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both aim to uphold the patriarchy
/r/ExRedPill23/06/24 05:40 AM
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as a mom, are you willing to let go of the control and let your husband do these things, even if they are done differently than you would do them? if they aren't done "perfectly" or how you would do them, are you willing to overlook it and not hold it against your husband? Many women cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:33 AM
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If both work and make around the same amount, is it reasonable to split the bills and housework 50/50, or do you feel the man should be doing more? I hear complaints from women about “50/50 men.” Whatever that means
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:21 AM
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Until The Left addresses mens problems, we’ll continue losing young men to right wing grifters and social media influencers like Jordan Peterson, Andrew Tate, and Fresh and Fit. They’ll be gone forever, and they actually won’t benefit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/10/23 04:02 PM
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Let me remind people that porn is made by consenting women, especially with the rise of OnlyFans. For many they make a living doing it and love it. That’s your fellow women. And there is a whole movement by women to normalize and encourage sex work. Where is the hate towards these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:43 AM
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I wonder if many women don't give out compliments to men because many men misunderstand this as sexual interest. Women are better at supporting each other and give each other compliments. I think it is a type of mirroring-- because women seek compliments from other women, they assume that men lift each other up (they don't). Furthermore, many women may think that complimenting men gives off "pick me" vibes. And lets be real, many men view compliments with skepticism. "What does this person want …
/r/ExRedPill19/08/23 01:50 AM
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Well this is a hot take Half of American workers make $35,000 or less. Do you suggest that women only seek the top earning men, and the rest of the women remain single when the top earning men run out? Are you suggesting that a large group of your fellow women simply remain in poverty, or should rich men take on 2-3-4 or more women to support? Your math doesn't check out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:04 AM
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OP, are you trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:54 AM
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Are you single currently? Member of r/femaledatingstrategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:57 PM
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I think most relationships start with a natural flow of getting to know each other and that leads to sex. I don't think promiscuous sex is as frequent as some men think it is-- as has been said here, there are too many risks for women. The women who do have sex without dating, many knew the guy anyways and possibly end up together afterwards. Certainly happens that way in reverse in college where you all live in the same building. I am not so sure its a game of 3D chess where women deliberately …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:35 AM
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Yes! Once the motherly instinct kicks in, the sexual attraction leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:34 AM
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You are right. The default position should be to keep it to yourself or find another outlet. Women say they want a man who expresses their feelings but their actions say otherwise. The sexual attraction will go right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:29 AM
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An increasing number of people in the US believe sex work should be legalized, but it’s not driving a culture where you would be shamed for not dating one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:24 AM
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Women are more social than men and confide in their friends more. So you have the good and the bad, bad being gossip. Women are also more sexually liberated than previous generations so there is more sex talk as well. Be prepared as a man because it’s likely your mate will talk about your relationship and sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:20 AM
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i've read articles, written by women of course, saying men need to pay for dates because of this as well as the sexual violence, men are serial killers, and risk of pregnancy https://www.michigandaily.com/opinion/columns/heres-why-men-should-still-pay-for-the-first-date/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:28 AM
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Dudes just need to accept that paying for the first one or two dates is the cost of doing business so to speak. I mean, if you have to justify it in your head the woman has to pay to get her nails done, new outfit, time to get ready, etc. But women also need to know that constantly getting used as an ATM is really tedious and tiresome. Once you are exclusive both parties should be ready to pay at least proportionate to income and have outings within your budget.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:04 AM
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If everyone just pursued their looksmatch from Day One of dating, the world would be a much better place. Everyone would be getting laid, depression would be at an all time low, and this subreddit wouldn’t even need to exist. We might even solve the housing crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:25 AM
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Strong leftist (not liberal) man here. NEVER had a problem getting women. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:21 AM
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At least in America, people are dumb about politics and sometimes self identify as one way, but issue by issue fall in the other side of the political isle. Try cutting a conservative’s Social Security, that evil socialist program.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:19 AM
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well, the women don't want to seem shallow by admitting it's looks that will get you in the door. So they put the burden on men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:15 AM
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I guarantee you that if people had to post their age and verified photos on this sub, it would eliminate 80% of the noise. Who takes dating advice from young, lonely, ugly, poor, stupid.. people? ​ a year or two ago there was a thread where people posted their age and photos! For the men, it was what you expected. Just awkward, late teens/early 20s typical Redditors. Little life experience to go by, not necessarily bad looking dudes, just young. for the women, there was a greater range, but the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:37 AM
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“L” as in loser?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:12 AM
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If you’re willing to provide and already planning to cover the bill, why do you want women to offer? because it is a kind thing to do. Like I said I am prepared to pay for everything. But if a woman just expects that, and doesn't even offer to pay for the tip or parking or the one of your drinks, doesn't that speak to a sense of entitlement? Say a friend asks you out for dinner. Aren't you going to at least offer something like that? you also said "a true provider doesn't require women to pay fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:32 PM
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are you referring to those as a first date, or down the road in the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:53 PM
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Can’t speak for other women but I prefer low effort dates, nobody wants their date stressed out or having to splash out to impress you. Granted what I said was pretty anecdotal, but look at ANY men's magazines, women's magazines, articles about dating, shitty PUA stuff, dating coaches, etc etc and they ALL recommend short initial meetings. From the shitty "red pill" perspective, which occasionally presents some helpful advice, a short date creates a "manufactured time constraint" where you get i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:47 AM
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you can do a "pricey long date" for date 2, 3, or 4. I think "going out for dinner" is pretty low effort and it's a cliche. It demonstrates zero creativity. Women get asked for dinner all the time. If the initial meeting goes well, you can extend the date right there on the spot. You can set up the second date at the end of the first one. I think the details matter more. Like driving TO her instead of making her drive. Doing a little bit of research on unique places to meet. Giving options. I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:36 AM
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1 or 2 hours tops. They either need a second date to find out more about you, or you leave them wanting more. Also cheaper. Neither of you are trapped into a long date. No one wants to be locked into a 4 hour date with someone they don’t like. You don’t need to talk about everything under the sun. It doesn’t become a job interview. If the date flops, it would have flopped anyways on a longer date. Planning an expensive first date indicates you are trying to win them over with money. Leaves a sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:28 AM
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If you read ANY financial advice this is the recommendation. People in here are clueless, but we all know this subreddit is full of unmarried young men with little life experience
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:35 AM
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Let me guess. You aren’t married and you don’t have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:34 AM
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This is how it should be. You pay proportional to income. The higher earner still has more disposable income. If you split things 50/50, one partner could be paycheck to paycheck and the other hoarding money. This is how it ended up with my wife. We are headed for divorce. Funny thing is, I supported her when she was buried in student debt. Me supporting her career financially led to her being a higher earner. I am getting completely hosed financially. And the idiots in here want it that way. Cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:32 AM
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Clearly you are not married and have kids. This is completely not feasible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:27 AM
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My wife makes 2x as me. We contribute the same. The 50/50 everyone is saying. So I live paycheck to paycheck while she hoards her extra income. Is this fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:23 AM
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Can verify. There was a post of “post a picture of yourself” and most were definitely 18-21ish
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:37 AM
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can vouch for this. Women has a built-in support system everywhere they go-- female friends, husband, family, government services-- men are told to "figure it out on their own." Men constantly told to "show their emotions" and then shamed for it and given no support.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:38 AM
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she's 20 years old now.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/23 03:31 PM
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I thought the Greta thing was really dumb. She resorted to the dumbest of insults- a small dick joke- when Tate should have been exposed as a conman and sex trafficker who needed to rot in prison. It was hardly a "own," it was just really low hanging fruit actually. A small dick joke.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/23 05:27 AM
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I’d be perfect for you assuming you could tolerate a cat 🐱. He’s very friendly and old though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:56 PM
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Masculinity isn’t incompatible with leftism. I mean… in the progressive media space alone we have good role models like Cenk from the young Turks, hasan piker, Kyle kulinaki… there are a lot of traditionally masculine men on the Left. Politically there are guys like John Fetterman and Richard Ojeda (not progressive on all issues). Shouldn’t pigeonhole ourselves, there are plenty of masculine Leftist men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/12/22 11:47 PM
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There is also that "alpha fucks beta bucks" mythology that they've created for themselves. I think that comes from a fear that they will be used by the single mom for their wallet and "resources" as they say, like a roof over her and her children's heads. There is also the fear that their sex life will be crap from the get-go because the single mom will be too stressed out to give them sex. Then they generalize it to all women. There are certainly dynamics where these things can be true for *som…
/r/ExRedPill24/08/22 12:00 AM
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Many single moms who are dating have a policy of "my kids come first," and the men dating them feel like they will always be on the back burner, and never be a priority in the woman's life. They think that they will basically get the scraps. This is almost identical to how some married men feel like after their wives have children. The priorities become kids, their family, job, their extended family, pet, and THEN finally the husband. They are also afraid that the single mom will be with them ju…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 11:55 PM
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dude here, just about zero. I work for Amazon and they don't thank you for doing anything, or recognize hard work. Maybe if you have good upper management on your shift. Just about none at home, my wife withholds affection. I am kinda subject to a lot of gaslighting and don't know anymore if I should be complimented or not for things like doing a good job on the lawn, doing her laundry. Like now I am refinishing our basement and haven't gotten any compliments. Often I just think it's my job but …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:40 AM
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BMI is really weird though. I’m a 5’ 10” 190 pound dude and that is considered “overweight.” But I am 45– for my age group I am completely average! BMI is a bad measure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:56 AM
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so you are going to pawn them off on another woman. That's not taking personal responsibility and putting your child and family first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:14 AM
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I’m a dude
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:00 AM
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So, if you get a woman pregnant and she doesn’t want to raise the child, you gonna be a single dad?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:55 AM
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Are you kidding me? Republicans will never fund those things no matter what they say now. Men need to stay out of womens health. Get a vasectomy or use the male birth control pill when it comes out. Btw, the morning after pill is available as a generic med and very cheap on Amazon. Everyone stock up before they try to ban those too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:53 AM
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I agree, so many people on here are stuck in the online bubble. There must be a whole lot of young and inexperienced men here because this is simply not how it plays out in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:25 AM
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No, when we say "thin" it is shorthand for "not overweight or obese" lol upwards of 65-70% of Americans are statistically overweight. I agree with your definition of a "normal" weight woman. But Venus is probably below average! The average size clothing for an American woman is dress size 16. Venus has gotta be more like a size 10 LOL and that is universally pretty damn hot for the majority of men. I think women put more pressure on themselves to be "thin" and I think there is a misconception am…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:22 AM
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it's because they walk everywhere and good food is just part of their culture. Google "school lunch France" and look at the images.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:10 AM
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nope. There are just a whole lotta overweight and obese people in the United States and we have adjusted our expectations accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:08 AM
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My daughter is always on Facetime with her friends. I overheard one of her friends telling my daughter how "good her ass looked in her new leggings." They are both 13. My daughter just laughed it off. She is on Facetime and TikTok a lot but she doesn't hide it from me and her mom. She's responsible and I trust her but still worry about influence from her peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:32 AM
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thank you, this is what I pretty much suspected, the women on here DO think it's an attractive quality when men take control of their reproductive health. In light of the Rowe Vs Wade thing I am noticing most women agree while most of the men here think it doesn't matter. I only have a 60% upvote rate on this post, I am sure the downvotes are all from men lol. Thought one of the rules of this sub was "no downvotes?" ha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:17 PM
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I think you are under a lot of misconceptions and it's way beyond the scope of this post which is about reproductive health. In a nutshell it's about me refusing to see red flags early on in a relationship and ending up in a situation where I have probably been psychologically abused for many years, but I can't tell anymore because of the gaslighting and attempts to isolate me from my family, the kids, it goes on and on.... her enmeshment with her family, putting career above marriage, neglectin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:09 PM
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nah, she's a teacher and very involved in her career, very controlling, and has no appetite for sex. She's told me to go ahead and get a girlfriend on the side, but she's so manipulative that I think it's a trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 05:34 AM
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I think we will see them go after IUDs at some point in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 05:09 AM
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we basically have a five-year plan. It has actually motivated me to get shit in order financially, maintain hobbies that I forgot about (because I know I will need them!), move up at work because I know I will need the money... that sort of stuff. I basically want to hit the ground running. I even have Zillow on my phone to keep an eye on the housing market. I know, its bad....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 05:08 AM
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It's pretty complicated but I think she finally will. We have different life goals. She wants to travel the world and be a "strong independent woman." She makes her own money and doesn't want me to be a part of that. On top of that, she is going to inherit her parents business and she plans on moving to run that. It is more than an hour away. I'm not having it and don't fit into her grand plans
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:49 AM
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Believe me, that was something my wife and I considered. It was not an easy decision but we actually thought the kids were better off with both parents in the same house. How are kids any better off if they get bounced between homes? Everyone loses in a divorce and it can lead to financial devastation as well. The kids know what's up. They are smart kids. Just because it deviates from the normal path of divorce doesn't make it wrong. My wife and I get along cordially anyways. It helps that I wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:46 AM
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I'm not dating until after the divorce-- if it happens. Sorry, might have given the wrong impression
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:43 AM
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Mine was very easy and I had it done while I was awake. Did you get put out for yours? It just did not seem worth it. afterwards I wore two pairs of boxer briefs. boxer briefs, then an ice pack, and another pair of boxer briefs to hold the ice pack on lol Guys don't make your spouse get her tubes tied. It's much easier for a dude. Getting a crown done at the dentist was worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:42 AM
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I swear, pretty soon it is going to be a checkbox on the dating apps like "vaccinated" is. It's not a huge stretch! So, should I just put it in my profile if I ever re-enter the dating market??? haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:56 AM
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it's mutual and we are just in a co-habitation and co-parenting situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:54 AM
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I've already thought about this lol... I am probably headed towards divorce and already thinking ahead to the dating market. I'm middle aged though, so it can't hurt that I have a vasectomy. I doubt a woman around my age will want children. They probably already have kids! But like you said, I think it is much more about comfort. It is not going to make you more attractive (it's kind of dumb to think that) but it can make sex better once you get to that point. How long are doctors required to ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:35 AM
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even subconsciously, since the ability to create offspring is seen as a masculine trait lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:14 AM
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In more recent years, the average number of marriages in the US is around 2.1 million per year. There are around 750,000 divorces on average. That is where the “1/3 to 1/2 of marriages end in divorce” thing comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:06 PM
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I too "love the outdoors." I also love the indoors.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/22 09:05 AM
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The ability to make a living simply by being attractive, and nowadays without having to work for anyone else. And it's easier than its used to be due to greater acceptance in society. There are over a million content creators on Onlyfans alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:56 AM
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In this economy? The number one is having money. The average person is struggling and cannot afford to live alone.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 09:47 PM
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good point! Here is a question- do you think the average woman can tell the difference between the average male height (5' 10") and 6 feet?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:34 PM
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i am serious tho, look at some dating profiles if you can. the amount of women who put "6 ft plus" in their bios is stunning. Zero self awareness. As to not offend anyone, I will just say generally the women are less than average cleanliness and above average BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:30 AM
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I think the women on Reddit are more reasonable, but in the dating market as a whole you are damn right that being wealthy is an advantage. For many it is a deal breaker. Esp in this shitty economy. So is physically strong, behaviorally aggressive (a "go getter"), social status. Number 3 is a given that the majority of women want this. I do think when taken to extremes the traits listed by OP are "toxic" but on the average or lower end, lets be real, women want these things. Women are lying to u…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:45 AM
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Notice how women who prefer taller dudes are radio silent in here. Ever checked out a bunch of dating profiles? It’s astonishing how many women will actually indicate that they are looking for a taller guy. Ladies, it’s a bad look
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:08 AM
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Let’s be real here, being tall is an advantage in the dating market as a whole, all other things being equal. I can see why shorter fellows get down in themselves. I’m 5’10” and relatively secure about my height. But women as a whole will reject a shorter dude right at the onset as compared to a taller dude. Exact same thing with dick size. And yes I know “not all women are like that” but let’s be real, taller height will get you farther in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:06 AM
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I think women have become increasingly leery of random men who talk to them, in this era of "me too" and modern day feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:47 AM
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sure, just to shoot the shit. I am married so its not like I need to go out of the way to talk to anyone. But if we are talking some Pick Up Artist / Red Pill / gaslighting bullshit, yes, you would talk to ALL women. This stuff is pretty manipulative though. at the height of the PUA thing with teachers like Mystery, they would say you involve the whole social group of the woman you were actually attracted to. Like if you were in a club or some sort of casual setting. This sets up some sort of "s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:43 AM
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cant upvote enough
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:35 AM
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Living independently at your age should be a goal. Of course there are tons of benefits to living alone other than attractiveness to women.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/21 05:33 AM
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The scientific research suggests that women are attracted to men with psychopathic traits. This is well-documented in the scientific journals: Psychopathic men have a personality style that makes them attractive to women Are psychopaths sexy? However, it is more due to their ability to dupe women, rather than the negative outward traits that psychopaths exhibit. I will say that some women do go through a phase when they are attracted to "bad boys" and they view them as assertive, masculine, and …
/r/ExRedPill19/09/21 04:29 AM
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I think it is something that happens to all boys/men at some point. It is one of those things that "you know it when you see it" and going through it becomes painful and tiring. For one reason or another it will eventually end, and you will say NEVER AGAIN. I think it is a life lesson that you will be less likely to repeat if you have been through it. That is my personal experience.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/21 04:18 AM
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why is this not flaired with "Bitch?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 11:09 AM
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all sedentary as well
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 02:54 AM
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The conservatives in this forum will downvote me, but truth be known the credit agencies should be put out of business and should be a governmental agency
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 02:44 AM
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yup, another porker with a height fetish
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 02:41 AM
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750 plus credit score huh? Depends on the agency Checkmate, fatty
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 02:39 AM
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Funny how she doesn’t want boring men but she says the most cliche things in her bio— kids are her world and wants a tall man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/21 02:06 AM
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She has to know damn well this is a sensitive subject for a lot of men, and this dude needs to know this is a red flag. She has to be disrespecting him in other ways. Funny how we men are supposed to be open minded about a woman’s body shape under the guise of “body acceptance,” when by and large it doesn’t go the other way. I’m not sure how to handle this other than cut judgemental and insensitive women out of your life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/21 02:03 AM
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The average Asian man is like 5' 5", certainly shorter than American men. Right there she is eliminating waaaay more than half of Asian men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 08:25 AM
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She basically told her spinsterhood was an option, but instead of adopting cats, adopt children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 08:10 AM
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of course they are separate. If you are an experienced person, I guarantee that you have had sex with people you don't even like. More and more often sex comes first, and then love. The tradition of having sex with someone you fell in love with has been flipped on it's head. Ask a college student.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:36 AM
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I think this way of traditional dating is overstated.... there are so many people who "fall into" a relationship with someone at work, college when you are both poor college students, "hanging out" with someone you met on social media, hookup turned into a relationship, etc. I think the traditional route of courtship and "asking a girl out on a date" is kinda dead, regardless of what r/PurplePillDebate and r/FemaleDatingStrategy says. Literally no one in my social circle past or present, or fami…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:08 AM
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She loses all the way around: 1) She'll be heartbroken when she finds out her first boyfriend is married, 2) She has a daily reminder from her friends of everything she's missed by not getting married, 3) The wall is real, 4) Goodbye to having kids, 5) More difficult finding a partner, and 6) First boyfriend is now the "gold standard" to which all future partners will be compared. Might as well go to the SPCA now
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 02:53 AM
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Dresses like a man and a pretty boring person..... who's sold on that?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/21 07:19 AM
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2, maybe 3 kids, with none on the way. I know her and she would actually be datable if it wasn't for the kids. She's a cool girl personally--- she's not insufferable like many. She's one of those women that has a really strong reaction after a breakup but levels out after awhile, and repeats the same cycle.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 03:48 PM
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Some women refer to stretch marks as "tiger stripes"-- as in earning your stripes after having a child. Large women and those who have had kids... ehh there is such thing as a pregnancy fetish! Never met someone who had one though
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 12:20 PM
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"I'm fat and I have stretch marks" is she underselling and she'll over deliver?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 06:37 AM
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It is just astonishing to me how a woman will try to get out and date when she's carrying a child. She's on the rebound, she can't keep her baby daddy around (or made a poor choice of a baby daddy), and is fucking around with OLD when she should be focusing on the well-being of the child. So many layers of problems here... Not to mention. She's setting herself up for getting plowed by a dude while another dudes spawn is moving around inside her. That's just weird for all involved.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 08:05 AM
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If she's a single mom who drops money on boudoir pregnancy photos ($1,000 plus) you are goddamn right she is going to spend your money!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 07:57 AM
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oh god they try to put that shit in everything I'm waiting for essential oils to show up in food
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 07:52 AM
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I used to live in Scranton. A six in NY is actually a 9.5 in Scranton. They are giving Scranton too much credit!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 07:25 AM
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"I'm not looking for anyone to fix me" = I am very much broken and I'm not motivated to change that. Accept me as the broken person I am!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 07:05 AM
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"some people aren't attracted to smaller girls" she's being all too kind. I think it is pretty well known that the general populace of men are not attracted to "bigger" girls.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 06:57 AM
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my wife has two masters in education and takes on so much at work that she is hardly home-- kids get put on the back burner, I get put on the back burner, she's wiped out and doesn't even feel like putting away her own laundry, and she's temperamental. Long story short, if you are with someone who is constantly striving, it comes with a cost.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 06:54 AM
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If everything is on the up-and-up when you see each other face to face, it is probably all good. I wouldn't play any games, but maybe try to reel it in a bit. I do think one person in a relationship does more of the work and maybe you are in that position. She might think the relationship is going well, so she is just secure about it and is going about her way?
/r/ExRedPill30/05/21 09:06 AM
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anymore I don't think it matters to most men, especially younger men. I think they are numb to it. Most college age men and older know that most women who are at least somewhat attractive will build up a huge body count and do the OnlyFans or Instagram slut thing. In today's economy a ton have done Seeking Arrangements and other sugar daddy websites. The men know whats up and either turn a blind eye or carry that resentment towards the woman. But if they want to have a relationship they have to …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 03:24 AM
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make her poor ass make some of her own money so he doesn't have to keep paying for her everywhere they go? lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 03:13 AM
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Only 14.5% of American men are over 6 feet tall. Consider that most of these men are out of her league, married, or not in her age group, she might as well make a trip to the SPCA now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 07:55 AM
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if the guy makes more money, college degree doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 11:17 PM
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she must not dislike it too bad, she matched with you!!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/21 08:50 AM
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only 10% of American men are over 6 feet tall. only 1% of men are over 6' 3" She is off to a terrible start. With those requirements, she literally is shooting for 1% of men. AND MOST OF THEM ARE MARRIED
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/21 08:47 AM
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there are a ton of women on sites like Ashley Madison that only want "online only" as their "sugar."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/20 12:23 AM
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you're not wrong, but it is refreshing to see men who do well at their jobs in the nursing, teaching, and human services fields-- jobs seen traditionally as woman dominated fields
/r/AntiFeminists25/10/20 07:50 AM
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9% of the US population makes at least $100,000 a year, and let's assume 5% of them are men. So we are at 5% of men already, and we haven't even TALKED about marital status, sexual preference, age, dick size, height, if they live in their area, etc. And attraction is a two-way street- the man or woman has to find the other attractive as well. Maybe they want an equal who makes six figures as well? Not a lot of people make 6 figures in the United States.
/r/AntiFeminists23/10/20 05:52 AM
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I think the guy should pay for the first 2 or 3 dates and after that the woman should be asking to see the man again-- if she isn't asking, she's probably not very interested. at this point I think dates should be split, or alternate who pays. I do think the guy should be prepared to pay at any time, but if he can't, choose dates that are cheap or don't cost anything. If she's interested she should be asking by the 3rd or 4th date, and if she's invested enough she should at least offer to pay. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 12:54 AM
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A ton of women on FDS have been burned hard by men and many abused. But they are in the wrong sub for that. In my view, they are going to have a very hard time dating until she somewhat resolves those issues. Their Handbook has some good sections that a man can read and apply to "worse case scenarios" in dating. I did like the section on "what makes a high value male?" because it outlined traits a woman in the dating scene looks for. What bothers me most about the sub is that they do not take th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:28 AM
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