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Interestingly, it's not just incentive to crime but incentive to crime specifically against a protected class. I find that terribly interesting. Think about a book which was written and which purported to show you step by step how to abuse a developmentally disabled person and 'get away' with it. Or how to harass the racial minority of your choice out of a neighborhood.
/r/MensRights11/07/22 09:28 PM
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Yeah. I was circumcised a baby but sometime before 10 years old, my penis started growing or something and whenever I would get erections the skin was so tight it started to tear all around, just under the head of my penis. I was really little. I'm almost 50 and I still remember because it hurt so bad and since I was a little kid I had no control over when my erections started or stopped. I showed my mom and she took us to the doctor who gave some kind of ointment to put on it. This took quite a…
/r/MensRights05/07/22 06:26 PM
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There's a lot of those that go under the radar. In my small-ish town, a woman accused several college sports players of rape. DA investigated very thoroughly and they and a grand jury didn't think there was enough evidence to convict. I hunted down the raw police report (which was actually a number of different documents) and all the evidence actually pointed to her simply being ashamed at failing to get any of the three men who had sexual contact with to commit to a relationship with her. The c…
/r/MensRights30/05/22 04:36 AM
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Great observation! I have lots of personal experience with females who, purely from psychological issues, will make accusations of sexual assault. I'm not licensed to diagnose but this seems to crop up in a subset of women dealing with schizophrenia, among other things. Same zip code as people who believe they're being 'gang-stalked'. A lot of this sort of things seems to be the result of inductive reasoning in an unstable mind. For instance: Woman wakes up and goes to the bathroom, observes dri…
/r/MensRights30/05/22 04:31 AM
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I'm older so the women I mingle with are also older and, if they're deceptive people, they've have had a few more decades to hone their craft. I won't bring up body counts directly, but what I'll do is go on walks or other activities where we're doing somehting else and then we just chat about who we are and I kind of piece things together that way. I don't have sex with women without knowing them really well, anyway, so I'm never in much of a hurry to hop in the sack. It's amazing what you can …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 06:22 PM
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I'd love to see the mental gymnastics to justify both of those. Two live streams from that night, this one was predominately women of color and this one was predominantly men of color. Guess which group bent over backwards to justify one black man hitting another and which group thought it was appalling? I watched the streams back to back and after seeing the women quickly devolve to ghoulish romanticizing of violence I was so down until I happened on the second stream with the male host. All to…
/r/MensRights30/03/22 08:07 PM
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LOL, "battling in court". In America.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 10:36 PM
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This can happen on all social media but just taking Reddit as an example. Almost everything posted on Reddit in mined at and aggregated hundreds if not thousands of times. Shit, the guy who famously found a GPS tracker on his car and posted about it to Reddit was being tracked by the FBI because of......a previous post on Reddit! But law enforcement isn't the only group searching through those posts to find targets, so are criminals. About six months ago, a throwaway posted on a sub for a little…
/r/PussyPassDenied17/03/22 07:11 AM
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There was also the experiment of sorts... I remember seeing that! Holy shit, I'd almost forgotten...or maybe blocked it out. Not only were they okay with it, many of them seemed irritated he was bringing it up - they'd already moved past him admitting to raping children and just wanted to jump his bone. Yep!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/22 02:24 AM
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I'm thinking like this, but add red hair and boobs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 07:13 PM
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Yep, gotta pretend like contraceptives and abortion don't exist for her worldview to make sense.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 01:52 AM
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That's brutal but every single time I've known someone in that situation enough to learn about the father, that's what turns out to be the case.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 01:51 AM
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I frequently work with younger men and I've noticed a lot of them expressing serious doubts about whether getting into a relationship is going to overall help their lives. I know a couple who are already in seemingly stable relationships which are looking long-term and that's great, but that's not everybody. For those that it isn't, it's good to see more of them realizing that they might be able to get a better deal going on their own.
/r/MensRights12/03/22 10:08 PM
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TBH, this isn't so much a "bug" of Reddit as a nasty, authoritarian "feature". I don't think that it'll happen any time soon for this particular sub, but this is a thing that's been going on for a long time here, informally supported by the admins. It's been worked down to a science by the people doing it.
/r/MensRights06/03/22 08:40 PM
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This woman wanted to date me but I'm weird so I don't like to even kiss a chick without knowing quite a bit about them. So we're hanging out a lot, going for walks together, learning about each other. I even helped her family move to a new place. Anyway, she tells me that her last 3 relationships were with women. I was a little caught off guard and I blurted out "Out of curiosity, why are you going after a man?" She got very quiet and I could tell she was parsing her words very carefully but she…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/22 07:53 PM
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Sex is the only thing she has to offer and it is apparently off the table. BTW, it should get way more mention that many, many women have been on antidepressants so long, the actual desire for sex is gone but they still go through the motions for the ego-stroking of being "sexy". Not saying that for certain, but that along with (peri) menopause and unhealthy diets/lifestyle are major libido killers in women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 11:54 AM
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Oh, I hear ya. Just remember: It convinces no one. Someone really did have a good point when they said something like "When they make outrageous demands, it's cover for having no standards at all." They put it better than I've recounted it, unfortunately. But I've been thinking about it over the last week, off and on, and it's actually a pretty good call. There was a young lady in her 30's who lived at my apartment complex. Because she'd gotten into all kinds of dick-related trouble, she made a …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/22 01:57 PM
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I believe you. It's not always the case, but culture can play a huge part in the way people approach basic roles and/or make decisions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 12:06 AM
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Oh it's never for them, it's always "House expenses". That House, always suckin' up the money!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 12:04 AM
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If they have no interest in him or his resources, he might as well be dead as far as they're concerned. This is not really new, but it's horrible to see it play out in a modern context.
/r/MensRights11/02/22 04:17 AM
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You're totally right. They want to keep that golden ticket even though I doubt it would be difficult to put the child up for adoption.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/22 02:39 AM
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To some of them it's like a game of chicken: Go off the pill, get pregnant, then use the pregnancy as leverage for a ring or some other formalized relationship. The guy balks, the situation drags on with the woman deluding herself that she'll eventually be able to win, the time for an abortion passes and then she's stuck with a baby. Rinse and repeat. There is no good reason for anyone to be pregnant in America if they don't want to be. That's been true for the last 30+ years. * Years*. Of cours…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/22 02:10 AM
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Or, she didn't want to tell you that she thought you were really pretty great and her life has sucked donkey balls since then. Yeah, something like that might have gone on. ...or more likely, could not bring herself to give you the truth. Thank you for typing up those thoughts. Without going into it too much, it had occurred to me the sex thing may have been ritually repeating a specific scenario from a much earlier time in her life of something that had been done to her or that she had done to …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 11:47 PM
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That doesn't seem to be a part of her character but you have a hell of a point!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 11:28 PM
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Thank you. I'm going to try to focus on that. It's been a difficult week for unrelated reasons and it'll be nice to slip into the weekend.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 11:42 AM
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tl;dnr: Just my weird stalky ex-gf story. I dated a women for around two years between something like 1989-91. Two years. I was 17/18 and she was 22/23. After I broke up with the woman, she obsessively kept tabs on me for about 11 years. It was so bad I had one of her boyfriends afterward physically confront me in person to try to figure out what kind of sway I held over her and the person who she wound up marrying asked her friends (some of whom were still friends of mine from high school who I…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 10:31 AM
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I agree. Also, most women seem to believe that if they have a pretty face (either naturally or through makeup), rolls of stretch-marked, pocked fat under the voluminous dress can be negotiable when the time comes. They're not necessarily wrong, though I doubt a lot of guys want to stick around long after they get the Full Monty.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 07:16 PM
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Has no control over her own eating habits yet claims the ability to harness the power of the supernatural.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 07:10 PM
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That's a pretty safe bet. As the weight comes on, they focus more and more attention to the face and hair and try to cover up (or omit) the rest.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:55 AM
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So I'm not going as hard on this one because compared to some of the other ones here, she's no where as deceptive (IMO). But, yeah, that Ursula tattoo. Fuck. I'm not even sure what the authentic equivalent is for a guy. It's not a good sign. BTW, did you catch the littler tattoo of the girl "shushing" the roaring lion on her forearm? Just tattoo-wise, there's a lot to unpack. I don't think this sub gives enough credit to the ones who are at least kinda honest. Or maybe I shouldn't say honest, bu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/22 06:42 AM
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Oh I hear ya. I did that for decades. It will always be my "natural" state to want to respond like that. But if I don't trigger the defense mechanism, I can slip a thought in now and again which can sometimes have more of an effect. Same tools I use with dementia patients. Facts that deteriorate trust deteriorate my ability to get through to someone with a cognitive impairment. For (random) instance, I used to date a woman with what would have assuredly been a case of PMS that a doctor would wan…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 10:00 AM
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Your message reminded me of a behavior in very many women I've noticed where they'll go on for weeks or even years about how bad a situation is and how helpless they feel and want to change it. You feel bad for them and suggest a basic truth and they come at you like you called them a slur. The mistake is helping. I'm almost 50. Over the last 10 years I've trained myself to say "That sucks, so sorry you're dealing with that." instead of anything actually helpful. For my own safety I do not devia…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 09:01 PM
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There's a lot of cognitive dissonance when that momentum swing changes and I'm continually surprised to meet women who are even in their early 50's who've blocked out the reality of the situation. I'm in my late 40's and some of the dating apps have the most deluded individuals on them. Interestingly, POF seems to have the most "down to earth" women (percent-wise) while places like OKCupid are filled with women still playing the game like they were in their 20's.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 08:44 PM
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I've noticed this too. Not all women are like this, obviously, and even for the ones who do it, I don't think there's one overarching smoking gun for why except maybe the following quote: "Women crave only to be loved, not for loving others." It's from this and while I think it might be misattributed, the flat meaning of the words stand on their own. I think a very large part of this behavior is simply enculturation into a selfish mode of thinking and that selfishness extends to not censoring th…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 10:11 AM
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God, I'd forgotten that about that vibe. It's been over 30 years since I graduated from high school. You're right.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 09:55 PM
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Easier said than done, though. Crazy knows it's crazy. Crazy knows you don't want to sleep with it. Crazy knows its toxic. Some of the people I work with (and humorously live around, though not the same group) have psychological disorders and even the psycho-sluts with BPD know they need to conceal that fact for as long as possible. And they're good at it. There's no punchline, no twist. The older a monster gets, the better it gets at concealing itself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 04:36 AM
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Everything is about Chad in the end. It really is. Also, as a side topic I guess, this would have been a few months ago but someone here (I think it was here) mentioned that when "unattractive" guys hit on a woman, frequently women see that as a negative reflection on their own attractiveness. Which is why, the theory goes, that women get so freaked when an "unattractive" guy hits on them. Any thoughts on that theory? Just interested what your take is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 02:06 PM
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Yeah, I agree. Because the norm has shifted from getting married at a relatively young age (17-23, let's say) to women hesitating starting that process until their 30's (or well beyond), you basically have women who've gotten stuck in what pretty quickly becomes to cock carousel. I have to say, I don't have problems with that lifestyle choice, per se. It's when they do that for 10-15+ years and then think they can reinvent themselves as a worthwhile mate that I call bullshit. And, let's face it,…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/22 11:41 PM
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Of course, she’d be fucking Chad / her ex the whole time. There are a few words (at least) American women use which men simply don't have the same definition for. "Options" is one. Guys don't understand the concept of the "options" lifestyle many women aim for, which is either a boyfriend and x orbiters as backups or a series of orbiters who can be shown attention judiciously, for effect. A harem. For all their projecting about men, I don't think it's controversial to say that women set up far m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/22 08:57 PM
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As a kind of side topic, I feel that nowdays especially it's pretty easy for a kid to go "I want to be this thing!" and colleges go "That's great because we can make you that thing!" and occasionally cough up hiring stats showing "Some companies are sort of hiring for this thing!" And then years go by and the person has the degree and they find to actually make a living at that thing is either quite difficult or they have to live in a certain location or know somebody in the field to actually ge…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/22 07:22 AM
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I once met a person working at Burger King. They weren't that old but they were older than most of the really young people working there. I was waiting for a burger and we were chatting until it was ready, and the person mentioned that they had a Master's in Medieval Costumery. I honestly think a Master's in Medieval Costumery probably has better employment bonuses than an Urban Legends/Urban Myths degree. It's amazing what a college will sell you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 10:10 PM
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To her it was about a million things and a million details. To him, it was about one thing supported by a million details. Don't know if that's your line, but it's a great one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 12:13 PM
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...plucked like a fat goose. You got that right! I knew a guy like this. He was making close to a hundred grand a year, set up his wife who didn't work, didn't do anything, in college so she could ultimately get (I shit you not) a Phd in Urban Legends. Because that was so taxing on her, she spent whatever free time she had spending his money on outrageously overpriced kitch from the 70's. Bunches of glass grapes, a giant fucking coffee table made out of polished rocks- just insane shit. Oh, and …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 12:12 PM
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I'm glad to see more men standing up for themselves, their legal and reproductive rights, etc. Because the shitshow of how society thinks they can abuse us is...Only...Getting...Worse.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 11:36 AM
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Basically I've never heard a woman say she was a ho. Chuckling over here. I agree. Many women are more responsible but, for some, "sluts" just doesn't begin to capture the carnage of their teenage years/20's. I started to type up one of a few recollections of when older women (we're all in our late 40's/early 50's) did open up about some of the things they did when they were younger. At first I pared things down, then I tried changing things to make it a little less outrageous and unbelievable b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 02:27 AM
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We agree on that. I'm a man and I find it unthinkable to include a picture of my child on a dating site. I used dating sites quite a bit a few years ago and had more success than I would have imagined. Since sex was the last thing I was looking for, I went on lots of "dates"/meetups with people and just hung out. The number of women who invited me back to their place, especially with their children there, was just...not something I'd ever be comfortable with after just a few meetups. I kinda get…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 01:26 AM
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They know it's the Kiss of Death so they put it right up front. So that anyone knocking is knocking and at least aware of the Kiss of Death. Some women still omit it but they probably get tired of getting ghosted when their potential suitor finds out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 11:24 AM
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FWIW, it's not a tattoo. It's what they call "your edges". It's like taking the hair at your very hairline and then pasting it down and arranging it into attractive whorls because it's way shorter than the rest of your hair and it would look frizzy and weird if you didn't. If you've got some receding hairline stuff going on, you do the same thing that a younger girl might do with their edges except you stretch out those whorls way farther, to cover up the bald spots exactly like the gross pasted…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 11:14 AM
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It really is. And if you're holding a dachshund they'll get close enough to do it, too.
/r/MensRights17/01/22 05:14 AM
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I'm not sure where he came out on that one. He was always nice to his kids and I think once one of the older kids came up and visited him. She was in her 20's or something like that. The funny thing is, if you are dead broke and are okay with that in perpetuity, there's actually a ton of things you can do that regular people can't. Stealing. Doing whatever drugs you want. Harvesting shit, stealing shit from national parks. Smacking a bald eagle. Smacking sea mammals or other protected species. S…
/r/MensRights17/01/22 03:58 AM
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I know a guy who min-maxxed his character and after I think it was 2-3 kids, he just said fuck it and didn't bother with protection anymore. Wound up having 5 kids but the trick (for him) was that the state could only ever take out X percentage of his income and so he spent the remaining 20-ish years of his life living in subsistence housing, not giving a shit how many more women he knocked up. It didn't matter. The first 2 (?) kids maxxed out the money they could take from him so further kids d…
/r/MensRights17/01/22 01:02 AM
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It doesn't make sense to do it to a regular guy like me. Well, that depends. If you're a regular guy who inherited a home from deceased parents or if the parents are still alive but reasonably well-off, that's already enough incentive for some women. I've seen this happen multiple times in RL (I'm older) and I've written about at least two of the instances here on Reddit. Now, I use home ownership because homes typically represent a "substantial" amount of wealth, but anything which indicates re…
/r/MensRights17/01/22 12:51 AM
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Yeah, I'm pretty sure "God" is whatever she thinks she wants to do in a given moment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/22 10:06 PM
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Back in the 70's/80's, the generic butterfly/playboy bunny in the pubic area or the rose tattoo on a breast were so ridiculously common it's not even funny. But it was still funny.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/22 09:18 PM
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Jesus, I always wondered about this. In the past I've worked as a caregiveer which is a job that attracts some very caring and lovely people- and also those at the end of their job rope. There are definitely other red flags but I never really thought about the half-finished tattoos like that. I really see that a lot, especially big chest pieces that are obviously outlined but never filled in. That's hilarious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/22 09:16 PM
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"Christian", "celibate" 3 nose piercings, alone, tattoo visible on left collarbone. I was just watching a video yesterday by a black woman lamenting these kinds of posers, pretending to be virtuous when it's convenient.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/22 09:08 PM
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I think it means 4 free meals then a ghosting, but that's based on my experience with someone else kinda pulling something similar.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/22 09:02 PM
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It might mean 4 free meals then a ghosting. I knew a lady who did this exact thing. Masters degree in English, barely making do teaching ESL students, and genuinely still riding the cock carousel at like...35-37, I think. She was cute in the face and a little chubby but still looked fine with clothes on. She got a reasonable amount of attention from guys but my gf mentioned (it was her friend) almost none of the guys she slept with wanted to repeat the experience even a second time after having …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/22 08:57 PM
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A long-ish life has granted me the opinion that a physically-fit man actively executing the business of his whim, and who does so with marked indifference to the rest of the world around him may very well be the strongest attractor of the attention of women I've ever seen.
/r/MensRights21/12/21 11:00 AM
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Abusive women also have the ability somehow to find men who show signs of untreated mental illness. Men generally don't have long conversations coaching each other on how to identify certain types of women. Many women do. This is the old Cosmopolitan Magazine routine and it's been going on since the 1970's. For most women, the mechanism is a very targeted process. Now, of course, this isn't usually a bad skillset necessarily, but when the woman is abuser she is certainly enculturated into that t…
/r/MensRights12/12/21 09:16 PM
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As with most strategies, never piss yourself first. But if you ask to go to the bathroom and the teacher says "No" and then (key point) ask them what are they going to do if you leave and they somehow physically bar the way or lock the door or anything like that- that'd be kidnapping in any other circumstance. Now, it's probably not kidnapping in the context of being a student at school but at that point, you should definitely piss yourself. I can't even imagine the damages a jury would award in…
/r/MensRights10/12/21 12:04 AM
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Super crazy, the twists and turns that situations can take. Not really directed at anyone or anything specifically, but I wish somewhere in public education were classes designed to help young folks understand how wildly unpredictable reality is. Almost all of us grow up with episodic television in which situations play out in a more or less theatrically predictable manner and, unless they're asking for higher salaries, recurring characters always live to see another day. When we're younger, we …
/r/PussyPassDenied24/11/21 03:20 AM
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Goddamn, my girlfriend's a huge fan of Joker but I haven't seen it yet. Keeps coming up in various places. I really need to see it soon.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 08:30 PM
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Back in Oaxaca, of course, training for the revolution. Won't be able to write or call for a while. Muy callada silencio. It could take years and any attempt to contact him could bring it all crumbling down. So don't. He'll let you know. No reason to leave a forwarding number with his family. The Revolution will find her number for him when the time is right.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 01:01 AM
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You say that like she isn't pitching to anyone who'll take a swing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 12:55 AM
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"She dare-kissed a girl at a middle school sleepover and waxed her roommate's bikini line in college. She's a flaming bisexual!!!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 12:54 AM
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Or the Chinese navy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 12:45 AM
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The older the kids are the less likely they are to graciously accept that a new man is sleeping with their mommy. This isn't meant to be contrary to anything you said, but your sentence reminded me of something I noticed dating around in my late 30's and 40's, when women had kids in their early to late teens. She won't tell you how many strange men she brings home in a romantic context, but the level of reaction of her children to you presence most definitely will.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 11:03 AM
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Just making it up. It's like when a woman of obviously meager means seasons their life with phrases like "I was living abroad" when describing a suspiciously large chunk of time they'd rather not account for too closely.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 10:50 AM
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It's been a while since I've seen one of those "When you see it you'll shit brix"-types images, but this qualifies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/21 08:06 PM
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I get what you're saying now. Well, he definitely knew how to punch. He tagged me in the face one night by accident when we were drinking, showing me "some moves" of his. Typical dude mishap. Kinda looked like (dating myself) whatever the hell Keith Hackney punched like. Not hard enough to do anything, but hard enough I didn't drink with him anymore. He was one of those people who had a real bad home environment and turned to That One Thing to kind of pour himself into and get away from it.. Now…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/21 04:13 AM
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Long story I'll skip, but over the course of my life I've met and known a lot of "trust fund babies", for lack of a better word. There is a certain percentage of them, specifically, who never seem to grow to the point where they feel they need a meaningful relationship beyond that they have with their money. This mindset came up in the documentary Born Rich but, in my experience, the phenomenon exists at far lower levels of wealth than are depicted in the film. Looking over all the disparate ele…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/21 07:09 PM
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Yeah, I had a neighbor who was in his mid-50's (he's dead now), who had ~8 kids by a few different women in California. He really seemed to like finding crazy chicks and knock them up and...I'm not really sure that's hyperbole. Told me he was something like $150k in the hole on back child support. Just as you said, they could only take so much out of his paycheck. He worked as a cook at a local bar after getting out of prison- one of his exes had accused him of D.V. (something I genuinely doubt …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 06:10 PM
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What makes you say that?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 05:56 PM
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I knew a dude who did this thing about 30 years ago. Would occasionally use his BJJ to settle altercations at bars that he went there intentionally to start. Go to a bar, start shit with somebody, ask them out into the parking lot to settle it "like men" then whip their ass. That was the plan, anyway, until one night he was toasted, tried it with the wrong guy, smacks the guy down, guy leaves, he's still is in the parking lot hanging around and has to run his ass off because the guy he beat went…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 06:32 PM
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And how she giggles about it! Because it's all so...why, it's all so outrageous! She's nothing if not a walking master class in iconoclasm, isn't she? COVID has slowed things way down, but I love meeting people like this and just listening to them talk. They think they can keep partying forever and absent-mindedly snag a Chad when they've had one too many "rock bottom" moments. These are their own choices, so I don't see any moral stain in listening and nodding. It's like talking to people excit…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 10:38 AM
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My friend told me about a guy in his apartment complex who would go down to the bike paths at a nearby park at night when he got drunk and ask other dudes if they wanted to fight. There were apparently quite a few takers and he definitely got his ass kicked probably as frequently as not. Based on the specific area it was probably either hobos or crust punks that accepted the offer, both of which are kind of a mixed bag, fitness-wise. My friend told me this story about 2 months after he moved int…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 09:58 AM
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It screams "RUN AWAY". It really does. All her profile is, is a Hail Mary pass. At her age and situation, the only person I could see this genuinely appealing to is a man who is in a similar situation and who needs child care. He works, she takes care of her kids and his and they both attempt to struggle across the social security finish line 20-ish years from now. She's decent looking but from the decade from 40-50 too many women's sex drive tank and their erratic behavior go up due to peri-men…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 04:29 PM
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I'm surprised I had to scroll down this far! "Yeah, honey, you're welcome to behead me after I get that spider in the kitchen for ya!"
/r/MensRights24/10/21 06:58 PM
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And, see, if the sheer number of people (2 new a week) is nuts, imagine the day-to-day reality of a person actually having sex with that many new sexual partners for such a prolonged period of time. At that point, I honestly feel like it leaves the realm of me judging her and enters the realm of her dealing with some prolonged psychopathology. And also I'm like What the fuck else were you doing multiple times a week?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 01:18 AM
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Interesting! Yeah, every time I see that shit in a dating profile it's radioactive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 09:48 AM
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I just don't understand why so many profiles have something like the following, which essentially boils down to: "I'm not indiscriminate with my sex partners (but I was)" What, exactly, is the upside to saying that? I mean, I understand there is no upside, but what are you broadcasting to the world?! Damn. "I'm not looking to fuck everyone in the clown car (those days are behind me)..." "I'm not just looking to score some model airplane glue and huff it while you wear a Ray Romano mask and dance…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 09:42 AM
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Looking over the early-onset androgenic alopecia and all the other stuff going on with that face and neck and I'm going to say she is literally looking for someone who's passable to have sex with, who won't be a douchebag. So I don't really have a problem with this particular woman's profile because she isn't really asserting anything that isn't particularly untrue or demanding unfair standards for what little she brings to the table. She wants to get some safe dick. I gotta tell ya, though- whe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/21 11:19 PM
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...desperate to do whatever they can to lock that man into any relationship they can... To support that statement, I'd like to provide Exhibit A. Clip is 3 minutes long but only the first minute is important. At the end of that, look at who's clapping and supporting deceit and who's shaking their head 'no'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 09:09 PM
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Thank you for bringing this up! And if people are in a hurry or might not have time to really go into it, please take the time to just read these 3 paragraphs: “After listening for almost twenty-five years to the stories my patients tell me about sociopaths who have invaded and injured their lives, when I am asked, “How can I tell whom not to trust?” the answer I give usually surprises people. The natural expectation is that I will describe some sinister-sounding detail of behavior or snippet of…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 09:01 PM
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Nobody has mentioned the fact that she's a fan of surfing and rowing but is still single? She was on the surf carousel. She was on the crew carousel. It's not a good sign when you have interests which are heavily populated by members of the opposite sex yet somehow mysteriously still don't make a connection and settle down with someone from them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 08:30 PM
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First, I'm not disagreeing with your point on an existential level. But I'm almost 50, I've worked in healthcare (a woman-dominated field) and I can say from personal experience that it can be very difficult to map out how much a woman gets around, simply by her looks. For guys, this generally holds, because most women would rate 80% of men as unattractive. But that's not how it works the other way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 08:24 PM
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Obviously I only know anything about this person from a single picture with text underneath it. Having said that, I'm going to take a slightly different tack and say that the man probably dipped 4-6 weeks before she posted this. Somebody had brought this up in a different thread but similar situation. There's a decent chance that she entered into a relationship with a guy, had sex, got pregnant and then he stuck around for a while, where she got the impression that he was going to be present as …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 08:19 PM
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Goddamn, I can't believe I didn't catch that- thank you! Leaving it up so I can nervously glance back at it occasionally.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 04:51 AM
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Might be the one mentioned here. Unfortunately, I've watched about half newer and half older. IMO, the guy should do a whole video just about 'I deserve'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 06:17 PM
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I skimmed over my 'watched' list and that's one of them that I've viewed, so if it has his rant in there that's probably the one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 06:16 PM
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Wish I could find the link to share it but I was watching some Think Before You Sleep videos on YouTube a month or so ago and in the middle of one of his rants, he kind of paused the topic and explored what the "I deserve" actually means. I've never heard the built-in entitlement broken down so beautifully before and it all started with him saying something like "'I deserve'. Have you ever heard a man say the words 'I deserve'?" and then he just cut loose. After watching that video, my ears perk…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 08:54 AM
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Totally. I dated a woman for a few years who was a widower (she was in her 40's as was I) and she had two half-black daughters. The husband had died about 4-5 years prior. Didn't really bug me and I had a son of my own already in high school. Having said that, there's a shitload more single moms from other reasons than because they're widowers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 08:36 AM
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Definitely not disputing that but I read that dysfunction as more being on hardcore anti-psychotics for years and/or really fucked up hormones, both of which seem equally likely with this one. So many girls on anti-psychotics now days, tons of smokin' hot ladies without a functional sex drive to speak of. So glad I'm older. Even then, about half the women I would date in their 40's were on some kind of psychiatric medication. For too many of them, a regular sex drive was a pretty abstract thing.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 07:20 PM
10

Even a pump and dump is danger zone with these. Thank you for bringing this up. It's so true. Sometimes, there is no safe distance from the bomb.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 07:03 PM
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....alot of people tell on themselves.... I'm not a generally trusting person but I've also found this to be true. When I started online dating in my early 40's, the one thing I knew was that, if she was physically attractive, I'd probably fall in love with any damned fool I wound up kissing. So I made a point not to kiss anybody, or even hug them. I'd shake fucking hands in all but two cases. Maybe I'm better looking than I think or something, because I got razzed about it but not much else. Af…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 07:26 AM
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It's one of the absolute best decisions I ever made. The grim reality is that it's difficult to express to a younger man the reality of the yoke the state lays on his shoulders at the whim of all but the craziest, out of control mothers. I'm not absolving men of their responsibility, but this game has been going on a long time, and when the deck is stacked against you by law, it's best to play only when you're sure of the outcome.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 07:17 AM
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"I don't know how to make good decisions if left to my own devices." Man there's a lot of truth in that sentence. I just might steal it, or a variation of it, because it's such a plain way to explain the problem it almost defies an dismissive retort. For two, three generations now, a great many women in America were raised and trained for fantasy situations which rarely come to pass. Men, on the other hand, are bombarded with stark truths every day, whether they want to hear them or not. I'm not…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 07:11 AM
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Agreed. I work in healthcare and there's a "tell" in her message I see somewhat frequently, where a woman will describe themselves as this or that (usually something that requires licensure or accreditation) but is, in fact, currently working at some low-grade job. Huge red flag in most cases. It's usually because she's been busted and either lost licensure or had it suspended for x years. I see this with CNAs and nurses all the time. Whenever you get close to people like this, close enough to f…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/21 10:53 PM
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If they deadpan it enough, eventually someone will bite. There are 8 billion of us. It's funny, though. In the last 20 years, I've noticed more and more men and women nope-ing out of obvious invitations to ruinous relationships, nonmatter how thirsty they were. I'm hoping its a trend.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/21 05:49 AM
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In so many cases, if you work out the arithmetic of the proposition it boils down to the following (nonsensical) assertion: I am objectively a hot mess because I'm very picky and have high standards. Only high-status individuals will be considered to volunteer to help me put out the fires in my life, even as I cause more.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/21 05:46 AM
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In the cultural context of what that stick means, it isn't. Not at all. That little stick isn't just a stick, it's a symbol and hitting him with it culturally conveys a few messages at once. First, that he's beneath her, socially. That he is a lower class human being. Second, that he's uncivilized in the sense of a child, an animal, or a pauper. Those are some heavy, heavy things to go laying on another person in Indian culture. You'd think those little thwacks are inconsequential and, physicall…
/r/PussyPassDenied24/08/21 02:43 PM
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Right?! She is so close to The Wall if she puckered up she'd be kissing it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/21 02:55 PM
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While that's an arguably hyperbolic example, you're not wrong. I don't exactly know when it starts in the women it effects, but I do know the whole charade starts crumbing down in the mid to late 30's. This is far from the only example, but one of my girlfriend's friends had been riding around on the carousel forever and then sometime around 37-39, shit started falling apart. She was in a relatively intellectually demanding job and she was certainly an intelligent woman who'd even had writing pu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/21 04:13 PM
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There are a few other things I could see as likely. For instance, maybe the dude had a gun collection and she stole a piece and tried to fence it/fenced it. Small, high-dollar item which, unfortunately, has serious repercussions for theft. Drugs are a great guess, though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/21 11:34 PM
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"More" in this case means "I'll have a child with you as a bargain for you raising other men's children." I dated a woman whose husband had died 4-5 year prior and that was a possibility I was willing to entertain. Not in a case like this though. In this case, it's more like how some women with BPD will sleep with a huge amount of men during a relatively short period of time, effectively rolling multiple pairs of dice hoping one of them will stick around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 09:54 PM
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Related.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 09:50 PM
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One of the many interesting facets of this disparity, and a frequently-overlooked one, begins with the fact that (at least in the United States) correctional facility beds for female inmates are always some smaller percentage of those set aside for male inmates and almost always exist in separate, women only, purpose-built facilities. In general, correctional facilities don't get much budgetary attention and so many are quite old and can support only so many inmates, period. Why do I bring this …
/r/MensRights28/06/21 05:16 PM
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I imagine it’s not the first time she’s done it though. No, I don't imagine it is. Females abuse differently than males. Females abusers usually groom/seek out an environment over which they feel they have (here's the important bit) complete control. A healthcare environment is one such environment where, in certain situations, the abuser can completely isolate themselves and the abused or exploited. The very interesting thing about this is that after completely feeling safe in the exploitation …
/r/PussyPassDenied29/05/21 05:11 PM
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I live in a hippie college town. The sheer number of people with useless degrees, sometimes masters degrees, working absolute entry-level jobs is astounding. “Gender studies” and “Woman’s Studies” like 70-80% of the time. I honestly had no idea that many people would ride out degrees like that- and the debt! Sweet Jesus.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/05/21 06:28 AM
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She's 66. That's pretty decent damn good-looking for 66 years old. I frequently see women on PoF 25 years younger who are already rough-looking as that.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/11/20 03:29 AM
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Oh no, they exist. They hate these lying bitches just as much as we do because they also get fucked over by them- just in different ways. At this time in history, American society encourages sociopathy among women and girls. It's "easy" and many take the bait....but not all. Thank God. Then again. I'm in my 40's and so are the women I mingle with. This is much more prevalent the younger they are. Still, some people just know right from wrong and reject that shit, inherently.
/r/MensRights07/09/16 01:28 PM
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I'm sorry this happened to you but I'm here to tell you this exact same thing happens a lot. Calm down, assess everything that was taken or broken and file a claim in small claims court for the absolute maximum possible. Don't let them get away with this, nail 'em to the wall. There's also the matter of criminal behavior if you can prove in some way that the police report she made was false. Go down to the court house and get a copy of the policeman's affadavit both for what she claimed you did …
/r/MensRights21/07/16 09:35 PM
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From what I've read, women child sexual predators choose to carefully exploit situations but usually only after they feel like they have the situation "locked down" enough to feel confident that they're safe in doing it. Usually these situations perversely mimic a parent/child relationship where the predator has some kind of recognized institutional authority over the child, but not always. Oddly, this documentary on the subtle nature of prison rape gave the best outline for the relationship-bas…
/r/MensRights22/06/16 09:42 PM
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From what I recall reading years ago, they weren't trying to set him up but "supportive friends" of the landlord- the lady. They allegedly went there with her to help her be intimidating and when she started feeling overconfident she could maybe smack the dude around, he whipped out his camera and the whole group split. That rape shit was just her attempting some kind of cover that would look good on film....and failing miserably. Every time I see this clip, I can't help but thinking the lady is…
/r/PussyPassDenied05/06/16 03:24 AM
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...have a skewed view of relationships and want someone they can manipulate, or to use a more scary term, to mold. Regarding that last paragraph of yours: I used to live in an apartment complex where about 1/3 of the residents are mentally deficient, coming in from social programs or recovery centers. They are all at least 30 years old. They can take care of themselves and they can legally sign a contract but they are just on this side of the line of being not able to do that. We had a young man…
/r/MensRights04/06/16 05:40 PM
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I was already nodding to both your messages and then I looked up and saw your username. That is maybe the most legit handle I've seen in the past two years here.
/r/MensRights28/05/16 01:49 PM
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