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Hey, fellow nervous energy person here. Though I'm a woman, it generally looks the same and still isn't as acceptable as it could be. I understand you well and I'm sorry that you go through that. People can be so unnecessarily judgemental (though I'm not totally innocent here, I get it). I did whole 'fake it until you make it' until I started bullying myself because of others. I want to say that you should just be yourself and eventually you'll find something, but it's so much harder when you're…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 07:02 PM
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I think we're all different and everyone has their own things. Before I got my trauma dealt with, I was sorta anti-relationship. I felt bad because this guy I knew, we adored each other, and I think he tried asking me to be his girlfriend many times but I just keep telling him he had a lot of me and didn't need to "commit". I didn't realize until after treatment that those were just wounds in my attachment and whatnot that needed to be corrected. Once I got treatment, I really started to love be…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 10:53 PM
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I'm 20-years deep in one, but I never feel entitled. When I ask my current partner if he's DTF and he refuses, I respect that and don't push. If I'm partnered up with another as well and ask them and they also refuse, then you just deal however you need to. As for the relationship aspect, I personally love them. I love being bonded, having those moments where we can just look at each other and transfer thoughts, the cuddling, the slow vanilla sex one day and then hot rough doggy the next...I lov…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 10:40 PM
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Brother, you're fighting up against everyone else's issues right now too. You may be forgetting the massive mental health issues that stemmed from Covid, wars and almost wars going on in certain areas, economic issues and job loss...unfortunately people are thinking about more than just sex right now.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 01:59 PM
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Have you checked to see if you might be codependent? Granted we can only get so much from a post, but I'm seeing hints of a form or two of neurodiversity, maybe like anxiety or OCD. Things like this are a nightmare to battle on your own, let alone adding dating and relationships into the mix. It's really suggested for the most part to get your mental health in order before you start dating because you don't want to put pressure on others to care for those needs. They need to be willing, like how…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 11:49 AM
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Emotionally vulnerable.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 12:08 AM
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I enjoy being salty occasionally and really enjoy rice. Seemed prudent in this economy. /s
/r/ExRedPill08/01/23 07:14 PM
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