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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Dealing with female orbiters		TheWidower	/r/askTRP	10/12/15 06:06 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	PUA's Australian via revoked, due to feminist campaign He's on the same side of the coin. A person doesn't need to be pro-TRP to be worthy of respect. He helps a lot of guys, and RSD as a movement, while more moderate, has a far larger user base than The Red Pill.	/r/TheRedPill	19/01/16 09:20 AM
2	How can I not give off an awkward vibe? (will supply pictures of self in PM if needed) Hit me with a PM and I'll give you the lowdown on your appearance. Aside from that it sounds like a confidence thing.	/r/askTRP	07/01/16 05:19 AM
-2	Some girl I'm talking to (haven't dated yet but she's clearly very into me) randomly brought up that she'll never do anal. How to respond? Tie her up. Blindfold her. Then when she complains after you've finished. Blame it on the dog.	/r/askTRP	07/01/16 04:37 AM
4	shit test when too forward 'The fun ones do'	/r/askTRP	06/01/16 02:35 AM
7	Is no texting really the answer? 'No texting' is generic advice aimed at stopping guys from falling into the orbiter zone. It also helps foster an abundance mentality where you aren't wasting time investing in girls you aren't necessarily fucking. If you have solid text game, and it's worked for you in the past then continue with that. If you're new to the game, then stick with minimal texting and texting only for logistics.	/r/askTRP	11/12/15 05:20 PM
9	Afraid of being sexual Social circle game is tough, the trick is that until you know a girl within your circle is dtf, you're going to have to be very subtle to test the waters because you don't want to risk ostracizing yourself from your friendship group. There's plenty of nuance to embedding deniability into social circle game, but it's not something I could easily teach you over an internet forum, without investing time which I don't have. The confidence to escalate with girls in your circle, and the knowledge of w…	/r/askTRP	11/12/15 03:05 PM
4	How much to text a girl when a date is set for a week away If a girl messages you before the date saying that she can't make it then she's worthy of a second chance. She behaved like a decent human being and made sure you didn't waste your time. Now I'll leave you to answer this one- if a girl didn't even think enough of you to let you know she wasn't going to come until after the event, do you think she deserves even another second of your time? The only real excuse for this behavior is a serious emergency. And you have to be the judge of what constitu…	/r/askTRP	11/12/15 02:42 PM
7	How much to text a girl when a date is set for a week away Don't listen to the guys in this thread saying you should check to confirm. Firstly you don't want to be arranging specific dates that far in advance, you want 3 days max between arranging and the date itself. The way to get around this for longer timeframes is to schedule a non-specific day then hit her up with specifics closer to the time. With regard to confirming the date with her, most guys who actually know their shit will tell you not to. Omlala recommends in his online dating guide to ne…	/r/askTRP	11/12/15 12:11 PM
2	Dealing with female orbiters No office people, don't worry. I'm aware that there's the possibility that they'll start playing up if they don't get what they want. I'm looking for strategies to prevent this point from being reached.	/r/askTRP	10/12/15 06:20 PM
5	Got a shit test, opinions welcome I understand where you were going with it. For future reference, in terms of making sure she knows that your time is valuable and that she shouldn't be wasting it. This is one of the things that should be done covertly, rather than overtly. Responding with an 'okay' followed by no further attempts to instigate contact demonstrates perfectly that your time is important, and you're not willing to waste it on her. It may sound contradictory, but even if you go down the logistics-only route, it does…	/r/askTRP	10/12/15 03:41 PM
17	Got a shit test, opinions welcome You'd already fucked up way before the pocket dial. Don't talk to girls about orbiting and don't act butthurt when a girl flakes, just move on and wait for her to reschedule. Your text game needs work, either go the logistics only route-which I think you were trying to do, and keep things short and to the point, or be more engaging while still pushing towards the meet. Calling a girl out on flaking isn't showcasing an abundance mentality. If she flakes you need to just move on, any more investme…	/r/askTRP	10/12/15 01:49 PM