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| 407 | Ladies, please beware of any STD test results from AmLab | MALE DEPRAVITY | The_Alpha_Nut | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 01:09 AM |
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| 3 | Happy Friday beautiful people 💖 buy your own flowersYesss exactly! And there’s so many different styles and ways to customize it to your space. I’m in the process of remodeling my kitchen and am doing the breakfast nook with a creamy wainscot and building a built in bench along the window. I can’t wait to post it here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 05:09 PM |
| 25 | Happy Friday beautiful people 💖 buy your own flowersIf you’re handy at all, I would highly recommend adding some wainscoting or beadboard along the wall! Its such a classic look especially with a dove gray on top and a creamy white wainscot. Home improvement is so empowering and there’s so many great resources online to learn. I recently bought a miter saw so I could add wainscot to my dining area. It’s my favorite gift to myself in a long time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 01:00 PM |
| 5 | Happy Friday beautiful people 💖 buy your own flowersAh I love the look of hydrangeas and dahlias especially! Thank you ladies for helping me out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 11:42 AM |
| 24 | Happy Friday beautiful people 💖 buy your own flowersThose are beautiful!! Does anyone know what types of flowers these are? I’d love to grow some 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 10:38 AM |
| 68 | Ladies, please beware of any STD test results from AmLabThey’re able to operate by saying it’s a “gag website” and you can “fool your friends”! Yeah, I’m sure it’s your friends you’re really fooling with these... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 12:29 PM |
| 13 | How to tell if your partner is becoming red pilledHoly shit, I had the exact same experience. I was in middle school in 2003-05, and my first crush would brag about his penis size, tell me all about porn stars. I first developed insecurities around my breast size thanks to him (yeah at 12 years old!). A few of the other boys in our friend group were already pretty porn sick as well, talking about having a poster of “jenna Jameson fingering herself” on their bedroom wall (I have no idea if this was true or what). I had my first kiss on my 13th b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 09:43 PM |
| 66 | Remember to subtract 5 inches from a man’s height 😂Girl, me too! I’m 5’10” and the amount of dudes that try to tell me I must be 6’ because they’re “100% 6 ft and we’re the same height soooo...” Like, nah dude, you’re 5’10”, nothing wrong with that, but there’s no need to lie about it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 09:39 PM |
| 31 | CAn wE JUst DO SoMEthINg NiCE FOr MEn 🤪Also, wtf is this weird social media push about? I was inundated with “buy your man a PS5 for Christmas” memes on my TL for 6 weeks. Now this? And then as soon as V Day is over, it’s gonna be “Steak and Blowjob Day” memes for March 14th. But don’t forget, there’ll be a lot of passive aggressive “wHaT aBoUt iNtErNaTiOnAl mEnS dAY?!!” posts/memes on March 8th (it’s November 19th, you assholes, not that you actually GAF). Like JFC, it’s that difficult to make your partner feel a little extra specia… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 08:28 PM |
| 9 | "johns" = Lowest life formCould you please DM me? I’ve had to find out months into dating someone before .... :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 10:48 PM |
| 14 | I'm having a hard time watching romcoms because they reinforce that a woman would need a manI actually just watched that movie for the first time over thanksgiving weekend—she and the guy best friend are totally villains! The only person I felt bad for was Cameron Diaz’s character who is just young and naive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 12:11 PM |
| 13 | Men having a type and women having a type. How men fake interest and clown women. Ways to avoid this happening to you.Yeah he didn’t have an answer for that either. Men really do have audacity and confidence on tap, don’t they? My sis is still friends with him on FB and reported that now, a few years later, he’s dating someone new. She’s a perfectly lovely looking girl, but even farther from his “type” than I was. I’m hoping he’s learned a lesson or two and he’s not just wearing her self esteem down too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 02:16 AM |
| 25 | Men having a type and women having a type. How men fake interest and clown women. Ways to avoid this happening to you.Ha! When I started taking longer to get ready In the AM before we went out, he made a point to tell me he didn’t like it. “Timeliness is important” to him. My dude, are you telling me I now also have to wake up an hour earlier on my day off to accommodate the makeup/hair routine that you insisted on? I’m now dating someone who thinks I look sexy when I wear a long sleeved thermal or a flight suit or in a tshirt and regular old boy cut panties, so it’s nice to feel beautiful and comfortable all a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 02:13 AM |
| 131 | Men having a type and women having a type. How men fake interest and clown women. Ways to avoid this happening to you.I’ve mentioned this in comments before but goddamn is it true. I dated a guy for ~6 months and he very slowly revealed his type to me. I’m understanding about preferences and don’t have a problem tweaking a few small things to match preference. When I say that, I mean: “here’s two perfumes I have, which do you prefer?” Or “which dress do you like better?” Unfortunately when I started dating aforementioned guy, I was younger and stupider and let myself bend over backward to please him. I got a ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 05:14 PM |
| 1 | And that’s why you have to leave these cowards at the first sign of disrespect. You’re in for a ride if you don’t.Lol he’s never been in a fight in his life. He couldn’t explain what the hell he meant by street smarts. Like I said above, my guess is because he drank and experimented with drugs and I was one of those weird kids who didn’t drink until 21. We spoke a couple months ago and he straight up admitted to drinking a fifth of vodka every day now. Ayyy street smarts 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 02:49 PM |
| 3 | And that’s why you have to leave these cowards at the first sign of disrespect. You’re in for a ride if you don’t.I asked him wtf and he told me he just hopped in the shower every time. When I asked him why he hadn’t gotten toilet paper in three weeks, he said he didn’t have time to stop at the store. This is the same guy who stopped at the gas station every single day to buy his daily pack of cigarettes (but still hadn’t made a car payment in three months). I will never not be impressed at LVMs and their ability to make money appear when something actually matters to them. This was the same guy who didn’t … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 02:44 PM |
| 12 | And that’s why you have to leave these cowards at the first sign of disrespect. You’re in for a ride if you don’t.Dude, right? I remember I was 19 (he was 21) when he first told me this. I’d just gotten back from living abroad for 6 months (financed by myself), and had just finished my associates degree because I graduated high school a year early. Meanwhile he’d managed to move out of his moms house for 6 months before losing his job and being evicted from his studio apartment (along with $1000 in damage expenses because he’d trashed the place so badly). I remember asking him why he figured he was so stree… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:42 AM |
| 43 | And that’s why you have to leave these cowards at the first sign of disrespect. You’re in for a ride if you don’t.I had a long thing typed out but basically, last time I saw my ex, his car had just been repo’d and he admitted that he hadn’t had toilet paper for three weeks. 🤮 The same guy who told me how street smart he is couldn’t manage the most basic household tasks. He literally thought he was street smart because he smoked pot in high school a few times lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 11:59 PM |
| 5 | Two reasons why following the FDS principles saves you from scrotes:He had a restraining order from one of the prostitutes but was also banned from the brothels for a good long while too. I think he had a restraining order from someone else as well, but I could be wrong. Yeah, I was a devout kiwi farmer at one point but have fallen off. I agree with their assessment—he’s definitely dangerous. I was actually just looking this guy up again yesterday and I thought I saw that he was harassing someone new. I think the scariest thing is that I didn’t recognize that th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Two reasons why following the FDS principles saves you from scrotes:I thought I heard that he got another restraining order against him from another woman but I’m not positive. Dude is scary for sure! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:42 AM |
| 15 | Two reasons why following the FDS principles saves you from scrotes:Ohhh I know this guy. He’s tried suing Taylor Swift 2 or 3 times because she “owes” him a date. He also tried to sue Farrah Abraham and Ariana Grande. He actually got a cease and desist letter from Ariana’s lawyer at one point. His entire modus operandi is believing he’s a “studly guy”, writing weird songs about celebrities to “woo” them, and then suing them when they inevitably don’t respond. He has genuinely said that hot women should give him a chance because he’s got a paralegal degree (from… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 12:03 AM |
| 35 | Reasons why I am done with dating appsI was extraordinarily lucky with my dating app experience—I used coffeemeetsbagel where you’re only given a small, set number of profiles per day, which lessens the endless swiping and catalogue experience of other apps. My partner is the best man I’ve ever met and I feel very lucky to have found him. We never would have met If not for that app. But if we broke up? I’m with you on no more dating apps. Tinder and OkCupid were terrible. My sister pointed out how those apps create a false abundance… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 12:25 PM |
| 7 | STOP RESPONDING TO ABUSIVE DMSWe only got together at the end of her weekend so it was about 5 hours of texting. I dropped her off at the airport after dinner and felt..shitty. She ended up apologizing months later. I know she’s a good person but she struggles with self-worth. She wasn’t the first friend I’ve had to distance myself from thanks to that kind of behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 10:07 PM |
| 18 | STOP RESPONDING TO ABUSIVE DMSI think we all need to apply this mentality to real life too! Story time: a couple years ago, my friend was in my city (we live on opposite coasts). She was leaving town in a few hours so we made dinner plans. Her weekend date had not gone well so she insisted on texting the guy multiple paragraphs about how he hadn’t lived up to her expectations. For hours. Every time he responded, she “needed” to reply and let him know how and why he was wrong. This wasn’t even a long term bf, it was some guy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 09:26 PM |
| 4 | What's your relationship with your HVM like?I met my current partner through OLD (rare but not impossible!), almost 2 years ago to the day. Having dated both an LVM and an NVM in the past, I can honestly say that the difference is night and day. I’ve joked with my mother that being with an LVM is like having bologna every day, an NVM is dog food, and an HVM is a perfect filet mignon. On paper, my current partner is more accomplished than my past two LVMs: he is highly educated with a good career and prospects, talented, athletic. Compared… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 06:18 AM |
| 45 | I don’t think I have to explainBoth LVM I’ve dated thought I should orgasm from their penis alone. Both were big into porn, cam girls, etc. The last one shot down the idea of using my little vibe, but also would only do oral for a minute tops, and couldn’t figure out how to use his fingers on me. Of course, he wanted all kinds of acts from porn too and literally told me that although I was “naturally beautiful”, he really preferred “fake” (his literal words). Think pornstar/instamodel with overly large implants, fake nails, f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 03:03 PM |
| 42 | For Valentine’s Day please act like the HVW you areMy current partner asked me two weeks ago what I would like to do for VDay...and then he presented me options: 1) a high end sushi restaurant 2) my favorite expensive tapas place 3) a Michelin-starred restaurant in the district All with the option of going out dancing afterwards. The man planned everything out (checked reviews, menus, etc) and then presented me options to be sure of my preference. And he was doing it a month in advance to make sure we could get reservations. I spent six years wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 03:44 PM |
| 9 | Beware of Love Language discussions on the first date - RED FLAGI do believe men can really have the love language of touch, it just depends if he’s a selfish LVM or not. I have an ex who identified his love language as “physical touch”...which meant lazy quickies 5x a week, no foreplay, no cuddling, nothing. He did want me to tickle his back, of course 🙄. My sex drive and self esteem was at an all time low in that relationship. I remember thinking that I hated being touched because it was always so one-sided... On the other hand, my current partner also has… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 03:12 PM |
| 12 | oh my God this had me ROLLING lmfaoUgh the level of delusion. Like, we should provide him a sexual buffet that’s open 24 hours...and all we get in return is the sexual equivalent of a single undercooked HotPocket. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 08:27 PM |
| 132 | oh my God this had me ROLLING lmfaoUgh flashbacks! I’m embarrassed to admit this but a few years ago, I dated a guy who thought foreplay, sex toys and oral were completely unnecessary. He deadass thought I should be able to cum from his precious dick alone with MAYBE 30 seconds of unenthusiastic, misguided oral beforehand. He’d ask me if I finished after every time and in my stupid, prior-Pickmeisha ways, I’d lie and say yes, because I didn’t want to hurt his fragile ego. So I’m putting it out in the world today: “No, Evan. I did… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 04:40 AM |
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