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I guess these type of women operate under the philosophy best put by Vladimir Lenin: "Quantity has a quality all its own". Perhaps this is one of the reasons I'm single, but I would rather have a smaller number of strong and healthy relationships than a bunch of skin-deep ones. If this post (the original) is any indication, I have a lot of work ahead....
/r/seduction24/07/12 03:22 AM
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This is very intriguing. It's very informative to hear from the opposite side. At the very least, one can validate ideas and strategies (in a sense, figure out what girls actually like instead of "winging it"). I look forward to part 2 sometime. Perhaps it's just me, but this same combo would seem to work for desirable traits in a woman as well....
/r/seduction22/05/12 11:29 PM
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True.
/r/seduction20/05/12 04:57 AM
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^ My life story.
/r/seduction20/05/12 04:37 AM
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This. Honestly, the "assume attraction" seems like a bunch of garbage. That seems more like an excuse for the "PUA" types to just act whichever way they want. As masgrada pointed out, most people are not "Pick up artists". Mattius555 also makes a perfect point of if you don't see any life in a person, why bother chasing them. If you smile, I, personally, would be much more likely to approach you. Just my 2 cents...
/r/seduction20/05/12 03:35 AM
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Yeah. That's quite true. As a student, I tend not to dwell on school, so the subject I study is more of a passing comment. If I talk about chemistry more seriously, it's more about the science than any work in particular.
/r/seduction19/05/12 04:09 AM
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All around good points. I don't typically elaborate unless prompted. I typically have no problem with the smiling issue. I, like you, smile because I'm excited, but I am able to suppress that to a good extent. I guess I need to keep looking for the right person.
/r/seduction19/05/12 03:51 AM
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I live at home, seeing as I'm going to school. I wouldn't look at living at home has being a bad thing. Both my parents lived at home during university, and both had amassed enough money to move out fairly quickly. If women seem to have a problem with living at home, it may be worth mentioning that you are the type of person who is fiscally responsibly. In a sense, living at home is a small price to pay for a later life of financial stability. Any wise woman would understand that.
/r/seduction19/05/12 12:25 AM
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Or, possibly, you could spend many dates, become a committed couple, then have sex. It's possible, but it seems rather uncommon around here.
/r/seduction18/05/12 05:09 AM
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Good point. Very well said.
/r/seduction18/05/12 04:51 AM
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I'm sorry that I can't help you. But take some comfort in the fact that I suffer from the same issue. You explained my situation pretty much to the detail. Perhaps the only piece of advice I can lend is to emphasize something good and unique (hobby, job, etc). I haven't had much luck with that, but that's what people have told me. Best of luck to you!
/r/seduction18/05/12 02:46 AM
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I should have added some info: 1) I typically don't mention this overtly. Usually it follows the standard "What do you study?" question. 2) I know the "how to talk to people" side pretty well. I plan on being a teacher, so I'm already pretty used to explaining some pretty complicated stuff to almost anyone. I also know how it feels to be made to feel stupid by someone, so I make every effort not to repeat that.
/r/seduction17/05/12 06:18 AM
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Yeah. The promiscuity thing is up to each person. Either way, women deserve the same respect as everyone else.
/r/seduction17/05/12 05:42 AM
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Very well said. I was just pointing out that a lot of people think all guys just want to get laid and that's it. I'm just saying that (at least in my case) that's not true. It's not to say i never want to, but rather just not now. You're right though, objectifying is not a good strategy.
/r/seduction17/05/12 05:33 AM
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You make a very valid point. I remember one post on here a few days ago saying "What about those who just want a relationship for only that". It wasn't in the post title, but it was there somewhere. I think that would improve the general image. I, for one, am not trying to bed every woman around, I'm simply trying to find a good relationship. I think if that was the more obvious intent of the seduction community, the response would be better.... Just my two cents.
/r/seduction17/05/12 05:17 AM
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Very good advice. Thanks. I sometimes mention my job of 3D computer work for the firearms industry... That seems to turn heads.
/r/seduction16/05/12 09:45 PM
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I could, but that is both my passion and a large part of my life as a university student.
/r/seduction16/05/12 04:17 PM
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I need to find more girls like this. I attempt to not say anything too nerdy until it's a good time, but every time I say "chemistry" girls freak out.....
/r/seduction15/05/12 11:48 PM
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You're good. I'm more of a "big picture" person. As has been said, it is sometimes difficult to qualify what one likes. Perhaps an equivalent post with the genders reversed would be interesting, if that hasn't already been done.
/r/seduction11/05/12 02:52 AM
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