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| 1 | Her bio: "If you're not 6'0 or taller, don't bother" (originally posted on the Twitter subreddit by u/Gohteem)It’s absolutely okay to be comfortable around someone your own height! :) | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/01/21 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Thwot has been shot down!On my profile I put my bio, a bit about myself, then at the bottom I put something like “if you’ve read this far, tell me what your favourite ice cream flavour is.” I still kept getting the abundant “hey” messages lol | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/01/21 08:32 AM |
| 142 | “Help another woman doesn’t agree with me!!”Labelling a 3 year old as a rapist... I can’t cope... | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/01/21 08:26 AM |
| 47 | Her bio: "If you're not 6'0 or taller, don't bother" (originally posted on the Twitter subreddit by u/Gohteem)I’m so confused about height... every guy I’ve dated has been under 6 foot and around a similar height to me (5’1) I find it way more comfortable if someone is a bit smaller tbh | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/01/21 08:24 AM |
| 13 | Ex-bank branch manager sentenced to federal prison for stealing over $1M from a male customer with dementiaPeople who target the elderly are pure evil humans. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/01/21 08:20 AM |
| 2 | HVM proposed with a Tiffany diamond after 1 year, then surprised with a bouquet and a thank you note <3Congratulations! Seeing posts like this makes me so happy. I hope the wedding goes well! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:09 AM |
| 3 | And here we have NVM/LVMs who whine about paying for a first date huhI always carry extra just in case I come across anyone who needs one! Help a sister out ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Sit down with yourself!Thank you so much for this, I needed to hear this tonight! 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:13 PM |
| 22 | If men are 'more visual', why are they ugly?My mum’s 47 and given up on dating, she finds men tiring and desperate lol. She went on a night out and a man her age saw she’d been drinking and tried to get touchy with her. She ended up punching him in the face lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 10:27 AM |
| 9 | If men are 'more visual', why are they ugly?Your boyfriend sounds wonderful, I’m so happy you’ve got someone who appreciates the fine details! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 10:25 AM |
| 64 | "FDS is so JUDGEMENTAL" Yes, and we are proud of it! Mate selection is among the most important decisions you will ever make, it is a crucial time to be choosy!Right?!? We don’t actually have an actual hatred for the opposite sex, just a desire to be treated equally and with respect like you said. The posts on incel blogs can be downright vile, since when has anyone on this subreddit made a threat against a man??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 09:48 PM |
| 77 | What talking about preferences on the internet as a woman is likeI know this feeling. Excuse the tmi but if they are too big it tears my skin and I end up bleeding. Men don’t understand the word “slow” or “gentle” I swear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:48 PM |
| 236 | What talking about preferences on the internet as a woman is like“Women are fucking idiots who watch too much porn.” The actual irony of this statement 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:45 PM |
| 2 | [TW] Reading this made me sick to my stomach.Absolute dickhead. Anyone that breaks your trust like that deserves the worst. I hope you’re working in a better place now <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:43 PM |
| 2 | [TW] Reading this made me sick to my stomach.This is awful, this is why I am reluctant to bring up my own experience with others. I hope this girl has got the help she needs :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Just a little motivation for you ladies!Keep trying girl, you got this! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Just a little motivation for you ladies!This is way too awesome. :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:36 PM |
| 7 | More reasons why women need to value their ability to serve a bitch and put men in their place!But supposedly, we’re too “emotional” to make a valid argument... 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:35 PM |
| 8 | This sub ruined my marriage!!! 🤣Congratulations for breaking the cycle. I can imagine you have such a massive weight lifted from you! Best of luck to you moving forward! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:48 AM |
| 6 | Women I don’t know have little to no reasons to have a hidden agendaI love telling other women they look pretty just to see them smile! Makes my day ☺️ I remember being stranded at a train station when I was around 18, another girl around the same age came up to me and asked me if I wanted a hug and a bag of crisps, really made my day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:55 PM |
| 2 | I want to hug this poor woman violated by this pornsick scumbag. And then drive her to the police station.It helps massively with sympathising, I’m sorry a similar situation happened to you too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 01:35 AM |
| 13 | I want to hug this poor woman violated by this pornsick scumbag. And then drive her to the police station.It reminds me of when I was dumb and 19, I let the guy who took my virginity violate me so much. He tried to coerce me into some degrading shit such as threesomes and such. That monster can rot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 12:28 AM |
| 14 | I want to hug this poor woman violated by this pornsick scumbag. And then drive her to the police station.This shook me up because it reminded me of my first time, that disgusting subhuman ended up tearing a lot of my skin and he only stopped when I threatened to scream for help. I hope this girl is safe now, I want to hug her :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 12:25 AM |
| 27 | What is going on with men these days? Rant, will probably delete but damn.Ugh I hate it when people pull the “you’ll find someone one day.” Nah thanks, I’m good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 09:22 AM |
| 12 | Why are men allowed to look like this? 🤢🤢🤢God tell me about it, generic ass bios. Don’t forget the one picture where he’s holding a fish 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 11:30 PM |
| 6 | Where's The Lie Though?This is so true, I can’t apply makeup to save my life, but I still love watching videos of people putting it on! Putting makeup on is a real art form, it’s mesmerising watching others applying it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Lesson learned. Never settle!This is so true. After two nasty exes I’m 200% happier without that hassle in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:41 AM |
| 10 | Can we get a thread of body-shaming things LVM have said to us?My ex who sat in bed and smoked weed all day said I’d be more attractive if I were skinnier and had bigger tits. He then opened up Instagram and started pointing out random girl’s profiles. Nastyy 🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:40 AM |
| 7 | Where's The Lie Though?I don’t even understand why people brag about not wearing makeup. It can make you look amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:32 AM |
| 8 | “I don’t have a child”Disgusting. Imagine thinking that low of your own flesh and blood. This loser needs to step up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 12:33 PM |
| 14 | dating in 2020Got people out here trying to justify it as “men don’t think about basic things like that.” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 10:40 PM |
| 36 | dating in 2020Oh my god the amount of “hey” messages on dating sites. Like, can anyone hold a decent conversation anymore, what am I supposed to reply to “hey” give me something to work with lol. This is why I gave up on OLD, generic men everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 10:35 PM |
| 8 | Think about it 🤔God my sister is in a relationship with a guy like this. His mum is a narcissist she wants to control every aspect of his life, the whole family is a damn mess and I feel sorry for my sister. Her boyfriend doesn’t even want to move out because he is used to everything being done for him. She’s blind to it to be honest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 03:53 PM |
| 21 | I mean, who cares what people think but yeah, that is most definitely not the solution!I relate honestly because I fall into the same category. I sure as heck try to protect women who fall into the first category though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:26 AM |
| 8 | Unfortunately it's true for so many of usYour son sounds great and he has an amazing mother to raise him. Best of luck to you both! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:20 AM |
| 56 | Men will do whatever it takes to get in your pants. NEVER sleep with them before you get commitment!Went on two dates with one guy and he got mad cause I didn’t sleep with him after he bought me food. He then proceeded to block and ignore me. Talk about trash taking itself out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 09:38 PM |
| 37 | Yep 👏🏼I’d rather be alone, free and happy than attached to an idiot who might as well be listed as a child than a husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 12:14 PM |
| 18 | We try 🤷Tell me about it, I felt attacked lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 06:09 AM |
| 28 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?Fuck those people so much, having smaller breasts makes you no less of a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 02:32 PM |
| 29 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?Some nasty ass in my sister’s year in school said he didn’t want to sit next to her because he didn’t want to catch chickenpox. She suffered with really bad acne in high school. Now she’s worked so hard, her skin is glowing and he’s still a nasty human, so joke’s on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 02:29 PM |
| 5 | Just a reminder that being a “girly” girl is totally awesome and valid and to shame girls for being feminine is to give in to a patriarchal culture that demonizes femininity because it’s largely associated with womanhood in a world that hates women. We can be feminine for ourselves, as well!I’m not very girly at all but I love seeing women rocking a girly look, it’s so amazing seeing so many women with gorgeous outfits and makeup! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 03:16 PM |
| 25 | LOUDER FOR THE LVM IN THE BACKI feel this so much, when I was a dumb 19 year old my ex (25) had so many problems and my dumbass thought I could help him through it by being there for him. Seriously, this is why therapists and counsellors get paid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:04 PM |
| 21 | LOUDER FOR THE LVM IN THE BACKGood lord, you dodged a massive bullet sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 10:58 PM |
| 14 | LOUDER FOR THE LVM IN THE BACKAll they taught us in sex ed was how to put condoms on cucumbers :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 10:56 PM |
| 21 | Unreal Pickmeisha / LVM comboI know I saw her crying at the end I think and felt terrible for her. Imagine minding your own business shopping and this creepster comes out of nowhere :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 02:29 PM |
| 88 | There are few things less attractive on a dating profile than a man whose "About Me" is just a list of demands and feature requests.This guy sounds like he has no personality whatsoever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 02:22 PM |
| 8 | My parents have been married for over 30 years, and my dad still regularly surprises my mom with little gifts. (He does the same for me.) Small gestures actually mean so much.Great husband you have there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Tell ‘em Maddy!The funny thing is, a lot of guys wouldn’t actually realise a woman was wearing makeup, if she went for a more natural look. I don’t understand how they think they have the right to talk smack about women wearing makeup, great makeup application looks amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 11:13 PM |
| 29 | Stay single, sisBest thing is, the vegetables don’t complain afterwards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 01:44 PM |
| 25 | The number of LVM continues to shock meFuck sakes, caveman level intelligence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 12:21 PM |
| 45 | How LVM be likeThis reminds me of when my ex bought me a really itchy ‘sexy’ body suit from Wish for £6 and expected me to wear it all the time for him. No thanks lol, my VS underwear feels much comfier than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 11:09 PM |
| 7 | Damn straight! Cheating is the ultimate sign of disrespect - dump them immediatelyGood for you for getting rid! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 02:41 PM |
| 25 | Damn straight! Cheating is the ultimate sign of disrespect - dump them immediatelyYep, I was getting messaged by a guy and I found out he had a girlfriend and he was sending me really graphic texts when he was drunk behind her back. Really felt sorry for her dealing with this asshole doing gross stuff behind her back. Better to block and move on, wanted to screenshot his messages but sometimes other girls can turn on you and accuse you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 02:37 PM |
| 28 | And this is how you spot HV relationships: 💚🚦💯Thanks for putting this, makes it a good source of reference! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 01:29 PM |
| 6 | some men need to learn thisThank you so much for this advice! It makes a lot more sense to focus on feeling good about myself, It’s really refreshing to hear that you focused on the positives and improved yourself. Thank you kindly for this reply! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 01:52 PM |
| 34 | some men need to learn thisSome of them haven’t even passed caveman level intelligence, I swear. 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 01:02 AM |
| 32 | some men need to learn thisI’m still going through this phase so I understand how you feel. I know I shouldn’t care too much about how others view my looks but when I’ve been out with girl friends before it’s like I’m invisible. I honestly wouldn’t even know where to start with improving my appearance, I’m planning on starting exercising soon so hopefully that will make me feel a lot more confident and healthy. Sorry for all the negativity, I’m glad you feel much more confident in yourself, it’s very admirable! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 12:57 AM |
| 82 | I have been seeing a surge of these kinds of tweets lately— I love it. We’re doing something right ladies 😜I love this one it’s great. Excellent job! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 02:30 PM |
| 13 | Queen BurnHe looks like a saggy thumb anyway, he’s not even worth a response lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 06:50 PM |
| 16 | Queen BurnBoth my exes were soldiers and after that I am extremely reluctant to even go near anyone in military uniform. Both were abusive and had no respect for me, not standing for any of that shit now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 06:49 PM |
| 28 | Don’t turn men on. Turn them off. Where is the off button.Good, tell me what turns you off so I can do it more! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 06:44 AM |
| 11 | Our expectations aren’t unreasonableI wonder if hookers laugh at how pathetic these lying losers are too? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 08:34 PM |
| 20 | Study: 70% of men agree it's acceptable to lie to women and say you're in love with them to have sex with her. 80% of men think they shouldn't have to use any birth control. And 90% of these men said abortion was wrong.Completely agree. Any time a man brings up sex after only a couple of dates I immediately lose interest. It’s insulting to think that sex is all they care about. At least it helps weed out the pieces of shit early on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 02:52 AM |
| 11 | I’m crying y’allHit the nail on the head here. A life with strong, independent girl friends is all you need! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 11:24 PM |
| 31 | So many times I blamed myself 😡It’s easy to weed out the obvious nasty creeps by saying no to sex constantly. A decent person will wait until you are ready. I was dating a firefighter once who thought I ‘owed’ him sex after he bought me dinner twice. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 11:21 AM |
| 184 | Incels/Mgtows in a nutshellWow ew, poor girl, he doesn’t deserve her at all. I hope she’s found someone much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 04:57 PM |
| 74 | Scrote makes female coworkers uncomfortable and feels emasculated because they don’t want to see his naked, 40 year old body.I know right, he could have made a joke about dressing as anything humorous but he just went and made it sexual. Just ruins the vibes and makes your co workers (rightfully!) never want to speak to you again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 04:51 PM |
| 23 | Don’t tell the men you know about FDSI honestly love this sub, it’s helped build me up and improve my confidence massively. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 11:28 PM |
| 3 | What should I watch out for?I relate to this story so much. I wasn’t a very smart teenager, very naive. I had been seriously physically and verbally abused in high school so I wanted any male attention I could get. My ex sounds incredibly similar to yours. Very manipulative and knew how to choose his words. On a better note, I hope you’re doing much better now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 01:57 AM |
| 6 | Came across this "funny meme" on Facebook that made me thoroughly depressed about the state of men and dating these days...I went over to my first ever serious boyfriend’s house one time. I knocked on the door and his parents had to let me in. (Go figure 🙄) he was on Xbox with all ‘the lads’ and couldn’t even come down to let me in. So glad I got rid of that vile pig. Never making that mistake again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 01:51 AM |
| 6 | Real life examples of High Value Men you knowThis was refreshing to read, I hope you two stay happy together! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 01:44 AM |
| 27 | Old men thinking young women genuinely want to be with them instead of a man their own ageGlad he got punished for it. Hope you’re doing much better now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 12:41 AM |
| 143 | Old men thinking young women genuinely want to be with them instead of a man their own ageThis makes me think back to when I was a really naive dumb teenager and I dated a 35 year old when I was 16. I’ve never been more uncomfortable in my life. Never. Again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 04:35 PM |
| 46 | Treat her right = get in her pants, i.e. coercion rape!I feel you sister, the first guy I ever slept with told me everything I wanted to hear, until I called him out on his shit and then he got mad at me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 09:26 AM |
| 3 | Dating and Mental IllnessI can’t imagine how draining that must have been for you, in no way is it anyone else’s job to cheer someone with depression up. You are incredibly strong for staying for 20 years. I am definitely trying to better my mental state before even considering a serious relationship, I couldn’t be with someone if I knew I was dragging them down with me. I hope you’re much happier now! | /r/askFDS | 19/03/20 12:57 PM |
| 3 | Dating and Mental IllnessI’m extremely sorry that happened to you. As a girl diagnosed with BPD, this is one of the reasons I tend to avoid relationships. Also, when my therapist told me there is no cure for BPD I was so let down. I have signed myself up for therapy though so I will see where that road takes me. Some days can be an absolute struggle, but I have a strong family unit behind me to help me through it. I’m truly terrified I could become like this, but I take my medication regularly and don’t drink at all. Th… | /r/askFDS | 19/03/20 12:54 PM |
| 24 | Get this through your head ladies!!!So true, you build someone up to be amazing and surprise surprise, another letdown! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 12:31 PM |
| 12 | You don’t need him even if you think you doI really needed this post today. Thanks. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 06:11 PM |
| 152 | This came through on r/AskFDS and was just TOO good not to repost. He thinks he’s in the “top 20% of males” and wonders what “we have to offer him” that he can’t get from younger women. 😐 Yes he’s serious. 😐 Check the comments for the OP.22 and I’m right there with you sis, wouldn’t touch it with a barge pole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 06:07 PM |
| 36 | Making fun of women for dating LVM men by saying they have "daddy issues" is blaming women for being hurt by things their abusive fathers did.And to top it all off, single dads are usually praised for ‘stepping up’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 06:11 PM |
| 15 | Wait, so all those girls in relationships have mostly been with LVM? Mind is blownI didn’t even know it was at the time, but now I’m waiting to hear back for therapy! (The waiting list is quite long) so I am looking forward to finally getting professional help! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 07:02 AM |
| 21 | Wait, so all those girls in relationships have mostly been with LVM? Mind is blownYeah I lost my virginity when I was 19, the guy was a horrible piece of garbage who coerced me into it, when I asked him to stop because it was getting too painful he kept going, I was crying by the end of it. Needless to say, sex is on my never again list. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Reminder: Focus on your dreams, not men.Best of luck in your future career! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 02:27 AM |
| 45 | Seen this on Facebook, so many butthurt comments "Advice on marriage written in a pamphlet by a suffragette in 1918. It is currently on display at the Pontypridd Museum in Wales, 1918"Also with number 7, at least the dog will appreciate you for feeding it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 01:33 AM |
| 3 | Woke up this morning wanting to tell my ex about my most recent exciting news, thought I would tell yall instead!Congratulations sister, working towards such a rewarding job. Best of luck towards your goal, you will do great!!!☺️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 08:03 PM |
| 10 | Relationship GoalsIn the UK and other commonwealth countries (I think?) we have anniversaries for how long a couple has been married for, the gold anniversary is for being together 50 years. We have special cards in shops that commemorate these events and usually special presents are given to each other. When you reach 60, 65 and 70 years I think you can apply to receive a letter of congratulations from Buckingham Palace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 06:14 PM |
| 220 | Relationship GoalsMy grandparents have been married almost 50 years and are coming up to their gold anniversary. I asked my granddad how they made it work so long and he said, “I just married my best friend.” Made me tear up. Edit: Just got a message from some LVM saying “this will never be us on FDS because all we want is money from men.”, I feel like I’ve hit some LVM insecurities! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 09:24 AM |
| 12 | Broke up with my boyfriend over social mediaYour ex sounds repulsive, glad you got rid! What a complete lowlife putting you down like that, I don’t understand why he’d throw away an amazing girl for pictures of girls that wouldn’t give him the time of day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 12:07 AM |
| 21 | Broke up with my boyfriend over social mediaUgh I was talking to a guy, a firefighter no less who was like this. Spoke for 2 days before sending me unwanted pictures (his kid’s toys in the background too!) then I found out he had a girlfriend. She was so pretty too I don’t understand why he’d try and cheat. Absolutely vile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 12:04 AM |
| 65 | Mood.For real, if you act too nice they think you’re flirting or something. Like no, goodbye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 09:09 PM |
| 10 | Gang of women in India who track down & beat abusive husbands with brooms.That makes sense! 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 11:46 AM |
| 58 | Gang of women in India who track down & beat abusive husbands with brooms.They picked the best colour to roll with too! I love it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 03:31 AM |
| 54 | Lily Tomlin know what’s upJesus christ, it’s legitimately infuriating when men do this. Winding us up like this is not cute or funny, it’s just a good way to get us to dislike you even more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 05:26 PM |
| 68 | You’re better off alone than with a LVMThis is why I have absolutely no time for men, I will not have my dignity and sense of self taken away again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 08:59 PM |
| 18 | How to handle fuckbois & LVMsI honestly had to delete my Facebook because I kept checking back on my exes and I realised all it was doing was making me feel like shit. I personally don’t like Facebook, all it does is make life seem like you’re competing with others. Seriously, those I want to stay close with I talk to in person anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 03:50 PM |
| 27 | These two tweets sum up perfectly why “not being like other girls” is NOT a compliment!That’s so gross, why would someone say that to you it’s so derogatory. Also, I see no point in competing with other women. I’d rather watch out for my fellow sisters than ostracise them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:55 PM |
| 28 | These two tweets sum up perfectly why “not being like other girls” is NOT a compliment!‘You’re not like other girls.’ Well damn, I’d rather be like other girls cause other girls are amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:52 PM |
| 10 | HELL YA!!Thank you so much, I absolutely love this subreddit, so many great and inspirational people to help me get through things! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:20 AM |
| 6 | HELL YA!!Thank you kindly for the advice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 11:46 PM |
| 12 | HELL YA!!Lack of money is a big problem at the moment, I have a psychiatric disorder as well due to past trauma, but I’m hopefully going to start therapy for it soon so I’m keeping my hopes high! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 10:45 PM |
| 31 | HELL YA!!I’d love to start going to the gym regularly, it’s definitely on my bucket list. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 09:00 PM |
| 26 | "Real Men" need to look in the mirror before opening their mouths smhI’m 22 and two exes is all it took for me to realise that I am much happier on my own. I’d rather enjoy my own company than someone who is emotionally draining. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 03:12 AM |
| 15 | Reminder Men ain’t shit and they know what their doing when they don’t make you a priority. Cut Your loses and BLOCK.My ex was like this honestly, took me ages to realise I was being played and I finally got rid. Felt great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 01:19 PM |
| 8 | Reminder Men ain’t shit and they know what their doing when they don’t make you a priority. Cut Your loses and BLOCK.This is super sweet, congrats!! :,) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 01:17 PM |
| 6 | My friend praised a man for offering to split costs of the morning-after pill 🤦🏼♀️Having bad sex and gaining nothing from it is disgusting. I wish that people could understand this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Husband ignores wife’s efforts to do all his favourite things for V-day...because she didn’t have sex with him. Consider what man you’re busting a gut for. LVM have only one thing on their mind.This is so sweet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 12:16 AM |
| 12 | What I’ve been saying!It’s such a moodkiller I swear! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 12:28 PM |
| 15 | Stop explaining basic facts to stupid peopleGlad you got rid, it’s like dropping a huge weight!☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Traveling to see a man. Is he expecting sex?That’s insane! I hope you are doing much better now and that creep is behind bars. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 02:39 AM |
| 11 | This sub makes me want to die a virginPlease please do not rush into losing your virginity. Keep it precious sister, I ended up getting mine forced from me and it’s cost me a lot of my trust in men. Make sure you are with someone who truly values you as a woman and makes you feel like a queen. You are worth so much ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 02:33 AM |
| 14 | The Effort is Too LowWinds me up when all they put is ‘hi’ too. Like what am I supposed to reply back to that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 02:26 AM |
| 11 | Another one managed to slip right past that wall. Penelope Cruz, age 45Absolutely gorgeous! 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 02:19 AM |
| 58 | Man wants to abandon GF of 3 years after she was hospitalized for 2nd degree burns, finds her repulsive to look at. Daily reminder to take zero shit from these men!!!!!!Totally! This girl deserves 200% better than this vile human. I felt physically disgusted just reading what he wrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 02:18 AM |
| 29 | I'm so happy for this woman! Here is a prime example of a HVM. He shows up to her presentation to show his support, AND demonstrates active listening skills, AND helps to enhance her career. More men should aspire to be like this.Apparently wanting a decent man that treats us great is the equivalent of wanting the whole male population gone. I’m honestly thinking that the people who have anything bad to say about this sub, are the people we stay away from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 04:45 PM |
| 43 | Olympic swimming champ Sharron Davies on her 50th birthday. No wall in sight. 👍They know that a queen like this wouldn’t give them the time of day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 05:14 PM |
| 8 | Olympic swimming champ Sharron Davies on her 50th birthday. No wall in sight. 👍I would love to have a toned body like that at 50!!! 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 05:13 PM |
| 11 | The prize that is marriage to a LVMYou got yourself an awesome husband there! 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 09:24 PM |
| 3 | I graduated from university today! :)Congratulations!! All that hard work pays off! ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 06:40 PM |
| 4 | When you’ve finally built a healthy amount of self-worth and self-esteem. 💕My onion is still a little sprout but I’m getting there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 01:12 AM |
| 27 | Please alert your fellow woman!That’s insane, what a psychopath. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 02:42 PM |
| 6 | We are all looking for HVM and that term is suggestive and subjective for us all but here’s an idea, do we think that being a HVM comes with age such as dating older or you can obtain it at any age?I have the same issue with men a similar age to me, I’m 22 and the majority of men I’ve spoken too bring up sex within the first half an hour of talking, it is honestly mind numbingly boring. That being said, when I was a bit younger I dated 2 older-ish guys of which both were not very nice. I also was speaking to a 38 year old firefighter and alarm bells were ringing the whole time. Thank god I trusted my gut and blocked him because he had a girlfriend and was messaging me on the side, disgusti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 10:45 PM |
| 6 | Reddit: home of the most disgusting porn and menI’m so sorry about what you’ve been through OP, hope you are doing much better now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 10:37 PM |
| 18 | What it really means when they say they "hate too much makeup"I can’t stand people that make fun of acne on teenage girls, my sister had acne really bad and she’d come home in tears because of the comments people made to her at school. Now she has amazing skin and gets creepy messages from all the guys that bullied her. Some people are horrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 05:58 PM |
| 19 | LV and HV, is there ever a MVM/NVM?Pretty sure my ex was a NV, he used to get high all the time and order really bad food all the time. I eventually told myself ‘what am I doing with this guy dragging me down’ and I left him, best choice I ever made. Never date a man who does drugs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 04:01 PM |
| 6 | What to do when you feel physically lonely?Thanks for sharing these, I’ve found it comforting being around my family when I feel lonely tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 03:58 PM |
| 93 | This shit is honestly why OLD turns me right offThe kiss emoji afterwards is honestly vile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 03:56 PM |
| 23 | Beware of bearded men: exhibit 268I agree with you here I’m not really a fan of facial hair either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 11:33 AM |
| 16 | Make yourself firstThe best goal for 2020! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 01:15 PM |
| 12 | Idk why anyone would immediately send you this and then think you would want a relationship with themImagine dumping all your baggage on someone like this, red flag material right here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 04:54 PM |
| 12 | The harsh truthYep, just left a friend for 3 days to see if he’d message me first. He hasn’t so he can hop right off. Don’t need toxic people in my life in 2020! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 12:26 AM |
| 6 | Love the replies 😂Thank you, I needed this tonight. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 12:10 AM |
| 16 | It always does & it’s expensive sis!I agree, bad men never change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 06:17 PM |
| 25 | Know Your WorthI love her so much, she shows so many people that it’s cool to be different from others | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 12:23 AM |
| 18 | Good instagram account.I don’t know what I saw in him tbh, he was nasty and sat at home smoking weed. Worst mistake ever! I just view it as a reason to improve! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 06:48 PM |
| 48 | Good instagram account.My ex had this on his profile and he ended up being emotionally abusive. So it’s definitely a red flag for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 06:42 PM |
| 6 | “Nudes?” He asked hopefullyOf course he has no profile picture too! Creep lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 09:54 PM |
| 14 | Had this conversation on tinder this morning. I truly can’t believe some men are like this about self confidence.Honestly I don’t find myself very attractive at all but I look up to women that are strong and confident with their appearance, It’s something I aspire to be like! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 12:47 AM |
| 32 | RED FLAGS: Signs a Man Should Be Cut OffI hope he’s in jail now, what a vile human , I hope you’re doing much better now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 07:13 PM |
| 51 | I think ugly guys are more likely to have a vendetta against women and be less nice.This is so true unfortunately, I started talking to this guy who was around 5”8 ish and I ended up finding out he’s telling people he’s single but actually has a girlfriend. I felt mortified that I’d actually talked to him, his girlfriend is really pretty too she deserves way better than a scumbag like him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Don't Waste Your Pretty YearsYou sound amazing! Definitely the kind of woman that younger girls should aspire to be! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Don't Waste Your Pretty YearsI love your mum she sounds absolutely great! My mum is a single mum too and I look up to her a lot! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 06:48 PM |
| 4 | Advice for recovering domestic violence victims?Damn, I’m sorry to hear about your mother! I hope she’s doing better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 12:58 AM |
| 5 | Ratio of ugly ass men to beautiful womenDisgusting, you’re at the gym to make yourself feel good, not to be eye candy for some disgusting asshole who can’t control his eyesight. Keep rocking it girl, I’ve always meant to look into getting a gym membership. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 12:53 AM |
| 6 | Give zero fucks about a dude who won't seek treatment for mental health issues - they blatantly say they reject women for this too.Can confirm, going through a tough time atm, my ex was abusive to me because of it. So I figured, I don’t need no guy to support me, I got this on my own! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 12:50 AM |
| 9 | Went on a date with a dude I met last weekend. He complained about spending money on a date that went nowhere and implies I should have cut it short. Lol I’m so done dating.God I know the feeling, went on a couple of dates with this guy, he offered to pay for both meals. Then he got mad at me because I didn’t want to sleep with him straight away. He blocked me so I feel like I dodged a bullet there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 12:48 AM |
| 14 | 👑 ♀ 💜I like your mindset! We’re all just out here trying to enjoy hobbies lol we’re not competing with each other, so why do men assume that we are. It’s annoying sometimes that girls still have issues playing video games, it’s 2019 people...! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 04:07 AM |
| 33 | 👑 ♀ 💜Thanks, I like your eyeliner wings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 12:17 AM |
| 11 | "Friends with benefits" benefit men only.Thanks for the advice it means a lot, I’m going through a hard time with my mental health anyway so it’s probably best to stay single for a bit to get better! :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 09:44 PM |
| 8 | "Friends with benefits" benefit men only.Question. I’m in this situation atm with a guy, he keeps calling me his ‘friend’ but I want to be more serious. I don’t really want to get rid of him cause he’s my only real friend. Any time I try to have a serious conversation about it with him, he makes jokes and stuff and it really annoys me, what should I do? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 08:47 PM |
| 3 | FactsReally hope you’re doing much better and in a much better place now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Do you any of you ladies suffer from low self-esteem and/or depression? I'm finding that I don't really have the urge to date because of my mental health issues and wondering what to do.I can definitely relate to the top part about depraved guys targeting you. My first two relationships I was in at 19 - 21 were abusive. It’s absolutely broken me as a person and I’m finding it hard at the moment. Luckily, I have an appointment to see a therapist soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 08:56 AM |
| 2 | OP learned an important lesson and luckily ended up with a loyal companion in the end. Don’t dedicate yourself to a man who wants to control your life, especially from afar. Hope she comes to this sub to kickstart the rest of her healing (details in the comments that signify emotional abuse).Your dog is completely gorgeous! Congrats! :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 08:50 AM |
| 6 | A way to combat fuck boys sliding in your DMsYou could put that money to way better use than he could 👸🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Trying to shit on peoples passions and interests? NahFuck people. Video games probably give your mind way more stimulation than watching sports anyway! You keep playing video games dude, you’re never too old! (I got my grandad in his 70’s into WoW before!) | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/09/19 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Trying to shit on peoples passions and interests? NahI’m an adult female and I play video games... fuck you shitlord. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/09/19 02:03 AM |
| 7 | A British student has been jailed (few months) for falsely accusing a taxi driver of sexual assault after he declined to accept cash that was covered in kebab grease.I really really hope she never gets in the force, we don’t need disgusting liars like this. Because this happened in Leeds too, I’m assuming she lives there, meaning she’d be working for the Police force in my area. Shocking... | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/07/19 04:17 PM |
| 31 | Royal Guard Don't Give A Fuck!It’s embarrassing to watch tourists poke and prod them as well, like they are there for amusement. Then people get offended when they are shoved out of the way or get a bayonet shoved in their face... | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/05/19 10:56 AM |
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