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That’s the guardian for ya
/r/seduction28/09/25 10:00 PM
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No I have not had that happen before, honestly. I can tell within a few minutes or seconds if I would be interested in something serious with them. The hottest thing you can do is work on improving yourself. Let him chase you, he will if he’s interested. Just stay friendly colleagues with him, it will come up through conversation naturally how you’re doing all of these things becoming a sexier version of yourself. Health/wellness, intellectual pursuits, travel, dating, etc. If you over focus on …
/r/seduction24/09/25 11:22 AM
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Give him some obvious indicators like eye contact, conversation, even ask him out. If you are blunt and he is still not interested, try someone else. Not all men are interested in any woman that crosses their path. But if you try enough different people you’ll certainly find one. If you find that you aren’t able to attract many of the men you are interested in, work on becoming a more attractive human.
/r/seduction29/08/25 02:29 PM
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Something changed in her relationship and she didn’t have the heart/will to cancel the date. Or she wanted free dinner. Likely nothing you did and just let it go unless she reaches out. In which case I would feel out what happened before committing to another meeting
/r/seduction07/08/25 03:18 AM
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Fantastic but it’s more work than just showing up once and getting laid. Go regularly, become friends with that community, then naturally you will just meet girls that you may be interested in. No one wants a thirsty dude showing up their first run club prowling around.
/r/seduction04/08/25 01:07 PM
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Not sure the purpose of the post, just seems like a vent. Yes, dating can be a lot of work and not fun. It can also be a blast and great way to challenge yourself to live and grow. Either go out and meet people, develop new friendships… or use the apps. Or do both at once, this is my preference. It’s all just as time consuming as you make it. Or sit at home alone and continue to vent to Reddit how exhausting they both are. Don’t mean to shoot down your post, you are entitled to your own feelings…
/r/seduction23/07/25 08:29 AM
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Agree
/r/seduction23/07/25 08:20 AM
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If you tell a junior car salesman that they seem like a quintessential car salesman, they may be flattered since at least they look the part. But I think a real great salesperson doesn’t want to come off as a sales guy. They want to transcend that and just someone that you just like and want to work with.
/r/seduction01/07/25 04:45 PM
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Ig is not a dating app. It’s where you connect with people you’ve already met before. Randomly adding and dming people is strange behavior
/r/seduction20/06/25 06:01 PM
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Dating apps are way better than IG for connecting with people you don’t know. Meeting people via DM on IG is not really a thing in my circle
/r/seduction20/06/25 12:42 PM
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Ask the anxiety or supplement sub if you think you have anxiety issues. ‘Approach anxiety’ as it’s known to this sub is not a mental disorder and is something to work on that can improve you as a human
/r/seduction17/05/25 09:05 PM
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It’s best not to compliment looks until you’ve slept with them. If they send a hot selfie or something, reward them by messaging back quickly or complimenting them on something they created (their style etc) not looks related. Girls want to feel desirable for something other than their looks. If they want their looks complimented they can just walk by a construction site.
/r/seduction06/04/24 04:37 PM
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The biggest red flag is that this is your first date in 5+ years. Of course you are going to over analyze everything and probably ruin the whole situation. Do you have any sports or skills that you are good at? Have you tried taking a 5yr break and then seeing how great you are when you return? Get out and date more and it’ll help you get out of your head.
/r/seduction10/03/24 04:12 PM
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Try to look out for the success of your buddies as much as you are your own
/r/seduction25/09/22 11:39 PM
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Dating when working full time is way different than when you’re in school with your peers. If you don’t do clubs and bars you really should find some hobbies/communities outside of work and meet people thru those. I’d drop the identity of being Dr MD and just be a humble person looking to meet and connect. It’s probably kind of undesirable if you are leading with that in your conversations, as much as it may seem like an attractive thing. I find that as soon as I get overly focused on my work id…
/r/seduction17/06/22 12:59 AM
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Common hobbies and interests. Book club, soccer, salsa dancing, yoga, etc
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:26 AM
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I would put approaching cold and social media DMs in this same category. Not bad routes but definitely making it hard on yourself. Good to have realistic expectations of how productive different ways of meeting people will be.
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:45 AM
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I don’t agree with your statement about showing lack of interest being better than too much interest. You can easily not take chances and save your ego but ultimately miss lots of opportunities . If you are vulnerable and take chances you can get burned but also not miss as much
/r/seduction14/11/21 04:08 AM
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If it’s really your dream, keep an eye out for a guitar and amp on Craigslist or OfferUp. Music is a fleeting hobby for some and you should be able to find inexpensive equipment for sale to get started.
/r/seduction12/04/21 02:07 AM
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I think you have to try 10 things to find one thing you love. I landed on art, yoga, music. They have all given me amazing satisfaction and community.
/r/seduction12/04/21 02:02 AM
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Hinge!
/r/seduction25/06/20 12:32 AM
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I’m sorry you are so angry brotha. The world has lots of love for ya.
/r/seduction25/06/20 12:32 AM
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Overall confidence is fine. Confidence in relation to dating is struggling. Hard to be confident in it when there aren’t any current success stories
/r/seduction24/06/20 04:27 PM
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Haha true, it could be worse
/r/seduction24/06/20 04:26 PM
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My confidence in relation to dating is affected by dating experiences or lack thereof, yes. Some of my validation that I am doing dating right is dependent of my dating experiences, yes. I am still very confident in my life direction, hobbies, career, and feel lots of love from the world. I just look forward to having dating being more accessible again :).
/r/seduction24/06/20 04:25 PM
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That’s what I’m going to do :). Best of luck on your career change!
/r/seduction24/06/20 04:21 PM
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That’s great :). I’m happy to hear that it has been so healthy for your life.
/r/seduction24/06/20 04:20 PM
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I hear ya. Good luck staying active and happy, we are in this together.
/r/seduction24/06/20 04:20 PM
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I’m not hooked on it but I do enjoy it as part of my life :). I have many other hobbies and sources of fulfillment but I look forward to dating returning as one of them. Thanks for the thoughts.
/r/seduction24/06/20 04:18 PM
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Lol I appreciate the massive assumptions, negativity, and bashing of my character and overall life direction. My only advice to you would be to forgo giving life advice like that unless it is someone you are looking to personally attack.
/r/seduction24/06/20 04:06 PM
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Lol 😂 I appreciate the support
/r/seduction24/06/20 04:00 PM
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Thank you. I appreciate that feedback man.
/r/seduction24/06/20 11:17 AM
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My advice is to keep the first date simple/free. Maybe you walk through a farmers market together, grab a coffee, or work on a little art project together. Keep the investment low and then there is little pressure on either of you to have any result other than meeting a new person.
/r/seduction29/11/19 03:41 AM
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Hmm, it is awesome that you have this relationship with her. My input would be: -Pre-Meeting: Where has your communication thus far gone? Have you established that you are interested in her romantically via text? Have you all communicated about intimate interests, what you like/dislike? You can begin to do the work early on, or at the very least you can see if she is someone that is comfortable with being intimate on the first night you meet. Date Night: Establish kino, solid eye contact, etc. E…
/r/seduction22/11/19 01:33 AM
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