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| 3 | Dating offline is honestly worse than online dating for most Gen Z men who want to date Gen Z womenIt's less common for sure, but it does happen (at least amongst my generation). Guys generally are less interested in playing "matchmaker" and will only do so if they are really sure the guy they are introducing is safe and might actually be a good match. Guys often view it as the person they're vouching for reflects on them, so the guy that is a bit loser-y and desperate isn't getting that introduction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 04:15 PM |
| 2 | We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected.You can always aim lower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 03:17 PM |
| 2 | We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected.Immoral dating market? I can't stop laughing at that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 03:15 PM |
| 8 | Men need to start leaving women alone.The funny part is, the guys chasing and giving too much attention probably aren't getting laid anyway (at least according to this sub), but you'll never convince them to stop, because they're going to fail either way. You might as well ask a beggar to stop begging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 12:38 AM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADCaring about n-count does not make someone honest, faithful or principled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 05:37 PM |
| 17 | Progressivism has failed men by treating them as scapegoats rather than partners in the pursuit of equalityThat's not any better. The president appointing leadership of media organizations would be blatant totalitarianism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 07:10 PM |
| 15 | Progressivism has failed men by treating them as scapegoats rather than partners in the pursuit of equalityJfc, are you suggesting that as president he should suggest or enact government controls on what the media is allowed to say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Older men pursuing younger women while belittling other womenYou've posted this comment an alarming amount of times, most people are going to answer no. Are you taking any steps to address this feeling outside of reddit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Older men pursuing younger women while belittling other womenHow are you still single? I would think men would be lined up to date someone with your attitude! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Older men pursuing younger women while belittling other womenWomen in France look great as they age because they take care of themselves and dress better than most American women. I thought it was great when I lived there, even the men dressed better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 06:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Males aren't hypergamous because of insecurityIntelligence is usually only important to other intelligent people. I have never once heard a stupid person (of any gender) say they want an intelligent partner. Average people seem to go either way, with women generally listing it in their criteria more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 12:15 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexWhat's your mum's number? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Women who are in "alternative" scenes like punk rock/metal/raves etc, are more open to dating broke or short men but red pill men don't want those types.I suppose in some areas khakis may be niche, but it's hard to imagine because I've seen them in abundance everywhere I've ever lived. Pair them with a polo shirt for extra yuck, or do the summer look of khaki shorts with a T-shirt and backwards baseball cap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 02:02 AM |
| 3 | The entire pill debate has been obscured and distracted by a bizarre fixation on unattractive men’s struggle. While this sucks, it actually makes logical sense unlike the main problem, which is average and above average men struggling to the degree they are.I think a "solution" that a lot of guys here are quietly attempting is to guilt and shame women into lowering their standards. It's not quiet exactly, just not worded so directly. The focus is often on that old OkCupid data about the percentages that women rated men. Lots of accusations about inflated self worth too. The message is "you are unfair and harming us, you should feel bad and give us a chance." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 07:48 PM |
| 8 | How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high?"I make sure to fuck at least 1 fat girl a year" I want to hear that story and rationale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Discussion : Why shouldn’t there be “losers” in the dating market? Why is it wrong a lot of men will lose out?Nothing is wrong as long as there are women who are “losers” as well. Why does there need to be losers on both sides? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Rejection is not completely consequence free.If you shoot your shot to a girl in a friend group... What is this, amateur hour? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Rejection is not completely consequence free.Indeed, a previous partner flat out told me that she was more attracted to me after she saw how attractive my exes were. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Karens are just common women that feel angry they lost the pretty privilegeAnd the “Karen” insult is usually about a woman being angry and outraged, not playing on people’s sympathies. I would say that it is definitely both. It usually starts with anger but so often includes the desire for sympathy, especially if the general reaction of those around her aren't immediately supportive. Then the hard shift happens fast. White men tend to be more accepted for anger or outrage in a way white women are not. It really depends on how this is being expressed. I don't think men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 07:10 PM |
| 1 | What is exactly emotional labour which women do?Understanding what is and what isn't important to each person is the way to approach this conversation. I think if both people made a chart and rated each task with an importance score of 1 to 10, we would see some big discrepancies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 06:54 PM |
| 3 | What is exactly emotional labour which women do?I've always laughed when people include remembering birthdays in the list of mental labor. Oh the agony and struggle! If someone can't remember their child's birthday, you should not have married them. Before throwing birthdays onto the mountain of mental labor, ask your partner "Would you care or be upset if I didn't remind you about your second cousin's birthday?" I think you will find that they neither give a shit about most birthdays nor about gifts for them. The remembering of birthdays sho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 06:44 PM |
| 4 | Karens are just common women that feel angry they lost the pretty privilegeMen don't have that same presumption of being right or being innocent either. I can't imagine a scenario in which a man would call the police over something trivial and try to play on the officer's sympathies while pretending to be vulnerable to the offending woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 06:23 PM |
| 4 | Karens are just common women that feel angry they lost the pretty privilegeHe probably meant in public. You can get away with a lot from inside a moving car. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 05:55 PM |
| 10 | Karens are just common women that feel angry they lost the pretty privilegeI’ve never seen it used for anyone other than a white woman. That's because a big part of the label was about using white fear to vilify and endanger black (usually men) people. It's about calling the police over trivial shit, knowing damn well that in this country there is a presumption of innocence and guilt based on the gender and race of the parties involved. Black women don't have that benefit. That's why you don't see Black Karens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 05:51 PM |
| 0 | What is wrong with "free sex"?What makes sex "masturbatory" to you? Why would being in a relationship change that? Sex isn't supposed to be easy to obtain... If that is your view, I can easily why guys are quickly dipping out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 05:42 PM |
| 1 | What is wrong with "free sex"?When a woman is bad at sex it's almost always due to lack of enthusiasm and effort. Sometimes when a woman is hot, they think that is enough in and of itself. I don't think that is something you can change in a person, so from a male point of view I would much rather know that as soon as possible. I feel I communicate just as well on the first night as I would on the fiftieth. Time will not fix things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 05:32 PM |
| 1 | What is wrong with "free sex"?So if he's not giving you a relationship, somehow the sex is "masturbatory"? That's an odd leap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 03:19 PM |
| 1 | What is wrong with "free sex"?Would it be better to take your time, get to know someone and start a relationship with them and then discover that they are bad at sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 03:14 PM |
| 4 | Men are disingenuous in the dating marketHow many times must you be fooled before the shame is on you? You're not even right anyway. Many of us get into sexual relationships with dating being an option, not a given. Dating does not automatically follow from sex. If the sex was bad or you start to become annoying, I'm going to bounce. Feeling used doesn't mean you were used. Not all feelings are valid or correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex is a pipe dream for most men. Here’s the real reason WHY.I find it hard to believe Charlie Sheen couldn't get casual sex back in his prime. When he said he was paying them to leave, he meant leave without hassle. It sounds to me like the women he used to pick wanted to stay the night, and maybe see him again. That can still be casual, and if they had sex with him shortly after meeting, that sounds pretty casual too. They almost certainly knew it wouldn't go anywhere past that first night, but just like desperate men, they still took their shot and he … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex is a pipe dream for most men. Here’s the real reason WHY.A poll would be a good way or I don’t know have the celebrities go around, asking women to come home with them for sex and see who says yes. I honestly suspect most of the women would get mad and accuse the celebrities of sexual harassment if they did that. What do I know? I doubt any celebrities are game to try that... at least publicly. But think of it this way too, if it were the case that most women were willing, when the guy was hot enough, than why do attractive celebs wine and dine women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 02:23 PM |
| 4 | Casual sex is a pipe dream for most men. Here’s the real reason WHY.Consider a night club full of men and women in equal numbers let’s say, then a bunch of celebrity men walk in the club. Hot ones. Do you all the women suddenly become willing to have sex with them that night? Casually? No. How do you even measure this? Even if there were a poll, it would depend on the celebrities (personal taste) and self reporting. Are you basing this on anecdotal conversations with friends? I'm not saying that all women definitely would, I really don't know, but it is an inter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 03:59 AM |
| 2 | What do men actually find attractive in a woman's personality?I think a lot of men and women overlook the importance of taste, probably because it can be regarded as superficial. It is certainly relevant to personality though. If you're partner has good taste in regards to personal style and whatever will fill up the crevices and minutia of your day (e.g. music, film, YouTube), this can be the difference between tolerance and actually wanting to spend a lot of time together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 12:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You should take rejection personally, because it's 100% personalYes, this post is based on several bullshit premises. OP is well within his rights to be as butthurt as he wants, but it certainly isn't going to do him any favors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 12:40 PM |
| 10 | Everyone blames the men in age gap relationships, but women keep participating in them.It's not exactly uncommon either. Like most things in life, you have to be attractive or wealthy to experience it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 06:45 AM |
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