TheWinterStar Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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11	Is it immoral to get a secret paternity test done??? Could make it a 'family' event. One for mom, one for dad, one for baby to see what %s they got from each side. Kinda pricey but still cheaper than divorce. If mom checks back at any point and sees dad linked to the kid, the jig is up.	/r/MensRights	03/04/25 06:30 AM
1	Mothers' Day disappointments for feminists. You can do it all, how they want it done, down to the letter, and they'll still complain.	/r/MensRights	15/05/24 11:57 PM
6	Teacher is a feminist You could try leaving a note for your counselor. My highschool and middle school both had drop boxes for every councilor. But even if yours doesn't, you could take it into the office and they could put it in the councilors mail slot/box, or write your councilors name on it and leave it on the main desk in the office. You don't have to put your name on it, so you are anonymous. If your teacher dials back suddenly a few days after leaving the note, chances are your councilor talked to them so you …	/r/MensRights	02/12/23 04:23 AM
3	Poor Elmo and Elmo's dad I was 21-23 during the custody dispute. For the couple years or so of it all, I was really just acting support for my dad and not all that involved. I didn't even get involved in the case until after the belt, and only by chance. My dad and brothers had a meeting with the guardian ad litem to go over the belt incident and reiterate their stories, or report new things. I just happened to be with them and being one of the kids they wanted to talk to me for a different perspective. I tore apart her…	/r/MensRights	07/09/20 08:05 AM
2	Poor Elmo and Elmo's dad Honestly it makes me glad my dad managed to get primary custody of my younger brothers despite our "mother" making false abuse accusations. She claimed dad would beat her and us kids, but... Guess she didn't take into account that the 3 of us were plenty old enough to be believed that it was quite the opposite. Not that her taking a chain belt across the back of the younger boy helped her 'dads abusive' story. (Dad called the cops, and CPS, wanted to press charges but she claimed it was 'discipl…	/r/MensRights	07/09/20 03:54 AM
-1	💜 kindness and vulnerability have no gender 💗 My only experience is my dad crying on my shoulder. Yeah we went and shot popcans and walnuts with his rifle a few days after but... We all deal with emotional strain differently and the support could be different too. What support works for you may not work for another. So... I don't think crying is emasculating. Tricks, traps, propaganda... I don't get it. It's an image of a man crying and another trying to comfort him. Looking into where it came from, who made it, what groups support it, all …	/r/MensRights	26/08/20 05:29 PM
2	💜 kindness and vulnerability have no gender 💗 I guess it's hard to understand it if you haven't experienced it yourself. I guess that makes sense. All I've experienced with men being emotional and needing support was my old man during the last few years of my parents marriage. Bawled into my shoulder confessing all of moms infidelities he'd kept secret through their whole marriage (16 years at the time). Stressed and heart broken. He cried, hugged it out, and he leaned on me even during and after the actual divorce officially ending 21 year…	/r/MensRights	26/08/20 04:56 PM
4	💜 kindness and vulnerability have no gender 💗 Your examples don't really sound like men emotionally supporting other men. It sounds like men mourning others in their own way... Which is fine, everyone mourns differently, even in less traditional ways. Memorializing the dearly departed isn't uncommon. But what about a man who needs emotional support because of a bad break up? Men who have high expectations they can't meet and are shamed for it. Men who were abused. Men who are worse for wear emotionally due to general stress. How do men emot…	/r/MensRights	26/08/20 02:56 PM
14	💜 kindness and vulnerability have no gender 💗 .... I've always thought that emotional support varied on the individual. There's no cookie cutter method, what works for one doesn't work for all... sorta thing. But out of curiosity, how do men emotionally support men...?	/r/MensRights	26/08/20 01:22 PM
14	💜 kindness and vulnerability have no gender 💗 e.e wait... so an image stating 'normalize men needing emotional support' is propaganda... against men?	/r/MensRights	26/08/20 11:57 AM
39	💜 kindness and vulnerability have no gender 💗 One step at a time. First the normalization of men needing emotional support. It'll make the next step of establishing the services they need, a bit easier.	/r/MensRights	26/08/20 10:04 AM
1	On that note was the worst tantrum from your s.o or exes. For some people it's also the time to thank their parents for conceiving and giving birth to them. One of my aunts sends my grandma a card basically thanking her for being born. Not in a sarcastic way, but a legit thank you. When my mom found out about the idea, she demanded it of me and my brothers. (If she'd been half the 'mother' our grandma is, I might have considered it..)	/r/MensRights	19/06/20 08:32 AM
5	On that note was the worst tantrum from your s.o or exes. yes... Thank the internet lords that a virtual hug is still practicing social distancing!	/r/MensRights	19/06/20 08:23 AM
3	On that note was the worst tantrum from your s.o or exes. At least you got to share the day. My birthday is April 24th, I've got a cousin in California that shares the day but we hardly see her. My younger brother was supposed to be born the 24th, but was born the 30th (doc said 'not yet', so he was 9 pounds at birth.) Instead of celebrating 2 birthdays a week apart, or sucking it up and having a shared birthday on the weekend set between the two dates... My birthday was kicked to the first week of April. So every time I'd invite people from school to …	/r/MensRights	19/06/20 03:34 AM
10	On that note was the worst tantrum from your s.o or exes. Man my mom had a great tantrum on Christmas in 2014 (less than a year before the divorce). Every year prior dad always got mom at the very least a nice piece of jewelry that he hid on the tree. A necklace or a ring, a fancy bracelet or new set of ear-rings. Always worth a pretty penny. Sometimes he'd make her do a scavenger hunt through the 3000sq foot house (it was the best) but 9 times out of 10, it was hidden on the tree and the hunt was just clues to locate it. Anyway, 2014 we were gonna los…	/r/MensRights	19/06/20 03:22 AM
1	Only feminist Sources allowed I mean, I'm sure there is a country or two that actually oppresses women... but I was using sarcasm.	/r/MensRights	11/05/20 02:55 AM
4	Only feminist Sources allowed Pretty sure they call that child support... The mans consent to said offspring is completely out of the question though. Whether he's the actual dad or not... That's his job to prove. But no no, the women are the ones oppressed by men and their blasted toxic patriarchy.	/r/MensRights	10/05/20 05:51 AM
4	For men it’s ok. For women it’s bad. Tilt your head to the right, the white line is the I, but all three make up an N.	/r/MensRights	20/04/20 03:26 AM