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Hell yeah brother. I'm an East Asian in the UK, and 100% agree with you. There is a colonial legacy which has unfairly set an "attractiveness hierarchy" in Western culture. I mean, why are "white" accents (English, French, Spanish etc) and faces considered "attractive", whilst "non-white" accents (Indian, Chinese etc) and faces considered "unattractive"? It's all a bullshit narrative that has been pushed for hundreds of years to further "whiteness", and it's still prevalence in society, culture …
/r/seduction16/01/21 12:54 PM
6

It's my fault, I never attempted to do anything. I have a bit of social anxiety and don't have many friends. I don't go out much at all so never really got opportunities. This is the real reason why you aren't getting laid. You can't get laid without meeting women and getting the opportunities. You don't meet women if you just stay at home and never interact with them. You feel there is a big gap between someone like yourself and "experienced guy". The only difference is that the latter is a lot…
/r/seduction19/09/18 05:31 PM
4

What a sad fucking world we live is that being Indian or Blaack is a short coming.
/r/seduction25/08/18 01:33 PM
1

Definitely. 30 was a great age for me.
/r/seduction13/08/18 07:00 PM
-1

I usually hate posts which have headlines such as "These X things will get you laid!", as they are usually clickbaity and inaccurate, but this is gold. If I were to summarise the process it would be the same way as you have done it. Honestly looks, leading and logistics are the simple things you need. I may add emotional connection as well but to be honest sometimes that is not even necessary to just get laid.
/r/seduction12/08/18 11:33 PM
2

Fame and money will do that.
/r/seduction15/07/18 01:35 PM
2

it seems the better looking I get (style, working out 5+ days a week, etc.) the less attention I get from women I have also experienced this to be true. Not really sure why it is, maybe it's because they are intimidated, don't want to be 'obvious', or for whatever other reason. Doesn't really matter the reason though. I'm in a clear dry spell and I've worked on myself...yet now I'm a more needy person because I feel alone. Where the hell do I go from here? Try not to focus too much on this feeli…
/r/seduction19/06/18 08:51 PM
1

Could you go into more detail of how you improved and what you did? I did the following which helped me: Continually put myself out there to interact with women (ie approaching, but in a way that allows you to have an extended interaction with them - "getting to know her", rather than just approaching for the sake of approaching) Learning to be comfortable to express myself, especially regarding sexual desire and needs (I rarely explicitly say it, but learn to project a sexy vibe and to get clos…
/r/seduction14/06/18 10:08 PM
1

Yes. Found out about PUA in my teens, but didn't really get 'good' until my late 20s. By good I mean sleeping with several attractive girls in a year. Was a shy, sexless virgin through most of my University days, and didn't really have much luck in my early 20s either. How did it happen? Improved my social skills, looks and mindset, and keep plugging away trying to find ways to meet attractive girls more efficiently. I'm also East Asian living in a Western country, so the whole 'Hollywood' racis…
/r/seduction13/06/18 08:47 PM
1

This is really good practical advice. I kinda have been doing this for years. It gives you control over your life. You know how sometimes you have a problem in life and you think, "If only I was X, then I could do Y"? Become X, and even if Y doesn't happen, then at least you know that theory wasn't true.
/r/seduction20/05/18 06:02 PM
2

Can you afford to travel? Stay in hostels where there is a bar, in a party city. Travel alone so you can learn to be a new person without anyone's expectations. You sound like you are a good looking guy so you've got that going for you. Take some liquid courage if that helps and try to have fun by not putting to much expectation on yourself and just connect with people and have a good time.
/r/seduction17/05/18 02:46 PM
3

Could be an age thing as well, young guys don't necessary value relationship as much as someone whose played around a little and realise the pros and cons.
/r/seduction16/05/18 04:09 PM
1

'Game' is just a combination of social skills and social grace, being able to escalate smoothly and being aware of her reaction and state so you can adjust your actions accordingly.
/r/seduction16/05/18 04:07 PM
10

It's pretty much the conclusion I have come to after having 'been in the community' for 10+ years. Most guys I know in real life that know what they are talking about seem to come to the same conclusion; you can't really persuade a girl to bang you if she doesn't want to in the first place. Find girls that want to bang you and make it easier for them to hook up with you, that's all you can really do.
/r/seduction16/05/18 03:48 PM
1

Just assume they thought you were hot, generally young girls do that kind of shit to guys they like.
/r/seduction15/05/18 10:03 AM
4

I definitely would not take offence, even if I wasn't interested. It's a brave thing to do to take a risk pursuing what you want, and I admire that. Plus it gives me an ego boost if you think I'm hot. If she is hot then I would be keener than a dehydrated alcoholic for that drink.
/r/seduction14/05/18 01:42 PM
4

Fair enough, that's a good point. I thought you were telling me personally to be careful based on the advice I gave, rather than as a general advice to everyone.
/r/seduction14/05/18 12:31 AM
1

I get that. It's up to each person to: 1) comply with the law, 2) have empathy, 3) be self aware. Like I said, successful seduction generally requires at least basic social skills. The situation you are describing is for people who lack this. IMO that's not a seduction discussion.
/r/seduction14/05/18 12:18 AM
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Basic social skills is assumed before you can really 'do seduction'. I'm not really sure what you are saying really adds any value; it's like telling drivers not to run over people because it might kill them.
/r/seduction14/05/18 12:09 AM
0

I'm not really sure what you are trying to say.
/r/seduction13/05/18 11:57 PM
76

That's all you need really - nothing more you can do. No one ever said these signs are correlated with getting laid, just attraction. Who knows what else is going on in her head. Move on from that one.
/r/seduction13/05/18 10:12 PM
141

Upvoted. This is accurate from experience. Good eye contact, them initiating conversation and physical contact, and not minding you being in their personal space are the best indicators that she likes you. That's all you need really.
/r/seduction13/05/18 08:11 PM
2

Yes, was terrified of people when I started. Like literally did not like going to shops asking for things or interacting with bank tellers. It gets better as you practice. Social anxiety sucks but I can hardly remember what it was like now, as I'm pretty much shameless.
/r/seduction12/05/18 06:11 PM
18

Bingo. Conversation then just becomes a mental exercise to have fun about your mutual interests and finding out about each other rather than feeling like work.
/r/seduction23/04/18 11:48 AM
2

We all screw up dude - it's just that when guys tell stories, they only tell the good bits. Hey, at least you got to see your 9.5 naked and play with her a bit! It sucks you didn't bang the shit out of her, but in the grand scheme of things you still had a good time.
/r/seduction19/03/18 12:49 AM
2

Seconded on not being too hard on yourself - try to enjoy it and go with the flow! You already know you are overthinking things - there is no 'right' thing to do! Just enjoy yourself! Want to touch her boobs? Go for it? Make out? Let's do it! Sex? Hell yes! What you don't want to be doing is not focusing on the moment, because you are too worried about what you should be doing. You are already 'in', she is naked alone with you. Just enjoy and learn from the moment man! :) You will get more oppor…
/r/seduction18/03/18 12:52 PM
13

It's about passing a base level of attractiveness and then about creating and recognising opportunities and making the best use of them.
/r/seduction15/03/18 07:44 AM
4

Early 30s guy here, so happy to hear this. Every year has been better for me so far.
/r/seduction09/03/18 12:51 PM
3

Trust your gut, always. If it's wrong, your gut will learn.
/r/seduction09/12/17 07:16 PM
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I disagree with r/deviantkink - it sounds like you are not arrogant at all, but just actually a good looking guy who is also a pussy at the moment. The good thing is you'll have lots of opportunities - "fuck me eyes" are basically layups if you know what you are doing. You need to get over your fear of rejection and looking awkward. To me it sounds like you are scared to make a move. As a guy your job is to escalate the situation smoothly (make things physical) so that the girl is comfortable. I…
/r/seduction25/11/17 12:01 PM
1

Recognise the bad behaviours which you are exhibiting (neediness, feeling insecure, acting 'weird') and try to stop doing those things as much as possible, because they in no way help. That's part of the 'fake it till you make it'. Then it's just about taking action to improving yourself (gym, diet, career, social skills), and taking action to meet as many women who might be interested in you as possible. Do it enough times and some girls will jump your dick, then you will realise that you can b…
/r/seduction22/11/17 12:18 AM
1

I don't think this disagrees with what op said. I agree that you should make them feel special with non verbals (words would be too corny), but every girl loves to feel she is different to you in some way.
/r/seduction20/11/17 01:01 PM
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For me it always takes two to tango. You can make things more intimate by closing in the space and making the vibe and conversation more sexy, but if she doesn't replicate there is not a lot you can do IMO.
/r/seduction06/11/17 07:05 PM
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It’s just Reddit in general really. Everyone loves to moan about their problems and how they are special. It’s pathetic but we’ve all been there. Source: former loser now doing ok.
/r/seduction29/10/17 02:07 PM
2

Fighters sound gay.
/r/seduction26/10/17 07:26 PM
3

Needs to be physically affectionate and sexually active too, and emotionally stable.
/r/seduction26/10/17 07:20 PM
0

I'll date you.
/r/seduction26/10/17 11:47 AM
2

Came to look for compounding in the comments. Did not disappoint.
/r/seduction23/10/17 11:53 PM
2

Well done dude! You'll get a feel for what's natural and what's not with experience. Replying to the guy above, in general move in small steps and try to get a feel for their reaction. For example start off by closing in the space (i.e. into her personal space) and see if she backs off or if she is still keen. Then move onto light shoulder/hand touch etc. Escalate on from their by being attentive to her reactions. Also, don't worry too much about things if it works!
/r/seduction09/10/17 06:12 PM
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This. You have a dick. Sounds like girls already find you attractive. Just do what you think is fun with them and enjoy the physical and emotional intimacy as you do the activities together.
/r/seduction03/10/17 12:22 AM
2

Do you need to have intimate relationships with women if you are not gay? Yes if you want to be healthy and keep your sanity. So why is it wrong to want to learn to seduce women? Yes there are creepy ways to go about it, but the underlying motivation is good.
/r/seduction28/09/17 12:09 AM
2

Again, the how is a very difficult question to answer. It's a combination of trial and error (repeat what works, drop what doesn't), watching others who are where you want to be, and some luck. Knowing where you want to get to is the first step though - without that you are rudderless, which means it's impossible to do the 'how'.
/r/seduction20/09/17 06:11 AM
5

What do you want to achieve in life? Say when you are 50, what kind of man would you like to be, and what sort of life experiences would that guy have had? No one can tell you these answers, you need to answer them yourself.
/r/seduction18/09/17 02:59 PM
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Congrats! 25 is still young. Eat healthy, work out, get sunshine (Vit D), sleep well. You want high natural testosterone so you are horny and motivated for life. Then go out and socialise with women. Life can get better every year if you work at it. People get laid who are broke, assholes, fat etc etc... Just put yourself out there and do the best you can, and that's all anyone can do really! Onwards and upwards bro.
/r/seduction18/09/17 02:57 PM
1

Do you want to come home with me?
/r/seduction12/09/17 08:24 PM
2

I can tell you now, you need to hit the gym 2x a week and lift hard. Google some basic exercises with free weights and reps and read about lifting. You've never lifted and are already discounting it, I can see from a mile away that's the attitude of someone who has given up without knowing what it really is. Putting on muscle is hard; you won't be huge from doing the above. What it will give you is: *You'll be harder/more toned from lifting *You'll be more masculine and hornier from the testoste…
/r/seduction28/08/17 08:42 PM
2

Gym (lift heavy), cardio (team sports with male and female teams if you can), eat healthy (meats, fruit, veg, fats, carbs), socialise. If you are in bad physical shape then you should fix that as the first thing. Pursue all the other stuff at the same time. You already know what is wrong with you and what you should fix. Finding out the best way to fix it is the challenge.
/r/seduction28/08/17 07:22 PM
2

Yes.
/r/seduction28/08/17 07:19 PM
4

For me I found working in an open plan corporate office environment really helped hone that skill. You know when you are sitting next to people and there is this uncomfortable silence if no one talks for a while? Well, small talk is the cure to that. To make small talk interesting, you need to talk about something that you find interesting - you can't make conversation for the sake of making conversation, that will bored the shit out of everyone involved. What is interesting however is subjectiv…
/r/seduction28/08/17 07:18 PM
4

It's not called boin-king for no reason.
/r/seduction19/08/17 05:09 PM
2

No problem - it's always nice to be pointed at the right direction when you are starting to figure this stuff out. In the 6-7 losers around a hot girl scenario, I think you are right that you don't want to be seen as one of those guys flocking around her. However, you also know that she is unlikely to approach you so you'll need to be the one opening the interaction. Again, ideally you want to do it in a natural way, maybe open one of the guys with "Who's this chick and her entourage?" to open a…
/r/seduction09/08/17 10:21 PM
3

How would you suggest I don't screw up the lead? That's a really difficult question to answer, because 'seduction' is much more like a sport than a science. It's like explaining to someone in football (soccer for some) how to create space, make chances and score goals? Well that really depends on the situation and there are multiples of doing it (cross to the big front man, through ball to your fast striker etc). What you do know is that there are definitely wrong things to do in most situations…
/r/seduction09/08/17 09:59 PM
5

Sounds like you have your head screwed on right. You just need some positive reference experiences (like girls hitting on you and sex just happening because of circumstances), which will come with time and putting yourself out there. IMO you can't game and force a woman to have sex with you; they need to either already be attracted or wanted to have sex already, and you basically just need to not screw up and lead (handle logistics). A lot of it really is just circumstances, and how attractive/c…
/r/seduction09/08/17 09:36 PM
7

Holy crap. You are doing awesome (I assume you have the bank roll to go with the success of your lifestyle). Hit the gym. Get sunshine. Eat well (meat, veg, fats). Basically get high testosterone and be horny (sexual vibe). Then go travel for a bit. You are 20 and it sounds like you have worked really hard but haven't really grown up as a rounded person yet. Go travel and try to get laid and have fun. Travelling is great because you can screw up and everyone will be new in 2 days. Also everyone …
/r/seduction09/08/17 09:28 PM
1

With regards to AA, yes, you'll still have it elsewhere - you don't magically become a new person overnight (though travelling allows you to do things you wouldn't normally do, and expand your reference experiences). You can only get rid of it by socialising and confronting that fear - approach girls/people in general and make conversation. Learn to enjoy socialising for the sake of socialising. On the travel front, go to Central or South America and stay in party hostels?
/r/seduction21/07/17 05:57 PM
1

OK it sucks being in your position, but it gets better if you work at it. Get money. You want to be able to travel. Travelling is one of the easiest ways to 'grow', by being in an environment where you can be a new person, try different things, and where everyone is generally in a good vibe and looking to meet new people, is a great way to get out of your shell. In the right places getting laid whilst travelling is like taking candy from a child, as long as you can make a move at the right time.…
/r/seduction20/07/17 09:50 PM
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*1) Realise that no one cares about you as much as you do. *2) Figure out what you are suppose to do, because no one will (or can) tell you. *3) Figure out who you are and what makes you happy. *4) Pursue the things you think you should do, and ignore all the noise (what everyone else says - trust me there will be haters and gossipers if you are living your life to your own purpose). *5) Don't be a dick in pursuit of the above - be able to look yourself in the mirror every morning and see a good…
/r/seduction20/07/17 09:45 PM
1

I think the only thing that's helped me is: 1) Figuring out what you want from life 2) Figuring out what you are willing to do to get it (i.e. are you ok with fucking over people or do you have integrity) 3) Experiencing success, defined by 1) People talk shit and criticise and bitch all the time, most of the time is bullshit or them projecting their insecurity outwards. You can never really stop going it shit about what people think completely, it's a human thing to be affected by other people'…
/r/seduction09/07/17 11:07 PM
1

Depends on context, but given most house parties approaches will be 'warm' anyway (you've both been invited and know some of the same people), just go up to her and say, "So who do you know here?" and take it from there. A lot of it is really just basic social skills (which 16 year olds have very little, I know I was totally retarded at your age) and then just observe her reaction and if she is interested moving things forward. Finding commonalities is usually a good safe topic to start the conv…
/r/seduction09/07/17 10:39 PM
1

Anxiety stops you from focusing on the present and interacting with other people fully. The only way I know to get rid of the anxiety is through practice and 'living through the fear'. You're scared of talking to girls? Do it and feel the fear. Feel the heightened heart beat and recognise how you react to it. Rinse wash and repeat. It'll go away after some time. You're probably also too invested in the image that you are 'a cool guy' in front of your friends. You need to just get some balls and …
/r/seduction09/07/17 10:30 PM
1

If she is touching your hair then that is a massive sign.
/r/seduction28/05/17 06:54 PM
1

Brutal. Yes it sucks, but the best thing to do is to move on and actually find somewhere where the women will appreciate you. If they have a prejudice against your race there isn't much you can do. You'll be much happier hanging out with women who are open to getting to know who you are.
/r/seduction28/05/17 11:48 AM
2

You, I like you. The older and more experienced I become, the more I realised women are completely clueless about game. Like literally they fuck shit up by following their feelings/programming, even when it does them a disservice. All the escalation and logistics needs to be taken care of by men.
/r/seduction22/05/17 10:46 PM
1

Sounds like you are starting to gain confidence. It's difficult to see others' perception of you if you are always stuck in your head worried about what others think. Don't let it go to your head though, enjoy it and keep improving yourself and understand what you want in life.
/r/seduction13/05/17 05:33 PM
2

This is really really good. Hate how game is framed in the 'community' generally. All it is is to put yourself out there and try to connect with women. Try and fail and put your best self out there.
/r/seduction06/05/17 07:01 AM
2

PMed you mate.
/r/seduction14/04/17 07:12 PM
1

Research is 2 meta 4 her.
/r/seduction10/02/17 09:05 PM
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Read about 1/5 of it and smelled like bullshit so I stopped. Women do approach but it will be so infrequent that you might as well believe that they don't. Some part of me still wish it wasn't so but the world doesn't work the way you wish it to be.
/r/seduction23/01/17 07:52 PM
1

This will cheer you up.
/r/seduction19/12/16 03:08 PM
1

I agree, height is not the issue here. You may struggle to stand out in clubs but 5'7 isn't too short to be an issue with most girls.
/r/seduction19/12/16 03:02 PM
1

For stuff like this I generally take it at face value. Think about it, why would someone even bother to make a troll account and spend all that time doing something so pointless?
/r/seduction19/12/16 03:01 PM
1

How short? Attraction for girls is generally a whole package kind of deal rather than just specific qualities (i.e. height, dick size etc). You need to figure out an attractive style that fits you. For example there are bald good looking guys like Jason Statham. The thought that you named your Reddit username GeneticTrash tells me you have terrible self esteem which you probably need to fix first; sleeping with girls isn't the long term solution for that.
/r/seduction19/12/16 12:14 PM
3

Eye fucking is hot as fuck but you are right it's a signal to try to move things to the next level. Eye fucking = two people that want to physically fuck but aren't yet, so if you don't take action to try and progress it then it's a bit weird. In general it's the guy's job to take initiative (I don't make up the rules) so I find it a bit odd that people are giving you stick for not doing his job - though as a guy it would of course be great if hot girls hit on us more!
/r/seduction19/12/16 11:52 AM
3

WTF. You need to stop cold approaching for now; I'm assuming that's what you are spending all your time and focus on right now? Whatever you are doing is clearly not working for you. Have you got your fundamentals down? Basic level of personal hygiene and grooming: doesn't smell, nice hair cut, decent/normal dress sense Social skills: can have a normal conversation with out creeping people out, not awkward Fitness: not fat or super skinny, have a bit of muscle and masculine energy Libido: are yo…
/r/seduction19/12/16 11:49 AM
2

This is so good. I've always thought of this way also; hot girls who aren't into me are no use to me at all!
/r/seduction18/12/16 12:08 PM
3

Hi Zan. Loved your archive back on the old mASF; your view on life/women resonated most strongly with me in my formative adolescent years. I've come a way from then but still feel I have so much to learn and to improve. Happy with life but no where near satisfied as to where I want to be. Will be sure to give your book a read when I get a chance. Many thanks for your generosity.
/r/seduction14/12/16 10:19 PM
1

Honesty is usually the best course of action. Yes you screwed up, move on and learn from it. Self reflection is a very valuable skill.
/r/seduction17/09/16 09:03 PM
2

Not sure how big it is in Germany, but field hockey (in Britain) is great for what you are looking for. Maybe something like handball or dodgeball?
/r/seduction16/09/16 02:42 PM
1

Try Ctrl+#
/r/seduction10/08/16 10:57 PM
3

No problem. It's a really big deal when you haven't figured it out and I used to spend literally all my free time trying to solve this problem. Keep working on your life man, it sounds like you are doing well on your career part which will become a very important piece of the puzzle also; not having to worry about money frees up a lot of time to focus on your other needs. It also helps to have a good job because: 1) You spend most of your waking hours at work, so having a shitty job is REALLY sh…
/r/seduction05/06/16 09:24 PM
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OK. I'll give you the low down. I'm not an expert or anything but I used to be in your position and now I do OK for myself; at least I've figured out what works for me anyway. The "You're a great friend" line is because you are a good friend, but you are not ATTRACTIVE. Attraction for girls though work differently so don't just assume it's just your appearance. For me, one of the biggest things was how you interact with girls; I used to try to befriend them and HOPE that you can get intimate wit…
/r/seduction05/06/16 09:06 PM
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Experience, both successes and failures. Knowing that I can bounce back from soul-crushing lows (from being laughed out at a club after trying to 'solo-sarge' when I was a newbie, to being bullied at work with gay rumours), to successes of sleeping with good looking girls. The reason women love confidence is because it is so hard to fake; it's hard to believe in those things yourself until you have actually been through the experiences and KNOW that you can always handle whatever life throws at …
/r/seduction10/05/16 07:18 PM
3

Stay horny (eat well, sleep well, gym well and live well).
/r/seduction09/05/16 09:27 PM
7

Most people here probably have another 40 years or so more of what can be considered an active life. That's 40 more birthdays, 480 full moons or 14,610 sleeps. Yes there is a lot of time, but if you don't figure out what you want from life, that's it - you'll wake up one day as an old man filled with regret, waiting to die alone - do you want that?
/r/seduction03/04/16 11:00 AM
1

That is true. I watched a bit of the video but couldn't really take it seriously. His advice didn't actually seem to be bad but I guess image and delivery is pretty important for credibility. A (harsh) parallel would be a fat person giving fitness advice; no matter how legit or good the advice is (the information is independent of the person giving it; a homeless man can give legitimate financial advice), it's hard for people to take it seriously if they don't think the source is credible. On th…
/r/seduction28/03/16 07:38 PM
5

Why is a camp 13 year old boy giving dating advice?
/r/seduction28/03/16 05:44 PM
2

This - other than the obvious things everyone else has said (looks, body, sense of humour [i.e. loves my sense of humour]), a woman who is confident enough to express herself is very sexy. I've worked hard to get my shit together in my life and I expect the same in a life partner.
/r/seduction28/03/16 11:16 AM
4

I'm hungover and it hurts my head trying to read your username as it has so many Ss.
/r/seduction01/01/16 02:32 PM
38

You drunk bro.
/r/seduction04/12/15 07:41 PM
8

Go socialise with men. Approaching strangers is difficult (even for guys), so make it easy by doing social activities where guys can talk to you and get to know you, making it easy for them to ask you out. Don't leave all the hard work to us guys - help a brotha out.
/r/seduction23/08/15 02:31 PM
3

Generally not a big fan of these videos/posts, but this is good. I see a lot of nervous/try-hard guys who make this mistake. Seriously, chill the fuck out and then talk to girls. The pressure these guys feel from the need to prove themselves is completely the wrong type of motivation here to get good with girls IMO.
/r/seduction22/06/15 10:26 PM
1

Great work! It's a good belief that sex is not a big deal and should be a part of a healthy and normal person's life.
/r/seduction22/03/15 08:58 PM
3

I also second this guy's advice - travelling is a FANTASTIC way of getting perspective and figuring out who you are and what you want to do in life. Travelers are generally friendly people also (although there are some weirdos). I mostly solo travel for a week or so at a time and stay in hostels - it's super easy to make friends.
/r/seduction01/02/15 11:55 AM
3

And I know why I fail. My self worth, self confidence, self esteem is really really low. You've self identified your problem several times in this post. Being aware of a problem is the first stage is solving it. But i don't know how to break free and become the man I want to become. You need to fix your confidence, but how? You know what your issue is but are struggling to find a solution - We'll get onto that further down. I can't look at myself in the mirror This sounds like a major problem to…
/r/seduction01/02/15 11:50 AM
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I think the reason a lot of guys act creepy isn't because they are overwhelmed by emotions, but also because they need to communicate they are interested. This is golden. A lot of the 'behaviours' of abundance are being less affected emotionally by girls (and events in life in general). Confidence also helps people better express themselves and their feelings. I browse seddit occasionally and there's a lot of noise/bad advice but this whole post is great.
/r/seduction02/01/15 06:16 PM
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What this guy said. Keep working on yourself. Get a good job (make money), work out, dress well, learn to be sociable and how to have fun with people. Keep working on all of these. You are young. Unfortunately for guys, our sexual value tend to increase as we get older (well it's unfortunate when you are young). I'm 27 now and do way better than when I was 21. Keep working on yourself and new experiences will result in more confidence. There is nothing wrong with what you are feeling, it shows m…
/r/seduction20/12/14 11:35 PM
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but I also want lots of sex with hot girls more than I've ever wanted anything. This pretty much describes my life and I imagine every other straight guy out there.
/r/seduction03/12/14 08:12 PM
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I have started eating very healthily, have calorie counted, have been taking care over my appearence, and buying nice (but by no means expensive) clothes, and I have lost 20 pounds. You are on the right path my friend. Is there a shortcut IMO there is no shortcut. Confidence is a result of external feedback from successes in life. You lost weight and look better and now girls respond to you better? You get more confident. You get multiple job interviews and offers as you have worked on your care…
/r/seduction29/11/14 11:35 AM
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Does it really matter? It's just another opportunity for OP to spend time with her and make an impression that he is a via sexual partner for her. Yes he might have to handle things slightly different as there is now another person on the 'date' but that's just life. Life isn't as simple as Meet Girl > Date > Have sex. You need to actually be flexible and adaptable as life is full of uncertainties. But not seeing it as an opportunity you're already missing out (i.e. if OP didn't go he wouldn't h…
/r/seduction04/10/14 02:44 PM
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The fact that this post is being down voted shows everything that is wrong with this sub. You get an opportunity to hang out with a girl you like, albeit with her friend, why would you not go? Will you not enjoy their company? If you handle this right, not long into the meet up the friend will take the hint if things are going well between you too, and extract herself from the situation. The friend is there so that the girl has an easy get out clause if the date sucks.
/r/seduction04/10/14 12:25 PM
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Love this. Especially number 17!
/r/seduction11/06/14 06:33 PM
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I'm a "late bloomer" and didn't get laid until I was 20. Do you know what? It never has to become "a real problem". There's a societal expectation that you have to get laid to be cool or happy, and that if you don't, you are a weirdo. Forget all of that bullshit; it's meaningless and on top of that, doing things just for the approval of others (which is clearly what you are doing here, even if you don't realise it) is never a good thing or attractive to the opposite sex. If you think sex is a bi…
/r/seduction08/03/14 03:55 PM
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THIS guy is absolutely spot on. Go out and experience and live for yourselves people. Even the seduction communities mantra of "you need to have sex with many women" is someone else's expectation of what your should do. Decide for your self what you should and shouldn't do and what will make you happy instead. I also couldn't watch that video for more than a minute as it came from a hideously ugly dude talking about how to be attractive. To me it's like fat chicks doing a fitness video - sorry, …
/r/seduction08/03/14 02:04 PM
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There are the obvious attractive traits such as physically being in good shape and health, but I've found that all the women I've been very attracted to have a few things in common; they were all comfortable and confident with being themselves and expressing themselves fully. What do I mean by that? I mean as a society, I think there are lots of pressure to act a certain way and to conform to others' expectations of 'your role' in society. I.e. if you're a girl you should be prim and proper and …
/r/seduction21/02/14 12:34 AM
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Great post. It blows my mind that most people don't understand that there is no universal "good" or "bad".
/r/seduction13/12/13 06:26 PM
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She's not boasting about getting laid though. She's boasting about getting time and commitment which is a totally different thing.
/r/seduction13/12/13 06:21 PM
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Thanks. It's reassuring to have a woman confirm this. This has been my experience (as a man) as well - I have come to the same conclusion. Power is attractive because it is one of the key 'survival'/fitness traits in a man - the ability to do what he wants despite what others think. We are social creatures so there is a degree of what's acceptable to the group and what not but it's about how much 'freedom' you have to 'express' yourself (i.e. your true desires). I think one of the reason why so …
/r/seduction12/12/13 12:03 AM
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This. What would you do if a nobody came up to you and said something? Say if a homeless person came up to you and started calling you poor? You would assess whether he was a physical threat (i.e. posed any danger physically to you), and if he doesn't, then you would just laugh it off and carry on what you were doing.
/r/seduction03/11/13 11:18 PM
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You're not really getting it. It's not about aggression or pacifism. It's about respect for yourself and letting people know you have boundaries. Violence should always be a last resort. But you'd be naive just because we now live in a civilised (mostly!) society that people can't 'gauge' whether someone has this mentality. We evolved from hundreds of thousands of years with the threat of violence being a very, very real threat. Our social skills evolved with this in mind.
/r/seduction15/08/13 10:28 PM
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Be ready to kill someone if they fuck with you the wrong way. I'm not advocating violence in any way; but what I'm saying is that if someone is a threat to your well being or your family's well being, then you should have the balls to do something about it. If you can develop this mentality most people will stop fucking with you.
/r/seduction15/08/13 10:02 PM
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