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| 1 | Hoe PhaseI like this sex-positive way of thinking, but I don't think it objectively captures the reality of the dynamic. Social media, and media in general, gives people a really distorted view of the average person's sex life. Specifically, it gives people the totally incorrect idea that everyone is being promiscuous. In reality, the average number of lifetime partners for an American remains at between 6 and 7. There is nothing wrong with a "hoe phase", but it is also not normal or common. The average … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 08:57 PM |
| 1 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.Wow. That was a steaming pile of sexism, bigotry and bitterness. You should talk to someone... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 10:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.I am referring specifically to the well documented issues with self-reporting in scientific research. Research that depends on self-report have been demonstrated to be biased because people reply based on how they would like to be perceived, rather than reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/19 10:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.It is painfully clear that women do want to re-marry. In the vast majority of relationships, it is the woman who constantly pushes the relationship forward and eventually pressures the man for marriage. You sound like you are experiencing a case of the sour grapes... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/19 10:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.I have lived in the South Bay for my entire life. I can't really argue with your personal experience, but Silicon Valley is famous all over the country for its overabundance of single nerdy tech guys. That reputation is definitely well deserved. Kind of weird that most of the people you know have been married for 7 years... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/19 10:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.Well, only men are predisposed to find youth attractive. Women are programmed to seek out support and resources, which are more abundant in older more established men. My relationship with Jordan lasted around 9 months. After that I started to get bored (and a bit ashamed of myself). She actually looked me up again 2 years later and we dated again for a while. My male buddies had no problem with the relationship and always referred to her as "19". Many of my female friends disapproved of my rela… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/19 08:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.You seem to be saying the same thing that I am saying, just with a more palatable and politically correct spin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/19 08:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.Interesting. Of course, most Pew research is self report from telephone polling. Self-report is notoriously unreliable, people tend to respond based on how they want to be seen. The rates of response to telephone polls have gotten so low that it has become a major confounding bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/19 08:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.I don’t think we are talking about the same area. Most of the men in Silicon Valley (at least in the tech field) are definitely not doing much chasing. Men in the tech field are famous for their 18 hour work days and their total commitment to their career. They are equally famous for their nerdy personalities and poor social skills. Many of the men here are making $300,000 per year but sleep in the office half the time and eat canned soup 3 times a day. They are definitely not looking for women,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/19 08:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.The difference would be that MGTOW folks are actually avoiding relationships with women. The ladies are desperately trying to get into a relationship but at the same time saying they don't need one. That's cognitive dissonance at it's finest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/19 04:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.Really? You've never observed a large age difference in dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/19 04:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.Yup. Men have a higher mortality rate at every age group, so women start to out-number men more and more. I wonder how much it matters, though. I live in the SF Bay Area, where men significantly out-number men due to the tech field, and it seems that women are still having difficulties getting relationships. There are a lot of thirsty women here, even though there is an over abundance of men. It seems the men are in no hurry to partner-up and the women are very vocally unhappy and lonely. Maybe … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/19 12:18 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.That's a legitimate question. I agree that large age differences make long-term compatibility less likely. But attraction and long-term compatibility are two different things. I have had several rewarding relationships with women less than half my age. Since my divorce, I have dated women as young as 19, although most were much closer to my age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/19 12:00 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.That's just it, though. It really doesn't effect men. The older a man gets, the more advantage he has in the dating market. Maturity is attractive to women but mostly unnattractive to men. Men are unfairly judged on more factors than women, but age isn't one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/19 11:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.Do they? If they do it is probably because they are more in demand and there are a lot of lonely women looking to scoop up any decent guy who becomes available. I always thought I would marry again soon after my divorce, but its been nearly 10 years and I'm still living in sin... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/19 11:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.You didn't understand the point at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/19 10:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.Well, it seems you are having trouble remembering what point you were trying to make. Most guys don't really care that they are losing their hair. I had already been cutting my own hair short for a decade when my hair started thinning and it didn't bother me at all. The one's that do care have internalized America's obsession with youth. As a culture, we Americans absolutely worship youth and everything that comes with it. Also, there is no such thing as premature balding, there is just balding.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/19 10:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.I honestly can't figure out what you are trying to express here... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/19 09:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.You clearly haven't thought this through. It may very well be true that unmarried women live longer NOW. But throughout the millions of years that human have been evolving, the opposite was obviously the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/19 09:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.But only the divorced women want to remarry. Most of the men are happy being bachelors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/19 09:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.Women, as a group, just need to be in a relationship much more than men. Throughout 99.9999% of our history as humans, a woman has had little chance of survival without a man. The strong need to have a male partner evolved in woman as a survival mechanism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/19 09:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.This is a desperate argument. I started losing my hair in my late 30s and am mostly bald now in my late 40s. I can tell you that it doesn't seem to be a handicap. I am more sought after now, with my mostly-bald head and mostly grey beard, than I was when I was young. Women are predisposed to be attracted to older more established men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/19 09:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.The problem with this is it is based on self-report. Of course every good feminist is going to claim she is happier without a man, even when it is obviously not true. No feminist is going to betray the matriarchy by admitting she needs a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/19 09:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.Huh. The vast majority of single women I meet are absolutely looking for a partner. Most women I know in their 30s and 40s are loudly bemoaning their lack of a relationship and the lack of "good men". Men are just much happier being single than women. Also, no one is arguing that men don't find many 35 year old women attractive, they just find a younger woman much more attractive. The dating pool favors men as we get older and most older men can afford to take their pick. I am in my late 40s and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.I think you are confusing what men find attractive with what women find attractive. Men are not aroused by the "classier form of prettiness" that you are describing. That is something that women appreciate. It's just a well documented fact that men are programmed to find young fertile women attractive. We also know that women are predisposed to seek security and resources for their offspring (or potential offspring), and this biases women toward older and more established men. Women also have lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/19 09:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall.I have had a similar experience, as a divorced man. I got divorced in my early forties, after I had gone mostly bald and put on a beer gut. I thought the dating scene might be rough for me now that I was older and less physically attractive; but the truth was exactly the opposite. I am much more in demand as an older man. I don't have to work nearly as hard as I did when I was younger. The older we get, the more in demand men become. As I get older there are more and more single women and they s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/19 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Imagine if the roles were reversed.It's really important to me for you guys to know that all my ass-eating stories are completely true... | /r/MensRights | 03/06/19 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Could we say that men’s obsession with “n count” is not based on “studies about promiscuous women” but their own egos.Yeah. I hate those dumb people who really on science, research, and facts for their opinions. losers... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/19 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?This is certainly the way a small minority of promiscuous people behave, but the majority of people are just not this wild. The average American will sleep with 6 to 7 people in their entire lifetime. It is a fact that the vast majority of people are not dating multiple people at once, having open relationships, or having a "slutty period" in college. The overwhelming majority of people are not as wild or promiscuous as the media often leads us to believe. There is absolutely nothing wrong with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)Everyone knows that this isn't true, though. Women are MUCH more desperate for a relationship than men are. Most (hetero) women define themselves through their relationship with a man. The majority of men are perfectly happy to be a bachelor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "women are feeling increasingly burdened by unpaid emotional labor", particularly in the context of emotional relationships (Harper's Baazar)I’m always confused when I hear that women are complaining about emotional labor in a relationship. In almost every (heterosexual) relationship I have been in or observed, the woman has been the more needy one. It seems it is almost always the woman who needs constant reassurance, who needs to vent about stress from work, who always needs to talk out her feels about ongoing drama with her friend group. Even in friendship relationships with the opposite sex, it always seems to be the female who n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Heterosexual Men Want and Need Relationships/Marriage More than WomanThis is a very obvious case of the commenter just failing to understand someone else's style of friendship. Women's style of communicating with there female friends is definitely more verbose and dramatic, but not anymore legitimate then men's style if communicating and supporting one another. Shockingly, men can share emotional experiences and support one another effectively without going to Starbucks or having 6 hours of conversation about every aspect of the issue. Different people can have d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/19 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Heterosexual Men Want and Need Relationships/Marriage More than WomanYeah. This post seems like a convoluted logical argument to deny the obvious. Most single women I meet are unhappy alone and anxious about never finding a partner. Most woman I know who are in relationships, but not married, very much want to be married. The vast majority of men aren't in any hurry to get married and don't experience any worry about not being married. A big part of the picture is that being married is a huge status issue for women. When a woman's friends start getting married, s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/19 02:47 PM |
| 1 | [22F] "My boyfriend is attractive, smart, funny, kind, and staying with him seems like the safer option. But the thought of never having experienced life and other guys outside of my first relationship bothers me so much that I'm contemplating breaking it off."It's not that ridiculous when you remember that, for the last couple generations, feminism has been teaching girls that promiscuity is empowering. Who doesn't want to be empowered? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/19 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Men choosing to opt out of traditional committed relationships is the coal miner’s canary for culture.It’s hard to take this seriously. I know that this view is rooted in “pill philosophy” that I don’t fully understand, but this just doesn’t make sense. The vast majority of humans fall into the “not high status” category. If the majority of men just stopped participating in and/or contributing to society, the impact on society would be huge. Just mathematically, the tiny fraction of society considered to be high status could not begin to ameliorate this affect. This sounds like adolescent alpha/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/19 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Is hypergamy a real thing? Or is it made up by redpillers who don’t know how to maintain a long term relationship?Yikes. You are betraying an ignorance about the most basic concepts of scientific method. Scientific investigation is a process that can be applied in the same manner to any subject matter. The same objective techniques can be applied, with equal legitimacy, to any field, whether it's physics, psychology or entomology. If your beliefs require you to deny science and rational thought, you might want to take a close look at why you continue to believe them... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 05:51 PM |
| 1 | 8 out of 10 sexual accusations are false according to the criminal police departmant of Rostock, GermanyThe FBI did an investigation into the false accusation rate in the USA, back in the 90s. They concluded that, at that time, 45% of sexual assault accusations were false accusations, | /r/MensRights | 05/08/18 07:45 PM |
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