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| 97 | Why does Pete Davidson date so MANY more Hollywood A-listers than his peers?but you don't see any other celeb go through so many famous women DiCaprio has been doing it for 20 + years. Not necessarily A Listers but mostly Victoria secret models. Regarding Pete, I think it's all about charisma. Look at his colleague from SNL he is married to Scarlett Johansson. You would think they are just comedians but they must be more charismatic than that to interact with people, attract them, hold their attention etc | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 04:41 PM |
| 2 | how to get out of bro zone? (f)hey man love the hair bro it's super sick Hey, love the hair. It's super sick. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 08:40 AM |
| 3 | Can’t keep erection with new partner. Never had this problem before…I have had this problem before. In such cases I just put the condom on and continue to make out until I'm aroused and erect again. Then PIV | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 06:38 PM |
| -1 | Men with weak jawlines, how do you handle it?You don't need to have a chiseled jawline but if you're working out and are ripped/shredded then your face must have very little fat. Your jawline should be decent enough for you to not complain. There are also these jawline exerciser you get on Amazon which you basically chew and it works on your jaw muscles. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 05:02 PM |
| 0 | Do guys care about hip dips?Depends on the size. But I'm sure you know there are exercises that can fix it if you are really insecure about it | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 03:59 AM |
| 102 | Is a woman's romantic interest much less stable than a man's romantic interest?From what you described, you sound like you only had one option to date, you put all your hopes on her and your interest grows. The woman might have several options. She may have been interested in you on date 1 but she may have met someone before date 2 who probably took all her attention away from you. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 03:36 PM |
| 0 | Ghosted by a woman but she’s liking posts?Then ghosted after the second date. As in? You sent one text and she didn't respond and you decided it's over? Need more context here If it was just one text she didn't respond to, you can ignore and text her again and see if she agrees to see you. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Posted on my university facebook noticeboard.Which university or country? | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 09:22 AM |
| 2 | How to handle this weird rejectionI could think of 2 reasons She got cold feet and backed out at the last minute. Got overwhelmed at the thought of getting intimate with someone. She didn't enjoy the make out session at all and got completely turned off. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Is it normal to be sexually attracted to older women?The term is MILF | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 07:09 AM |
| 1 | How can i slide in DM when girl post selfie on story?She probably has a dozen guys replying to her selfies already. You would just stand at the back of the line. If you know her irl that would be a better way to go | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 07:07 AM |
| 3 | How to respond to “btw im heading to bed but blow up my phone while i sleep w compliments please and thank you🫣☺️”?Text "You have to earn it" | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 07:01 AM |
| 4 | What would you do if the girl you really like is moving away?If she is moving permanently, just move on and find another girl. No matter how you tell yourself you will make it work, it's not going to work. Make peace with it. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 12:12 AM |
| 10 | James bondWhen someone says social circle they don't mean laugh and jokes. Having a good social circle mean you know a lot of people when you walk into a room or everyone knows who you are when you walk into a party. To a girl it's like a seal of approval from everyone. She will want to be around you | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 02:15 PM |
| 30 | James bondIn case of James Bond it's not social circle it's more of his value. He is a spy, travels around the world killing people, well dressed, costly cars, overall as a man he is providing an exciting adventure to the girl. Not to mention he is smooth when it comes to talking. Anyway this is a fictional character. In real world if you have a similar lifestyle minus the killing you would automatically be more appealing to the girls you meet. From girl's pov she will get an exciting time if she enters y… | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 01:41 PM |
| 6 | How to slide into DMS as a girl?Make sure you both follow each other on Instagram otherwise he may not see your message at all. You simply just comment anything on their story. If the guy is single or horny he will respond. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 08:03 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach from inside your carImagine a girl carrying bags, walking towards her car and some guy runs towards her from behind. Obviously she will be creeped out especially if it's a parking lot. To her it appears as if someone is trying snatch her bags, mug her , in a big parking lot where I'm assuming not a lot of people will be around. You introduced yourself, she introduced herself and walked away. That should have been the end of it. Walking up to her car is creepy. You should have moved on and find another girl to appro… | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 05:03 AM |
| 2 | What can I have done better in this situation?Nothing bro. You are one of the many horny dms she has received. It's nothing new for her. Just move on | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 04:53 AM |
| 6 | Approached this girl at the gym, got her number, but she said she's not looking to dateBro move on. It was a polite rejection so she doesn't draw any attention in the gym. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Is France a good country for an Asian guy to get laid with attractive divorced women?It's a very specific demand | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 01:28 PM |
| 17 | let's face it.. only socially creepy PUAs, social outcasts, and people with autistic tendencies will do cold approach because it is against the social norms. Stop presenting cold approach as a legit way to meet womenI know tons of people who are doing well in life and travel around the world. They cold approach women, experience what's it like to hook up with women of different race, nationality etc. I have dated hottest women from cold approach than tinder/bumble. You have to be socially aware of your surroundings, how the girl reacts, when it's time to eject otherwise it'll come across as creepy. You learn this overtime as you approach more and more with practice. Some struggle with extreme anxiety in soc… | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 08:10 AM |
| 10 | Date Gets Another Guys Instagram on DateAlways remember for the first date it's only you and the girl, preferably in a restaurant/bar where you can sit and talk. Tagging along with her friends to a noisy place like a club just means you agree with whatever she asks you to. She'll take you for granted. Of course she is free to go and talk to any guy she wants and there will be many who try their luck in a club. You have to take responsibility in such situations | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 06:51 PM |
| 4 | She lost interest after a bad first kissTrust me that was my immediate reaction to calm her down, hold her face lead her into kissing at my pace. She still couldn't. Gave an excuse that my lips are big and her lips are small. So she's having problem | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 05:04 PM |
| 10 | She lost interest after a bad first kissI went on a date with this girl about 3 weeks ago. At one point I leaned in and went for the kiss. She responded positively and leaned in as well. But i cannot put into words but she was very fast, her lips were moving across my face like flash attempting flashpoint. I pulled back and she did admit she's awkward at kissing. I asked if it was her first time she said no. But we tried kissing a few more times after that, standing and sitting but it just never happened smoothly. We both wanted a cas… | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Lonely kitty momIdk if you live in a big city or a small town. If it's the former then join a dating app, look for meetup groups either on meetup app or Facebook, look for local events happening around. The key is you have to be comfortable to go to these places by yourself at first. Not care too much about others. Dating will require you to step out of your comfort zone. Take baby steps | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 02:56 AM |
| 19 | Dont know if this belongs here but worth a readMight be an American spy trying to get inside information | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 07:51 PM |
| 2 | People who got genuinely good at daygame, how many approaches did it take?I'm in 700-800 approaches. Daygame differs alot by location. In my country I would get a mix of blowout and numbers while on vacation in other countries I will get a lot of instant dates and numbers, rarely a rejection. There's no magical number that if you cross it you become advanced. I only concentrate on doing 20-30 approaches a week consistently. Making notes of what happened and what could have been improved. If you are only repeating the same thing in every approach and don't think of imp… | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 02:58 PM |
| 19 | I can’t never get hardIt's because you get too anxious about having to satisfy her and perform. You need to relax and completely be okay if you don't get hard. Just be in the moment and enjoy oral sex, kissing her etc. When you are making out and your mind is constantly worried about if you will get hard when it's time for penetration, you will mess it up. | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 04:21 AM |
| 3 | How do I (F20) flirt with guysThe next guy you're interested in just smile at him and the job is done | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 08:18 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]No he just bought Amazon echo on black Friday sale | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Something that keeps happeningThat's weird. Someone filming some kind of weird prank or tik tok video maybe | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 08:27 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]It's just a friendly text. Don't get carried away. As someone else suggested, say yes and go with her. When you are with her just the two of you, flirt with her and see how she reacts. Don't come off too strong. You have to do it subtly other wise things will get awkward with the 3rd friend involved knows about this. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 05:00 AM |
| 60 | [deleted by user]Smile and touch his arm. Shouldn't require much effort. Guys are already there to hookup | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Did I make it weirdHonestly don't worry about it much. She may not even be thinking about you or that moment as much as you are obsessing over it. Maybe next time she passes by redeem yourself from this, try to start a conversation. Make an observation of what she's wearing or carrying and ask something or compliment it. Just don't say hi and expect a date. | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 12:42 AM |
| 3 | Everyone should watch the movie HitchThat's a movie. Things in real life are very different. It sounds like you are an amateur in highschool with no dating advice. Saw hitch for the first time and blindly accepted it as your holy bible. This sub has cringy posts sometimes | /r/seduction | 15/11/21 12:01 PM |
| 225 | Girl at the gym views my insta stories without following meThat's a 100% ioi. The longer you wait to talk to her, the attraction will die out. Hit the iron while it's hot. | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 11:48 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I generally wouldn't slide in anyone's dm unless i have talked to them on dating app or if we have met in person, and exchanged Instagram. It comes off as creepy especially when your roommate is the one who gave your insta id. In such cases this would hint as a prank. So it's understandable he has his doubts whether to dm you or not. Also on dating you start a conversation based on what's mentioned in your bio or prompt. You have some idea what the person is like, their hobbies and little hint o… | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 01:20 PM |
| -4 | What the fuck is wrong with you guys?You would be surprised how many women I went on a date with told me they have a bf or long distance partner or "a man" in their life but we still hooked up. Welcome to the real world. It's not a Disney fairy tale | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 08:49 PM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]You're asking why some are successful in life and why some are not. It's a broad topic, there's no magical one paragraph answer that will answer your post on Reddit. You need to take baby steps, talk to girls, go places to meet girls, hang out with friends go to parties etc etc. You will struggle at each stage. If you post about a specific problem that you are facing at a certain stage then maybe an answer on Reddit can help you or set you up in the right direction | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 07:30 PM |
| 16 | [deleted by user]I have ended up approaching the same girls twice or thrice. Has happened many times. I don't recognize them but they recognize my approach and opener. We laugh it off and leave. Almost every day I see girls that i have approached in the past. We never make eye contact or wave at each other. Just ignore and keep walking. So to answer your question I had that fear of getting recognized by people but I met one more guy in my city who has been approaching girls for like 7 years. He is in early 30s a… | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 02:08 PM |
| 5 | At what point do you stop tryingNo need to block just archive her messages or delete her number. Try not to text her first. If she is interested she will text you, if she doesn't then she has moved on from you and so should you. At this point you have already texted her and she's flaking and less and less flirty. So try not showcase needy behavior | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 12:02 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Honestly you will have to move on and start talking to other girls. The more the number of girls you are talking to the less desperation you will feel to text the girl mentioned in this post. Keep more options. Girls can sense if a man has other girls in his life or is just very needy and desperate. The latter will kill any attraction established before. Now that you have sent her song recommendation, do not text her atleast for 72 hrs unless she texts you asking something. Whatever next message… | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 11:36 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Now that you have already asked her about her sickness and suggested coffee date this week, she had the chance to reply, she chose to just like. For now do not respond to her song recommendation or remind her about your date. If you text her another time about anything, it will just come across as very needy. Will ruin your chances. My advise just leave some silence. Don't try start a conversation with her. If you are doing anything interesting and post it on your story, let that make her text y… | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 10:25 PM |
| 80 | Girl asked me to leave after we started making out when I came back from bathroomIt's not on you. The girl might be going through some stuff. You both had your moment, it was blown when you decided to cut the sexual tension to go the bathroom. Even that's not your fault. If you had to take a leak, you had to do it. Only thing you need to learn is not take rejections personally. This girl said no to you under certain circumstances. In a different situation she may sleep with you. Move onto other girls | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Forgot her nameText her normally and at some point ask her Instagram | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 07:01 PM |
| 1 | If she keeps cancelling plans but reassuring in ft and text she wants to hang what time do?The former | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 10:03 AM |
| 25 | Unprotected sexI was once asked to just put the tip of my dick inside her. I just said no. She never asked after | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 10:42 PM |
| 2 | If she keeps cancelling plans but reassuring in ft and text she wants to hang what time do?Show her less attention. Start going out and seeing other people. See if she makes a definite plan. If not then move on. But just have low expectations from this one. | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Had terrible sex now I think I'm being ghostedIt's over. Move on. But know that first times are always awkward. Performance anxiety is common. You will learn how to work your body as you have more sex with other girls. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 05:06 PM |
| 10 | The cold approach method is unhealthy, and frankly a cringeworthy attempt at picking up women (or men)A guy will sleep with one girl and feel ready to give any advice on this sub. | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Daygame NIGHTMARE! (My daygame experience and story)No. I disagree. It works on locals too. I'm sure your way of approaching needs some corrections. I haven't seen your game so I can't tell exactly what it is. But if i had to guess it's the vibe you are giving off | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Poor timing lolThis is why I always keep my data off when give my phone to anyone | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Daygame NIGHTMARE! (My daygame experience and story)All i can say is probably go to london and take some daygame coaching because cold approaching works. I have done it. I have seen other people do it. There must be something with your approach that you are giving off creepy vibes. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Best way to practice oral sex?It's been a year but what i remember is while dick was in her mouth, she kept moving her tongue inside. But that felt great. It clearly showcased she was experienced in this. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Best way to practice oral sex?I cannot put into words but once i hooked up with this girl who while sucking me did this thing with the tip of her tongue on the tip of my dick. Her tongue was fast. It gave a tingly feeling but it was fun. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Daygame NIGHTMARE! (My daygame experience and story)Just curious Which country are you in? | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Masturbation addiction is a serious libido killer. It leaves me unmotivated to approach.Edging doesn't count. If you are ejaculating prematurely then my friend you need to work on controlling yourself. That is bad for actual sex. And that will count. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 11:15 PM |
| 23 | Masturbation addiction is a serious libido killer. It leaves me unmotivated to approach.I haven't tested this yet but have heard from others who do this. So basically you watch porn get horny but don't masturbate. And with that feeling of horniness go out and watch out for girls you find attractive. You will have higher motivation and need to approach. Someone confirm if this works | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 06:19 PM |
| 0 | Cute barista gave me her number16 in which country? | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 02:00 AM |
| 4 | Erotic vs explicitIt's always been like that for me. A well directed sexual scene in a movie with good sexual tension does more for me than porn. | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 10:49 PM |
| 5 | how to build sexual tension with someone you've been with for a while?When I start dating someone, once we have slept together, sometimes even before that I ask them what turns them on, their sexual fantasies. We would text each other during the day usually making dirty talk. You can text them, make them imagine what you would do to them once you are alone together. Talking about role plays that you could do. Send pictures of lingerie and let them imagine you in them. Sex in different places not just on the bedroom or inside your house. Etc etc. These are just thi… | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 02:20 PM |
| 8 | I have been told repeatedly that I look like a kid. What's wrong with that?Try growing a beard. I know people whose face is small and looks like a kid when they are clean shaved. | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 12:25 PM |
| 3 | Girl said she liked me. We’ll go on a date tomorrow. But she ignores all my texts. What should I do?You never know what's going on with the girl. Maybe something happened in her life. Maybe she changed her mind doesn't want to go on a date anymore. The question is how many times did you text her? If far too many and still no response then it's best to move on. If couple of texts then don't spam text her. Just text her on the day of the date and wait for a response. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 10:50 PM |
| 1 | ClosingYou are asking two different questions. If you are in a conversation for 5-10 mins with a girl you just met. She is asking you questions and you both are telling interesting things about your lives. Then it's a good time to close. You have to close before she realizes she's late and makes an excuse to leave. Tell her you have to leave but would like to take her out for drinks another time. And at this point take out your phone Your second question about you talking to someone over long distance.… | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | I WILL BE YOUR WINGMAN FOR A DAY IN NYC (FOR FREE)Are you only doing this in NYC or have plans to do in other cities in future? I'll happily join you if you come to Canada | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 05:12 PM |
| 15 | Approaching girls while they are in groups can actually be better than when they are alone.I have noticed approaching groups or pair works well at night outside clubs and bars. Women don't feel any danger when they are with their group of friends and random guy approaches, hopefully sober. Women walking alone respond well when I approach them during daytime in a busy street. Daytime approaches don't have to be in groups. | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Another night of approaches and eventually found the oneDo you go to the bar alone or with a group of friends? And do you go to a different bar when girl doesn't respond well to you or stay there and approach someone else? | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Nightgame approaches - eventually found the girl who was attracted :) (Field Report)Wait what's the story with Eskimo kiss? Might use that if the situation arises | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 06:30 PM |
| 20 | What's your 'go to' move to sexualise an interaction that's too platonic?Check if she has tattoos or jwellery. Ask her what's the story behind them. As she is telling her story, admire them by slightly touching them. | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 03:42 PM |
| 4 | You are attractive if you get rid of all the bullshit.There are things you can change and there are things you can't. Your skin color, eye color, hair color, ethinic background, height. These are things you cannot change. What you do have control over is your body, physique, how you dress, how you smell, how you carry yourself, how you have a conversation. So stop worrying about things you cannot change. Accept the fact that life is not fair. Not everyone looks like Chris Hemsworth. Start working on things you can change. Try to be the best version… | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 12:37 PM |
| 31 | If you’re hung up on one person who is not invested in you, think of the regret you will eventually have over the precious time, opportunities, and emotional energy you wastedTo be honest everyone regardless of their gender at some point in their lives were needy, clingy and did desperate things to get that one person they were hung up on. It very common during teenage years and early 20s. It's just part of our lives. We learn not to do these desperate things and value ourselves eventually. | /r/seduction | 15/06/21 11:17 PM |
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