me, though. I don't like that kind of behavior, so I just don't put up with it. | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 05:17 AM |
| 0 | How to deal with "You guys should get together" comments...Maybe for some people, but it hasn't ever had a negative impact for me. | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 05:16 AM |
| -6 | How to deal with "You guys should get together" comments...Go for the kiss, then follow it up with a good "I could see it", | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 03:34 AM |
| 2 | [FR] #-close, K-close, cockblocked by girl's brotherI think it's a polydimensional time-fabric thing. | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 03:30 AM |
| 5 | How to deal with "Am I Fat" etc. questions?"You look fine." Say it once. Only once. Don't let her phish for compliments and "confidence". | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Didnt get much love in /r/AdviceAnimals as a confession bear so Im dropping it here. But this technique works wonders.Go fake Down's and say the same thing, bro. | /r/seduction | 18/08/13 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Didnt get much love in /r/AdviceAnimals as a confession bear so Im dropping it here. But this technique works wonders.Faking a mental disease for your advantage is kind of low, bro. | /r/seduction | 18/08/13 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Being called aggressive/forward"Your actions are yelling it ;D" | /r/seduction | 17/08/13 01:03 AM |
| 7 | Anyone have any FR's from music festivals like Coachella or Burning Man?Share drugs and have orgies. | /r/seduction | 15/08/13 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Flaked on a girl I haven't seen in months to write this [FR], and i feel GREAT. (long and worth it)If you're flaking and anticipating a joyous moment towards her reaction, you clearly care a lot about getting vengeance. Not cool with the flaking either. Don't be a dick. | /r/seduction | 15/08/13 02:41 AM |
| 2 | What's the deal with LMR?Women don't want to seem like sluts/whores because their friends may give them shit about it, or they grew up with a certain set of morals that haven't been examined or altered yet. Re-affirm that they are what they want to be, and tell them you wouldn't do anything that would make them super uncomfortable, but keep escalating. "We're just having fun and I think you're a really good girl and it's driving me crazy." If they can find a reason to justify their behaviour, they'll be down. | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone else as picky as I am when it comes to committing to a monogamous relationship?But...she doesn't like to paint her nails. Buddy, buddy. Don't let your ego get to your head. Nobody is going to be "perfect" enough for you if these little quirks are setting you off of being with people who seem to be fantastic for you. I don't know what the real mental situation is, but you need to take a step back and evaluate the situation. | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Heading on a Bus trip to Canada, hoping to game.a blast of bad weather and flat landscapes. I'm so sorry, bud. Really though, you're never going to see these girls again. Ever. It's your time to be truly 100% whoever you want to be. | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 02:02 AM |
| 1 | A sample conversation of picking up girls?Whats a good sample conversation of someone going up to a girl? Go sit somewhere in public for like one hour and you'll hear over 200 conversation "samples". It can literally be anything... "Man, I can't believe the weather somehow got colder than my heart." "Hey, how are you?" "Oh my God your dog is so cute, does he/she have an SO?" "Do you find me attractive?" "Hey, I'm kind of a big deal on the internet." "You're adorable and I'm bored. Sup?" | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 02:01 AM |
| 2 | [FR] One night stand with a hot blonde, long report that talks about our experiences and how the day progressed to sexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxThere's no asshole game here bud. No need for the preamble. All in all, congratulations. | /r/seduction | 13/08/13 03:15 AM |
| 10 | Hired Gun (Very long)All right. So after reading this, taking a break, and reading it yet again. I've come to a conclusion. You're just an asshole, really. Even if by some miracle she wanted to sleep with you, she'd be out first thing in the morning because you're just a radiating asshole. EDIT: I get the comments people. It's not constructive, but it wasn't meant to be. There's a difference between playing a good "game" on someone and just being a dick. Calm down. If you want constructive crticism, "don't do that" … | /r/seduction | 12/08/13 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Hired Gun (Very long)That's much better! Thanks :) | /r/seduction | 12/08/13 05:43 AM |
| 3 | Hired Gun (Very long)Paragraphs would be lovely. Enter twice between lines to do so. | /r/seduction | 12/08/13 05:40 AM |
| 0 | Someone give me a part to play when trying to seduce a womanDouble Agent can be a fun twist. Do as much as you possibly can get away with using as few words as possible. Serial Killer on the run-away works too. Being mysterious and giving off the vibe that you have something very important being hidden away. Mickey Mouse. Just for the voice. | /r/seduction | 12/08/13 04:28 AM |
| 8 | what is the difference between beta and nice?female asks you to hold your bag the alpha response is not to hold it and the beta response is to The beta response is to take the bag and hold it for her. The alpha response is to take that bag/purse/whatever and work it like a champ. Make it seem like you were meant to wear it and own it. Really, it's just about being confident and humorous. If she's been a bitch to you all night, then you don't hold it. If she's treated you well in the evening, you hold it. It's about not taking shit if you'r… | /r/seduction | 12/08/13 04:25 AM |
| 25 | "What are you up to tonight?" "Depends haha" wtf?"Depends haha." Let me expand on what she actually meant. "I don't know. What are we doing tonight? haha." | /r/seduction | 11/08/13 08:45 PM |
| 5 | Advice for a guy who's now comfortable with one on one, but needs help in group interactions?Practice! I'm the same way, but if you're not comfortable taking a lead role, you can still be alpha as a support role. If its a group with another guy, you're in luck. Become his #1 fanboy and never one-up him, but get close. Support thoughts in the group and joke with everyone given the opportunity. A man who speaks very little will have a lot of power with the few words he speaks if you're present and confident. | /r/seduction | 11/08/13 07:05 AM |
| 1 | I can talk face to face just fine, but as soon as it turns to text, I can't keep the conversation going/ interesting. Any tips?"I don't really text, but we can get together at _____ on _____." Or just say whatever comes to mind. Texting kills a lot of mystery. | /r/seduction | 11/08/13 07:03 AM |
| 1 | This is another idea to the number game where you guess between 1-10"Guess a number between 1-10." If this is your method, then go for it. Personally, this shit annoys me when it's talked about in a Psychology lecture, whether it's on the street, whether it's from the mouth of a five year old, or even if it's a fun game somebody's trying to do to me. Everyone hears this throughout their whole life and it doesn't offer anything exciting at all. Try to do something a little bit more creative. Have it be something physical, or something that actually entertains you… | /r/seduction | 11/08/13 12:34 AM |
| 20 | How does one start a social circle of hot girls from nothing?Do you know how to make friends? I may seem like a jackass asking this question, but it's really all you need to know. If you have at least one friend, they'll have another friend that you can probably meet and go out with. That friend will have friends, and those friends will have more friends. Eventually, after you keep bridging gaps, you'll have a large arsenal of friends, both that started from your first friend, and those you've met while you were out at bars, minigolf, bowling, or whatever… | /r/seduction | 11/08/13 12:29 AM |
| 7 | Coffee vs drinks for first datesIf it's in the morning or the middle of the afternoon, it might make sense to get coffee. If it's in the evening, maybe it makes sense to get drinks. If you want drinks in the afternoon, get drinks. If you want coffee in the evening, get coffee. It doesn't matter, bro. Just do what you're more comfortable with, or what you're more interested in. | /r/seduction | 11/08/13 12:22 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First Day 2 k-close, and how Important it is to give REAL, thoughtful compliments.Some people won't be a fan of this FR, but I like it. You did what so many people on this subreddit don't understand. Just be real. People's true intentions are really easy to see, and although you may have had intentions way in the back of your mind, you had a genuinely good time with her and were genuinely impressed with what you saw. Great job! You're a different class of natural and you seem like the type of person who is already at the point of being able to maintain real, personal interest… | /r/seduction | 11/08/13 12:14 AM |
| 1 | This Craigslist Missed Connection really captures the feeling of not being able to approach.I don't think I've ever been emotionally paralyzed like that before. That was a really weird feeling, reading that. It was both sad, fear, and disappointment. | /r/seduction | 10/08/13 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Seddit Texting Pr0 Tip: Use Private InboxTurn off your phone if you're going to fuck. It's really that simple. | /r/seduction | 05/03/13 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Conversation getting stale? Go out on a limb with a little abrupt honesty and it may pay off better than you'd think.This post must have been made while drunk- it makes no sense. | /r/seduction | 05/03/13 08:31 PM |
| 1 | [FR] A direct approach I did today on an HB9.5 that I was really proud of, and why it went well.I can confirm this. If you like grumpy Asian ladies that can't speak English, you might be in luck though. | /r/seduction | 05/03/13 08:30 PM |
| -4 | Games to playMake 'em up on your own. Incorporate touch and teasing... It's really about being yourself and being creative. It we supply you with game, you're really not on the way to being a natural, fun, interesting human being. | /r/seduction | 05/03/13 08:28 PM |
| 19 | A good exercise for those with AA: high-five a stranger! You'll learn that the energy you put out is the energy you get back!Absolutely. Momentum is a wonderful thing. Energy builds off itself. | /r/seduction | 05/03/13 08:26 PM |
| 7 | What to doStop being paranoid. She said yes so there's some interest in you. Just assume shes into you and treat it as such or you'll lose her from paranoia. | /r/seduction | 05/03/13 08:24 PM |
| 5 | Had sex on the 2nd date.Things got worse, walked away. Need your guys Opinion on this (feel like drowning)No, do it now you idiot. Get all the Pick Up shit out of your head right now and do what you want. This is the problem with the PUA community. They learn all this shit and act like assholes because they don't realize everything here is just a bunch of guidelines used to help total noobies. If you're confident in yourself, then do what you want because you'll be successful naturally. | /r/seduction | 12/02/13 11:25 PM |
| 7 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)Oh, I only got a half chub. I read too quickly. | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 06:13 AM |
| 3 | How do/did you guys kick oneitis to the curb for good?"Practice" with other girls until you're confident that you can take control of the one you want. By the time you're ready, you won't even be interested. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 07:42 AM |
| 8 | I can get the K closes but I can't get laid!I can't help but tell you that you have may have inadvertently raped someone in the past. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 05:30 AM |
| 10 | How do I not care about whether I fail or not?You didn't fail. You successfully got a number and you had a good time doing it. You just happened to get some women that are too bitchy to text you back. You don't fail unless you don't try. Everything, even if it's a blowout later, is a success. It's the women that fail or succeed. | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Just another reason to look forward to getting shut outThis is how bullies are created in school. You didn't learn from your failures, you assumed they had power, and now that you "have power" you dish out the same shit they did. When in reality, they were social assholes. | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 03:24 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Out at my favorite dance locationYour TL;DR doesn't even mention anything that happened in the story. TL;DRs recap the entire post in like 2 sentences.... | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Hot girl driving in the lane next to me, how do i pick her up?You want the golden key to this? Basically, you want to get behind her lane and rear end her. From there, you can go on to the side-roads, and while you're exchanging insurance information you can hit on her. Or you can not be a fucking idiot and realize that while driving in traffic is NOT a time to pick up chicks. | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Ok what exactly would a girl like this be rated?That second blond chick... her face.. is so... bad... | /r/seduction | 12/08/11 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Where to go for more "advanced" strategies?But there aren't "Advanced Techniques". His complaints are similar to the intelligent asian kid in every classroom. Tell him to recite something from a book and he's fine, but show him a question where he needs to APPLY and TEST things from old content and he doesn't have a clue what to do with it. There's no guide to all this specific, "Advanced" stuff, it's called being a human and understanding life. | /r/seduction | 11/08/11 12:01 AM |
| 0 | Where to go for more "advanced" strategies?By "Advanced Strategies", it sounds like you're looking for an easier way to win over a girl. Truth is, the basic strategies are the ones that you need. You need to use the basics to slowly learn how to be naturally attractive. Once you're there, you shouldn't need tips any more. This is real life. Real life has no cheat codes; everything requires practice. Pick-Up has no graphing calculator to solve all the roots and min/max for you. It's all practice and inner game. | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 09:49 PM |
| 1 | What does Seddit think about Simple Pickup?In all honesty, it takes about 20 minutes of reading Pick-Up material to be able to relay it easily. | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 08:16 PM |
| 1 | What does Seddit think about Simple Pickup?It's as simple as them saying something stupid, then saying "Hey, we film YouTube videos so could you just give us a fake number for our videos?" and then edit that part out. | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 02:15 AM |
| 2 | What does Seddit think about Simple Pickup?I don't understand the white guy at all. When he speaks he sounds totally socially awkward and shows no emotion what-so-ever. | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Got a girls number couple months back, did I too long to get in contact with her?Way too long bro. | /r/seduction | 09/08/11 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Make your life INTERESTING!!!I would suggest every male over the age of 21 (US) or 19 (Canada) to take a Bartending course. It's something that can very easily spark a conversation and women will take interest in. It's a great gateway to meet people and START something. Other than that, find yourself a couple hobbies etc. With friends comes opportunities to do things you've never done before. Maybe try a new passion with somebody else! | /r/seduction | 06/08/11 06:42 AM |
| 1 | ImKumarYo "Challenge Accepted", now my field reports will be numbered....like this [FR1]Hey man! Don't need to start flirting right away. Better to master the art of conversation and once you're comfortable you'll start doing it naturally. Although I would suggest moving away from the interview-style conversations as soon as possible. "Excuse me, do you mind if I sit here?" "So are you a student here, or do you work here?" Eventually this will develop as you do (with of course a cocky/funny smirk) "Ah, you've got quite the nerve to be sitting at my table. Ah well, I guess I'll let … | /r/seduction | 06/08/11 06:40 AM |
| 1 | [fr] k-close thanks to asking "rude" questionThat's an amazing-fucking-line. You ain't no AFC bro. Keep it up. It was hilarious to me and I'm just READING it. | /r/seduction | 06/08/11 06:34 AM |
| 2 | [Half-FR] Failure to escalateYou exchanged a few lines while she was doing work. It's the time of year and she probably asked because THAT'S WHAT REGULAR PEOPLE DO. It's impossible to tell if she's interested. Just go back and talk to her if you're interested in her. | /r/seduction | 03/08/11 10:40 PM |
| 5 | Girl with boyfriend (3years) being unusually forward and flirtatious!?Depends if you're actually interested in her. If you really couldn't care less and just want to have some fun, just don't mention anything and proceed with whatever you're going to do. If you really are interested, tell her straight up that nothing crazy is going down while she has a boyfriend. Ultimatum baby. | /r/seduction | 03/08/11 07:27 AM |
| 1 | FR- Club in JerseyJust grab their hands and go dance man. None of this asking shit in a club. Club game is completely different, it's almost 100% actions. | /r/seduction | 01/08/11 07:24 AM |
| 13 | [FR] A beautiful night: girl asks me for directions on the street at 5pm. Hang out till 4am.It sounds pretty clear like she wasn't interested in you but you just kept pushing and pushing. She made some pretty clear hints. | /r/seduction | 31/07/11 11:57 PM |
| 1 | I need help with approaching girls in public.Of course the goal isn't going to leave your head, but it's a mindset that won't make it seem like you're only there to get in her pants. AFCs/Newbies tend to come across as their mindset when they first start until they get more comfortable. People are easy to read, this just helps cover it up. | /r/seduction | 31/07/11 06:22 PM |
| 2 | I need help with approaching girls in public.I'm sure it could work! Of course presentation is key. The reason this attitude works is because you're not attempting to prove yourself worthy of her, it's the opposite way around. =] | /r/seduction | 31/07/11 01:21 AM |
| 17 | I need help with approaching girls in public.You can either take this advice and reap success, or you can ignore me and tell me it's not irrelevent. However, the easiest way to approach people in public is to have this mindset. "I'm bored and I need someone to entertain me." Don't go talk to a girl with the sole intent of getting her number, as women can read it all the time. You talk to her because you're bored (she probably is too if she's alone) and just want to be entertained. If there are friends around, you can still go in with the s… | /r/seduction | 30/07/11 11:50 PM |
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