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| 148 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casually | Fundamentals | The_Dajjal | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 05:52 AM |
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| 2 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallyI appreciate the insight, always good to know what it’s like from your end, even if the experience is different. Like the other guy said, it’s probably not what I need right now but thanks anyway. I don’t believe in god or the universe doing anything for me though, it’s up to us to work towards achieving our goals through persistence hard work. | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 08:24 PM |
| 3 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallyThank you for taking the time to write such a well thought out response. You are right when you say that I tend to focus a little more on who is not available, I know that people who feel like they’re in a similar situation to me can tend to ignore the positives and focus on the negatives. I do talk to a lot of girls, but mostly the ones in relationships so we’re just friends. You’ve given me a lot to think about here :) thanks | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 08:18 PM |
| 2 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallyTrue 🫡 | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 07:43 PM |
| 1 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallyGot tired of being stuck with the negative thoughts in my head and wanted to talk to someone about it. I’d say it actually did help reduce the amount of time I feel shitty, as in it still happens but way less than before. | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 07:43 PM |
| 1 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallyI appreciate the encourage man. I’ve done accidental lip bite at the gym too lol, I think they just write it off as awkwardness and don’t really care because they’re used to it. I will try to understand what presence means for me. | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 07:40 PM |
| 2 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallyThanks for advice, yeah I’ll keep working on it and try to learn from the cues I receive. | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 07:38 PM |
| 1 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallyThanks, I think I’d want to do both of these. I would get alright amount of attention on dating up until I hit 30 and the negative stereotypes around South Asians became more commonplace. I’m down to try again with an improved profile. I have tried talking to people before. Honestly it’s not the worst, I feel like they weren’t as creeped out as I thought they would be. My only hang up with #2 is the weirdness of the girls bf showing up. Sometimes I have talked to women I see around the same plac… | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 07:36 PM |
| 2 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallyYou make a fair point. I responded to your comment above but dating did work better for me until recently so I get what you’re saying and yeah I would try again with an improved profile. | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 07:31 PM |
| 2 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallyHonestly my therapist did tell me that I should try a dating coach to work on confidence and social skills that are specific to dating so she might be on to something. | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 07:28 PM |
| 5 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallymy therapist is female and she told me to try a dating coach and up my game 😂 | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 07:27 PM |
| 1 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallyI used to get at least a few decent likes up until a couple of years ago. I think my age things changed things since I’m 30+ now and the apps maybe want me to spend as they assume I’m not in my 20s and broke anymore. Also I’m South Asian, while I’m more westernized and not a new immigrant, the recent dislike for South Asians hasn’t helped. | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 07:26 PM |
| 1 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallyNah you’re not wrong, I did gain some weight Covid era. Over the past year I’ve lost 30+ lbs and my friends and family told me my facial features, jawline, and physique have considerably improved. Something I feel like I noticed is woman making eye contact with me much more often on public transit and malls now. My problem is, I can’t tell if I’m just autistic and imagining things or if the weight loss and improvement is actually making people check me outs like it just seems too good to be true… | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Feel like a creep trying streetgame or daygameI have been joining the same as well as trying new sports leagues and clubs for years now, going to whatever social gatherings I can, also run clubs. The problem I’m having is that every women at every sports club, running clubs and social group is their with her boyfriend. How do you even find someone single? | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Any men in their 30’s who have or had success with dating women and getting laid while still living at home?Where do you meet people? | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Three girls in 4 daysWhere is this happening? Like what venue? | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 05:54 AM |
| -1 | Do you have to be good looking to use Tinder?You can be in shape like me and have gym selfies and still get zero likes. | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 05:31 AM |
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