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| 2 | Girl with a question about kids from experienced divorcee’s or married menHave two babies and leave him with them. It'll be funny, if one of them doesn't look like him at all. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/26 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Did you guys ever let one get away, bc I did and it makes this betrayal + divorce 10X worseWhat does hurt have to do with this? Ofc you cannot forsee everyone's future, but what are the odds this to be an exception? The religious ones are the worst, their faith and morals are a pose. They wouldn't want a husband, if they loved God. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/26 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Did you guys ever let one get away, bc I did and it makes this betrayal + divorce 10X worseWhat would you do, when the virgin one told you she felt robbed of experiencing other guys? When a beautiful woman leaves you, you are grateful for the time together, but when an unattractive one does it, you have no idea what anger and rage will devour you for years. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/26 04:05 PM |
| 1 | 3 years after...You should be glad they don't need you, not wait for them to fail to keep you company. Parents don't love their children. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/26 11:10 AM |
| 1 | I knew this would be tough. But to see her immediately with another man…Women become more picky with age. Frankly, idk how they do it. 20 yo guys look so much better than 30 yo. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/26 11:02 AM |
| 1 | I love my wife with my whole heart, but she wants a divorce.I am sorry. You can explain why she's making a mistake once, but that's it, don't beg. Wish her all the best and don't take her back, because she'll try to keep you on the hook, just in case. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/26 10:49 AM |
| -1 | How long to start dating after 12 year relationship?Learn to eat pussy, if you're so desperate for a girlfriend. You have to be good in bed, or you'll be kicked out of it again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/26 10:41 AM |
| 1 | How little people careWhat masculinity? Every woman I know will say that, it's not a big deal. But the drugs she gave him might have that effect and she might be deflecting. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/26 10:35 AM |
| 5 | Wife had an “Emotional Affair”, now wants to fix the marriage. See details for full context."Prove that you can be without me, and then I'll take you back". Also, if you want her after your divorce, she'll think you're a given. Be on your own. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/26 10:24 AM |
| -3 | Wife had an “Emotional Affair”, now wants to fix the marriage. See details for full context.What if they haven't had sex? The sin is in the heart, it doesn't make it better. Many women need to be in love, or they feel dead inside. This can only happen with someone new. I don't know the solution. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/26 10:12 AM |
| 1 | My wife is blindsided me and I’m still broken.See, merely talking is not communicating. Most of the world's communication is not verbal, but galaxy brain here has a hard time understanding words. If you have such a severe mental handicap, you're dangerous to be around. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/26 07:08 AM |
| – | Label of Gold DiggerThat's what a Chud says to his midwit girlfriend to deflect her attention from the $7 in his wallet. If you worry your boyfriend will call you that, for e.g., stop, because wealthy men and women don't speak like that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/26 12:58 AM |
| 1 | You Don't Have What You Think You HaveTo identify yourself with your relationships is to live in hell. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/26 08:35 PM |
| -5 | Wife Tracking My Activities and Our Travel, Divorce Prep?She may have left it on purpose for you to understand her and become a better husband, pfffft | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/26 08:24 PM |
| 1 | As a woman… I just wanted to say I’m sorry and I see youI write "lol" instead of "bahahahaha," but I'm edgy, lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/26 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Anyone Feel Loneliness Even with a Solid FWB?How is he wrong? | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/26 05:53 PM |
| -1 | Anyone Feel Loneliness Even with a Solid FWB?The truth will set you free. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/26 05:49 PM |
| 0 | At a cross roadYou sound like a woman. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/26 05:43 PM |
| -7 | Towards male equality in divorce and standard litigation playbooks women useForgive your mother IN PERSON for imposing her will on you, or your anger will cloud your mind and that's one tactic to win over you. Men and women are different, you are fighting with some low iq women's methods of gathering an army and it's not working, because it's not expected for the physically stronger to cry victim. Don't cut the children in half. I'd leave them, if I were you, and work on myself for when they come to me after a few years, I wouldn't be a pussywhipped basket case. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/26 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Dating as a divorced dad with a kidThat's just hood rats "I'm always pregnant, 'cause I'm beautiful." But these are jokes. A man with kids = used, unless he's Elon Musk or sth. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/26 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Posted on other threadsNo guarantee if she cheated physically or not, What's the difference? She's in love with another man, but cannot have him. She'll think she'd have settled for less with her husband and she'll take it out on him with a daily-increasing severity, until she leaves him to protect her own health. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/26 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Judge’s Pretrial Recommendation in My Illinois Divorce Feels Extremely Unequal – Am I Missing Something?There's no need to imagine, he's already whining, begging and blaming like an old woman. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/26 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Wife forcing vasectomyYour friend should not deal with this imbecile at all. But he's prolly as dumb and evil as she is, otherwise they wouldn't have been married. Is he considering mutilating himself, just for a chance to rub his willie for 2 minutes? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/26 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Can't do this anymoreBBC is not a station, why are you people so childish? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/26 01:56 PM |
| -1 | Can't do this anymoreBecause it helps him not blame himself - he can never be black, so there's nothing he could've done. He's not white, btw. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/26 01:53 PM |
| 1 | What would you have done differently"What would you have done differently, if (.......................)?" If what? If you could turn back time? If they could do anything differently, they would've already done it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/26 11:33 PM |
| 0 | Dating woman for 10 months but she maintains multiple IG accountsEw, stop crying | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/26 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Dating woman for 10 months but she maintains multiple IG accountsgo date, but don't marry if at all possible. That's word for word what mothers tell their daughters in highschool. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/26 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Ex is pregnant with another man’s child"Mommy, I want my real daddy." - "But this one is better! I don't get it" | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/26 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do men seem to always try and heal and be on there own and woman just instantly jump into dating or monkey branching?But nobody has ever survived. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/26 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Did your (ex)wife’s friends lead her towards divorce?It's an engagement bot. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/26 05:51 PM |
| 0 | I am struggling with feeling guilty about “me time”.A nurse? OMG "me time" lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/26 05:35 PM |
| -3 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.Fake rage bait | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/26 05:32 PM |
| -12 | It wasn’t entirely your fault. Adultery should never be forgiven.the guy penetrating her and her moaning with pleasure WTF is this shit? Do you know what a clit is, boomer? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Why do divorced men go to places like Thailand when sex work isn’t entirely legal and there is a lot of sex trafficking? I mean why don’t they go to places like Amsterdam where it’s legal and regulated? Don’t they have a heart?It's usually combined with shady business practices due to lower regulations and widespread bribery in those countries. They also mistake ingratiation for respect. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/26 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Did anyone else end up divorced shortly after giving in to pressure to have children?The vermin multiplies. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/26 09:19 PM |
| 5 | Wife has moved on-big timeThree months later she's got a polyamourous "boyfriend " who's also married. She tells me she thinks she's polly and offers a threesome with her and him. The love story of the century, lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/26 11:22 AM |
| -2 | New Wife moves dates for more her and I timeGod, what a pussy-whipped chud | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/26 10:59 AM |
| 3 | 7 year post divorce update: I remarried yesterday and I have found my peace.Get ready to lose some pounds | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/26 07:15 PM |
| 0 | Picked up the last of her stuff... with her new bfI cannot imagine my mother with some guy, and believe me, she's always been at least a 9 or a 10. I also cannot imagine her riding a bike like a 12 yo boy, lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/26 07:07 PM |
| 1 | KarmaDon't talk like a theater kid in front of your children. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/26 04:16 PM |
| 3 | KarmaThis fixed my mood a little bit, thanks | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/26 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Shifting processingWhat if he wishes immortality? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/26 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Shifting processingHeal from what? It wasn't a surprise for her. He cannot see it, yet, but this is the best thing that could happen to him. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/26 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Shifting processingDo you mean "traitor"? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/26 02:02 AM |
| 1 | How much responsibility do you bear for your divorce?Women cannot handle that and you know it. She's your wife and you want her to be your mentor. That's worse than beating her and having a love-child combined. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 01:51 PM |
| 1 | She wanted 80/20 custody… now she wants to reconcile after everything came out and I’m messed up over itDid you grow up on anime? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 05:52 AM |
| 2 | I need serious help, my logic is no better than that of the very women I complain about (post-divorce struggles)It's amazing that you think a relationship has to last longer than the previous one, in order for it to trump it in stability. Believe me, when women fall in love with a new guy, they just want the previous one to disappear, so they can forget him quicker. The longer the relationship, the more you want it to end, unless there's more to it than infatuation. Past and future do not exist. All thoughts are lies all the time. Everyone who wants a relationship is driven by anger and fear. If you want … | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/26 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Advice on letting go of a post-divorce date?Only the uggos. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 04:24 PM |
| 0 | Son about to divorce, need advice, or support, or something ...Defeatist victim mentality. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 04:15 PM |
| 0 | Are female couple counselors biased towards wives?You insist on her looking for a job? Do you want her to find another man? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 04:00 PM |
| 0 | Relationship with in lawsYou hover around and wait for them to break up, so he's territorial. Your jealousy helps her. What a tool. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/26 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Remember guys: Know your kids shoe sizes!Yes. You have her identity and you see your father as she sees him. Forgive them in person. You could've measured the feet by now, but you're pulling sads like an old woman. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/26 08:57 AM |
| 6 | Results of a Divorce from the 60sMothers destroy their children by imposing their identity on them and fathers fail to protect them, because both of them haven't forgiven their parents. Men hate their mothers, and then they marry women exactly like them. It happens every time and the so-called good mothers are the worst. Your father could've failed even if he was present, because he hadn't forgiven his parents and his mother's spirit was inside of him. And the cycle continues, until eventualy one generation does it right. It is… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/26 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Rejection After Divorce Hits DifferentThis is a very good advice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/26 02:59 PM |
| 0 | Rejection After Divorce Hits DifferentIf she really likes you, she won't risk her dignity in front of you, so you cannot know who she ditched in favor of you. Desperation would be the opposite of liking you. So you're all partially wrong, but mostly you, lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/26 02:56 PM |
| -4 | Rejection After Divorce Hits DifferentYou are the rude one to pretend you don't know what not responding means universally. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/26 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Trying to figure out what to do. Nearly 30 years married, 2 months separated with (virtually) no contact.Like what? The two children are adults. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/26 04:32 PM |
| 3 | How often do you talk to your adult sons?Don't impose yourself on them, their mother is probably doing it a lot. Just don't be one of the "listen to your wife" fathers. Be right and do right. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/26 07:38 PM |
| 1 | She moved out 3 weeks ago, confirmed she has been seeing someone for 3mo already.Sleeping with a married man makes her feel like she has powers, because he prefers her to his children. Or he licks her for 2hr every time, but if he has a job it's probably the first one. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/26 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Dating women with kidsYou're 40 yo and you haven't learned that professional is an adjective, yet? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/26 07:05 PM |
| 2 | I’m a 54 year old divorced man and I’m looking to date but each time I try I only attract women who don’t look attractive why is this?She meant that the answer was he's old and ugly, but she's afraid of no-no words. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/26 06:46 PM |
| 1 | I’m a 54 year old divorced man and I’m looking to date but each time I try I only attract women who don’t look attractive why is this?loooooooool | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/26 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Trigger warning - very confusedThey must take you for a very naive trick, then. She cannot feel even a tampon inside, but she can feel a spoon of liquid. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/26 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Paying for DatesFaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaake | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/26 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Serious, self-harm daughter and wife that's unsupportiveAsk your children for forgiveness for not protecting them from their mother. All mothers destroy their children by impossing their identity on them. The 'caring' and 'loving' ones are the worst, so at least your wife is a showcase of incompetence. Don't use erroneous phrases like "successful adults". You must keep your head clear, because the only thing that kids follow is not house rules or diet advice, but personal example. Kids are an image of their parents, unfortunately. Don't throw them at… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/26 12:33 AM |
| -3 | US Crisis & Suicide Prevention ResourcesThat's disgusting, don't try to plant thoughts in people's heads. Add an April's day joke or sth. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/26 11:57 PM |
| 6 | What petty things became your fault?It's very impolite to yawn around people more than once or twice, but I doubt your wife told you that was the reason she had sex with someone else. What's the connection? Is the other guy a tweaker? | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/26 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Divorce while still loving each otherThe big L or the big O | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/26 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Men of Reddit, what’s the best way for a woman to navigate with separation?"Oh, my trust was betrayed, my brain short-curcuits" You're for a loony bin, lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/26 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Forget about affair, I’m now worried about my kids safety.I’ve been begging her for years to see someone. Well, what did you expect? A shoulder to cry on becomes a dick to ride on, lol. That's like rule no. 1, WTF is wrong with you? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/26 05:25 AM |
| 1 | My ex has a support group, a therapist, and her friends. I have... my dog. Why is this so gendered?Your mother imposed her identity on you, you must go and forgive her in person. Then watch her lose her mind. Mine has always been edgy and critical of everything traditional. Now she's disappointed I'm not "normal like other children". | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/26 05:06 AM |
| 2 | My ex has a support group, a therapist, and her friends. I have... my dog. Why is this so gendered?Well, because she has a different gender. Everyone was born with the same rights; it doesn't mean everyone is the same. What you describe is your wife's incapability to stand alone, or, God forbid, go against the crowd. Don't envy a mediocre woman's weakness. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/26 04:49 AM |
| 1 | SeparationThe last thing a woman wants is a vulnerable man with needs, lol. She'll be the laughing stock of her family and friends. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/26 04:29 AM |
| 6 | 26 years together meant nothingYou think to let another man raise your children is an alpha move? | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/03/26 04:30 PM |
| 2 | What to say when asked about my divorce?It would be very impolite (socially unacceptable) for someone to ask that question. Don't be weak, that's more disappointing than having sex outside of wedlock. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/26 10:38 AM |
| 1 | AdviceMost men are very bad at sex. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/26 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Telling my wife I'm Bi"My husbad is so desperate, he'd have sex with anything. I completely understand". | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/26 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Affair, new to redditReally? If I cut someone's hair once does that make me a barber? | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/26 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Recently divorced ex wife hitting on guys at kids basketball game.Hurting their ex? They both embarrass their daughter in school, an idiot mom and a saddo dad. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/26 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Who Here Has Had More than One Divorce, and Why do you Think it Keeps Happening ?Because people are in a fallen state. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/26 11:52 PM |
| 1 | STBX posting inspirational quotes - why is this a thing?If words hurt you, "chill dude" is the last thing to say, or people will think you're an idiot, lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/26 11:19 PM |
| 1 | The regret is unbearableWomen don't have love. Love comes from God. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/26 02:45 AM |
| 1 | The speech from my old manYour father has a female spirit, "Fly away and do it again, yay!" | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/26 02:39 AM |
| -9 | One week since caught her in affair, anyone else wives lose weight on tirzepatideThese drugs rapidly destroy the organism. Eating food until you explode or eating poison - what a sad way to live. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/26 03:41 AM |
| -1 | Ridiculous thing's you have to deal with.She meant she was finished with you, so in her mind she beat you. You shouldn't have cried. Also, a big man crying is usually a pedophile. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/26 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Do you ever feel more lonely around people than when you’re alone?Put on some lipstick, if you're going to look for a boyfriend online. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/26 05:38 PM |
| -6 | Divorce and DestructionI read somewhere that men after 50 lower their standards for women, just to have a caretaker in old age. 30 years and you want more of the same? Go contribute something for God's sake, you're gonna die anyway. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/26 05:35 PM |
| 6 | Divorcing a nice woman"I will stay in my child's life, ofc". You sound like a distant gay uncle, James. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/26 10:56 AM |
| 1 | The dreaded day.Did you also take a bow, lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/26 09:11 AM |
| 7 | Teenage son being bullied by his mom's arrogant boyfriend.The mother is doing it, because she likes all those men fighting each other, so her faults go undetected. Stupid old skank pulling shit. Also - useless whom and for what? | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/26 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Am I needlessly escalating things* with her clit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/26 11:17 PM |
| 4 | Further Confirmation Dating Apps = Humiliation Ritual & Total Time WasteBut all those men are ugly, that doesn't count. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/26 10:56 AM |
| 2 | What to do?He'll look even more incompetent to her nodding in desperation to a charlatan with an online diploma. She wants more time alone for possibilities. His presense is taking away time and limiting movement, just doing nothing else than blocking alternatives. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/26 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Depression vs RageStop searching for your father in the women you meet. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/01/26 06:58 AM |
| 2 | What More Does She Want?Of course she'll lie about the big stuff - she thinks there's a lot at stake. How can you be with someone, who lies about small, everyday-life things? It disgusts me so much. A white lie is, when asked if someone died painfully, you not answering "Yes". Your wife probably lied about chicken soup. You need a strong shaking to wake up from a trance, or that poor girl is doomed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/26 11:15 PM |
| 14 | “Are we Dating the Same Guy?” Facebook GroupsThe biggest liars are in the church. In a bar you know what you're getting, at least. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 05:46 AM |
| 1 | The struggle between self and savior...When she's crying, she's lying. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/26 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Men who got divorced, did you lose a lot of friends?"I lost them", "treating me", "I was not allowed", "abandoned" | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/26 06:30 AM |
| 1 | I need advice on protecting myself from false accusationsTheir motive is of little significance. They've helped me deal with pushy old farts. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/26 04:58 AM |
| 1 | I think I’m done, but the pain of divorce is crushing meIt's because of the "—". | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/25 03:26 AM |
| 3 | Women Silently Emotionally Disconnecting and Checking Out Is CowardlyBut if she was happy, she wouldn't have looked for fulfilment from others, including you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/25 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Women Silently Emotionally Disconnecting and Checking Out Is CowardlyWhat about the large group that don't? This is just the new trend in medicine, it'll be forgotten by the 9th year, when production of generic drugs is about to be allowed, as always. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/25 02:37 AM |
| 9 | Tired of the gaslighting BSYuck | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/12/25 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Why did therapy not work? Be honest, don’t give me the polite, mature answer.My boyfriend talking about me to anyone but me, lol, what a traitor. If he contradicts me in front of a stranger, badly trained to bait people, than he's mentally deficient. I read men went to couple's counselling in the hopes of having more sex, lol. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/12/25 08:05 PM |
| 0 | Guys Who've Been Through Divorce: What Was the HARDEST Part to Get Used To?Oh, God, stop licking boots. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/12/25 09:04 AM |
| 4 | Why did therapy not work? Be honest, don’t give me the polite, mature answer.What a sad old cow. It'd be kind of funny, if you were the one who suggested going there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/12/25 08:36 AM |
| -7 | My thoughts on Walk Away WivesAre you a furry? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/25 03:07 PM |
| -8 | My thoughts on Walk Away Wives"Validation, sympathy, and cultural encouragement" - why do you want this? Men are the founders and the builders of society. Stop being weak. Women want men, who do not need them and most of what I read here is men searching for a father figure in their wives, but they found they married their mothers, instead. "They’re leaving because they never communicated their needs." OK, I need $50 million right now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/25 12:31 PM |
| 1 | My thoughts on Walk Away WivesAnger is what the problem is, not "emotional underdevelopment". Dork. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/25 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Expensive hobby after divorce?Leather daddy looking for biker boys in Canada | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/25 02:35 PM |
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