The_Coolest_Guy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Miserable and depressed Hey man, Ive been there. I used to feel depressed and never get any girls and watch porn all day. Good news- this doesnt last forever. First off, cut the masturbation and porn. Cut it. Its fucking hard but it teaches you self discipline and if your only outlet is women then you will try harder for them. This will act as a catalyst for your self improvement. Then, start putting in effort to get girls. Talking to girls is fucking scary, most guys would rather get punched then cold approach a 10. S…	/r/seduction	16/05/15 03:45 AM
5	I see a lot of guys talk about girls approaching them, why does it happen and why doesn't it happen to me? Definitely, for women it is a lot more about confidence and how you present yourself than pure physical attractiveness. With that being said, it is still important to work out, groom yourself, and learn how to dress well so you can make yourself look as good as possible.	/r/seduction	04/05/15 04:49 PM
17	Can't talk to girls You can read all the material and get all the advice you want, but in the end it is all about practice. You need to force yourself to start talking to girls. At first, it is going to be awful, and since you don't know how it will most definitely be awkward, but it doesn't matter because you are improving your skills and you will eventually be better. After you get through a bunch of awkward conversations, your conversations will be slightly less awkward, then they'll become bearable, and eventua…	/r/seduction	27/04/15 03:24 AM
2	Don't use Tinder because you have to, use it because you can. I would actually say with most men they deflate your ego since most of the time you don't get responses and the majority of girls on dating apps won't like you back. I agree though, it is way more important to practice approaching and learning to communicate in real life with people, but I don't think there is anything wrong with using these apps as a supplementary tool, as long as you understand that they are just a tool and not the primary means to get women.	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/15 12:30 AM
1	Been in college for 2 years and haven't gotten laid a single time. Wtf	/r/seduction	27/04/15 12:16 AM
1	Who of you goes out clubbing solo? I haven't done this, because I would also say I'm not ready. But the only way to become ready for things like this is to push yourself socially so you are no longer afraid. I'm working on doing that at the moment but still haven't reached the level of going out solo. One of the pros is obviously getting to talk to girls by yourself without the distraction of friends. If you get rejected, none of your friends are there to witness it so you should theoretically have less fear. It is also easier to…	/r/seduction	13/12/14 09:17 PM
1	What do you guys use to deal with Anxiety? then I became outcome orientated - looking for a close. Just ease yourself into the casualness of conversation first! Nice comment. I'm working on this right now.	/r/seduction	15/11/14 06:10 PM
1	Best clubs/activities to meet and interact with women? Intramural sports: coed volleyball, soccer tend to have more girls and they tend to be fit too. Yoga is also good, especially if you play sports it is also good cause it helps loosen and relieve muscle pain!	/r/seduction	06/11/14 03:43 PM
1	Dick is too Shy? It's mental dude. I used to have this all the time, but it has gone away in the past year since I stopped worrying and having anxiety about performance. The more you have sex, the more you'll understand that your penis works fine, and the less "in your head" you'll be. If it does happen, just tell the girl you're really nervous since you really like her and she's super hot. Maybe she'll give you a BJ to help you out ;)	/r/seduction	07/10/14 12:02 AM
1	[FR] After watching Julien's video about why guys don't become successful with women, I broke out of my shell for the entire weekend, it was fucking great! Thanks for the video. That was seriously inspirational. Exactly what I needed right now, just uninstalled all of my video games. Nice job breaking out of your shell. Keep it up.	/r/seduction	15/07/14 04:21 AM