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I did it. Twice. You are full of shit.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 02:30 PM
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Chick flicks are actually made for both men and women - that is for those men that are dragged by their women. Want to see medium targeted exclusively at women? Read some romance novels. Each and every one of them has the same theme - cold, strong alpha who doesn't give a fuck turns slightly beta for his true love and decides to commit.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 07:03 PM
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There's also the other side to this: For many man, me included, when they attempt too many times, their approach becomes mechanical
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 07:46 AM
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Here's a couple books you might find helpful: "New Psychocybernetics" and "Day Bang". The former is about improving your self-image, the latter - about daygame. Pro tip: If you are too shy to talk to hot girls, you can practice "Day Bang" on any stranger at first. Baby steps.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 07:09 AM
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I lived in many areas that are considered mekkas for getting laid. I've seen many young tourists focusing on getting laid, and I very strongly recommend - don't. Most of those men got laid, so they could brag about another flag, but in the process they had completely ruined their vacation. Obsession with sex, they couldn't really enjoy themselves, relax and explore the area.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 07:22 AM
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People mentioned abundance already. Also, as you learn game, get to look better, etc. you will realise what really attracts women. Through that experience, you will internalise what their worth is - a few tricks and a visit to hairstylist.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 07:19 AM
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I only did it at 27, having wanted it without any doubts for several years. If I were you, I would give it at least a year, and until then wrap it up and always flush the condom down the toilet.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 07:07 AM
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As a side note I have a watch with a microphone/recorder for taking notes in meetings. Its also useful for protecting yourself. Never reveal that you have it or use it unless the shit really truly hits the fan. This is brilliant. Any particular model you recommend?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 07:27 AM
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prostitutes male friendships work on yourself, to become accomplished in at least one area hobbies do enough cool shit that you have too little free time to think about women As someone who has little experience with women, you have a naive (no offence, we've all been there) expectation that they will provide you with a lot of things (pussy, bond, friendship, validation). Except for pussy, that is not true. You get all those things from different sources, and then you don't crave women to supply…
/r/askTRP25/02/17 12:09 PM
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A sure-fire way to get laid when you want is a pro.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 11:41 AM
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My problem is, awkwardness really turns me off. And as I improve myself, more and more women that I consider really hot turn awkward-creepy while pursuing me.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 07:39 AM
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It might be that. Girls also brag to betas, though. That way she can test how addicted to her the beta is. She can also get absolution for acts that she is partially ashamed of.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 01:06 PM
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You can buy it. You cannot download it from torrents, as that would be highly illegal ;-)
/r/askTRP09/01/17 08:16 AM
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Change your environment to where there is more STEM girls (maybe shop near some technological university, or hang out in pubs near one). It might be that you are subconsciously afraid that non-STEM girl would not find you attractive, and so you find them unattractive preemptively to avoid getting rejected. Consider this: You prefer to hang out with smart people because then you both get something out of it. It's all fine. But a true alpha spends a lot of time with people who are in some way infe…
/r/askTRP08/01/17 07:56 AM
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Wasn't he Cleopatra's bitch?
/r/askTRP08/01/17 07:28 AM
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You realise your comment is completely unrelated to my request, right? (Unless Marcus Aurelius was slaying pussy, which I'm not aware of)
/r/askTRP07/01/17 07:20 PM
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I'm halfway through, and that's what gave me idea, but I don't like the book itself. A lot of the advice is based on pure fiction, and contradicts my experience or TRP advice (or both).
/r/askTRP07/01/17 07:18 PM
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ITT everybody humblebrags how they can perfectly handle this kind of situation, yet nobody explains how to handle it. Anyone?
/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:09 PM
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Here's what I would suggest you do: Pick a martial art that most appeals to you for whatever reasons, go to their intro class. Stay around and watch their advanced class. Talk to the guys afterwards.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 09:01 AM
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You might also enjoy whiteknighting then.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 08:43 AM
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I simply always carry a pill of kamagra together with the emergency condom in my wallet.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 08:40 AM
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Where I am there is a lot of Alpha competition so I don't look like much compared to them. Australia? I got some lays from cold approach while still looking like shit. It took a lot of effort, way more than I need now. But in the process I also learned a lot about myself, and some skills translated to other areas of my life.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 08:35 AM
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This is about professional fighters. Unless you intend to compete professionally, I wouldn't worry about it at all. You will not suffer brain trauma from trainings and sparring sessions (assuming your teachers know what they are doing).
/r/askTRP07/01/17 08:19 AM
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Get used to it, embrace it. When you contradict stereotypes associated with your group, it makes you more unique, unforgettable, mysterious. I used to get that as well (I'm not black, but there are many negative stereotypes about people of my nationality). When they would say "You don't look like X", I would simply respond "Oh really, and what is a X supposed to look like?" That would put them on their toes a bit because I communicated I was interpreting their compliment as somewhat xenophobic. …
/r/askTRP07/01/17 08:11 AM
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Shit tests don't ever actually end, ever. Some guys here think that they will "become" this Alpha, find an LTR, and live happily ever after. She will continue to test you until her options of branch swinging are depleted, i.e. extreme age. In a way they do. When you learn the game and internalise the new, attractive personality, you no longer notice shit-tests and consciously respond to them. At that point, you are just being you. There is this BP idea I see posted around reddit, saying TRP is a…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 07:59 AM
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Assuming you live in US, trimming will make you slightly more attractive to a wider range of women. Not trimming will make you significantly more attractive for fewer women.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 07:55 AM
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I got a 6-digit salary straight out of college. I'm a software engineer, and I'm really skilled at it. Nothing unusual about 6-digit salaries in this field.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 08:22 AM
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Find a hobby that you can invite girls to do with you.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 11:51 PM
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Search TRP for "comfort tests"
/r/askTRP05/01/17 07:28 AM
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It's contextual. You might be an alpha to your FWB, and a beta to your LTR after you tried to fake higher value than you had and she saw it through.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 07:27 AM
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That's what most people claim here. I didn't find it to make it any easier. When I'm not very horny, it's easier for me to demonstrate IDGAF, and not put her on a pedestal. In fact, one of the famous PUA coaches recommends that you should approach some women you are not attracted to, remember your attitude and behaviour towards them, and then try to reproduce that when you are approaching real hotties.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 07:24 AM
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NoFap is useful as a tool in some situation. For most people, though, it has become an ideology.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 08:10 AM
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I would suggest a class. Doing anything in a group is more fun, motivating, and when doing it on your own, you might make many mistakes that you won't notice.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 08:01 AM
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By the time the clothes fall off, her logical thinking and preconceived notion of what she expects will be long gone. Don't worry about it.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 07:27 AM
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Same here. I couldn't care less about meditation, if it wasn't for the insufferably annoying cunts who want to shove meditation down everyone's throat. Almost as annoying as vegans.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 10:12 PM
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Get an app. Personally, I use "Voice Recorder" for Android. I can start the recording with a single tap on my phone's home screen. Start recording as soon as she steps through my door. Upload somewhere right afterwards (Google Drive in my case), in case something happens to my phone.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 06:48 PM
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Scares the shit out of me. Especially when she admits to having no recollection of how we got to my bed, when she was stone cold sober the entire time. As it should. Save the next-day text. Record audio. You never know what she will make up. It's not just something that people on TRP say. It's the reality that's seems weird because it's so counter-intuitive.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 12:59 PM
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Felt motivated as fuck. Felt like a man. I didn't feel like a slave to women. Because you achieved something difficult, doesn't matter what it was. You could reproduce that feeling with something as simple as cold showers.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 06:50 AM
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I'd reward her without coming off as needy. "I will see you soon".
/r/askTRP01/01/17 06:42 AM
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NMMNG - read 3 chapters and see if it seems relevant to you. If not, skip. RM should be good next, brace yourself for really poor editing. Luckily, content makes up for it. Don't bother with Models
/r/askTRP31/12/16 09:20 PM
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Actually, that's part of the advice in "No More Mr. Nice Guy". It's supposed to help you get over shame of your sexuality that was instilled in you in your childhood. There was a time when I found it very helpful, might have been just a placebo effect, though.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 07:10 PM
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Anybody that takes him or his advice seriously is a fucking loser. Anybody that evaluates advice solely by the author's bio is misguided, quite literally.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 07:05 PM
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Let's not forget, in some situations Agree&Amplify is also self-deprecating humour. It's basically signalling: "I couldn't care less about you questioning my value".
/r/askTRP31/12/16 06:50 PM
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Three things, in the order of likeliness: We are social animals, and as such need to know exactly our position within the group to feel comfortable. Doesn't matter whether it's low or high. As long as everyone, including you, is on the same page regarding your position, you feel comfortable. Low-status people are constantly signalling that they won't challenge those that are higher than them. They try to draw people's attention away from their real insecurities by faking IDGAF about those less i…
/r/askTRP31/12/16 06:47 PM
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And here is a bunch of reasons to send a "Happy New Years!" text: It's a nice way to test the ground on girls that went cold and you are considering re-spinning If you just got her number, and had only a short interaction with her, it's the only reasonable way to continue the interaction. Depending on your personality, your relationship to her and how you got to know each other, it might be expected of you, and not doing so would signify lack of social intelligence.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 06:38 PM
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Step by step. Physical strength, decisiveness, dominance in bed, leadership (not just with women) are all linked together. You might try this: set some rules for yourself. E.g., every X minutes you have to try to escalate further than you have so far. Or "whenever X happens, I will do Y" (e.g., whenever we are at my place, within 60 minutes of us kissing, I will put her hand on my cock; or "whenever we are hanging out with guys, I will suggest where we should go"). You will be coming off autisti…
/r/askTRP29/12/16 06:18 PM
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A novel and very useful perspective. This also explains why so few men can swallow the red pill: Before you become an asshole, you have to transition from a good guy to a creep, and that's painful.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 08:29 AM
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I did one 6 recently, and enjoyed it immensely. For some time I had this fantasy of doing an ordinary next-door type of girl. Really fun. I don't think I will be doing it often, but might get one again at some point to diversify. It's like fried liver - delicious when you get it once every few months, both try it more often, and it's disgusting.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 06:53 PM
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You know, if you are dominant, most women will be turned on by you having your way with them. Grabbing their head and putting your dick in it will get them really wet. Much better foreplay, if you ask me.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 10:47 AM
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So do you disagree with the point I'm making, with my choice of wording, or just with the title?
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 10:24 PM
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I met some real friends through it. Most of people there are male version of damaged goods, i.e., clueless, socially awkward dorks seeking validation from both girls and other men in the group. I don't frequent them anymore for that reason. There are some truly amazing, wise and successful people over there, though. Also, meeting someone who used to be the former but through hard work became the latter is super-motivating.
/r/askTRP24/12/16 09:01 AM
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I think you will need a 2-step process: Learn some sex tricks, "How to make her Squirt", "How to make her come 57 times in a single night", etc. Realize that the girls will get addicted to you if you focus on your pleasure and do with them whatever the hell you want.
/r/askTRP24/12/16 08:49 AM
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I think it's because high IQ lets you get by in life without developing social skills, strength, etc.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 06:02 PM
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Preference for white skin is common for the entire human species. Of course, the supply (and therefore competition) is lower in non-touristy areas outside Europe and Americas.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 05:57 PM
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They are hot. Some areas in EE are still very conservative, so women might be a good LTR material (watch out though, that's not true about all of EE). And the grass is always greener on the other side.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 07:55 AM
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Set up the meet that suits your schedule perfectly. E.g., you know you will be going back from gym at 8:10pm? Tell them to meet you at 8:00 (she will be late) in the cafe on your way. She looks different? She lied to you. You have the moral right to leave right there and then. If you feel uncomfortable with this, that in itself is a good exercise in making yourself your top priority. If she looks worse but still ok-ish, try to escalate fast. (That is, if she is too ugly to spend a couple hours w…
/r/askTRP21/12/16 02:50 PM
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This guy knows what he is saying. Let me add some a bit. You can fulfil your dreams - interesting travels, experiences. Mentioning those casually raises your SMV. You can hire professionals at outsource the parts of your life you don't like. Hire a cleaner = your place looks nicer. Hire a stylist = nice clothes without having to learn about fashion and go through stores yourself. There is also more indirect influence: Having money, especially if you earned it, is a huge confidence boost. Knowing…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 07:56 AM
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In A, the only thing is lack of muscles. In B, he assumes position as if trying to occupy less space. Personally, I don't find anything wrong with his haircut. I've met alpha guys with messy (i.e., 'I don't give a fuck') hair.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 07:45 AM
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Here's a couple things I have successfully done in the past to deal with this or similar issues: Take cold showers, while maintaining completely relaxed and neutral facial expression. This then carries on into your life when you feel some kind of tension (e.g., about how you are perceived). Talk to yourself in a mirror. You may re-enact conversations you had earlier that day and did something you want to correct, like smiling too much. Obviously, this time try to behave the way you desire. Somet…
/r/askTRP11/12/16 03:37 PM
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I was/am in a similar situation. I found "Day Bang" by Roosh very helpful. Not necessarily as a long-term pussy strategy, but following his advice and approaching women following the book forces you to act very normal.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 08:35 AM
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Reminds me of a story... Eastern Europe, middle of winter. I'm going home from a party, completely sober. It's middle of night, obviously, so dark. In front of me a girl is lying on the sidewalk completely drunk, with two skinny guys next to her. She's screaming "I hate you" over, and over again. Their taxi has just arrived. They try to drag/convince her to go with them. Can't tell whether they had known her before, or just met her that night and tried to take the opportunity. Doesn't matter, I …
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 08:21 PM
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Take a break from pursuing sex. 1 month monk mode will work. I lost my virginity with a prostitute. The following month was one of the most carefree and relaxed periods of my life. Also, soon after I met my first fuck buddy.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 08:35 PM
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tl;dr: Cold Approach doesn't work for OP. I hope that you find or have found something that works for you. All the best.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 10:18 PM
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I love it provided she is hot and doesn't smell bad.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:45 AM
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Didn't make any difference in my case. In fact, I had problems falling asleep during nofap, so my mood was worse during that period. That being said, you should probably follow the advice of the majority, and see how that works for you. You might be an outlier like me, but by definition that's less likely.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 12:29 AM
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