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Yes. If every single woman decided she wasn't going to do that, I would still date them anyway. But if only 50% or even 90% of women were like that, I would go looking for another.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:55 AM
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Insert that hypergamy image, but the man at the top with all the arrows is actually a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 07:13 PM
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I dont want to date them, i guess my genetics make me not good enough for a woman who mostly takes care of herself, even though I myself mostly take care of myself. There is nothing we can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:41 AM
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Not average person in 18-25 age range
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:25 AM
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Because I believe I am an average looking human being, so I would like to date someone who is not fat yes. Am I shooting out of my league?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:22 AM
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Do I look good enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:55 AM
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A bad relationship would be one in which you’re not attracted to your partner Are women all attracted to the same 5-10 percent of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:46 AM
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I already do those two things, or at least try to. Where is she?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:22 AM
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Are women biologically hardwired to only find 5% of men worthy of getting into a serious relationship with? Nothing wrong with it if they are, but I would like to know
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:21 AM
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You say that it is actually men who are more selective than women. Is it true? If that is true, average woman who get no attention from men can hmu.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:01 AM
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But do they go the other way around? In that case, why am I not succeeding? I send messages to every match I get and usually stop because I detect a lack of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:58 PM
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Most dating advice to young men usually ends in the woman telling him "you must strive to be top tier in terms of appearance or date a clinically obese woman, or you have no right to complain"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:57 PM
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Are we now? 18-25 yes, I want a woman in my age range. Slim hourglass build I dont need that, most women are not clinically obese. I think most women in that age range have a cute face, and im very versatile with personality so long as she clearly shows her interest
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:56 PM
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This could change my mind. Were these men actually of average or median attractiveness, or was it another case of women believing only 20% of men area average looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:52 PM
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Are they wrong? What percentage of me are you attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:47 PM
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OkayCupid survey which is the opposite of what the redpill claims? As in men are more selective?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:46 PM
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This might be true, but half of US men in gen Z are getting almost no attention from women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:44 PM
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I would date like at least 80% of women my age in my area
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:36 PM
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But why do you find 95% of men boring and unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:36 PM
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No, we do not understand why woman do not wish to attempt to form a meaningful relationship with an average men. They are all only interested in forming meaningful relationships with the same 5% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:35 PM
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I do not know what to do. Any time a man says he is lonely, people tell him to either date a fat woman or shut up. Why is it such a stretch to suggest a woman date a man who isnt a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:35 PM
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I cannot get hookups even. And ugly women maybe make up 5% of the population of women, but ugly men make up at least 50% of the population of men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:33 PM
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So women cannot help the fact that they are all into the same top 5% of men. That is just the way it is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:33 PM
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But why is she not attracted to him? Because he isnt in the top 10% of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:32 PM
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What is a bad relationship? One with a man who isnt in the top 10%? why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:31 PM
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What must a man do to be attractive to a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:31 PM
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Why do you believe dating an average man is a bad relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:30 PM
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Exactly. If a gay man does anything I am uncomfortable with, I will just tell him no and only make it a big deal if he continues. I expect women to treat me the same way, only make it a big deal if we are clearly being violating
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:14 PM
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So men dont see women as less, we just dont care about other people in general
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:12 PM
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Some things I genuinely dont realise are wrong until I am told they are wrong. If a gay man did those things to me, I would simply tell no and only make it an issue if he tries to continue. If a woman ever tried to do something to me that I dont like, I will tell her no/stop and only make it a big deal if that doesnt work
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:04 PM
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More like within my age range and isnt like super below average looking. I think like 80 percent of women in my age range are attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:41 PM
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Well it is delusional for me, an average man, to believe I am worthy of my dream woman. Do yall just think everyone should be hypergamous and only try to date the top 5% of their preferred gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:36 AM
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So either I settle with a " They are the overweight introverted, potentially disabled or neurodivergent, single mothers, poorly educated, minimum wage career woman. " or I am considrered to be someone who has high standards. Why cant I just date an equal? A woman who isnt visibly unhealthy and mostly has her stuff together
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:35 AM
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Maybe, but: -"Im mediocre and I want a woman to treat me like I'm special" is picky. What if I want to treat a mediocre woman like she is special too? -"I want a woman that's okay with being disrespected, taken for granted, and only serves to validate me" is stupid. I do not wish to disrespect her or take her for granted, and I do not believe she only serves to validate me any more than I believe I only exist to validate her. -"I want a woman that's fine with me being lazy but always tells me I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:48 PM
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Im not saying you're wrong, but if im an average unexceptional man who is looking for an average unexceptional woman, am I dilusional?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:56 PM
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I dont. I have not become a passport bro yet and hopefully never will. But If I do, it will be because I am not good enough for the women here. They are free to have their own standards, I will see myself out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:28 AM
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Knew it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:41 PM
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So are men and women not biologically compatible or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:03 PM
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Is it so hard for some of yall to just settle with people around your age?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:00 PM
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There it is. Women are just better than men. There is nothing else to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:38 PM
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Big if true. If im one of the only 10 percent of men that find average woman really attractive then ill take it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:16 PM
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Interesting, I didnt know this. Ill be more into average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:35 PM
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The birth rates will go up once women have naturally selected the chads that they want
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:34 PM
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No they don't need to change. Im pretty blackpilled but I would never suggest that women change their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:28 PM
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More like two different personalities. Idk but I do believe that it is largely determined by appearance and hypergamy. That or the average woman is genuinely out of the league of 90 percent of men due to her simply being better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:21 PM
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mainly just the 80/20 statistics, where 80 percent of women are into 20 percent of men. Just the way it is
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:19 PM
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I believe most women have two completely different brains depending on whether they are talking to an average man or a top 10 percent man. There is nothing wrong with this, as it is their choice, and I must learn to accept my place as an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:04 PM
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No way yall red pill tags really think like this (talking to the red pillers in the comments)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:02 PM
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I think the main issue is that men are not mind readers, and most women simply don't tell their partner what he should do. Why women don't speak up I can't say, maybe it is other men's fault for making them this way. But on an individual level, there is nothing a man can do if he is not told what he is doing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:06 PM
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This one instagram content creater user made a good point about this. If when I meet a man the first time I ask him where he lives, it is no problem. If the first question I ask a woman is where she lives, however, that is a major issue. If you complement another guy's physique unprompted it is chill, but if you complement a woman's body in any way when not in a relationship with her, you are gonna get blocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:02 PM
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How does one learn?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:45 PM
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Yes, this is the problem. The only way we will solve any male loneliness issues is by guiding men on how to be more attractive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:44 PM
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To me an incel is anyone who struggled with dating to a very severe extent. Im not sure what else to go by
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:43 PM
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I dont generalize women. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:42 PM
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idk, all they say is just keep trying/dont worry about it, it will happen eventually. That and just go be more social, which is fair. But that suggests that my appearance and general character are already good enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:43 PM
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"They are, because no person is ever born with the knowledge of how to date or obtain a mate. Failure to learn how to socialize is a failure." Where did I go wrong then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:08 PM
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Then what skill issues may I have? Is it my appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:06 PM
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"If men were only complaining about how it’s hard to get women and date it’d be different and is received differently" Yeah that is what I wish to be. I just want to talk about my struggles without being labelled as a misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:05 PM
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What about me? If inceldom is a choice, what choices am I making?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:03 PM
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I give such a large range bc I simply do not know. If you were to ask me what percentage of women my age I find attractive, I will say 80-90, everything else is just room for error. Take the 60 percent figure. Even if I do only find 60 percent of women attractive, that is still 6x as much as the 10 percent that women find attractive in men. I do not mean to police peoples preferences, I am simply trying to decide if I should give up until I am in the top 10 percent of men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:25 PM
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understood
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:32 PM
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Then I guess I must accept that all of the women I want are out of my league, even if I am interested in 60-90% of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:21 PM
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But regardless, depending on what your definition of most is, I still think I am undoubtably into most women. Even being as critical as possible I still think at least 60 percent of women in my age range are attractive. Are 60 percent of women out of the league of the average man?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:03 AM
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If I am an average-looking man, are 90 percent of women out of my league when it comes to appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:58 AM
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perhaps introspection about my preferences is in order, but I would still take a guess that I would date 9 out of 10 of any women in a given university class. Could be wrong, maybe I should think about that more
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:14 AM
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indeed, but I believe I have demonstrated that most women in my age range fit them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:10 AM
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I am not sure. Luckily only a few women on my campus are like that. I definitely do not care about her height or if her hair is a little messy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:47 AM
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I mean idk what my standards are, but I know almost every woman on my university campus meets them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:40 AM
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So do most women find most men ugly, and to what extent do they? And if so, is it due to lack of male effort? Is it possible for men to do this too? If men put an exactly equal amount of effort into their appearance, would this whole discussion point disappear?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:52 PM
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Is your point that men are less attractive due to their personal fassion choices or due to male genetics? I understand men put less efforts into their appearance, but most of those things you mentioned would reduce a man's appeal to women if he were to wear them? Yall want men to wear push-up bras and nail polish or what? And cleavage? Yall into man boobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:41 PM
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So are men supposed to be interested in the top 10% of women too? If both genders are supposed to be into the top 10% of one another then how is anything supposed to get done?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 08:59 PM
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chat is this real
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:49 AM
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That may be true. I do not believe I have high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:18 AM
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Good point. I hope I can blame most of my dating issues on thinking this way in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:00 AM
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what is it then? I do believe men have to do a lot more work in relationships in the modern era or have better genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:55 AM
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Do women also need to do all of the things you mentioned to go far in dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:44 AM
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would 1 also count then? if male beauty is appreciated less, does that mean men have to put more effort into their appearance than women, or compensate by being much better than her in a few other ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:44 AM
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How much does appearance factor into compatability?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:27 AM
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Blue pilled subreddits that make the average man seem like a basement dweller and the average woman a beautiful social butterfly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:51 AM
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