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TheWizardofBaghdad/r/seduction17/09/15 10:46 PM
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TheWizardofBaghdad/r/askTRP18/11/17 09:42 AM
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TheWizardofBaghdad/r/askTRP01/08/16 11:07 AM
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TheWizardofBaghdad/r/askTRP26/07/16 05:36 PM
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TheWizardofBaghdad/r/askTRP18/12/17 10:32 AM
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TheWizardofBaghdad/r/seduction31/08/15 11:42 PM
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TheWizardofBaghdad/r/askTRP16/09/16 12:43 PM
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TheWizardofBaghdad/r/askTRP02/10/16 12:47 PM
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TheWizardofBaghdad/r/seduction01/09/15 11:03 PM
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TheWizardofBaghdad/r/seduction16/09/15 05:04 PM
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TheWizardofBaghdad/r/askTRP05/07/16 03:34 PM
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TheWizardofBaghdad/r/askTRP27/12/16 04:25 PM
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TheWizardofBaghdad/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:50 PM
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TheWizardofBaghdad/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:33 PM
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TheWizardofBaghdad/r/askTRP08/07/16 10:41 AM
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TheWizardofBaghdad/r/askTRP14/02/16 02:48 AM
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If you are not contacting her to meet up/for logistics then what are you doing? Orbiting. Wasting your time/energy. Go and focus on yourself and improve You have oneitus, but you are young and inexperienced so you can't fully appreciate the situation. As I said before, do whatever you want to do. It will be a learning experience for you. Message her as much or as little as you want It is your life and you don't need to do anything someone on the internet tells you to do.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 11:44 AM
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When I traveled in south east Asia I realized how much I hated their culture. It is so different from western culture I could never live there. It is a backwards society/culture. The people are savages I'm from Europe
/r/askTRP25/12/17 11:38 AM
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Forget her... move on
/r/askTRP25/12/17 11:35 AM
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Do not contact her. To her you mean nothing. She was drunk in a club and kissed some random guy. Forget about her completely move on
/r/askTRP25/12/17 11:34 AM
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This place will not heal you. It's an online forum. Go and speak to a counselor/psychologist to sort out your psychological issues
/r/askTRP25/12/17 11:33 AM
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Ultimately, the only true way to learn anything is the hard way. You will carry on doing whatever you want to do and in time you will learn the truth
/r/askTRP25/12/17 11:31 AM
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This is not the best place to seek what you are looking for. Go out into the real world and meet those types of people. Make strong male friends. This is the hardest part of self improvement for me. Getting pussy is easy compared to making true male friends
/r/askTRP25/12/17 11:30 AM
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Read about learned behaviors in cultures It is partly biological. Tons of hormones are released in you when 'mating' as it serves a purpose to the survival of the species. We humans have free will/agency. You are not bounded to your biology
/r/askTRP25/12/17 11:27 AM
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There is no right or wrong answers. If you are reading in moderation and not mentally masturbating then what's the problem? Carry on reaching your goals
/r/askTRP25/12/17 11:25 AM
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Are you practicing/reading mindfulness and meditating? Accept your feelings of inadequacy. Do not try to fight it. Notice how you feel. Your feelings do not define you. Maybe they are justified or maybe not. That doesn't matter right now. Carry on being disciplined in reaching your goals. Yes I was in a similar position to you. Yes it does get better over time and with experience. Once you have gotten with a few women you will look back and realize all of this. Don't focus on this issue too much…
/r/askTRP25/12/17 11:24 AM
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Thanks Ghosting completely is difficult though as we are in the same social circle at university. I will probably lose the circle
/r/askTRP18/11/17 10:18 AM
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You clearly can't fucking read the stickied post at the top of this sub
/r/askTRP14/09/17 12:23 PM
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Read the fucking rules before you post
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 06:52 PM
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Mate guarding is not the same thing as being protective
/r/askTRP30/08/17 07:18 PM
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How would you feel if the same thing happened to you?
/r/askTRP29/08/17 04:44 PM
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When one of my plates goes to the bathroom during sex I'll just go in while she's sat down on the toilet and start pissing on her
/r/askTRP26/08/17 09:22 AM
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This post is fucking trash
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 09:52 PM
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what do you mean exactly by a difference between diminishing attraction and seeing someone for who they really are
/r/askTRP28/05/17 10:44 AM
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Thanks for taking the time to write this
/r/askTRP27/05/17 08:33 AM
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thanks man really appreciate the reply
/r/askTRP23/04/17 06:23 PM
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Don't let it fuck with you too much. Everyone is on the sliding scale of sexuality of gay to straight. It is pretty common to get aroused by gay porn etc. I have a girlfriend who I fuck multiple times a day but I can still get turn on by some gay stuff. You're normal it's just a phase you are going through and you need to figure this stuff out for yourself. Try meditating to clear your thoughts, don't fixate on the idea
/r/askTRP22/04/17 11:28 PM
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No. Instead explain the problems with the current system in simple terms. You have to make people wake up on their own. Explain how the elites and ruling class have raped the world for years. Explain how the federal reserve works. Explain about the Rothschilds etc etc etc
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:51 PM
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Yes definitely. While the general ideas and principles may be true all the specific examples you see are purely anecdotal
/r/askTRP19/01/17 09:08 PM
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what? The question was what makes a mans mid 30s his prime. The reply was a graph showing SMV on one scale and age on the other which only shows the correlation between the two and doesn't answer the question
/r/askTRP16/01/17 06:33 PM
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this doesn't answer the question
/r/askTRP16/01/17 06:09 PM
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First forget about "game" in the sense of attracting girls and focus on being the most social version of yourself. So social game but with everyone not just attractive women. Most of the women you meet will be through being social and "game" is just about being very socially skilled
/r/askTRP15/01/17 12:43 PM
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Biologically and evolutionary it is to do with the idea that males do not want to spend resources raising a child that is not their own. Women always know that they are the mother but men cannot know this for sure so we are repulsed by the idea that it might be another mans child.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 01:07 PM
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Interesting question. Do you account for the difference by attributing it to innate racial differences? I.e. are you saying blacks are more prone to crime because they are black? I would account for it by attributing it to cultural and sub-cultural differences. E.g. black gang culture
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 11:18 AM
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There is some good practical advice here but in order to fully get over your social anxiety you need to identify where it stems from e.g. childhood. Most of the time anxiety and other problems come from a deeper place within
/r/askTRP08/01/17 10:04 AM
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Yeah nice idea but that date requires a lot of investment from her in time/money etc when she doesn't even know you yet. I used to ask girls on big dates a lot but it never used to work. As soon as I just started telling them to come over for a movie my success rate went up sky high. This is contextual though as I'm a uni student so it depends on what social context/culture you are a part of but similar principle
/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:03 PM
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As you 2 don't really know each other asking her on a proper long date like that is a bit too much too soon. That's the kind of thing you'd take a girl to do that you've known for a bit and potentially want to make an ltr. Like the other post said a better thing would've been a chilled drink or something. No matter though now you have learned something very useful
/r/askTRP07/01/17 11:58 AM
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Yoda has been around for millennia
/r/askTRP06/01/17 03:14 PM
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You are no longer in an LTR with this girl
/r/askTRP06/01/17 12:40 PM
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Definately go. Just be chilled. Don't put any expectations on yourself or the night. Biggest tip is don't get drunk, just have one or two drinks every hour. This will help your conversation. Also for conversation just focus on being present in the moment with a solid positive energy. Watch some rsd tyler vids for that
/r/askTRP30/12/16 03:51 PM
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Fuck that's a lot of money. What do you do if you don't mind me asking?
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 10:12 PM
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Hahahahaahhaaa
/r/askTRP29/12/16 10:09 PM
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no you're not a weirdo, it's normal
/r/askTRP29/12/16 08:53 PM
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LOL I now see what prompted you to make post
/r/askTRP29/12/16 08:50 PM
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"my friend" ahahha
/r/askTRP28/12/16 08:36 PM
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yess do it good idea
/r/askTRP28/12/16 04:36 PM
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Anecdotal
/r/askTRP28/12/16 11:04 AM
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"But dont flat out reject it cause some online forum told you to avoid it at all costs" LOL this. Some people take TRP ideals way too far. TRP is just theory about society and like all sociological theories it's not 100% like a hard scientific theory about black holes
/r/askTRP28/12/16 10:50 AM
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You preach on the main sub yet you don't even have your own shit together
/r/askTRP27/12/16 07:15 PM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP27/12/16 05:08 PM
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Monk mode does not mean to completely isolate yourself Read the sidebar stuff about monk mode again, and do some googling Essentially, you are meant to cut all the shit from your life and just focus on yourself
/r/askTRP27/12/16 04:31 PM
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Accept that what she does is none of your control, you can't feel like you are responsible for her potentially taking her life because you aren't. I agree she is manipulatively abusing you and you need to disappear from her ASAP
/r/askTRP27/12/16 04:30 PM
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You need to be fully present in the moment. This is achieved through meditation. Start with researching mindfulness meditation and start today
/r/askTRP27/12/16 04:28 PM
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My mission is to own a farm in Spain or somewhere similar. Live off the land isolated from most of society. Have a beautiful wife and tons of kids
/r/askTRP26/12/16 08:55 PM
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I believe he means that living in a small town there are far less opportunities in every aspect imaginable than living in a huge city like London or New York for example
/r/askTRP26/12/16 10:25 AM
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No. While on these subs you will read countless examples of failed LTR's but there are countless more couples that exist who have great relationships. What I take from TRP is to understand that her cheating on you or you breaking up is a real possibility and to prepare yourself for this outcome mentally (it's only your turn and the glass is already broken) and by taking steps to ensure that you won't become a depressed mess if that does happen e.g. lifting, earning dollars, having a life outside…
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:19 PM
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please could you PM me that guide too?
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 10:58 AM
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Don't message her and delete the phone number
/r/askTRP25/12/16 01:15 AM
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Why do birds shit on my head?
/r/askTRP22/12/16 11:29 PM
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This is a fucking internet forum. No one here is going to be your personal psychologist therapist so go and get some professional help
/r/askTRP22/12/16 11:27 PM
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"I'm not attractive so how can anyone else think I'm attractive" How can anyone like you if you don't like yourself? Fix your self-esteem
/r/seduction22/12/16 11:23 PM
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Learn what a comfort test is and how they are different from confidence (frame/shit) tests. Don't worry though, one conversation isn't going to drastically change things. Carry on as normal. Take her out somewhere if you like her
/r/askTRP22/12/16 10:40 PM
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You can only control yourself. Don't try controlling others
/r/askTRP12/10/16 01:19 PM
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Phahahahhahaahhaahha
/r/askTRP02/10/16 11:09 PM
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also do you have good links for those books. google ones are pretty shitty
/r/askTRP02/10/16 01:08 PM
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Thanks I'll read them now. My game is weak now but soon it will good. You didn't really answer my question though.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 01:04 PM
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What are comfort tests and how do I pass them?
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 09:13 AM
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You didn't say how to change from consciously gaming to being a "natural".
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 11:34 PM
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You have misunderstood what I wrote. I did not imply that he should act aggressively. I was explaining how to act confidently to let the guy know that you are not scared of him. Not making eye contact with someone or cowering away when they are near you are signs of being scared. Bullies pick on the weak and the vulnerable. The dog was not meant to be a literal example. It should be clear that I was not recommending to literally act like a tiny dog. The example was made to illustrate my point. W…
/r/askTRP20/09/16 08:54 PM
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Can you fucking read? Or understand what words mean? Did I say to behave like an animal? Did I say to stare him down? You're a fucking imbecile
/r/askTRP20/09/16 08:49 PM
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You've never been in a fight or had to stand up to someone So a guy is up in your face shit talking and you just stand there and do nothing? Nah that guy is a pussy. There's a time and place for holding frame, but sometimes you have to retaliate. Difference between actually being upset and responding to a threat.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 07:48 AM
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yeah it was, it's not normal adult behaviour. that guy obviously has internal issues and is not happy with himself. he's not going to do anything to you like fight you or attack you dont worry next time you see him make strong eye contact for a few seconds then look away to the side slowly. stand tall and with good posture and carry on walking slowly to where you were going. this will show him that you aren't scared or a pussy kinda like when a tiny dog shows no fear to a massive predator (there…
/r/askTRP20/09/16 07:46 AM
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Some great red pill truths in this. Your post seems quite disjointed though. Like there are two posts in one. I don't understand the jump from your convo with the 9 to about dualistic nature to your point about what affects approaching success. Are they meant to be linked or am I missing something?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 07:39 AM
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Couldn't have put it better myself. However I agree that sometimes ED can be a self fulfilling prophecy and you just need to NGAF and stop worrying.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 11:02 AM
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Many people, myself included, use nofap as a way to reset themselves after years of PMO'ing. PMO'ing can lead to a host of issues such as deathgrip, premature, erectile dsyfunction etc etc. I think doing the Nofap 90 day challenge on hard mode is an essential step when you decide to swallow the red pill. Especially for younger guys who discovered their sexuality along with porn. Porn can have extremely negative effects on a person when used since the teenage years. Using Nofap as a way to help c…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 12:36 AM
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nice sub
/r/askTRP17/09/16 03:23 PM
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Fair point that makes sense
/r/askTRP17/09/16 01:27 PM
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Great goals, real and achievable. Good luck. You need to start reading books. They are the ultimate source of mind expanding knowledge and will be the foundation of any success you achieve in your life. Read philosophy, but read for a couple of hours a day. Replace your video game time. Before bed is great. Personally I would add to not masturbate at all, or at the minimum once a month.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 12:46 PM
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Not helpful
/r/askTRP17/09/16 12:42 PM
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I agree. Having enough money to live comfortably and enjoy life is very important to me, but I have no interest in selling my soul to amass huge sums of cash. It's pointless. We have been brainwashed our whole lives to think we need huge houses on tropical islands and supercars to be happy when in reality we do not need those things to survive. This is the reality of consumerism. Consumerism and materialism IS THE BLUE PILL! Money is an invention by the upper social hierarchies to control the pr…
/r/askTRP17/09/16 12:36 PM
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thanks man, really appreciate it
/r/askTRP16/09/16 11:25 PM
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in my childhood I was a social reject. I could expand on my childhood alot. I compare myself to others and see people who are socially competent with great social life and a great group of friends and see them doing fun things. I want to be liked and accepted by the group. In social situations I feel like I'm acting like an idiot and everyone is thinking how weird and strange this person is; he is not normal. I feel inferior to others and that causes low self esteem and anxiety attacks.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 09:52 PM
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fuck I definitely do this. it has happened so many times now I expect it to always happen and so it does. I feel like I'm going into a downward spiral right now. this is totally irrational, I don't even know what I'm a worrying about right now, but I feel awful.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 09:48 PM
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Stop overthinking. Nike
/r/seduction16/09/16 12:45 PM
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There's a difference between chasing and leading. Chasing is when she is flaking you and not really THAT interested and you are being desperate. Lead, don't chase
/r/askTRP16/09/16 12:39 PM
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Haha man I've had some embarrassing experiences. Just thinking about it makes me laugh and cringe so hard. Don't stress, in a few years you'll look back, tell the story to your mates and laugh hard about how dumb you were back then.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 12:39 PM
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just because someone disagrees with you doesnt mean that they are automatically wrong. Thats just arrogance
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 02:12 PM
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Then you are yet to kill the beta
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 02:06 PM
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Maaaan I wish I understood this at the start of 6th form.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 01:35 PM
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tl/dr Seriously man, this isn't sob story. Write a concise question with relevant background if you want an answer. There isn't even one question in that entire post
/r/askTRP12/09/16 02:46 PM
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Change your identity and move to Argentina
/r/askTRP12/09/16 02:44 PM
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First you must pin point your exact underlying issue. The best person to do this is a psychologist. Paying for therapy would be the single best investment in yourself you can ever make. Then you must change your behavioral patterns and mental processes. From reading what you have wrote it seems obvious that you have cripplingly low self-esteem due to your childhood experiences. This is a serious issue that will not go away on its own. Seriously go to your doctor. Mental health issues are real. N…
/r/askTRP12/09/16 02:15 PM
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What are you talking about? You find 50 year old women as attractive as 20 year olds?
/r/seduction12/09/16 02:09 PM
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This should be put on the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 10:10 PM
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It only seems like a problem bringing up your ex because you think it is. You handle it fine and she won't think anything of it. Not a mistake saying call me when you are free, but you should take the lead in arranging shit. Don't put the ball in her court because you will end up in her frame
/r/askTRP09/09/16 11:10 PM
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Injury sucks man. I know how you feel. This will be a hard time for you mentally. Many pro players have therapy sessions when they have injured because it really can make you depressed. Focus on your recovery and rehabilitation. Going through hard times and coming out better is what makes you into a real man.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 11:08 PM
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Your situation is too specific for us to be able to tell you the right answer. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1bl829/iron_rule_of_tomassi_3_any_woman_who_makes_you/ Read the top comments
/r/askTRP09/09/16 11:05 PM
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Mate people have replied to you in both of your FR's on the main sub. Hard next, address your own problems first. Stop needing these bitches in order to feel happy about yourself
/r/askTRP09/09/16 11:02 PM
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You are already emotionally invested in the outcome. You shouldn't need her to text you to feel happy. She's just an imperfect human being with a hole you want to put your dick in. Find happiness in other parts of life
/r/askTRP09/09/16 11:00 PM
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Porn is so bad for you man
/r/askTRP09/09/16 10:59 PM
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You can read TRP on monk mode. Moderation. Just don't spend 10 hours a day on reddit. Part of monk mode in introspection. Looking at yourself and analyzing your past experiences. Read the sidebar then I strongly recommend reading all of the top post of all time on the main sub and on here and the comment sections. Make notes in a notepad on the main points you find applicable to yourself. Then reflect on them and how they apply to you. Good luck!
/r/askTRP09/09/16 10:58 PM
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You've answered your own question. No. Cut all ties. Delete from facebook etc. You have to let her go in order to move on. In time you will.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 10:56 PM
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Sidebar: Attraction can't be negotiated
/r/askTRP08/09/16 12:14 AM
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Best field report I've ever read on here. I can directly relate to the scenario you describe as a UK uni student. Question: how do you read and react to the situation like this when you are in the moment? In retrospect it is fairly easy to analyse but in the moment it's hard.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 03:35 PM
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Seems like you did everything fine. Most of the time when something like that happens its just the girl being weird. Nothing to do with you. If it happens more often though, then it could be something you are doing
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 04:53 PM
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Then I guess the only way you will learn is the hard way
/r/askTRP06/09/16 04:44 PM
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*LITERALLY NOT WHAT TO DO She clearly rejects his sexual advances and he persists in trying to kiss her and be close to her. He pleads with her for a kiss like a needy beta. At 3:15 she physically pushes him away and steps back. But he pulls her back in closer. WTF that's like the best example of a dude being a creep and not being able to read body language. Fucking cringey tbh. Then they start arguing about how much he picks up and body language is awful. Fuck I havent even finished the video y…
/r/seduction06/09/16 04:20 PM
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Your persistence in comparing yourself to others will poison your self-esteem
/r/askTRP06/09/16 04:07 PM
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And what is your contribution to the subreddit?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 04:14 PM
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Good advice
/r/askTRP01/09/16 12:14 AM
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Word
/r/askTRP01/09/16 12:12 AM
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Ultimate - https://e-edu.nbu.bg/pluginfile.php/331752/mod_resource/content/0/Allan_and_Barbara_Pease_-_Body_Language_The_Definitive_Book.pdf
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:43 PM
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Personally my resting bitch face and body language is a manifestation of my internal state. When I'm depressed or in a bad mood I have low energy and don't want to talk to anybody so I appear standoffish. Work on your "inner game" and improve your masculine energy. You want to be going round socializing pumped up full of energy. Then you'll be smirking and have open body language
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:42 PM
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Google "systems over goals". Essentially if you make concrete goals and plans i.e. ways of achieving them. It's impossible to fail. E.g. My system for gym: Eat 6 meals a day at 500 kcal each. Protein 30% minimum of all meals. Go to the gym every other day at 3pm. HIIT training every other rest day. Follow this and it's impossible to fail.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:40 PM
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No it's genuinely not a humble brag. Maybe it's a shit test?
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:37 PM
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This. I feel like most threesomes happen spontaneously in the moment at a badass party or something. Feels like organizing and planning it (in a non-Machiavellian way) wouldn't work
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:35 PM
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Great analysis
/r/askTRP30/08/16 11:13 AM
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Reality is as it is. Accept it or be full of regret. There was nothing you could have ever done that would have altered the current present situation you are in. All you can do is act now, and enjoy now. Read up on some philosophy like Stoicism and Buddhism etc. Learn about the universe and string theory. Also how are you dealing with your inferiority complex? Similar situation.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 11:08 AM
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Your point about how comparing yourself to others is toxic deserves a full post
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 05:23 PM
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trusssst meee. fuck this boring ass summer man
/r/askTRP25/08/16 11:20 AM
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Honestly mate I have no idea about that stuff. Seems the social isolation is causing your mind to fuck with you
/r/askTRP25/08/16 09:58 AM
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Yeah mate, well done on that. It's hard to accept girls are attracted to you after improvements. Did you read the recent post on the main board about that recently? You just gotta always assume attraction and think you are the best fucking alpha male in the room, even if it's not true, force yourself to think it. Obviously when you actually are it's easy. But your biggest enemy is your own mind... Don't trap yourself by your thoughts man
/r/askTRP25/08/16 09:47 AM
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She wanted the D. Held her hand, led her somewhere quiet in club, makeout, tell her you're leaving and she's coming with you. Get home. Have sex... You're not really asking us how you should've escalated. The above comes very naturally. You are just overthinking how much of a pussy you were in the situation and regret it. There's literally no point going over and over past situations where you failed. Go over it once, identify your failure and let that drive you to succeed the next time. I know …
/r/askTRP25/08/16 09:42 AM
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Question: How much should you tease? Is it something you should use sparingly?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 11:40 AM
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mindfulness in plain english http://www.wisdompubs.org/sites/default/files/preview/Mindfulness%20in%20Plain%20English%20Book%20Preview.pdf
/r/askTRP08/08/16 12:24 PM
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What do you think?
/r/askTRP08/08/16 12:19 PM
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Saying that was a mistake. No biggie. Act like nothing happened. Radio silence. Carry on as usual
/r/askTRP07/08/16 09:39 PM
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1.Abundance mentality cures oneitus. 2.Mentality comes from having abundance. 3.Which comes from high SMV and game. 4. Improve SMV and game
/r/askTRP07/08/16 09:36 PM
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Your self doubt is holding you back
/r/askTRP07/08/16 09:36 PM
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What is up with all these posts with awful english
/r/askTRP07/08/16 09:34 PM
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You need to introspect and figure out your own motivations. Question all of your beliefs. Nothing is objectively true. What makes you feel the need to make everything "official and different"? What has made you think the next logical step moving in together? etc etc Generally speaking most people will say that it is a bad idea because in practice it tends to not work out well
/r/askTRP07/08/16 09:31 PM
3

Learn how to write a fucking comprehensible sentence
/r/askTRP07/08/16 09:27 PM
1

Well maybe if you sit down a theorize it enough in your head a sex doll from gazorpazorp will appear and fuck your brains out. Or maybe not.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 08:58 AM
0

Life is suffering
/r/askTRP07/08/16 08:53 AM
1

"I dated this girl for two months. We met through Omegle. We lived in different countries so, meeting up was not an option" I lol'ed
/r/askTRP07/08/16 08:50 AM
0

loooooooooooool these guys
/r/askTRP07/08/16 08:49 AM
1

Are you getting what you want from the relation?
/r/askTRP07/08/16 08:45 AM
3

Sell party drugs. E's, and blow. Gives you crazy status too. You'll know all the cool kids and go to the parties. Just don't take any of it yourself
/r/askTRP07/08/16 08:42 AM
1

Experience. You can't force yourself to believe an that your subconscious rejects
/r/askTRP05/08/16 03:43 PM
3

Hahahahah. I can't beleive you wasted your time typing all that out. Man you must be angry with your life. Don't you have a job or something? Go and do something productive in the world
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 09:23 AM
3

Love that why did we never go out. Exactly the kind of frame set I'm looking for
/r/askTRP04/08/16 09:38 PM
1

That's it! Rapport! I need to build some because we haven't spoken/seen for a year. Thanks
/r/askTRP04/08/16 09:15 PM
0

Fair but I think the point is OP is mistaken for thinking material is required to learn pickup in the first place. It's not. You don't need material to learn. Sure there a great resources out there. The best resource is the real world
/r/askTRP04/08/16 09:14 PM
1

Straight up reading about picking up is mostly a waste of time. If you are looking for pick up lines maybe. The "art" of picking up is all about the manifestation of a mental state into body language. First you have to be completely sure of yourself, and that will show in how you act. Interaction is 80% body language. With high enough SMV you can chat shit and will still get laid. Watch some video's of people picking up. I like Simple pickup's old old stuff. You will get the general idea of how …
/r/askTRP04/08/16 09:11 PM
3

Yeah but a lot of people fall into the trap of watching videos all day and never actually going out to practice.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 09:03 PM
1

Seems like your hormones are all over the place. How old are you?
/r/askTRP04/08/16 09:01 PM
0

Hey I'm 6 3 and my target body weight is around 200. Would you be able to post pics with face blurred or something?
/r/askTRP04/08/16 09:07 AM
1

thanks man
/r/askTRP02/08/16 11:30 AM
1

Yeah there's hardly any support for mental health. We are just left to figure it out alone
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:59 PM
1

Thanks. Lifting heavy makes me feel amazing after. Haven't really got into meditating yet. Tried a few times but think it takes a while to get benefits
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:59 PM
1

How bad were your issues before you decided to take them?
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:58 PM
1

Same
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:57 PM
1

Definitely agree with your first point. GP's in the UK are horrendously incompetent. Also just doesn't seem right to take something so artificial that seriously alters brain chemistry. I don't really trust the Pharma industry anyways Consensus seems to be they make living with mental health issues bearable in the short term but long term is bad. Regarding pot, whenever I smoke it makes me pretty anxious so I try to avoid it.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:56 PM
1

Cheers. I'll give it a shot. Am also taking Ashwagandha
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:53 PM
1

How bad was your anxiety before you started on them?
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:53 PM
1

Yeah my initial thoughts on SSRI's were that it didn't seem right to take something so artificial to treat the brain. Feels like you should avoid taking things that can mess up your brain chemistry so much. I'd rather fix things naturally. And yeah I'll keep a look out for the post. I think mental health is a huge issue that really isn't addressed properly. People are just left to figure shit out on there own.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:52 PM
2

Ok the extra info helps. Seems like a mental block. No one is born with perfect social skills. It's a skill, something that takes time and failures to succeed. Now you know exactly what your weakness is. Don't hate yourself for not being able to do something you can't. Would you be so angry if you were unable to fly a jumbo jet? No. All you can do is practice and be self aware. Meditate, get out of your own head when your'e with someone or you'll start over thinking. You will succeed eventually.…
/r/askTRP01/08/16 11:19 AM
1

Yes it is even more reliable than if she said it your face
/r/askTRP01/08/16 11:12 AM
1

Change your goals. They should not be focused on women so much. That is why you are unhappy with the outcome. Instead of saying that I need to be successful with women to be happy, choose something else like to be happy I'm going to be a good person and work on myself to achieve my best potential
/r/askTRP01/08/16 11:09 AM
1

post this in /r/asktrp for good advice
/r/seduction31/07/16 11:53 AM
2

Used to have bad acne. Was a genetic issue as my sister had some of the worst acne possible (thank god you aren't a female with this issue). Anyway, what worked for me was: drinking 6 litres + of water a day, no processed sugar (only natural carb sugars and fruit), no dairy, working out, and getting enough sun. I would highly recommend a sunbed once a week for 5-6 minutes. UV tanning in moderation is not going to give you skin cancer, its actually very good for your skin. Most people have vitami…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 10:00 AM
0

Failure is a good thing. You are now one step closer to success. “I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work.” ― Thomas A. Edison
/r/askTRP29/07/16 09:50 AM
2

There's such a thing as healthy narcissism. Look it up. To have successful LTR you need a good balance of Alpha and Beta behavior. It's up to you to find the balance that works.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 02:53 PM
1

fuck me these kind of posts are meant for asktrp have you even bothered to read the rules or sidebar first
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 10:50 PM
5

Go. You are going to be dead rotting into soil before you know it. Don't pay any attention to the girl. If she asks you a direct question respond politely then ignore her. Only way to improve is to get experience. Even if you fail, you will be one step closer to success. If you don't go you will stay exactly the same. What a waste of an opportunity.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 07:49 PM
2

No this won't work, you gotta give it all up or you will find yourself going back to it
/r/askTRP27/07/16 11:34 AM
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It won't be easy. You will relapse multiple times. Understand that it is a very real addiction. But when you relapse don't give up completely carry on going you'll do it eventually. You have to want for yourself and realise the importance of what you are doing. Install K9 web protection and block all porn. Set the password to something you don't know by copy pasting some random letters and use a throwaway email that also has a random password. There's a guide to do this on reddit. Google for "ho…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 11:34 AM
5

Ah well if it sounds too good to be true it must be. There's no point even trying is there. Just carry on masturbating then /s This is the answer. If you want to solve your problem then do it. Yes I have done it. Yes your sex drive disappears initially because of how fucked your brain is, but it will come back eventually when you have rewired to baseline. The sole purpose of the brain/body is to reproduce it will find away.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 11:01 AM
2

If she's declining you sex their must be a reason for it. Attraction can't be negotiated. If you aren't getting what you want, then it's a bad one sided relationship. I'm sure there's tons of sluts out there who would do anything you wanted.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 10:57 AM
7

tl/dr
/r/askTRP27/07/16 10:54 AM
8

Go 90 days no porn, no masturbation, no orgasm. Your brain needs a long time to recover and "rewire", but it will do eventually if you give it enough time. /r/NoFap
/r/askTRP27/07/16 10:54 AM
17

Go outside and find out for yourself
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 08:40 PM
0

50 cent is the mothafucking OG
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 09:36 PM
0

50 cent is not fictional. His lyrics reflect his life. Would it be any different if he was giving a speech or interview? He is expressing his version of the truth; his reality.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 09:35 PM
2

Post a pic either here or rateme so you can get practical tips
/r/askTRP24/07/16 04:26 PM
2

Hey I live in London. 19 y/o. PM me, I'd be down to have a beer. Londoners are notoriously stiff upper lipped. Lived here my whole life so pretty used to it now. It's next to impossible to make random strangers into friends outside of school/uni/work
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:23 AM
2

Where are you at now in development? How long have you been reading TRP?
/r/askTRP22/07/16 05:45 PM
3

Build up a social value and social capital. Be an interesting person and you won't find it hard. This will get you more opportunities to slay as the majority of girls you will meet will be through other people/social events. Join 3-4 societies. There's not really a US style daygame/nightgame "pulling" culture. Either you meet a student event club and escalate or it's a social type of fwb situation. Don't try and get a girlfriend 1st year, it will come 2nd. I just finished my 1st year and my pers…
/r/askTRP22/07/16 03:44 PM
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Stop bragging
/r/askTRP22/07/16 10:00 AM
4

Install K9 web protection and block porn, make the passwords random so you can't remember them. If you google "how to block porn using k9 nofap" there's tons of reddit posts explaining how to do this.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 09:57 AM
3

this guy has been commenting that everywhere. it's a troll making fun of the members who say read the sidebar to posts
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 12:51 PM
16

You have to do it with a lot of confident body language (which also applies to a lot of shit). Think of an Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt or someone with great body language doing this. Deep loud voice, cracks a joke with huge smile, light touches shoulder "will you excuse me I just saw a friend", "it was nice meeting you". Now imagine a scrawny autistic fuck just not saying anything when the conversation dies and just staring at the girl awkwardly for 30 seconds, then shuffling off without saying a word…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 11:04 AM
1

what did you do from getting the number to fucking?
/r/askTRP18/07/16 05:57 PM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP18/07/16 05:45 PM
1

there's no magic cure. improve your self esteem
/r/askTRP18/07/16 05:44 PM
2

read 1984
/r/askTRP17/07/16 06:57 PM
2

The author says that class has little to do with income/wealth
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 08:31 AM
1

Not to be pedantic, but there's a spelling mistake in the title. I think you meant to say biased, not bysed.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 11:34 PM
-2

you're a fucking racist pig
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 08:10 PM
0

It takes a long time. There are no shortcuts. Your body will repair though don't stress about it. Our sole biological purpose is to reproduce, arousal will come back in time
/r/askTRP13/07/16 05:32 PM
1

Yeah you're probably right. What makes you think you are entitled to enjoy your youth? So fucking what you weren't born with good genes. No one gives gives a fuck about you. You are literally one individual from billions of humans dead and alive. No one will remember you. This is real life. Accept and it adjust or forever be stuck in the matrix. Edit: Top post on main forum right now- "No one cares" https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4sm77m/nobody_cares/
/r/askTRP13/07/16 05:28 PM
1

yeah it's all about your own mindset and confidence. Definitely linked to what I posted about yesterday re. self esteem
/r/askTRP12/07/16 08:54 PM
1

great link thanks!
/r/askTRP12/07/16 08:53 PM
3

Physically, it fucks me up. My dick gets desensitized so it takes way too long to cum form PIV and makes sex an unpleasant experience. Death grip Also fucks my brain chemistry up. I could only get rock hard from porn. Being with a real woman became underwhelming and didn't arouse me. Combines with death grip. NoFap talks about one way of masturbating specifically. That is watching dirty shit for hours and beating your meat like the Terminator. TRP does not support this.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 12:52 PM
0

Would you speak like that to your mother?
/r/askTRP11/07/16 07:59 PM
2

cool, thanks for your opinion man
/r/askTRP11/07/16 04:13 PM
1

I find it a little paradoxical though. For example I've been lifting a lot recently, but I'm not trying to get jacked for myself. I'm doing it because women are more attracted to jacked guys. Obviously this isn't a good way to think about it. How do I change my mindset from doing it for the pussy to doing it for myself?
/r/askTRP11/07/16 04:02 PM
1

Yeah there is actually. Not a great childhood. Parents a bit batshit crazy, possibly narcissistic. I think I'm going to try and get some therapy.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 04:00 PM
1

ahahahahahaa
/r/askTRP11/07/16 03:58 PM
1

I agree man. I'm focusing way too much of my energy on women. I think I need to focus on myself more and set some goals for myself and only myself. It's a bit of a paradox though. You are doing things to improve yourself, but at the end you also get more women. So are you really doing it for yourself or women?
/r/askTRP11/07/16 03:58 PM
3

yeah it's not easy when you have no confidence in yourself. I read in another post that self confidence isn't some abstract feeling but a direct result of your actual ability. When you have low confidence that's your subconsciously saying that you need to improve in that area
/r/askTRP11/07/16 03:56 PM
0

I think you're right, but in order to view myself as the prize I need to actually believe it. That's my problem at the moment. I don't value myself enough to actually believe that I am a prize.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 03:53 PM
3

anti slut defence
/r/askTRP08/07/16 06:40 AM
2

Thanks for the insight. Could you tell me a little bit about how you decided/went about getting a job in that field? Going from studying politics to something like that is a smart move as the jobs that lead from Politics don't particularly interest me or pay well enough. But how exactly does someone/ did you achieve this?
/r/askTRP05/07/16 03:58 PM
1

Right now? Tech house. Sososososo good - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ID1l12yEFGk
/r/askTRP04/07/16 09:45 PM
15

Ghost. Slowly fade into the shadows.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 08:56 PM
3

This is the best answer
/r/askTRP29/06/16 09:38 PM
1

you've read that, but try and reflect on what that means. Scenario: Human has choice between something nice and something not as nice. Question: What does human choose?
/r/askTRP29/06/16 09:37 PM
3

how is this not a direct comparison?
/r/askTRP29/06/16 09:34 PM
2

I'd like to add that I agree that masturbation is not inherently bad for you, but it all depends on how you are doing it. If it's with a death grip for 3 hours straight then obviously you are going to lose a lot of sensitivity and that will make it hard for you to cum from any other source (vag/bj etc). A technique I've heard about to avoid this is to beat it using only 2/3 fingers. Source: Own experience
/r/askTRP29/06/16 07:58 PM
7

no, listen to Vidaric. AWALT. Avoid oneitus. Move on etc
/r/askTRP26/06/16 09:15 PM
4

now
/r/askTRP24/06/16 06:58 PM
1

6th
/r/askTRP10/06/16 03:49 PM
1

If you want the best answer write out the details and post it on the main sub
/r/askTRP09/06/16 03:12 PM
3

I believe I am in a very similar position to you. Finishing 1st year at RG uni whilst living away from home. I have brown skin as my heritage is Indian. I'm slightly taller at 6'3 and pretty lean already but i need to bulk up and put on some muscle mass. I've learnt quite a lot so far from my first year and I agree that nightclubs can play a big part in getting a ONS. To be honest, you don't have to be great looking to pull uni girls. They are pretty immature and the ones that club are slutty. T…
/r/askTRP10/04/16 05:19 PM
1

wise words thanks
/r/askTRP17/02/16 06:44 PM
-4

fuck you
/r/askTRP14/02/16 05:51 PM
1

Man this hit home. I'm an ugly duckling and am only now coming to terms with the reality of what you just described. Looking back I realise how much people manipulated me any other advice?
/r/askTRP14/02/16 03:03 AM
0

TL;DR Get some help man
/r/seduction17/09/15 10:59 PM
1

See here
/r/seduction03/09/15 10:37 PM
1

I'm interested
/r/seduction03/09/15 10:33 PM
2

Plenty more fish in the sea
/r/seduction03/09/15 02:16 PM
1

I can personally recommend the self esteem for dummies book. It has helped me more than anything else could ever hope too
/r/seduction03/09/15 02:14 PM
3

You have incredibly low self esteem. Read some self help stuff about self esteem seriously man. Forget all this seduction bull for now. You have to start with the fundamentals. How can someone like you if you don't like yourself. If you don't sort your self esteem out first you will find it very difficult to seduce
/r/seduction03/09/15 02:12 PM
5

Fucking anything man. Do you know how many words exist in the English language? You could literally talk for an infinite amount of time and never run out of shit to say
/r/seduction03/09/15 02:09 PM
17

with that mentality you will come off as a douche no matter what
/r/seduction03/09/15 02:06 PM
1

Yeah I agree to a large extent, but unfortunately that's just how it works in our society. Schools and colleges are so cliquey and fake, you have to change who you are in order to fit in with their norm. Then again no one is forcing you to join in with them and in the long run staying true to yourself is much better. I've found as I've got older and out of college it's easier to find a group who you identify with more than the typical high school group I think it's a shame how so many young peop…
/r/seduction03/09/15 02:00 PM
0

Roommates Cheaper too
/r/seduction03/09/15 03:05 AM
1

This is quite hard to answer as it completely depends on the situation. I can't give you a step by step process but I can say that generally just try to become close friends with one person out of the entire social group who is a "core member" I.e accepted by everyone. They will give you the social proof needed to be drawn into the group. That person will bring you in and invite you to the groups party In my experience it's not easy to break into preexisting social groups but I've seen this meth…
/r/seduction03/09/15 03:03 AM
1

If it's a date then change the location. The male role is taking care of all the logistics
/r/seduction01/09/15 11:23 PM
1

just treat her like a friend but keep thinking in your head about how hard you would screw her Like literally right there and then, I've found this helped me maintain a sexually confident frame
/r/seduction01/09/15 11:16 PM
1

Ignore them unless she brings it up. Then give out some bullshit excuse like a "family dinner". Don't make it seem like you need her more than she needs you
/r/seduction01/09/15 11:12 PM
1

Nice field report Good move on not getting the number straight away, playing it smooth If you tell yourself that those anxieties are a problem they will become a problem
/r/seduction01/09/15 11:09 PM
1

This is the perfect opportunity for you to just say fuck it and go for it. It's your last opportunity so take it. You are never going to see these people again. So fucking what if the entire school thinks you are a creep and you fail miserably. You'd be in exactly the same position as you are now but you'd be so much closer to your goal
/r/seduction01/09/15 02:48 PM
1

The entire point of this subreddit is to answer that question Use the sidebar
/r/seduction01/09/15 02:38 PM
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People don't get laid every single day at college. Everything good takes time and if every guy was getting laid everyday then game wouldn't exist As long as you are sociable opportunities will present themselves and then it's up to you to escalate. Just keep trying but don't come off like you need women. Carry on improving your life and don't assume you have a problem so to speak
/r/seduction01/09/15 12:44 AM
1

Maybe if you understood why you do it you can stop. No one here can tell you why you do it
/r/seduction01/09/15 12:28 AM
1

Exactly. Trust me I have put too much energy into far too many people before and it's always failed. It sounds like your brain knows what the right thing to do is. Good luck
/r/seduction01/09/15 12:18 AM
1

So what are you asking exactly?
/r/seduction01/09/15 12:08 AM
1

Check your intentions Do you want to ask her out to see if she's still interested in you? Maybe you should slow down a bit. Women in general don't like seeing signs of neediness and she may be put off Make her chase you!
/r/seduction31/08/15 11:58 PM
2

When you rejected the girl what emotions were you feeling? Was it out of shyness or that you simply didn't know what to do next ? Either way if it's anxiety or feeling speechless you just have to get more interactions to build up experience
/r/seduction31/08/15 11:48 PM
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