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| 3 | Still having trouble stirring conversation.I disagree. When I'm in my head, I don't pay attention and I think too much, "oh shit what do I say now?". When I'm not in my head, I just react viscerally to whatever they say. Whenever they say a " keyword" in conversation, I say my first thought. Sometimes it's something stupid, but it rarely fails to move the conversation forward. | /r/seduction | 29/08/15 12:23 AM |
| 1 | How to re-initiate conversations with people you haven't talked to in a fair while?Yeah totally fair. I have had a few instances of girls that I wasn't banking on since I knew I wasn't gonna see again so I tried the what's up. Worked well for like half of them, and after the first conversation there's tons of opportunities to bring up a common interest or do the what's up again because they know you're capable of a conversation. Fuck the other half though. | /r/seduction | 22/08/15 04:11 PM |
| 4 | How to re-initiate conversations with people you haven't talked to in a fair while?I wouldn't agree completely. I always find that I ask a shit question first, then they answer, then I target key words in whatever they answer ("I'm going out" "oh hittin the strip club already?" Idk that was stupid) and then it starts a conversation. I would agree that it's not great to always use this though. | /r/seduction | 22/08/15 03:59 PM |
| 3 | You've fallen too far, can you make up for lost time?Solid answer man. There is no better way to say it. | /r/seduction | 19/08/15 02:15 PM |
| 7 | My wife and I are getting divorced. I'm a 29 year old, 5'4" guy who doesn't have any real dating, or seduction experience. Is all hope lost, or can I still be a PUA?I have a 6'9" friend that wishes he was 7'. Kudos to you for being comfortable with yourself though. | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 01:34 AM |
| 7 | First high school party.Just graduated high school man. You don't need to be the life of the party, that's how you end up beating yourself up. Instead, try talking to people, starting conversations, and having fun with those people. You might see a "cooler" group somewhere else. Don't go there. Have fun with the people you're with and people will see that energy and join you. Some tips: love yourself man. Everyone in high school is insecure. If you think you're a big deal, others will too. Remember to respect people to… | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 01:30 AM |
| 24 | My wife and I are getting divorced. I'm a 29 year old, 5'4" guy who doesn't have any real dating, or seduction experience. Is all hope lost, or can I still be a PUA?Don't limit yourself to worrying about height. It definitely seems like OP wishes he was taller. Everyone does man, but short guys still get laid. Own your shortcomings as well as your strengths because you do have both. | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 12:05 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Women don't understand what works on women This truth has pissed me off for a long time. It's good to know though. | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 11:10 PM |
| 2 | How do you beat the "out of my league" feeling?I'm in the same boat, man, and I've been trying to combat it by making the interaction about self-amusement rather than trying to hit on her. They're both pretty similar actions (e.g., I make her laugh, try to find some common ground, etc.), but I'm not nervous because I'm not trying to get anything out of it other than some good ol' fun. Idk, it's obviously not perfect because I still put the really hot ones on a pedestal but I think it gets me talking to them and I've noticed since I started d… | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Anyone from Germany? How do you pick up German girls? They seem very conservative and hard to talk to.Just my opinion Dude, I feel like people don't say that enough when talking about entire cultures, even if not in a stereotyping, profiling, or racist way. You can't say "Oh I love the cops in the Netherlands" because of one experience you had. My bad, that's just always annoyed me. | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 09:20 PM |
| 4 | I understand my inner game and want to approach girls now. Best way to start and ramp it up?Eh, idk if calling her cute is that bad. I mean if you make your conversation about that, definitely, but I've found that compliments work fine if used infrequently, unexpectedly, and of course, with confidence. | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 07:55 PM |
| 1 | I understand my inner game and want to approach girls now. Best way to start and ramp it up?I wanted to come find out who you are I like this much better than, "Hey I think you're cute," because you're right, it makes her wonder why you came over. I will now proceed to use it as my own. | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Where do you guys get your inner confidence from?That better be a joke man. You're a badass whether you've had a few or not. | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Is a PUA bootcamp worth it?True actually. I'd say it falls into a middle category (outer game) that still doesn't require boot camps. I've become a much better conversationalist just by watching their videos. | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Is a PUA bootcamp worth it?No, it's "the basics of self improvement" | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Recommend this book for inner gameYou realize that the only relationship that you need to work on is the one with yourself. Damn over the past few weeks I've been really trying to work on being okay with the kinda weird guy that I am and this quote definitely hit me. You can't blame anyone if the self-image is crappy, it's all about being honest with yourself. | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Any tips to get into 'best-self' mode?Adderall and weed makes me feel super social for three hours and then I overthink every social interaction for another four | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 02:51 AM |
| 1 | I get a late night text from a girl I think is hot while I'm sleeping, do I respond in the morning or just let it goI usually just reply the next day, ignoring the fact that the text was so late. She's on your time. | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 10:50 PM |
| 12 | 18yo kissless virgin here. Were any of you guys ever in my shoes? What's your story? Any advice?That's real helpful, man. | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Need help with what I'm going to say to a girlGood luck man. Always helps me to read the top post of all time before an approach. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 05:17 PM |
| 2 | I don't have a problem talking to women; however, cold approaches seem like an impossible task.Damn the comments in this sub are fucking amazing. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 03:40 PM |
| 1 | After gauging attraction successfully?Damn this is good as fuck. No one brings this one up. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 03:36 PM |
| 8 | My GF and I want to have a threesome with a girl we barely know, and don't know how to start.every time I've had a threesome Damn. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Im boring how can i be a fun guy?Talking too much sounds desperate. While this is spot on, storytelling is also a huge social thing. When there's an awkward pause in the conversation and you have something interesting to bring up, it makes you stand out a lot. Can't be that guy that always has something to say about himself but definitely that guy who has some good stories. | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 08:01 PM |
| 1 | How to make sure a girl knows you're sexually interestedOk, here's the thing. I'm great at polarizing with guys and in a non-flirty way with girls. A lot of people think I'm funny for that reason. When I flirt though, I always either push too hard or act too soft. It's a confidence issue because I overthink what I'm gonna say whereas when I'm not flirting I'm not nervous. Nevermind, I talked myself through my own problem. | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 10:05 PM |
| 2 | How to make sure a girl knows you're sexually interestedI have never once considered doing this. Damn good work. | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 10:01 PM |
| 2 | How to make sure a girl knows you're sexually interestedYeah girls are gonna get creeped out by me while I try this out. Thanks man! (no sarcasm, seriously I will use this) | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 10:00 PM |
| 1 | [x-post from r/yoga] Great way to be detached from the outcomeI don't think this guy is even trying to understand any part of what you posted. That said, definitely a thought provoking post and something that needs to be kept in mind at all times. | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 05:58 PM |
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