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| 2 | Do men and women have realistic standards for each other?That's true, but we should stop assigning moral value to what we have to offer romantically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Do men and women have realistic standards for each other?Neither is “please don’t be under six feet or have a small dick”. As a very tall, very well endowed man, women don't care about either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Do men and women have realistic standards for each other?Everyone thinks I'm gay/a white knight for liking thicker women (so muscle and a little fat). Personally exercise is probably more important for my mental health than my physical health, although I don't believe in separating the two since the brain is still a physical organ of the body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 01:31 PM |
| 6 | Do men and women have realistic standards for each other?Weight is primarily diet, not exercise. Exercise is critical for remaining healthy though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debateSure, but we don't have clinical evidence for black people having higher levels of testosterone than white people. We do with men versus women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 10:46 AM |
| 4 | Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debateThis is why I find myself very much alone in believing that the social stigmas against both homosexuality and masturbation probably are largely deep-rooted and natural The issue here is that homosexuals have parents, siblings, nephews and nieces whom they love and care for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 10:41 AM |
| 5 | Why do people get so defensive about casual sex/hookups?Most men aren't OK with it, many are just desperate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 06:49 PM |
| 0 | Why do people get so defensive about casual sex/hookups?Not sure why this sub has such a hard time understanding why that’s the case. Because the peculiar mix of postmodern feminism and aggressive capitalism we live under has made expressing such opinions anathema to the cultural zeitgeist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Why do people get so defensive about casual sex/hookups?Intimacy is subjective, not objective. aggressively takes a shit in front of you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 06:47 PM |
| 2 | To the women who have dated or are dating a guy with less relationship experience than you, what is it like ?You said he dated someone for five months, how is that not relationship experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Do men derive their self-esteem and emotional state from womenSome do. I personally derive my self esteem from internal factors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 11:32 AM |
| 1 | How bad Is being compared badly tò her father?"You support me just like my mom did my dad" "I think you would make an amazing mother to our kids, just like how my mom raised me" "You're smoking hot just like-" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 12:48 AM |
| – | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?This is just a longer variation on "you will own nothing, and be happy." To anyone reading this, never accept defeat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 10:24 AM |
| – | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?I wholeheartedly agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 10:24 AM |
| 1 | A flawed argument that women make excusing past One Night StandsDo you regret it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 06:29 PM |
| 1 | A flawed argument that women make excusing past One Night Standshow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 04:24 PM |
| 3 | What is a deal breaker you think the opposite sex should adopt?Diagnosis: subeightitis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 08:48 AM |
| 2 | A flawed argument that women make excusing past One Night Standsyou've kissed over a hundred men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Does the "friend zone" mainly consist of males? If so, why?I'm friends with a few women online, there's some combination of no attraction on my end; large age gap; massive distance. I dont really have female friends irl though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 08:47 AM |
| 1 | manosphere dudes are turning off the very women they are trying attract and seem oblivious to this.I think my misanthropy long predates my having access to the internet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 05:43 PM |
| 3 | You can't change what you're attracted to. But most people can compromise on certain preferences.Any man worth his salt will not procreate with you, and I say this as someone who is 6 foot 4. If my son has some medical thing or just random genetics causing him to be short, imagine his mother claiming that he isn't a man. You're a terrible person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 05:25 PM |
| 3 | manosphere dudes are turning off the very women they are trying attract and seem oblivious to this.Are they stupid if they're only watching it for entertainment and not information? Watching morons throw metaphorical shit at one another is objectively funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Maybe a lack of third spaces isn't the issue - society has just become more puritanical about where/when this is acceptableIt's over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Maybe a lack of third spaces isn't the issue - society has just become more puritanical about where/when this is acceptableMost men who don't suffer from subeightitis do indeed find it easy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Maybe a lack of third spaces isn't the issue - society has just become more puritanical about where/when this is acceptableI think this must be an American thing because I've never seen it cause an issue here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 04:04 PM |
| 5 | You can't change what you're attracted to. But most people can compromise on certain preferences.It’s not fine to be fat. Celebrating obesity is irresponsible | Lizzie Cernik | The Guardian Above is an article from the primary left-wing newspaper in the UK (The Guardian). There was also an article over the last few days about the risks of childhood obesity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 03:19 PM |
| 4 | You can't change what you're attracted to. But most people can compromise on certain preferences.Again, no regular person does this and it isn't even a popular trope in mainstream media, even leftwing media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 02:55 PM |
| 9 | You can't change what you're attracted to. But most people can compromise on certain preferences.I have never seen this being a mainstream thing. A few morons on tiktok suggest it and are then widely mocked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 02:51 PM |
| 44 | manosphere dudes are turning off the very women they are trying attract and seem oblivious to this.The aim of a professionally produced podcast is making money. The best way to make money is to entertain the audience, which for most people is best done by putting big personalities who will argue with one another together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 02:43 PM |
| 2 | You can't change what you're attracted to. But most people can compromise on certain preferences.Men are taller than women. Women want their men to feel like a man in their arms. Are you implying short men aren't men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Do men not care about having female friends?You said "all women think the same". The equivalent would be saying "in summer, every day is hot and sunny" which is patently false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 08:55 AM |
| 7 | Do men not care about having female friends?So all men and all women are the same, except you just admitted they're not because outliers exist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingrefuses to elaborate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingyour mother was a hamster and your father smelled of elderberries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingyes, I just had milk and anchovies with The Wall last Tuesday. He confirmed that he is indeed approaching. It's Over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 02:49 AM |
| 3 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingdoesn't really matter since i cured my depression through nature, a good diet, and exercise. If you believe in the lies big pharma feeds you then you're dumber than a box of rocks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingit's over. the wall is approaching | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 02:42 AM |
| -2 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingI'm doing fine, luckily I don't suffer from subeightitis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 02:15 AM |
| -4 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingBut if a large subsection of society, especially those sharing certain immutable traits; begins to suffer as a result of socially conditioned expectations then we should address them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 02:08 AM |
| 3 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingstay depressed a thousand times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingThat's what the powers that be want. They want you to pump your veins full of poison so that you close your eyes to the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 01:30 AM |
| – | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingAre you trying to be funny, or are you just an idiot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 01:21 AM |
| -7 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingTheir generation was happier than ours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingThere are far more lonely people than there are food-insecure people in the west | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 12:56 AM |
| – | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingSex? No. But being lonely especially romantically is one of the worst possible things for your physical and mental health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 12:55 AM |
| -2 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingtwo of these a woman can control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 12:53 AM |
| 8 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingYou don't deserve a relationship with a specific person, but the average person absolutely deserves a fulfilling relationship. The same way that everyone besides the most evil individuals deserve food, but that doesn't mean you can raid random people's larders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 12:52 AM |
| 6 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingThe West is dying largely because our modern mating systems are producing a cripplingly low birthrate. If we continue with our current cultural views on feminism we will be minorities in our own countries in 100 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 12:50 AM |
| -4 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingI'm not in this position personally, but many of my less romantically successful fellow men don't want to have to settle for a woman when she decides to stop having casual sex and "settle down". Most want a committed relationship with someone with a similar n count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingwomen in fwb situations are lying about being single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 12:46 AM |
| 0 | Sexist/offensive "jokes"You work in the drag industry and spend your time on the internet moaning about your toxic friends and serious mental problems. I will not take moral grandstanding from the likes of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Does the concept of "LMS" - Looks/Money/Status need to be abolished and thought over?Why would you want to be with these people? I don't even like being friends with materialistic people as they irritate me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 03:09 PM |
| – | Sexist/offensive "jokes"You are an imbecile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 02:48 PM |
| 0 | Sexist/offensive "jokes"In dumb middle class circles this is true. It's why I prefer labouring and manual work over university-professional jobs. Everyone (of all backgrounds) has a laugh at each other's expense, and I get to spend all day lifting heavy things outside. Whereas in modern HR-heavy environments people are scared of their own shadows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 02:09 PM |
| 0 | Sexist/offensive "jokes"Punching up vs punching down is dependent on context and not something you can make a blanket rule about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Sexist/offensive "jokes"As someone who exceptionally briefly "dated" a slavic woman this is true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 12:22 PM |
| 0 | Sexist/offensive "jokes"What if said men made a similar amount of sexist jokes about both sexes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Men are hypogamous, and love opportunistically.I don't find women who are overly submissive in their day to day lives attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Online dating has permanently damaged the way we perceive and value others, both online and offline.swipes left | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 01:32 AM |
| 1 | How do you experience love?Isn't this how everyone experiences it? It's certainly how I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 04:52 PM |
| – | Sex is not a needFor most people, if it wasn't we'd have died out long ago. We're not insects with a specific reproductive class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 09:55 AM |
| – | Hot take: Women would care much less about height if there were widespread awareness about just how little correlation there is between height and penis size (and would also give more short and average guys chance, knowing there might be a pleasant surprise)I dont even have a penis it's over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 09:42 AM |
| – | Hot take: Women would care much less about height if there were widespread awareness about just how little correlation there is between height and penis size (and would also give more short and average guys chance, knowing there might be a pleasant surprise)The reason height matters to some is: When your society is patriarchal/ values cismales over all other genders, people start to select for the most cismasc traits as the most "valuable." If you were correct and it wasn't a general biological trend, your average straight man would be most attracted to masculine butch women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 09:40 AM |
| 1 | TBP encourages people to be mediocreUnderstandable. Alcohol is a significant part of my culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 07:56 AM |
| 1 | TBP encourages people to be mediocreI consider drinking to be a total deal breaker even if it's a beer a month. Drinking is dependent on context. My family will drink local beer and wine but not ever get drunk, and it's for flavour not the alcohol content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Woman really don't like most men sexuallySounds more like black pill. Red pill tends to say that looks don't matter and behaviour does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Narrowly defined masculinity / Book "No more Mr. Nice Guy!"You should never aim to become fearless, because this would make you a corpse or a lobotomy patient. Rather you should aim to embrace and enjoy fear as an integral aspect of the human experience, then disregard its impact into your decision making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 10:54 PM |
| 3 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?You just said the same thing in more words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 10:50 PM |
| 1 | women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where?I would say it's mostly men coping for the fact that women are dating guys less physically attractive than them. I'd do this too but I'm self-aware enough to know that I'm a terrible partner and that's why I'm single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 10:48 PM |
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