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They had a fantastic date and were kissing really passionately at the end. It would be telling to know if the girl agrees with this assessment.
/r/seduction27/12/18 12:12 PM
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For sure. But I'm trying to help though. He didn't kill it by saying " awe you shy?" If they had a good date and she was attracted to him and had a good time, there's simply no way "awe shy" killed it. She didn't like him and there's next to nothing that he might have cleverly said through text message that would have turned it around. Grasping this will help you progress in dating significantly.
/r/seduction27/12/18 04:39 AM
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Which comment are you replying to?
/r/seduction27/12/18 01:29 AM
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said his comment made her block him. She doesn't like him. He could have phrased his comment in dozens of different ways and she would have blocked him. You either get this or you don't.
/r/seduction27/12/18 01:28 AM
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This pic right here was sent to me by one of my Skype coaching clients. He basically messaged a girl to say he had a great time with her and got no response. Then he said ‘Aww your shy.’ and she blocked him which shocked the hell out of him but didn’t surprise me at all. When he said ‘Aww your shy.’ she could have either assumed he was just messing around or she could have thought he was trying to take the piss out of her, but she opted for the least positive option and blocked him. This is basi…
/r/seduction24/12/18 02:54 PM
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they’re usually actively trying to find something wrong with you so they can drop you and move on I've always said that girls are looking for a reason to reject a guy, while guys are looking for a reason to accept a girl. Girl:"Yeah, he's got a good job, and pretty handsome, and smart but he's not that tall" Guy: "Yeah, she's not the prettiest and could be brighter but dat ass!"
/r/seduction24/12/18 02:48 PM
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It's a conservative site..but I misspoke..the conservative site was writing about the feminist.
/r/MensRights24/12/18 02:30 PM
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The National Review is a consercative newsletter. I think this may be parody.
/r/MensRights24/12/18 03:37 AM
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Is it parody? Writer is from National Review.
/r/MensRights24/12/18 03:36 AM
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I fundamentally disagree that broke autistic losers would have an abundance of quality women available to them unless they are attractive. At least in the US
/r/seduction28/11/18 06:19 PM
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can you point to a specific idea you think is a belief you don't agree with from what I've written?
/r/seduction28/11/18 06:18 PM
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Reworded and cleaned things up for clarity. I don't think any of my statements are rooted in feelings or personal beliefs and instead reflect objective truth of the situation.
/r/seduction27/11/18 09:02 PM
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The answer to that may lie in how much delusion your are willing to accept in your world view.
/r/seduction27/11/18 08:54 PM
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This mindset WILL give you the best shot but that doesn't change that it may be delusional. It reminds me of a quote..."studies have shown that optimist are more successful but pessimist have a more accurate view of reality"
/r/seduction27/11/18 07:50 PM
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There's no feeling here. This is simply a fact you can choose to accept or you can delude yourself. Are you saying 100% of men can be top dog alphas? "We can't all be alphas". But I"m not referring to myself here. I rocked it in my hay day and have been top tier..but have mostly settled down these days as I get older and have focused on work. But the point is not ALL men are gonna kill it..this advice will work for some but the bottom tier will remain bottom tier.
/r/seduction27/11/18 07:46 PM
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The problem with this type of thinking is that for roughly 80% of the population, it's simply delusional. If you are a top tier guy, you can have an abundance mentality because you may truly have abundant choices. But the reality is that in the West, women are pickier than ever and this does not translate to an abundance of choices for men in the bottom 80 percentile. Biologically speaking, women are the ones choosing mates and the gatekeepers of sex. The gates open for top tier men, but deludin…
/r/seduction27/11/18 05:07 PM
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Oh I used to frequent this site often to open myself to a variety of different mindsets so my account isn't new. Now I've just got a bit more free time since my hospital release and I'm waiting for my beloved Courtney to return from travel abroad. She's currently in Africa doing mission work. I imagine she'll have some suprises when she returns. I see she's created a new folder in her cloud based photo backups but unfortunately it's privacy protected. But it sounds like she may be doing some pho…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 12:39 PM
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What you're describing as flirting and being approached may be simple socializing behavior. Don't misconstrue men's actions of buying drinks for a women to be a sexual advance. It's just the generally accepted social strategy to show a little reverence and engage a lady or ladies in polite social conversation. My girlfriend is a very socially outgoing and egregious young lady. Her friendly demeanor and knack for telling a quick upbeat joke actually acts as a nice frugal advantage as she can freq…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 01:13 PM
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This girl is simply exploring a fetish, while throwing a dude under a bus. Nothing else. I applaud her right to explore her sexuality and see where it may take her. This is a coming of age event for her and it's bringing growth, maturity, sexual exploration and discovery of her sexual identity and her true self. The flower is blossoming and we should marvel at getting the chance to witness this through her art performances. I didn't see the bus scene.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 01:01 PM
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Wow. I've got to say we as a society are definitely making progress in many ways but I've got some criticisms for this feminism for bros vid. While we are certainly on the right track there are a few glaring behaviors that I think highlight room for growth and improvement. Grammatically speaking, he's saying "Can I". Of course we know he probably can but to make the request clear and free of obfuscation, we should be using the more grammatically correct, "May I". This would provide emphasis on t…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 07:03 AM
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I can't upvote this enough.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:34 AM
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She can't do the physical shit then stop the result with a story. That's called sexual molestation. wtf
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 01:21 PM
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That was your cue to be the next guy that uses her.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 01:19 PM
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Most girls I know tell every guy they meet they slept with 3-6 guys Why is this bad? I think most girls I've ever met, say they have had sex with 3 guys. It might just be the average number of guys that women sleep with. And for those of you that are in an LTR, how do you accurately find out about a girl's past? Well you can just assume it's the average 3 or you can consider that she might be more liberated and have gone through some self discovery journey and allowed herself more sexual freedom…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 09:59 PM
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This isn't so uncommon actually. Lawyers are generally pretty helpful people and don't mind going the extra mile to help out a client or potential client. Lawyers also work killer hours so it can be difficult to set up a time when they aren't tied down with responsibilities from their firm. Prior to my girlfriend Cortney and I leaving for our recent trip abroad, a lawyer friend of Cortney's offered to go over the visa paperwork for free. He's a good hard working man and only was able to make tim…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 10:02 AM
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台灣真的很不錯，人都很親切，我也很喜歡藍色藥丸，他們對身體很好_^
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 04:27 PM
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Cortney wants to travel the world so freed up from the responsibilities of my corporate job (emotional breakdown leading to job loss) we decided together to do some traveling abroad. I imagine we'll both learn a lot about life and love as well as cultural differences from our travels. It's different here! Men carry purses! Also, glad to see people taking an interest in my travels/romance and insights :)
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 05:07 AM
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Once a girl starts playing the "you don't trust me" card you may as well end the relationship. Not this. Trust is a very valuable precious thing. But trusting is a job that takes effort and it's an ongoing work in progress. You don't arrive at trust. You continually strive towards it. The trust muscle is like any other muscle. You must work it and develop it or it will atrophy and die. In the past, I've had difficult challenging encounters with trust after my girlfriend Cortney and I suffered th…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 04:03 PM
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Selfishness is not the way to a successful loving relationship. You need to give of yourself to the woman that chooses you. I would turn heaven up and down for my beloved Cortney. I would travel around the world to show her my love. As a matter of fact she has expressed to me a desire to travel the world and as such we've packed our bags and headed overseas to Asia.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 04:15 PM
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On Thursday, she told me she thinks it'd be a good idea to give her a day or two to think about things, essentially taking a break. Sometimes this is what a relationship needs. I've been together with my girlfriend Courtney happily for almost three years and every now a then a break is what we need. I'm not so good at recognizing this but Courtney always lets me know if a break is needed. She's very in tune to reading the emotional barometer of our relationship so she sort of controls the timing…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/13 02:44 PM
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This is a sensitive situation. On one hand I think it's great that this guys girlfriend is helping to outreach to troubled community members. This is the type of rehabilitation that can help bring a guy back on the right path. I hope OP can strengthen his trust muscle and let their special penpal friendship blossom. I've had an experience similar to this in the past. My girlfriend has a healthy plantonic friendship with a man convicted of a few nonviolent crimes including facilitation of prostit…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/13 06:43 AM
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This reminds me of a relationship defining incident with my girlfriend Cortney and I. We were out drinking and having a good old time with a couple of new guy friends Cortney had made and we all had a bit too much. Our gracious hosts seeing us in such rare form offered us quarter that night. Cortney and I gladly accepted an offer for a nightcap at Jason's apartment and we cabbed it back. A few more drinks were had before we retired to a guest room. Cortney was feeling quite hot so she disrobed a…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 07:33 PM
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It depends on what language you want to/are willing to learn. I can say great things about Asia (Japan, China, Taiwan, Philipines) I've heard lots about Eastern Europe and also South America. Fuck..basically just get out of the US. It's a wasteland there.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/13 08:47 AM
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Getting away from English speaking places gets you the furthest away from feminism.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/13 06:53 PM
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If we take a step back we might want to refocus on what our goals are as men and what can be gained from all these labels. Blue pills, red pills, purple pills etc. I say no pills. I say let's come together as men and take a good hard look at the current zeitgeist and address our concerns in a judgement free environment and think about what it is we want. It seems to me the problem stems from so many of today's men having a weak trust muscle. Many of us treasure our wives and girlfriends so much …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/13 06:02 PM
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It's interesting that if you travel overseas you don't see this. Men outside of the U.S. aren't generally assumed to be molesters and as such they are more likely to be teachers or show natural normal affection to children in public.
/r/MensRights01/04/13 10:50 AM
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My good sir, please allow me to clarify as I don't want to misconstrue my meaning. My writing may be suffering from a lack of formal training and as such it's possible I'm not finding success at my attempts to convey my thoughts. I did not mean to imply that I had in my possession a pillow capable of the gift of speech (although the idea of an anthropomorphized talking pillow does have a bit of a Disneyesque charm that is an entertaining thought). Instead I was alluding to one of the sessions Co…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/13 04:08 AM
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He is no doubt going through some hurt but it's important to respect a woman's right to be free and grow as a person. It would be a terrible social crime to restrict this woman from developing important male friendships in life. She's not a piece of property. She's a human being with a right to make a multitude of important friendships in her life. The fiance is exploring her identity and perhaps going through a period of sexual self discovery and actualization. This is an exciting ride and she …
/r/TheRedPill29/03/13 03:37 AM
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I see no reason to chastise her for developing special male friendships while exploring her sexuality. You can't put a woman in a cage. Let the optimist inside see this as an opportunity to flex the trust muscle and strengthen the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/13 05:52 PM
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I think if you look at a lot of the big players in rap at least, they had a father that was absent. (Jay Z, Tupac,)
/r/seduction23/11/12 01:52 AM
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It's time for you to put on your confidence hat and approach him like a man. If you show outward signs of aggression, he will see it as the showboating move that it is. See if you can get his phone number (ask your girl) and text him to determine his availability. If you both have access to a modern sms style client like LINE or What's App, you can diffuse the situation with a friendly emoticon. There's one with a teddy bear that looks a bit frustrated. But use your own judgement. Set up a time …
/r/seduction23/11/12 01:36 AM
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Take it slow. Develop a friendship first and nurture it, giving it time to grow and blossom. There is no rush to get physical.
/r/seduction16/08/12 05:50 PM
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If she was good, don't be afraid to hit her with the Trio. (Roses, chocolate, and a gift). In my opinion the very existence of this subreddit is explained by men's continued failure to wow women and excel in the manly art of chivalry. A reasonable question to ask is why did the two of you go downtown to get breakfast together when you could have gotten up early and made her breakfast or at least went downtown on your own and brought breakfast to her in bed. This might have allowed time for her t…
/r/seduction16/08/12 05:48 PM
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And South American and Asian
/r/seduction16/08/12 02:56 PM
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I was attempting to convey state accurately and also go over my methods of getting into state. In this case my state peaked (with a bit of hysterical euphoria and then crashed.). I miss might try incorporating 5 hour energy next time. But thanks Ill focus on interaction more next time.
/r/seduction16/08/12 02:55 PM
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much easier to leave the country. Women in the US are TERRIBLE.
/r/seduction16/08/12 10:00 AM
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Believe it or not I have found a marginal amount of success spitting to girls at Radio Shack. It's a special type of girl that is in a Radio Shack. I try to assist her with any electronic needs before I get cock blocked by the store help. If I can work in a joke about vibrators I do so casually.
/r/seduction16/08/12 09:49 AM
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The type of coffee is irrelevant. Supplement Caribou if you want.
/r/seduction16/08/12 09:44 AM
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No more than 3 texts to her 1.
/r/seduction16/08/12 09:43 AM
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Last weekend I crashed a party that was on the way to a bar that me and by buddy frequent. I was grabbing a drink in the kitchen when I saw a short curly haired blonde HB4 struggling to use the corkscrew to open a bottle of wine. I made a crack about her needing to work on her screwing technique. She gave me a smile that might not have been sincere but she definitely perched her lips in a sexy fashion. But this initial interaction got me going. I winged for my buddy shortly after and got some ki…
/r/seduction16/08/12 09:42 AM
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You should text her back that if she'll be your personal shoe shopper, you can be her personal shoe buyer.
/r/seduction16/08/12 09:36 AM
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body language.
/r/seduction27/05/12 09:04 PM
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They just like you for your unicorn.
/r/seduction23/07/10 08:49 PM
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I actually wasn't trolling. Guess I should have used real account.
/r/seduction23/07/10 08:39 PM
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Women are more valuable then men from a biological evolutionary perspective. Women possess the ever precious womb which can only birth once every 9 months. This necessitates that they be more selective. Which more or less forces men to compete for the womb. Sperm is a dime a dozen. Only the true alpha male can compare to woman in terms of value. The true betas are dispensable biologically speaking..good for bodies in an army or to make the alphas rich.
/r/seduction23/07/10 08:37 PM
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Just curious if you'd like to share any experiences with social faux pas.
/r/seduction23/07/10 08:22 PM
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Do you think girls can't tell an alpha from some guy trying to emulate an alpha?
/r/seduction23/07/10 08:20 PM
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Lindsey Slaughter.
/r/seduction23/07/10 06:08 PM
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If the overall experience doesn't come across as flirting then you're mostly just insulting them. That's not how negging is supposed to work.
/r/seduction23/07/10 06:08 PM
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Tru dat.
/r/seduction23/07/10 12:39 PM
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I TRIed.
/r/seduction23/07/10 08:52 AM
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It's not needed. At all. What game can an ugly girl run that would capture your interest? And if a girls is truly hot WTF does she need to do other than not be an idiot?
/r/seduction23/07/10 06:47 AM
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That happens to me frequently. I guess girls have a lot of maintenance to do with wedding rings. I can't count the times I'll hit on a girl with NO RING and then she tells me she's married or engaged. sigh...
/r/seduction19/07/10 07:10 PM
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Have I been promoted or something?
/r/seduction14/07/10 03:57 AM
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You can always frame it as a permission question too. "May I please kiss you?"
/r/seduction02/07/10 02:38 AM
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So basically she should have said, of ALL the men here, 50% of them are datable. But of the datable ones half already have boyfriends. This means 25% of the population of men are available.
/r/seduction24/06/10 04:36 AM
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The math on this is wrong. (of the men).. "there are maybe 20 percent that we would consider, and out of those 20, 10 have girlfriends, so all the girls are fighting over that other 10 percent,” she said. So out of all the men, there are 20% they would consider. (or 1 out of 5). If 10% of them have girlfriends that means that 90% of the elite group are still available. This was worded poorly. If she means 10% of the whole pupulation then that is still 25% of the population of men available. That…
/r/seduction23/06/10 04:04 AM
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Is there any chance that the girl that just got out of a relationship and is getting coffee with you tomorrow has short brown hair and goes by the name of Keri? If so you might want to consider the possibility that she might be in love with a guy that has been in love with her for 3 years now and has been stuck in friend mode the whole time. Perhaps he's been waiting all this time for their eminent break up and now when he finally has his chance she's getting coffee with some other guy with god …
/r/seduction23/06/10 03:54 AM
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The hot ones scare off VERY easily. They know that most guys are just wanting to get into their pants and they are sick of being approached for the purpose of sex. Present yourself in a way that makes her almost subconsciously ignorant of the fact that you are a man. I'm not saying that you necessary want to act feminine but perhaps androgynous or asexual will help her drop her guard. If she showed up for your date that's a huge plus. From there I hope that you played the role of a good supporti…
/r/seduction22/06/10 08:28 PM
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The Trio. Nuff said.
/r/seduction22/06/10 08:16 PM
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http://imgur.com/NJoel
/r/seduction21/06/10 03:19 AM
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I for one actually recommend the sensitivity training lectures. It really opened my eyes to the aggression that women can be subjected to by men on a daily basis. Unwelcome advances, sexual leering, even groping. These classes helped to groom me into the respectable gentleman I am today. I'm proud to say that any girls that go out with me can expect a lovely meal, drinks, a movie, flowers, and if things go well and the woman is consenting a kiss on the cheek. What they can be sure WON'T happen i…
/r/seduction18/06/10 04:40 PM
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Any chance you could give me one of these girl's numbers? Please?
/r/seduction15/06/10 12:25 AM
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TLC's "Ain't too Proud to Beg"
/r/seduction13/06/10 10:19 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I know it wasn't a pick up because I didn't close with her number. I know strippers are supposed to be flirty but I swear this girl really liked me. The eye contact was intense. She was kissing me on the cheeks throughout the lap dance. I'm thinking of going back with my friend and seeing if Mercedes is working tonight as well.
/r/seduction12/06/10 03:50 PM
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tl;dr
/r/seduction11/06/10 07:02 AM
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:o
/r/seduction11/06/10 12:29 AM
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You should always behave towards women in a way that when you walk away you can say to yourself: I held her in high esteem I treated her with the utmost respect I demonstrated my value and what I can do for her I demonstrated the ability to be loyal and dedicated I saw the person and did not see her as a sex object I handed her my business card so there a good chance she might call me. Ethically speaking, I sleep very well at night. (No disrespect to anyone suffering from depression or insomnia.…
/r/seduction10/06/10 10:50 PM
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I wouldn't say you've been wasting your time as long as you're interacting with women and learning from your mistakes. Maybe try to take another look at your interactions and put a positive spin on them. I recently was analyzing some behaviors of a girl I've had a crush on for a long time and I think I'm making progress. We started off as friends because she had a boyfriend at the time we met but he has since broken up with her. She has opened herself up to dating guys again so I saw this as a s…
/r/seduction10/06/10 09:35 PM
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These days it's not too difficult to hook up some recording equipment to your computer and mix and record music into MP3 form. After you've known the girl an appropriate time like a week or so or had at least 1 good date, you could sing and record a love song to her and burn it to a CD. It would make a nice 2nd date gift and you'll certainly demonstrate high value as well as originality. You could write her a personalized love song or record an old favorite. If anyone wants to comment on good so…
/r/seduction10/06/10 07:15 AM
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I can attest to the fact that guys do go out with attractive female friends. I've had many nights out with beautiful woman friends and often I find us in a bar or club at one point of the night. Just because a guy isn't a girl's "boyfriend" don't assume he doesn't have feelings for her. It's hurtful when men approach your female friends and start flirting. Please consider that maybe the guy is working on developing the relationship slowly, one step at a time and that your advances aren't welcome…
/r/seduction10/06/10 03:20 AM
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There's all sorts of things that could have happened. Maybe she lost her phone. Maybe the cell phone company is having problems. Maybe she wants to call you back but something came up and she's planning on calling you tomorrow. Maybe her apartment is in a dead zone so she misses your calls. This thing is much more common than you would think. I would just keep calling.
/r/seduction09/06/10 09:05 PM
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I haven't found a part that isn't difficult.
/r/seduction09/06/10 08:59 PM
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Let's put this argument to rest. Trust me women DON'T crave assholes. I've had plenty of (beautiful) female friends that I've gotten to know very well. We've talked about everything and bonded emotionally to the point that these girls have shared VERY intimate details about their lives. One common denominator about the most attractive of these women is that they DETEST men that are jerks. They've fallen for guys that must have seemed nice initially but once these guys reveal what jerks they are …
/r/seduction09/06/10 08:49 PM
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Asking for a girls number is typically seen as cliche and in some cases as too forward and even threatening. I like to build rapport and then when the moment is right ask her if I can give her my card and encourage her to email me at my compuserve address if she is bored or lonely. This also saves money. I've managed to get by on a 200 minutes a month cell phone package and I've got loads of rollover minutes. I don't even need a texting plan.
/r/seduction08/06/10 11:00 PM
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This was a great PU but I would quickly work on continuing to develop report before she forgets about you. Kick off a game of 20 questions over text to get to know her and try to close with a gchat screenname. If she has video you can do an online first date in a non threatening environment. Just make sure you dress well just as you would a face to face date. You could tease her that she's so cute that you might have to send her some paypal credits for spending her time online with you.
/r/seduction08/06/10 10:55 PM
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It's edgy no doubt. I have another idea I've been toying with, but I haven't field tested yet. The theory behind this, is that women like to be made to feel young and relive the thrill of childhood romance. If you're in a nightclub or bar that is fairly well lit, you could try passing a note. This has the added advantage of being a decent form of communication when clubs can be quite noisy. You could try an old school. "Do you like me" with a check mark. If played correctly it could be seen as p…
/r/seduction08/06/10 10:50 PM
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All this sounds pretty good in theory but I think you need to really think about safety first. Something this agressive could really annoy the women who could have boyfriends that could, in turn, become angered at you. I could see planting as a strategy from a safe distance. I like to identify the target and sit somewhere across from her where I'm in plain view. You can play some eye contact games for a while and if her IOI's are strong enough approach. I typically adhere to the rule of 3's. (Sh…
/r/seduction08/06/10 08:40 PM
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THIS.
/r/seduction08/06/10 08:01 PM
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After hi, I usually give them my business card and start DHV by way of flattering them with some poetry quotes. I don't usually like to give out my canned openers but this one is gold. It's by EE Cummings. "i do not know what it is about you that closes and opens;only something in me understands the voice of your eyes is deeper than all roses nobody,not even the rain,has such small hands" The looks I get are priceless. While they are still mesmerized, I start doing some negging by teasing them o…
/r/seduction08/06/10 12:56 PM
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Why would you not want to be friends? Definitely don't give an ultimatum. You could lose the friendship. Be happy with the friendship and be patient...over time it might evolve into more. Romantic friendships are popular these days. You can do boyfriend stuff like take her out to eat, buy her jewelry but you don't have to fuss with all the complications of stuff like sex or having to worry about if she's seeing other guys. It's also a great way to flex your "trust muscle".
/r/seduction08/06/10 12:42 PM
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Start off as a friend and work your way in. When you spend time with her start doing boyfriend things. Pay for dinner. Bring her gifts. Try to discourage her from being friends with other guys. You can slowly evolve into her boyfriend. The important part I've found is to not move to quickly with anything physical as this is what usually scares the girls away. Sometimes its best to just never cross over into the physical. A lot of girls these days are comfortable with just being "cuddle buddies".…
/r/seduction08/06/10 12:38 PM
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Ads on craigs list simply stating exactly what you want, "bookish/smart" women is a great way to find what you're looking for. It also allows you to build report in a safe non threatening way (email) for a while before you transition to IM, then video chat, and ultimately phone and texting. After you've been talking for a few weeks and you feel report is strong, set up a dinner/movie date. This is when you'll see if there is chemistry. Don't be a chump on the first date, go in with chocolates an…
/r/seduction08/06/10 12:31 PM
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Don't beat yourself up over not kissing her. It's actually good that you didn't kiss her during your magic moment. You don't want to rush things especially if she's "the one". That might have ruined it and I'm sure you'll have many other chances with her if she's a good friend. For now you should be happy she's exploring her relationship with her boyfriend. It's a great chance for you play a supporting role as a friend and learn about how she behaves in a relationship. You can act as somewhat of…
/r/seduction08/06/10 11:47 AM
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Make sure you have plenty of IOI before you approach. You don't want to be a creeper and bother a girl that's not interested in you. Typically what I"ll do is sit somewhere in plain view of my target and try to make eye contact. Look for a smile or eye contact from her. Follow the rule of 3's. Wait for her to look at you 3 times for about 3 seconds each. You might want to engage the bartender at this point, and have him do the approach for you. Tell him to pass a message that "if she's intereste…
/r/seduction08/06/10 11:33 AM
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Some openers: "My god your beautiful. My mom would love it if I could meet a girl like you" "You would look amazing in this dress. If I buy it for you would you get coffee with me?" "If you don't have a boyfriend or aren't seeing anyone, I think we might make a great couple. What's your name?"
/r/seduction08/06/10 11:24 AM
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The best way to get confidence is to ASK for it. If I'm feeling unsure of myself, I'll ask my wingman to approach a set and point me out and ask the girls if they think I'm attractive. You'd be surprised at how often girls will say that I look like a really nice guy. Once my wing communicates this to me I'll approach with a drink or shots for the whole crew and introduce myself. I usually don't say much because I don't want to intimidate the girls so I'll lay low for a while and chat up my wing …
/r/seduction08/06/10 11:13 AM
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If a woman is putting you through any type of test it's a chance for you to show your devotion to her. Don't disregard her request. She wants you to show your worthiness. I'm always very respectful of their requests and ask them if they'd like a drink before I begin running my game. I give them a quick run down (resume style) of the various career successes I've had. I'm not ashamed to quote account balances from my 401k (back when the market was good) and trumpet my various victories from track…
/r/seduction08/06/10 10:42 AM
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