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Question For WomenThe_Forgotten001/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:40 AM
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Yes, except these are people whose opinions you care about. If you didn’t care you wouldn’t need body positivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 12:12 PM
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It would be irrelevant. How we feel about ourselves doesn’t matter if the woman we are attracted to don’t like it. Thats why men call body positivity delusional. You can feel how you want about yourself, but you can’t force me to share your mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 12:03 PM
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If that were true, prostitution would not exist here in America, China, Russia, England…. Or Amsterdam red light district. You’re assumption is that everyone makes more money and has a standard of living increase. that only scales with intelligence and opportunity. Meaning if the development of a country raises to be first world… You’re statement implies there would be no homeless or poor, because you believe the woman are sexpats out if poverty and not because they want to be (many do). Clearly…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:24 PM
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They have been this way since at least 2010. I think that was when the femcels sub was created.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:05 AM
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And I’m laughing at your ignorance. Women don’t care about criminality or morality. You did check the link. So stop being dishonest. Unless you need me to explain it line by line.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:28 AM
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What you are doing is called playing dumb. You understand the sentiment being said, yet because you have no response you choose to misinterpret or misrepresent. Thats called intellectual dishonesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:13 AM
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That would have the reverse effect. like how prisoners still get nudes and conjugal visits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:18 PM
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If you’re talking about independent workers, they usually tie it in with stripping. Normally they have 3 avenues of advertising plus the people who leave reviews on them and spread word of mouth (hah). The problems they normally have is marketing and protection from not getting paid by clients. The real money is in high end services, but at that level you’re competing with actresses and porn stars. Which leads to sugaring which is mid level at best. Guys don’t really have that type of option eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:08 AM
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This sounds more like someone who watched on the outside and thinks they understand why. Those men turned to TRP because they had no other option. You turn to redpill when you need answers and no one else will help.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:05 AM
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If you’re gay, nothing. If you’re straight… just use your observations. How often do you hear men praising their female friends for hoking them up? How often do you see them being mutually beneficial and not just one sided? How often has your female friends invited a male friend out and paid? If the answer is very little to none. That’s what guys do for guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:45 PM
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A large portion of men who are kind, stable, monogamous, and thoughtful don’t approach much at all, either because they’re introverted, cautious, fear being seen as a bother, or have learned (rightly or wrongly) that approaching isn’t welcome. So they’re largely invisible in dating spaces. From men’s perspective, when they say “there are tons of good men,” they’re often including: • men who work, pay their bills, don’t cheat • men who are decent friends, sons, coworkers • men who would be good p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:44 PM
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Genetics is rare. It’s rare to get someone who’s mental illness is degenerative to not being able to learn. C-ptsd is from trauma after an event, that affects learning but the base of our conversation was for healthy minded people. If you want to talk about the sick we can talk circles all day. Yes it does, as someone who was heavily invested in charter schools and their turn outs the result differ from your opinion. You would have to prove that students who lived in poor areas and went to good …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:46 PM
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Speaking in cryptics without elaboration. I see. Your mileage may vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:45 PM
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Merry Christmas to all who celebrate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:35 AM
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Degenerate behavior is a symptom of a lack of education. If they knew how to succeed correctly they would do it, but they don’t because they don’t know. So they do what they see works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:48 AM
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A lot of this gets framed as “guidance vs no guidance,” but money and time matter just as much. I grew up in a single-mother household and stayed crime-free, but I also saw kids raised by single moms, single dads, grandparents, and two parents. Even within my own family, my brother grew up with our grandparents while I grew up with our mom, and the pressures were different. Guidance matters, but it costs time and energy. Single mothers who aren’t on assistance are often making just enough to sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:39 AM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 08:43 PM
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I think she blocked me and can’t see my comments, hence why she’s doubling down on her lack of nuance. Notice how she didn’t respond to me directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 07:56 PM
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Yeah which I addressed in my last paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:24 PM
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Am I missing something? I’m not understanding what you’re saying. If 41% of criminals come from single mothers households as shown by your data…. And 35% come from 2 parent households…. Leaving 34% being other…. Single moms are broke…. Of course they are in economic straits because they purposely or for some reason or other choose not to double her income by being in a family. 41% is bigger than 35%. Single father households are richer, hence why the turn out rate is low on page 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:11 PM
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I understand what you did. But really think about it. Will a man admit he’s broke or incompetent to a woman he’s trying to impress? No. If he does, you won’t know because he’d keep it to himself or his friends. Guys don’t admit failure or incompetence just because you asked. Thats like me asking you… how old are you and what’s your weight? You could tell me the truth, but you have more incentive to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:19 PM
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Well if you’re his girlfriend sure. But the point was that “he” will still overspend and go into debt for you. You may feel differently but a simp sacrifices their own wellbeing. Sounds romantic but it’s not. He’s demonstrating financial instability.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:28 PM
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And that’s what makes him a simp. You’re content without him and he is the one planning/paying/driving because he knows you won’t. He’s performing for you in hopes it becomes real. You will only stay with him until a better option arrives. If it was reciprocal and you also planned dates and drove etc or provided a benefit other than sex, sure he wouldn’t be a simp. But as long as he’s doing all the emotional and physical lifting… he’s a simp. He’ll put himself at great financial insecurity just …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:53 PM
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Because whenever he asked the first time you made it difficult and proved you weren’t really interested, you didn’t even offer another suggestion. You made him do all the work with offering nothing back. He pretty much bribed you to go out. Which means that as long as he’s giving you things he’ll be your lover. It’s transactional, if you liked his personality or anything else you would have said it in the OP. The only thing you focused on was his one sided behavior. Not what you are doing to giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:35 PM
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That’s very correct, OP definitely isn’t aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:33 PM
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It lowers your drive, and decreases the dopamine you get from non-orgasms which leads to you not really “feeling like doing anything” If you workout or take testosterone supplements it usually doesn’t affect you too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:26 PM
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I think this varies by area, men go for what they can attain. By this logic of patterns there shouldn’t be anyone interested in Honeybooboo and my 600 pound wife show would not have high ratings. Also the divorce rate initiation by men would increase because those men would divorce their wife once disrespect and dead bedrooms kick in. Buy the stats show the opposite, even in attractive marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:19 PM
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Men are binary. If you don’t feel safe around random men, why would a random man approach? Should have used a different analogy besides the Louis C.K bear joke… which choose the bear is based on.the joke
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:13 PM
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Shy doesn’t mean cowardly, it just means they’re not talking to people first for social recreation. When it comes to business/work shy doesn’t apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 12:22 PM
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Then the fault of this model is that it’s impossible for the buyer to ever be at fault even if they use immoral or illegal methods which influence the buyer. You’re effectively saying it is okay for roofies and sexual harassment if that Is how he chooses to sell.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:32 AM
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Even if the seller is lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:27 AM
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Fair enough, The issue becomes how do you determine if someone is manipulating someone else. How do you know you’re not talking to the person manipulating? In interpersonal relationships most people just judge on the outside and corrupt a normal relationship where there was no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:20 AM
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That’s not womens fault that the shy guy is shy. People like confidence. Even in your statement it shows that. A woman walking up to a shy guy displays confidence. That’s what he would find attractive. The issue with the shy man is he’s not playing to his strengths. Also he’s only limiting himself to bold women. Shy women like confidence too, and confidence can be displayed in other ways. If the shy guy is brooding, that’s on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:17 AM
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Sugar babies. Hundreds of thousands of examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:11 AM
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They still make those? Does it light up?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:05 AM
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The OP says that women are the logical cause of dating issues. I’m asking you if you think that it’s women’s fault for being convinced by a man who is a great “seller”. You’re assuming that the men are perfect sellers every time and that the women just can’t see that they’re great… that’s how OP reads to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:04 AM
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This is more on an individual thing than a gendered thing. To challenge your analogy you can sell a product that the buyer doesn’t know they want until they see it. Sometimes you want to try before you buy, and other times you stick to what you know. Sometimes you have a great product but your marketing sucks. It’s not the buyers fault the seller doesn’t know how to sell. As an example I bring you pet rocks. Master level marketing on a rock. They made bank. Is it the buyers fault for purchasing?…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:57 AM
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The redpill gurus are out to make money, if you’re successful then they can’t keep making money. They will tell you how to attract insecure women, but not tell you how to keep them. Redpill was supposed to be a tool box not an instruction set. It’s purpose was solely for hookups, it was anti-relationship. For that you would have to follow married redpill which advocates for a captain-first mate dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:37 AM
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Remember anna nicole smith? That poor woman. Getting manipulated into millions of dollars by dating an old millionaire who wrote her in his will before he died. He was such a manipulative bastard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:22 AM
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You’re mistaking the reason why “dick heads” get more women. Its because those types of guys ignore boundaries and pursue everything. Someone who respects boundaries or keeps to themselves often has reduced exposure and opportunities. His personality isn’t the problem, his methods is. Can we say society is failing young men? Ultimately no. It’s the role of the parent to teach kids how to be social and guide them through issues. The lack of you mentioning what his parents said or did already says…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:13 AM
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He didn’t have a social guiding figure. The difference is as an attractive woman dating opportunities come to you. As a man you have to make opportunities. His failure to pursue or place himself in the right environment is the result. He most likely asked his sister for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 08:27 AM
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You’re noticing when you triggered an ego argument. It’s both men and women. Men are more willing to acquiesce due to peace keeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 11:21 PM
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Okay so then you don’t have a point if you’re using dictionary definition as men and women both subjugated each other but women unlike men created a gendered movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:24 PM
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Define subjugation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:13 PM
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Then could one not argue that discontented females created feminism which lead to discontented males?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:06 PM
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TRP is about picking up women. Mgtow is about self empowerment. They were created with those purposes in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:54 AM
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That’s always been going on for years, this is my seventh account. I’ve had accounts with crazy karma gone, because of misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:41 AM
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When someone uses the word incorrectly from the standard definition, people will instantly instinctively ignore your claim. Because incorrect usage demonstrates ineptitude. You don’t argue with ineptitude, because when you think they hit rock bottom… they pull out a shovel.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:13 AM
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Good thing it’s copy pasted from my response! Thanks for complimenting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:51 PM
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Romance isn’t a reliable indicator of whether someone ‘settled.’ It’s way more complex than that. Romantic behavior tends to follow four things: 1. Personality – Some people are expressive, some aren’t. 2. Skill/experience – Not everyone grew up seeing healthy affection modeled. 3. Relationship stage – Honeymoon energy fades, routine sets in. 4. Emotional safety – People stop being romantic when they feel unappreciated, disconnected, or stressed. Attraction plays a role, sure — but it’s not the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:14 AM
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This is an interesting take, but it only really describes a subset of men — not the whole group of lonely ones. And that’s where the conversation tends to go off the rails. A lot of guys aren’t sitting around wishing for 1950s women or submissive partners. Many just lack social exposure, struggle with friendship deficits, deal with anxiety, have limited dating opportunities, or grew up without environments that helped them build social confidence. Loneliness isn’t caused by one fantasy template …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:08 AM
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You’re framing this like trauma automatically becomes “an excuse.” It isn’t. But it does change how people develop, how they attach, and how long it takes them to unlearn things. And your entire argument assumes one thing that isn’t true: that everyone starts with the same tools, the same support, and the same emotional wiring. You ask why you should pity a 30-year-old who hasn’t healed when you’ve seen teenagers improve faster. The answer is simple: because healing isn’t a linear race and peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:49 PM
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Look, I’m not asking you to accept that everyone’s past is neat or that every guy is “good.” But arguing that every man who struggles or avoids true intimacy is “lazy or selfish” isn’t analysis — it’s moral shorthand. There are men who avoid emotional work because they’re scarred, inexperienced, scared, or raised without examples. That doesn’t excuse poor behavior — but it does mean there’s a difference between “can’t” and “won’t.” If you demand exclusivity, clarity, and maturity — fine. But don…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:27 PM
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You’re arguing as if the only explanation for poor relationship communication is laziness or selfishness. But that framing ignores an entire category of men — the ones who struggle because of trauma, inexperience, or emotional conditioning, not apathy. Not everyone avoids commitment because they “don’t care.” Some avoid it because they’ve never been taught healthy communication, or because past relationships punished vulnerability instead of rewarding it. That doesn’t excuse bad behavior — but i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:12 PM
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This reads less like an analysis of men and more like a vent at a very specific type of guy. You’re right about one core point: You can’t demand exclusivity from someone you’re not actually in a relationship with. Partnership requires communication, reciprocity, and clarity — not just hanging out and having sex. But the rest of your argument flattens a lot of different male experiences into one stereotype. There’s a big difference between: • men who don’t want commitment, • men who want it but l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:21 PM
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You can’t ascribe insecurity to the collective when insecurity is measured by the subjective perception of the person. But let’s go with your argument. What is insecurity? What is making them insecure specifically? And which men are you referring to? Your father? Jealous and fear have to be defined. Jealous of what? What do they want but can’t get? Experience is intangible yet can still be learned from others. Define what you mean by experience especially experienced women. What do they experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:13 AM
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Yes it’s fleeting attention, essentially they are treated like sugar babies. They also get dropped like one too, that’s when provider starts becoming a common phrase in their vocabulary.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 02:02 PM
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They say you lack social skills because they lack the vocabulary and emotional understanding to say, that you are probably dating in either the wrong environment, surrounded by people that don’t match your personality or you probably come off as neutral to women. Second point. The women who have dates…. Where did they meet these men? At gatherings? Hobby events? They placed themselves in areas to meet men that suit them. Place yourself in areas that the type of woman you like would be at. If you…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 01:51 PM
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True, what the girls fail to realize is… if they are a bonus that means they’re replaceable. The ones who built with you are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 01:43 PM
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I’m not working to have a good life and be happy just for a woman. They are the finish line if you’re a simp. If you have your own goals and mission they are a bonus
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 10:46 PM
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Where did you mention teens?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:13 PM
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Shower and cologne with clean new form fitting clothes. You’re problem is you’ve never once asked yourself what would cause you to attract you as a female. Also you have to accept not every female is compatible with you. Don’t confuse rejection with incompatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:22 AM
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It’s because they’ve gone unchallenged for too long. Most of the time it’s clear projection… and the occasional female troll. Don’t doubt the amount of posters who have multiple accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 07:17 PM
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No one needs a dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:38 AM
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They don’t care so much about the job but more so how you make it sound. Describe the perks of Travel and they’ll be more interested. Working a blue collar job isn’t what the problem is. You just have to make your job sound like a benefit to them. If a woman likes you she’ll make an exception. Blue collar men get married all the time…(look up divorce by profession).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:14 PM
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That argument doesn’t work because it applies to women in equal measure. To say it’s only men would be a misandrist statement if not proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:43 PM
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“These men received no Empathy or emotional support after their break up, so to fix that I’m going to berate them and call them losers! Because nothing motivates a man more to do something than by insulting him” If you see someone needs help, be a human and be compassionate. A closed fist shakes no hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:06 PM
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Do you know any women in your life who are staying with men who do nothing for them? Because that implies he did nothing from the start and she was into it. Do you know any woman that get an ambitious man and stays once he loses ambition? Because you may just be believing hyperbolic stories people are saying or you’re listening to the super minority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:00 PM
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Your issue is with what women value. Not what they find attractive. What they value defines their attraction. You should know by now that if it were truly an issue for women they would be petitioning the government, or doing marches or something. But they’re not, because odds are even though they are complaining they either… still have an ex/fwb/BD they’re sleeping with… or they’re still going on dates, which means they’re meeting the men they’re initially attracted to(or hungry) they can’t keep…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:54 PM
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I suspect what the real issue is what women value. I think guys are confusing women’s standards as what they value… when what they value determines their standards. Women that valued money will just approach more men with money. Women that value looks will just approach men who are hot. Women who value personality will not approach. Edit#1 they don’t approach because they test for confidence, with them the approach is the attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:32 PM
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Men are protective of their family! Such a wild concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:24 PM
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One day you’ll double check yourself, just because you want men to have as much sex as women… it’s not true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:18 PM
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You are projecting, there are self sufficient 18 year olds. Some people have to grow up faster than others in less than ideal conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:13 PM
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“The guys who actually value their friends hear feedback and adjust their behavior.” False, guy friends rarely give involuntary feedback. If a guy is an ass they’d kick him out rather than tell him. Since you admitted in previous post that your guy friends are lgbt, they shouldn’t be used to compare how a heterosexual man is in a relationship with a woman. You say that the woman “warned” the guy…. But what does that entail? Normally when I hear a comment like that, it’s a “why didn’t you read my…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:44 AM
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Sexual innuendo. There. Now you know what flirting is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:33 PM
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How is what your saying different from me?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 12:11 PM
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You are correct. The only difference between a friendship and a relationship is the sexual aspect. Inb4 sex isn’t intimacy. It depends on the person, but thats not something you do with your friends unless FWB… in which case the only difference would be starting a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:08 AM
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The mods have changed more times than you have changed your mind. You say you have a different mindset, yet your posts and topics still focus on how much you dislike men. Same topic. 10 years. You learned nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:57 PM
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I want to point out that lilith has been in this sub over 10 years making the same posts. She is incapable of changing her mind at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:08 AM
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Ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:05 AM
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Not being cooperative. Not willing to admit being wrong. Not communicating with your partner about your wants and needs and expecting them to be a mind reader
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 09:54 PM
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Now you’re reaching. That literally says people. That isn’t saying all men. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:38 PM
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I never made that claim you are making things up. Provide the quote or stop lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:34 PM
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Since you are either a sock puppet account for lillith, or a close friend,I’ll point you to my comment that you didn’t read.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:06 PM
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Yes. I know this. The men she’s complaining about exhibit those traits. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 06:22 AM
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Hahaha you always run when you cornered. Btw you can’t be implicit in a debate. It’s a low IQ move, if you don’t know why… well keep making that mistake and getting angry. So this is an admission by you that you know you are complaining about people with a mental disorder. How futile.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:29 PM
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So why are you complaining about people with narcissistic personality disorder? Thats the question. Where is the answer? Please do not play dumb. Do not try personal attacks if you can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:45 PM
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When you know you’re wrong you avoid the question. Please answer my question. Actually read it, because you are misrepresenting what I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:22 AM
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Like my comment said. Why are you complaining about narcissistic people? It’s like saying a blind man can’t see and making it a conference.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:15 AM
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I wish you actually read my comment before making up the response you wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:14 AM
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That’s not men, you’re just describing narcissistic people. Women do a version of this too. What exactly are you expecting to happen? If they are narcissists they literally will never change. It’s a mental disorder. There’s a difference between lack of empathy and just not being aware. No empathy means they can’t relate to others. Meaning they don’t have friends. Why complain about men with no friends? Do you want to be their friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:03 AM
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Confirmation Bias. You only see what you look for. You hang out in places that talk about women woes and demonize those men no questions asked. Now you think all men lack sympathy or empathy for women. Forgetting that you don’t look for the male side. Forgetting that simps exist Forgetting about white knights But you could just be points farming.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:13 PM
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That’s a lie, because if you do no fault you split property. The man would file for adultery to not have his stuff taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:46 PM
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incorrect they cheat at a similar rate Edit “It's often assumed that men cheat more than women, and while this is true, for unmarried couples the difference isn't substantial. A study by the Kinsey Institute found that 23% of men and 19% of women have cheated. However, the gap widens significantly for married couples. According to the 2022 General Social Survey (GSS), 20% of men and 13% of women admitted to infidelity. Additionally, 67% of men and 53% of women who cheated on their spouse did so …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:41 PM
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Yes, they would be called people with social skills. I’m not saying it’s right. It’s just what they are going to do. Without being physically attractive the interaction doesn’t happen. Without the interaction he can’t gain experience. Once he’s attractive he goes from a desert to an ocean of options. He’s going to treat the women how they treated him. Or a better analogy. It’s like someone who went from 0$ to a 1,000,000 they are going to wild out… until reality sets in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:29 AM
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The manosphere is just trying to get guys laid, not have long lasting marriages. As such the advice targets women that have a high libido. Learning how to have a relationship comes after they learn to be attractive for them. I was attractive enough to be in a 15 year relationship that ended in tragedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:54 AM
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/ I think it's also true that very few men can empathize with being constantly rejected after you've let your guard down and given yourself physically to someone who fabricated their personality./ Divorced and deadbedroom men beg to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:16 AM
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How would you even know that when no fault divorce is the most common reason for divorce? Do not interpret my words as hostile. I am trying to have a friendly debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:58 AM
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“and I’ll shut the fuck up about dating, that’s for them to figure out. That’s the single best thing a parent can do, just let your kids find out for themselves.” And the cycle of Redpill continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:49 AM
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Men and women cheat at the same rate…. What are you talking about? Stop making things up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:44 AM
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Emotions are fleeting feelings. You never feel one way for too long. What do you have left once the emotion fades? Emotions are illogical. Logic is left. Love is an emotion. Men are known for being practical and keeping their word. It is practical to stay with someone you’re with who is doing what you need. It is logical to keep your word. If a man doesn’t keep his word he’s looked at as untrustworthy bottom of the barrel scum. Men hate people who do not keep their word. It is impractical to tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:36 AM
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Out 100 matches it sounds like you think a guy will get a match. Thats not the case. 100 swipe limit per day, meaning after 10 days that’s over 1000 bios for the hope of matching with at least 1. Then when you match you have to hope she responds to your first 2 messages. If she doesn’t respond after the second day, you gotta start all over. How does being selective speed this up?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:08 PM
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Look no further than how Eunuchs act if you want to see no sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:01 PM
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I Think I understand the core of what you mean. Being a douche really just translates to be willing to take social risks. When you act like a douche you put on the persona like you don’t care to act as an emotional shield so that when you do offend/make a mistake it’s “intentional”. It’s basically fake it until you make it. Eventually all “douche bags” tone down with experience to become “smooth”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:48 AM
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There’s multiple things wrong with your statement. It’s not worth addressing since you missed the point. Is quite interesting how you read the same words but you’re incapable of understanding what an example is. Fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:41 PM
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I agree with you, however you would only be friends with people you approve of. So you wouldn’t see the example you’re talking about. Like incels hang with incels and they think everyone is like them except for “chad” even though that’s not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 11:14 AM
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Pretty funny, that’s literally how men feel when asking for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 10:26 AM
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Not going to deny that, NYC was the first and last time I got approached by a girl.( she needed directions to a club and asked me to go with her)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:48 AM
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I’ll check out NYC then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:45 AM
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You’ll have to say where because In over 15 years I’ve yet to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:42 AM
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Lack of socialization, lack of a way to connect with women due to men having very male interests. Women want men to approach for platonic friendships…. Which makes no sense. Men don’t have any role models anymore. Thats important because of the amount of men raised by single moms with no fathers around don’t know what men do. Men(people really) learn by example and if there’s no example they have to make it up without knowing the rules. No men’s friends aren’t going to help them. That’s how it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:41 AM
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People who “learned red pill” don’t have high self esteem. Also… it’s incredibly hard to find a Hot AND kinky girl. In my experience 8-10 are like super plain when it comes to sex. Missionary or doggy, if you’re just as attractive she might even give you a terrible blow job. 4-7 more varied sexually (or would to explore, how many hot swingers have you seen?!?!)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:27 AM
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As someone who knows/was there for trp origins (as far as bodybuilding.com days) Red pill is a set of observations that you choose to use or ignore. Chad was never a goal in the “old days” chad was a mocking name for the “naturals”. Anyway I say that to say…. Red pill is an idea. Can’t kill an idea. How people interpret the idea is up to individual interpretation. ….. the same way Feminism is an idea and feminist express that idea differently.(some think sex work is empowering others don’t, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:14 AM
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Dude. It’s really just a game of chicken. If a woman ever accuses you of it, you have to own it. Actually the only way to “win” is to agree and amplify confidentially. For the record no woman has ever shamed me for wanting sex, but if they did I would say “yes. I like sex…. Too bad you never had it, you should try it.” If they say I’m a pervert for liking sex. 1. That would be baseless and a clear lie. 2. She has an agenda 3. She doesn’t care about the truth So I would randomly accuse them of so…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:51 AM
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Between two healthy people sure, but you’re OP didn’t differentiate between what people you are targeting. There are more unhealthy people than healthy people anyway, everyone has something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:09 AM
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Have you not seen the online dating profiles that advertise they are pedofiles, wife beaters and rapists…. And the women still argue to meet with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:05 AM
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Yes, I do. You are using a general definition for a general consensus. In a vacuum your definition works, but those same traits you listed can be seen as desirable to a individual for one reason or another and think some one who is kind is weak. Who is thoughtful is hesitant. Who is empathetic is a doormat, etc. it’s all based on perspective of the individual
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:50 AM
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What’s defined as a shitty person is subjective to the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:33 AM
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Your point goes with the assumption that these men have never interacted with women or had a girlfriend before. You find redpill to figure out what went wrong. You use red pill to correct your weakness. You’re confusing redpill men with pick up artists/incel men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:14 PM
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No. This is not an exaggeration. Cambridge-quincy-harvard sq, Somerville all of Boston. Even down to Worcester.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 04:13 AM
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Women don’t pursue. If I don’t then we just awkwardly stare at each other. Do I like having to do all the heavy lifting? No. But much like eating you have to do it to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:54 AM
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No…. This is true in deep liberal states like MASS. MA is liberal home ground. Like 98% women here are liberal, I dated a professor from UMASS. The majority are like that here. This is the type of liberal place that believes black peoples can’t be racist(I’m black) because of systemic power.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:15 PM
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You see men are human beings like women. When someone feels the effort they give is not an equivalent exchange back to them….. they feel cheated. No one is talking about perfect couples, when those men say that. It’s because of an imbalance. Why don’t you ask what she is doing to balance it out? What is she doing to deserve said treatment and what does she give in return? Why do you never ask or state what the woman is doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:38 PM
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Men help men in shared male only spaces. Men help those that are relatable, get rid of male spaces(Boy Scouts, that group in UK that was forced to put their wives in the group) men suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:20 AM
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That’s we’re talking Comes into play. Clearly you are rational enough (I hope) to see a man waving a gun around frantically…… would be seen as dangerous. You can tell by looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:26 PM
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I don’t know why Men and Women see all men as a threat. With a discerning eye you can normally tell, I think people are just more shy nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:57 PM
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So women have an easier in group bias universally, meaning all women don’t see women as a threat, and you feel it’s unfair that men see each other as an island?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:04 AM
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By working on my social skills and becoming charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 08:32 PM
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Neither as I do not have these problems as I already solved them for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 07:21 PM
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When men Perform random acts of kindness and compliments…. He will be looked at as Gay. Men used to have places we could gather, but they have been dissolved and replaced with unisex groups. Just because someone can explain something, doesn’t mean they are experiencing it themselves. I’m charismatic in real life. I have both genders as friends. I’ve long ago figured out that people won’t care about a man unless he produces value for people. So that’s way men don’t hello random men. Only men that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:23 PM
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You still get them from Women, and that alone is still a big network.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:20 PM
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The issue is that the mature women only desire the good men, when they notice their options decreasing…. Otherwise they would be married, implying they are settling for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:35 AM
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It’s always going to be skewed because women won’t ever realize how much nicer people are to them by default. As a man people don’t start random conversation. You don’t get compliments. People don’t randomly offer discounts or help with stuff. Networking is harder because everyone is already against you from the start. People are always default rude and suspicious to you no matter what. Worse of all, No one laughs at my bad jokes and makes me feel funny!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 12:16 PM
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It sounds so wild to me, to imagine some guy coming up to your gf/wife and punches her in the face…. And you’re okay with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:55 AM
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Society: “It takes a village to raise a child” Single moms “hold my Gucci Bag”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:50 AM
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And? They still broke up over reasons…. As in something that bothered them… something they can talk about. What was the point of the stat? It’s irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:43 AM
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People break up for reasons. Saying they break up all the time is disingenuous. It’s like saying going to a hospital doesn’t matter, people die all the time! So don’t take care of your health! If you know the cause you can find a compromise in most cases. Oh? What exactly is “experience being young and single?” Because that just sounds like you want sex from random people. You can have fun in a relationship married couples do it all the time. If he talks to you about wanting a family and has a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:31 AM
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Oh I know they don’t care about the numbers. They just want to get you in a gotcha and say they “won” the argument. If they were genuine they would follow the idea and go with the premise or check the census themselves. They don’t. Because they don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:27 AM
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You’re saying that a population of 2 million will exceed the cost of 15million in food and resources?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:01 AM
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Because common sense tells you that it’s bigger. You’re clearly just looking to argue to be right. You don’t care about the numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:58 AM
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Yes it does nation wide out of 150 million people only 2 million men are in jail. Thats less than 1% of the population. The black population alone 41 million, Has over 47% for single moms… nation wide. Thats just one demographic. So unless you’re bad at math….they cost more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:47 AM
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Don’t need to, when there are more than 2 million single moms. They outnumber the criminals in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:49 AM
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Only 2 million men are in prison. There are more than 2 million single moms. So no. Single moms consume more resources than people in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:14 PM
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I just think it’s funny you have the same talking points as the male incels. I think it’s even funnier that now that women are doing the same thing men do, they don’t like it. Why is it wherever you look up women talking about good guys or their perfect man they say they divorce them or don’t like them. Don’t believe me? Just type divorce my perfect guy on youtube or TikTok, tons of examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:02 PM
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Not my fault, you don’t care about any other career but your own. Careers real estate, career nurses, career security females, career fast food workers. Yes they quit, and if It wasn’t true I wouldn’t have hit a nerve with you. The amount if female lawyers is lower considering all other careers. Besides all the female lawyers I have met have quit. So what now Edit#1 just realized you shifted the goal posts, I never said they changed careers, I said they quit. Reading comprehension please. Your h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:30 PM
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That’s one career. And plenty do out of your state. Look up maternity leave and how many stay after, for different careers and not your only one view.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:09 PM
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Well From this bit is misandry, I know how you feel about men. So because women choose to only date men, who earn more than them and women saying they don’t date broke men…. And since women won’t date a guy who isn’t providing for them… and since on average most career women who get pregnant quit their job anyway (you’d know that if you knew any pregnant career women) forcing the man to be the sole provider despite how he feels about it. You think they deserve half for forcing a situation? (If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:44 AM
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That’s not what I said. The success rate of single fathers is higher than that of single mothers. No one likes paying child support. Single mothers receive the most child support, ergo if there are more single fathers, the mothers would be paying child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:30 AM
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You never checked the success rate of children raised by single fathers. Society would be better lol. you’d also be asking the single moms to pay child support, They won’t like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:01 PM
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Maturity can happen at ages 20-29 just because they’re young doesn’t mean they don’t share traits, hobbies and values of someone older. Besides it really doesn’t matter anyway, women don’t typically hangout with straight men they’re not in a relationship with anyway. So Men and women will share the same differences at 20 as they do at 35. So age is irrelevant, as long as they are legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:05 PM
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You said many guys but that’s untrue. Because the average man isn’t even rich enough to trade up. And even if they did that means she was someone who waited at the finish line Purple pill means you see merit in both sides but you also see the fallacies in the philosophy. I used to be OG redpill but I put it into practice and I know what works why it works what doesn’t and why it doesn’t… because I actually did it. Thats not how gold digging works. If you never been lovebombed youll never underst…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:14 PM
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I’m not redpill. Women cheat at the same rate as men… what’s your point? Paranoia? I’ve been the victim of gold digging. I’ve been the victim of false paternity, I’ve been falsey accused of rape. No. This is reality. Celebrities aren’t the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:06 PM
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1.Guys want a family on their terms and they want a family that will be stable. Someone who waits at the finish line only proves they are patient and opportunistic. Whats a personal problem? I do not have any of these issues. I came back from a date last night so…… idk what you’re on about. If you doubt me I could upload on porn hub and date it for you. Yea I agree there’s a lack of accountability of the women who choose the wrong guy…. Everytime. That’s statistically no possible. If that happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:59 AM
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Good guys are young guys building themselves up. Good guys only and I mean ONLY accept and are 100% loyal to those who were with them while they were building. If they make it to the top on their own, then everyone else is just an option that they owe nothing to. Since they lived on their own and made all that money and their life on their own with no help…. Why would they value someone who just shows up once all the hard work is done? Doesn’t make sense no man would see any woman coming to him …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:23 AM
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What one considers wasting money is subjective. As such it’s not a waste of money having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:26 PM
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People do whats fun. Men don’t find wasting money fun. Also, the social climate and atmosphere today is way different then when you were dating. Men aren’t as social or outgoing as previous generations. Today’s generation understands consent and that inherently requires hesitancy caution and fear. Fear of rejection and Jail (potential) makes men avoid anything that isn’t a clear sign of yes or a guaranteed return. To add that women tend to also be adverse towards straight men, makes it difficult…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:33 PM
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Yes, and since we know he is interested. Hence the question. And since we know he wants to know her. It’s no choice at all. He has to do it. He wants to know her. It’s a false choice. You don’t have to breathe. You can hold your breath…. Same logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:33 AM
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She set the terms. It’s an ultimatum. He can’t see her, if he wants to only bang her. The problem here is that you’re equating the only reason he wants to date her is for sex. That’s not dating, that’s a hook up. Dating is for the intention of a family. Sex is irrelevant in that case for getting to know her. So if he wants to find out if she’s wife material…. He has no choice but to agree. She won’t demonstrate it any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:29 AM
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Since I already stated that he should leave her to date religious men. She is forcing him because that is her terms to get to know her. Since he wants to get to know her. He has to wait. If he wasn’t interested then this wouldn’t be a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:54 AM
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I really hope you’re not confusing Reddit behavior with real life behavior. Men complain online because it’s one of the few times people will listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:10 PM
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Religious men wouldn’t have a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 09:02 AM
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Disagree That’s not companionship. That’s a relationship. A friend with benefits isn’t companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:15 AM
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It’s literally what I said. Companionship is platonic friendship. Men don’t date for a platonic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:13 AM
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The planet where men date with intention. Men are companions to their wives. But they didn’t date their wife only to be platonic friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:01 AM
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Empathy for a man who is spending 3 months of his TIME and MONEY, for something he might not even be sure he likes. Once again it’s a false choice, if he wants to date her he is forced. You can keep reducing the conversation to be about sex, but it’s not. The Tragedy will be finding out they are not compatible after the three months. So he wasted TIME and MONEY. While she is probably dating other men. So yes, poor bloke indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:37 AM
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So you admit he is forced into it. Thank you. You also are admitting that she has him labeled as free food since he will be paying for all the dates for 3 months while she only sits there. You’re also showing that you don’t have empathy and you are outright hostile when it comes to men. Anyway, the real question is why wait 3 months to find out the same thing you learned in the first 2 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:25 AM
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He is forced if he wants to get to know her we know he does because he’s in this scenario. So yes he is forced to wait on sex with her if he wants to get to know her. So she is forcing him. (See how I used your own logic) You can wait in line but not get on…. But those people wouldn’t have been in line in the first place. Also I’m not seeing women choosing to stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:17 AM
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Yes, she is forcing him to wait if he’s interested. You don’t have to wait in line at a rollercoaster…. Unless you want to ride it then you have no choice. Or said another way, if someone says your money or your life, they aren’t forcing you to give up your money. You misconstrued the companionship sentiment. When you have a family you have companionship, anyone who had been in a long term relationship knows that. But a man isn’t dating to make friends (companionship).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:10 AM
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The issue here is that’s it’s not a fair equivalence. While she is forcing that man to wait, they are still going on dates. Dates he is paying for. She is getting all the benefits of dating while not having to “give” anything back. A man doesn’t date for companionship (normal men don’t) they date for a family or for sex. That avg man is nothing but a foodie call because he is not even promised sex after 3 months….. unlike the promised dates the women is getting. Best advice is for that man to le…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:28 AM
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Have your pick of any Incel you find
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 02:38 AM
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Ahh so that’s why you’re defensive, you’re taking it personally, I’m guessing you don’t know what narcissistic traits are. Anyway…. Also I’m pretty sure i’m older than you and have been in a relationship longer than you are currently…. As long as you can beat 15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 12:09 PM
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Lol, you just wanted to vent and chose someone unrelated to do so. Every other women treats me fine, but for some reason the ones with septum piercings are always aggressive. Learn to read what’s being said, not what you want to see. It’s sad really.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:40 AM
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Yes, you have proven to be ignorant of the point. Clearly you have a septum piercing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:04 PM
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What are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:51 PM
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I was being sarcastic. You took a personal observation that was localized to a particular subset of individuals that I interacted with and extrapolated that I was talking about all Females. You weren’t even engaging in basic debate. Obviously how they interact is based on a subjective view… but when you see a continuous pattern that others have also observed and commented about hence, the OP you can then at least know it’s not only me. If it was… then the OP wouldn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:45 PM
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Sick burn
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:22 PM
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Which men? Be specific…. I don’t think gay men care about hating women. Don’t think men currently married care. Single men who aren’t dating don’t care. Players? But they’re the ones fucking so they clearly like women. Have you ever consistently gone out of your way to fuck something you hate consistently? Don’t think so. Which men Hate Onlyfans? If they’re paying for it they don’t hate it. Have you ever had a subscription to something you abhor and paid it for months on end? Didn’t think so. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:08 PM
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Cheating, being shitty and etc used to have social consequences because people in the past were way more religious than they are now. Lest we forget Marriage is a religious tradition. When people were putting on a front of being religious they were more afraid of being ostracized. Today people are more agnostic if anything and have their own separate social circles that know what kind of person their friend is. Odds are they knew about it from the start and well… “in for a penny in for a pound.”…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:51 AM
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Every American women I have encountered and dated with a nose ring so far has been very confrontational and narcissistic. I say it tracks for western women with bull rings specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:09 AM
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Very hyperbolic of you to twist my point to the absurd by making assumptions I didn’t claim. Due to the nature of my work I interact with a lot of people and also at the court system. Spend some time there instead of your idealized theories that everyone sings kumbyah and gets along. The very fact that you also got upset at my comment proves you’ve have been told this numerous times and you refuse to believe what your eyes see and others reiterate. And again the topic was about Gold diggers I fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:09 AM
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Um no, there are plenty abundant around my area here in MA. And what use is her money if she doesn’t spend it on the relationship and only on herself. Doesn’t matter if she makes 100k a year if she expects the man to pay all the bills. Women aren’t looking to be a breadwinner, and the ones that are aren’t going to be in that relationship after 5-7 years
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:56 AM
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Gold digging is when one party expects the other party to spend all their money on them while they give nothing back other than being attractive. If the play for them is alimony or child support, they can act normal until it’s time to cash in. If you yourself aren’t like that, odds are you won’t have friends like that and you will think it happens rarely. If you think gold digging is a myth then you also would have to believe that all men on child support abandoned their children and all men on …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 02:42 AM
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Think about what you’re saying. If he’s dating multiple women, then he’s a great texter. He will not have that problem. If he is working a job where he can’t text 9-5 but can afterwards, you are saying that he’s a bad person because he’s working or would rather talk. It’s a terrible method of vetting basing it on texting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:06 PM
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They won’t because women won’t tell them they don’t like they’re texting style or availability
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:00 PM
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Once again I don’t have these issues as I am an adult and I let my dates know that I don’t text a lot and I’d rather talk. The only people who have a problem seem to be those chronically on their phones.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:59 PM
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I don’t have this issue, so it doesn’t apply to me. I see it with others in how the current dating landscape is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:38 PM
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The point of my comment is that you want them to talk to you during the work day, while they are working. Besides it’s better to call than text.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:36 PM
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I addressed that in my first comment, stating you don’t want a simple hi
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:47 PM
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Must be nice to have a job you can be on your phone all day. No one is saying not to text after work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:35 PM
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That sounds nice, the issue is you want that communication during working hours. Not a simple whats up, you want a full blown conversation of how his day is at that moment. And when he is having a boring day where nothing is happening and he doesn’t text because of that, you’ll interpret it as low effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:03 PM
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You only weed out bad texters, and encourage players or guys with tons of time on their hands. Most men are too busy working
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:01 AM
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Men just want not fat. You’re also going to have to define what you mean by men not in shape. Are you seeing obese guys, super skinny guys, dad bod guys? Most men aren’t going to be into fashion and upkeep like gay guys. So I really hope you’re not using them as a standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:13 AM
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If she insisted on paying even though she was broke, she probably already knew there would be no follow up date. Probably had nothing to do with you paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:10 AM
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Healthy people admit fault, narcissist avoid blame
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:48 AM
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Me personally no. I’m not saying I haven’t seen it done to my friends. With me the worst they do is a fake number.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:00 PM
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As long as there are desperate and inexperienced men, the apps will exist. It’s hard to get men to organize anything. Look at men’s rights activists. Bet you didn’t know they existed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:36 PM
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I’m aware, Thats why I said it’s okay to not be interested if I sensed hesitation. They still do it anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:00 PM
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You’re asking for pairty. You are forgetting one key fact about men. We rarely complain, whereas women will be vocal over any inconvenience. Women complained about height to the app and they got it in the app. Men complain about weight….to themselves and nothing changes. Even if it was on the app, they would just leave it blank so it would accomplish nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:58 AM
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I can’t see any woman paying for the app. With 15% of the male population nationwide mind you being over 6ft… and have to be single and looking and make certain amount of money…. They’ll go through all the available men in 2 weeks - 1 month for their city.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:47 AM
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Part of me wonders if they are confusing arrogance with confidence, or if they really mean Charisma when they say confidence. Can’t say I’ve ever had a negative blow up on approach, I have gotten fake numbers, despite me telling the girls it’s okay if they don’t want to. After that I just transitioned to picking up women online or at work(hospital). Way more straightforward for me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:34 AM
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No, I’ve been fucking women who are into bdsm…. For years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:20 AM
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I am fully aware of what TRP would say. But I have actual experience, and have dated actual girls who are into it. I even picked up girls from Reddit, if you know how to talk to women then you don’t have to worry about it. Since I possess social skills, emotional intelligence, looks and charisma… I’m fine. I’ve been doing this for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:06 AM
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You don’t know what bdsm is if that’s what you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:52 AM
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That’s basic stuff not even bdsm
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:51 AM
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Nah, trust me. Definitely not. Normal women are sexually adventurous sure…. But most don’t ask to be punched in the face because they like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:40 AM
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Men are natural providers…. For their families. Last I checked a girlfriend isn’t a wife, neither is a baby mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:55 AM
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By doing so you’re only going to attract women who like abuse and bdsm ask me how I know 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:50 AM
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It was a two parter. Right below it in the same comment. And happiness is subjective but eh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:33 AM
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Your underlying presumption is if they grew up healthy , and experienced no trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:02 AM
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You are treating women as if they are all the same. You sir are in for a rude awakening.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:51 AM
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They like leadership, but every woman defines a man different and defines strength differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:48 AM
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Because if men aren’t logical we die. Is that a man waving a gun saying hes going to kill somebody? I better not be around him. Or should i just assume he’s being emotional and venting and hang around. Hmmm that lady had three divorces and put each husband on alimony…. Guess she just chose wrong i better marry her quick! Iogic protects
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:46 AM
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Yes, as someone who’s very very familiar with Asian culture. I also asked if they were happy. They are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:43 AM
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You’re either purposely missing the point or you didn’t understand my point. The people in the relationship already are at that level or the relationship wouldn’t have happened. You are describing a mind reader. Adults have the ability to say what they mean and want. Children are the ones who can’t voice their thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:42 AM
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If the car’s computer can’t detect the problem and it’s obvious it’s a problem, then the computer is faulty and needs to be fixed until it detects the obvious problem that everyone sees. But cars don’t have the ability to talk like women can. A mechanic isn’t playing mind reader when fixing the car. A mechanic has an idea of a problem because it’s displayed. You are describing the mindset of a mindreader. A person can say what their issue is. They can use their adult voice and vocalize it, or th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:40 AM
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Well the truth is not something socially acceptable, so I will respond with this observation. Marriages that have lasted 7+ years all share a dynamic. One person follows another person leads. How many female lead marriages do you know that lasted over 7+ years without cheating? How happy have you ever heard a woman say she was leading the relationship who wasn’t a stud.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:27 AM
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Doesn’t matter what your emotional intelligence is, it’s irrelevant because you had to have a base amount to attract and get them into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:59 AM
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Because men approach problems with logic and straightforwardness, women don’t respond to that if they are in their feelings. Perfect example. A man asks what is wrong with, his wife says “it’s fine”. He thinks everything is Ok, she does not. Can’t solve a problem one side won’t admit to having.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:53 AM
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Because men approach problems with logic and straightforwardness, women don’t respond to that if they are in their feelings. Perfect example. A man asks what is wrong with, his wife says “it’s fine”. He thinks everything is Ok, she does not. Can’t solve a problem one side won’t admit to having.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:53 AM
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I think the bigger issue that you’re kind of addressing is that men and women don’t use the same meanings for words. Effectively women are speaking a different language than men. “It’s fine” translates to ask me or find out what is really bothering me.(typically female meaning) “It’s fine” translates to everything is good.(typical male meaning) It’s why one side will say something “heinous” and the other side will look at them as if it’s normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:44 AM
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A private group in social media can still be private. Liked a locked Reddit sub you have to be a member to see/join.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:17 PM
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The Subject is locker room talk in a private setting and the Men who run and tell the women what they heard other men talk about. That’s what seems to be the point referred to in this comment chain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:16 PM
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No, They are “telling” their female friends so that their friend doesn’t like them. It’s so they look better in comparison to them so you like them more. It’s manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:01 PM
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It also means to look upon them furtively, ms.linguistics major.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:11 AM
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Since English is not your native language, I’ll explain the use of the word “Spy” that means to look without someone’s knowledge or consent. Not CIA or secret service as you are using it. Understand now?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:56 AM
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Nothing you said, has any bearing on my comments. No where did I mention spies. You are confusing me with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:53 AM
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Irrelevant, no one cares about the opinions of those who spy on them in a private moment. Also, why are you responding to me as If I share their views? That’s a big assumption and very misandrist of you. I’m simply providing an answer to a question, I would appreciate you not blindly attacking someone who has no dog in this race.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:45 AM
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Because they are in a private space and want to vent without their tone being policed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 07:43 AM
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Popularlarized during the PUA culture boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:21 AM
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It’s been used that way since I’ve the 90s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:05 AM
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When more than 50% use a term a new way, that becomes the norm. Hence how words aquire new definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:36 AM
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Redflags are your dealbreakers or warning signs of incompatibility, it’s not only used for danger. Plenty of people normally use it as such here in USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:54 AM
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I struggled finding anyone I deemed a role model. I decided to just make myself the best I can through research and pragmatism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:48 AM
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Befriend a stud, change your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:21 AM
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So you don’t think it’s narcissistic women? Do you know the definition of a narcissist?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:56 AM
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This sounds like redpill newbie rage. You are talking about and describing narcissistic women. They are the ones who do that. Healthy normal women actually like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:53 AM
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It didn’t use to be that way, but recently whenever you go to concerts women far out weigh the men there. This current generation is also not going to clubs(men) as much and they’re not dancing either. (My personal opinion is that tiktok dances are meant to be solo and this generation doesn’t have (m)any artists that create music for dances. It’s all drill) Also eating at restaurants is costly and most men won’t do it outside a date or very special event.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:45 AM
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I see your point but I think it lacks nuance. I agree most men go down the avenue of pursuing sex with women instead of friendship but you have to examine why that is. It’s common interest. The average man and average woman have low variance in shared hobbies. The one thing we share universally is a desire for sex. Women love make-up, dressing up, concerts, beaches and going out to restaurants. Men love saving money, sports, gaming or doing some activity. Am I saying women and men don’t do those…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:07 AM
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It didn’t fizzle out, there’s a media blackout and censoring of it. Can’t say mgtow on YouTube or get demonetized. Now it’s back to its roots.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 10:25 PM
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Yes, I “suffer” from this. At first I thought they were just trying to make excuses but sure enough, they weren’t. It’s to the point that I actually tell my dates that I’m big just to save time.(yes I’m upfront, that’s how I date)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 10:15 PM
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If you’re dating someone and they are ungrateful to your actions you are dating a narcissist(covert?). In my previous relationships I did those small gestures… no appreciation for it. That has been common with most women I have encountered born in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:06 PM
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Well you would have found that out before marriage, otherwise why would you continue to date? Ultimately you’re choosing the guy. So it’s up to you to filter out anyone unsupportive, so saying that the guy you’re with wouldn’t….. means that’s what you sought
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:26 AM
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As long as you’re equally supportive. Won’t matter if all else is equal, without support for each other you’re just roommates
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:03 AM
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to support your partner and help each other’s goals is called being a good husband/wife. If you’re going into the relationship with expectations of not needing to be supportive in the way your partner needs, then you’re just simply biding your time until divorce and what’s worse is the man will be blind sided by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:00 AM
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Kids
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 03:34 AM
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Well you have a point. When MGTOW first appeared there was almost instant backlash…. For men wanting to leave women alone. I’ve been in the pill space since it was on bodybuilding..com there always seemed to be a war about not wanting to date. I think it’s just that some people don’t like to see others quit. Also keep in mind the women who are disparaging and hostile towards men…. Don’t have any or never had any straight male friends. They only interact through dating, which is self selecting fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:41 AM
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I have a married friend who’s experiencing that now. Wife refuses to learn to drive. So he ends up taking the kids to places driving to work, driving the wife to her friends house, etc. I think it’s madness
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:31 AM
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There are brain differences. More testosterone for men more estrogen for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:53 AM
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The women that try and shame you for “not being a man” are demanding women who are guaranteed I promise guaranteed, to make your life hell of you marry her. That’s the type of women that sounds like a blackhole(only takes never gives back and only adds to demands of you…. But hey sex right?)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:37 AM
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I see masculinity as the common traits of man. I have never met a woman in all my life, that cares about honor, but every guy understands it an abides by it to some degree…. And it’s unspoken. I do not see this on women. Instead with women I see more communal group think… like A guy sends a text…. She sends the text to all her friends to discuss what to do…. Guys don’t do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:35 AM
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No offense, This reads like an arm chair psychologist. Men approach women far more than women ever approach men. If masculinity doesn’t exist why don’t women approach men, just as much as men….. they should have the same drive no? Why is it that women, do not care about honor….. but men do? If everything is the same women should have fantasies about being a knight and keeping their word and enact chivalry! But they don’t. Why is it if everything is equal men according to the census work more hou…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:25 AM
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Yes, if she likes his personality and isn’t only interested in “what has he done lately”. But like always women are humans and humans are fallible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:48 AM
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No…. When they get erotic, it’s always the perfect fit with the big boss rich jacked man who always the perfect BDSM for any situation. He’s also super romantic too and a mind reader
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:45 AM
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Doubtful porn affects women like that….. now Romance novels on the other hand….
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:33 AM
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Great Idea! When you find her there should be some ceremony that signifies that you are devoted to each other…. Maybe throw in some vows… ooo we should get tax breaks for it too! In case you can’t read the sarcasm, marriage is what you’re proposing. People cheat for many reasons, a sexless marriage is one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:11 AM
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Yeah like what are you even supposed to even say to that? “Thanks I traded to goats for them”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:05 AM
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It made me feel a lil self conscious because I wondered why anyone would care, because I don’t care if there’s a looks match since beauty is subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:55 AM
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Well you should, because that’s why is worth discussing…. Because of how abnormal it is here on America… yet happens frequently enough. It’s also shows you the common disposition people generally have. I’m sure I live far from OP yet we share an experience. This alone shows that this happens more often than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:51 AM
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It was worse in my case, my friend group started talking about why they didn’t like her when they thought we left only for her to overhear it :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:46 AM
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Guess you’re not American
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:45 AM
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No, I had people giving me odd looks between me and my date, my family also reacted to her the same way his family did. Just because something didn’t happen to you, doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:43 AM
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I’ve had this happen to me as well
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:39 AM
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I agree that online dating advice isn’t helpful because it’s very general instead of being specific towards that individual. But I think mostly people who struggle come down to knowing how to make conversation and how to flirt. Doesn’t matter how good you look if you sound like a dumbass or are boring to talk to. Doesn’t matter how friendly you are and how much you do for her if you never flirted. You were lucky to be able to find a niche community that you fit into. Not everyone can do that, in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:31 AM
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Alimony normally goes towards the women because in those scenarios they either were stay at home wives, or made very little. In Theory it sounds good but is always abused as a wealth transfer. Alimony would need a cap amount of 100,000$ and be at most for 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:49 AM
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Incels (which is who you’re talking about, as only they would have 0 women interested) are an extreme minority of the population. The analogy applies to the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:15 PM
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I feel like yelling at the sun would be more productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:14 AM
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Real life dating turns men to the manosphere, because they are looking for answers on why they aren’t successful. Friends aren’t helpful, and neither is family as they sugarcoat or give anti-advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:09 PM
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Sexual experience does not correlate to critical thinking skills. That’s saying they’re more sexually adventurous… unless you’re saying that women only think with their vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:28 PM
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That means he hasn’t been in a relationship not that he’s manipulative. That’s like saying all Virgins are master manipulators.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:22 PM
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Were not talking about what men say, were talking about what OP said. Men and women in general say anything and everything. The Topic is what OP said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:15 PM
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Yes you did. Look at your first sentence. It’s very clear you did. I’m reading it right now. Op didn’t say that… you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:10 PM
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Why do you assume they are Naive? That assumes there’s trickery at the introduction. Why do you think that no younger women have critical thinking skills? I thought all women weren’t the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:04 PM
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It would be to see if he wants a family and how he thinks they should be raised. Then I would talk about our expectations from the relationship and what we both ideally would like. Then we would see if there was a compromise we would need to make to both be happy and make the relationship work. As long as we are on the same page we can accomplish anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:40 PM
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Funny but this has been my experience with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 11:39 AM
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Pop the ballon means nothing to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 08:16 AM
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Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 08:12 AM
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No, that’s why cheating happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:10 PM
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It can both be a privilege and an inconvenience. Just because you have the ability to drink and have infinite carrot juice doesn't mean you have to. Privilege in this context means having something other's just don't have the ability to have or have the same level of access ease as you. Even if you didn't like Carrot juice with infinite juice you can always resell it. Even if you don't want to you still have the ability to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:55 AM
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That's a false equivocate, Women Date 10-100x more than any man can. The Men have to be affable and agreeable to get a date. A woman does not.... It's also another thing to go on a date and have your date compare you to her past dates instead of just enjoying the moment, and I don't know about you but It seems women only get more masculine with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:52 PM
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It goes in line with the greek play Assemblywomen which in my opinion is currently playing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:09 AM
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When Husbands are complaining about r/deadbedrooms it's not really a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:09 AM
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I get matches on the dating apps, mostly older women and liberal political women( I am not liberal). I usually set up a date within the first day, When I click with someone I usually get off the apps until I'm single again my last relationship from an app was serious but we ended things over her cleaning habits(lack of). Usually I'll get at least 1 real match a day between the apps, Since I'm not looking for hook ups anymore it's been harder for me to find a woman that shares my hobbies. At this…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 10:56 PM
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that is a very female perspective, sex doesn't matter to the person who has had enough of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 10:39 PM
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Yes, the Existence of "are we dating the same person", proves it. There isn't a group like that for men. Yet it's so common for women... They created Groups to discuss it, This alone is proof they are dating a small selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:50 PM
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So you agree that a mentor is needed. Perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 08:29 PM
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So every woman you saw acted uniformly? Doubt it. You picked and choose your actions based on what you saw worked for the women you liked. But without a guide who knows what bad habits or unfortunate events could have been avoided if you did. That's the point. It shouldn't be a mentality of "BECAUSE I SUFFERED YOU MUST SUFFER" An eye for an eye leaves the world blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:52 AM
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The only thing guys without a Mentor(parental figure) will be Porn and masturbation because that's instinctual. I hope we can agree that Children copy their parents and if there is no male to copy, you copy what you can from your mom. You can't rely on your "friends" to teach you anything as their not obligated to and they don't know what you don't know. So it's not like our friends holds male classes, and male friends also rarely help men get girls, they tend to be anti-help. How many stories h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:49 AM
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Why is it, that when an example is used to illustrate a basic point... It's always known it's not a 1 for 1 example.. it's used to demonstrate a core point. Yet for some reason It's like you can't grasp the point... Or you refuse to acknowledge it because you're trying to "win an argument" anyway doesn't matter anyone who reads the example will get the point. You can't see the forest for the trees. Also Sex is only Taboo for religious people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:24 AM
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The argument is that they are objects and not humans. It's like saying You can't use a Toaster to heat up your bread because the bread is being tortured.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:59 AM
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Also it was a Boston Globe Article and I'm not subscribed to that anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:31 AM
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"Most states did something like this"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:29 AM
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This is a link to what I'm talking about, most states did something like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:11 AM
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because they will gather and outlaw it, like how in MA they outlawed sexbot brothels because of the female outcry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:21 AM
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That doesn't apply to this hypothetical. She's not being pressured into sex, she's choosing not to have it. That's fine, as stated earlier.... She won't but he will find someone that will. And then they will see if they are compatible. With holding sex because you are using it as a vet tactic is not a good vet strategy. She is free to use all the terrible tactics she wants. Whats funny to me is that she won't do the one thing that would save her..... Talk to married women who waited for x amount…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 10:04 PM
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The example was meant to show how sexual intention and how they attracted me. I have done OLD as well. I know how to vet, I know how to attract, I've dated all types from the career woman to the milf who lives with her dog. Making a man wait, doesn't show you his personality, it only shows his patience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:54 PM
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Very narrow view. The issue is it implies that they could be hiding more from you or that they have an agenda. I guess a homeless person who is dating a person with a house should just be happy they have a partner. I mean the home owner could just move them in, or buy food for them... But I guess the homeless person didn't ask for housing and food... only love. Guess you only get what you ask for. In that scenario The homeless person was dating someone well off. Someone who loves their partner..…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 08:39 PM
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The question was, Would you be happy with your partner if they were purposefully holding back and you knew it. (sand bagging)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 08:22 PM
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I can say with full certainty and confidence, the average women isn't waiting months or years. The women who do "wait" tend to be 30+/religious/Asexual. It just so happens that those seem to be the women who complain about not meeting the men they like or being able to keep them. I wonder why. anyway The point is That it's the women's loss. For every women that wants to make a man wait, he WILL find a woman who won't because men can only determine (sexually active men) their attraction if women …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 08:20 PM
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People change, maybe they had money with their previous girlfriends and are broke now and can only afford ramen. That's a false argument. The example was with the implied understanding that all other things were equal with that person since I did not specify a qualifying difference. It doesn't necessarily mean they don't like you as much. But now that we know all other factors are equal, you would 100% think that they don't. The better question is: Are you satisfied with the relationship? Does i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 07:56 PM
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You mean what gets results, and admit that men lie to get the results they want. There is no chicken and egg, here, men admit their bad behavior without hesitation. More circular logic. Women admit their bad behavior to get alimony checks and child support. There is no chicken and egg here. Women admit their bad behavior freely without hesitation. With the exception of arranged marriage and gold diggers, women marry for love. But the marry the man they fell in love with, they fall out of love wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:58 PM
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Then he doesnt value relationships. He values getting pussy. He’d be better off pursuing hookups and seeing which of the hookups he gets would be relationship material. Part of a relationship is sex. That's what defines an intimate relationship (which he is trying to do) vs a friends with benefits. You can't say that the man doesn't value relationship when he is vetting the woman. Sex is vetting. How can you say you love someone deeply (non family and friends) and not want to sleep with them. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:54 PM
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Well which bad behavior came first? mens or womens? Men only respond to what women react to. (Also you're argument is flawed, I can also say If all women lie to men about loving them just to divorce them and get their stuff, how can PPD women blame men for their bad behavior? see circular logic)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:47 PM
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Yes People should vet anyone their dating. Women have to avoid abusive men just as Men have to avoid abusive women. (I shouldn't have to say this but.... Yes women can be abusive too. Gold diggers are abusive for example.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:32 PM
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You've asked the question a lot over the years, and always get the same answers you don't like. Men are comparative and competitive, Men only know a women likes him when she sleeps with him. She can say she loves him, she can do all sorts of things, but without sex he will always wonder if she's just trying to use him. (she can use him through sex, but that's because the guy will automatically think she's into him). When a guy hears that his Sweetie pie went on a date with someone he knew and ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:28 PM
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It's a thing because that's the relationship with my married friends. Also in those relationships the men are an active part in raising their children. Most families have to split up child care because of the cost of child care. This is how I know you don't have a child or don't plan on being a parent. Daycare at it's cheapest was 600$ per month, in some places that's the weekly charge. Also I said MAJORITY, majority = > 51%. If you ever plan on getting married just look up the costs of child ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:58 PM
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So you know many women paying the majority of the bills in the relationships? Because I do and I live in a big city. Clearly you're not married and haven't talked to new modern newly weds. They may have a joint account for bills, but they have their separate accounts as well. Considering that women on average only make 30k a year in USA they can't afford to pay a majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:07 PM
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It's like saying I don't know why there's world hunger when there's so much grass around!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:03 PM
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No matter what the man ends up paying for everything/majority anyway. Modern women don't really share their income with their partner they elect to keep it separate. Gold diggers are with you solely for your money and assets, that means they do not care about you, your family, your health.... only your money. They hope you die fast, they enter the relationship with an end date. Gold diggers do not plan to stay with you long. To say otherwise means you are running defense for gold-diggers, which …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:00 PM
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you can learn and grow from your short experience. Can't learn if you can't get your foot in the door
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:12 AM
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It just so happens to be men born with both parents or have male guidance seem to do well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:32 PM
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Without actionable steps to take or giving a clear critical analysis about what that guy specifically needs to do, it will always fall on deaf ears and just lead them to either Redpill or PUA, because they will not figure it out any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:46 PM
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It's like zombies dating because the relationship was dead before it even begun
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:35 PM
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Correct! They need something more than just dates and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:01 PM
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No. that is not correct. approaching and making first contact is boundary pushing because you are invading the personal space of another to do it. For the same gender people don't care as much. When it's cross gender it's evident that most men will respect that personal space for most women. They do not want to cross that boundary of personal space. Unless there is a shared event in which they can bond on which makes logical sense. These men will not approach women. When they are in contact with…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:59 PM
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Making the First kiss for example or do you always take the lead? because an action like simply grabbing your hand is pushing boundaries whether you want to admit it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:01 PM
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I don't even know where to begin. There's so much logical leaping and generalizations. Women and Men aren't a hive mind. People react defensively to those who attack them, so don't confuse a human trait for a gendered one. Example: Democrats attacked Straight men during their campaigns and lectured minorities saying their votes were owed(essentially saying that they didn't have the Freedom to vote for anyone else) men got offended and felt that the current administration was hostile towards them…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:16 AM
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Eh, when I was single.... It was because I had met so many women and at that time none shared my hobby. So when we would date we would do all the standard stuff(their stuff) and then they would say my hobby is to complicated or not interested. After a while of dates going like that and women lying about being in my hobby just to be with me. It just gets exhausting I started asking myself what was the point? Sex gets boring after a while(blasphemy I know) especially if that's the only real activi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:59 AM
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30% of people who identified as a democrat voted this cycle. The extreme feminist are a minority. 2.Those types of women congregate to echo chambers so they can feel like they are right and share their strict world view. 3.They feel like the male gender owes them. All males owe them a debt in their eyes. Nothing any man does will be enough and she will feel entitled to any nice treatment. 4.I've made this point before, but despite these women claiming to have masculine attributes the only mascul…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:47 AM
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I was only making the point that a good liar would mimic the actions of an honest man. Only liars who make mistakes get caught. As far as an Objective unhealthy behavior in dating it's hard define because everyone dates differently. One person can over-text because they are excited about the date, while the girl can interpret that as being clingy. She will never know he was just excited, and He will never know she saw him as clingy. It's just hard to be objective when you never have 100% of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:13 PM
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The issue that I see with that is you are painting people with a broad brush, and are forgetting that circumstance and situation also influences behavior. An honest man and a liar act the same. Their motivation isn't a behavior that can be objectively observed because then you would have to be a mind reader. I get the logic "You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink! Ahh but you can salt their oats!" but it comes down to wanting that change and if it's too much effort they won't.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:52 AM
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When you create an incentive to create a factory in your country... such as tax breaks for foreign companies. That creates a Chinese businessman who can decide where he wants to open his company... China...or America.... he will choose the place that he can be more profitable. If There's a policy stating that all manufacturers have to build parts in America... then that creates factories here in America. that creates jobs. that increases revenue for the city and state. If you are familiar with h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:45 AM
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They get thrown out normally because the men make a mistake of not getting the wife her own lawyer to review the prenup. If you don't then when divorce time comes they will say she signed it under duress and throw it out. Each state handles prenups differently so you have to look up what your state in particular is unique to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:18 AM
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Society is lacking discipline because it's easy to not have it and hard to maintain. Human nature will dictate people will do what's easiest for them. Again why would the person in question change their behavior if there is no incentive for it? unless they were raised that way specifically to wait and vet. Social media and marketing has shown to have some effect but this recent election has shown that people are doing their own research now. Maybe things will change. Maybe not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:49 PM
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The people who are blaming men just want someone to blame. The fact that they are blaming an entire gender for their own misfortune should tell you all about them. It's no different than someone who came in last place blaming their socks for why they ran so slow. They lack the ability to have real empathy because if they did they would understand that men have needs too. They would understand that people have to vote for their own self interests. Personally I'm not sure how much a married women …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:28 AM
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I'd argue that since women mainly only wait to be approached and we know a majority of men don't out of fear of disrupting their day that would lead them to mainly date men who push boundaries. Which could color their vision of men to see only boundary pushing men as dateable options. (Explains why they like the badboy and why the prison inmates are seen as a viable dating pool(google it))The majority date men who push boundaries since they usually would be the constant ones to approach. So why …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:18 AM
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That's relative to your specific situation and being nit picky. The implication was that there were more places to hangout other than a bar or night club. I hang out with my friends at my place and theirs all the time. Even when I lived in a shared housing situation we would hang out or meet up at hiking trails/libraries/mall etc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:11 PM
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If it wasn't sexually motivated you would hang out at home with friends with drinks you bought from the store(that's what men do), instead of out surrounded by single horny men who are drinking alcohol looking at women are dressed in revealing clothing (because lets be honest you're not wearing a ball gown) What other conclusion can you draw? (This is only talking about "girls night out" at bars and night clubs. No one cares about a girls night out book club I don't think that's sexually motivat…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:36 PM
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As a Straight Male who watched the show season after season here is my perspective. The only reason they don't like it is because they haven't watched it and it's deemed girly. it's also not relatable to me as a guy because dating like them is pretty hard. They consistently had relationships when they wanted them, sure they each displayed a different thought process But the guys they dated weren't relatable. or better put it's like how no guy who watches a Disney movie identifies as prince charm…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:34 PM
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Boombox/speakers in the backyard...phone connected to the TV spotify DJ or any other plethora of options. You can play music anywhere. There's only horny men at the bars and clubs. if it was a shitty dive bar with a juke-box. that would be one thing. but we both know it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:54 AM
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10 it wouldn't feel like providing it would just feel like living my life. Our desires would be similar enough that I wouldn't have to change much of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:27 AM
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Fake argument. No one is saying you can't dance with your friend. But why does it have to be at a club? at a bar? why can't you dance in the backyard or at your friends house or wait until your partner can go. Why do you have to dance half-naked when you go out alone, why are you always hanging out with your single friend at bars and clubs? Married couples and friends dance together all the time without it being at a club or bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:24 AM
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Why would I ask you to stop advertising your single? (Posting selfies with "Revealing clothes") Why would I ask you to not go out with your single friends who are encouraged to sleep around and place you in an environment where you're more likely to cheat?(doing shots and dancing with your friends without your partner). it's perfectly okay to ask your partner to change behaviors that advertise being single. (Otherwise wedding rings wouldn't be a thing) The Real question is why did you accept a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:09 AM
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Oh a personal attack, that means you have run out of logic. So that tells me you are just angry. very well... I'll continue on knowing that you will never see reason and that you can't admit to any good points. I also understand you will only continue the personal attacks from here on because that's all you got. Carry on. Soccer players aren't having their teammates challenge them on the field. Lawyers aren't self sabotaging their own team to challenge each other who can create the best strategy…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:41 AM
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Why do you assume that when someone is in the wrong they won't admit it? Why do you have to be adversial in an environment that benefits team work? Why don't you want to understand how to improve your communication skills and yourself? Also stop trying to straw-man an argument and smuggle in off topic remarks. "Why don't you want to improve yourself?" Really? where is that coming from, you act like a man can't read a self help book. You act like women are always around men. No. Straight women do…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:35 AM
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Strong women are not cooperative, they are competitive. They exhibit masculine aspects which are inherently unattractive to men, just as feminine qualities are unattractive to women on men. Only a small subset of people like same gender traits on opposite genders. An old saying "Too many chefs spoil the dish"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:43 AM
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Well here is one mans opinion and observation over the years as a psych major. TLDR at bottom depends on the age of the man 16-25 unless they know they want a family and unless the are already bored with sex, relationships are work for a man with little means in this bracket. Most guys are building their confidence to approach a girl and don't know how to be hot enough for a hook-up. In this scenario these guys are likely to form a relationship if for nothing else out of ease of access of sex if…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:19 AM
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Incorrect I broke up with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:45 PM
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Wish I could introduce you to my ex she is exactly that, hence why it didn't work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:06 PM
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the common thing in online dating is that women who state they don't want casual sex end up liking casual sex. That's been my experience... if you want to weed them out, you have to ask them about what their family goals are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:59 AM
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what he's trying to say is the start of getting to know someone is boring and the excitement comes from discovering what you share either on the date or by talking. I'm going to assume that what you call boring is the man giving 1 sentence replies? or more of trying to be a penpal?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:58 AM
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so that means you would never go to a car show, something that means a lot to him and brings him joy won't have the person that also brings him the most joy. As long as he doesn't have to attend something you like and would like to share with him that would be fair. (like he will never go to concerts with you)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:51 AM
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incorrect I've had a 15 year relationship. I know what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:49 AM
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I stated no theory, I stated stats on marriages which currently have a divorce rate of over 60%. What keeps people together is shared activites/purpose... that's why raising a family keeps 2 people who hate each other together far longer than they need to. For the shared purpose, without it the relationship will only be based on how happy you are.... and we know how that goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:48 AM
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what normally happens is that I tell the girl i'm dating i'm into gaming, they normally say "oh cool, so am I" then we go on dates things if things go well/ then We start hanging out at each others houses, and what normally happens is that I'll choose to play something.... and she won't be interested. They all claim to like to watch me play, and they do for a little while, but they never join in any game i play. I'll ask them if there's something that they like or would enjoy and it's crickets. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:45 AM
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because when women are the breadwinners they become tyrants and use the fact they earn more over their partners head to bully them. You already stated you don't believe in gendered roles or sex segregation, so that implies you want 50/50 dynamic which is already broken by you paying all the bills. A man would feel emasculated if you tried to control his autonomy by the mere fact you control the money and use it as a threat. (don't do what I say? get out of my house that I pay for.... do this or …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:45 AM
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I remember the times I tried having platonic friendships with hetero-female co-workers. They always just ended up getting mad at me because the only reason they were talking to me was that they had a crush on me. The moment they get a boyfriend we are no longer friends even though that's all I wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:06 AM
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As someone who was once called too nice I'll tell you. it means you are too polite and you are not sexually forward enough for them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:44 AM
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and showing interest in his job would make suspect you of being a gold digger
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:39 AM
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You can demonize them if you want, but it's not a conscious behavior by non-gold diggers. These women are getting with guys they find attractive and they also happen to be able to provide. I don't know if it's common but I find that when most women cheat in a relationship they always advertise they want it to be discreet, and it's almost always a bdsm relationship that they feel their hubby isn't into/doesn't like and they feel/crave a different type of sex. It's been described to me that having…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:34 AM
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the question is how long have you known them? most divorces happen 5-7 years after marriage, with a dead bedroom happening between years 2-4
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:21 AM
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My main hobbies currently are gaming and story writing and maintaining/creating vivariums(self contained ecosystems).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:18 AM
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that's the sense I get, it's been that way with every relationship. This is a joke but it almost seems like women don't like seeing happy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:26 AM
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you can make friends doing your hobby, but it's rare to bring friends and have them stay in your hobby. To me this is romantic because it's something no one else ever really does with me, it would be a shared activity between the two of us and creates more of a bond because I'm sharing something very personal with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:01 AM
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simply sharing my hobby with me, you would be surprised how many women hate to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:51 AM
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yup, but can be done with friends with benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:52 AM
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if you are kissing and cuddling your friends that's called intimacy. That's exclusive to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:37 AM
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Like I said in my comment, Unless KIDS or sex there is no relationship. So you agree then that there is no relationship without sex or kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:02 AM
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so you agree with my point then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:00 AM
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hmm a relationship thats already in the long term stage..... or be a gay best friend. Guess I'll choose option 1 at least I can turn her nausea into a kink or something, gotta make the best of a terrible self inflicted situation that I for some reason I can't leave. (Both options IMO lead to a break up, Men like Sex. If sex isn't an option and kids aren't there.... There is no point to the relationship. I already have friends I don't fuck that provide emotional fulfillment, why would I want to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:30 AM
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If womens Ideal is a powerful man and powerful is defined as being taller,richer, stronger and etc.... then a man who is looking for a women who is superior than him is looking for the minority of women. Just by your own logic, if you aren't more powerful than the women she isn't going to be interested in you. lets list some scenarios where a woman is more powerful. she has more money: If you're not a sugar baby, she won't even date you as you're expected to keep up with HER tastes. If you are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:17 PM
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Then you would not be receptive to the approach, but with all things context matters. There are definitely women out there who are receptive to it in public places (normally younger women give me the most Invitation to approach)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:54 PM
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He's not having a problem being approachable, he's having a problem finding people attractive. The people he works with/goes to schoo with/does hobbies with aren't attractive to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:52 PM
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This is a trick question. You're supposed to talk to your partner about what you want from the relationship. If you want to be a fool and just create a covert contract and hope she follows it, then you deserve to pay your future alimony and child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:53 AM
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You can't keep your eyes off them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:46 AM
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You only hear the ones with the problems, because they want their problem solved. If you already have the answer, you're not going to voice the problem unless it's funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:43 AM
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The mall has new people every day. Work/school/hobbies is static (I'm not OP)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:10 AM
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The advice you get will be if they already find you attractive. I think a better question would be how do you women make friends with other women, or How would you like an ugly guy to approach you(that way you prepare for the worst hope for the best). Most of the women here have made it very clear that they don't approach. So they never have to have the burden of leading the initial interaction as an approach.... but they have when making other female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:06 AM
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he meant "covert contracts" basically I do X and you should do Y because I did X but it's implied and never stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:34 AM
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To fix mens problems you would have to change what women in general find appealing. Men are reactive to what females find attractive. People will do what works for them, until it doesn't. an example of Evidence of this is that Most men start out working out to have a good body to impress women. Some men do it for health or for themselves later on, but if they get women because of it they will keep doing it. If they don't and don't care about health they will stop and see it as a pointless waste …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:19 AM
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I know that their are friend groups that some how date. That's pretty foreign to me to have mixed gender friend groups. For me the only time We had girls hanging out with us was if it was our friends sisters. Didn't have much overlap in hobbies with women in my school, or job. How did you meet your guy friends? did you date them first and they became friends or just through school, and work?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:07 AM
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So as long as someone looks presentable you'll talk with them about anything? Funny Your complaints about bland dates are relatable
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:57 AM
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So most of your friends meet there dates through other friends mainly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:30 AM
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Well I have heard some women complain that they only want to be approached by a man for dating. So if they're not doing online dating I'd assume that would be the alternative, I also consider bar approaches cold approaches
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:27 AM
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Considering that over 70% of divorces are initiated by the women.... and their exit plan is alimony and child support. why have a hidden bank account unless you plan on cheating and leaving. Having a wide network of support is something most people should do, but only women are able to keep up. most men are an island. (inb4 HeY I aM a MaN tHaT has a wide network of friends!!! yes....exceptions don't disprove the average. People also hang out with people who are similar to them, so if you're not …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:07 AM
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If you ever called a guy too nice. Then yes, you dated a badboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:31 AM
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First I'd ask him what he really wants, a relationship? friends with benefits? and then I'd ask him why he does. I'd ask what does he expect to do with said women, and how he imagines the future with them would look like. Then I'd ask him to describe what kind of personality traits is he looking for, then I would ask him if he thought the person he wants would be where he is going to attract women. After that he should have a clear Idea of what type of women he wants to look for, where to go. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:58 AM
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Thailand, Philippines, India**, Cambodia.** Whats your definition of a third world country, because I assure you India, and Thailand are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:06 AM
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You are describing the male equivalent of a gold digger. If he's doing it with no intention of marriage and he's not vetting to see if she's marriage matrieal, then he's getting something else out of it. Whether it's shelter, money, consistent sex he's using the women to satisfy their own personal needs at the expense of others there is a word for that.... Scammer. No one likes Scammers, just like no one likes gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:50 AM
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women only cities are already part of the Chinese country side
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:32 PM
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Maybe we just get information from different circles, but the LBH I saw applied to the women who were going overseas. The traveling American women don't seem to be having any success in finding husbands overseas. In fact I see that foreigners treat American women worse once they find out you're American, OR at least that's what I seen in one woman's video who lived in France, and described the attitude change over the 5 years she lived there and her comment section seem to corroborate her experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:55 PM
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As someone who is heavily into Finance, I'll be alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:23 AM
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For a wife: these are non-negotiable Has to be into gaming has an affable personality enjoys my cooking Cleans up after herself (honestly if you just pick up after yourself cleaning isn't even an issue) wants 3+ kids Edit#1 hmm looking at the list... I might as well date a female streamer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:54 PM
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uhh, actually they are. That's why they have FWBS
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:19 AM
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Single guys with FWB don't go holding their hand in public. They just go over their house, have some fun. and leave. Ask the single guys next time if they have a FWB rather than speculate that they are single because they aren't out holding someone's hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:05 AM
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ok? sorry you identify that way. what do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:53 PM
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Seeing attractive people, not a problem. It's when they hook up in front of you daily and you're struggling is when it's a problem. It's like being the single friend in a couples friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:51 PM
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That's true and not true. It's easy to date women 30+ but the caveat is that they are rarely childless. So they're more so looking for a step-dad than a partner. If they don't have kids then they are career driven and can barely make time to actually have a relationship, or their standards still require you to be doing better than them.... which would mean you are in a job that sucks up all your time as well. If they're single and childless and have a 40/hr a week job chances are she has some ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:33 PM
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You are speaking truth, you're talking about how the kids become "westernized". yes the Kids get indoctrinated at first and play their part but eventually as they get older experience will help them realize where it's false and what's true. If the man acts like a white knight and gets girls that'll confirm his belief.... if he doesn't he'll start to question. If the woman acts like a cunt and gets no dates or people approaching her, that'll confirm her beliefs that men are shallow and can't stan…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:54 PM
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Feminism came from the prohibition era when that lady got pissed her husband was always at bars and smashed the bar with a bat and then got more wives to destroy more bars. Feminism at the start was about voting rights, equality and owning property tangentially going along with the civil rights era. No one disagrees that all humans should have civil rights. Women got Civil rights, the right to vote, to work, to own property, Then JFK signed the The Equal Pay Act of 1963, which makes it illegal t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:46 PM
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you don't know what you're talking about. I'm guessing you just only gather information from online, and you don't actually see what's going on outside. I have no need to panic when I have women who want my babies. I have no need to panic when I have women trying to baby-trap me due to them thinking I would be a good father. I'm not worried, I take one look around outside, at the stores, when I network at high-profile events. I see the truth... Yes women do lead the majority of divorces.... the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:49 PM
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You keep forgetting their are happy couples in happy marriages teaching their happy kids how to happily co-exist with each other. Which statistically far out weighs the amount of feminist. I speak as an American who is very popular with women. You are a miniority. A loud one, but a miniority none the less.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:42 PM
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When you are raised by two parents they teach you their values and customs. Those values and customs then become "traditions". If you do not have kids, you will not pass on traditions. Feminism is a reaction to that woman's life and her personal(or imagined) experiences with men. Feminist won't have kids, because then they would be continuing a cycle they claim to hate. If they don't have kids, then they won't pass down the hatred they have for men.... Unless they go the single mother route. Eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:25 PM
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intriguing, You make a personal attack on someone who is trying to have an open and honest debate and came in good faith. You're response to me is to call me a simpleton for you failing to actually describe your point and stance. On top of that, you made a fallacious argument by saying "we" as if you speak for all women everywhere... when it's clear you don't. Such a sweeping generalization doesn't seem like an intelligent argument, or maybe you can't make an argument because it's indefensible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:58 AM
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Awesome, you women produce sperms and Eggs! truly miraculous!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:52 AM
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"Why do men like attractive girls? I don't understand why men want to fuck girls they find hot! explain it to me" It's a great mystery to us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:45 AM
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For men Sex is an indicator that you actually like them, He probably doesn't understand why you want to wait. Anything besides sex is just a tease really, and making a guy wait for sex is akin to making him feel like he has to jump through hoops. A man will do it, but don't be surprised when you get ghosted or the relationship breaks down soon after. Unless the person is really worth it, he's just building resentment until the deed is done because now he's upset that he has to pay for 6 months o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:42 AM
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Marriage might become obsolete but I think that has more to do with how un-religious society is becoming over time rather than gender divide. I think this is just going to be a rather unique time in history where Gender expectations get ironed out, and a things become more equal later on like 10 years +. Alternatively nothing will happen because only those who reproduce will carry on traditions. Once the feminist die out alone and childless, the only thing left will be their words... which will …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:16 AM
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There is useful advice, lets look at the commonality of what you listed. It all stems from not being charismatic enough for the women. Poor guys get girls who like to be in control of the relationship by her having money or by being fun to be around. Muscular guys can get vapid girls who only like looks, or normal women by being fun to be around. Rich men can get gold diggers if they lead with their wallets, or they can lead with their lifestyle and be fun to be around. People (or in this case w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:58 AM
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Yes, the real issue is feminist just straight up change the meaning of words so that men who use the dictionary definition of the word is always confused. For example, if you go to any of the pod casts or tiktok interviews, or even look back in PPD comments and posts, and without fail when a women uses misogyny and are asked to define it. They almost never do they can just give examples of what they think it is. Then when finally pressed to answer after avoiding the question by asking questions …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:41 AM
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once again, try it out for yourself. right now you're only speculating. and if they were misogynistic then those memes are already removed and that user banned from the sub. if you had examples you would post them. you don't though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:00 PM
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I've done the experiment. multiple times.... have you? No. you only are talking about some one case example that you saw, that was probably deleted later and that's why you won't be able to find that comment again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:29 PM
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Reddit has become a pro-liberal super pro-female biased forum site. Not to mention that it's still a small number of mods(that are women and white knights) that are curating a majority of the subreddits. Anything that can be critical of women will get you banned. Anything that offends a female subredditor will get you mass reported by that female redditor and her friends in an attempt to brigade you. It's a common tactic by salty women, they do it on facebook and in general all social medias. Me…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:29 PM
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but a large part of it is jiving with people and developing chemistry with them, which is what a good salesmen is supposed to do. everyone can be chad Chad is that woman's most attractive man. I’ve seen men who were truly at the 4-5 range date moderately attractive women because the two hung out, they jived and for a lack of a better term, “it just happened” It happened because the man learned social skills, and fashion skills, good hygiene, and approached the women when it was convenient for bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:14 AM
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Like what does it even mean? Do both have to like video games and anime in order to have a fulfilling relationship? Yes. It's a common activity that you both you enjoy doing and brings you together.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:42 AM
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I can assure you, women are sexual beings. They just hide it well, and deny anything that hints at it even if it's true statement (like you point out their blushing and smiling at a dirty joke they might deny liking it even if they actually did. For some reason she doesn't want to admit to liking it. etc). Especially if she likes you, your only complaint will be that she's insatiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:29 AM
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You might be too young, but do you remember the man show? got cancelled for the same things the view did (but they were a comedy show not ment to be taken seriously)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:32 AM
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and only a woman would argue a strawman and not ask further questions to confirm her beliefs. It's okay I forgive you. I know you will never admit to being wrong, and that you see any pushback to you as hate it's fine. But no Those Klansmen marry them or keep them as a mistress. The black women are fine with it. If anyone is a kink it's the klans man because usually it's the woman that enjoys the treatment. That's why she is with him, She knows he's racist. he didn't hide it. Now I expect some c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:04 PM
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men don't care about race, they care about attitude. You know how many kkk dudes got busted sleeping with black women. As long as the man finds you attractive and you are nice, in combination of whatever else you offer for the relationship aside from sex and companionship, they will fight over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:56 PM
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no it's called the halo effect
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:49 PM
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nah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:48 PM
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The women that are complaining about the bear, are most likely single (or soon to be). Normal women that grew up rationally (with both parents and/or brothers) don't think this way unless they already suffered trauma early in life. The ones who do, don't examine their thoughts and just hop on the bandwagon saying whatever is popular. Ignore it, because if they were really afraid then they wouldn't go on foodie dates or be gold diggers or ask where are all the good men. They wouldn't ever leave t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:54 AM
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You may have a point, she won't cheat if she's too afraid. Though respect through fear and respect through admiration are different. If she fear respects you, then the relationship won't last (unless that's her kink) because fear creates stressful situations and it's human nature to escape a stressful situation. If she Admires you then she will go through hell and back for you because she has real respect for you and won't want to leave. How you gain her admiration is another matter, but it can …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:33 AM
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If you don't believe you can get girls in a convenient manner then yes. If you can get girls often then you would only have a girl that compliments your personal lifestyle. You wouldn't need a relationship otherwise ( you have friends for companionship and intimacy, and hook ups for sexual release)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:35 AM
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marrying a man only for his money is always cringe. The emotional investment and respect is just open manipulation, that the "sugar daddy" willingly falls for, but is crushed when he actually falls for her. Because she only wants his money. The investment is only to prolong the wallet drain. She is not networking for him, unless he pays her too she's not cooking for him. She's not buying him gifts. Gold diggers are White elephants, plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:07 PM
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Gold digging is dating a man for money, Sugaring is gold digging. The sugar baby isn't going to invest in the relationship. If the money was not there she would not be either. Sugaring is just open Gold-digging
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:38 AM
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This is the difference between being Book smart and street smart. Studies tell you an overall pattern, Individual experience provides nuance to tell who from who. For example A gold digger and a Trade wife look similar on paper. But experience tells you a trad wife reinvests in the relationship while a gold-digger only extracts from a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:00 AM
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That's some gang shit man. I wouldn't want my best friend to go to prison for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:42 AM
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And why would you encourage them when I made that comment to interact with you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:41 AM
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Low experience men, after you know what to look for and after you gain more experience. You eventually stop ranking sex heavily as a priority and are able to focus on what's more important personality wise. At least that's how it happened with me. My FWBs actually help me out by giving me money if I need it for something, they like to go shopping for me and buy food or clothes for me. One in particular is paying for my phone bill. I have a job that pays well and can do it myself, but they like m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:17 AM
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Well by definition a simp will be a doormat. Why be a doormat? She'll just step all over you. Nothing about what you stated in the OP means she's going to treat her man like a king. Sounds like one way affection. A narcissist Trait
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:55 AM
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The only person who has a first grade reading level is you, because nowhere did I state what type of woman I want. Also... Trans community explain why Male to female are more submissive and why Female to male are more dominant. So you just shot yourself in the foot with reading comprehension. And I was trolling since it was from Harvard medical, Because you started trolling first with an irrelevant study about social bargaining. The fact you keep ignoring that the study does not actually tackle …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:41 AM
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https://www.health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/testosterone--what-it-does-and-doesnt-do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:34 PM
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Your point is moot, when they are not studying overall a effects longterm in their life.... and not just for social bargaining. The study is not focusing on long term effects of testosterone. Also This is a harvard study
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:34 PM
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it'll just tell me how many people are in their feelings. because you have to make an effort to downvote. you can only downvote on the mobile app. So they had to log into mobile just to downvote me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:05 PM
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Prejudice and truth about the effect of testosterone on human bargaining behaviour ​ The study was focusing on social behaviors for bargaining, it was not conducted over a long period of time to study the affects of testosterone. Thats a different study that was conducted. Further more their study was based on the testosterone they gave rats
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:03 PM
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Now you're purposefully trying to redirect the conversation since you STILL haven't described how testosterone affects behavior. No, it doesn't make you insecure, it does the opposite. The more you have the more aggressive you are and dominant you become. Submissiveness is a feminine trait. Look no further than the Trans community to prove yourself wrong. Male to female - acts more submissive Female to Male - acts more dominant What's the difference? Oh the hormone levels.... how about that. An …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:27 PM
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You just demonstrated that you do not know how hormones work. So that means you don't understand how serotonin or cortisol affects behavior. SO of course you'll downvote and say that gibberish. you're reacting emotionally. a trait of high estrogen by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:13 PM
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Incorrect. Testosterone has been proven to make one have exhibit dominate traits. There's a reason why Female to Male Trans have to take testosterone and there is always a clear personality shift once the hormone levels are increased. Don't have to take my word for it (even though I went to school for it) look it up yourself. Low Testosterone means lower dominant traits. So no, these qualities are exhibited by different genders for a reason. Also at no point did I say what I prefer or want in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:56 PM
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So what you're saying is "she'll only submit to a true alpha, to let her feminine energies flourish" Sounds like conditional femineity. That's where your argument fails, because it's circular logic. Well the man won't be in his masculine until he has a women in her feminine. Also if you just think for just a second.... What type of man wants to be in a relationship with an argumentative women. If she's not feminine (because submissiveness is a feminine trait more than a male) then she's acting M…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:04 PM
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The women who complain about it, just don't like the thought of not being special so they are projecting their feelings amongst all women.The reality is women will never know unless the guy tells them he was doing it.And the reason why he's sending the same message to multiple women.... because it works. Then they'll complain and say that you should get a large network and date from that meet-up group. They say this while not realizing that the guys who do this are labeled "Nice guys" which wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:17 AM
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Your results and conclusions were similar to mine. Once they were sexual in the beginning they were more willing to be in a relationship or FWB. Some of mine have lasted for over a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:51 PM
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The issue is you are generalizing all men. Your statement comes off to me as you are saying all men are selfish and only see women as holes. The line about saying "if men(generalization) were honest" gives me this implication. it implies that all men are dishonest. It implies that no man ever has told a woman he wanted to hook-up and not get rejected. It also implies that women always are going to have feelings for any man they sleep with. Escorts do not catch feelings, Gold diggers do not catch…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:09 PM
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Considering the STD rates in elderly homes, I would guess... Yes. This is assuming he saved enough to retire to an elderly home.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:35 PM
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depends on the age of the man and women in question. 18-25 most likely unrealistic since this age range has little long term relationship experience, and wanting to party more (unless religious or family minded) 26- 36 Most are willing to compromise for a relationship, Women still hold out for Mr.Perfect but every year she is lonely she opens up to more types or people. Guys at this range are either looking for wives or just learned how to talk/flirt with women and are in their player phase. 36+…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:27 AM
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nope, I think the only solution is more interaction with the genders in real life. People only voice their complaints online so you'll hear the loudest voices. It's considered rude to brag, so happy people aren't going to talk about how great their life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 03:33 AM
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Yeah pretty much, people won't admit it though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:43 AM
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Whats also not stated is if they are gay or straight friends
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:37 PM
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Current GF did this at the start of the relationship when her door lock was broken and she wanted me to fix it despite it being the landlords responsibility and that I'm not a locksmith. She said her last ex could fix the lock, I responded by saying well if it keeps happening he did a shitty job. Told her to call the landlord (because if the lock needs to be changed they need the key and they will pay for it) she insisted that I fix it. So Some time passes and she is forced to report it to the l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:01 PM
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I agree with you, I think talking about expectations before your exclusive helps mitigate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:24 PM
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Men and women use different meanings for the same words and thus it's like men and women speak different languages. Woman: "No is yes, yes is yes unless yes means no" Need I explain this one. Man: "How are you feeling to day babe?" Women: "FINE" She was in fact, not fine. Man: "Babe I like Tea" Woman: " Are you saying you hate Coffee??" Man: "She has cool sneakers" Woman: " Why do you hate me? Sometimes saying you like something means you hate something about her. If I didn't experience this wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:08 PM
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No the issue is always interpersonal and money related. The fear of gold diggers is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:00 AM
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Since I was a former lonely man before I became attractive, I try to bring awareness to people who don't know. I also give out pointers to (IRL) the men I know who need some help, they see my success and normally listen to a pointer based on what I see they lack (or need to tweak)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:02 AM
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Not really, if anything your responses show that you lack reading comprehension. Because you were the one who attacked first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:09 AM
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Why would wealthy guys come on to reddit just to complain? They wouldn't, they would hire a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:02 AM
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See how attacking others and assuming ignorance gets you no where.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:00 AM
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Can you prove that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:57 PM
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I see you are a parody of a troll account. My bad for taking you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:37 AM
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That's what I got out of it. Not sure how else I'm supposed to interpret it. You don't randomly talk about your expectations in a longterm relationship unless a problem happens. Think about why your last relationship broke up. I bet it was because of a deal breaker that could have been avoided 1 month in rather than 3 years. (aside from cheating) If you can't understand that, then you are purposefully being dense. There is no other time to talk about the relationship amicably, and if you think s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:51 AM
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Nah. We'll talk and discuss and figure it out along the way. The only way you'll discuss is if a problem occurs. Which could be an avoidable dealbreaker. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:48 AM
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The key ingredient here is that women are a net negative for government revenue. The reason women have gained status and money is because the government mandated it through many policies. Those policies were paid for by men. Men are literally subsidizing the ability women have to "view people as disposable." Can't comment on the Government part because you didn't provide any examples or supporting evidence of women being a net negative. But I agree with you about men Subsidizing women... hence m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:47 AM
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I'm not sure what point you were trying to make other than saying Arab women don't have rights. That doesn't change the fact that the men have to invest first.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:28 AM
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If only you actually read the comment, we could have a discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:27 AM
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At what point would you discuss what to expect in your long-term relationship? If you are already in a relationship the expectation would be to carry on as you started, if you try and say what you expect after already being in a relationship it would feel like a bait and switch ​ Edit#1 As an example if your in a relationship with a guy and he was paying for all the dates and bills, and he suddenly said... "Well now we are in a relationship for long-term I expect you to pay the bills while I coo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:26 AM
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She volunteered to do the work in those examples, since it was discussed beforehand as in before it became exclusive. As the point was discussing what we expected and want. That's what people in a successful relationship do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:10 AM
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They may not have as many rights.... but the interaction only happens because their fathers(men) have to set-up either the arrange marriage or approve the courtship (depending on country). religion is social programing since it tries to change both male and female behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:08 AM
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This is just a result of seeing people as disposable. In the past people would cultivate their relationships and both sides would invest into the relationship. In the situationships of today, everything is uncertain. Everyone wants to feel like they got ahead, no one wants to feel like a sucker. Dating today has lost the plot. Dating is supposed to be about finding a partner to marry, so both people would invest in dates and eventually each other. (Going on a picinic I drive, she makes a food ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:51 AM
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Most guys here meaning PPD? Reddit? Because you will be surprised by the amount of men in PPD that are in a relationship. How did you conduct your observations?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:00 AM
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They just become FWB, or the man is too suspicious of the girl and nothing happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:06 AM
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First of all, casual sex is bad regardless if you are a man or woman. If men are naturally supposed to be leaders, why not hold the men choosing to sleep with Carol accountable as well? Because Men aren't a hive mind, we aren't all one tribe. I'm not going to try and correct a stranger I don't know on their behavior. Friends we will say our piece but it's ultimately up to the individual and their wants. ​ Obviously Carol sounds like kind of a hoe here, but why not encourage men to create a bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:59 AM
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A 9/10 success rate of getting with a girl. 90% of the women you talk to will say yes. 10% of the time you get rejected/ wrong number. That seems normal to me. Nothing to see here, just an insanely attractive person wondering why everyone is struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 06:50 PM
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Avoiding it doesn't make it any less awkward especially when that guy will eventually ask said friend out, unless it's clear to them it shall not be. (Not talking about the ones who take it badly)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:06 AM
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Men are generally more risk averse so they.... A. want to try and connect being friends (without flirting) and think that their personality and the fact that they share an activity will be enough. These guys who are friend-zoned (often) also tend to be hyper agreeable with said friend. B. Men aren't born with a guide on how to be attractive and how to attract, so the ones who end up there (non-purposefully) so these ones ones are to shy to say anything and just watch on the side. C. Women are wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:35 AM
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The grass is always greener on the other side. It's not like those guys are going to come out to social media to publicly complain about their problems and expose themselves when they have a reputation. They keep things discreet and mainly hire escorts (instagram models and cam girls they can throw enough money at) to avoid the problem women.(also it's hard to tell who really likes you and who's out for your money at a certain level on income.... It just becomes easier to hire escorts at that po…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:46 AM
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Some women care about those things as a barrier to casual sex. But the only Barrier is the man's approach, looks and vibes. One of those better be good, to compensate for the others. Red-pillers are A-political. they are Men who struggle with women, they aren't liberal or conservative. They're frustrated. So they're trying anything they think might work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:38 AM
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Those that complain might be vulnerable narcissist or just a narcissist. If it's a reasonable response to abusive behavior and they respond without acknowledging the shitty behavior done.... then they probably do said behavior and are trying to justify it. You will never win that argument, it will just devolve into an argument they can win.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:56 AM
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It can be followed with logic because I explained it logically
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:15 PM
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Because the hobbies and places that they interact where there is an equal interest is low. So it's not that they want to exclude but their interactions are low so take a shot at what ya got. Edit#1 This is outside of school/work I see most female groups with gay male friends rather than straight male friends. Edit#2 also when you hangout in "couples groups" because couples tend to hang out with other couples. that's a social circle sure but.... not sure you want to hit on anyone there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:20 AM
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Depends on how you define "normal"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:28 AM
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The actor in Barbie doesn't matter, I was using him as an example due to all other women liking him. A Sapiosexual is someone who get's turned on by intelligence. You said it yourself, you got turned on and felt crazy about that guy due to the messages. You liked what he said and how he said it. He most likely said something that deeply resonated with you that no one else has been able to do. So you would be able to date an ugly man if he was smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:46 PM
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So she wanted someone to keep the bed warm at night and pay bills, people only settle out of desperation. So in this case the benefits she gets are the benefits she asked for from the relationship at the start. So if she went 50/50 she had to know what it was from the start. So she gains what she asked. If she asked for nothing she gets nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:30 PM
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Why did she choose to be with a man who doesn't sexually satisfy her? you would think she would know after a couple nights of sex. Why did she choose to be with a low status man? it already gives off the disposition that she doesn't respect him..... so why and how did she date and why did she precede to get in a relationship if she already was unhappy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 10:02 PM
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Gay men share similar hobbies and activities with women and tend to be more extroverted, meaning they have more chances to find a woman they vibe with. Then they hang with their friends and friends friends etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:22 PM
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When something comes easy to someone they can't understand why it's hard for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:03 PM
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Oh I see, you're a sapiosexual and don't realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:00 PM
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Just to be clear I fully understand what you mean by the "spark" as a feeling. You see it as something that you can't explain but it's a feeling of this is the one right here. where you almost feel compelled to act to do something to get their attention. ​ Love at first sight is high lust mixed with physical attraction. There's a reason love at first sight is never with anyone ugly. Looks maxing can help. If Ryan Gooseling was 500 pounds in the barbie movie and dressed like he was homeless.... I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:04 PM
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Your answers keep referencing how accessible the hobby is. Any gender can do any hobby. I'm not talking about access, I'm talking about interest in the hobby for current day. 1.Males were into dancing from the 1920's but that has significantly declined. There is not a plethora of men in salsa clubs and salsa dancing schools for example. There are guys who go to clubs sure, but even there the amount of men dancing to women is low. That's not saying there are no men interested in dancing, but wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:15 PM
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comedy is subjective, to have perfect humor would be to tailor your humor to hers. She might not find the meme funny, but another women would. So it's possible, it's pointless because she's going to want more than jokes from you, and comedy alone won't keep a relationship. Just find a woman who laughs at your jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:02 PM
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You might be misunderstanding, me. A guy only approaches who he's attracted to. That is the Spark for men. It's not like just because he's really into her she's going to be really into him(most women hate guys that are super into them early on anyway) It takes a lot of courage to approach a woman or even flirt with a woman. He wouldn't do that unless he felt the "spark" to approach and try his luck. And "The spark" 100% can be created once you understand the mechanics of how attraction works any…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:52 PM
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Accessible is not the issue. It's interest. More male gamers than females. Men tend to skew heavy for gaming, not a lot of women in it. More women like dancing then men. One of the complaints from women is the lack of male dancers needed for the hobby. Book Clubs skew heavily female, Trades as a hobby Skew Heavily Male. What hobby are you thinking of that both genders are equally represented and interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:40 PM
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The "spark" that you are describing is a feeling you get when you meet someone who gets you. The "Spark" is a luxury because you wait until you feel it from a man. A man only approaches who he's attracted to(if you want to call that the "Spark" then sure) But men have to approach 100 women to see if they match his energy just to find one. Eventually the man learns how to create the "spark" and then a new player is born. If he doesn't know how to create chemistry(or flirt) then he's just flying b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 10:27 AM
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Social circles with women in it makes it easier. Getting a social circle with women is very hard. That is mainly due to men and women hobbies having a gap. Most women I've encountered really only have gay male friends rarely ever straight. The only time they're in a group is when they are out in the club or they are FWBs. I'm sure exceptions exist, I just haven't seen them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 10:15 AM
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Women aren't encouraged, it's just one user's opinion that is in opposition to someone like Candace Owens who urges women not to do that. That said she's going to remain unhappy, because she's going to realistically bond with her FWB. The other problem with that advice, is it makes men seem like a commodity and makes it hard to bond(pair bond) with anyone because she will always have someone on the back burner and she's going to go into a permanent Wait and see mode just to leave him at the firs…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:32 AM
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Without knowing how many hours Person A works it's difficult to say, also do you consider raising kids a chore? or going to their sporting events? if so, instant no. Ideally they both talked about chores/duties before moving in. If they did, then yes. Clearly he's allowed because they both talked about their expectations. If they didn't and this is some sort of unspoken thing....Divorce imminent because now the wife will build resentment for the work she's doing, The husband will build resentmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:12 AM
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I read through the studies, and for those who didn't read it, they basically(super summary) said if your an introvert(they use introvert but they are describing anti-social) you have higher levels of stress due to being lonely which leads to unsatisfactory life because you are lacking in social engagements when compared to extroverts, who are happier because they have more opportunities to find someone due to being able to meet more people. They basically are saying that if you are feeling lonel…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:03 AM
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why are so many guys desperate and getting rejected by women, if female standards weren't high? The relationship and birth rates are declining proving that women (American) aren't getting with men at the same rate they did in the past. What changed if not female standards, because you already know men desperate for a relationship will bend over backwards to accommodate a girls standard. ​ guys who haven't been successful and are experiencing a majority of rejection, are bitter. You only care abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:32 AM
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Could be bad at getting dates or the women of that culture are insufferable and make it harder than it needs to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:03 AM
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The first step is identifying the problem. 1.The swiping apps are detrimental due to their being an overabundance of choice. When people get overwhelmed choice that's when the crazy standards and the pickiness comes in like a bat out of hell. 1a. Dating apps need to be reworked into forcing you to talk to the person who matches with you before moving on. That way her inbox isn't flooded with millions of men and he actually will get a response from her. ​ 2.Most men now a days don't have the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:58 AM
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Well I'm not sure how other people do it, but when I enter a relationship part of the discussion for me about whether we are going to be bf/gf is about our expectations for the relationship. My Partner and I discussed what we expected the other to do, and what we like in a relationship and compromised on some aspects like chores etc. Now I occasionally leave her little love letters/poems around the house because that's something she really values, and she always cooks whatever exotic dish I like…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:25 PM
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Normally rebellious against their parents, if anything that helps you because now they want to make it work just to anger their parents. But on the date you would be testing to see if she gets along with you(rebellious) and is agreeable to you. If she's combative with you on the first date, then you already know what she's about, and the relationship doesn't happen. If you go on the date and she laughs at your jokes, is trying to flirt with you subtly on the date and you have a general good time…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:01 PM
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Well culture also defines how women act, i'm only speaking about my experience with American women. You may find women of other cultures relatable to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:54 PM
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There's a social divide sure.... but women who hate men are the vocal majority but general minority. Hetero-relationships will always be the norm because society collapses if it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:24 PM
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Of legal consent age, As long as both parties share a mutual understanding of what they want from the relationship and both are satisfied. Once again any incompatibility will be weeded out in the date. the draw back to dating younger women is if they feel like they "missed out" after being with you for x amount of years. That mainly happens though when the relationship is unsatisfactory... in which case they break up. (or cheating happens w/e)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:58 PM
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Date who gets you... Older women tend to be dominating or masculine. Doubly so if they're career women, even more true if they already have a house. At that point she will be unwilling to give up anything and will expect you to bend to her whims or get out. younger women have more energy and tend to be more feminine, agreeable and be excited for trips out (unless they are an instagram model then don't waste your time). People complain about relatability...but that's weeded out during the dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:22 PM
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fair
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:11 PM
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So what about the study that showed 60% of men being sexless and 30% of women being sexless. is it implied that the 60% of men are hermits then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:36 PM
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