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Loved this. Very well articulated post. The point on going to bed tired everyday really drove the point across. All these are great actionable points. Personally for me, the problem lies in lack of discipline and will-power. Even though I know what is best for me to do, I struggle with depression and just lack of energy and motivation to do anything really. Here's to hoping that 2018 was the end of that crap. Have a great empowering year, OP!
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 06:00 AM
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Wow, thanks for sharing your story man. It's the truth, no matter how much we want to deny it. I know that today she really feels to be with my (I think). But nothing is going to guarantee that she remains that way in future.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 06:31 AM
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Exactly! I'm conscious of this fact despite my feelings. This is the power of knowledge TRP has provided me. Anyway, I think the best plan of action right now is to be ok with the pain and separate. It's going to be difficult but I'll try and make her understand the same thing. Somehow.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 06:28 AM
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First of all, good on you for realizing the problem. Be mindful of it and consciously avoid it. Never get overly-attached to any girl. This is applicable in all stages - whether she sent you a "hi" or even if you've been fucking each other for months. Never get dependent on a girl for your happiness. Read up on stoicism; you might find it helpful for your situation. Negative visualisation helps. It doesn't mean you shouldn't try, it simply means be prepared for the worst. Also, you might just ha…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:38 AM
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Thanks for the detailed reply. You're right - the second venue was not so much about me trying hard, rather it was about dancing and having a good time. It was on a different floor in the same building and I knew the place had good vibes, so I decided to go for it. I know exactly how and when I fucked up. Lesson learned. It's just a little hard to accept the embarrassment in my own eyes.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:07 PM
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Thanks for the motivation and perspective my man. All the best to you on your journey!
/r/askTRP08/10/18 01:59 PM
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You must be kidding. Being short isn't the end-all for men. I know a lot of guys who are short and alpha af. Lookup "Alpha M" on YouTube for instance. It's a limiting factor yes, but there's plenty other stuff to work on. That's life - you have to accept what you've got in your control and keep working on being the best version of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 03:12 AM
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I've been with these people for quite some time now since the time when we are a startup of very few people. I like to think that they are real friends. But of course, this wishful thinking is just a different version of Not-AWALT. Thanks for reminding!
/r/askTRP22/05/18 09:19 AM
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Helpful advice. Thanks for sharing!
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:25 AM
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You're right mate. I have made a few slips recently. Will get this shit fixed before it's too late.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:16 AM
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Solid advice for life.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:14 AM
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Makes sense. I was implementing push-pull which has been working great so far. So I thought it (I love you) was justified after a day of aloofness.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:14 AM
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Nice one 🤣! Saved for next time.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:11 AM
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Wow! Very cool. Stealing this one. Can't believe I've never tried this. Usually I'm still an uber nice guy on texts. I just use it for setting up the next meeting.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:16 PM
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A platonic long distance ltr (ended now) and a few ONSes.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 04:58 AM
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Same for me. I am quite literally a 2-pump-chump. The maximum I have lasted in all my 5-6 encounters is 1 minute. Excessive masturbation and porn over the years are probably the likely culprits. I'm working on improving myself daily. However, in my mind, I find myself hamstering to not f-close at times simply because I know I would fail again and it would be embarrassing.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:45 PM
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Easily the funniest shit I've read all day. Don't know if that was intentionally humorous or OP is just chill like that.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 04:32 PM
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This helps me immensely. Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 03:40 AM
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Haha! Got the point mate. I live in a capital city, so no - that's not an issue. I'll delete her.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 04:56 PM
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I tried LSD and the experience was not enjoyable for me. It caused me a lot of anxiety. From the literature I later read on the effects, it seems that the impact depends a lot on the person's mental state at that time as well. If you're in a bad place, it can possibly fuck you up even more. For what it's worth, I remember feeling that everything in the world is meaningless and I should do more for my parents and family.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:15 AM
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That's what I've been trying to do. It's been extremely difficult because my natural reaction in all situations is still wired to the old ways. Trying to be more conscious of things I say and do. Also, I've found that an analysis later on helps - things that I should/shouldn't have done.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:05 AM
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Golden words. Thanks for the insight. I realized that I have shut out parts of my memories which hurt and I just try to not think about the past at all costs. I have also been slacking off in approaching new girls by making excuses to myself. That needs to change. I will embrace the harsh reality and work on myself. Can't rise to the top if you're not feeling sick of the absolute bottom!
/r/askTRP20/03/18 09:59 AM
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Actually bad use of words on my part. I meant when I'm drunk. Still, doesn't change anything. Alcohol is a drug too and right now, I can't let myself fall complacent by finding recluse in mindless drinking. The best way to swallow TRP is to get royally fucked over. Definitely can relate to that. I'm thankful for my recent experience of being fucked over and for the unexpected tight slap of reality. Taking my resolve to transform into a tough and more mature man as a positive out of it.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 09:52 AM
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Thanks for the insight. If/when your lying ex calls you, just know every word spoken to you is spoken with Chad’s cum on her breath. When she kisses you, Chad’s cum residuals are still there. That's some pretty strong visualization considering I pedestalized her for a long time. Definitely helpful advice.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 09:44 AM
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I have been practising, yes. Working on self improvement right now. Success with girls has been slow so far though.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:41 PM
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Man that's rough.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 09:43 AM
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Haha! Nice. Made me laugh.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 05:18 AM
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Some absolute nuggets of gold there in that advice. Helped me get a different perspective on my situation. Also, thanks for the specific tip on how to handle that last phone call. I've installed tinder and yes, the current plan of action is to work on myself and fuck bitches. Thanks man!
/r/askTRP22/02/18 03:40 AM
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I'm sorry, which rule did I break? Rule 1 from sidebar says - "only personal advice or theory clarifications". My post falls in the first category.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 02:49 PM
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Your frame is weak as fuck. And you do give a fuck. Quit lying to yourself and realize that you're still in love with her. You're not over her, not even close. You need to do some serious work and move on. Start by blocking her everywhere and date other women. Hard, painful words. Just what I needed to hear from someone. Why the fuck would you want her back? Withdrawal symptoms of oneitis, I guess. I sorely want to get over thoughts of this girl. It is my #1 priority in life right now. This shit…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 09:46 AM
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I hear you man. It was a stupid thing to do. No more.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 09:36 AM
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Damn! That's a sweet analogy. I thought I owned that bicycle. Being ok with other guys riding her now is the difficult bit.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:52 AM
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Advice taken :)
/r/askTRP21/02/18 07:24 AM
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Thanks a ton for this! I really needed this. You wanted her to unblock you and beg you to take her back. You still want her to a) beg your forgiveness, b) beg you to take her back, and c) transform from the person she is into the woman you thought she was. You are so right there! The breakup happened over a phone call though and she blocked me later. You're right - I need to go zero contact with her. I have already deleted all her pictures. It's just that the sense of loss is too great. She was …
/r/askTRP21/02/18 07:24 AM
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Words of wisdom. So, I guess if I'm not going to keep her in my life in future, it makes no sense to talk to her.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:00 AM
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This! I only found TRP after I was shit upon and cheated on by my long time LDR. I was the blindest BP guy that ever was. Reading TRP is like a whole new world of truth. I cringe so much at my earlier ignorant self now. I definitely wish I'd found out TRP earlier before I got so much emotionally invested in this girl. Still getting over the regular episodes of hurt and pain.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 03:25 PM
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Yup. I was much more BPed than the guy here. I've been reading TRP for a few weeks now and I am certainly a changed person. Still a long way to go though.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 03:19 PM
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She used to send me nudes regularly. We did everything except real sex. Even dry humping without any clothes and yes, she gave me head. I just got to know that she has blocked me everywhere and also made her "friend" to block me as well. This is the most difficult period of my life. Coming to terms with the fact that I have been a pathetic BP man and wasted so much of my time, love, money and energy on this girl is not a pleasant realization. People are just bashing me on this thread. I know I m…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 03:27 PM
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I'm sorry. My mistake. Will keep in mind in future. Since we already have a decent conversation going on here with contribution from several members, I'd rather we keep this post.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 11:48 AM
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Thanks man! A clear example which explains the point. You're the MVP.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 04:33 PM
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Thanks for the great post, OP! This is really helpful. One question - I know what DHV stands for but didn't understand how to do that with a message in conversation. An example please?
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 02:05 PM
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