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| 1 | “How Does It Feel?”: Is Sexualization All It’s Cracked Up To Be?Those who think it's possibly a set-up ask follow-up questions. Your link acknowledges serial monogamy, and throws open relationships/cheating in under "some sex occurs". Pretty big a qualifier there. Having been part of the poly community, I can assure you that it's nowhere near as easy to find people eager and able to handle multiple partners as your fantasies claim. Good try. It was more than I was expecting, at least. Next time, bring me some actual proof of your claims, that doesn't support… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 09:09 PM |
| 4 | Getting women to be initially interested in you almost entirely depends on whether they perceive you as above or below their league.Those educated by all the free internet porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 06:51 AM |
| 7 | “How Does It Feel?”: Is Sexualization All It’s Cracked Up To Be?Looked up an interview and several news reports that went more in-depth. She's a confident, high energy workaholic who put in 100 hours a week while building her audience. Most of her job (currently, she has 12 hour days) is communicating with her subscribers - great people skills and an understanding of marketing are a must. (OnlyFans doesn't have a search function - you need to hunt down your audience.) Creating the sexual content is just a small fraction of the work involved. The average inco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 06:10 AM |
| 15 | Getting women to be initially interested in you almost entirely depends on whether they perceive you as above or below their league.I just have interesting conversations with interesting people. Don't really care if anything grows out of it, but if we have good chemistry then we're probably going to explore it. You make this sound like a speedrunning competition. Or like you're trying to get your name to the top of the leaderboards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 05:50 AM |
| 2 | “How Does It Feel?”: Is Sexualization All It’s Cracked Up To Be?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QBtF3I7fDfU There's been plenty of these types of studies. In this one, she asks a hundred men. Also, here, since you're probably more concerned about what single kids your own age answered. Men are serial monogamous because they have to be Source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 05:23 AM |
| 3 | Women like being playfully roasted and playfully demeaned. It’s the most attractive personality traitThis is why they insist on earning as much money as possible, looking good, and finding submissive women with terrible personalities. If they can manage all of those things, they might find a woman who won't let them fuck up the golden opportunity they're handing her. They'll just keep cold calling complete strangers until they find her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 05:06 AM |
| 6 | Women like being playfully roasted and playfully demeaned. It’s the most attractive personality traitReal life: Friends give each other shit all the time, and it's good to know someone's got a sense of humor and decent observational skills. Not to mention, the attraction of a man who has no standards is worthless. Redpill theory: BrEAK heR DEfENseS EstABLisH D0mINANcE Or bE DeSTRoYED!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 04:49 AM |
| 5 | “How Does It Feel?”: Is Sexualization All It’s Cracked Up To Be?I'm not sure why you always believe the first answer that pops into your head. Many men and women are serial monogamists. They'll go through several long term relationships during their lifetime, but they're not huge fans of random sex. Other men who were approached demanded time to build a connection, or worried about the decisions the researcher was making for herself. And then there were those who found it an unwanted intrusion - anxiety disorders and low libidos really change how you look at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | “Chads” don’t leave…they get left.Source: power fantasies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | “Chads” don’t leave…they get left.At this point, most of us are just laughing at your revenge fantasies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 11:29 PM |
| 3 | “How Does It Feel?”: Is Sexualization All It’s Cracked Up To Be?You probably dont care because you get sex regualary, I got enough to realize that I needed a real connection before it meant anything to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 11:20 PM |
| 5 | “How Does It Feel?”: Is Sexualization All It’s Cracked Up To Be?Not sure what this is about, but FreshNFit are popular for a reason. Yeah, they talk shit and throw tantrums if women talk to them, the way they talk to women. That'll always have an audience on the internet. Now, what percent of the world's male population is watching these guys demonstrate their overcompensation? It just me, the vast majority of men do. Uh-huh. Sure. Did you know there's been social experiments where beautiful women offer complete strangers no strings sex? They're rejected far… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 11:12 PM |
| 3 | “How Does It Feel?”: Is Sexualization All It’s Cracked Up To Be?No 99.9999999999999999999999999999999% men. There is a reason why podcasts like FreshNFit exist. With billion of listeners! Then I'm sorry to inform you, you sir have no sex drive. It's pretty high, actually. But hey, I understand: you still need as much sexual validation as possible. Quantity, not quality. It's not for me, but if it works for you? Enjoy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 09:39 PM |
| 0 | According to a study, the best strategy for struggling male chimpanzees looking to mate was to befriend high ranking alpha males as well as to form large networks with other males. Notice how they didn't need to befriend female chimps. In my opinion, we should give this advice to struggling men.Well, your inexperience means you know more than the rest of us. According to science, anyways. Thanks for the lecture, it was...pretty much what I'd expect from someone in your position. . Why do you guys never recognize that beginner's trap? It's difficult to take you seriously, until you do. You gonna introduce these girls to your girlfriend down the road? “ Yeah. Usually do. Hell, sometimes they're the ones who introduced us. I need a little higher level of trust and loyalty than just growin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 09:36 PM |
| 17 | “How Does It Feel?”: Is Sexualization All It’s Cracked Up To Be?Yeah, it's more like people ignoring you while looking straight at you, eagerly expecting you to follow their script or else. Or just straight up grabbing whatever they want. Or tricking you into thinking you've escaped the same cycle over and over again, so you can experience that deflating feeling when they begin steering the conversation along the familiar path they've planned out for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 09:14 PM |
| 8 | “How Does It Feel?”: Is Sexualization All It’s Cracked Up To Be?Some men. His experience would be a nightmare for me, and I'd handle it just as bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 08:34 PM |
| 8 | “How Does It Feel?”: Is Sexualization All It’s Cracked Up To Be?When non famous average men are making millions from things like onlyfans and have millions of women wanting to fly them out in their instagram dms, then I will believe you You really think the average woman can become a millionaire by starting an OnlyFans? You really need to stop living in porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 08:30 PM |
| -1 | According to a study, the best strategy for struggling male chimpanzees looking to mate was to befriend high ranking alpha males as well as to form large networks with other males. Notice how they didn't need to befriend female chimps. In my opinion, we should give this advice to struggling men.It’s not a strategy it’s just a waste of time for most men that think that befriending a woman is going to help get in her pants. I only sleep with friends. Seriously, why are you complicating this? Ever hear either of the following terms: "Friends with benefits" and "Fuck buddies"? Or were you telling yourself that these kinds of friendships are just some kind of chessmaster alpha male manipulation? Maybe your coping mechanism is pretending that only super hot people actually want to fuck each … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Relationship expert says alpha males make up only 25-30% max of the male population, perhaps helps explain the 80/20 ruleHmm… those are all good questions that I didn’t think of when I made myself giggle with the word sexpert. I love it. It loses the baggage attached to "Chads" and "Alphas", plus it'll offend anyone who takes themselves too seriously. Also, you forced me to consider that maybe being good at sex isn't a bad thing? It's the first time I'm not completely ashamed of myself. My fundamentalist family would be horrified, if they were still talking to me. Thank you. A true sexpert should be able to assist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Relationship expert says alpha males make up only 25-30% max of the male population, perhaps helps explain the 80/20 ruleOkay. That's not as bad as I feared, then. Thank you. Can a woman be a sexpert too? I know it's easier to make men orgasm, but there's so much more to sex than the orgasm. And my education from the women who understood that was more in-depth and challenging than anything I ever learned in a classroom. Also - aren't most of the men qualifying as sexperts limited to their niche? Nothing about my training in dominance and submission helped me offer advice to a vanilla couple dealing with a dead bed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 07:36 AM |
| 10 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?"My imagination is too limited to consider all the things a man can master, and I'll just Dunning Kruger my way into assuming only the celebrities I've heard of are fuckable." "And hot giants." "Also, wait until you hear my theories on how awesome it is for women to be used as a fleshlight. I've also updated some old myths about witches. That hot young woman might actually be older than you think!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?100k is nothing. Where you live. In this neighborhood, $1000 rent a month takes three of us to afford, and we're not sure how long we can keep it going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Relationship expert says alpha males make up only 25-30% max of the male population, perhaps helps explain the 80/20 ruleWait. That's really all it takes? It feels like it should be the bare minimum to be considered a decent lay, as long as her libido is high enough and she doesn't have any issues that prevent her from reaching orgasm with her partners? What's considered average? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Women deserve absolutely no sympathy for their issues.Got bored. Your comment history was pretty one note, and I wasn't about to dedicate all day to trying to sort out your issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 11:51 AM |
| 1 | How big a deal is it if your partner never initiates sexHow they were dysfunctional then? Relationships with bad boy heartbreakers usually have the best sex even, this is why women want to be with them even if everything else sucks. Sometimes women are the badboy heartbreakers. And sometimes, fools like me, think we can save them, only to find out all the promises they made were just pillow talk. Other times, your girfriend's wife isn't nearly as accepting of polyamory as she thinks she is. Also, if you're into BDSM? Sometimes you should question whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 03:55 AM |
| 6 | How big a deal is it if your partner never initiates sexEven in my most dysfunctional relationships, that was pretty much how things worked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Where did you get your opinions about women?You assume that we all know how to find something stable. Beyond flirting and sex, I have zero idea what to do when I'm not being eagerly pursued or seduced. Anything less aggressive comes across as a complete lack of interest. I didn't exactly have healthy role models. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 01:57 AM |
| 0 | Would Short Men (Under 5 ft 5) Have More Dating Opportunities In A Country Where The Average Woman Is Shorter?Good luck taking away their security blankets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Women deserve absolutely no sympathy for their issues.I used to post in the subreddit mocking the misogyny in the MRA subreddit. Never once actually fought against men's rights. And yes, decades ago, I was an idiot misandrist. Fortunately, there were good men willing to be the role models so many others had failed to be. low-IQ Do you often brag about your IQ score? You seem the type. I assume you're a huge fan of "The Bell Curve"? thinks he will get laid If you'd done a decent job of comment stalking me, you'd know I was raped by my ex, and I've h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 01:37 AM |
| 0 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneOP's post was a self-own. I've listed some things he needs to think about. It's up to him whether he takes anything from it, or focuses on karma scores and his own bitter feelings instead. If it's the latter, then he's not ready for a sexual relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 01:22 AM |
| -1 | Dinner With Rollo Tomassi Tomorrow NightWhy should everyone be paranoid about a bit of self-depreciating humor? And threatened by other people's perspectives? I mean, I understand where he's coming from when he's marketing to those who need to constantly remind everyone about their positive qualities, or they'll be forgotten. Especially if everyone they meet is immediately looking for reasons to reject them. He knows his audience. I just want to hear the bullshit he uses to spin this into the usual teenage power fantasy. Also, can you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 08:57 PM |
| 7 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneYou can talk about anything with them, huh? K. How good are your jokes? How good is your teasing? Do you know how to tease people in ways they enjoy? What are their turn-ons? Their soft limits? What have you done to ever turn them on? Do you know how and when to start? Do you understand how to explore boundaries together? Can you get people to open up and just lose their inhibitions with you? Do they trust you that much? Do they know you're ready to handle it? C'mon, let's hear it. Share your ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Women deserve absolutely no sympathy for their issues.Feel free to show me my recent misandry. Shouldn't be hard, unless you're completely full of shit. Edit: Unless you think it's a hate crime to call out the sins and mistakes of individual men? Maybe I just respect their intelligence more than you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:21 PM |
| 0 | Women deserve absolutely no sympathy for their issues.Exponentially higher male suicide rates isn't click bait, it's reality. You just have to ignore the bit where women try to kill themselves more often. Men just succeed more often, because they use more violent methods. Women who own guns? Also more successful. So why ignore all that? Why play team sports? Breast cancer getting multiple times the funding of Prostate cancer despite prostate cancer causing more death isn't clickbait, it's reality. Yes, it is. Let's add context. Some of the pink-rib… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Women deserve absolutely no sympathy for their issues.Because you cherry-pick. You're easy prey for clickbait. You look for every outrage, and pretend that the worst things you can find about women represent billions of people on the planet. How is this any different from what Stormfront does? Or how conservative media approaches the LGBTQ community? Do you know which women support men? Were you there while doctors and nurses worked days and nights to keep even the anti-vaccer men alive? Men who cursed them with every breath they struggled for? Wer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Women deserve absolutely no sympathy for their issues.Oh, you mean the gynocentric society that wants to force 10 year old rape survivors to become parents against their will? You don't care about men's pain. You care about using our pain to empower the same dark triad far right that regards men as either useful or disposable in the first place. And you care about making excuses for your hatred of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 11:05 AM |
| 2 | Purple Pillers, what would you have done to prevent this situation?Yeah, but watch how fast they change their tune when you ask them to notice red flags like a rape survivor quietly freezing up due to sudden and unwanted groping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Do you really want to be the guy or gal with a high body count? Unpopular opinion belowI tend to be insecure or self aware enough that I need enthusiastic consent and sometimes still don’t believe women Oh, you must be fun. you know how they be. An excuse for your untreated anxiety disorder? Anyways, yeah, I've been pressured and I've been raped. I've also been a part of healthy sex positive circles that had no problems racking up some pretty impressive scores with those who passed inspection. And yet, they were pretty accepting of the fact that I'm only interested in being with o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 09:03 AM |
| 4 | Women deserve absolutely no sympathy for their issues.Me too. And as a man, thanks. Now explain why all the women who gave a damn about me, who fought to help me when men gave up on me, who saved me from both myself and some pretty fucked up predators aren't worthy of your empathy also? Because they way outnumber the women who laughed at my pain. Usually, I usually have to log onto social media to find women who behave like that. I ran into one a few hours ago, in fact. And I'll forget her just as quickly. Right now, you sound as bad as I did, when… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Women are emotionally driven and live for emotional validationSome men. I've watched other men chicken out when my friends called them out on that bluff. Another poster here accurately described the reactions of inexperienced men as being like an "active shooter situation'. Myself, I prefer to know someone before anything happens. So why not validate someone for what they're doing right? Especially if nobody else is doing it? It's not like I'll censor myself when I think they're making a mistake, or they cross any boundaries. Shouldn't a relationship build… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 08:40 AM |
| 3 | Women are emotionally driven and live for emotional validationSince when? I prefer relationships where the emotional support is mutual. If we're just not capable of working well together, I break up with her. Seems simple to me. Maybe the math is more complicated if you're thinking like a desperate junkie? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 08:22 AM |
| 4 | Women deserve absolutely no sympathy for their issues.Here's my hypocritical excuse for not giving a damn about the suffering of others. Note the lack of self-awareness. Noted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 08:19 AM |
| 10 | Women are emotionally driven and live for emotional validationThey make guys say “I love you” all the time and make them compliment their looks. Most guys hate this stuff but do it to appease them/keep getting laid. In short, your friends are shallow manipulators who need to lie to get what they want. They can't land anyone who shares their interests, so they roleplay their lives away, while preying on the insecure. Then they come crying to you about being "forced" to provide emotional support. It must suck to live in tradcon spaces. And in bad sitcoms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Women find men who ask something of their woman more attractiveAlso, I'm wondering how much honesty is encouraged? The reports on exes I've heard can sometimes be a good mix of bad and good, complete with reasonable explanations for why it wasn't meant to be. But I'm not sure it's the kind of report someone insecure could be trusted with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Women find men who ask something of their woman more attractiveHow long have you been here? You'll become very jaded, very quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 05:48 AM |
| 5 | Q4RP: If women are only attracted to hot and/or wealthy men then why are the majority of men still able to find relationships?The answers make me wonder how many redpills are on the spectrum, or simply lack the ability to make healthy connections. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Are Old Virgins Unattractive?I have no idea who this person is, so I can't even imagine being attracted to them. I'd say the same thing if they were sexually experienced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 05:41 AM |
| 3 | A lot of guys think they’re 8’s after fucking a few fat/average girls. I asked my boyfriend why and he said “they’re insecure”I wonder how many people actually lose sleep measuring themselves on a 1-10 scale? Especially since most people have done a terrible job of defining anything except the very extreme ends of the scale. You're really better off when there's passionate disagreement, than when everyone agrees you're cute and then stops thinking about you. Anyways... Speaking as an actual insecure person, all sex did was convince me that people are terrible judges of looks, when they're attracted to you. Or that they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 05:36 AM |
| 2 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell....good point. I'm still not entirely convinced...I have met a few men and women who managed to seduce each other just by existing together in the same space. It was cute. They made beautiful regrets together. And I have also watched men who knew what they were doing in all the worst possible ways. But otherwise, comparing all this to an active shooter situation might be the most painfully accurate thing ever said here. And I'd only add that there's significant overlap with a hostage negotiatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 05:17 AM |
| 5 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellSecond and third hit close to home. But I've got to disagree. There's way too many men posting here who have zero standards, and would dry hump the leg of a total stranger. And I've met Dominants who are too fragile to handle someone with any thoughts of their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 01:48 AM |
| 2 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellI've seen a variety of fuckbois. This subreddit is just obsessed with the type that allows them their favorite tradcon roleplay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 01:46 AM |
| 2 | [Serious] Q4ALL: How much do economics and class factor into all this?Question - is changing minds the only measure of success? I was always taught that the reason we debate knuckleheads, is to reach those who haven't made up their minds and to lend support to those under attack, or to offer our strength to those fighting the good fight. It's the same everywhere. The dumbest among us are those most assured that they're right about everything, because they lack the ability to measure the borders of their own ignorance. And their confidence is what makes them danger… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 08:01 AM |
| 8 | Women should not be wearing revealing clothing out in public if they are in a relationship.Women covering up everything except their eyes are still called evil sluts, if their eyes are too hot. Quit making excuses for some men to behave like animals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 07:46 AM |
| 2 | [Serious] Q4ALL: How much do economics and class factor into all this?I'm far from an incel apologist. Apologies. That's entirely my fuck-up, if that's how it came across. (Rereading my post now, is painful.) I was going more for a "You're right, but you're addressing real world problems, and this subreddit is all about avoiding them." Which is why I wish you'd stay - you're honest, and you're not just here to pick low hanging fruit. But I've already left this place numerous times, for years at a time. I'm not sure why I came back. If you need to get out, for your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 07:34 AM |
| 1 | [Serious] Q4ALL: How much do economics and class factor into all this?You can be comfortable working with people, or even having them as friends, and still be terrified of what happens when the rules aren't spelled out for you. My exposure therapy took years, and it required the patience and wisdom of good people who thought I was worth the time, and both learning from painful mistakes and moving on from them. Usually, at first, I was the one making those painful mistakes - there's no substitute for experience. Sometimes, other people were. Nobody's perfect. By co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 07:24 AM |
| 4 | [Serious] Q4ALL: How much do economics and class factor into all this?People's realities, their lived experiences, are just ignored as supposed outliers because the uncomfortable truth is so alien to the listener. As an actual statistical outlier, I've got some issues with this statement. I'm living below the poverty line. And disability...let's just leave it at I'm below average in the only measures the redpill cares to measure. But. None of it prevented me from stumbling into love and lust. It turns out there's more to life than socioeconomic status and what you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 06:50 AM |
| 0 | the fact that we ahev to walk on eggshels to turn people down just goes to show how dysfucntional our society isReality is that men are dangerous, and they would be useless if not capable of violence No, that's just you shitting on other men for not sharing the same struggles as you, and ignoring what they bring to the table. Are you always competing with random strangers, whenever you talk about yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 09:08 AM |
| 3 | What’s the solution?Over 10 times more likely than the average adult American to be a virgin - that one was a surprise. Over 5 times more likely than the average adult American to attend college - but then, you'd expect something similar in any debate subreddit. So much for blaming higher education for their struggles. Apologies if I'm missing something obvious or it's just a problem on my end, but their social and political perspectives don't seem labeled at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 08:37 AM |
| 4 | the real reason men are concerned with if a woman waits to have sex with them or doesn't perform kinks with us but other dudesIt was one of their favorite topics in 2015, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 04:23 AM |
| 3 | Not one man, of any caliber, would reject an attractive woman because she was “socially awkward” or any number of other frivolous reasons. This is often mistakenly attributed to differences in selection criteria, but ultimately signifies women’s privilege and abundance.Like men with low libidos, men who slut shame women who enjoy sex, men with anxiety issues, and men seeking commitment? Because those aren't rare at all. And once we establish that extreme kinks can turn a man off (the reason why I covered them), the question is - do the kinks always need to be extreme in every case? You don't create science by stereotyping and then refusing to experiment with anything that threatens the stereotype. Not unless this is politics, for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 04:12 AM |
| 0 | Not one man, of any caliber, would reject an attractive woman because she was “socially awkward” or any number of other frivolous reasons. This is often mistakenly attributed to differences in selection criteria, but ultimately signifies women’s privilege and abundance.I've seen what's being described. Many of my friends have met this description. But it looked a lot less like men rejecting them, and more like men slowly catching on that their attentions were unwelcome and trying to save face. With all that said? I've also watched men fold when a woman decides to call their bluffs about always wanting sex as fast as possible. Sometimes, it's insecurity - sudden pressure can create performance anxiety. Others are turned off when there's no challenge - they asso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Is sex inherently degrading for women?Both. I could match her strength as long as I don't need to manage triggers, and I'm standing on my feet. So she went for the crotch. Tonic immobility helped her take me down. Once she's on top, she's using all her body weight and pushing down...I have to push up and away... And I can't make it stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Is sex inherently degrading for women?Some of us just aren't as strong as you. But I'm not going to simply give up and rot, just because my health is a wreck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 11:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who want practical dating advice from women should listen to women who date both women and men.I like how he's lecturing you on how it's impossible for you to understand men, while insisting that it's women who can't recognize men as individuals. What you're describing is my pretty close to my experience with it all. And he might as well be on an alien planet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 11:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who want practical dating advice from women should listen to women who date both women and men.Okay, this is just my experience as a man, though - women being on guard around me, is something I deal with, when talking to strangers. Most of my closest friends have been women. Which is why advice from women like you, has been a thousand times more useful than the paranoia/male disposability the redpill preaches. All they managed to do was teach me how to go through life on autopilot, desperate for the validation of shallow people I can't stand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: How would you view a man who is vocal about men's rights and struggles as a dating prospect?Too much data! That's hard work! Grow up. Learn the subject matter before claiming expertise. a society where men and women weren't exaggerating masculine and feminine Irrelevant. They still identified as men and women. Nobody's claiming male is 1:1 toxic masculine and woman is 1:1 feminine vulnerability. Not unless we're talking about flipping the gendered behavior of mice, anyways - which, by the way, is easy to do and can't be explained away by socialization. Still, humanity seems much more a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 10:44 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: How would you view a man who is vocal about men's rights and struggles as a dating prospect?That's nice. I can link lots more studies, if you need them. Did you know, by the way, that no society has ever succeeded in eliminating gender identity? And that cis men and trans men share the same putamen? You've randomly decided that you know better than the vast majority of trans people, those studying them, and their doctors, because.... Well, crying about imperfect studies. While your claims have nothing backing them at all. You don't really understand how to separate your own bias from t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 10:13 PM |
| 4 | Is sex inherently degrading for women?I thought she was drunk, because it wouldn't be the first time she wasn't in control of herself. So she could be violent, and I was more worried about hurting her. I didn't even know she was raping me - what would be the point? I refused to sleep with her until she sobered up? We'd fucked plenty of times before then. She'd been the one who took my virginity in the first place, because she was a friend, and a sadist, and she kept her cool when I was panicking from childhood sexual assault PTSD, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 10:03 PM |
| 2 | most men don't want vanilla sex from their wivesAgreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Is sex inherently degrading for women?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Is sex inherently degrading for women?The sex act inherently puts the woman in a much more vulnerable position. I had no idea my rapist was just being vulnerable. See, this is what relationship counselors mean when they're talking about incompatible love languages. Lucky I had friends willing to enthusiastically surrender my brains out, in order to prove that sex can be something wonderful, when shared with the right person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 08:13 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: How would you view a man who is vocal about men's rights and struggles as a dating prospect?Not sure why you think your abstract theory beats their real world experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Women really dislike autistic menHow things work in your fantasy world: Tinder Profile: "Yo, I want to punch a bitch into a coma." Her: "Okay, but can we fuck during?" Him: "Only if you're up for a three way. I've got a prior commitment." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Should your standards be set internally based on what you want and how you see yourself or should they be based on the results you are getting and how others may see you?I'm stuck at the part where he's using a dating app. "If this guy can't get a date in a place where women are flooded with low effort DMs, should he assume it's entirely due to his looks and bother women he isn't attracted to?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | A huge amount of straight men are actually homo-romanticAh, there's that poison I was missing. I was more surprised that women could dismiss redpill theory these days without folks like you calling them liars and trying to dogpile them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 07:47 PM |
| 4 | A huge amount of straight men are actually homo-romanticNo kidding. Years ago, this place seemed to be flooded with bad PUA advice and non-stop whining from the Elliot Rodgers fanclub. I barely recognize it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Easy friendships with women but few sexual relationships, friends partners feeling "safe" around them. Are women friends with ugly guys?Just curious: how many sexual partners does someone need to have, before they're allowed to want friends without benefits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 06:26 PM |
| 0 | Q4All: Would you rather marry your average looking best friend; or a really hot person you have nothing in common withPerson A is whom you could describe as your best friend. You get along super well; complete each other; and have amazing chemistry. It seems like you are meant for each other. However don't you find them physically attractive. Why not? You are not repelled by them; you don't find them hot but you don't find them ugly either. They are meh. Meh doesn't exist for me. (Also it is quite possible you are attracted to them otherwise, just not physically) Yeah, that's not how any of this works. If I'm a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menI'm just saying that your arguments are shallow. You're the exact opposite of gender critical. You don't care how much harm words can do. You refuse to observe your own reactionary politics. And you've failed to make a good case for people being forced to take your abuse, rather than keeping it to your spare time. Or conversations with people who don't mind talking about it? Put it to you this way: If I started insulting every stranger I saw, in public? In ways designed to hurt them as much as p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 10:29 AM |
| 1 | are you flattered if someone ugly asks you out ?How are we defining ugly? They probably win points for asking, especially if they're only asking for a date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 10:15 AM |
| 0 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menI like scientists, not a political hack who wrote an infamous dumpster fire of lies and half truths. If you care about the truth, in depth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 10:06 AM |
| 2 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menNot really. Some trans men and women suffer from dysmorphia. Some don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menBecause he also fought against his son getting any gender affirming help, and he's been running around lying his ass off about how many children de-transition? Supporting trans identities is a pretty serious issue. Or maybe if activists like him would stop claiming that tomboys are the same as transboys whenever they want to discredit the idea that trans children exist? "Look, little Suzy plays Doom Eternal and beats the crap out of her older brother, but she doesn't want to be a man! It's proof… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4A How differ your standards for each gender?I expect my friends to be honest and open-minded. No dark triads need apply, unless they've got their bullshit under control. Anything beyond that has to do with individual strengths and weaknesses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 05:56 AM |
| 2 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menThe 10th Amendment is what limits federal power. It belongs to the states Amendment 14 still overrules state power to deprive innocent people of liberty and life. Thanks for proving you'd be laughed out of any honest court, at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping men*Where, in the Constitution, does it grant the federal government jurisdiction over medical procedures of any kind? Where, in the Constitution, does it give states the right to deny life-saving medical treatment to citizens on the basis of their sex? In violation of the 9th and 14th amendment reinforcing each other? And restricting state power? You still haven't built a case for me to argue against. You just keep insisting that these poor "states" should have a blank check to enforce their creat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menNo, your argument ignored context. We are talking about strict Constitutional textualists vs. the 9th amendment calling out that bullshit in very plain language. And that topic came up because you insisted abortion wasn't covered in the constitution by name, despite being needed to protect the 14th amendment. Now, can you explain why you're specifically ignoring all of this, in order to focus on distractions and technicalities? I mean, it's pretty clear why you're doing it, but we might as well … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menOdd. I expected to see something about the 14th or the definition of "personhood" in here. Why quit so soon? Because both of these are central to my reading of how the 9th applies, in this instance. Are you trying a strawman and a "take my word for it because of my job"? That's so cute! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menYou still haven't offered an I'm sorry you ignored that link about XY cis-women earlier and you're too lazy to Google what a putamen is. I'm not sure why you're still whining about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping men9th amendment: The rights granted in the bill of rights are not limited to those specifically described in the bill of rights. The reason for that amendment is because lawyers like to play a game of "evil genie", where they ignore the spirit of the law for the most literal reading of things possible, in order to obey orders in the most sadistic way possible. Example: Hollywood accounting. "Oh, you get a share of the profits? Well, technically, Forrest Gump lost money. Man, all those shell compan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menIt's cruel the way I refuse to validate your paranoia or your bronze age superstitions. Good thing I've already had so much practice. If you're determined to be a hypocrite, and ignore all the evidence against you? Then go cry somewhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menI like the part where you skipped the 9th amendment. And the 14th amendment too. Btw: a fetus doesn't qualify for personhood until the 3rd trimester, when it gains the ability to think and feel. So the only question is, why did it take you so many words to be wrong about everything? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menTo be fair, a dumb shrug was all you said anyways. You must be getting paid by the word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menLet’s be real: if women wanted this to be torn down as a rule, it would happen yesterday. They can't even get an abortion in all 50 states. Not even if they were raped and their life depended on it. But hey, if you've got a starship, there's some refugees who'd be willing to pay for sanctuary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menYou want to freely impede on my freedom of speech By my simply disagreeing with you here, or by society giving employers the freedom to fire you if you insist on creating a hostile workspace for trans employees? Nobody's going to censor what you say in your free time. Go cry on a friend's shoulder about how oppressed you want to be. And, I speak English, not Latin. Science uses Latin. Are you going to crucify yourself over that one too? Side note: Have y I'm still cis male. But keep going with t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menI don't recognize the term "cis." Now you're going to go to war with Latin, too? You should warn all those SJW chemists that you're going to put a stop to all their cis and trans talk. I have XY chromosomes and that makes me male according to science (biology). Trust the science, girl. I guess if you're also going to misgender cis men like me, that's fair. You're just gender dyslexic. That has to be rough for you, mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 12:11 AM |
| 0 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menCis men and trans men have the same putamen. Many intersexed men and women identify as men and women, despite being intersexed. This happens whether or not they know they're intersexed. Even surgery as an infant doesn't change anything. So, if you want to make all the science go away, because it doesn't validate your feelings about other people's identities? Just be honest, and keep bronze age superstition in the past, where it belongs. call me daddy My father was a drug addicted paranoid schizo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menThe problem of bias in determining the primary abuser is bad enough without you exaggerating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menI. Many businesses insist on make-up. It's a mandatory uniform if you want the job. It's also common for women who don't wear make-up to be asked if they're sick by their co-workers. There's nothing preventing men from also applying these standards to themselves, if they think it gives an unfair competitive advantage. Rock stars do it all the time, and speaking from experience, going Goth helped me get noticed in mid 90's Adams County Pennsylvania....and also immediately started rumors about my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 11:37 PM |
| 9 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menHere you go. And feel free to ask me if you have any questions about C-16, since you either never heard of it, or you completely trusted the lies he's told about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menProbably because so many comments were pretending violent women are never arrested. It helps to know how police run things where you live. Some cops are tradcons who think women are delicate little flowers, and if a man is getting beat-up by one, he's just a little baby who needs to grow up and alpha his way into Bible Branded Gorean lifetyles Leave It to Beaver. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 11:06 PM |
| 12 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menJordon Peterson also can't look at a woman in lipstick without thinking about engorged monkey genitals and accusing her of sexual harassment. His response to transgender people being added to already existing hate crimes legislation was to claim they're now locking up every asshole who misgenders them. Which briefly cheered me up, but turned out to be a complete and utter lie. Or a side effect of all those bath salts. It's hard to tell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 10:54 PM |
| – | Sex differences is a major factor in how bad age gap relationships can getI'd propose a lot of age gap relationships simply begin either because the older partner offers maturity, experience, and guidance or there's some shared passions involved. At least when things go right. The reason they're taboo is that it's very easy for things to wrong. Money can also create an age gap relationship. So can a dark triad cult leader or a trusted church pedophile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Women HAVE to be told to “pick better” because kindness, chivalry, and gentlemanly behavior doesn’t turn women on IN GENERAL as much as it shouldGood guy Chad: "Hey, it's okay you like bad boys. Let's play that game sometimes, because it's fun to make you blush, and I love you." Nice_Guy_RodgersFan1488: "Why don't modern women pay me back for all the sex they owe me?! We need to turn the clock back to when they were just a man's property!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Women HAVE to be told to “pick better” because kindness, chivalry, and gentlemanly behavior doesn’t turn women on IN GENERAL as much as it shouldHint: Anyone can pretend to be a nice guy. It's why so many people end up in abusive relationships with a complete stranger they no longer recognize. Nice doesn't mean anything unless you're a genuinely good person. The kind who, as a general rule, is good to everyone, not just those their dick is pointing out. Besides, actually good people? They don't like boring people to death, if they know how to avoid it. So some of the best people in the world can and will pretend to be a rogues gallery wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Do you think women place the same rules on ugly guys and attractive guys?If you're talking about individuals, sure, the rules change. But one thing: most people aren't beautiful or ugly, at least if we're using the most common definitions. And definitions can change, especially when women are appraising people. (They tend to rate men's faces more negatively overall, but they're less likely to agree on what counts as an appealing trait.) Then there's individuals who fall outside of statistical majorities. For example, when I was young and incredibly stupid, my express… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Do you think women place the same rules on ugly guys and attractive guys?It definitely happens. Sure. One problem: there are also ugly people happily bumping uglies, even if the deep thinkers here don't want to think about the mental image and pretend it never happens. And while rare, there are also looks mismatched pairs. Some people just have different definitions of beauty. If she asked me out, I wouldn't hesitate to say yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 07:24 PM |
| 4 | Do you think women place the same rules on ugly guys and attractive guys?Individual thought isn't allowed in redpill philosophy. They'd rather gamble on lazy heuristics and and put all the real work into creating excuses when their theories don't work out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 07:12 PM |
| 4 | What even is the "friendzone"?If you don’t tell your crush about your feelings you have no right to be mad at them for not possibly reciprocating them. A-FUCKING-MEN. Edited, to remove any lingering ambiguity. I expierenced that quite a few times They never realize how difficult it is to read their minds through their thick skulls. bc the women couldn’t smell that they were not interested in a friendship Now I'm going to wonder whether they expected you to sniff their crotch? Also, I hope their pets are okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 09:12 PM |
| 23 | What even is the "friendzone"?It's just a friendship. Sometimes, it's good, sometimes, it's meh. Sometimes, it'll tear your soul apart. Sometimes, it's like meeting your soul mate. Anyways, it kicks ass if you're both doing it right. If one of you is pretending to be a friend, in order to get laid? You deserve your failure. Fuck off and stop crying about it. If you tell your friend you're attracted to them, and that friend just keeps you guessing about how they feel for years, because you're too useful? THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRI… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'There's being a good, supportive listener, and then there's being entertaining and fun to be around and a bit sexy. Ideally, you master both skillsets. Sometimes, people need to escape from their problems, not just be reminded of them. You're not her therapist. Therapists have professional boundaries they can't break...or even play with... to avoid exploiting an unbalanced power dynamic and emotional/erotic transference. Meanwhile, many friends and lovers tease each other the whole damn time. It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Here is the one and only advice that will work for you average and even unattractive menI guess you’re not a Drake fan. I've missed out on a lot. Anything you'd recommend as a starting place? I understand what demisexuality is, and that doesn’t come into conflict with what I’m saying. I’m talking about attraction here, not behavior. Right. And I'm saying that as a demisexual, I can appreciate people the way I would a piece of art - that doesn't go away, and I could be cruel or shallow if either actually did anything for me. But it's independent of whether or not I find someone pers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Here is the one and only advice that will work for you average and even unattractive menHere's a helpful FAQ. Look it over, when you're ready to face the world again. No hurry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Here is the one and only advice that will work for you average and even unattractive menEnjoy your safe space. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Here is the one and only advice that will work for you average and even unattractive menSure, kid. I'll take that into consideration and then completely ignore it, because it doesn't match up with my experience at all. Kind of like you're doing, right now! Except my worldview doesn't exclude someone else having different experiences. Still - None of my partners were attracted to me within the first few minutes of us meeting, and I wouldn't be attracted back if they were. You really are just jerking off. Thought you should know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Here is the one and only advice that will work for you average and even unattractive menThere are literally women right below you saying the exact opposite. Not sure why you guys can't ever deal with half the planet having more than one personality to spare between them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Q to bluepill, why you are not redpill?He enjoys over-simplifying things. Edit: I don't necessarily agree with the conclusions in this article. But it demonstrates that his claims are questionable, even when examined from a right wing perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/20 02:59 PM |
| 1 | If women think you are creepy then it is your faultMany of the men posting here even creep out all the creepy women, apparently. Or they have no standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/20 02:40 PM |
| 0 | If women think you are creepy then it is your faultYou need to meet more creepy women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/20 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Q to bluepill, why you are not redpill?Isn't he the master debator who thinks women only wear lipstick for pornographic reasons, and lies about c-16? The one who avoids answering any question that would make him look bad, but leaves enough bread crumbs behind that can anyone follow the trail? He's either brain dead or playing stupid. He's not an authority on anything except how to sell books to the gullible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/20 02:26 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Actually living the casual sex life paraded as the high point of existence by the TRP leads one to something close to the Blue PillGenerals are beheld to their troops in various ways so they don’t go AWOL but that doesn’t mean the troops are dominant to him. Aye. But a soldier who immediately turns on his general if he doesn't like the orders? Especially if the general's wounded, or exhausted, or just needed an old friend to confide in? So he constantly has to watch his back? And lives his life on a stage? That soldier's not even a good mercenary. If a soldier actually behaved like that on the battlefield, they'd be shot. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 01:32 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Actually living the casual sex life paraded as the high point of existence by the TRP leads one to something close to the Blue PillAh, apologies. Misunderstood which part you objected to. So, returning to what I asked earlier about the queen and the harem - Again, how is one woman not ranked higher than the rest? I've never, not even once, met a polyamorous couple where they avoided favorites. The closest they ever came to it was merely a change in rank. And it's usually bluepill to appreciate all the positive qualities a partner brings to the equation. So, if she's above all the others, due to her collection of virtues, wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 12:59 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Actually living the casual sex life paraded as the high point of existence by the TRP leads one to something close to the Blue PillAgain, OP's not using the definition of a nuclear family together forever when talking about the bluepill. What makes a polyamorous man being allowed to take another partner (so long as he's got some standards and doesn't go for the nearest junkie) any different from a man who cheats on his wife, except honesty, respect, and good communication? And don't forget, in order for the redpill's claims to be true, there can't be any sexual attraction at all between a man and a woman unless he's always … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 12:47 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Actually living the casual sex life paraded as the high point of existence by the TRP leads one to something close to the Blue PillThose celebrity men usually end up in serial monogamy, don't they? Once they're sick of exploring the fantasy? Why aren't they all going for a high score with their fans? Why do they seek a deeper connection? After all, many of them are a bit lacking in impulse control. Behavior wise at least, you're seeing their true selves. Add to that, the length of their relationship depends on whether they can handle the frequent travel and long time spent apart, constant media scrutiny and harassment, judg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 12:11 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Actually living the casual sex life paraded as the high point of existence by the TRP leads one to something close to the Blue PillYeah, but some people are just naturally monogamous. I'm one of them. I've had a few chances to cheat, or explore an open relationship, and it just leaves me cold. Like...I'm trying to think of an analogy you could relate to... Imagine the last thing you'd want to put your dick into? Now imagine your dick rots into a liquid from the experience. And you have no idea how far inside you the rot has spread. It's a lot like that, and also a lot like how you regard traditional monogamy with one partne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 11:31 PM |
| 17 | Bad guy radarYou have no idea how many abusive men get rejected for every one that gets through. Most women learn to read the signs, the same way you learned how to read traffic. And for much the same reason. Other women got their warning system the hard way. Others lacked that experience, they can learn all the obvious warning signs second hand, but just hearing about it is no substitute. They're going to miss a lot of subtle tells. I mean, you do realize that most predators have had years to learn how to r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 11:03 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Actually living the casual sex life paraded as the high point of existence by the TRP leads one to something close to the Blue PillThere have been many kings and royalty who had harems. But how many women in those harems were both qualified and trusted to share power, and to produce an heir? The bluepill - at least, the way the bluepills here are using the term - just means "everything that isn't the redpill." Basically, it argues it's ridiculous to treat real life like a hentai dating sim. That doesn't mean you can't have multiple partners, or that you can't be more dominant than your partners. It basically amounts to a bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 10:53 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Actually living the casual sex life paraded as the high point of existence by the TRP leads one to something close to the Blue PillBecause you're in a better position to appreciate what love brings to the table, without confusing the two. And you're in a better position to know what you actually want and don't want in a partner, beyond just what your body wants and a vague sense of an ideal love. Because a general lack of experience is all over most people starting the redpill that's not shared by the blue. For example, their inability to deal with more than one personality profile for half the planet, or all the redpill cl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 10:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The feminization of society is not such a bad thingNever said that or implied that you said that, the only person who continues to bring up this irrelevant point is you. Seems pretty relevant to me that Saudi Arabia is tied to that kind of violence. It's far from an ideal to emulate. This type of system stunts innovation, Source? There's been plenty of innovation since we built a social safety net. The fact we're able to have this exchange speaks for itself. The society you advocate for tends to be corrupt, even when compared to our present syst… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/19 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Can women feel genuine attraction towards the safe bb?Thanks for your lecture, and for your projection. You don't speak for as many people as you think you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/19 12:40 AM |
| 6 | Discussion: The Reality of the Beta Bucks SexPorn is to sex like the WWE is to amateur wrestling and the UFC. There's a lot of effort that goes into making this look easy. For example, the preference for abnormally large dicks is so that the camera can linger on repeat penetration. It's also why she'll assume positions that are more about showing off her athletic skills to amateur gynecologists than comfort. You don't see the men who fail the "Show me an erection now, in front of everyone." hiring process. Or the men who can't manage to ke… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Can women feel genuine attraction towards the safe bb?Over the years, plenty of men have answered questions like these. They're mostly ignored unless they confirm the fears of young redpill men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Can women feel genuine attraction towards the safe bb?And “he’s my best friend” communicates zero arousal. Marriage is often "best friends with benefits." It's rarely something that needs explained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Does the "Only horny with you" fantasy work for women?Some women are jealous. Some are insecure. Some women want him to be a bit of a rogue, because it means something when he still chooses her despite his libido. Besides, they have no secrets from each other. And some women want to help audition potential partners for the three way/new submissive/second marriage. Not sure how this is difficult to understand. It's similar to how men feel about women looking at other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Does the "Only horny with you" fantasy work for women?ever once in their lives? before they met? this seems insane to me Quoted for truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 11:44 PM |
| 6 | Discussion: The Reality of the Beta Bucks SexNo, she explained that most couples didn't learn everything they know about sex from porn. But congratulations, if you're just lazy and found a partner willing to do everything for you. Most of us aren't looking for that kind of co-dependency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Would you be OK being the "BB" choice? Why or why not?It's just like watching you make the sign of the cross. Does your faith help you cope? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 11:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The feminization of society is not such a bad thingFinish the second half of the first sentence, and the rest of the post. I didn't say that violence and economic inequality by themselves caused 9/11. In cultures with healthy feminine perspectives, there's at least a social safety net, and protection for the most vulnerable, while they regain their strength. Overall, men and women both are given more reasons to remain invested in society. Saudi Arabia, by contrast, regards too many people as disposable. And they're too stupid to learn anything f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 08:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The feminization of society is not such a bad thingThat prosperity isn't distributed evenly, because overly masculine societies tend to be stupidly obsessed with rigid hierarchy and honor. Any threat to someone's position can lead to violence. And many men, trained to be unyielding, don't learn the basic coping skills necessary to avoid making a scene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Would you be OK being the "BB" choice? Why or why not?Some of us are just naturally monogamous, and turned off by short term relationships. And many couples are aware that neither of them will be doing any modeling any time soon. We still find each other attractive anyways, and we're not exactly lacking for evidence on the matter. I'm not sure how you guys convinced yourselves that a common long term relationship is always a dead bedroom situation where she's really only attracted to his wallet and emotional support. Is it just the usual projection… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 02:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The feminization of society is not such a bad thingEnjoy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 02:14 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The feminization of society is not such a bad thingWeird that you mention Saudi Arabia and not mention the fact that it's a masculine, peaceful(low crime rates) So, you're just going to ignore that whole 9/11 thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?You're not familiar with the blackpill's claims? Like "It's over! Women find most men unattractive, and we're pretending they're all attracted to the same types of men in order to better torture ourselves!"? Or "It's over! We only care about studies and websites that measure first impressions! Women are incapable of taming their calculating reptile brains!"? Or "It's over! If our hearts have been broken, then romantic love is a lie, and personality means nothing!" It's just a collection of cring… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 10:17 PM |
| 1 | If male sexuality is predatory, do females enjoy being the prey?Of course. I never said no women are into it. But how does that translate into "they define the essence of billions of people?" Especially when many of the women who passionately HATE traditional gender roles wouldn't be caught dead in this place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 09:57 PM |
| 1 | If male sexuality is predatory, do females enjoy being the prey?Just admit that predator/prey roleplay turns you on. Because many people prefer to work together towards a mutual seduction. And even in a traditional chase, so long as it's a welcome pursuit, many women behave like more like stealth matadors than helpless victims. They've got to keep the chase interesting, after all. Still, there's no shame in exploring predator/prey dynamics among consenting adults, if that's your thing, so long as everyone takes reasonable precautions and has a safe word. But… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Women Are Devaluing ThemselvesYes. Because most people not only can get laid, but have options and compatibility standards when it comes to choosing their partners. If you don't? To the point where you take "AWALT" rants seriously? You're not winning at life. You're just giving yourself a participation ribbon for fucking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?You are blabbering random nonsense. I wouldn't dream of doing your job for you. I am not gonna watch or try to understand some stupid yank You realize it's the 21st century, search engines exist, and what you're really trying to say is that you're simply dismissing the criticism without understanding it? You're going through a lot of trouble to prove my point. Even a linear regression algorithm does a be Please. You guys live in a fantasy world where everyone secretly thinks the way you do. Blac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Women Are Devaluing ThemselvesSo, if I understand this correctly, the dudes you describe happily prostitute themselves out to a bunch of horny assholes who don't give a damn about them outside of the bedroom? And these dudes consider that winning at life, somehow? While the dudes who can't get a job roleplaying Christian Grey compliment every woman they get near like a verbal bukkake, 24/7? So that none of the compliments mean a damn thing, except "I want to get in your pants, but can't handle the risk of rejection?" Wow, I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 05:41 AM |
| 2 | Having sex means you're ready to become an adultFeel free to demonstrate how your tongue can impregnate a woman. Edit: Just curious: You do know how babies are made, right? o.o? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 04:58 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?I don't watch Hollywood garbage not that any of that made any sense. Lots of people struggle with figurative language around these parts, unless there's a FAQ attached. I've never understood why you're all so proud of it. Nor am I red, just normally functioning. Be careful with that silver tongue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 04:46 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?You're a little confused. It's the redpill that obsesses over the rear view mirror. Your nostalgia for the 20th century speaks for itself. It's like you guys collectively watched Back to the Future once, and haven't stopped crying since. Besides, if we're really using driving as a metaphor, redpills would do a great job of representing how Detroit failed to adapt to demand for something besides big muscle cars with bad steering and poor gas mileage. The redpill contains some of the most insecure… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?Some of us just don't need to round everything off when doing our math. Seriously, if we were talking about the weather, the redpill would insist it's only about chasing the storms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: Can we have an objective discussion about the number scale on looks, and possibly come to some agreement on a standardized baseline?This thread's already devolving into the usual attempts to police everyone else's preferences. But at least you tried. I cringe at calling someone out as, "below average" publicly, but will say the actress Tilda Swinton falls into that category of "not my cup of tea," based soley on looks. Some people agree with you. Some don't. It's not the end of the world. Personally, she's probably at the top of my looks list, if a gun was pointed at my head, and I could only fill the top of the list with ce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you feel as if being "nice" to women can hinder your "success"?And? There's lots of ways to be a bastard, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 07:48 PM |
| 4 | Younger men are more masculine and hence more attractive than older menI'm still confused about the part where you confuse young men's gift for drama and their overcompensation to avoid it as a masculine strength. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Do you feel as if being "nice" to women can hinder your "success"?I lost my virginity in high school at a math conference after telling a string of very racist jokes to a girl who was most definitely out of my league. There's plenty of topics that help men and women feel less inhibited. The two of you just preferred the really racist ones. This isn't universal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 05:27 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Do you feel as if being "nice" to women can hinder your "success"?One of my acquaintances broke up with her boyfriend after he cheated. That same week, she straight up asked to fuck. I agreed, but I wanted to start conversations about whether she was okay, how her semester was going so far, etc. A few days later, she told me that she changed her mind and later mentioned that she was turned off or something by me being "too kind" and "paternalistic"? It doesn't always help to relive the things you hated about the week. Especially with someone who treats you lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 05:06 AM |
| 13 | Which, If any, parts of TRP do you consider to be morally wrong or using the wrong tone, yet factually correct or efficient?It's fun watching redpill men completely lose their shit whenever radical feminists gender flip that equation. To the point where they're not even welcome to debate here, unless they tiptoe carefully around fragile egos. The lack of self-awareness is bad, even by internet standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 04:46 AM |
| 5 | Men, how does it make you feel to know that most women prefer an attractive man to a "good man"The dirty secret is no woman would accept the reverse nowadays. Nah, the real dirty secret is how many of us share posts like these with our SOs for cheap comedy. Talk about low hanging fruit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/17 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Men hate women that "challenge" them and love women that support themAnd sane people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/17 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Men hate women that "challenge" them and love women that support themYou're describing a serious mental health issue. Most men are able to handle fair criticism without flight or fight, because they're not a broken child. And if it's happening every single day? Either she's got issues too, or you're fighting dementia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/17 11:36 AM |
| 3 | Men hate women that "challenge" them and love women that support themThis assumes a strong personality is always a negative personality. It can just as easily be one who keeps up with you, and watches your back. Someone who will stand by your side. Besides, the women who try to break you, aren't actually strong. They're inflexible. And something which can't ever bend at all, is ultimately very fragile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/17 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Are all men potential rapists?Please tell me there were consequences for the teacher... What was their problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/17 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Are all men potential rapists?What happened after? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/17 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Are all men potential rapists?You're just as guilty. Tell me, what happened in your world, that there's no such thing as the DA refusing to take a rape case to trial due to a lack of evidence, or defense attorneys willing to exploit the jury's mistrust of any plaintiff who copes with a sense of humor? Is your entire understanding of the criminal justice system based on clickbait and outrage porn? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/17 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Alternative Sexual Strategy?Of course there are shallow women who chase romantic highs. They're addicts. I'm just observing that there are also a lot of women who aren't Bella Swann all their lives. Meanwhile, I'm not seeing an equal emotional maturity from men. If anything, the redpill represents many of them finding adulthood terrifying, and rationalizing their way into behaving like eternal adolescents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/15 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Alternative Sexual Strategy?Not really. A deep emotional bond is going to outlast a pretty face. What's happening is too many men are getting all their ideas about relationships from media and image boards. When it comes to interpersonal relationships, many men are notoriously ill equipped. It's why women generally have stronger support networks, and a forever alone woman is seldom as desperate for any human contact as a forever alone man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/15 12:38 AM |
| 6 | Men Only- Which would you marry?The latter, but only because we'd be more sexually compatible. Even when I'm not in the mood, there's always an emotional component to sex. I really don't mind giving. If I was low libido, I'd prefer the first. Anyone who answers this based on looks alone really needs to be in more relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/15 05:16 AM |
| 7 | Alternative Sexual Strategy?So essentially, more men are thinking with their dicks than they are about any kind of compatibility? No surprise there. No wonder so many are bitter and alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/15 02:47 AM |
| 3 | CMV: TRP justifications for their hypocrisy has no bearing in real lifeEspecially since it's fictional one. Not everyone okay with dating someone shorter is going to target short people exclusively, which means most will still wind up with someone taller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/15 10:17 PM |
| 3 | CMV: TRP justifications for their hypocrisy has no bearing in real lifeYour numbers are wrong. There's a significant bias against short men, but 7.5 percent of couples are in a relationship without a taller man. This in a world where most men are taller than women to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/15 09:06 PM |
| 7 | Why do people think ugly men have it better than ugly women?It's more than just being shallow, it sounds like a significant cognitive handicap. Is it because you can only rate these women's worth as potential sex partners for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/15 08:56 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about sapiosexuals?At least now I know the question I really needed to ask to find the right answers. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/15 08:07 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about sapiosexuals?So, how do the fiber optic cables handle it? Apologies, if I'm annoying you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/15 07:47 PM |
| 1 | RP: Would you ever have sex with a feminist?I'd argue that most feminists today are more looking at a kyriarchy, rather than the straightforward gender binary view of oppression favored by the second wave. The problem is that things quickly become complicated as Hell when you try to factor in everything. For example, which companies are more likely to discriminate against someone for looks, or for age, or for the problems caused by poverty? Is there a price to pay for looking too ethnic? What is the exact social and economic cost of gende… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/15 07:45 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about sapiosexuals?Thank you for that. I didn't think you'd actually respond. I don't want to seem ungrateful, but can you explain how they avoid collision? How can all the data we send out and receive keep it's own ...is 'identity' the right word for it? I'd love to take another online course, but I already struggle to keep up with everything and everyone as it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/15 07:15 PM |
| 2 | RP: Would you ever have sex with a feminist?If you don't mind me asking, where do you disagree? From what I've seen from you, you're very unlikely to argue with what you'd rather I'd said, and an honest critic is difficult to find. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/15 06:22 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about sapiosexuals?I'm also not a woman or interested in men. But, if you wouldn't mind explaining? I know it's kind of weird now, given the context, but I only just found out LAST_ACK refers to more than the average 6 year old's idea of an award winning death scene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/15 06:15 PM |
| 2 | RP: Would you ever have sex with a feminist?I really wasn't expecting anyone here to understand the constant pressure many feminists put ourselves under. Or mock false accusation hysteria. Upvoted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/15 06:04 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about sapiosexuals?Bby I stopped reading. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/15 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Outliers are the majority.Nah, the blue pill says that there are more important things than treating people like search engine porn. The Redpill thinks putting it's dick into anyone with a symmetrical face and a popular body type gives it a higher gamer score. It's really only about competing with and impressing other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/15 08:02 PM |
| 0 | What do you think about sapiosexuals?Yes, I don't care about looks, so long as they aren't neglecting themselves so bad that health is a serious issue, but watching an engineering savant at work? If they aren't an asshole or a bigot? There's a beauty in designing the foundations of civilization. Especially if they can explain their passion. And a mind that can perform higher math is as clear and as defined as a diamond, but far more valuable. It's one of the wonders of the universe. I'd much rather have sex with a microbiologist th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/15 07:36 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about sapiosexuals?....please tell me that's all very intentional satire? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/15 03:08 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about sapiosexuals?We're all here arguing against strangers on the internet like complete idiots, but I doubt that's all we do. ... I hope it's not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/15 02:26 PM |
| 0 | What do you think about sapiosexuals?Either that, or we got sick of explaining that yes, we're actually sexually attracted to intelligence, and a single word is easier to use than rehashing the entire debate, over and over and over again. It doesn't mean a sapiosexual is themselves intelligent. It doesn't meant that smart people can't be dumb in other ways, since there are multiple forms of intelligence, and common sense is the rarest. It just means we're worse than zombies when it comes to wanting to eat out a brain - even if too … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/15 02:21 PM |
| 0 | Saw this image in r/TheBluePill. Please discuss at your leisure.Let's do a quick comparison. Feminists. vs. Anti-feminists. Tell me, do you just look for click bait when it comes to understanding us? You could look up modern feminist scientific studies, and help criticize them, instead of hanging out pretending we're all a lobotomized Illuminati. But then you'd have to actually do some research,instead of attacking cartoons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/15 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Saw this image in r/TheBluePill. Please discuss at your leisure.Here, debate away. Now, since the cartoons presented about feminism here are far more misleading than anything in this cartoon, why don't you explain why anti-feminists get a free pass on intellectual honesty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/15 08:01 PM |
| 0 | Saw this image in r/TheBluePill. Please discuss at your leisure.In a subreddit that's not about serious discussion at all? No shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/15 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Saw this image in r/TheBluePill. Please discuss at your leisure.I find it curious that the men's rights movement always defends the second wave, considering they were the ones who covered up women's crimes, and it was the third wave that was horrified when they uncovered the truth about their mothers. But research was never your strongest suit. Especially since you can't understand why anti-feminists aren't taken seriously as men's rights advocates. You seem to have bought the company line, completely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/15 07:53 PM |
| 0 | Saw this image in r/TheBluePill. Please discuss at your leisure.I like the part where you assume we all get billions of dollars a year. Most activists really aren't getting paid for it. But hey, maybe those mouseclicks will change the world one day, and you guys won't need to leave your seats at all. fire alarms Keep reminding everyone of fire alarms. When it's all you have, make the most of it. threats Join the club. Also - You've never seen friendly street flirting turn into violence? Lucky you. I wish we all were so lucky. But do keep those strawmen burni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/15 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Saw this image in r/TheBluePill. Please discuss at your leisure.Or those who protect them, or those who consider sexual assault part of the punishment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/15 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Saw this image in r/TheBluePill. Please discuss at your leisure.Don't expect a serious debate with those who only spam the worst feminists they can find, or invent reasons to misunderstand others, for an enthusiastic circlejerk in their echo chamber. Their identity is tied to feminists being wrong about everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/15 04:26 PM |
| 0 | Saw this image in r/TheBluePill. Please discuss at your leisure.The one that puts more people in the hospital? By the way, when you stop burning strawmen, and pretending that every hello on the streets is a sincere attempt to be friendly, can you explain why MRAs aren't going after the men mostly responsible for those rapes in the military and in prisons? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/15 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Saw this image in r/TheBluePill. Please discuss at your leisure.The redpill and radfems both agree that women are often reluctant for PIV, that alpha males rule the world, and that gender differences are really important. (at least, for some radfems, when it comes to rationalizing TERF logic or justifying a hate for men.) Did you have any questions, or did you want to just argue some more with yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/15 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Telegraph: Frenchman ordered to pay wife damages for lack of sex. (Imagine the outcry had that happened to a women, which - let's be honest - will be a far more common occurrence.)I'm not surprised to see redpills only upset that this isn't happening more often. The judge has just made it okay to threaten anyone who isn't feeling up to sex with serious financial penalties for refusing. How is this not a form of rape? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/15 09:16 AM |
| 3 | Saw this image in r/TheBluePill. Please discuss at your leisure.They all agree on the broad strokes of how the interactions between men and women work. Radfems want to tear down the system, TRPers want to exploit the system, and MGTOW want to stay out of trouble. The rest of the world thinks they all have serious issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/15 09:12 AM |
| 4 | Saw this image in r/TheBluePill. Please discuss at your leisure.Now you did it. Reddit's convinced that tumblr in action is all that's protecting civilization from collapse. Did you know that there are no programs to help men contemplating suicide? Or that it's totally legal to beat/rape one? None of it's true, but just wait until the MRAs among us finish responding to your writing prompt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/15 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Saw this image in r/TheBluePill. Please discuss at your leisure.The biggest problem with this comic, is it misses a few. The proud hypocrite - can observe everything wrong any feminist has ever done, an exhaustive list of sins which includes observing anti-feminists have the higher kill count. The Doc Brown - a mad scientist determined to defeat Valerie Solanas and friends with his internet time machine. The groundhog - scared of his own shadow, much less actually approaching a girl, he projects his fears of what could go wrong onto everyone else around him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/15 08:27 AM |
| -2 | Saw this image in r/TheBluePill. Please discuss at your leisure.Seems fairly accurate, especially at the end. It'll either be torn apart for not being an exhaustive rebuttal of every anti-feminist position, or ignored for the same reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/15 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Is Feminism inherently flawed?Like what? Hostility and playing victim. There's a reason Wikipedia asks editors to assume good faith. false rape accusations Are rarer than advertised on Reddit. MDMA I assume the feminists in a position to actually use it approve of it. Instead, it selects information to push an agenda, presumably paid for my people who benefit from said agenda. At least we can agree on that much. women's vote There are many women who are pro-life or transphobic. You can't just throw them all together into one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/15 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Is Feminism inherently flawed?You're reading a lot of things into my reply, which aren't there. What I'm doing is questioning your exposure to functional feminist spaces. Because you seem to think that quiet means passive. Why? First of all, we're not getting credit when working on intersectional issues, because we're working with other people who may or may not identify as feminist also... As for the rest. Feminists made safe spaces Yes, there's a need for them. Too many people think you can just throw every PTSD survivor i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/15 12:15 AM |
| 0 | On the Neurobiological and Genetic Origins of Hamstering and the Denial PhaseSo? Generalizations aside, this assumes most men judge their life partner on looks alone, and first impressions are everything. Are you really arguing men are a complete slave to their penis? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/15 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Is Feminism inherently flawed?And the trouble with any system of ideals in mass production, at all, is that people are very flawed. No matter what flag you wave, somewhere, some people, are using that flag to make the world worse for someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/15 09:02 PM |
| 0 | Is Feminism inherently flawed?I'm not speaking of those who don't act on their beliefs. But a feminist working with, for example, men in the mental health field isn't going to be identified as a feminist by the public unless they're aggressive about announcing their beliefs to random strangers. For feminists, it's easy to meet these people. We don't get banned from safe places. And we're going to talk to people who understand our perspective, rather than relying on the most visible sources of information in a media that seld… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/15 08:53 PM |
| -1 | On the Neurobiological and Genetic Origins of Hamstering and the Denial PhaseNot with the quality men she could've in her youth. I haven't seen a study on this, but it would logically make sense for many good men to be taken early and less being available to a woman of lesser quality (in terms of fertility, beauty, and pair-bonding ability). Many men don't settle down right away, and most want a woman similar to their age. I wish I had time to continue this debate, but I'll probably be banned by the time I get back. And purple pill is less about examining hard science, a… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/15 06:17 PM |
| 0 | Is Feminism inherently flawed?Most feminists aren't opportunistic politicians, or single issue advocates. And many branches aren't a top down hierarchy, so attempting to understand feminism through a conservative/redpill frame is doomed to failure. You also underestimate our popularity. Quieter, more reasonable feminism has won many victories without anyone recognizing feminist goals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/15 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Relapsing into TRP. Interested in being pulled to either side.It's meant to clinically separate sexual instinct/pair bonding from power dynamics, without sounding like computer code. Power is an aphrodisiac for a lot of folks, but not all, and it shouldn't be seen as a one size fits all formula for a healthy relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/15 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Relapsing into TRP. Interested in being pulled to either side.None at all. I'm not sure why aggressively advocating for an acknowledgement of diversity is taken to mean I want less diversity? Safe, sane, and consensual? Have fun and go nuts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/15 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Is Feminism inherently flawed?Curious. Are you arguing against TERFs? Because most feminists are aware that there are gender differences - if you allow for exceptions, and they're wrapped up in cog sci. By the way, IQ tests are pretty selective in what forms of intelligence they measure. Interpersonal skills are both underrated and vital to a functioning society. Too much aggression and uninformed risk-taking, which feminism fights against, can tear it apart. Do you need to see the crime reports or the medical records? Maybe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/15 05:55 PM |
| 0 | Is Feminism inherently flawed?I like the part where you take whatever feminists offend you, then expand their beliefs to the millions of the rest of us. Can you debate without doing that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/15 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Relapsing into TRP. Interested in being pulled to either side.Absolutely. Such couples enhance each other's superpowers all the time. Unless you meant in a "I'm the boss, you obey" kind of way. That's what pets and kids are for. Pretty sure none of us want to date either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/15 05:48 PM |
| 0 | On the Neurobiological and Genetic Origins of Hamstering and the Denial PhaseTake for instance, the knowledge that promiscuous behavior in women is universally experienced as disgusting in healthy men, and that it has many negative impacts on health and long-term happiness in women. A promiscuous woman, were she to hear this information, would have to go through the rest of her life knowing she is the cause for her loneliness and neuroticism. She would have to stop her fun and games to live a healthier lifestyle which promoted deferred-gratification and modesty. Universa… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/15 05:29 PM |
| 4 | Relapsing into TRP. Interested in being pulled to either side.If we want to talk full on passive-aggressive, let's look at the 'cock carousel', shall we? The redpill begins any debate by claiming their passive aggressive attacks are serious ideas actually worth debating. It whimpers and plays victim whenever someone plays even a little judo with their approach. They're a toxic caricature of both the feminine and the masculine. And it's tedious and thankless work trying to sort out any kind of common ground from their attacks and their persecution fantasies… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/15 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP: Which elements of TRP are actively damaging TO MEN?Thanks for the explanation. No, most neurotic people aren't radiating positive energy. Those that do, are either blessed, or worked hard to overcome the poison inside them. Or very often, both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/15 12:53 PM |
| 3 | Relapsing into TRP. Interested in being pulled to either side.We're not all hierarchal, in our personal lives. We're collaborators. We're partners in crime. You know, like wolf packs really are, once you subtract the fantasy element. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/15 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Relapsing into TRP. Interested in being pulled to either side.It was in response to whether sharing perspectives has anything to do with a power struggle. For many of us, it dosen't. We leave dominance/submission in the bedroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/15 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Relapsing into TRP. Interested in being pulled to either side.Sorry, but no. There are couples who are perfectly ambidexterous in deciding who's dominant. They're flexible, and happy to be a team together. Aggressive and passive aren't the only personality types on the planet, and most of us aren't going to change our lives just because the redpill has turned in its navel gazing report. And that's a large part of why the redpill is operating from a hypocritical position. We're supposed to debate their beliefs as if they were proven fact, but our own experi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/15 03:15 AM |
| 2 | To what extent does TRP's revulsion of feminine traits encourage homophobia? To what extent does te blank slate fallacy ruin people's relationship success? NSFWThe problem is the manosphere has decided that since blind faith, forced communication, and emotional neediness are turn-offs, women must absolutely hate men who can practically read their minds and trust them with honest answers. And now they're as much conspiracy theorist as any anti-vaccination nut. With that said, I haven't seen much in the way of violent homophobia from them. And it's not like there's never been gay men who have an irrational hate for the feminine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/15 03:08 AM |
| 6 | Relapsing into TRP. Interested in being pulled to either side.When the redpills refuse to explain themselves? It's inevitable. They assume we'll get the same thing out of reading their library as they do, and they couldn't be more wrong, because we don't share a similar personal frame to relate it all to. For example, most bluepills don't regard sharing perspectives with our loved ones as a struggle for supremacy. It just comes across as unhinged paranoia, and emotional abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/15 02:46 AM |
| 4 | Relapsing into TRP. Interested in being pulled to either side.Why not? It's a refreshing turn from this subreddit shitting all over feminism without the slightest bit of intellectual honesty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/15 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Q4BP: Which elements of TRP are actively damaging TO MEN?So go someplace where you can actually get to know/flirt with the people you're talking to. Maybe you can make that obsession actually work for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/15 02:28 AM |
| 0 | Q4BP: Which elements of TRP are actively damaging TO MEN?If they're sincere enough, understand their audience, and have a positive energy? You realize this kind of thing has been objectified for female audiences, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/15 02:13 AM |
| 0 | Q4BP: Which elements of TRP are actively damaging TO MEN?And how did they get famous, again? I've been involved in way too many painfully awkward stream of consciousness flirting sessions to buy into the "they're all golddiggers!" mythology. And hang out in the right places, and you can even watch players faking that kind of endearing awkwardness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/15 02:06 AM |
| -1 | Q4BP: Which elements of TRP are actively damaging TO MEN?When I looked in, the top reply was someone using her personal preferences to accidentally validate the redpill. Do you really think this is the best place to get objective advice about women? It scares away almost everyone the redpill doesn't speak to at all, except for those of us just here for the schadenfreude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/15 04:04 PM |
| -1 | Q4BP: Which elements of TRP are actively damaging TO MEN?Yeah, if you're going to hit on random strangers for hook-up sex, probably not a good idea to spill your guts to them and leave yourself vulnerable. Anyways, you're enjoying all this attention way more than facing your anxiety problem, so don't let me get in the way. Who needs hard work, when cynicism assures you that you never stood a chance anyways? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/15 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Q4BP: Which elements of TRP are actively damaging TO MEN?Right. No male comedians, musicians, actors, or geeks in general, have ever turned awkward neurotic energy into awkwardly charming. That's my dose of crazy alternate dimension for this morning. Please stop using your preferences to speak for everyone else. It's bad enough when the redpills do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/15 01:28 PM |
| 18 | New to sub. Saw something on r/TheRedPill that concerned me.Yes, but since the red pill is just a pack of gross over-generalizations, why should anyone care? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/15 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Does BP have any advice/suggestions on how to succeed with women?That would be completely fair, if you guys had the slightest clue what we were doing. Why is it that feminists have been studying sexually predatory women since at least the 90's, as part of 3rd wave reformation, but the redpill still thinks it's dangerous to talk about them? Why is it that we're having conversations, offline, among professionals, about treating violent women, using what we've learned about treating violent men, but you're still arguing with the biggest idiots on Tumblr about wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/15 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Does BP have any advice/suggestions on how to succeed with women?Let me try something - We point out the internal divisions, discussions and categorizations we make among ourselves in order to help us understand feminism (TERF, sex positive, intersectionalist, 3rd wave, corporate etc, etc). Now, when the redpill has repeatedly ignored those divisions in order to throw feces at their monitors like rabid monkeys, clearly, there's a huge amount of steaming hot hypocrisy going on. It's even more telling when we read the sidebar, quote endorsed contributers, and l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/15 11:54 PM |
| 1 | TRP exists because of sugar-coating and rationalization of female sexual behaviorTell yourself more lies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/15 09:41 AM |
| 1 | TRP exists because of sugar-coating and rationalization of female sexual behaviorEveryone is responsible for their own orgasm in sex. Ask for help? Certainly, that's the point! But don't pout because you don't get off. It's ultimately your responsibility. Spoken like someone who's never had someone thrust a dick into you, before your body was ready, and finish just when you were beginning to kind of like it. You should read the horror stories about bad sex out there, because straight men have found all kinds of ways to be terrible at it. I know the red pill is obsessed with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/15 09:35 AM |
| 0 | TRP exists because of sugar-coating and rationalization of female sexual behaviorAnd I thought you guys were all about the science. Guess that's what happens when everything you know about people comes from the hook-up scene. And an internet subreddit for people who were failing at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/15 09:14 AM |
| 1 | TRP exists because of sugar-coating and rationalization of female sexual behaviorOnce personality is involved in selecting a long-term partner, it broadens the scope of the relationship. Personality allows for other personal traits such as heart, intellect, compassion, and humor to unfold like a peeling onion, or a rose, Walfish said. “People with above average personalities care about the human being as a total person rather than a physical object of external beauty, and that's a positive,” she said. We're not rare. We just tend to avoid the meat markets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/15 09:11 AM |
| 1 | TRP exists because of sugar-coating and rationalization of female sexual behaviorOkay, so you agree no woman should leap at the chance for sex where odds are, she doesn't even get an orgasm out of it, and a relationship that's her chance to be either half of a co-dependency? Just because someone is looking for a woman to fill in all their blanks? Fair enough. But to claim that this problem is entirely due to men who present themselves as what women say they want? Good one. Try a flood of generic spam messaging, immediate declarations of true love, subtle or aggressive pressu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/15 11:48 AM |
| 1 | TRP exists because of sugar-coating and rationalization of female sexual behaviorSome people are. Some people aren't. If you need a pretty picture to be attracted, simply own it. Stop trying to make us all into your accomplices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/15 08:14 AM |
| 1 | TRP exists because of sugar-coating and rationalization of female sexual behaviorAre you going to deny women can obtain sex and relationships more easily if they accept the offers coming their way? Great sex and good relationships? You really overestimate their chances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/15 08:07 AM |
| 2 | TRP exists because of sugar-coating and rationalization of female sexual behaviorYou mean the same debate forum which is triggered by the word "feminist"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/15 08:06 AM |
| 4 | If women are as sexual and rational as men, why can't you ask them for sex directly?It helps that many a man's readiness to have sex is binary. You can scream that it's unfair, or you can learn how to turn the heat up. The redpill may be stupid as bricks, and desperate to find women who won't threaten them, intellectually, but at least they've got the right idea on that front, otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/15 08:01 AM |
| 6 | If women are as sexual and rational as men, why can't you ask them for sex directly?So, men are so rational that they'll happily put their dicks inside of anything and anyone that gives them an erection, regardless of any possible bad outcome, is what you're saying? I just want to make sure that you know you're saying this, so we're all on the same page as to where the actual misandry is coming from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/15 06:17 AM |
| 3 | If women are as sexual and rational as men, why can't you ask them for sex directly?Because there's no guarantee they're going to enjoy it. A partner who can't read subtext or create any chemistry, is likely to provide a pretty shitty/unimaginative experience. I wouldn't call them all a complete waste of time, but they usually think foreplay is one partner better than a three way. Plus, very few women go from zero to sixty in no time flat. Then there are diseases, pregnancy risks, stalkers, etc. I'm not sure why this is difficult to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/15 05:58 AM |
| 0 | Why do TRPillers advice men to ditch women that TRP strategies don't work on ?Hey, you're the conspiracy theorist. If you need to believe in a bedtime story, in order to make that jagged little red pill easier to swallow, I'm not going to judge you. But reality isn't on your side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/15 08:35 PM |
| 2 | TBP, how do you explain the multiple women on Reddit who admit to wanting a dominant Alpha male? Are they ALL damaged, and insecure, you think?Or maybe you're living in Neverland. The redpill subreddit is shallow as hell, but since they're only roleplaying at maturity, you made up a world where their tastes speak for everyone. Absolutely not. Dread game shakes things up. It's make or break. It fixes a broken relationship or it breaks one that can't be fixed. Especially when you believe every woman who disagrees with you is a liar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/15 08:26 PM |
| 3 | TBP, how do you explain the multiple women on Reddit who admit to wanting a dominant Alpha male? Are they ALL damaged, and insecure, you think?Oh, that's right, you lot think "Dread game" provides stability. Granted, if women can't stand the real you, emotionally torturing them might be your best bet in life. Everyone knows it's why your subreddit only pops a boner for immature women. They're so much easier to manipulate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/15 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do TRPillers advice men to ditch women that TRP strategies don't work on ?Your horrible experience speaks for everyone. No marriage counselor is aware of what Borderline Personality Disorder is. They're all in a conspiracy to castrate men. Do you need any other lies to help you through the day? I'm only here to serve you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/15 08:00 PM |
| 3 | TBP, how do you explain the multiple women on Reddit who admit to wanting a dominant Alpha male? Are they ALL damaged, and insecure, you think?Pity, I thought I might shame someone into actually presenting some concrete nouns and verbs. Guess not. My mistake was assuming a sense of shame. Are you unable to afford the article? In the "if women find dominant men attractive department"? Not really. Indeed, some people are attracted to power. And there's nothing more powerful than a man terrified of losing someone, and so desperate that they'll resort to abusive redpill mindgames. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/15 07:50 PM |
| 3 | TBP, how do you explain the multiple women on Reddit who admit to wanting a dominant Alpha male? Are they ALL damaged, and insecure, you think?From 1987, no less. I'm sure nothing's changed since then, and like all soft science self-reporting, it used the broadest possible base. Especially since I'm not paying for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/15 07:34 PM |
| 6 | Why do TRPillers advice men to ditch women that TRP strategies don't work on ?Why not ask professional relationship counselors, instead of reducing everything to "being a welcome mat" or "being an abusive asshole"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/15 07:30 PM |
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